Porn Addiction Withdrawal Symptoms. (w/ Dr. Trish Leigh)

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  • čas přidán 2. 08. 2024
  • Porn addiction withdrawal can be brutal for some people. With the right tools, it doesn't have to be.
    In this video find out what the most common porn addiction withdrawal are and how to combat them. If you want to quit porn or are on a nofap journey, then watch this video now.
    About this Porn Rewire Channel: Hi. I am Dr. Trish Leigh, a Cognitive Neuroscientist. I am on a mission to help people heal their brains from porn use. My videos are designed to help you learn that:
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  • @mizzythereal
    @mizzythereal Před 2 lety +2009

    Staying busy is the key , I stopped for almost two months had a relapse and now it’s been a month, I was addicted from 14-24 you can do it trust me , think about the person you want to become and sacrifice that comfort for a bigger reward 👌🏽

    • @sourabhs14
      @sourabhs14 Před 2 lety +55

      I have a question. How did you handle withdrawl symptoms such a sbrain fog, flatline, anxiety, mood swings.

    • @G20T
      @G20T Před 2 lety +20

      @@sourabhs14 bro trust I’m in the 90 day program I’m on day 20 I don’t really care for counting days but the headband calms your Brian so when you get the program she’ll have tools laid out for you to use in your live it’s so much more man but you won’t have a bad flat line

    • @mizzythereal
      @mizzythereal Před 2 lety +85

      @@sourabhs14 Its part of the journey , sleepless nights, anxiety etc i don't think there is a way around it. Bro its been 3 months and I still have uges my mantra is "do it and feel like total shit or reframe and keep rising to your better self" I really hope this helps you bro

    • @James777921
      @James777921 Před 2 lety +4

      Did you have PIED? If so have you recovered from it now?

    • @mykhel
      @mykhel Před 2 lety +7

      i need help... feels like killing..

  • @CS-gz7nb
    @CS-gz7nb Před 4 měsíci +33

    Started at 11, turning 39, something's gotta change.... 28 years.... Time for a change....

    • @christenasante
      @christenasante Před 3 měsíci

      Very similar to you bro hows your mental health been, since I've been on long streaks I've felt like shit

  • @lupegarcia4785
    @lupegarcia4785 Před 8 měsíci +168

    90 days sober today!!!!!

  • @oldschoolgnrfan6035
    @oldschoolgnrfan6035 Před rokem +317

    I’ve struggled with porn addiction, and at this moment I’m a little over three weeks removed from my last visit to a porn site. Like some of the other comments here, the key is staying busy. If I am sitting around without plans, that’s when the urge to go to a porn site is strongest. Reading the Bible has been helpful in reminding me about the sinful nature of porn.

    • @NeoSoulCrew
      @NeoSoulCrew Před rokem +2

      Sin..

    • @nocomment6421
      @nocomment6421 Před 9 měsíci

      I hope you do realize that god Nor Jesus declared Masturbation or porn as a sin. Its forbidden to have sex Out of mariage and you are Not allowed to sexual harass people. Thats it. Dont fall for the lies of the church and try to Interpret things. The bible is absolut clear and can be taken seriously word by word. Also jesus warned us about Paulus and He is indeed a false Apostel send by the devil to devide men and women. Red letter jesus words and you will understand

    • @jameslee1062
      @jameslee1062 Před 9 měsíci +11

      The beauty of God and His love for us in Christ is all over the pages of the Bible. He is the reality that should fill our mind’s meditations with light and glory.
      He and his attributes filling our inner life are what can replace the dark meditations of porn that bring unquenchable lust and eventual guilt, shame, and depression.

    • @d3br0n
      @d3br0n Před 9 měsíci +2

      internet filters and website blockers on all my devices help me a lot.

    • @smoothlyrough512
      @smoothlyrough512 Před 8 měsíci

      ALWAYS give into that sweet, sweet release. Your only robbing yourself if you quit. I'm only happy after that release.

  • @eyadalqawlaq2646
    @eyadalqawlaq2646 Před 2 lety +637

    Dr Trish: you seriously don’t understand how crucial it is to have someone like you in this day and age where sex is publicly desensitized and normal to help break down every aspect of the addiction and how to recover and heal. You are a hero. We all love you ♥️

    • @heartandmindovercome3214
      @heartandmindovercome3214 Před rokem +14

      100% this is important work for sure. She kicks @$$ 👍. Great comment, it's refreshing to see comment from such intelligent people such as yourself with massively high levels of awareness. 🤙

    • @beerme27
      @beerme27 Před rokem

      so shes out here on youtube to help and recover from porn addiction with her cleavage showing? the irony.

    • @Useryuic
      @Useryuic Před rokem +3

      I don’t know I have a European company give me 800$ a week without even moving a muscle or even stepping outside and I get 3 offer letters in 2 weeks. Now I am going to work in 50,000 Sq Ft Media Center and do work for TikTok while getting paid by Europe

    • @Vinnie101a
      @Vinnie101a Před 10 měsíci +1

      She obviously fully understands her role. Rather silly way of putting it.

    • @theredknight9314
      @theredknight9314 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I dont think sex is demonized. I think moral sex is demonized.
      Cause WAP is very popular

  • @jeffreylyons5614
    @jeffreylyons5614 Před 8 měsíci +26

    I am 61 years old. I have been addicted to porn since about 14. Over 45 years. Awhile back I was watching porn,and when complete it just dawned on me "is that it? is that all there is, all that money, all the secrets, all the horrible loneliness, and the time time time, oh the time". That's all I have left. Nothing. Take it from an old timer, porn is not even close to worth it. If there is even remotely a young person in your life, especially a male, admonish them for all your worth STAY AWAY FROM PORN, or they could have a life of misery like me. Take it for what it's worth.
    May you all be at peace.

