It's funny how people disrespect and do all sorts of nonsense but then preach to others on the methods of how they should handle it. Maybe if they preached to themselves not to do the nonsense in the first place there would be no problems to start with.. especially when it's repetitive and seemingly habitual.
Never be a fan of her life let her chase you. Never be talk to much around her or complain around her this is feminine energy. Never pillow talk with her about other peoples problems. Irish Dating Coach
I think the third one is “don’t talk bad about other people” - or gossip for that matter. So 1-Don’t hold grudges; 2- Don’t get mad when teased; 3- Don’t talk bad about others or gossip and 4- Don’t qualify yourself...
Thanks, Many fans are waiting for your new uploads and we are very happy that this one came. You are an Epitome of a Real Man... I'm one of your Fans Mr. Julian.
@@trey1639 Thanks brother! I actually have a lot of content of me approaching girls in the street and giving advice on how anybody can do it. You can do it too brother.
TH C i know man its annoying. I hate for doing. The thing is, its impossible to beat all the other youtubers who have millions of subs. Sorry if i cause any disturbance.
Great educational video 'cause this are the things men or people never should do with people in general, and is related to be a humble person. Thanks and greetings from Spain.
Brother this video was amazing i agree. I believe you have the ability to approach any girl you want as you seem cool. You just have to know how to approach them. I actually made a video on the 3 most effective ways of approaching girls (which is me picking up girls in the street) and i am sure that video will help you out
Jesus, I wish I knew the last one when I was younger. Naturally followed the first 3 but I just realized that I do number 4 sometimes, especially when I was younger. I could see their interest level drop.
Brother this video was amazing, but if you do not know how to approach girls it will not be any good. I believe you have the ability to approach any girl you want as you seem cool. You just have to know how to approach them. I actually made a video on the 3 most effective ways of approaching girls (which is me picking up girls in the street) and i am sure that video will help you out
@Prince G sexism? I guess... It seems more like double standards to me...but that's irrelevant either way... attracting women is a game...so one has to play by the rules of said game...
That's feminine energy. They're seeking masculine energy which is being about your ish... looking after yourself - which in effect, tells her subconsciously that you can look after her.
Damn dude I have watched you're channel for about a year and it has really changed me. I started to face my fear's with little thing's and now I became Bullrider. Thank you so much man!!
Holy moly.. I am 29 years old, dated a couple dozens of girls and probably watched dozens of dating related videos. Despite all that I find this video was very very informative! Especially the explanation of the first one
What He ment was something Like a warning. It was ment Like:" women are good at manipulating." So basically He does give "way too much" Credit. He was saying theyre good in Bad Things. You know?
'Some guys try to qualify themselves by overtly bragging about their success or the things they own, like a nice car...' No mention of your Corvette (or Lamborghini now) in this video 😉
Qualifying yourself is a tricky one. Being your mental point of origin helps stop that as you do not need to explain yourself to another person. Make your choices and own them.
"What someone says about you says more about them than you..." Yeah! I can't believe I took so long to figure it out. What people say about you reveals the way they interpret people and life in general. People saying negative stuff are a total open book.
I've always been a Beta Male all my life but you changed it. I'm always learning something everytime I watch your videos. I have realized that the reason why I'm miserable is because I am living like a Beta. Again thank you for changing my life. Strangers tease me everytime I go to a party, This is very timely. Thanks my CZcams Big Brother. I'm still being tease but I'm more aware now on what to do.
Don’t tease back. If someone says ‘you have a pimple as big as a tennis ball’ tell them ‘that’s great I love tennis’. Exagherate what someone says, instead of getting agry or fighting it. YOU GOT THIS.
@@lilwilj agree, it's best to show back that you're not affected but I think he already knows it when he said he is aware on what to do. He watched different videos multiple times as you can tell from the multiple thank you's
Well, I think the point stands. It is only hurtful to hold a grudge. You should emotionally forget that you've been wronged, whichever way it happened. But I don't think that you have to become good friends afterwards. You don't have to actually forget.
