Jordan Peterson: Mistakes Men Make with Women
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- Jordan Peterson talks about the things men do to cause women to reject them.
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As with so many Jordan Peterson clips that are posted by others for their own purposes, the title does not accurately reflect the content.
Jordan Peterson defies titles
I agree wholeheartedly. Many times I've lost interest in a JP video because the title is misleading in a sense
This channel is full of videos like that.
So sad
where's the whole lecture?
"you dont want someone who thinks youre perfect in your current form. Partly because why would you wanna go out with someone that deluded?" haha thats hilarious. shots fired at the whole class. Hes great!
Amir my gf just told me i was the perfect man the other day. now im worried lolol
Lmao.
bevrosity I know someone who tells their partner every day, constantly. Probably not much to worry about, but still something that’s good to be aware of.
Yeah love it. This was the line where I paused the video and decided to write a comment.
@Shahaan Singh he means that if somebody thinks you are perfect they need their head checked.
"You don't want someone who thinks you are perfect in your current form partly because why would you want to go out with someone that deluded." That is a big one.
😂🤣🤣
People who record him and put this on internet saved my life :D
I thank God you are alive brother. Keep on winning your battle 👊
Himself
Same with me Adrian I really hope to meet him some day (Jordan Peterson) and thank him.
@@justosoler8408 the best thing is... I knew almost all that stuff but i just didn't realized it :D but i dont think i will be able to see him in real live im living in Germany...
@@adrianhuhn8662 yea I feel you bro me neither I'm from Panama :v but if I ever meet him I'll thank him.
"You are rejected by someone that you want to be attracted to, to validate your old miserable existence"
This made me laugh hard in a good way, cause it is soooo true !
Why the click baiting titles? JP's speeches are interesting as they are
VradisTheGreek it allows us to get a rough understating of the content...otherwise we would be going in blind
@@Lucasbourgeois19 it's not even a rough idea, it's nothing to do with it.
The channel is probably run by people living in an impoverished 3rd world country and they don’t even care about the content they’re are just trying to make money.
@@hwago123 100%
@@hwago123 Yeah sure blame it on the commies.
So don’t let others determine who you are, but accept challenges as well as challenge others
U just did what he told in the video.
Jordan Peterson is the father we never had🙌🏼🙏🏼
I admire him a lot, I think he great. But I disagree with you man. If so, then his children would be very successful by their own by now. They aren't. His daughter has became famous due to her father's connections and las name.
every time I don't want to clean my room because of procrastination or laziness I watch jordon peterson videos. It slowly gets cleaned.
It always surprises me that there are so many random and short videos of Mr. Peterson on youtube, and he could have all these removed claiming copyright issues, especially since it contradicts with his online courses and all. But judging from the number of videos (mostly from different channels), I like to believe that Mr. Peterson lets all these videos of his lectures purposely stay on youtube, because he knows there are so many of us who would never really care about a self-improvement or self-help programme but can be easily click-baited into watching these short videos.
I hadn’t even heard of him till last month and now he has changed my life. Dr. Peterson is the hero the world needs, and badly.
This guy understands broken people so well... he's probably (partially) speaking from experience...
Completely. He admitted alcohol and prescription drug addiction in the past
his clinical work helps him with that
He's had 20,000 hours of clinical experience. He can distill his life, yours, and pretty much all of humanity. Clinicians don't claim to be immune from any of this shit.
He's had 20,000 hours of clinical experience. He can distill his life, yours, and pretty much all of humanity. Clinicians don't claim to be immune from any of this shit.
This is truly excelent stuff!!
I follow Jordan Peterson's own you tube channel. There his videos are not selectively edited clips, but rather the entire lecture. I find he is very logical and even, he talks about both sides of the coin objectively and scientifically. These clips are edited to create specific points. I feel these edits are trying to create a bias that is not a true representation of Mr. Peterson's work.
It's an easier way to discover JBP.
