How to Fall in Love Again

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  • čas přidán 24. 02. 2017
  • Without realizing it, we often give our best to a relationship when we are dating and pursuing each other. Even after years of marriage, you can be more passionate and in love than ever before.
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Komentáře • 121

  • @Freeduradura
    @Freeduradura Před 5 lety +57

    I am falling in love again after years of conflict and planning for a divorce. One simple thing work for me was I reopened my heart and asked what he wants from me. Then I promised to commit to that, and decided to heal all the hurts from the marriage and even his past life, then magic happened. When we marry someone we usually marry them for great reason and purpose. That what we need to remind ourselves. Love is beautiful and bigger than revenge, conflict or a need to be right. This and his others teaching helped me to open up my heart and to do the right thing. I am glad, otherwise my stuburn head would have destroyed the marriage.

    • @VanessaSimon26
      @VanessaSimon26 Před 5 lety +7

      Bel Dir I want to open my heart again and I want to love in love with my husband again. Years of him not being intimate has wounded me. He did not pursue me he only love his work and children. He is finally changing and taking testosterone. He is apologizing every chance he gets. I pray God opens my heart to love my husband. God please open my heart and fill my heart with love and joy. I pray that I get out now our this state of depression. Every single day I pray. Please pray for me. Thank you.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 Před 5 lety +4

      @ Bel dir
      " asked what he wants from me"
      The pride of those fake teachers is so huge that they rather use psychological tricks instead of telling it like it is :
      Wives , submit to your husband in everything .
      The key to solve any conflictual marriage .
      And of course , regular sex which is THE glue that holds any marriage together.
      All this is in the WORD OF GOD . No one needs those stupid seminars or DVDs . Obeying the Lord is what is required from his people .

    • @VanessaSimon26
      @VanessaSimon26 Před 5 lety +3

      Isabelle We heal through connecting with each other’s wounds. I think there is value in what others have been through. I have heard Jimmy and he makes great points. And relationship life coches are brilliant, because they are for the relationship to grow spirituality. God send us angels to help us and guide us. Yes there is a great reason why we marry the person we marry. God also wants us to be in peace and thrive. Both parties have to want to give to each other like Jesus have. But there is a time when one must say goodbye because if there is emotional abuse or physical abuse that is a deal breaker, especially when the abuser and absent partner is not willing to change. Responsibility is key!

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 Před 5 lety +3

      @@VanessaSimon26
      The "abuse" stuff is a huge feminist scourge coming from the pit of hell.
      Women today are unable to bear anything from a man of the same nature as her ? Why is it ?? Because plenty of women have been deceived by all the quacks like Evans and the rest into thinking they are more spiritual than men .
      Marriage has been turned into a romantic buffonery by all the "pastors" and counsellors pretending to heal what feminism has wrecked and it has been deprived of its sexual purpose , allowing Satan to WIN.
      There is now no difference between a pagan marriage and a Christian marriage.
      Hence the countless divorces that are screwing the whole Western world .
      Chritian marriage today is a sad joke and no longer a fortress against sexual temptations.
      Where in the Bible do you see "relationship life coaches" ? Allt hiose deceitful concepts are a product of our feminized (curse) societies . When husbands are the heads of their household as GOD wants it (but not quacks like Evans and the rest) , no one needs "coaches".
      They all do that in order to replace the authority of the husband .

    • @Vention1MGTOW
      @Vention1MGTOW Před 4 lety +4

      Women are their own worst enemies when it comes to relationships. You had it all and you blew it. Enjoy your cats.

  • @tammyabshear2067
    @tammyabshear2067 Před 6 lety +25

    I Thank the Lord for redeeming my love for my husband for making our marriage work again the way Jesus made it to be. I believe in faith that our marriage will be redeemed and we will love one another and walk in the fullness of God. In Jesus name. Amen!!!

  • @nola8504
    @nola8504 Před 4 lety +9

    Yes, marriage is an everyday thing, where you treat each other with the utmost respect and acts of love.