Brother hell yeah this is correct. I personally think the best trait a man can have is confidence and the ability to show a girl that he is interested in her, by being able to approach her anywhere he is. I believe you have the ability to be that person. I actually made a video on the 3 most effective ways of approaching girls (which is me picking up girls in the street) and i am sure that video will help you out
Ever since I put muscle on and showed it off on social media .. my inbox and requests have went off the map. So ignore the showing off muscles part. It works believe me
Brother hell yeah this is correct. I personally think the best trait a man can have is confidence and the ability to show a girl that he is interested in her, by being able to approach her anywhere he is. I believe you have the ability to be that person. I actually made a video on the 3 most effective ways of approaching girls (which is me picking up girls in the street) and i am sure that video will help you out
@@savagewarrior5343 the thing is I am attracted to girls and girls r some what attracted to me but sometimes I don't get why chicks r so corny thy seem to dodge me even if I make my move I don't know sometimes I feel like maybe I am trying to hard or thy jus don't want to be in relationship but all I wish had is money and everything could have been great😅
@@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385 watch all his videos. I'm once bored and made a video marathon of all of his videos and that change my personality. I'm now a new person. Don't just take my word for it, try it yourself.
Idk about the teasing part. Sometimes people will continue to tease you even though you don't get mad and will make you the butt of jokes until finally had enough and fire back
I found I copped a lot of crap at work as I worked full-time & studied at night. After graduation I rose several levels. I thought I could take revenge on the tormentors but I ignored them as I had tripled my income & this was my best revenge.
The funny thing about your comment is that they don't simply tell you that, rather they analyze and judge based on whatever, but a pro can see and mete out a basic gold digger.
Three out of four points make sense. "Getting mad when teased" does not. If you are being teased by a spouse or a close friend, then your tolerance to and enjoyment of teasing is already known and is either good or is known to be harassment. And as for people who don't know you? They assume that you can withstand teasing, which is as compassionate as accidentally spilling marbles and assuming everyone nearby saw the spill and is not blind. With PTSD (I have it) can come a tendency to flashbacks and worse. No, don't tell me to get professional help: if you look at my uploads then you will find that my mental processes are very creative and productive. Compassion toward people who differ from oneself includes being aware that they might not fit a pre-existing stereotype including being able to withstand teasing. Don't. Tease to distinguish the desirable from the undesirable, and you are claiming the right to upset people for your own convenience. I consider that claim an insult. Testing people to determine whether they can be teased, meanwhile, is totally reasonable. If it works out, great! But making a false assumption is what I argue against here. Many people,, alas, do.
*THIS IS MY LIFE QUESTION AND I BADLY NEED AN ANSWER?* I want to know why every young strangers that I meet call me Ma'am or Madam at the first meeting and then just treat me like we have the same age or disrespect me after getting to know me? I once encountered a young cole who addressed my other younger coleague as his big sister and never take me seriously. He was always laugh at me everytime I'm around and makes fun of me for no reason. It happens to me a lot... Everytime I start to approach strangers especially the younger ones, the same thing happens.
Best way to be alpha, judge women on personality rather than their bodies. If she’s hot but sucks, drop her. If men did that, women wouldn’t get the privilege of judging the hell out of us when they themselves tend to suck as people.
So be yourself.. unless you are someone that is forever alone.. so bottom line... just lie.. or you can just be yourself, be happy, and live life. Realize that if you have to do this much work.. there are other problems occurring.. there should be signs.
YOU should work on being a better YOU for YOU... DO NOT concern yourself with what another PERSON wants AT ALL. Male or female should not be the focus. Put your thoughts towards the VALUES of a GOOD HUMAN BEING and things will become CLEAR. The answers are INTERNAL not external. The thought of changing who YOU are for another person is WEAK, If a person can’t accept your GOOD QUALITIES they don’t DESERVE YOU. -Trust Me
Ehhhh grudge .... not wanting to be disrespected..... ( it’s true don’t react but, that’s doesn’t mean we going to hang out) the rest I agree with 1000000 do not qualify yourself !!!!
High value man rule #1: have a strongest personallity: 1. Never hold a grudge, if you have problem lets fix it, never avoid conflict 2. Stop getting mad when youre teased, instead of tease them back 3. Never gossip, stop talking bad things, critics abouy another person, its unattractive and also means that yiu have weak personallity which 4. Never be pick me guy, stop qualifying yourself, your value speaks itself.
