He just knows he can take advantage of TikTok idiots easily and get thier money. And use others channels for advertising. He is a smart business man for sure. And to be a kickboxer in any competition tells you he isn't your average tim tok soy boy. I don't stand behind him 100% or anything but he knew how easy it would be to get alot of these pitiful young men's money and tbh if they are stupid enough to give thier money to a influencer they need to be taken advantage of.
As a Romanian woman, the fact that he moved to Romania to take advantage of the corruption here and of the harmful mentalities regarding the abuse of women disgusts me to no end. Great analysis, very insightful and entertaining!
When used as entertainment, TikTok is ridiculously funny. Tate is giving false hope to the socially awkward and at the same time marketing to and profiting from them. My heart goes out to young folk that looks to social media for validation/guidance. It allows charlatons easier branding of their "snake oil". Anyway...I couldn't click fast enough when this vid popped up. Careful there, Dr. Grande...you might just have changed the pronunciation of "TikTok"
Tate told that Dianne woman on their date that he wears the sunglasses indoors because of detached retina problems he has from kick boxing.fights. he said the brightness of the lights hurts his eyes.
@Dsmv Yes but that is a cause of low self-esteem. You can't, won't, or don't do anything to actually be proud of yourself and so become empty as you put it. The impulsive and negligent reaction, is to seek validation externally. That's the basis of an external locus of identity and a fundamental component of the narcissistic personality. Basically if you can't find justification to be proud of yourself, you might pretend, instead that you should and desperately seek others, to confirm the defence of your degenerate egotistical over compensation.
These men calling themselves “alpha” reminds me of a paraphrase of the Margaret Thatcher quote: “Power is like being a lady… if you have to tell people you are, you aren’t.”
100% accurate. Thus guy is so visibly insecure. And he is def a leach and a grifter. If you have to boast about something, then you are projecting insecurities.
Yup. The more you have, the less you need to show it. The psychoanalyst Otto Kernberg believed that narcissism was essentially a coping mechanism for an underlying borderline type personality. Quite possibly right.
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone
A needed one in this day and age though quite clearly. Thus him being the most Googled man on planet. Like or dislike what he says all you want, but clearly lots of people want to hear it. Ask yourself why. I say this as someone who isn't some huge fan of a lot of the things Tate says.
@@dave9547 He has a mass following of incels. His audience speaks for itself. What is needed right now is real examples of healthy masculinity. Nothing this guy says is healthy. He has found a following in insecure, egotistical men who blame women for everything wrong with themselves rather than focusing on healthy self-reflection and growth. I spent some time reading comments on his posts and it's all from men who show no signs of accountability and responsibility for their own lives. Just a bunch of blame and victimhood.
You know what a real “alpha male” does? Spends time with his kids. Treats his wife like the incredible human she is. Is kind to everyone they encounter no matter what they look or act like.
@@sativarosegold3604 I think what he saying is that a true Alpha male is a healthy masculine man.. such a man likely would not stay with a terrible woman (he would probably try to make the relationship work, but leave if there is no change because that is what is healthiest for the children) 🤷🏼♀️ Correct me if I’m wrong 🙆🏼♀️
I always thought that no one could take Andrew Tate seriously, but I had to have a conversation w/ my friend's 14 year old son that "no, you really don't want to look up to this guy. He literally moved to Romania so he could get away with sex trafficking..." and, MAN, was that conversation depressing.
There’s no proof he is a sex trafficker. Tate bangs tons of women and women love him. Don’t destroy your sons masculinity or he will become a male feminist=incel
This is my favorite video you've ever shared here, Dr. Grande! Not only is your humor and witty sarcasm absolutely hilarious, but you touch on several pertinent points that really outline how ironic/contradictory the concept of being an "alpha male" is! Thank-you so much for uploading this. I'm so happy to be a longterm subscriber of your channel, tour videos somehow only continue getting better! I don't believe in self-appointed "alpha males" but if alpha males do actually exist, I'd have to say that the way you explained this was absolutely alpha 😂 I can't get enough of your videos & we appreciate your channel so much :)
@@ToyotaGuy1971 I don't need to be educated about cars. I'm happy that I'm educated enough to recognize arrogance, toxicity and that actually comes from a lot of insecurity.
@@ToyotaGuy1971 🤦♂️comes in claiming Alpha goes out arguing Toyota make a good car 😂 the Internet cracks me up, and don't think we don't know which ALPHA is generating that one like 😅😅
TRUE "Alpha's", don't need to toot their own horn. A True "Alpha" is not going to go around claiming to be an Alpha. That's the first sign that he's not an Alpha. A True "Alpha", knows how to assert authority/dominance/masculinity, without announcing his position/status, & without being toxic. They know how to be humble yet confident. Exalting oneself over others IS Narcissistic, & a sign of great insecurity, & a huge ego. But all that said - A Sigma is preferable to me anyway. They are everything a True Alpha is, but more introverted, & value one on one interaction. They are deep thinkers, who spend more time observing & analyzing human behavior, posture, & body language. So they become really skilled at reading people.
Watched at least 60 hours of Andrew Tate materials, long form podcasts. The selective information brought in this video is a misrepresentation and unprofessional. Do your own research and will find also good things about Tate👍🏼
For a long time I thought he was a comedian. A fictional character created as a send up of a sexist man. I was so wrong. I cant beleive hes actually like this.
The first time I saw it I thought it was a parody. Until I saw that video of that girl on the podcast fuckin dragggggg his ass. It’s so amusing to me that anyone would believe that shit works, but I guess with like literal teenagers and such it makes some sense. Still though lol
A lot of it is a character for social media, some of his beliefs are ingrained but he’s so over the top with his delivery that it enrages people who only deal with their emotions and not their thoughts.
I think Andrew Tate does actually know what a trillionaire is (I'm at the point in the video where Dr Todd is saying he probably doesn't), and I'm pretty sure he'd be good at Maths, at least at a basic level. I think he knows that most people are daft when it comes to numbers. The more daft, materialistic and superficial they are, the more they're impressed by rich men. Both men and women! But yh I believe he's highly narcissistic and Dr Grande's quote was a nice one lol.
The first time I ever watched an Andrew Tate TikTok I gave it a like because I thought it was obvious satire and he was just parodying and making fun of alpha males. I was absolutely baffled to find out that he was actually being 100% serious
Yes, most men are weak feminist simp. I thought it was a satire too. But Tate is not a feminist simp. Sometimes he is hard with women and I don't like his friendly view on Islam but... Nobody is perfect.
@@trifulquita15 "Hard with women" is a heck of a way to downplay someone who thinks that women are inferior, they are property, it's ok to cheat on them, its ok to beat them as a form of "discipline", if they are r *ped it's their fault, etc. Anyway how does treating women as anything other than s e x objects and showing even a shred of respect and basic human decency towards them make one a "weak feminist simp"? I mean if it does then shame on anyone who isn't a weak feminist simp lmao
@@trifulquita15 He is funny..... if you're a child and your sense of humor is people yelling into a camera and saying bad words lol. Fr watching a Tate vid is like watching a baby sensory video, he has to scream to keep his audiences attention 😂
I'm confused, I didn't think Andrew Tate and Dan Bilzerian etc were what was considered to be alpha males? To me they seem insecure about themselves, and are too weak to face their emotions but would rather be immature and hurt other people to feel powerful.
Nothing to be confused about. "Alpha male" is not a defined term, it's hence not used in any human research. The term stems from animal pack studies (wolves) in capture, that later when compared to findings in freedom, did not hold up scientifically at all. The term has won mainstream use, but has no merit.