Same thing with pseudo-scientists in youtube, they introduce people to real science (with or without the intention to do so).
I’ve had more pretty women than a passenger train can haul. And yet at that level rejection is just part of the deal. When you get good at rejection, you get even better at attracting worthwhile people. Attraction is not a choice. Thank you Jordan
So true and for me at least takes immense fortitude to resist going down that rabbit hole of rejection
What makes you believe that you want to be happy all of the time in a relationship? Very bold and incredible question by Jordan Peterson, kind of explains why even the happiest of couples argue from time to time.🤔👌👀🤯🧠
The way I once heard this described from a slightly different angle: If the two of you always agree about everything, then one of you is unnecessary.
Am I the only one whose fallen in love with philosophical conversation like this? I'm literally searching this stuff daily & despise small talk. I often think what if I started a Zoom or Discord meeting? Would you like to join the conversation?
Perfectly said ❤️
7:57 In Ancient Rome, the Roman women encouraged the men to be competitive and driven. Without them Rome might not have been so great.
I like pancakes, true but they left their influence on the Western world. Language, philosophy, government, and ideas on the individual are only a few things we inherited from the Romans.
@@ethanmaranto8063 straight roads and cool ruins too
in todays western world, women encourage men to cry and wear pink...
He is very interesting bit his talk doesn't natch the title. What does this have to do with mistakes men make?
It has to do with mistakes men do around the women.. maybe you just didn’t have a chance to find yourself in situation like that...
Dwayne Chalmers learn how to speak english before you even think about critiquing someone such as Dr. Peterson. Goofy
m/unit
you amuse me. you think i assume that he cannot critique? No. Rather, I KNOW that he cannot critique, as he can’t even form a coherent sentence on his opinion. Humble your dumbass self. Ya fuck.
Most cases he IS NOT talking about relationships. In this case he just uses the example of a PERSON going out with another PERSON and misconstruing the understanding of the reasons for failure of the encounter. He never mentioned a specific mistake and did not reference gender, It could have been two women or two men just as well.
@@DylanZapf-dm4mh Do you realise you just made the most ignorant point I have ever read?
Thank you Jordan .
As soon as I play these videos, I go straight to the comments to see if the title was click bait. Thanks guys for saving me precious time!
no....it's worth every single second ✌️✌️
"A real man doesn't view any woman as competition, cause no woman is competition to a man"
- Jessie Lee Peterson
I feel like you need to have some belief like this. Else you are hostage to the approval of women. It isn't enough to believe you are good enough to attract a woman. You need to completely get over the need for them to like you.
Like how? Men vastly outshine women in hours and work load and effort.
ChernobylPizza
You're such an idiot.
@@EvolianTiger how so?
Lord Forbzilla I feel like Chernobylpizza is taking this and dragging it. you can just be with women and not want their approval for your existence. Be secure in yourself and you’ll get some pussy. Very simple. You don’t have to say you don’t need your life to be controlled by a woman in order to get women. I’ve gotten plenty by just existing and being social. When you know you don’t need anyone, you don’t have to say it. You know what I mean?
Wish i could get this guys assesment of my situation
Brilliant and good man!
Inaccurate title but wow was the content really useful and it clicked very deeply for me.
What is the name of the whole lecture?
The title is not misleading, If you heard that speach with the perspective of either approaching a woman or being rejected by a woman, it will make so much sense
9:15 He sounds like hes really enjoying and tasting that soda 😂
So basically when you get rejected/challenged/whatever don't let the experience cloud your judgement on the way you/the world should be
'Essential truth' the unsung hero
That comment on wanting a partner that accepts the way they are really hit me. Cost me a relationship because she didn't like I challenged her disregulated life and addictive behaviour. Sad times.
Don't worry bro , i dated a toxic girl and decided to focus on her quality instead of her defaults and i accepted the way she was and she still rejected me. But thanks to make me know if i would of done the opposite i would had being rejected too
You dodged a bullet son.