    • @DrTrishLeigh
      @DrTrishLeigh  Před 8 měsíci +6

      Thank you for sharing! This level of honesty is incredibly brave

    • @jld4870
      @jld4870 Před 4 měsíci +4

      It’s just evil it robs the soul of the peace and rest that God so wants us all to know.

    • @QURAN-k8j
      @QURAN-k8j Před 23 dny +2

      Thank you ❤

  • @MichaelScherer77
    @MichaelScherer77 Před 2 lety +379

    It brings me to tears how man men and even women who’s lives have been interrupted and destroyed by this awful drug. I have wasted so much of my life on porn and it’s almost destroyed me.

    • @tifivlogs7566
      @tifivlogs7566 Před 2 lety +4

      True

    • @Mark-cc3qy
      @Mark-cc3qy Před 2 lety +22

      I know how you feel Alexander. It ruined most of my childhood and teens

    • @setas1786
      @setas1786 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Mark-cc3qy how? Porn is the best

    • @thesupersaiyan6454
      @thesupersaiyan6454 Před 2 lety +7

      @@setas1786 the dopamine levels that hit from both of them together are similar to those of a crack addict.

    • @carlosfrancofeliciano6160
      @carlosfrancofeliciano6160 Před 2 lety +4

      How it did destroyed you ???

  • @user-zf4tn2xp5h
    @user-zf4tn2xp5h Před 7 měsíci +92

    I'm a porn & masturbation addict for 14 years. All I can say is I'm glad I found this video after I started quitting porn & masturbation all together for 6 days in a row now. God bless.

    • @DrTrishLeigh
      @DrTrishLeigh  Před 7 měsíci +8

      I'm so glad I'm able to help!

    • @jayjaysanders3046
      @jayjaysanders3046 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Keep it up

    • @treks82
      @treks82 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@PornBrainRewireDrTrishLeigh Im in bad shape right now.I quit porn completely, and i guess im having really bad withdrawals. Im also diagnosed with GAD so this is really kicking my butt. Trouble sleeping, anxiety all day n night, loss of concentration,loss of appetite, i can barely finish one banana a day. I see myself losing weight fast.
      Because of my general anxiety disorder, i gave up on having relationships and went to porn for my sexual needs. It started of once in a while and very softcore style porn. But over the years, i went to the hardcore stuff and was doing it every night, just having like 50 tabs open in my computer and being up late searching for these videos only to pick one for the night. Like 12am to 5am just searching porn to masturbate to. After i would feel guilty and clear my search history and take a shower and ask forgiveness to God for being lustful.
      Im slightly religious and i had really bad dream of what look like lust in hell and it scared me. I dont want to end up there so i quit porn n masturbation completely. But i didnt know about withdrawals you get from doing so. I feel so sick and scared. The not eating is making me anxious and not being able to sleep as well.

    • @kkevinj1
      @kkevinj1 Před 5 měsíci

      If ur single you gunna do it some, it shouldnt dominate ur day/thinking, less processed food helps the brain

    • @davidlee5308
      @davidlee5308 Před 3 měsíci

      Try a 12 step program if you are still struggling. Celebrate Recovery really has helped me. Offered through many Christian Churches.
      God bless

  • @Z3AL316
    @Z3AL316 Před rokem +27

    I’m 23 and have been watching p for about 10 years and have suffered for it, I just met a girl and she’s my first love and I’m gonna see her in 7 months, I’m done watching porn, not even interested in it anymore, but I feel the side effects of porn ed, I’m gonna quit cold turkey until I see her, start working out hard and eating better, I just hope it’s enough time to reverse the damage, I love this woman with every ounce of my being, and I wanna be ready when I see her, I wish I never would’ve found porn, but i trust that I will be fine in 7 months if I’m disciplined and stick to it, just gotta have faith

    • @RISKmg
      @RISKmg Před 9 dny +1

      Did you guy's connect??

  • @wo2183
    @wo2183 Před 10 měsíci +166

    I’m 5 weeks in and still have shakes almost all day long and especially when I’m laying down to sleep. I also feel my heart beat more strongly and it’s moving my whole body. I spend most nights praying through it at nights. It’s tough. Almost 30 years of using porn as a substance and now stopping has some real effects on my body. Staying strong through the power of Holy Spirit.

    • @silver292
      @silver292 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Don’t do it alone mate. Find 1 or 2 support people.

    • @rohancharlesrodrigues6992
      @rohancharlesrodrigues6992 Před 9 měsíci +20

      The flesh may be weak brother, but through Jesus all things are possible. You may be struggling now, but remember, small is the gate and narrow is the way that leads to salvation.
      I'm proud of you and will pray to God that you win this battle. Amen.

    • @Strings-jg2to
      @Strings-jg2to Před 9 měsíci +4

      The shakes? Jesus dude. It's like going through alcohol withdraw. BTW I don't know how this video fell into my algorithm. I'm not addicted to porn.

    • @robertwagner4375
      @robertwagner4375 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Ibogaine.....

    • @B4NDllKOOT_
      @B4NDllKOOT_ Před 9 měsíci +5

      I’ve been doing for a good time but still a good time for me to repent to the Lord Jesus Christ. I hope he is your savior and he will help you as he will help me 😢. I get too emotional with this topic but I hope you get out of this mate. ❤

  • @Justyouraverageguy94
    @Justyouraverageguy94 Před rokem +148

    Ive been in retention for 2 weeks now. The cravings have been so strong it actually hurts. But when that happens I start doing other things and after 15-30 minutes it fades off. Keep yourself busy. It works.