  • @Amescamlove
    @Amescamlove Před 3 lety +11

    Gives me hope. I’ve been with my husband since we were 19-20. 9 years later I’m having trouble being in love with him and have recently started giving all of my troubles to God and asking him for guidance thru this difficult time. I love him with my entire soul I don’t want to lose him. 🙏🏻❤️

    • @queenrose4076
      @queenrose4076 Před 3 lety

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring my husband back within two days....

    • @queenrose4076
      @queenrose4076 Před 3 lety

      Contact him on WhatsApp.....

    • @queenrose4076
      @queenrose4076 Před 3 lety

      + 2 3 4 8 1 2 1 2 5 2 3 4 2

    • @queenrose4076
      @queenrose4076 Před 3 lety

      His name is coach Dan

    • @cassiegardner7783
      @cassiegardner7783 Před 3 lety +1

      Im there with you 9 years later I too feel the same. Its so hard. I dont want to loose him either. Its painful but I want that victory story

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios Před 4 lety +16

    I’m praying God reconciles our marriage, my wife had an affair and I’m trying to save our marriage and family.. I love her so much this hurts so much

    • @mikefigueroa4075
      @mikefigueroa4075 Před 4 lety +5

      Same. I guess we just hang in there and learn. With God all things are possible.

    • @efthimios
      @efthimios Před 4 lety +4

      Mtvfig63 Videos what baffles me, is when the affair happens and you chose to forgive them- and they have the audacity to act like they didn’t do anything wrong and want to leave for affair partner ? It’s pathetic

    • @mikefigueroa4075
      @mikefigueroa4075 Před 4 lety +6

      @@efthimios Dude, you are in my prayers! Very similar feeling here. I choose to forgive and save marriage also. I run into similar walls of "audacity," too. Only good thing is this situation has made me examine myself and my faith. Trusting God in all this has been hard but rewarding. Still don't know how it will turn out, but I'm not going to give up without a fight!

    • @efthimios
      @efthimios Před 4 lety +6

      Mtvfig63 Videos God please help us, as you said lord when two or more are gathered in your name you are present. God please help reconcile our marriage and bless our wives. In Jesus name.
      I don’t want to lose our fsmily and share our daughter that kind of life is not what I want

    • @mikefigueroa4075
      @mikefigueroa4075 Před 4 lety +3

      @@efthimios thanks man.Let's keep praying. His word does not come back void. He is worthy. I am learning so much. praise be to Him. You are in my prayers also.

  • @conniekinman6370
    @conniekinman6370 Před 3 lety +3

    So, great! For my relationship now & my future husband Greg. I hope he is watching this. Bless his ministry.

  • @lisacarle1686
    @lisacarle1686 Před 3 lety +3

    Unresolved hurt & painful loneliness is what my marriage has become. Praying that many marriages & families will find healing & reconciliation & the Lord will turn brokenness into blessings! Praying that many marriages will be saved through the love of Jesus, including mine. God bless.

  • @jodyferreira3347
    @jodyferreira3347 Před 4 lety +4

    I listen to Jimmy and Karen everyday. Life changing. Feel blessed for your teachings

  • @djpotpourre10
    @djpotpourre10 Před 7 lety +45

    These sermons are so awesome and I think all couples should listen to these. God will transform through them!!

    • @rem2510
      @rem2510 Před 6 lety +1

      Lovely Video clip! Forgive me for the intrusion, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you tried - Saankramer Love Trick System (do a google search)? It is a great one off guide for falling in love with an amazing partner without the hard work. Ive heard some incredible things about it and my buddy after a lifetime of fighting got great success with it.