@@AshleighCarter5100 I didn't think so but I'm not sure. I thought they were confident but relatively silent achievers. These guys sound more like immature overt narcissists who are trying to embody toxic masculinity. I thought alphas were genuinely adored for their strength of character, good judgement and ability to provide and protect their partner. I might be wrong, but these tantrum, insecure boy-children do not at all seem the peak of masculinity. The only world in which I thought they were alpha, was in their own words only.
They're alpha males in the same way Donald Trump is an alpha male. They're screamingly insecure men with poor social skills and low self esteem who try to compensate with money and sexual assault.
Also, Keanu Reeves is probably the closest thing to an 'alpha' male that i can think of. Heart, brain and respect to others is the only thing u need imo.
Oh my, I've never seen someone pointing with such precision and foundation Tate's flaws (which is interesting considering how many people know he is an asshole), and Dr. Grande does it with so much grace and yet unnerved pase, it really breaks this "super villain" out of the fantasy constructed around him. Like Dr. Grande says: he is just taking advantage from narcissistic impressionable young men and constructing his wealth out of it.
this docter is a (Duplicater Personality Character)DPC is a programed(indoctrinated) human (NPC in online game), they only mimicking other people's emotions,,they can't change what they knew or believe, and they can't answer what they don't know, he can be good in chess or memorizing the Quran, they can only accept the first things that they learn, and will never accept other opinion,, so if someone teach bad things to this people then they will always do bad things and vice versa ,,if evil DPC lead a country so beaware of the distructions,injustice, crime etc
@@selaluoposisisiapapunpresi7982 Too much comas and erratic believes. Andrew Tate leaves people ignorant and in a cult like mentality. I bet you paid for hustlers university courses.
Most women do. These guys pay for sex and have to pay the women you see them posing with. The only women these men have access to are prostitutes/escorts
I had already seen videos about this fellow on a couple of my other fave CZcams channels. I was overjoyed to see that Dr Grande had done a video on him and it was all I could have hoped for!
He not alpha,he is a cowards who uses non critical skills. He certainly doesn't do it for me, whether rich or poor. Thank you Dr Grande Brilliant analysis and great topic.
@@djourknows_3496 He does to a degree but he’s so over-the-top that he ruins it with a lot of miss information. Young men would be better following Kevin Samuels, or Jordan Peterson, people like that that hold men equally accountable not a blow hard like these Andrew Tate types.
@@yungcrispy6566 maybe who knows but if he acts the way he acts in those videos in prison that shit is not gonna fly he’ll get smashed off the yard that’s not gonna work and all the MMA skills he has are not gonna help when he pulls that shit with a seasoned convict
Do these men not understand how absolutely unattractive they make themselves by behaving like this? I mean it's obvious they are extremely unintelligent but instead of covering their stupidity they even build their whole persona around it.
I was a virgin until I was 23. I was not able to attract a sexual partner until I got really good at lying. From my experience, women tend to find lying toxic men like Andrew Tate quite attractive.
@@celesteshenas2155 that is a myth. Mpb is mostly genetic. Also if he has a lot of excess testosterone, then there's a good chance he's shooting blanks.
I hate the man but he doesn’t actually have an account. His underlings promote him free of charge Objectively that is more alpha then not having any presence whatsoever
@@BrokenProphet32 The funniest of all though is how the black and white thinking is so prevalent in these so called alpha males. They think that just because a woman isnt a ten another person isn't genuinely gonna find her a ten, and that could not be rare either.
Great video! This is the only video I’ve seen that addresses the problem (I’m sure there are journals/essays out there, but your videos are so easily digestible and enjoyable to listen to). It’s concerning how these views are circulated among communities online. But, your casual roasts are gold, Dr. Grande!
@@RR-et6zp I mean...sure my guy. Try not to confuse the laws of attraction with misogyny. For every guy that feels scorned there's a female who feels the same. Be a good person & find what works for you. If not, everyone will see the "who hurt you" quite easily.
@@mopnem Do you even know what that word means? It means the hatred of women, and misandry the hatred of men. No one hates anyone. Reality is sexist because we have different biological instincts in mate selection, hence a different experience, different pros and cons. We're also hardwired differently (women prioritise feelings / emotion, the context, not content information like with us). Also, you cannot separate responsibility and authority in life + no one hurt me, thats a typical female shaming tactic because you dont have logical factual argument
He's like the only psychiatrist who has actually helped with my anxiety. And he's not even trying, he's just dry roasting dudes on a playlist in his calm, reasoned voice, that helps me fall asleep.
@@dishonoredundead Woah....he's not a Psychiatrist. Read his about section. I'm sure he fools a lot of people making it look like he's a psychiatrist but he's not.
@@wildechild5 he may not be a psychiatrist but he still helps people who do have real problems don’t just dismiss it because it’s not on a resumé I’m sure he’s learnt a lot over the years from colleagues that are psychiatrists
@@brianwhite8593 my point still stands he's still not a psychiatrist I don't care how much he's learned from his colleagues that took the time to get the education to be a psychiatrist.
If an alien lizard humanoid asked me for the definition of an ugly human being, I’d show them a picture of Andrew Hate; if the same being asked for the definition of a beautiful human being, I’d send them a link to Dr Grande.
There is a subset of young men out there that are mentally, emotionally and spiritually lost and are desperate for a leader to show them a way out of the existential rut that their life has become. Guys like Tate prey on these insecurities and occasionally will hit upon a grain of truth; all the more to convince these downtrodden youngsters that they have no other option to become content. In fairness, I can say from personal experience that society at large tends to not only push aside certain men of a certain age/income/mindset, but will also deceptively saddle them with being responsible for socio-political ills and events (society needs scapegoats, and young men fit virtually every 'bad guy' role convenient to any given situation). Inevitably this causes a victim mentality in young men and leads to depression and a host of other problems. I do wish this issue could have more serious consideration, but there seems to be a dismissive attitude regarding it.
I hear you. Unfortunately, societies generalize about many different groups. One way to minimize this is to live and behave in defiance of the Scapegoating.
People like Andrew Tate will never go away and will continue to gain traction because of that exactly. Nobody wants to actually help men who need it, and will actively vilify and shun them. And then wonder why they hate the world and the people in it.
@@9000Dogs I think a lot of young men are feeling that way right now. Men need to turn away from listening to the alpha male BS that instructs them to man up. The strongest thing people can do right now is develop their own agency and their own good character. Much needed change comes out of that. In order to work toward that aim, guys might need to talk to a mental health professional. This is a true show of strength. Last thing. Men probably need to stop watching and listening to content that’s making them feel angry, ostracized and judged. This is manufactured feedback-looped content that makes the content creators rich. And it’s all pretty much BS. Women aren’t the enemy. They just aren’t. Don’t make the mistake of attaching your normal human desires, emotions and understandable grievances onto some common enemy.
The whole way we socialise men is wrong. On the one hand we infantilise and indulge them, then repress them emotionally (telling them that anger is the only emotion that's allowed), and then expect them to be emotional and social punch bags whose role it is to "take one for the team". We have ended up with a lot of emotionally stunted, mixed up young men as a result.
@@ImSimplyAHuman its essentially the ""alpha"" male bs sold in new packaging. "Sigma" males are suppossed to be more independent, dont care about heirarchies, blah blah blah. As far as I can tell, its yet another form of men trying to manipulate other more vulnerable men into buying into some dumb idealogy so theyll buy their shit. Not very signma ironically. Also yes Dr Grande is true alpha 😂
For all their showing off and desperation to seemingly acquire women, this ilk seem to not like women much…makes us wonder whose approval it is they’re truly seeking. Remember to call your mother ♥️ 🌵 Great as always Dr Grande
Well, they do like women, but not in healthy ways. They want women to sexually serve them, to obey their every command, and to let themselves be dominated by them, but they don’t want to put in any work to treat women like fully developed human beings that are worthy of respect. They want to have lots of good things without putting in ANY real work to get them, even the relatively small amount of work that it takes to be a good, respectful human being.