  • @thesupersaiyan6454
    @thesupersaiyan6454 Před 2 lety +238

    One withdraw I had was just randomly getting sleepy during the day and napping for like a hour and a half. Stay away from sodas and junk as it makes that chaser effect kick in and the urge to release is strong.

    • @sammyautomatic7408
      @sammyautomatic7408 Před rokem +20

      I agree with stay away from junk and soda , Eat healthy and go to the gym it makes it easier

    • @Autumn_Sunrise
      @Autumn_Sunrise Před rokem +1

      You know what, I noticed my husband looked really tired when he quit cold Turkey after being caught. He was like falling asleep at the kitchen table and seemed down.
      I knew it entered into addiction territory when I started noticing something off. TikTok for you page was filled with half naked girls, scrolling for hours, secret OnlyFans, sitting in car after work just to watch porn.
      And that was with us having sex everyday and me doing all the “fun” extras for him. So although he tried to say it would be fine, I told him it wouldn’t be as easy as he thinks.

    • @DonaldRowlands
      @DonaldRowlands Před rokem +6

      Same happened to me but I was tired all day. Like exhausted. It was awful and I'm not sure how I'll quit.

    • @Bawkr
      @Bawkr Před 11 měsíci +5

      Read your food labels. Corn Syrup is in almost everything and not good for us. Carnivore, paleo and true keto from earth foods are much healthier than flours and sweeteners. Personally since I'm poor I just buy ground beef value packs. That's all I have to really eat saves money in a ton of ways. A little celery I don't think will harm anyone as a well.

  • @MrBitcoin999
    @MrBitcoin999 Před 5 měsíci +9

    Thanks for these videos. Been addicted since I was 12, so almost 3 decades of addiction for me. Trying to quit now, been sick of it for years

  • @ANDREW.24
    @ANDREW.24 Před rokem +5

    Thank you I was this close to failing and watching these videos motivated me to keep going yes this is a year old video but right now in 2023 this really just helped me so much I hope my future is bright because of it and I hope your future continues to be good

  • @sab5717
    @sab5717 Před 2 lety +4

    Valuable and lovely information. Thanks Dr.

  • @mf1896
    @mf1896 Před rokem +61

    74 days clean and i’ve experienced the gauntlet of symptoms. Anxiety and stress have been the worse. Stress is so bad sometimes i barley have an appetite. Between the combo of eating clean and the days of stress i’ve lost about 10-15 over 2 months, It’s rough but i see the finish line and a new me is so close.

    • @adamwarlock5286
      @adamwarlock5286 Před rokem +1

      Well done .
      Stay the course

    • @Dreamchasermycade
      @Dreamchasermycade Před rokem

      I am on day 74 th I am feeling anxiety on and off the day time , I was addicted to this filthy porn for almost 11 years ,some times masturbate 5 or more time per day , how are you feeling now bro , do you still have anxiety ??

    • @mf1896
      @mf1896 Před rokem +2

      @@Dreamchasermycade
      It gets better and better each day. Right now it’s very low. I may get moments of situational anxiety here and there due to certain triggers but i had that before i quit. My faith has really kept me going during this journey. I’m close to 100 days and i feel like i’m getting back to my old self minus the addiction. My suggestion is to stay busy with positive things. Give yourself something to look forward to and the day tends to fly by. If you find yourself in an anxious moment be kind to yourself and try not to take it personal. A positive outlook has been for me. Counting my wins instead of feeling like it’s never going end. That has been my key. Maybe even keeping a journal of how you felt every week so you can actually see your progress on paper.

    • @MyLordAndMyGodJesusChrist
      @MyLordAndMyGodJesusChrist Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@mf1896still going?

    • @trueindian4549
      @trueindian4549 Před 11 měsíci

      @@mf1896 how are you now bro

  • @emnetneda4757
    @emnetneda4757 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I really thank you for your courage to share this knowledge !!!

  • @mrwoodsmoke357
    @mrwoodsmoke357 Před rokem +130

    I started 13 and now I'm 46, this feeling is devastating.

    • @theblessed1635
      @theblessed1635 Před 11 měsíci +38

      So sorry to hear that bro the porn industry should be held accountable for causing the suffering for millions of minors by getting them hooked on porn, but ultimately that will not happen because America is sick with love of money disease, porn is allowed to exist because of the money it produces its sick.

    • @michelokumura3033
      @michelokumura3033 Před 11 měsíci +7

      Man¡ i feel the same... Porn was introcuded to me at that age but at some point i had a normal life until 19 when i broke up with my first girlfriend and because of asking to perform a porn act. Since then and until last sunday it's been affecting my life drastically but i've reqched a point of no return for me and if you already are committed you will get through this. Yes you can¡¡ 💪

    • @ShonenMaster33
      @ShonenMaster33 Před 10 měsíci +4

      OMG bro sorry to hear that, I started in my 12 and now i'm 26 and feeling like it's imposible for me I can't even imagine what it is for you...

    • @Shankar-Bhaskar
      @Shankar-Bhaskar Před 9 měsíci +4

      There is so much temptation in this world.

    • @Coffeendonuts
      @Coffeendonuts Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@Shankar-Bhaskaryup satans play ground

  • @BlazblueFan
    @BlazblueFan Před 11 měsíci +52

    I'm addicted to porn for more than 12 years and I was trying to beat it for more than 6 years. Recently I am watching your videos every day and it helps me tremendously to stay focused on healing my porn addiction.

    • @wltrtillman1
      @wltrtillman1 Před 10 měsíci +23

      'BEAT IT' I See what you did there 😉

    • @Badhero4
      @Badhero4 Před 8 měsíci

      uhheheh uh ehehhe He said beat it uheheheh uhhehehe.