    • @natasaceko9615
      @natasaceko9615 Před 6 lety +1

      Cheers for the Video! Sorry for chiming in, I would love your opinion. Have you considered - Saankramer Love Trick System (just google it)? It is a smashing one off product for falling in love with an amazing partner without the headache. Ive heard some super things about it and my work colleague after a lifetime of fighting got excellent results with it.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 Před 5 lety +1

      @ Taleia Thomas
      Except that there are not godly inspired because love is not the purpose of marriage ! The purpose of marriage is sexual as 1 Corinthians clearly states it .
      If we were not sexual , we would not need marriage. If marriage was about love , then David would have married Jonathan since he loved him as his soul .

  • @tammiewcade2652
    @tammiewcade2652 Před 4 lety +3

    On this day, I was looking for a reason to stay in my relationship. I am willing to try because I love this man. I can not afford to contribute at this time but I will not forget you when I am in a better place financially.

  • @allisonb.8492
    @allisonb.8492 Před 7 lety +12

    Love Jimmy Evans! Marriage Today has changed my life!

  • @nataliasolakian6717
    @nataliasolakian6717 Před 4 lety +4

    Thank you, Pastor!!! God's agape love is permanent 🌸💗🐇🌱

  • @Joyadannaoui
    @Joyadannaoui Před 3 lety +2

    Hallelujah,hallelujah,hallelujah,
    May the lord bless you Pastor Jimmy Evans 🙏🙏🙏

  • @charlotteg8688
    @charlotteg8688 Před 6 lety +9

    Thank you and God bless you always 🙏🏾

  • @ashleyperkins2711
    @ashleyperkins2711 Před 6 lety +8

    I was very blessed by this sermon.

  • @michellemichelle9513
    @michellemichelle9513 Před 5 lety +7

    It would be so wonderful if your videos had subtitles in many languages, some of them korean, chinese, Japanese , spanish, french, and many more please ✝️😊😄👍👍👍👍

  • @ericjones5905
    @ericjones5905 Před 7 lety +4

    amen Jimmy evans I love these messages

  • @c.j.9248
    @c.j.9248 Před 6 lety +22

    Praying that some day my wife will fall in love with me again. Can only pray....

    • @xin2yu976
      @xin2yu976 Před 6 lety

      C.J. Gish something happened? i wonder why feelings change...

  • @MrTimLee84
    @MrTimLee84 Před 7 lety +6

    great teaching

  • @estig.1798
    @estig.1798 Před 6 lety +3

    Love this channel!
    GOD BLESS YOU!!!!

  • @giselbello-ruiz8072
    @giselbello-ruiz8072 Před 5 lety +2

    Great advice 😊

  • @EnlightenedHeart01
    @EnlightenedHeart01 Před 7 lety +7

    I just want to say I love your video's.
    You give excellent advice for those who are married and those that are going to be married.
    However at 7:55 You say high goals and high work ethics.
    Are you implying money wise when it comes to marriage because if you are I disagree.
    You don't have to make over 60,000 dollars or more to have happy marriage.
    There are many middle class or poor people who are happily married and in love and they stay married and they stay in love.
    However if you are saying high goals and high work ethics in terms of always communicating with your spouse always talking to each other to sort stuff and working together as a team to keep the marriage alive and going then I agree.

  • @enyakuanita3477
    @enyakuanita3477 Před 4 lety

    God bless you

  • @bendoingthing
    @bendoingthing Před 5 lety +1

    I'm not religious. I'm a mixture of Jewish, and catholic heritage, but I agree with what they said

  • @zalimasinclair3795
    @zalimasinclair3795 Před 7 lety +4

    great teaching for all couples, thanks for sharing your experiences. God bless your ministry

  • @charlesburkins4558
    @charlesburkins4558 Před 3 lety +2

    Please put out as much new content that you can because i made a mistake in my marriage an i am ashamed of myself so idk what else to do but pray and pray that god give me the awnser:(

    • @queenrose4076
      @queenrose4076 Před 3 lety

      I can recommend you to a man who can help you in this situation.... Contact him on WhatsApp.... + 2 3 4 8 1 2 1 2 5 2 3 4 2..his name is coach Dan....