I have a theory that these dudes disrespect women so much because they see parts about themselves that they don't like in women. I've seen dudes get so emotional (anger is an emotion) when they talk about how emotional women are lol
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone
Thanks Doctor Grande for making my night shifts at the hospital bearable on slow nights! Was glad to see your analysis on this guy finally. All of my coworkers look forward to your videos every night when the floor is quiet.
It's a scam. And it's unfortunate that a lot of young men are buying Tate's bs. I can't say I'm sorry to see his fall from disgrace,...sooner rather than later.
If there were such a thing as an alpha male, it would be someone with leadership qualities that are generous and helpful to those they lead - not some self absorbed Andrew Tate knock off.
And thats the traditional masculanity thats idolised everywhere. In no traditional society (especially the eastern, which he says are idealistic) is a man allowed to cat call a woman. Its considered disrespect to woman and her family. If you like a woman... marry her. Thats it. Nothing else. 😅 and the arranged marriages go a step furthur... your parents decide who you will marry. Whether you are a man or woman.
I refuse to watch anything about this guy and scroll past any clips I see of him on social media. This is the only time purely because I will watch anything Dr. Grande puts out.
@@sungukyun2608 It's specifically about Andrew Tate which is reasonable because one should avoid watching provocative media. Andrew Tate is not educational and doesn't believe in what he puts out. Dr. Grande on the other hand is educational and relatively trustworthy.
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone
Your brand of shade is my favorite; calm and smooth but dry and blistering like a lazy river running through Death Valley. Thank you for making my quick break delightful.
the whole idea of "alpha males" in humans is an enormous misunderstanding weak men have adopted to signal masculinity they lack. Alpha males in other animals are not at all domineering weak-willed, socially awkward latent gays who mistreat women despite what these men think. The few species that have alphas show that in most cases alpha males are cooperative with females and "lower" ranked males and others, they do not show off agression, they are definitely not the dominant gene-deliverers and most succesful fertilizers they are imagined to be, and research shows that their genes are underrepresented rather than dominantly present, which suggests that alpha male behaviour is not a winning strategy for the individual's genes, but rather A VEHICLE TO HELP THE OTHERS propagate the less-excessive traits that are necessary for a group of animals to survive. . .
A good comment. It should be noted that real masculine men never refer to themselves as Alpha. They--and everyone else-- know very well who they are and don't need a label.
My Dad had a term that applied to this type of guy: Punk. It’s an old fashioned term, but I believe it is as descriptive and relevant now as it was in my Dad’s day. 😃👍🏻
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone
As a once impressionable young man, I’m afraid that this guy is going to steer many boys into behavior that will - at best - ruin their reputation in social circles and at worst, land them in jail.
Anybody who ends up in jail over a guy online probably deserves to be there. That takes a special kind of foolish. As for ruined reputation, well, that depends on their circle, or whose opinion they actually care about.
I want to share with you that I find your videos so entertaining ! Comedic I may say. The themes you speak about are serious and I love the lack of straightforward emotion. I love comedy and its very good material in that way as well as being informative.
Yesss all of the above. He’s my fave mental health professional on CZcams for these very reasons!! It all melts together into such an entertaining experience.
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone
I've always thought the concept of alpha male as corny. To equate my human interactions to those of a dog or a chimpanzee, cheapens and oversimplifies the scope of my Human Experience.
To equate dog or chimpanzee interactions to an "Alpha Male", cheapens and oversimplifies the canine and primate experience. (Very easy joke, but had to do it:P )
It's also incorrect. Alpha males in apes are gentle, their main goal being peacekeepers. They don't gain support of older and younger apes by intimidation
@@katiePetsy Gentle? Go and try to hug one of it's young go see how gentle it is. Apes are brutal af lol and it's not so much that they are peacekeepers as it is that they are simply leaders and protectors, because even nature knows women aren't good at that shit. 😂😂
Dr. Grande has never personally ROASTED a man this hard. The actual distaste you can hear and see in him as he talks about this jackass is satisfying tbh.
That's expected. Cheap, gynocentric shaming language is all a man like Grande could muster because you know he wouldn't ever be able to say such things to his face.
@@loganblackwood2922 uhm, Dr. Grande isn't the one who fled his own country scared of facing consequences. Also you're delusional. Saying "gynocentric language" makes you sound exactly like an incel. And I'm sure you also suffer the same issue of, getting no bitches.
@@loganblackwood2922 All Tate had to do was walk into his office. Mental health specialists are the only non law enforcement agents that can lock someone with a phone call.
It is not impartial, his political beliefs obviously influence it, such as him calling Paul Joseph Watson a conspiracy theorist which is objectively wrong (I'm not a fan of Paul Joseph Watson he repulses me lol)
@@Billy_MacBilly Paul speaks truth to power. It takes neither fan nor critic to recognize that. Dr. Grande (regardless of his core beliefs) is essentially forced to view all subjects from a pragmatic point of view in regards to contemporary science and psychology- despite the plethora of circumstantial evidence of many fringe topics which he loosely addresses. If there are no hard-core facts with relevant data, why sacrifice his established integrity? Despite his potential reservations, his analysis is astute.
@@Billy_MacBilly Of course. Obviously his impartiality shows slightly when he makes his tongue in cheek remarks- showing his hand a bit so to speak in regards to his personal thoughts on a subject but he doesn't really stray too far into it. He simply gives his analysis based on what he sees rather than let his personal beliefs conduct the dialog.
Thank you, Dr. Grande, for bringing up another video that addresses the gender movements (feminism to the men's movements) and gender wars. I'd never heard of this man nor most of the people you study, but I've heard the term alpha male and the zillions of labels people have developed in the past 20 years. I like that you started off by a clear, succinct definition/description of what you mean by "alpha male". All these topics deserve a larger, balanced study and discussion, which I rarely hear anywhere, because it seems most people come with opinions and conclusions before they start: It seems most people want to move to radicalizing people or advocacy, rather than truly understanding humans first.
Another spot on analysis, Dr Grande. As a woman I find people like this Tate fellow very disturbing but you did an excellent job pointing out the ridiculousness of personas like his. Thank you for your interesting, educational and humorous content. I'm totally hooked! 😊
People like Andrew Tate are just copying the WWE and Mr McMahon. If you think these guys are bad, then watch the documentary "Wrestling With Manhood". That was 20 years ago! I already saw this coming decades ago.
@@clintstewart5545 They really don’t. Yeah he might get their interest initially because he’s in good physical shape and relatively handsome and successful but once he opens his mouth most women worth a damn are gonna make fun of him he tries way too hard
Never heard of Andrew or the other two. Attracting male followers and admirers, to the exclusion of female followers and admirers doesn't suggest "alpha" to me. The ability to lead people no one else wants isn't particularly challenging. Look at Charles Manson. He could have been tic toc king, I suppose.
If I remember right, the daughter of Jordan Peterson, a successful podcaster herself, was an admirer of Tate for some time, even travelled to Romania to meet him in a hotel and get business advice from him.
“ lead people no one wants” where did you come up with that conclusion? Seems to be a disconnection in your logic making things up. So I could say no one wants you? You seemed to pull that randomly out of your A . If he’s rich and has tons of women clearly he is doing something right smh 🤦♂️.
Its the search algorithms. They return crazy stuff. So these guys search for stuff like "women don't like me" and the search engine returns stuff like Andrew Tate and incel sites. And it's overwhelming. Then the more they watch, the more they get. And the algo doesn't let go easily. It may keep sending you crazy videos two years after your initial search.
