It's a global issue that's not being addressed. Thank god for Dr Trish because this problem is escalating and deliberately being ignored generally for a hidden agenda due to the multi billion dollar industry. Personally I've been hooked, I'm 72and discovered Dr Trish last summer. It's a journey I believet addicts will have to adhere to for the rest of our lives. Once again, Thank you Dr. I just wish your teachings could be introduced within🎉 the school curriculum. Bless you ❤
I completely agree with what you are saying, I know it to be true. I agree some of this goes back to my childhood and I need to change things. It doesn't mitigate the fact that my spouse is unavailable, and her unavailability only increased the problem over the years. It has been over two years since we even had a date night. Since our youngest was born, I was lucky if it was three times a year. Then, she was working, and our daughter started to interfere with what time we had, and rather than setting boundaries, she allowed a 12 year old to dictate that she doesn't like us alone together. I haven't even slept in the same bed for almost a decade because of insomnia. After watching a bunch of your videos, I'm going to commit to quitting, but I'm going to be angry about it, because nothing is going to change on the sex front, so I'm basically mentally training myself to be celibate. That isn't something I ever wanted for my life, and on this, day 1, it infuriates me to have to do it.
At least you have kids already. Celibacy is the end of the world. Humans don't really need sex. It's only a message peddled by deviant supporters of the despicable sexual revolution. Real men don't need sex to live. Connect with your kids and it will allow you to grow in favor with your wife again. Women love good men who are loved by their children.
I have similar situation where my wife favors sleeping alone for over two years. She says I don’t fulfill her needs about home care and making more money so she like wise won’t fulfill my needs of touch and compliment
Day 5! This morning was pretty easy compared to yesterday. I have this nagging thought that I still have tokens on a cam site and that I should log on to unlink my card, but I know it’s a trap placed by my hijacker and I’m gonna relapse as soon as I do! Can’t handle it right now or maybe ever! I’ll unlink the card if I relapse or when I hit 90 days! This is the time! You got to want it and it’s possible!
The blockers do help. I've been out of that loop for months, but it's the like the old saying, once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic. Cant play with the fire to test yourself. 'Can a man take fire into his bosom and not be burned?'
I've been watching porn for about 4 weeks. The hard porn is very repulsive and graphic.women in skirts and stockings and heels is what I prefer but I need to stop that viewing to. It's time consuming and not reality
Dr. Leagh, thank you for this info, it's been helpfull. I have a question? You had mentioned that one need follow the trail of bread crumbs to find where there fetish comes from. For me, I've always had an ass fetish. I've been attempting to determine if it was caused by me being brainwashed by hip-hop or if it had to do with my grandparents spanking me over there knees when I did wrong, living in a poor neighbourhood or perhaps somthing else I didnt take into acount! Your insight in this area would be helpfull, Dr. Leagh. Thanks once again for the info, it's been emesly helpful.
Day 4 so far! I really really need this to work. I’m having problems with my wife and ED issues and my life is quickly crumbling 😢 So happy I came across your channel. Need all the help I can get. Question: are there any apps that help keep you on track in preventing porn & masturbation? Please advise.
@@Matt33318 I’ve done a month before and it makes you feel like a new man you start thinking more objectively than emotionally and it gives you an insane amount of self belief
I finally matured enough to outgrow my self abuse cycle. Unfortunately, now I have tons of extra energy which I use in my job and hobbies. My coworkers kind of hate me because I'm making them look bad with my endless energy. I may have to get a new job because I'm despised now. There are employees with 5+ years of work history trying to undermine me.
This may be a controversial question, however; could it be theorized that women addicted to pørn develop similar arousal dysfunctions like pørn induced erectile dysfunction in male addicts?The idea being one is so desensitized via the hyper stimulus of compulsively masturbating to porn, sex toy use(vibrators, etc) for mood regulation/boredom, that arousal response to an actual human is actually lowered because of the fantasy attachments to these pørn habits? Like the way a male pørn addict struggles to stay aroused without pørn(or fantasy of pørn) a female addict struggles to get/stay aroused without pørn (or fantasy of pørn), sex toys, etc. A future video on the affects on women would be helpful in reminding people that this isn't just a "male problem". That this affects women as well, though it is less publicized, women are not immune to masturbating to pørn's negative effects. This could help create a kind of solidarity between men and women trying their hardest to develop healthy sexuality, coping habits, so that we can all live our best lives. Leaving pørn, to become a healthier person, which makes one a better lover, IS sex positivity.