  • @Katanyaking2001
    @Katanyaking2001 Před 7 lety +5

    I love your sermons

  • @leannefaulkner-charve6910

    That’s beautiful

  • @1ZAMOT
    @1ZAMOT Před 5 lety +6

    Pastor, is there somewhere I can speak to you privately. I'm in a desperate situation.

  • @mariaaguirre5645
    @mariaaguirre5645 Před 6 lety +7

    I'm divorced. Many years. But listen to these truths. Everyone needs to know this ar an early age.

    • @jonrayborn1371
      @jonrayborn1371 Před 4 lety

      Hi

    • @eltonbrown444
      @eltonbrown444 Před rokem

      You have done nothing wrong ok dear ! There always a new ahead ok🎉 merry Christmas 🎁🎄 from Elton

  • @nicolettemoore7711
    @nicolettemoore7711 Před rokem

    Wake up every morning and have emotions just not always loving emotions 😂

  • @florencenavhaya6465
    @florencenavhaya6465 Před 6 lety +1

    Only seeing year old sermons. Are you still broadcasting?

  • @lexaneli
    @lexaneli Před 2 lety

    I just wish more men would think like that. Thankfully I came across this pastor who is now added to my list of favourite pastors:
    Myles Munroe
    Joyce Meyer
    Joel Osteen
    T D Jake's
    Creflo Dollar
    Rick Warren
    Now, Jimmy Evans
    I am blessed to have their life changing messages through God's words!

  • @deniseramirez1663
    @deniseramirez1663 Před 7 lety +9

    I wish these massges would be available in Spanish.

  • @nataliasolakian6717
    @nataliasolakian6717 Před 4 lety

    "The horse whisperer", LOL! 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😅

  • @cupids7107
    @cupids7107 Před 2 lety

    I love this man and I want to stay with him till the very end and I want to have God in our relationship because from what I know is that you can do anything with Jesus who strengthens

  • @jennifergrimaldo904
    @jennifergrimaldo904 Před rokem

    Can this be applied to a boyfriend and girlfriend/ engaged people?

  • @keeplearning5441
    @keeplearning5441 Před 6 lety +3

    What does one do when a husband puts career first but says he doesn't. He proceeds to travel and use his job and sitiations as excuses to do things he wouldn't normally do, such as travel with men n women without spouses. Help.

    • @keeplearning5441
      @keeplearning5441 Před 6 lety +1

      Also has done some things to cause some mistrust. Not an affair but went to an ungodly place saying someone elsw was driving...not wanting me to find out...Other times has strangely not telling me where he was going when led me to believe a different location as he was talking to me on the way. We are generally very close, but a lot has been causing issues.

    • @keeplearning5441
      @keeplearning5441 Před 6 lety +1

      And we've been married close to 30 years.

    • @Freeduradura
      @Freeduradura Před 5 lety +2

      KeepLearning I would say continue to show him love while expressing your concern and feeling with respect. Give it a time, study your husband, if you know him well and confident he loves you, continue the love, if not move to the next stage and discuss with him. If he cares he will come back to you.

    • @sunshineannamcpherson3500
      @sunshineannamcpherson3500 Před 5 lety +2

      @@Freeduradura I pray for recovery and restoration in your marriage, but I was close to tears when I read what you wrote. Why? I was married to a godly man (so I thought) for almost 30 years. Due to ministry promotion, he totally forgot me. I tried to get him to see what was happening but he only wanted to go preach, and spend hours at church. Besides he also worked at the church. It got to a point where I couldn't take the rejection anymore and got involved in an affair. We are apart for about four years now, but I cannot say I missed by husband because of all the hurt I experienced. I am happy in Jesus and enjoying my single life and spending time with my children and grandchildren. I hope to remarry, but until then, I remain walking by faith and not by sight.