  • @Thomasrice07
    @Thomasrice07 Před rokem +27

    This is a really good lecture. I am glad to hear this from a woman. This is an emotion comfort in hearing a woman genuinely trying to help you.

  • @leikkkkkkkkkkkk5788
    @leikkkkkkkkkkkk5788 Před rokem +3

    Bless this woman.

  • @jaypolarbear
    @jaypolarbear Před 5 měsíci +1

    This is a really good video. Thank you Dr. Trish for putting this video out. Everything is 100% true.

  • @utkarshsingh0301
    @utkarshsingh0301 Před rokem

    This is explained so well, thank you.

  • @mrxisalive5900
    @mrxisalive5900 Před 2 lety +82

    You have described and explained the process so well. I hope this helps a whole lot of people so that they are no longer tormented and enslaved by something so internal, so private, yet it can wreck so many things.

    • @DrTrishLeigh
      @DrTrishLeigh  Před 2 lety +11

      Thank you. That is my hope too. I appreciate your support.🙏🏻😘

    • @JB.zero.zero.1
      @JB.zero.zero.1 Před 2 lety +2

      @@danielsreal5426
      I wouldn't obsess too much about this Daniel, the sexual impulse is natural and triggers exist outside the internet as well.
      Just do your best mate.

    • @mariobeja
      @mariobeja Před rokem

      Dr trish how can i stop when you're such a sexy smart ❤woman ❤❤

  • @godfreybabu478
    @godfreybabu478 Před 2 lety +3

    We celebrate you Dr. Leigh !!!

    • @DrTrishLeigh
      @DrTrishLeigh  Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you. I celebrate you also for being on this journey. 🎊 🙅‍♀️❤️‍🩹

  • @davidrodda7427
    @davidrodda7427 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Another great video thankyou Dr Trish

  • @HubbyHector
    @HubbyHector Před rokem +1

    Thank you I needed to see this today

  • @Confidentman69
    @Confidentman69 Před 7 měsíci +3

    You absolutely nailed this for me.100%🎯

  • @Simon0
    @Simon0 Před 2 lety +177

    I'm on about four months semen retention. The desire to watch porn is hardly even there anymore so I would definitely say it gets easier after three or so months.

    • @AlamMahmood
      @AlamMahmood Před 2 lety +2

      how long you had been doing PMO?

    • @Simon0
      @Simon0 Před 2 lety +10

      @@AlamMahmood sorry I'd rather not share that. It was quite a long while though that's as specific as I want to get!

    • @AlamMahmood
      @AlamMahmood Před 2 lety

      @@Simon0 okay i asked since you mentioned your desire to watch porn isnt there

    • @Simon0
      @Simon0 Před 2 lety +1

      @That's Nonsense lol! I like to keep some secrets.

    • @MikeJones-td6st
      @MikeJones-td6st Před 2 lety +2

      I get prostate pain knee pain digestive issues all from withdrawals

  • @kobey3044
    @kobey3044 Před rokem +2

    @Dr. Trish Leigh.. You are an Angel.

  • @robinhood-qf9vv
    @robinhood-qf9vv Před 8 měsíci +2

    The most deep knowledgeable person who can give deep insight in porn addiction 🙏... unfortunately I found you so late in my life .. I m 30 years old ... already soiled my life in 360 angel in PMO but ma'am I am wanted to say you thank you from bottom of my heart 🙏...your doing fabulous job ....keep doing it ma'am ....lots of love and power to you🙏

  • @blackpacker2149
    @blackpacker2149 Před 9 měsíci +7

    I think 6 months is the expected time for withdrawals to last at it high’s currently 50+ days and i expect a long road to recover from something i been doing since 8 .. remember it has to get worse before it gets better!! Good luck y’all keep on 🍀

  • @SinnohGreen
    @SinnohGreen Před 2 lety +317

    The fact that I can see this channel growing is such a great feeling for me. Because trying to be an anti-sexual abuse and exploitation activist feels almost hopeless at times with the prevalence of porn. So seeing how many more people want to quit and Are joining the fight, means that we’re moving on as a society at least in this sense.

    • @kennethdepaul6194
      @kennethdepaul6194 Před 2 lety +6

      God bless you, Louis

    • @Miguel-ve1lh
      @Miguel-ve1lh Před 2 lety +1

      I would like to be a part of this

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Před rokem

      @Gooner not really. Males become victims and then monsters because of pornography I could articulate it better but Female monsters are mostly only that not victims female predators are more attractive and arent looked down upon as much as they should be as males. The Freedom to choose an addiction for an 10 year old is abuse. Those big money making bastardous extreme capitalists? Yeah oh its abuse.

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Před rokem

      I like how the arrogance of feminism in 1979 was that Pornography industry exploits those women sure they do but its mostly males who are the victims young male victims and nobody cares about them its more the grown ass females who post sexual promicuous videos and then regret it for being stupid and not listening to Higher Moral Authroity than secularism has provided which is none. Hopefully the Church establishes itself across the West more again.

    • @Greg-yu4ij
      @Greg-yu4ij Před rokem +1

      @gooner I don’t know. It seems like the OP was referring to videos that simulate sex with unwilling participants or possibly all of the videos labeled in such a way as to pretend its mother-son or daddy-daughter. There’s videos of women tied up and simulating penetration against their will. There’s videos simulating authority, figures like cops, or security guard, coercing women into sex. Maybe 25% of the videos or more. So it can’t be pleasant for someone looking for straight forward sex to have a video pop up, reminding them of their trauma. However, I agree with you, nothing wrong with porn itself. Maybe the operators could put that other stuff in another tab. Sounds like a trivial solution but maybe it’s just that simple.