So if a person catches himself qualifying himselg... what alternative do you suggest? Should your friend have said something like he dislikes those kind of guys? To keep him separate from that line of thinking
Never hold a grudge? Are you f-ing kidding me? Women have memories like elephants, as soon as they start loosing an argument they pull that card from their sleeve , What about that one time? Reminding you of something that happened t rd n years ago
The viewers were discouraging him by calling him nervous because he was shaking around, I Think. But dont take my word for it, this isnt a confident Statement.
1. Don't hold a grudge
2. Stop getting mad when teased
3. Don't gossip
4. Don't qualify yourself
In other words, stop giving a shit.
True at some point don't be mad just be done.
So basically, don't be a woman.
Learn this STUFF in Sunday school as a kid...guess nobody went to Sunday school...rehashing this STUFF
It's funny how people disrespect and do all sorts of nonsense but then preach to others on the methods of how they should handle it. Maybe if they preached to themselves not to do the nonsense in the first place there would be no problems to start with.. especially when it's repetitive and seemingly habitual.
*Men should never compromise their values. Once you do it's over.*
Even in the face of Armageddon....
FACTS
was only a matter time I suppose
Men should never show neediness 🔥
What if they're suicidal and need help??
@@Mark-uk8wz Neediness =/= Emotions
Easier said then done😅
I have watched Julian's videos since Day 1 up to now. He is so cool bruh.
Ted lol just be happy it’s not that hard
Never be a fan of her life let her chase you. Never be talk to much around her or complain around her this is feminine energy. Never pillow talk with her about other peoples problems.
Irish Dating Coach
My girl be asking to pillow talk. I said bed is for sleep and sex.
Lol bro Girls aren't gonna chase me
@@Suspect333 they will if you do the work on yourself
Lonnie Jolly loool
Alpha Instructions what do you mean by "fan of her life"
"Worry not that no one knows you. Seek to be worth knowing." - Confucious
*a MAN should always keep the promises to himself.*
Never disappoint yourself, you are your biggest fan.
Everywhere
I see you everywhere man
@@musicgaines7170 2nd time seein somebody say everywhere
tienes razón
I see you everywhere
Men need to be true to themselves. You're just naturally more confident when you do this and that confidence is attractive
4 Things Men should never do: Make 3 points instead of the advertised 4 points.
The 4th point is your reaction.
You failed.
Julio's Evil Twin we live in a simulation
I think the third one is “don’t talk bad about other people” - or gossip for that matter. So 1-Don’t hold grudges; 2- Don’t get mad when teased; 3- Don’t talk bad about others or gossip and 4- Don’t qualify yourself...
Thanks, Many fans are waiting for your new uploads and we are very happy that this one came. You are an Epitome of a Real Man... I'm one of your Fans Mr. Julian.
Basically, let it go and don't be a try-hard
You inspired me to get started on my youtube channel and not to give up on my dream! Thanks man
Savage Warrior subbed gg i’m virgin
@@trey1639 Thanks brother! I actually have a lot of content of me approaching girls in the street and giving advice on how anybody can do it. You can do it too brother.
Bro stop typing that on every youtube video you come across comon grow vy yourself beat youtube algorithm
TH C i know man its annoying. I hate for doing. The thing is, its impossible to beat all the other youtubers who have millions of subs. Sorry if i cause any disturbance.
Savage Warrior you inspire me to spam CZcams videos ❤️
Great educational video 'cause this are the things men or people never should do with people in general, and is related to be a humble person.
Thanks and greetings from Spain.
I have met so many men who are weak and insecure and get mad over teasing. These types of guys always want to fight and prove themselves.
And with that said here's another great video!
Brother this video was amazing i agree. I believe you have the ability to approach any girl you want as you seem cool. You just have to know how to approach them. I actually made a video on the 3 most effective ways of approaching girls (which is me picking up girls in the street) and i am sure that video will help you out
Ha! Women can do all these negative things and society gives them a pass. Example 5,035 why we'll never be equals.
Jesus, I wish I knew the last one when I was younger. Naturally followed the first 3 but I just realized that I do number 4 sometimes, especially when I was younger. I could see their interest level drop.