@Sound Logic my husband's pretty masculine. I would say he's a man's man. He's just not a douchebag with a 1 cm Peter. Also pretty sure all women are in some form or way a feminist since we have a vaginas and we have to kind of protect those
@@lynetteireland that's what I said. Men who think it's funny to beat women and laugh at their bruises aren't really the best guys. Men who are being investigated in Romania of all places for sex trafficking aren't the best ones. I said what I said and you're not going to change my mind
@@NeuroUMW He is a world champion kickboxer, he beats the crap out of other men for money, and he managed to become a multi-millionaire. So uh yeah. Maybe he doesn't have that great personality, but that doesn't makes him not a masculine man lmao
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas
@@emjayee he isnt like that + reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas
This was a great video. I enjoyed it immensely. Thank you. The alpha male concept is one that I love to laugh at. Dr Grande, you are an Alpha analyzer. :)
@@davidharrow9025 You are correct, except that I would say I’m not obsessed with the murderers themselves, more so the psychology and motivations behind their actions. But yes, it wouldn’t be incorrect to assume I’m obsessed with true crime.
As a young man who recently found himself deep in the Andrew Tate rabbit hole, I would like to share that, for me, I was first drawn to him because I saw that those parts of myself which I had deemed ugly and bad could actually be powerful and advantageous. Maybe the reason why he is gaining so much traction is because so many young men have been told in some way that they should feel shame for certain things. And this was a way to not only acknowledge and accept those traits, but in fact celebrate them. Now I see that this is not the way for me, personally. It felt like I was pushing, striving and resisting my way through life as if it was all one big game or competition. Hopefully the young folks out there involved in his content will also see that there's a middle ground, as with everything in life. A way that is much healthier and will lead to more happiness.
so the guy tried to make you masculine and you said no lmfaoooo, its not about competition it's about being your true self which is masculine if you're a guy
@@alimbo9436 To simpletons like that guy, being masculine is when you behave in such a horrible manner that eventually you push everybody away from you. That's what a lot of guys think masculinity is. It's no wonder so many young men become even worse, because social parasites like Tate take advantage of these confused young men
I bet you didn't turn out like Mr grande. I was abused as a child as well, and while it sucked it made me stronger. It made me see the bad in people. When you look at man like Mr grande, you get the sense of insecurity, submissiveness, and contentment. He is like that episode of SpongeBob where he goes "normal". Idk ig what I'm saying is diamonds are formed under pressure. Quit being a victim, and be a fighter that survived.
I've been hoping you'd do this one! Absolutely astute observation delivered in the most informative and entertaining manner. Thanks for another stellar take on what might be happening in a sad and pathetic case like this. Love from Reno! (Usually Ohio, I'm on vacation)
Agreed Erica! As soon as I saw this one I had to watch immediately! Astute and witty with a delightfully dry delivery! Hope you are enjoying your hol's (vacation) in Reno - love how you mentioned that! And greetings from Perth, Western Australia (not on hol's - but planning a camping trip to Mount Augustus (world's biggest rock) in October).
Not really.. I don't like tate.. but if you read beyond his shock statements. He is extremely smart that is playing a character. So this is actually a bad video...itsfunny nobody picks up on the good Ole Dr irrogence and his envy shows in his tone of voice
The amount of disdain Dr Grande manages to get in to the two words 'tik toc' is admirable
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Felt like he needed a shower after those two words.
His face in the thumbnail has “let me stuff it in a locker jimmy” written all over it 😂😂😂
andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new
It's all fun and games until Dr Grande is reviewing and analysing you.
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Or as Dr. Grande would say; “..only reviewing and analyzing someone LIKE you.”
“only speculating”
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@@oliverquach9614 Lol !! --- "...someone LIKE you in a situation LIKE this." 😀
The concept of a "tik tok alpha male" seems like an oxymoron.
He just knows he can take advantage of TikTok idiots easily and get thier money. And use others channels for advertising. He is a smart business man for sure. And to be a kickboxer in any competition tells you he isn't your average tim tok soy boy. I don't stand behind him 100% or anything but he knew how easy it would be to get alot of these pitiful young men's money and tbh if they are stupid enough to give thier money to a influencer they need to be taken advantage of.
It's more so the morons that give Andrew Tate money that are the problem
They watch cat videos when no one is watching.
You know Dr. Grande leaves his studio with a couple of b*tches in a Range Rover with #1 DOC license plate, blasting Fiddy Cent P.I.M.P
As a Romanian woman, the fact that he moved to Romania to take advantage of the corruption here and of the harmful mentalities regarding the abuse of women disgusts me to no end. Great analysis, very insightful and entertaining!
“Weight lifting, Ferrari driving alcoholics, who never call women back after the first date.” Gold in the form of words.
😂💯
if only that was it though. i'm worried for the mentality this is telling young men they should have, to hate/control/dominate women, it's scary
@@wolfslullaby It’s so sad honestly. Seems like it’s almost always a symptom of insecurity/lack of self-identity
Andrew Tate doesn't drink alcohol
Honestly, few would turn down that life if presented with the opportunity in their 20's.
The way Dr. Grande says “Tiktok” makes it sound like the most ridiculous thing ever 😂
It is
Tik ----- tok. Like it's a really slow clock.
Tick tock
When used as entertainment, TikTok is ridiculously funny. Tate is giving false hope to the socially awkward and at the same time marketing to and profiting from them. My heart goes out to young folk that looks to social media for validation/guidance. It allows charlatons easier branding of their "snake oil". Anyway...I couldn't click fast enough when this vid popped up. Careful there, Dr. Grande...you might just have changed the pronunciation of "TikTok"
Tiktok was designed by China to destroy peoples weak minds ......they cant go 2 seconds without clicking to the next video
"If narcisism were money, he might be the world's first trillionaire."
Flawless.
Stupid quote
Yet who would the women rather fuck? This nerd or tate?
@@Xxrocknrollgod hahaha exactly, top g
This killed me.
@Anonymous Nothing His dad was a genius spy and chess master, and his son is now a millionaire and is having an amazing impact on the world.
“Poorly designed tattoos, shirtless photographs, alcohol, wearing sunglasses indoors, tropical locations ..” had me dying laughing 🤣 😂
Tate told that Dianne woman on their date that he wears the sunglasses indoors because of detached retina problems he has from kick boxing.fights. he said the brightness of the lights hurts his eyes.
Cianne or something like that on that "Grilled" program. The video is on CZcams.
Same.
@@diallosekou2034 😂
Dorg
anyone who has to state they are "alpha" and act like this are compensating for a lack of self esteem.
@Dsmv Yes but that is a cause of low self-esteem. You can't, won't, or don't do anything to actually be proud of yourself and so become empty as you put it. The impulsive and negligent reaction, is to seek validation externally. That's the basis of an external locus of identity and a fundamental component of the narcissistic personality. Basically if you can't find justification to be proud of yourself, you might pretend, instead that you should and desperately seek others, to confirm the defence of your degenerate egotistical over compensation.
Besides isnt beating up women pretty much the opposite of ''alpha'' that seems more like an act of cowardice.
and hiding the fact that they are not really attracted to women and may not even know it.
I think it is in the same realm of obese women constantly calling herself she's beautiful to cover up for insecurities within.
@Sound Logic you took this comment like a beta lol
These men calling themselves “alpha” reminds me of a paraphrase of the Margaret Thatcher quote: “Power is like being a lady… if you have to tell people you are, you aren’t.”
100% accurate. Thus guy is so visibly insecure. And he is def a leach and a grifter. If you have to boast about something, then you are projecting insecurities.
Yup. The more you have, the less you need to show it. The psychoanalyst Otto Kernberg believed that narcissism was essentially a coping mechanism for an underlying borderline type personality. Quite possibly right.