  • @tyler1020
    @tyler1020 Před rokem

    Thank you so much this is what I needed to hear I'm trying to get the help I need

  • @rishiikannah7750
    @rishiikannah7750 Před rokem +1

    Thank you, because of you, im able to grow so much. thank you

  • @unseenwarfare8579
    @unseenwarfare8579 Před 2 lety +165

    I get caught in the thinking of being in a fallen state and engaging in sinful acts without realizing the psychological and biological aspects of this addiction. You’re doing God’s work. Thank you.

    • @IsraelCountryCube
      @IsraelCountryCube Před rokem +5

      spritiual sexual warfare ype

    • @axxel9626
      @axxel9626 Před 7 měsíci +1

      JESUS FREED YOU FROM SIN!

    • @jld4870
      @jld4870 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@axxel9626Yes Jesus paid for ALL of our sins in full for eternity.
      Yet As long as we live in this flesh the flesh will war with the Spirit, there are still consequences for our sinful nature in the flesh.
      God bless.
      Not I but Christ!

    • @axxel9626
      @axxel9626 Před 4 měsíci

      @@jld4870 fr, preach in the holy name of Jesus man!❤️

  • @brettbarager9101
    @brettbarager9101 Před rokem +24

    As a therapist of many years I have come across people with porn addiction. This vid is certainly one of the best I have seen . . . Straight talk, plain language and succinct. I like the practical way you explain what is going on in the brain (especially the dopamine and serotonin connection). Thanks. I now have more tools to help people!

  • @PlainD
    @PlainD Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video.

  • @MrMohra99
    @MrMohra99 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much doctor for your videos i have quit cold turkey and i feel so happy and very powerful able to reach my goals very faster i will die but i will never go back to this addiction i promise to God and myself so thank you so much not only you are very beautiful but also you are a Saviour protect yourself people like me need you for sure.

  • @DumbAssSpeakingWithMansVoice

    Putting on the New Man and putting off the Old Man.

  • @exnihilo203
    @exnihilo203 Před 2 lety +40

    I have been in bad relapse for about a year now. It’s been rough. I feel like I’ve had more relapses than I did before being in porn recovery. I am ready but my brain seems like it isn’t. Wish me luck. Patiently waiting for the benefits/challenges of the second year. Thanks for the video!

  • @luisjuarez3234
    @luisjuarez3234 Před rokem +1

    thank you so much 4 all that you do seriously so grateful for the info you provide 8)

  • @useyourhead8824
    @useyourhead8824 Před rokem +1

    Holy shit you are on point with it all..them flashbacks hitting real hard.

  • @mrpinetree5378
    @mrpinetree5378 Před rokem +10

    Something that I've struggled with for a very long time, but I've finally gotten sick of it, I went to my wife and asked for her help. I got tired of fantasizing about other women, I put my wife back upon my pedestal, and I've been able to turn away from that bad behavior, I've become more intimate with my wife, and the sex has never been better. It all started with praying, it allowed me to disrupt that lifestyle.

  • @laszlotorok472
    @laszlotorok472 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thank you and God bless!
    And God bless everyone who is reading this comment!

  • @flickxzgaming2941
    @flickxzgaming2941 Před rokem +1

    I progressed to the point where even watching those hardcore stuff wasn't enough to give me the kick i needed..so after a lot of time spent on researching and watching these types of videos I finally quited a week back but it's sure been hard.. withdrawal symptoms are not a joke.. you know how social media are these days , left instagram a few months back just a normal video was going to take me back to that deep dark past.. but I managed to defeat my urge and hope that I'll continue to do so... Stay strong guys you can do it tooo...💪💪💪just a tip(when the urge gets too strong to subdue just punch the wall or do 20 pushups , it ain't much but it helps)👌

  • @dylanyarbrough7538
    @dylanyarbrough7538 Před rokem

    Thank you this helped a lot

  • @o.e.bangerz6548
    @o.e.bangerz6548 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Thank you So much Dr. Trish you’re an angel 😇! Every time I hear the term “the hijacker” it instantly makes me think of “the enemy 👿.” I’m a devout Christian who has struggled with this addiction since age 9 and I’m 37 now. I don’t have bad PEID, I believe because I work out hard 4 days per week, however I can definitely tell that porn is bad for my brain. I didn’t realize I was addicted until I tried to stop. Now every day I turn to the Lord Jesus Christ with prayer, and watch your videos to learn the harmful effects of pornography. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 6:18 that every sexual sin committed causes harm to our bodies! No surprise that even something that seems so innocent to ppl as watching videos and not actually doing what you’re watching can still harm your body, in this case your brain! Wow!

  • @bryidk6404
    @bryidk6404 Před rokem +72

    Was 3-5 yrs old when exposed to pornography, elementary when started masturbating and sexually molested, was addicted until just recently. I stopped doing it now because i dont want my life to be dependent on porns. Currently on my withdrawal stage, i swear it is hard. Even my co-workers are wondering if im healthy or okay. My anxiety and brain fog is bad, i cant even think straight while working. Pray for me. Im 25 now

    • @TheBigDynamo
      @TheBigDynamo Před rokem +8

      I'm so sorry for what you've been through at such a young age. That's horrible:(

    • @leikkkkkkkkkkkk5788
      @leikkkkkkkkkkkk5788 Před rokem +7

      I was exposed at 12 by my primary school friends.... I'm 25 rn and now exactly how you feel...
      I've got withdrawal symptoms kicking in rn, and I'm gonna go for a walk, even though it's 12:54AM
      Because not doing that will make my brain explode.