Enjoying this video while drinking a Schweppes
A+
xD
I'm drinking Schweppes from now on lol
Are you an add?
Articulate beyond measure.
Great video. If I could only focus on something else besides his flipped up jacket collar 😂.
Damn, I wish I’d seen this sooner....
People saying this is clickbait...but this is very relevant to the title topic
I am amazed at this guy. Today he is family relationship expert talking about male/female relationship, tomorrow he is a historian talking about Stali and Solzhenitsin, next - he is a top psychologist. Shouldn't his name be changed to "Jack"?
These are the kind of classes I wish I took in college
This will probably help only those who actually understand what he's trying to talk about.
Man, thank you !
That's so true !!!
He kind of described me .Where is the Golden Gate Bridge ?
Don't do it.
Where can I find remaining part of this lecture?
dr petersons channel
Sometimes he gets to black white in gray areas with these 10min videos.
Always love the questions that are presented, makes one reflect and think
This is prime JBP: leaned out and off the meds cuz hes on the right diet but pre beard, an absolute SaVaGe
Can someone please give the link of full lecture?
Sorry guys. I have noticed the link in the description. Thanks
It’s almost like this guy is following me around, describing my life. Which makes me a little nervous and paranoid and wondering how the hell im gonna make it in this world.
What does making it mean? We all die in the end.
brilliant
what lecture series is this from?
I just subscribed you are very helpful to an autistic looking to become more normal thank you 🙇
In a world where insanity and shallowness is the norm, why would anyone want to be normal?
@@im3phirebird81 To have someone else
@@CrudDeposit You will realize that if you have to cut away from yourself so someone wants to be with you, that "being together" will not make you happy.
@@im3phirebird81 Fair point, but I’ll ask you, is the point of a relationship to be happy?
Aside from the question, when everyone, with the exception of family and 3 people, within the last 8+ years belittle, humiliate, use, and abuse you everyday 5 days a week, 180 days a year… and you go home and no one is there physically or mentally and you have no one to talk to but yourself, it gets difficult to find reason to live.
I would give anything to just be someone else for a day.
@@CrudDeposit I would say the point of a relationship for me is to grow. If there is growth I am happy. So I would say yes, the point of a relationship should be to be happy.
I know your exact situation, pretty much on point (difference is that eveyone I knew was that way, not one true friend. the family full of lies and even when confronted decided to stay that way). But your life happens that way for a reason. You are stronger than you ever thought you could be. I would not exchange my life with anyone. Only when you think this all happens for nothing and that it will always remain the same, then you are caught and lost in it. The world starts in the mind.
Something is trying to hold you on a leash, to demoralize you so you submit and succumb. In truth that "thing" is afraid of you. Move forward. Learn about your soul, your fire within. Find the right mix between courage and caution. This is very important.
I wish you all the best for your future! You'll be what you think you are. Reshape your thoughts to reshape your self and thus reshape your life. There is a difference between being alone and being lonely.
"why dident you get someone intereste in you could easily be because you are a failur as a human being, and at some level this is actualy true" WTF man lol so savage
that blue door looked like a Resident Evil prerendered background lmao
Too bad the video ended when things where becoming interesting. Do you have the continuation/ the rest of the video so we can watch it?
exposez check the last link in the description
Search his full lecture online you will run into a great understanding looking for this one.
jordan look so handsome in this period of time 😳
What’s the whole lecture ?
9:06 What's the mechanism? How does one avoid feeling like their whole existence's been a lie? This is especially true after one takes psychedelic substances.
Thank you. So true. Just got married.
Beta as fuck.
@@petermachiela5441 you're a chode
What did you gain that you didn't get before?
@@1wun1 Every normal man wants to get married and have a family at a certain point. The fact that we live in a sick society, doesn't change that built in evolutionary desire. Suppress it, and suffer later in life; choice is yours. Its a competition on another level; yes there are tons of broken screwed up women out there; the competition is to find the ones that are good.