Brother this video was amazing, but if you do not know how to approach girls it will not be any good. I believe you have the ability to approach any girl you want as you seem cool. You just have to know how to approach them. I actually made a video on the 3 most effective ways of approaching girls (which is me picking up girls in the street) and i am sure that video will help you out
It's not a grudge if you are standing up for yourself and what's right.
Is it weird that it's bad for guys to do these things...but it's ok for women to do it..?
Hold grudges...
Gossip...
Talk crap about others...
@Prince G sexism? I guess...
It seems more like double standards to me...but that's irrelevant either way... attracting women is a game...so one has to play by the rules of said game...
@Matt Smith I wouldn't go as far as to call these mentioned here as "qualities"...but i get what you're saying...lol
You're right.
That's feminine energy. They're seeking masculine energy which is being about your ish... looking after yourself - which in effect, tells her subconsciously that you can look after her.
Why would you do these things anyway? They're not exactly good traits. That goes for men and women.
Damn dude I have watched you're channel for about a year and it has really changed me. I started to face my fear's with little thing's and now I became Bullrider. Thank you so much man!!
I literally be here for the drawings.... I don’t be doing nun of what you suggest & still pull women lol
Shaq The Opinion Guy 😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
Holy moly.. I am 29 years old, dated a couple dozens of girls and probably watched dozens of dating related videos. Despite all that I find this video was very very informative! Especially the explanation of the first one
The first one got me, I've been doing it for like a week
1:54 Hol up he is the successor of one for all bro❌🧢❌🧢
2:59 you give women way too much credit.
Even a cow has basor instincts, LOL.
What He ment was something Like a warning. It was ment Like:" women are good at manipulating."
So basically He does give "way too much" Credit. He was saying theyre good in Bad Things. You know?
'Some guys try to qualify themselves by overtly bragging about their success or the things they own, like a nice car...' No mention of your Corvette (or Lamborghini now) in this video 😉
Qualifying yourself is a tricky one. Being your mental point of origin helps stop that as you do not need to explain yourself to another person. Make your choices and own them.
If she talks about her ex/exes, kindly tell her you're not interested in hearing about them. If she doesn't respect that boundary, walk away.
Love your lesson and it’s the truth
I can forgive, but never forget.
Good vid thank you. 😁
#2 is very important
Thank you so much Komol tata
"What someone says about you says more about them than you..." Yeah! I can't believe I took so long to figure it out. What people say about you reveals the way they interpret people and life in general. People saying negative stuff are a total open book.
I've been doing all this now she broke up with me but now I'm a stronger and better version of me.... I've learned so much
I've always been a Beta Male all my life but you changed it. I'm always learning something everytime I watch your videos. I have realized that the reason why I'm miserable is because I am living like a Beta. Again thank you for changing my life. Strangers tease me everytime I go to a party, This is very timely. Thanks my CZcams Big Brother. I'm still being tease but I'm more aware now on what to do.
1 Thank you is enough. People aren't goldfish to forget your gratitude.
Tease back. Everyone has a valuable spot...even the most biggest and BADASS dude out there.
Don’t tease back. If someone says ‘you have a pimple as big as a tennis ball’ tell them ‘that’s great I love tennis’. Exagherate what someone says, instead of getting agry or fighting it. YOU GOT THIS.
@@lilwilj agree, it's best to show back that you're not affected but I think he already knows it when he said he is aware on what to do.
He watched different videos multiple times as you can tell from the multiple thank you's
Lmaoo this boi is still a beta
Thank you very much
You're supposed to qualify yourself and prove you're better than the rest.
*Thank you for changing my life,*
Make video on attractive masculine traits or traits women love in man
Always strive to be better!
Some things just ain't forgiveable no matter what fist is only used when necessary
exactly, choose your battle.
Well, I think the point stands. It is only hurtful to hold a grudge. You should emotionally forget that you've been wronged, whichever way it happened. But I don't think that you have to become good friends afterwards. You don't have to actually forget.
Never compromise your principles !!!
Love your channel! Just wondering what software you use for the hand-writing effect? I've seen it in a lot of CZcams videos lately...
Very cool!!!
Good stuff.
I like your animations.
Just watching these videos makes me think about everything I said and did made me realize how much mistake I've done already
Quality one's self. ... "he's a player? " too bad for him, if he keeps it up and be eventually alone
When being teased just say thank you for noticing. ..just nod head and really wow that's interesting or amazing
What is the name of the picture drawing for your videos? I want to start making CZcams videos like that but I don’t know the name.