    • @mirceastoica1033
      @mirceastoica1033 Před rokem +4

      Same brother , i was wondering if someone else was exposed so early (4yrs) now 23
      I also feel tired, and start to breath heavy sometime heard hurts too
      Mostly happens in day 2-5 of withdrawal

    • @dazz2469
      @dazz2469 Před rokem +4

      Addicted since 12. Currently 3am right now, for some reason i cant sleep, this is hell

    • @nodokurwy
      @nodokurwy Před rokem +1

      Bessel van der Kolk. Make familiar with his work. Good luck

  • @jaypalnitkar4400
    @jaypalnitkar4400 Před rokem +2

    Everything she said is word 2 word true for me .... unbelievable 🙌🙌

  • @slane5042
    @slane5042 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you Dr., you saved me from relapsing!

  • @ddg0907
    @ddg0907 Před 2 lety +55

    4:28 WOW. I didn’t realize that was a withdrawal symptom. The weird thing is that I tend to get all my urges late at night, so I get those dreams quite a bit. When I wake up and realize I didn’t do it, I’m relieved. Just shows how severe porn hijacks your brain, it’s frightening because it’s so invasive.

    • @filipvis4655
      @filipvis4655 Před 2 lety +5

      I often have these nightmarish dreams, in which they vary on innocence/mildness/intensity, & have totally no control over it, but it somehow involves ppl or alien-like beings doing bad/destroying the world, & at first I have to flee/survive & fight them at some point, where the only status quo/peace, or way to save myself, but not everyone, sometimes saving family & loved ones, is by sexuality with them, by reproducing/pleasing, enslaving myself to them sexually, me & some others get spared. Really weird. It starts on the streets up 1 lvl in a home/house each time, until I make out with them on the roof, after having climbed on there from out the window. Real creepy.

    • @Vwerlg
      @Vwerlg Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@filipvis4655 Man... that's scary I hope you don't get too harsh on yourself 😢 because it's the hijacker's fault you get those dreams not you ❤

  • @edwardthompson8982
    @edwardthompson8982 Před 2 lety +171

    Watching this video months after gives me goosebumps. Truth be told I was broke and used pornography and masturbation as a means of getting away. The moment I got busy and had something doing my priorities changed. 4 months ago when I first came across this video, I was on the verge of being homeless, broke and dealing with insecurities. I could barely stay outside my room for long. Thank God for change and the man I am today. I own multiple houses, debt free and I live my best life without letting my insecurities control me. Never give up in life

    • @kendrickmason2577
      @kendrickmason2577 Před 2 lety

    • @edwardthompson8982
      @edwardthompson8982 Před 2 lety

      You're right friend. We're all not born with the Silver spoon, but we have to craft ours. My divorce almost ended my life. I had almost nothing to fall back to..I found out the hard way, savings are overrated. Thank God for a stroke of luck and cryptocurrencies.

    • @DrTrishLeigh
      @DrTrishLeigh  Před 2 lety +10

      Congratulations my friend. I am thrilled for you. Thank you for sharing your story here to inspire others. Keep rocking it out! 🙏🏻🙅‍♀️❤️‍🩹

    • @greysimpson7112
      @greysimpson7112 Před 2 lety +1

      As someone who has gone through ups and downs I am happy for you...Everything is subject to time and chance. Money comes and goes. Rockerfellers are no longer worth as they used to. If you don't find a means of multiplying your money time, chance and inflation will happen to it.

    • @edwardthompson8982
      @edwardthompson8982 Před 2 lety

      @@greysimpson7112 I got lucky when a Bostonian friend introduced me to an expert who helped me trade. He also advised me to buy Meta token. This was before the Metaverse thing. By the end of the month my token had done 7000 percent.

  • @carlosarreolajr2863
    @carlosarreolajr2863 Před 10 měsíci

    Very informative !!!

  • @heavyhitr7696
    @heavyhitr7696 Před 9 měsíci +5

    The Dr. Jekyl and Mr
    Hyde thing got me. I was wondering why i was losing my temper more suddenly and regularly. Understanding that it's part of the mental and emotional withdrawal and rewiring makes sense. Thank you

  • @Ralphoifyful
    @Ralphoifyful Před rokem +21

    I've had those "nightmares" (they were more like unpleasant dreams to be accurate) in which I watched porn or imagined myself in a porn-ish situation. That garbage is so damn real it almost hurts to hear it confirmed from a different person, and it's scary how the addiction gets into such deep layers of your subconscious. The interruption of sleep in the middle of the night is also very recurrent in my situation, so I'm happy it's a sign of unwiring.
    For everyone struggling, keep going lads, and never touch porn again, it's really not worth it. I tell you as a 29 yr old man who has wasted most of his best years hooked to the drug.

    • @DrTrishLeigh
      @DrTrishLeigh  Před rokem +8

      Stay the course my friend. That’s why I am an elite ambassador for the Muse headband, which is used for Brain training. It helps to at that subconscious level. Rock it out! Stay strong💪

    • @Ralphoifyful
      @Ralphoifyful Před rokem +2

      @@DrTrishLeigh Thanks a lot Trish. Your tips and your vids are really helpful and so help me God, Buddha, the Demiurge or whatever there is out there, I'll see this through.

    • @brandonpinto5290
      @brandonpinto5290 Před rokem +5

      I'm 28 , got into porn at the age of 10 and my first streak of 7 days was last year when I got newly acquainted with the movement . The second one was in August and the longest of 20 days. Before I began my current third streak I was at it with great intensity and frequency until I decided to put an abrupt stop to this vice. I'm on my 7th day n what seperates this streak is that the withdrawal signs appeared almost immediately and with more ...... violence.
      Subtle n mild recurring Headaches, mood swings, lethargy, sense of sadness , those weird nightly porn and s3x dreams . The urges were particularly strong today with heart palpitations on the mere thought of relapsing. Almost wanted to kill myself. It's hitting n shaking me like a ragdoll with everything it's got 😅
      What's kept me unfazed is the strong internal motivation to not fall back into the habits which had evolved and made me think and do morally questionable stuff and robbed me of my best youthful years.
      Your comment has struck a particular chord because it's very encouraging and empowering to hear it from other men who choose to change for the better, making you and people like Dr Trish, no less than warriors!