@@alexp.2897 Every normal man wants a relationship at some point and spreading the DNA for most of the time, not marriage. And every woman is instinctively serial monogamist, not lifetime monogamy.
Marriage was invented because humans are smart enough to recognize the benefits of limiting sexuality.
Title doesn't fit. This is good insight into how people see the world and good advice about relationships in general.
I’ve seen this same lecture attached with so many different titles...😶
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Im tryna save this video for later help me out
Big brains
What lecture is this, i want the full series
As soon as I click on this video a woman on an ads came saying Jordan Peterson is wrong lol that is super funny
who doesn't want to exclude the world? move to the countryside, live super simple, life is bliss ~ girls and boys...find your super-power, you will survive and trust the Universe to make it happen....still, I love Mr. JP.
No. The country folk do NOT want cidiots who've shit in their own nest to bring that crap out into the real world.
We don't want your pets roaming the countryside killing livestock & destroying our gardens, etc.
We don't want your ATVs, ghetto stereos & loud, obnoxious kids ruining the peace & quiet.
@john connolly You're putting words in the mouth of P.A.W. First of all P.A.W. never clarified his/her gender and second never claimed divinity. You just associated what P.A.W. said and associated it with all you don't comprehend and didn't look into. If you want a road that is hard and long and makes life a challenge, choose free spirituality. No fancy shmancy belief, but meditate and observe and learn. There is so much your eyes can't see, and that is why you live a tiny constricted life. I agree that there are women who simply choose to call themselves goddesses as soon as they hear it for the first time for their own reasons, and I agree it is bullshit, but your reaction was not right.
P.S.: I don't claim to be "there" yet :P
@john connolly "Trust the universe bullshit and your a goddess,right."
Trust the universe, not humans, not spirits. It's not bullshit, it's the only reason I am still alive. Christ didn't help. After all, when I declared that I will destroy the Matrix I got very interesting visits at night in my room. For me the Christ-story is just some means to lead people astray, to make them have belief in something external so they never discover the power within. But that's each his own I guess.
How do you intend to breach the gap you speak of?
Totally agree that what happens today is ill. So is our materialism and all that is connected to it. It must die.
the title does not reflect the content but the content is of high quality that people will ignore the title. You can basically type any random set of characters and add Jordan Peterson to it and still people will click on it. But where can I find the full lecture?
Description box.
@@nethacker91 thanks. it was the last link.
You speak a lot about men being rejected, tell us about how well women take rejection.
Because women get approached 100x more than a guy so their ego grows so they feel they’re more valuable it seems
Well... it’s Complicated
If you have a solid foundation, rejection is a blessing. Why on earth would you want to be with someone who is not enthusiastic about you? There's fucken 6 billion people on earth!
@@seltonk5136 Just told myself this, this morning as I got out of the shower and was reminiscing on a past relationship, the successes and the failures. I know I don’t even have it close to being “together” but I’m definitely trying. I’m wondering where it all went wrong and why the disconnect is so large at least for myself anymore. Someone out there still has to value genuine people with morals and values, yes be a challenge to eachother, but also be authentic. It has to be out there, until then, I’ll keep trying. Peace, blessings and love to you my friend.
@@htokid7299 if they don't like you , move right the fuck along. There's a great song..."some girls don't like boys like me... Yeah but some girls do" take it or leave it.
Good random lecture. What's with the title?
I always put myself down and call myself a failure i always go to extremes is there any way to change that way of thinking? Especially because i need a certain someone and am not getting anywhere with them
Keep trying. Failure is inevitable on the path to success
@@geftep3399 thnx
Keep trying and Keep the Faith.
Things tend to change to your will as long as you continue to pursue them. And,,,, listen more of Jordan Peterson's videos.
Me too, but I force myself to exercise, it seems to be the only thing that helps !
holy shit, this guy is good.
When you realise, THE EARTH is a garden of Eden in the vastness of space that is extremely chaotic.