  • @nkosanam1583
    @nkosanam1583 Před 6 měsíci

    Points don't accumulate😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @gusmachicado5706
    @gusmachicado5706 Před 5 lety +1

    Wish my wife and I saw this earlier. Now only I see it. My wife divorced me 2 months ago but left me 2 weeks ago. Now heartbroken and just all I can do is pray. Her phone, family, and social media took her from me. Don't know if I will ever love anyone else like I loved my ex wife.

    • @TheOilers41
      @TheOilers41 Před 5 lety +4

      Gustavo Machicado,have hope brother. Just because your divorced doesn’t mean your marriage can’t be reconciled. I suggest keep watching Mr.Evans videos and can I suggest The BTG Movement. They are a couple who were divorced for 3 years and God brought them together and remarried. Be strengthened through Our Lord Jesus Christ. God Bless.

    • @efthimios
      @efthimios Před 4 lety

      I feel the same way if my wife leaves me I don’t feel like I can love another woman the same way

  • @bellaklodowski4019
    @bellaklodowski4019 Před rokem

    How do I save my marriage when I’m trying and the other person isn’t

  • @violetharprashad9805
    @violetharprashad9805 Před 4 lety +3

    I need prayers, my marriage is falling apart, right now my husband send me Divorce mail, I begged him over and over please forgive me and give me one last chance to work on our marriage, it was just misunderstanding we had, and we handle it wrong, I asked him to forgive me I took all the blamed but he said no it’s final, he wants a divorce, I’m sorry and I pray god will touch his heart and restore our marriage, before we reach out court day, I love him, he’s move out of our house, I need prayers please🙏❤️

  • @BettyJC2010
    @BettyJC2010 Před 3 lety

    Do u ever use scripture in your teachings, or am i missing it

  • @laragreene8328
    @laragreene8328 Před 4 lety

    Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her Ephesians 5:25 Can you imagine how much love that is!!!!

  • @darrendickson310
    @darrendickson310 Před 3 lety

    God, where are you? I’m so done. I’m going through the motions and it’s killing me

  • @rickhackler2664
    @rickhackler2664 Před 4 lety

    Them lady’s are crazy down there think I now why they got deviorised

  • @thim0
    @thim0 Před 7 lety +11

    As an atheist, life advice involving God immediately loses some credibility, because we perceive it as bias. It's good advice though, and I'm very thankful I found this video.

    • @Flickchaser
      @Flickchaser Před 7 lety +12

      Thierry Muller: ACHTUNG! CUIDADO! :-) Careful Thierry, you might slip and fall in love with Christ like the rest of us. :-) That's what happened to me years ago, a former unbeliever. Ironic that so many Christian sites gain visits and comments from those who state they are atheist. Perhaps something is tugging on your heart?. As a cold hearted dude I ran from God for years with my genius sham intellect, pseudo phraseology, stolen,imbibed arguments, pride that would put Mt. Everest to shame. Then every area of my life became unraveled. I ended up in the high desert of CA. away from it all..or so I thought. Walking one day in the desert, smug in my conceit that I had outsmarted and escaped God, I saw a small sign beside a dusty trail.."If you and I meet and you forget me, you've lost nothing. If you and Jesus meet and you forget him, you have lost everything." Later I gave my life to Christ. Had I have known His care, protection and provision, healing,emotional and physical I could have saved so much time and grief. He will never force His way into a human heart. But to those who invite Him in.."behold all things are become new".

    • @luxeprivae5568
      @luxeprivae5568 Před 7 lety +5

      Thanks for stopping by. Yes, it is good advice.

    • @ST4RF0X_384
      @ST4RF0X_384 Před 7 lety +6

      Here you are listening to all 27 minutes of this video. God brought you here. We are programmed to seek God.

    • @teannaabraham9090
      @teannaabraham9090 Před 6 lety +5

      My heart cries out In praise for your testimony Flick! I am so happy you have found Him. That thing called FREE WILL baffles many. Including a believer like myself. Sometimes I wish I didn't have FREE WILL. And that God would make every decision for me. But! I am reminded He has made all of my decisions. It is I who chooses not to follow them. Thank you for your words. May they trickle deep down in Thierry as they have with me. God Bless you My Brother.