    • @Ralphoifyful
      @Ralphoifyful Před rokem +1

      @@brandonpinto5290 Thanks very much, feeling is mutual dude. I've felt those heart palpitations too when fantasies get out of hand and I feel like "on the verge" of giving in, which tends to happen when I go to bed and when I wake up. Fantasizing is the hardest part for me, you gotta make an effort to conciously pull yourself out of it and focus on the exterior, on the objective, on the nature of the urges as a trap that will take you into the usual loop of misery, and get into the real world and the things you want to really do. Too many years man, too many young years of feeling hindered to have real relationships and feeling your manhood in the rock bottom. Trust yourself and the process and stay strong 💪

    • @clkgtr12
      @clkgtr12 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@Ralphoifyfulhow are you still doing

  • @Tanvir00001
    @Tanvir00001 Před 19 dny

    Thank you so much mam for explaining it well.

  • @jamesbowman3034
    @jamesbowman3034 Před 2 lety +1

    This is the video I needed! Thank you!!!!!

  • @fanussmit1075
    @fanussmit1075 Před 2 lety +20

    Thank you Dr Trish for your time, energy, enthusiasm and passion in helping me and millions of people around the globe with this most underestimated addiction.. God bless!!!

  • @BangzHaus
    @BangzHaus Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you Dr Trish. I love your work that you share with us.
    Are you able talk about the great benefits of meditation in recovery and beyond please?

  • @Arcane_98
    @Arcane_98 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Can't sleep. Thank you for you're help.

  • @justsa2360
    @justsa2360 Před 7 měsíci

    Spot on Doct!

  • @phoenix0110
    @phoenix0110 Před rokem +7

    I found it is very exhausting for Morden man to date Morden woman. So much stress can be created, since woman hold all the power. And if guy says one sentence wrong, guys can get totally stone walled by woman, and woman can just move on to next one. It feels so depressed and hurtful to talk to these woman who see man as trash.

  • @powasjington4262
    @powasjington4262 Před 2 lety +47

    I felt terrible when i quit porn. But I did it. Still I find myself triggered sometimes especially when I see attractive women and it causes me to feel stressed out and think about sexual thoughts. I just take a deep breath and try to pay attention to how my body is feeling.

  • @johnjohnson9918
    @johnjohnson9918 Před 9 měsíci +1

    I wasn’t addicted until I saw your low cut top and suddenly felt an addiction on the rise, thank you doctor

  • @HealthyHappyThankful
    @HealthyHappyThankful Před 9 měsíci

    She has given me hope belief motivation that there is light thank you

  • @jasonlamberson6872
    @jasonlamberson6872 Před rokem +11

    Nice to know I’m not alone in realizing how much time and opportunity is wasted on porn and self pleasure. Never again…

  • @bony8151
    @bony8151 Před rokem +4

    I’m on Day three and I’m going insane. But I can’t go back, I’m losing my mind I’m staying away from porn and I’m not even coming into contact with “that” area.

  • @hamzaelhafidi3228
    @hamzaelhafidi3228 Před rokem

    Thank you Dr, I love u❤

  • @jmyname8290
    @jmyname8290 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Dr. Trish!!! God bless you.

  • @kimodonnell7969
    @kimodonnell7969 Před rokem +3

    Hi I’m new and just starting down this journey to recovery. Today was supposed to be Day 1 and I made it all day until tonight. I fell hard. Now I’m in deep shame. I can’t stand myself right now. I do have a wonderful sponsor. SHAME is real and I CANNOT do this. Look at me I couldn’t even get Day 1. This started out of curiosity when I was 24 and I’ll be 50 on June 6, 2023. I’m trying soooooo hard but epic FAIL…

  • @ronlivaudais6523
    @ronlivaudais6523 Před 2 lety +4

    Nature doesn’t like a vacuum. You have to replace negative behavior with positive behavior!

  • @JasonMarano
    @JasonMarano Před 7 měsíci +1

    This woman is amazing

  • @maartenracingding4840
    @maartenracingding4840 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Dr, Trish Leigh!!! God bless you

  • @redgrim7708
    @redgrim7708 Před 2 lety +12

    Thank you for this, I was about to relapse but I clicked on this video and I am blessed 😇

  • @SonOfTheMorning
    @SonOfTheMorning Před 2 lety +29

    Glad you brought up the flashback issue because my biggest hook is thinking about past sexual partners.

  • @tobiaskoehler96
    @tobiaskoehler96 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you very much 🙏🏽

  • @amrjihad
    @amrjihad Před 10 měsíci +2

    You are an angel from heaven

  • @toms9902
    @toms9902 Před 2 lety +29

    I'm going through major withdrawals now. The dopamine deluge of pmo has now become a dopamine deficit of abstention. I'm going through big time anxiety and depression...low self-esteem, guilt and feeling the world hates me...called projection. Who else is feeling this similar pain?

  • @_Troylifts
    @_Troylifts Před 2 lety +5

    Don’t know how this video popped up on my timeline but it was informative good work dr

  • @tristantzara3995
    @tristantzara3995 Před 2 měsíci

    GREAT CONTENT.