Why tf would you quote Thatcher
@@Em-gj2sg I wondered that too - but it is a good and appropriate quote, so I thought 'okay'...
@@Em-gj2sg Because I wanted to.
"Narrow and distorted view of masculinity." Spot on analysis, Dr. Grande.
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone
To be fair, Dr Grande is your typical beta male and doesn’t have a clear view on masculinity.
A needed one in this day and age though quite clearly. Thus him being the most Googled man on planet. Like or dislike what he says all you want, but clearly lots of people want to hear it. Ask yourself why. I say this as someone who isn't some huge fan of a lot of the things Tate says.
@@dave9547 He has a mass following of incels. His audience speaks for itself. What is needed right now is real examples of healthy masculinity. Nothing this guy says is healthy. He has found a following in insecure, egotistical men who blame women for everything wrong with themselves rather than focusing on healthy self-reflection and growth. I spent some time reading comments on his posts and it's all from men who show no signs of accountability and responsibility for their own lives. Just a bunch of blame and victimhood.
Shows this ‘Dr’ is biased.
Nice shirt, Dr. Grande! Thank you for your exposure of these guys. I’ve always felt that they are trying to make up for other shortcomings.
“…Hustler’s University” which is not an accredited institution or an institution at all. 🤣🤣🤣 Another perfect sound bite, Dr Grande.
same this one killed me 🤣
Same like one coin an all that
You know what a real “alpha male” does? Spends time with his kids. Treats his wife like the incredible human she is. Is kind to everyone they encounter no matter what they look or act like.
What if their wife isn't incredible
@@sativarosegold3604 Although I am not a fan of tate, maybe what tate saying ignore the infidel woman might right on some point
@@sativarosegold3604 I think what he saying is that a true Alpha male is a healthy masculine man.. such a man likely would not stay with a terrible woman (he would probably try to make the relationship work, but leave if there is no change because that is what is healthiest for the children) 🤷🏼♀️
Correct me if I’m wrong 🙆🏼♀️
@@sativarosegold3604 an alpha male picks an alpha female
Keanu Reeves?
I always thought that no one could take Andrew Tate seriously, but I had to have a conversation w/ my friend's 14 year old son that "no, you really don't want to look up to this guy. He literally moved to Romania so he could get away with sex trafficking..." and, MAN, was that conversation depressing.
he still doesnt believe you?
There’s no proof he is a sex trafficker. Tate bangs tons of women and women love him. Don’t destroy your sons masculinity or he will become a male feminist=incel
This is my favorite video you've ever shared here, Dr. Grande! Not only is your humor and witty sarcasm absolutely hilarious, but you touch on several pertinent points that really outline how ironic/contradictory the concept of being an "alpha male" is! Thank-you so much for uploading this. I'm so happy to be a longterm subscriber of your channel, tour videos somehow only continue getting better! I don't believe in self-appointed "alpha males" but if alpha males do actually exist, I'd have to say that the way you explained this was absolutely alpha 😂
I can't get enough of your videos & we appreciate your channel so much :)
@@ToyotaGuy1971 the you claiming to be an alpha combined with the nickname Toyota guy. Geezzzz, you crack me up as well 😂
@@ToyotaGuy1971 I don't need to be educated about cars. I'm happy that I'm educated enough to recognize arrogance, toxicity and that actually comes from a lot of insecurity.
@@ToyotaGuy1971 🤦♂️comes in claiming Alpha goes out arguing Toyota make a good car 😂 the Internet cracks me up, and don't think we don't know which ALPHA is generating that one like 😅😅
this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real
TRUE "Alpha's", don't need to toot their own horn. A True "Alpha" is not going to go around claiming to be an Alpha. That's the first sign that he's not an Alpha. A True "Alpha", knows how to assert authority/dominance/masculinity, without announcing his position/status, & without being toxic. They know how to be humble yet confident. Exalting oneself over others IS Narcissistic, & a sign of great insecurity, & a huge ego.
But all that said - A Sigma is preferable to me anyway. They are everything a True Alpha is, but more introverted, & value one on one interaction. They are deep thinkers, who spend more time observing & analyzing human behavior, posture, & body language. So they become really skilled at reading people.
Not very often you get a nod to “A Christmas Story”. I appreciate your professional and witty quips.
I seriously feel like I'm the only one who's seen that movie even though it was on TV all the time!
Watched at least 60 hours of Andrew Tate materials, long form podcasts. The selective information brought in this video is a misrepresentation and unprofessional. Do your own research and will find also good things about Tate👍🏼
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new
stupid shaming tactics by you lol, he speaks facts. this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real
For a long time I thought he was a comedian. A fictional character created as a send up of a sexist man. I was so wrong. I cant beleive hes actually like this.
The first time I saw it I thought it was a parody. Until I saw that video of that girl on the podcast fuckin dragggggg his ass. It’s so amusing to me that anyone would believe that shit works, but I guess with like literal teenagers and such it makes some sense. Still though lol
Me too. It is crazy. And I do not see this as alphamales at all
Yeah i thought so too. I really thought it was 100% an act like making fun of those alpha male dorks.
it's just marketing to sell his pyramid scam
A lot of it is a character for social media, some of his beliefs are ingrained but he’s so over the top with his delivery that it enrages people who only deal with their emotions and not their thoughts.
“If narcissism were money, he might be the worlds first trillionaire.” -Dr. Grande
Thanks for sharing this content. It’s insightful and entertaining!
this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real
this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real
I think Andrew Tate does actually know what a trillionaire is (I'm at the point in the video where Dr Todd is saying he probably doesn't), and I'm pretty sure he'd be good at Maths, at least at a basic level.
I think he knows that most people are daft when it comes to numbers. The more daft, materialistic and superficial they are, the more they're impressed by rich men. Both men and women!
But yh I believe he's highly narcissistic and Dr Grande's quote was a nice one lol.
The first time I ever watched an Andrew Tate TikTok I gave it a like because I thought it was obvious satire and he was just parodying and making fun of alpha males. I was absolutely baffled to find out that he was actually being 100% serious
Yes, most men are weak feminist simp. I thought it was a satire too. But Tate is not a feminist simp. Sometimes he is hard with women and I don't like his friendly view on Islam but... Nobody is perfect.
@@trifulquita15 "Hard with women" is a heck of a way to downplay someone who thinks that women are inferior, they are property, it's ok to cheat on them, its ok to beat them as a form of "discipline", if they are r *ped it's their fault, etc. Anyway how does treating women as anything other than s e x objects and showing even a shred of respect and basic human decency towards them make one a "weak feminist simp"? I mean if it does then shame on anyone who isn't a weak feminist simp lmao
He IS a joke tho
@@jhuizhang he is funny. I don't like when he talk profanity but he make good jokes. Why do you talk so low? I can't hear you
@@trifulquita15 He is funny..... if you're a child and your sense of humor is people yelling into a camera and saying bad words lol. Fr watching a Tate vid is like watching a baby sensory video, he has to scream to keep his audiences attention 😂
I'm confused, I didn't think Andrew Tate and Dan Bilzerian etc were what was considered to be alpha males?
To me they seem insecure about themselves, and are too weak to face their emotions but would rather be immature and hurt other people to feel powerful.
Isn’t that pretty much what an alpha male actually is? I know they don’t talk about themselves that way but, come on…
Nothing to be confused about. "Alpha male" is not a defined term, it's hence not used in any human research.
The term stems from animal pack studies (wolves) in capture, that later when compared to findings in freedom, did not hold up scientifically at all.
The term has won mainstream use, but has no merit.
@@AshleighCarter5100 I didn't think so but I'm not sure.
I thought they were confident but relatively silent achievers.