@Lana Routlege do your best to focus on what truly makes you happy, away from the screen, run to it. The more time you give to it the more it will become a positive habit.
8:09 violent or intense video games always end with Mast this cycle was born out of boredom and loneliness I don’t have any other answers for the two , my bread crumbs are leading to toxic pools
I've been trying to stop porn for a few years now, I've been trying on my own and can't do it. I have come out to a pastor friend of mine, but he's not a lot of help not having the same problem.
I relapsed today purposely doctor ,cause I was feeling sexually aroused relapsed about 3times I didn’t watch porn but I relapsed a lot tonight and I’m actually lost !!!
That's okay! Figure out what you let fall apart to allow the relapse to happen, adjust your recovery plan accordingly, and then move on! There is no room for shame or guilt in recovery
Hi Dr. Leigh, Question 6: Will stop masturbating cause an erectile dysfunction because you don't use your 'equipment' when you don't have access to a stabil source of sex with a partner (1-2 times per week to 1 time per two weeks)?
You blew through the “find a partner” portion, like it’s so easy. Most of your videos that touch on this element lack specifics. I heard it all before, get out in the world, do activities you enjoy and then without looking, a miraculous accident will happen. I do activities I enjoy, more so that others are envious. Result is nil, can’t recall the last single available woman I encountered, let alone someone I would date. I think you should spend some effort in this area, do a little research or illicit the aid of a real matchmaking expert. Give single people some real hope downstream of their porn addiction elimination
I think is you that should do your research about that and try, if u wait for others to make you into a stud you will only fail. I wouldn't date such a begging male if I were a woman.
I feel like I never find a partner anyway, so why should I even give up porn.. Also have bad experiences on dating apps and I live Alone not many Friends so how do I even gonna do this. Fuck this GL everyone. I give up
I dont wanna masturbate anymore ... i been doing it for so long. I really want a partner and now i understand that porn and masturbation have been a great imposibility to relate to other people. Thanks and i hope i can be and find a healthy partner! How i will know who is the best partner for me an me to her? I know many people i find attactive and it is mutual. Gracias Trish!
To limit any sexuality activity ---> can cause desperation for sexual attention, one urge that you can’t scape The perfect tool used by someone that doesn’t need to care about your emotional stability to have you under her/his knees Did you heard something like “all relationships have troubles, but with the power of love all can be solve ? Phrases used by people that doesn’t care about your emotional stability People that doesn’t want you to stay in your right mind, they need you to be desperate for her/his attention Have you heard “no sex until marriage” ? at the end that’s the only value that they can offer, without a begging for their sexual attention, all their game is over This is the same people that would make you feel guilty for you to masturbate
You are a saint. I watch you everyday for encouragement.
She deserves more recognition! This topic should be explained to every modern pubescent child!
Same
@@jetjames420 Amen
Honestly hearing her videos do help a lot to stay away from the addiction.
It's a global issue that's not being addressed. Thank god for Dr Trish because this problem is escalating and deliberately being ignored generally for a hidden agenda due to the multi billion dollar industry. Personally I've been hooked, I'm 72and discovered Dr Trish last summer. It's a journey I believet addicts will have to adhere to for the rest of our lives. Once again, Thank you Dr. I just wish your teachings could be introduced within🎉 the school curriculum. Bless you ❤
90 days feels like forever! My brain is ambivalent about this.
How are u now
Is quitting porn helpful to you
From the uk 🇬🇧. I’m a basketball player that studies at 17. You changed my life. I love u trish
I completely agree with what you are saying, I know it to be true. I agree some of this goes back to my childhood and I need to change things. It doesn't mitigate the fact that my spouse is unavailable, and her unavailability only increased the problem over the years. It has been over two years since we even had a date night. Since our youngest was born, I was lucky if it was three times a year. Then, she was working, and our daughter started to interfere with what time we had, and rather than setting boundaries, she allowed a 12 year old to dictate that she doesn't like us alone together. I haven't even slept in the same bed for almost a decade because of insomnia. After watching a bunch of your videos, I'm going to commit to quitting, but I'm going to be angry about it, because nothing is going to change on the sex front, so I'm basically mentally training myself to be celibate. That isn't something I ever wanted for my life, and on this, day 1, it infuriates me to have to do it.
At least you have kids already. Celibacy is the end of the world. Humans don't really need sex. It's only a message peddled by deviant supporters of the despicable sexual revolution. Real men don't need sex to live. Connect with your kids and it will allow you to grow in favor with your wife again. Women love good men who are loved by their children.