May god give him health and a long life, this man is very precious. Wish I was his student sitting in the front row, my focus would be more than someone who would watch titanic for the first time. Ameen
Gosh I wish he had advice for women. I'm struggling :')
I got some advice for you. Try to hint to a guy that you like him through (a little bit of) physical contact, try to laugh with him, make jokes and simply try to smile more.
@@mosargon4423 Well thank you! That makes sense. Any advice is useful right now
@@whenraindropsfall Oh and if you have guys as friends, try to show more interest in him than the others. If he still doesnt seem to catch the hints, he's either not interested, not understanding it, or maybe he cant decide. Hope this helps!
Edit: if everything fails, just tell him you like him. That's the easiest path.
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@@whenraindropsfall Men who are interested will approach, but usually you have to give them a kind of green light that you'll probably accept them. Most guys (well probably just me) are thinking 'I'll ask her out if she'll say yes; but if she's not going to say yes, I'll go for someone else"
U do something nice for a guy and either they mock u or take your for granted makes u wanna dump them immediately. Because they don't value u at all it's all about the guy, because after all he is who he is a guy ta dah!
You do something nice for a good guy. He respects you and thanks you.
Recongition/gratidude is very important in all relationships.
You have to look at it differently. If you were in a cage and saw a person kicking a cat and automatically getting fed you would probably think "what's wrong with that person, this isn't right"...
So you go over and pick the cat up and the cat bites you. Soon, you are starving. You need food but every time you try to be respectful and nice, the cat bites you and you get nothing. If you want to live, which you eventually would, you'll learn to boot the cat and get your food.
Same goes with women. Decent dudes spend years sometimes treating women with "respect" and being kind to them. They might get to first base but eventually the pitcher even picks them off there. But hey being the observant creatures we are, we see other men scoring like a 5 on 3 power play against an empty net. These other men treat y'all like shit. They are the drummer with 5lbs of coke rolling out of his nose, the thug robbing the liquor store, the gang banger doing drive by's, the alcoholic wrecking and hurting people, the addict with no job. Chances are they are screwing at least one of your friends and yet you continue going back....
So what do you think men learn to do? That's right, they learn to kick the cat. Throw emotional attachment away and basically treat you like a place to keep our penis warm. And y'all reward it with sex and by chasing us. So guess what we keep doing because it works...
If you are waiting for a perfect person then you will never
This helped me with my mourning Anthony Bourdain's suicide. I am surprised how profoundly I am affected by Bourdain's death. My Eden has exploded today.
@3rdWardNinja Why Are You Capitalizing Every Word?
@3rdWardNinja Will have to agree with you there
@Ninja god? Lol
Sorry author of this Channel but your title only partially and highly implicitly matches Dr. Petersons Talk.
If you want us to subscribe, please be more honest and precise about the content summary. But thanks for your Infos, they are really enriching our minds. :-)
5:23 World of Elden Ring By Jordan Peterson.
4:30
Student with rifle leaves class
Was that ginger ale?
What do you discover when you go down a rabbit hole? A can of ginger ale.
Projecting an ideal. That’s fantasizing. Depending on an individual’s mental disposition and maturity, it’s pretty much the source of the suffering
The nurse in me wants him to stop drinking Pepsi 0... stop drinking that... it’s like poison. Drink green tea 👍🏼love the videos. My husband is a pastor (ELCA) we are the only moderates left haha just kidding. These lectures are incredible. Having worked as a mother baby Nicu nurse and being a pastor’s wife. This is awesome. Thank you.
Relationships with untrustworthy, often misjudging individuals??
No thanks.
I very much hope that.....
.......I will be able to leave society as fast as i can.
When I was a teenager between 1999-2005 I would basically just look some cute girl into her eyes and give her a flirty smile, then hold that eye contact until she became shy and then walked away.
Some of those girls would sometimes approach me like 5 minuets later, lol.