These guys sound more like immature overt narcissists who are trying to embody toxic masculinity.
I thought alphas were genuinely adored for their strength of character, good judgement and ability to provide and protect their partner.
I might be wrong, but these tantrum, insecure boy-children do not at all seem the peak of masculinity.
The only world in which I thought they were alpha, was in their own words only.
@@impalaSS65 Oh alright that clears that up a lot for me actually, thank you for that.
They're alpha males in the same way Donald Trump is an alpha male.
They're screamingly insecure men with poor social skills and low self esteem who try to compensate with money and sexual assault.
Why are Narcissists so prevalent in today's society? How is a narcissist created? Does it have to do with childhood and parents?
It has everything to do with the lack of belief in Jesus Christ.
Are there more, or do they just have more visibility because of social media?
Because they are fun to laugh at.
It is because everyone has a loud voice on social media now. Also there is a bit of a culture push on being narcissistic in some sense
@@01zerocool01 🤣🤣
Alpha male? Maybe in his own mind. More like an example of toxic masculinity. Those two things are not the same at all.
Dr . Grande is the true Alpha male of CZcams 💪🏽
Alpha simp, yes
Nah
This analysis section took me right back to high school when we read “the sun also rises” in English class… Performative masculinity at its finest.
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new
Also, Keanu Reeves is probably the closest thing to an 'alpha' male that i can think of. Heart, brain and respect to others is the only thing u need imo.
Absolutely perfect example of a true “Alpha” Male. He’s got everything but doesn’t need to tell the world. Keanu just oozes class.
Mr. Rogers has earned more respect as an alpha male than any of these clowns
Keanu Reeves plays the John Wick character, BUT, in real life he is a gentleman. Keanu is kind and tender hearted. He is not a destructive alpha male.
@@aethrya Mr Rogers was never aiming for status too. He just wanted to act out the word of God, being a gigachad was just the natural byproduct.
Oh yes, im in love with him . Dreamy guy haha
in my experience, anybody that goes around telling strangers that they are an alpha male, is not.
Oh my, I've never seen someone pointing with such precision and foundation Tate's flaws (which is interesting considering how many people know he is an asshole), and Dr. Grande does it with so much grace and yet unnerved pase, it really breaks this "super villain" out of the fantasy constructed around him. Like Dr. Grande says: he is just taking advantage from narcissistic impressionable young men and constructing his wealth out of it.
this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real
And desperate eastern European females fall for his "love", then sex traffics them.
this docter is a (Duplicater Personality Character)DPC is a programed(indoctrinated) human (NPC in online game), they only mimicking other people's emotions,,they can't change what they knew or believe, and they can't answer what they don't know, he can be good in chess or memorizing the Quran, they can only accept the first things that they learn, and will never accept other opinion,, so if someone teach bad things to this people then they will always do bad things and vice versa ,,if evil DPC lead a country so beaware of the distructions,injustice, crime etc
@@selaluoposisisiapapunpresi7982 Too much comas and erratic believes. Andrew Tate leaves people ignorant and in a cult like mentality. I bet you paid for hustlers university courses.
@@agnisosaaranda6607 are you a DPC?
Ladies, steer clear of any man who is a self-declared "alpha".
Totally agree
Most women do. These guys pay for sex and have to pay the women you see them posing with. The only women these men have access to are prostitutes/escorts
I imagine after watching the first Tate video, Dr. Grande sighed deeply and poured a very big glass of whiskey.
And lit a fabulous cigar.
His testosterone level doubled too.
🤣
Aka. A mega pint of whiskey 🤣
I need vodka
I'm a 9th & 10th grade history teacher, and my [male] students are like full on cult followers of this guy, and it worries me.
Sad.
He's giving an amazing message imo
Why?
Whatever happened to our last hero, gentle Jesus meek and mild? Schizophrenic humanity!
@@valeriemacphail9180 I don't understand your comment
I had already seen videos about this fellow on a couple of my other fave CZcams channels.
I was overjoyed to see that Dr Grande had done a video on him and it was all I could have hoped for!
'Alpha Male' and 'TikTok' can't go together. Impossible.
He not alpha,he is a cowards who uses non critical skills. He certainly doesn't do it for me, whether rich or poor. Thank you Dr Grande Brilliant analysis and great topic.
but he tells the truth about modern day women you cannot lie about that
@@djourknows_3496 He does to a degree but he’s so over-the-top that he ruins it with a lot of miss information.
Young men would be better following Kevin Samuels, or Jordan Peterson, people like that that hold men equally accountable not a blow hard like these Andrew Tate types.
Yeah, because every woman is identical to every other woman.. /s
Simple-minded statements like that are typical of his idiotic fans.
@@tigernotwoods914 he over exaggerates a lot of what he says thats why he’s entertaining
@@yungcrispy6566 maybe who knows but if he acts the way he acts in those videos in prison that shit is not gonna fly he’ll get smashed off the yard that’s not gonna work and all the MMA skills he has are not gonna help when he pulls that shit with a seasoned convict
Do these men not understand how absolutely unattractive they make themselves by behaving like this? I mean it's obvious they are extremely unintelligent but instead of covering their stupidity they even build their whole persona around it.
well said
I was a virgin until I was 23.
I was not able to attract a sexual partner until I got really good at lying.
From my experience, women tend to find lying toxic men like Andrew Tate quite attractive.
The stupidity is the persona, he dosent really believe all the shit he’s saying but he knows saying it will make him 💴 💰 💵
Seems like its working very well. Your dead wrong
Never ask a fish how to catch a fish but a FisherMAN
I always cringe at the terms “alpha” and “beta”. The irony is women have told me I’m “alpha” and automatically makes me uninterested.
I’ve observed that they are usually either flaming narcissists, uber-macho/hate women (or “others”), or they’re going bald.
This guy has them all.
It’s only socially acceptable in western society to shame bald men today because that’s something women don’t go through.
Haha balding can be caused by an excess of testosterone.
@@celesteshenas2155 that is a myth. Mpb is mostly genetic. Also if he has a lot of excess testosterone, then there's a good chance he's shooting blanks.
@@celesteshenas2155 that's false. Balding is genetics.
Contradiction in terms. If you're on TikTok, you're automatically not an alpha male.
Edit: nice shirt, doc 😎👍
@3:20 is not personally active on tik tok
I hate the man but he doesn’t actually have an account. His underlings promote him free of charge Objectively that is more alpha then not having any presence whatsoever
@@se4949 he actually pays them. It’s like a pyramid scheme
@@se4949
They get money back actually
He isnt even on tiktok he is so alpha he has his minions posting for him
I feel sickened by these "alpha male" and "high value male" channels and worse, the channels of women parroting the talking points.
Get used to it, masculine men are not going anywhere, no matter how much you hate it
@@BrokenProphet32 get used to people making fun of them, if their so stoic and confident they shouldn't care
@@Anasto_ yes and we can also laugh at so called high value woman thinking they're tens.
@@BrokenProphet32 The funniest of all though is how the black and white thinking is so prevalent in these so called alpha males. They think that just because a woman isnt a ten another person isn't genuinely gonna find her a ten, and that could not be rare either.
Great video! This is the only video I’ve seen that addresses the problem (I’m sure there are journals/essays out there, but your videos are so easily digestible and enjoyable to listen to). It’s concerning how these views are circulated among communities online. But, your casual roasts are gold, Dr. Grande!
I love Dr. Grande analysis of the "alpha male" logically. It shows how stupid the whole thing is.
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new
+ women make rules for betas and break them for alphas , its always like that
@@RR-et6zp I mean...sure my guy. Try not to confuse the laws of attraction with misogyny. For every guy that feels scorned there's a female who feels the same. Be a good person & find what works for you. If not, everyone will see the "who hurt you" quite easily.