I have similar situation where my wife favors sleeping alone for over two years. She says I don’t fulfill her needs about home care and making more money so she like wise won’t fulfill my needs of touch and compliment
Thank you so much for these videos I'm starting my journey today these types of videos are really helpful
"With great power comes great responsibility". - Uncle Ben
I'm so glad!
🤣 8:52 "if you can pull it off" - I saw what you did there! 🤣
Day 5! This morning was pretty easy compared to yesterday. I have this nagging thought that I still have tokens on a cam site and that I should log on to unlink my card, but I know it’s a trap placed by my hijacker and I’m gonna relapse as soon as I do! Can’t handle it right now or maybe ever! I’ll unlink the card if I relapse or when I hit 90 days! This is the time! You got to want it and it’s possible!
What's tokens?
The blockers do help. I've been out of that loop for months, but it's the like the old saying, once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic. Cant play with the fire to test yourself. 'Can a man take fire into his bosom and not be burned?'
Listening the Bible daily help me stay strong and clean from that dark entertainment
I've been watching porn for about 4 weeks. The hard porn is very repulsive and graphic.women in skirts and stockings and heels is what I prefer but I need to stop that viewing to. It's time consuming and not reality
Such a voice of WISDOM! so glad that I discovered this wonderful channel!
Dr. Leagh, thank you for this info, it's been helpfull. I have a question? You had mentioned that one need follow the trail of bread crumbs to find where there fetish comes from. For me, I've always had an ass fetish. I've been attempting to determine if it was caused by me being brainwashed by hip-hop or if it had to do with my grandparents spanking me over there knees when I did wrong, living in a poor neighbourhood or perhaps somthing else I didnt take into acount! Your insight in this area would be helpfull, Dr. Leagh. Thanks once again for the info, it's been emesly helpful.
Day 4 so far! I really really need this to work. I’m having problems with my wife and ED issues and my life is quickly crumbling 😢
So happy I came across your channel. Need all the help I can get.
Question: are there any apps that help keep you on track in preventing porn & masturbation? Please advise.
How are u now
your videos changed my life❤
Part of it for me is about controlling sexual feelings and behaviors and losing control of it as a freedom from the control
Thank you for this Dr.Leigh ❤
God bless u and yours ❤❤❤
Thank you very much respected doctor.
There is no one MOST important question:
Is it possible to cure PIED after quitting watching porn, and brain rebooting ?
Officially one month since last watching porn
How do you feel now? Did you have brain fog before? Did it fade away? Are you more energetic?
@@Matt33318 I’ve done a month before and it makes you feel like a new man you start thinking more objectively than emotionally and it gives you an insane amount of self belief
@@darrenholmes2490 I second this
I finally matured enough to outgrow my self abuse cycle. Unfortunately, now I have tons of extra energy which I use in my job and hobbies. My coworkers kind of hate me because I'm making them look bad with my endless energy. I may have to get a new job because I'm despised now. There are employees with 5+ years of work history trying to undermine me.
“Evilution” there said it correctly for you.
Very good work .....
love and blessings from India.....
God bless u and ur beautiful family... Thanks.
This may be a controversial question, however; could it be theorized that women addicted to pørn develop similar arousal dysfunctions like pørn induced erectile dysfunction in male addicts?The idea being one is so desensitized via the hyper stimulus of compulsively masturbating to porn, sex toy use(vibrators, etc) for mood regulation/boredom, that arousal response to an actual human is actually lowered because of the fantasy attachments to these pørn habits? Like the way a male pørn addict struggles to stay aroused without pørn(or fantasy of pørn) a female addict struggles to get/stay aroused without pørn (or fantasy of pørn), sex toys, etc.
A future video on the affects on women would be helpful in reminding people that this isn't just a "male problem". That this affects women as well, though it is less publicized, women are not immune to masturbating to pørn's negative effects. This could help create a kind of solidarity between men and women trying their hardest to develop healthy sexuality, coping habits, so that we can all live our best lives.
Leaving pørn, to become a healthier person, which makes one a better lover, IS sex positivity.
@Lana Routlege if you have the addiction you can beat it. You are not alone. Everyone has a shot to live a better life just by existing.
@Lana Routlege do your best to focus on what truly makes you happy, away from the screen, run to it. The more time you give to it the more it will become a positive habit.
8:09 violent or intense video games always end with Mast this cycle was born out of boredom and loneliness I don’t have any other answers for the two , my bread crumbs are leading to toxic pools
50 push-ups when I get the urge. will that do or I need to crank it up to 100 or perhaps 200
I've been trying to stop porn for a few years now, I've been trying on my own and can't do it. I have come out to a pastor friend of mine, but he's not a lot of help not having the same problem.