"The best fish in their net" 😂
Sure
The best fish are not in their nets. Swim away, the net is not real. The net is Cerberus' chains. It is only real if you permit it to be real.
@@kitsinu1 exactly. Maybe getting old but a woman o reveals that kind of behaviour gets old fast.
I liked the video within the 1st minute of viewing it. This makes sense.
Brother hell yeah this is correct. I personally think the best trait a man can have is confidence and the ability to show a girl that he is interested in her, by being able to approach her anywhere he is. I believe you have the ability to be that person. I actually made a video on the 3 most effective ways of approaching girls (which is me picking up girls in the street) and i am sure that video will help you out
All of his videos always make sense.
I don't try holding grudges but it doesn't mean I trust you again on the same level I once gave you.
I counted three, not four. Besides, the content is becoming repetitive. What is wrong?
Congratulations for your 1 million subscribers!
Going 2M it's 1.8 already.
spy cube no it ain’t it’s 1.08m not 1.8m
@@K1scarcrazy correct!
Well done with the video, but... bro you forgot #3!
Ever since I put muscle on and showed it off on social media .. my inbox and requests have went off the map. So ignore the showing off muscles part. It works believe me
I'm not gunna lie to a girl if i want her to be attracted to me. Keep it real✋
Be yourself; Don’t do these things
It’s always a game of pong between these 2 ways of thinking, since they’re both correct
As a MAN, we should not have ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP with other MEN. Its a big no no bro!!!
WAit, where's my christiano ronaldo poster 😂😂😂
After the video, I watched an ad about ad-blocking.
1. It is now against the law to "confront a problem".
Yay a new video I hope this one is good.
Brother hell yeah this is correct. I personally think the best trait a man can have is confidence and the ability to show a girl that he is interested in her, by being able to approach her anywhere he is. I believe you have the ability to be that person. I actually made a video on the 3 most effective ways of approaching girls (which is me picking up girls in the street) and i am sure that video will help you out
@@savagewarrior5343 the thing is I am attracted to girls and girls r some what attracted to me but sometimes I don't get why chicks r so corny thy seem to dodge me even if I make my move I don't know sometimes I feel like maybe I am trying to hard or thy jus don't want to be in relationship but all I wish had is money and everything could have been great😅
Yeah, I've waited for this new one for 2 weeks. This video is a gift from heaven. He is a gift from heaven. It's Worth the wait.
@@lottomanalo2031ok but this video is so subjective doesnt click for me oh well it seems i will be an virgin forever then😅
@@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385 watch all his videos. I'm once bored and made a video marathon of all of his videos and that change my personality. I'm now a new person. Don't just take my word for it, try it yourself.
It's alright to say " stop getting mad when teased " but I usually find that the teasers can't take it back. It then becomes bullying!
Nice video, but there were only 3 things... Nr1 Nr2 and Nr4... Whoopsie!
......Never hold a grudge? Yeah, forget it & repeat the same mistake over & over - Women really like that.
Idk about the teasing part. Sometimes people will continue to tease you even though you don't get mad and will make you the butt of jokes until finally had enough and fire back
Drawing hand is distributing.
I found I copped a lot of crap at work as I worked full-time & studied at night. After graduation I rose several levels. I thought I could take revenge on the tormentors but I ignored them as I had tripled my income & this was my best revenge.
Woman: u are not attractive
Man: am a millionaire
Woman: can we hang out?
The funny thing about your comment is that they don't simply tell you that, rather they analyze and judge based on whatever, but a pro can see and mete out a basic gold digger.
Yes obviously true
Three out of four points make sense. "Getting mad when teased" does not. If you are being teased by a spouse or a close friend, then your tolerance to and enjoyment of teasing is already known and is either good or is known to be harassment. And as for people who don't know you? They assume that you can withstand teasing, which is as compassionate as accidentally spilling marbles and assuming everyone nearby saw the spill and is not blind. With PTSD (I have it) can come a tendency to flashbacks and worse.
No, don't tell me to get professional help: if you look at my uploads then you will find that my mental processes are very creative and productive.