@@mopnem Do you even know what that word means? It means the hatred of women, and misandry the hatred of men. No one hates anyone. Reality is sexist because we have different biological instincts in mate selection, hence a different experience, different pros and cons. We're also hardwired differently (women prioritise feelings / emotion, the context, not content information like with us). Also, you cannot separate responsibility and authority in life + no one hurt me, thats a typical female shaming tactic because you dont have logical factual argument
@@RR-et6zp yeah not sure about that.
Dr. Grande, you are an insomniac’s best friend. I don’t know how you bless us with all of this content. Many I have watched several times.
He's like the only psychiatrist who has actually helped with my anxiety. And he's not even trying, he's just dry roasting dudes on a playlist in his calm, reasoned voice, that helps me fall asleep.
@@dishonoredundead Woah....he's not a Psychiatrist. Read his about section. I'm sure he fools a lot of people making it look like he's a psychiatrist but he's not.
@@wildechild5 he may not be a psychiatrist but he still helps people who do have real problems don’t just dismiss it because it’s not on a resumé I’m sure he’s learnt a lot over the years from colleagues that are psychiatrists
@@brianwhite8593 my point still stands he's still not a psychiatrist I don't care how much he's learned from his colleagues that took the time to get the education to be a psychiatrist.
@@wildechild5 He never said she's a psychiatrist, he's always made it clear that he's a Forensic Psychologist.
If an alien lizard humanoid asked me for the definition of an ugly human being, I’d show them a picture of Andrew Hate; if the same being asked for the definition of a beautiful human being, I’d send them a link to Dr Grande.
@@Cornibert Indeed, I was but using poetic license.🥰👍
@@penelopehughes-jones5265 - Feminist simp
@@englishexpert1989 Are you? Well done, nice to meet you.🥰
@@penelopehughes-jones5265 - You are a feminist simp
Why exactly?? What Tate has said to be considered like that??
"If narcissism were dollars he really would be the world's first trillionaire" Love his dry sense of humor!
this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real
There is a subset of young men out there that are mentally, emotionally and spiritually lost and are desperate for a leader to show them a way out of the existential rut that their life has become. Guys like Tate prey on these insecurities and occasionally will hit upon a grain of truth; all the more to convince these downtrodden youngsters that they have no other option to become content.
In fairness, I can say from personal experience that society at large tends to not only push aside certain men of a certain age/income/mindset, but will also deceptively saddle them with being responsible for socio-political ills and events (society needs scapegoats, and young men fit virtually every 'bad guy' role convenient to any given situation). Inevitably this causes a victim mentality in young men and leads to depression and a host of other problems.
I do wish this issue could have more serious consideration, but there seems to be a dismissive attitude regarding it.
I hear you. Unfortunately, societies generalize about many different groups. One way to minimize this is to live and behave in defiance of the Scapegoating.
People like Andrew Tate will never go away and will continue to gain traction because of that exactly. Nobody wants to actually help men who need it, and will actively vilify and shun them. And then wonder why they hate the world and the people in it.
@@9000Dogs I think a lot of young men are feeling that way right now. Men need to turn away from listening to the alpha male BS that instructs them to man up. The strongest thing people can do right now is develop their own agency and their own good character. Much needed change comes out of that. In order to work toward that aim, guys might need to talk to a mental health professional. This is a true show of strength. Last thing. Men probably need to stop watching and listening to content that’s making them feel angry, ostracized and judged. This is manufactured feedback-looped content that makes the content creators rich. And it’s all pretty much BS. Women aren’t the enemy. They just aren’t. Don’t make the mistake of attaching your normal human desires, emotions and understandable grievances onto some common enemy.
People are " space monkeys"
The whole way we socialise men is wrong. On the one hand we infantilise and indulge them, then repress them emotionally (telling them that anger is the only emotion that's allowed), and then expect them to be emotional and social punch bags whose role it is to "take one for the team". We have ended up with a lot of emotionally stunted, mixed up young men as a result.
Ain’t no male more alpha than Dr. Grande! Great work as always doc.
he is a sigma ;)
@@derstoffausdemderjoghurtis what does that mean? 🤷🏼♀️
@@ImSimplyAHuman its essentially the ""alpha"" male bs sold in new packaging. "Sigma" males are suppossed to be more independent, dont care about heirarchies, blah blah blah. As far as I can tell, its yet another form of men trying to manipulate other more vulnerable men into buying into some dumb idealogy so theyll buy their shit. Not very signma ironically.
Also yes Dr Grande is true alpha 😂
@@derstoffausdemderjoghurtis A geek
false
I'm so glad Dr. Grande equated Tate's following to incel's. Tate's teaching seems also to me that it has a similar mindset.
"Somehow I'm not surprised that Andrew isn't good at math." 😂😂 Savage.
stupid shaming tactics by you lol, he speaks facts. this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real
For all their showing off and desperation to seemingly acquire women, this ilk seem to not like women much…makes us wonder whose approval it is they’re truly seeking. Remember to call your mother ♥️ 🌵 Great as always Dr Grande
Other men
Well, they do like women, but not in healthy ways. They want women to sexually serve them, to obey their every command, and to let themselves be dominated by them, but they don’t want to put in any work to treat women like fully developed human beings that are worthy of respect. They want to have lots of good things without putting in ANY real work to get them, even the relatively small amount of work that it takes to be a good, respectful human being.
❤️❤️🌵
😂
I have a theory that these dudes disrespect women so much because they see parts about themselves that they don't like in women.
I've seen dudes get so emotional (anger is an emotion) when they talk about how emotional women are lol
I've never come across a self- proclaimed "alpha" that isn't a closeted incel.
Alpha here, congratulations on the anecdotal.
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone
yes dr grande!!! thanks for covering what you do. love hearing an intelligent man speak about examples of toxic masculinity
Tate the bait master reminds me of the wolf of wall street swindler.
Thanks Doctor Grande for making my night shifts at the hospital bearable on slow nights! Was glad to see your analysis on this guy finally. All of my coworkers look forward to your videos every night when the floor is quiet.
Don’t say the “Q” word while working at any hospital! It will jinx you!
Odd. Seems your being paid to watch videos?
@@debshipman4697 hospitals do have odd quiet times on night shift 🙄 obviously you don't work in healthcare.
@@debshipman4697 are you serious 😳
@@debshipman4697 What a ridiculous comment. Go take a nap, Deb.
"Which is not an accredited institution", I love Dr Grandes dry humor.
It's a scam. And it's unfortunate that a lot of young men are buying Tate's bs.
I can't say I'm sorry to see his fall from disgrace,...sooner rather than later.
Lol
@@erikasmith8894 Na bro, im printin
If there were such a thing as an alpha male, it would be someone with leadership qualities that are generous and helpful to those they lead - not some self absorbed Andrew Tate knock off.
And thats the traditional masculanity thats idolised everywhere. In no traditional society (especially the eastern, which he says are idealistic) is a man allowed to cat call a woman. Its considered disrespect to woman and her family. If you like a woman... marry her. Thats it. Nothing else. 😅 and the arranged marriages go a step furthur... your parents decide who you will marry. Whether you are a man or woman.
I apologize for constantly thinking you're Matt Walsh at first glance.🤦🏾♂️
Nice shirt and great video 💯🔥🤌🏾
You are very articulate. This video is a prime example of your precise use of language. It delights me.
I refuse to watch anything about this guy and scroll past any clips I see of him on social media. This is the only time purely because I will watch anything Dr. Grande puts out.
Then how are you suppose to form your own opinion on the guy? Do you only refer to others opinions when making your own judgements?