I'm 63
I like your videos
What about the relapse. I have been off for about two and a half years .but it relapsed .not that extent but still a relapse is a relapse .
I love the background paintings
Thank you so much 💓
Spoilsport. ??
Iam on my 5 th day, my longest streak is like 18 days i wanna surprass my limits!
Gwarn vegeta
Jesus, almost had a relapse seeing a image title.. I made it through 😮
I relapsed today purposely doctor ,cause I was feeling sexually aroused relapsed about 3times I didn’t watch porn but I relapsed a lot tonight and I’m actually lost !!!
That's okay! Figure out what you let fall apart to allow the relapse to happen, adjust your recovery plan accordingly, and then move on! There is no room for shame or guilt in recovery
Much love
I Been fooled since 13 but No more
Thanks a lot beauty ♥️🥰
What about PIED? Will it go away with time if we go on a reboot??? Please answer Doctor.
Just quit the relapses like with alcohol.
Hi Dr. Leigh,
Question 6: Will stop masturbating cause an erectile dysfunction because you don't use your 'equipment' when you don't have access to a stabil source of sex with a partner (1-2 times per week to 1 time per two weeks)?
No, it won't stop working from supposed "disuse". The real danger is from overuse!
hyy dr.
What do u mean by brother sister intemacy during min.12:50. Is it moral or ethical please make it clear🙏
I pray God helps me
She won't.
Q no.6) Should people stop listening to AC/DC songs😟? They're replete with sexual innuendos 😂😂😂😂
Doc please try not to talk abt description s of fetishes just a reminder u already know what I am talking abt
What are some things I can do to help my fiance? I'm so clueless about porn and all these porn sites!
I am bi and only son of my parents and i was dominated very much by my mom
You blew through the “find a partner” portion, like it’s so easy. Most of your videos that touch on this element lack specifics. I heard it all before, get out in the world, do activities you enjoy and then without looking, a miraculous accident will happen. I do activities I enjoy, more so that others are envious. Result is nil, can’t recall the last single available woman I encountered, let alone someone I would date. I think you should spend some effort in this area, do a little research or illicit the aid of a real matchmaking expert. Give single people some real hope downstream of their porn addiction elimination
I think is you that should do your research about that and try, if u wait for others to make you into a stud you will only fail. I wouldn't date such a begging male if I were a woman.
I feel like I never find a partner anyway, so why should I even give up porn.. Also have bad experiences on dating apps and I live Alone not many Friends so how do I even gonna do this. Fuck this GL everyone. I give up
No man please you will live badnlife.
That’s the hijacker talking… not your true self… keep watching her videos instead of porn videos… and you’ll understand eventually 😁
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I dont wanna masturbate anymore ... i been doing it for so long. I really want a partner and now i understand that porn and masturbation have been a great imposibility to relate to other people. Thanks and i hope i can be and find a healthy partner! How i will know who is the best partner for me an me to her? I know many people i find attactive and it is mutual. Gracias Trish!
Is it also bad to read erotica ? Does it also affects our mental and sexual health ?
No.
Yes it does
She's a real Karen...
Owner Dr. Trish an hour before bed permission to watch a sports thing on you tube seeking your permission ownr Dr.Trish
Can an erection return and after how long?
if quitting porn totally.
Waiting for a while.
Everything's back to normal.
❤
What is your opinion on using a male chastity device to stop masturbating?
don't be so stupid!
It is good.
I can’t stop laughing 😂
@@earthsign99 wasn't expecting that 😂
Porn use disrespects Women. There should be social consequences to males for porn use.
There should be social consequences for you religious nutters.
Loneliness.
Peer pressure.
Bad relationships with peers.
Is that right?
It's so embarrassing having a woman tell you how to use your own body
To limit any sexuality activity ---> can cause desperation for sexual attention, one urge that you can’t scape
The perfect tool used by someone that doesn’t need to care about your emotional stability to have you under her/his knees
Did you heard something like “all relationships have troubles, but with the power of love all can be solve ?
Phrases used by people that doesn’t care about your emotional stability
People that doesn’t want you to stay in your right mind, they need you to be desperate for her/his attention
Have you heard “no sex until marriage” ?
at the end that’s the only value that they can offer, without a begging for their sexual attention, all their game is over
This is the same people that would make you feel guilty for you to masturbate