I don't understand, he says you should make your partner better as he should but now he says you leave the one who nice to you you stay with those who bite you.
TITLE!
Usually art imitates life, so, according to the great Billy Crystal: "Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place." Also, the reference for enduring relationships being "self-development" seems oversimplified with the example of rejection for "being too nice" and "challenge"?! What about trust and affection fulfillment? Competition in a relationship rather than collaboration?! Seems like an assured plan for separation.
Diego Ambrosio
So true. That's why more men are having sex with men, who call themselves straight. The only problem is choosing the place. The other benefits are no foreplay is necessary, you know the 'playground', you can switch, and little fear of rejection.
Even though I'm male I've lost interest plenty of times in someone because she was too easy, too nice, too desperate. Pretty girls who would have been much more attractive if they had been more difficult to get. Females in the comments acting like no one does this, please!
What's wrong with you though rejecting someone too nice that's only a reflection of what u think u deserve also
I've taken a huge step back from the dating scene or trying to attract women, i'm doing my best to focus on me and myself and my family and health etc. It's painful not having a partner, but i've gotten used to being single and look for the positives and benefits of being single. The freedom and being able to do what you want, when you want, whilst improving yourself is just what I need. Hopefully I can get a big house one day and hopefully a lovely woman can join me. But if it doesn't happen, it's all goodskies. There's always something to make you happy and enjoy life. Always have to look on the bright side of life.. as the song goes.
lol this dude is the kanye west of psychology
Plot twist...or you could just be single....
tim walsh Joke or not, being single allows you the freedom to say that.
@tim walsh you guys are idiots!
@@abbiealverez2960 no u
Lana Emily I literally agreed with you, crazy ass lady.
Yeah sure if you don't want to carry your being and legacy on.
Women dont reject men who are 'too nice' thats a cop out, its something men tell themselves so they dont have to take any responsibility for themselves and their behavior. There is always a valid reason why a woman rejects a men, lots of times it doesnt even have anything to do with the man she's rejecting. Sometimes women just arent interested. I know its a shock to men but women arent all out to trap a mate so she can squeeze out his kids.
Yes. And to further point out something that is ridiculous. He claims that what women want is a man who "bites" them occasionally (i.e. upsets them) so they can say "oh how wonderful I have something to "contend" with). HA HA. HA HA HA HA HA HA. HA HA HA HA. And furthermore HA. I'll leave to someone else to say if that is actually a good thing for couples. BUT AS FAR AS WHAT WOMEN OUT ARE OUT THERE ACTIVELY WANTING... THIS IS NOT EVEN 10,000 MILES NEAR THEIR RADAR SCREEN. To disprove me, point me to a dating profile where the woman puts this as a requirement. Or go and look at a married couple and point me to where the women appreciates when the man does this.
TBH it sounds like he's suggesting women seek out abusive men and abusive relationships while promoting the 'treat em mean, keep em keen' attitude which not only victim blames women but excuses men who treat women badly. Women who seek out those kinds of men and relationships have low self esteem and more often than not, all they know is abuse. People are creatures of habit and they subconsciously seek out the familiar in relationships. Considering that women are more likely than men to suffer abuse as both children and adults and have that abuse undermined, it makes sense that more women repeat the same patterns and end up with or chase after men who are abusive or 'bite' as Peterson suggests. Its not healthy and not something he should be promoting. I like Peterson but he hasnt got a clue about women and tbh I find his views on women to be quite dangerous considering the large demographic of young white males who watch his videos.
A perfect, Disney-esque relationship is something hollywood fixates on. But that's boring, isn't it. To contend, to disagree and try to understand one another and grow together, is what one should try to achieve. Relationships aren't for being happy. The 'biting' analogue is to represent this.
You do something someone doesn't like, and that someone is so comfortable with you (hopefully), that they 'bite'. That's a good thing. That's not only setting boundaries, but it can bring up resolution with your partner, for you can work together to understand why one would bite.