Compassion toward people who differ from oneself includes being aware that they might not fit a pre-existing stereotype including being able to withstand teasing. Don't. Tease to distinguish the desirable from the undesirable, and you are claiming the right to upset people for your own convenience. I consider that claim an insult.
Testing people to determine whether they can be teased, meanwhile, is totally reasonable. If it works out, great! But making a false assumption is what I argue against here. Many people,, alas, do.
I beg to differ concerning women casting a net and culling out the piles;many cull out the good ones and worship the pile.
@James Jenkis but what attracts those women to those bad men like women beaters?
What app or software are you using to create these great videos of yours?
*THIS IS MY LIFE QUESTION AND I BADLY NEED AN ANSWER?*
I want to know why every young strangers that I meet call me Ma'am or Madam at the first meeting and then just treat me like we have the same age or disrespect me after getting to know me?
I once encountered a young cole who addressed my other younger coleague as his big sister and never take me seriously. He was always laugh at me everytime I'm around and makes fun of me for no reason. It happens to me a lot... Everytime I start to approach strangers especially the younger ones, the same thing happens.
Best way to be alpha, judge women on personality rather than their bodies. If she’s hot but sucks, drop her. If men did that, women wouldn’t get the privilege of judging the hell out of us when they themselves tend to suck as people.
But what if I qualify my self but just playing and at the end I say "nah nah just playing, really don't know" or similar?
holding a grudge is fine it is a mechanism to remember a bad judgment from a previous situation so it wont happen again
So be yourself.. unless you are someone that is forever alone.. so bottom line... just lie.. or you can just be yourself, be happy, and live life. Realize that if you have to do this much work.. there are other problems occurring.. there should be signs.
Girls love it when you lie, they know your full of shit but it Sounds cool!
YOU should work on being a better YOU for YOU... DO NOT concern yourself with what another PERSON wants AT ALL. Male or female should not be the focus. Put your thoughts towards the VALUES of a GOOD HUMAN BEING and things will become CLEAR. The answers are INTERNAL not external. The thought of changing who YOU are for another person is WEAK, If a person can’t accept your GOOD QUALITIES they don’t DESERVE YOU.
-Trust Me
Agreed
Where is the 3rd one? 🤔😄
Ehhhh grudge .... not wanting to be disrespected..... ( it’s true don’t react but, that’s doesn’t mean we going to hang out) the rest I agree with 1000000 do not qualify yourself !!!!
Dope
At @5:31, i almost forgot what you told before!
High value man rule #1: have a strongest personallity:
1. Never hold a grudge, if you have problem lets fix it, never avoid conflict
2. Stop getting mad when youre teased, instead of tease them back
3. Never gossip, stop talking bad things, critics abouy another person, its unattractive and also means that yiu have weak personallity which
4. Never be pick me guy, stop qualifying yourself, your value speaks itself.
If riches and bragging about yourself are your thing, keep doing that. Youll end up with whom you deserve.
So if a person catches himself qualifying himselg... what alternative do you suggest? Should your friend have said something like he dislikes those kind of guys? To keep him separate from that line of thinking
Don't try to tell me what to do. Period!
Okay, so what if I really like cats too am I trying to qualify myself..?
Never hold a grudge? Are you f-ing kidding me? Women have memories like elephants, as soon as they start loosing an argument they pull that card from their sleeve , What about that one time? Reminding you of something that happened t rd n years ago
It's a double standard they have.
Just tell them (oops, I forgot that it was sooo long ago 🤣)
Lmao that is true they never let go of the past
Why fight fire with fire
So you shouldn't play by their rules.
Not too sure about the last tip.
I feel like I'm seriously replying this to every Far From Average video: *Don't be needy!*
Is it time for a new subject? :)
The content from this channel is getting less strong I feel. Really hope he turns it around!
I'll edit this comment later... to write something useful
; )
Okay 🤔
I used to hold a grudge on my deskmate
God i hate that guy 😒
But i realize i only hated him for being a true man 😂
You forgot #3.
Impractical jokers fans where you at
what happened to number 3#?
Which one was #3?
you well say it
hey Julian what happened to the other channel "stronger men?"
The viewers were discouraging him by calling him nervous because he was shaking around, I Think. But dont take my word for it, this isnt a confident Statement.