  • @Boni_Bmx
    @Boni_Bmx Před rokem

    What you do I respect.help the boys and man suffering from porn addiction

  • @facts-never-lies3160
    @facts-never-lies3160 Před rokem +7

    My God withdrawal symptoms are real. Had panic attacks, anxiety, and Insomnia. First week of quitting I felt great and two weeks later 😢

    • @michaeledwards190
      @michaeledwards190 Před rokem

      This fucking sucks

    • @andyf3269
      @andyf3269 Před rokem

      Delayed withdraws I’ve gotten this from pain killers months later. It hit me hard but I got through it. The other 20 times though I gave up. Hang in there!

  • @cesarjimenezsalazar9322
    @cesarjimenezsalazar9322 Před 2 lety +5

    thank you so much, I was just feeling exactly like that and I came to youtube to distract myself and your video popped up, helped me a lot

  • @JK-uo3pd
    @JK-uo3pd Před rokem +2

    I turn into a workaholic exercise freak. I have to totally wear out my body and stay busy - occupy my
    Mind to stave off the urges.
    I’ve always slept well regardless so
    I haven’t noticed any change there.
    It’s definitely mind over the flesh and a lot of prayer

  • @__saturos__
    @__saturos__ Před 18 dny

    Thank you doctor.

  • @gdtot278
    @gdtot278 Před rokem +3

    I dont know if anyone else had this but, my sleep is disrupted so much within the first week of nofap that i can only sleep from 10pm to 2am and then im so awake.

  • @Mklpfn
    @Mklpfn Před 2 lety +5

    6:10
    Serotonin is a neurotransmitter that can influence many aspects of the entire body, from mood, memory, sleep cycle and even sexual desire, to improving our mental state and motivation.

  • @kamalkumarsaikia6154
    @kamalkumarsaikia6154 Před rokem

    Doing God Job Ma'am 🙏

  • @dreniparaj6012
    @dreniparaj6012 Před 2 lety +10

    I quit watching porn 2 weeks ago and I feel different things for good sure ,and I don't want to watch porn anymore in my life, and I want to thank you doctor for this video it's good for peoples out there to hear this 👍

    • @neoreign
      @neoreign Před 2 lety +1

      Any updates? have you had any relapses?

  • @CFkatehudson
    @CFkatehudson Před rokem +4

    i had a few lapses but prayer and bible reading has helped me get past porn

  • @schweizerballs573
    @schweizerballs573 Před 2 lety

    Dr. Trish, you’re a god send. Keep on your purpose of helping others heal and find their purpose in life.

  • @StayFractalesque
    @StayFractalesque Před 8 měsíci +2

    You should do one about female's addiction to social media and how it's worse than porn addiction for men

    • @scottb4540
      @scottb4540 Před 5 měsíci

      What in gods name are you talking about?

  • @theblessed1635
    @theblessed1635 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Completely uncomfortable i am i have been struggling with porn for so long i just hope i can finally overcome this once and for all.

  • @jaylaw.7660
    @jaylaw.7660 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you, Dr. Trish Leigh- before watching you, I was experiencing massive headaches. But just listening to your smooth, calming assuring voice I got some kind of dopamine release. The right kind. My headache is no longer evident, thank you for contributing back to society. Sincerely a college student,
    Jayla Winston🩷🫶

  • @williamirvine9132
    @williamirvine9132 Před rokem +7

    I stumbled upon your channel last night simply just trying to figure out what has been wrong with my brain for a majority of my life and your channel brought the issue to me. I wonder why there is not more awareness about this for people, especially younger men.

    • @tommyhatcher3399
      @tommyhatcher3399 Před rokem

      Because we live in a female-centric world that wants men to have broken spirits and filled with lust for women. If women started complaining about porn addiction you'd see it all over the news. As far as women are concerned, they love it. Can't even go on Facebook without seeing women shaking their ass and making money off it.

  • @stevetrivago
    @stevetrivago Před 11 měsíci

    I surrendered to it… took your advice… today is day 9… I don’t feel stressed… I feel decent and to top it off, yesterday a newly acquired friend acquaintance I’ve had for a month or so decided she isn’t ready for a relationship…. The easy let down … lol .. I’m doing ok 🙏🏼 thank you

  • @sgueto0590
    @sgueto0590 Před 2 lety

    Thank you!

  • @ANIME-FOR-LYF
    @ANIME-FOR-LYF Před rokem +3

    it's been 11 days, my withdrawal symptoms are:-
    # Heavy stress and anxiety
    # Serious lack of motivation
    # Interrupted sleep
    # Porn dreams
    # Increased Anger
    # Most of the time my brain finds excuses to relapse
    For 2-3 days now i have been doing yoga for stress and anxiety and guess what, except for the Porn dreams all other symptoms have reduced drastically.

    • @friendofall1824
      @friendofall1824 Před rokem +1

      Wow good luck... Its very hard to quit porn addiction.. You are strong...

  • @supersonnyd7369
    @supersonnyd7369 Před 2 lety +10

    Implementing the correct strategies will help us remain PMO free.
    Quitting MO will increase our anxiety and stress as well as anger and irritability, it's important we stick with the process to pass through this stage quickly.
    Reliving our past PMO experiences through our brain bringing up these thought processes.
    We give our brains dopamine through healthy activities.
    Our sleep can become disrupted and in the long term this will improve.
    Find joy and serotonin through nature.
    Work on recovery daily.
    Stay strong and free!

    • @DrTrishLeigh
      @DrTrishLeigh  Před 2 lety +3

      Hi Sonny. 🖐 I hope you’re doing great. 🙅‍♀️

    • @supersonnyd7369
      @supersonnyd7369 Před rokem

      @@DrTrishLeigh We've come on leaps and bounds since joining your programs.
      There's always room for improvement.
      Thank you 🙂

    • @leavemealone5520
      @leavemealone5520 Před měsícem

      What is PMO & MO