In the end, a broken relationship is truly living. To wish someone back or for everything to be better is to feel pain. That's true love. To feel pain for the loss of a loved one. You think being blissfully ignorant of someone's problems solve them?
No one wants to actively seek out negative reaction, emotions, or situations. No one wants to find dark things about their lover. But it's impossible to avoid them in a honest relationship. No human is that simple, where they will agree with everything you will do. Who the hell wants to appreciate a man showing negativity. But it's necessary for growth. The ones who don't understand this are the ones to be divorced. To give up, to leave, and not solve the issue. This a blanket statement, so there are going to be anecdotes.
'I know its a shock to men but women arent all out to trap a mate so she can squeeze out his kids.'
Squeeze out his kids? Is that how you see it? Having a child is a third of your life, the other third being your partner, and the last third your career (hopefully not in that order). You know how dangerous love is? People will kill one another for it. They would kill themselves. And sex? The skeletal muscles strain like carrying twice your weight, every pore of you has some sort of liquid coming out, and your heartbeat is having an attack. But, goddamn, isn't it fun. The human race would be wiped out if it wasn't.
Take in account that menstruation are caused by the proliferative phase: ovarian hormones are low and endometrium breaks down. Women literally have eggs decaying inside themselves if there is no sperm to fertilize the egg.
During childbirth, we all know that uterine contractions force the baby downward (labour). But that stretching of the cervix releases oxytocin from the posterior pituitary. The oxytocin, and this is an incredible rare example of positive feedback in human biology, stimulates the muscles of the uterus to contract even harder, stretching the cervix even more.
So don't ever fucking dismiss childbirth with your insult of a sentence. Oxytocin is not nicknamed 'the love hormone' by mistake. So go fuck yourselves, your wishy-washy ideals, and get some big boy pants. Grow the fuck up.
Women don't even know what they want lol
Zach Q you missed her whole point.
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ok......so what are the mistakes men make with women exactly?
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Or u get the message answered after 12 hours
As a female - I'd recommend being direct! Say what you think, like "Hey, look - I would like to spend time with you. Are you free this Thursday for a coffee on me?" Guaranteed, I have never turned down a date I've been offered in that manner. It makes women feel wanted + intrigued by you. If he's offering, it shows such confidence and is super attractive~ Yeah, getting turned down sucks - but we can't avoid failures! Best of luck xx
He who knows what a woman wants knows everything but not even Jordan Peterson knows that. ^^
You should listen to Patrice O'Neils views on women. A comedian who speaks utmost truths through comedy. Just search his name with ''women'' in the title and you will be greeted with a mixture of laughter and profoundement.
Other women know what women want. I could tell you in less that 30 seconds.
@@b-m9480 Problem with Patrice is that he comes across as a woman hater and honestly, he should have been thrilled to even get to see pussy. He was no prize.
@@Tawny593 I agree that he is lucky, I wasn't expecting who id see him with but im sure it was a a combination of his fame and having 'game'. Possibly he comes off as a women hater, however he always comes to the conclusion that "its's not their fault" that they naturally incline to act in certain ways and as men, we should help them along some kind of journey together.
As you might have noticed, he debates with several women on a radio show and none of them can argue against his points. To the degree that even a female psychologist? I think, that wrote a book about how men can get women, he called it bullshit and backed up completely as to why it was.
Men and women are wired differently, with one example being the percentage of gray and white matter in our brains that both genders have which plays a significant part into the way each sex behaves.
he is happily married so he isnt wrong or he would be single
Anyone else here watching this after getting a Tinder match?
grindr yea
I Need To Listen To This Talk. I'll Listen To It Later.
Random woman: u ugly
Me: *I don't exist*
Ouch guess I'm already in the grave then, this is something else
What if you never had this problem because you don't know what women mean by the word "relationship"? How can you look for that if you don't even know what it is. That word means nothing to women from what I have seen - they don't seem to reluctant to cancel the relationship you think you have with them in a fickle way.