    • @luxeprivae5568
      @luxeprivae5568 Před 6 lety +1

      There is no such thing as free will.(Romans 8:20 For the creature was made subject to vanity, not willingly, but by reason of him who hath subjected the same in hope.) There are many, many things people don't have a choice in......Its called circumstances... That is one of the biggest myths along with many others such as original sin...Do people make choices? Yes. Are they free from causality? Nope. If you call yourself a "christian" then you know that God came before ANYTHING and is the Lawgiver(the CAUSE of EVERYTHING in the universe) Is it in the bible that Adam sinned? Yup. Am I accountable/liable for the sins of an ancient man written about named Adam? Absolutely not. BTW sin merely means breaking the law, being a lawbreaker. There in lies the problem. People are responsible for their own actions. We chose good, bad, and some neutral decisions. We don't always break the Law. So when discussing objectively its imperative to look at all sides of the Christian Coin and not just the "im a piece of crap needing a savior spiel purporting to be the gospel." It is written that mankind was made upright and in Gods image. (See gen 1:26,27 Ecc 7:29).
      hope that helps

  • @EadsB7002
    @EadsB7002 Před 4 lety

    What if you were never “in love” to begin with? But you married them more so for the good person they were/are. Really confused and struggling. This has led to a lack of a romantic relationship/intimacy and I feel guilty in a sense that maybe I married for the wrong reasons. Our life isn’t terrible, but it is more like a friendship than a marriage/relationship. I have found that I am yearning for more and don’t believe It can happen with the person I’m with, sadly.
    Now, most of the time I feel like the best thing to do is just try to part amicably &move on. 😔

    • @EadsB7002
      @EadsB7002 Před 4 lety

      In order to give us both a chance to find true love and fall in love with someone who can fully reciprocate

    • @peterjones7617
      @peterjones7617 Před 3 lety +3

      You’re married, suck it up and live with it.

    • @linadimitriu6616
      @linadimitriu6616 Před rokem

      Hi dear, how are you doing with relation now? i am in the same emotions like you and i have no idea how to deal with this after so many years of relationship. I wish i had a answer, i wish god gift me that love for him and keep my marriage happy. We are the best friends together but that just all, no romantic, no feelings and no intimicy...

  • @greatscot9597
    @greatscot9597 Před 2 lety

    All these marriage videos are great, but they seem to assume that both parties are willing to actually try to fix the problems, what do I do when my wife says she's a believer, but she won't try?

  • @airplane800
    @airplane800 Před 6 lety

    I've been observing youth groups, college groups, and single's groups in churches for many years, There is no difference with non Christian groups. It is all about the popular, the handsome and the rich. The values inside churches are the same values preached by Hollywood. Many people in churches marry incompatible people and than they need lots of lecture and sermons to try to fix something that was done wrong from the beginning. Jimmy are not honest to tell people that they married for the wrong reasons with incompatible people.

  • @middleofnowhere8320
    @middleofnowhere8320 Před 4 lety

    Good cohabitation between the spouses: marital life is based on the bond of love and intimacy, and tranquility and affection, the Almighty said: (It is that He created for you mates from among yourselves to find repose in them and put between you affection and mercy in this are Signs for those who reflect) [Ar-Rum: 21]. Consultation and cooperation in the responsibilities of the home: including the upbringing of children, was the beloved Mustafa says: (Your good is good for his family and I am good for my family) Honoring the family of the husband or wife. Satisfaction and conviction: and that satisfaction with the existing and not to look at the smallest and unimportant. Ijtihad together to maintain obedience and worship.
    I bear witness that there is no God but Allah and I bear witness that Muhammad is the Messenger of God.

  • @David_Goman
    @David_Goman Před 2 lety

    Why doesn't Jesus just come be King? Wonder why he wanted to have pastors and teachers and stuff before he came. I guess we'll be kings and priests, even when he's ruling. Huh