@@sungukyun2608 It's specifically about Andrew Tate which is reasonable because one should avoid watching provocative media. Andrew Tate is not educational and doesn't believe in what he puts out. Dr. Grande on the other hand is educational and relatively trustworthy.
@@sungukyun2608 I don’t need to, he’s irrelevant.
@@DottieMinerva i know right, confident men are evil
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone
Poorly designed tattoos and wearing glasses indoors, Dr Grande you're hilarious
I feel like that same type of mentality is also present in gang / mafia culture. No education, brute force, obsession with bling, money and status.
“Not an accredited institution” I love the way you discuss someone so dumb, so articulately 😂
“a contempt for higher education” was the kicker for me😂😂absolutely roasted
He’s not dumb, but he’s nowhere near as smart as he thinks he is.
geeks
Not that dumb to get other people to do your work for you. Madoff did it🤦♀️
It's literally the reason why I continue to watch
Honestly most of these "alphas" just seem incredibly insecure to me.
Mostly they’re selling insecurity, by claiming they’re superior
Agreed
Dr Grande your dry humor is brilliantly done, had to watch twice great 👍
you had to watch twice because youre not smart
Your brand of shade is my favorite; calm and smooth but dry and blistering like a lazy river running through Death Valley.
Thank you for making my quick break delightful.
the whole idea of "alpha males" in humans is an enormous misunderstanding weak men have adopted to signal masculinity they lack.
Alpha males in other animals are not at all domineering weak-willed, socially awkward latent gays who mistreat women despite what these men think.
The few species that have alphas show that in most cases alpha males are cooperative with females and "lower" ranked males and others, they do not show off agression, they are definitely not the dominant gene-deliverers and most succesful fertilizers they are imagined to be, and research shows that their genes are underrepresented rather than dominantly present, which suggests that alpha male behaviour is not a winning strategy for the individual's genes, but rather A VEHICLE TO HELP THE OTHERS propagate the less-excessive traits that are necessary for a group of animals to survive. .
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Great!🙂
Can I see the studies?
In most intelligent species there is something called, a mating ritual. We are no exception.
Very interesting
A good comment. It should be noted that real masculine men never refer to themselves as Alpha. They--and everyone else-- know very well who they are and don't need a label.
In a Larry David tone: “I’m not diagnosing you only speculating on what could be happening in a situation like this, buuuuuttt…”
This reminds me of the Bob’s Burger 🍔 Prince of Persuasia 🤣
Finally a topic about this self-proclaimed “alpha male”
Have you seen him fight?
@@mbuckholz it depends on how he use that fighting skill. If he have anger issues, he's not an alpha. If it's just a fight even animal can do that too
@@mbuckholz just because a person is a good fighter doesn't mean they are on top of the world. It doesn't even mean they'd make a good warrior
Finally someone sane with whom I agree.
@@mbuckholz How old are you? 12? lol
My Dad had a term that applied to this type of guy: Punk. It’s an old fashioned term, but I believe it is as descriptive and relevant now as it was in my Dad’s day. 😃👍🏻
Happy birthday to your dad!🙂🎉🎊🎂
Yes!
I am a punk/punk rocker, and we don't want this guy lol.
Hi Lucy. My dad had a term that applied to these types, too. A***ole. Not very creative, but it fits. 😁
A punk ✨️bitch✨️, perhaps 😊
I'm not sure looking like Pitpull is awesome, but this video is! Great job, Dr. Grande! Best one so far!
*I was waiting on this!!!*
The fact that this guy can accrue actual fans is beyond me.
WWE and Vince McMahon are worse and even more popular
You are not paying attention then.
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone
@@RR-et6zp are you a hustler?
As a once impressionable young man, I’m afraid that this guy is going to steer many boys into behavior that will - at best - ruin their reputation in social circles and at worst, land them in jail.
Exactly.
Clearly he has a problem in his analytical thinking, and morals.
Mark I would even say the worst thing would be young men finding themselves dead
Anybody who ends up in jail over a guy online probably deserves to be there. That takes a special kind of foolish.
As for ruined reputation, well, that depends on their circle, or whose opinion they actually care about.
At worst, get a lot of people badly hurt.
A man whistling at a woman is not harassment and also not controversial.
I want to share with you that I find your videos so entertaining ! Comedic I may say. The themes you speak about are serious and I love the lack of straightforward emotion. I love comedy and its very good material in that way as well as being informative.
Yesss all of the above. He’s my fave mental health professional on CZcams for these very reasons!! It all melts together into such an entertaining experience.
Dr Grande, please never stop your sarcasm and dry humour 💗
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone
I've always thought the concept of alpha male as corny. To equate my human interactions to those of a dog or a chimpanzee, cheapens and oversimplifies the scope of my Human Experience.
To equate dog or chimpanzee interactions to an "Alpha Male", cheapens and oversimplifies the canine and primate experience. (Very easy joke, but had to do it:P )
It's also incorrect. Alpha males in apes are gentle, their main goal being peacekeepers. They don't gain support of older and younger apes by intimidation
@@katiePetsy Gentle? Go and try to hug one of it's young go see how gentle it is. Apes are brutal af lol and it's not so much that they are peacekeepers as it is that they are simply leaders and protectors, because even nature knows women aren't good at that shit. 😂😂
@@katiePetsy yeah just like me.
@@drosera123 Fairplay
Andrew tate is the kind of guy who watches fight club and doesnt get the point. Guarantee hes a tyler durden stan
Dr. Grande has never personally ROASTED a man this hard. The actual distaste you can hear and see in him as he talks about this jackass is satisfying tbh.
That's expected. Cheap, gynocentric shaming language is all a man like Grande could muster because you know he wouldn't ever be able to say such things to his face.
@@loganblackwood2922 uhm, Dr. Grande isn't the one who fled his own country scared of facing consequences. Also you're delusional. Saying "gynocentric language" makes you sound exactly like an incel. And I'm sure you also suffer the same issue of, getting no bitches.
@@loganblackwood2922 All Tate had to do was walk into his office. Mental health specialists are the only non law enforcement agents that can lock someone with a phone call.
stupid shaming tactics by you lol, he speaks facts. this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real
You're a good a good man, Dr.Grande.
Please do not stop your impartial analysis of the human condition.
It is not impartial, his political beliefs obviously influence it, such as him calling Paul Joseph Watson a conspiracy theorist which is objectively wrong (I'm not a fan of Paul Joseph Watson he repulses me lol)
@@Billy_MacBilly Paul speaks truth to power. It takes neither fan nor critic to recognize that.
Dr. Grande (regardless of his core beliefs) is essentially forced to view all subjects from a pragmatic point of view in regards to contemporary science and psychology- despite the plethora of circumstantial evidence of many fringe topics which he loosely addresses. If there are no hard-core facts with relevant data, why sacrifice his established integrity?
Despite his potential reservations, his analysis is astute.
@@lonewulv13 it is totally impossible for any human being to be completely impartial because everyone has biases
He is far from impartial
@@Billy_MacBilly Of course. Obviously his impartiality shows slightly when he makes his tongue in cheek remarks- showing his hand a bit so to speak in regards to his personal thoughts on a subject but he doesn't really stray too far into it. He simply gives his analysis based on what he sees rather than let his personal beliefs conduct the dialog.
2022: Where society celebrates the worst ppl on the planet and sets them up as the standard of being.
Sad times.
Where I live (the Philippines), they're everywhere. Perhaps we can have Darryl Yap (a trashy, poor excuse of a director) analyzed here.
He and his brother went to Moldova and were beaten up by three dudes “for no reason”. Alpha Male? Yeah, right, and I am Marlin Montoe
Thank god. Finally a voice of reason. All these simps backing Tate elsewhere on YT is nauseating and disturbing.
Wins 4 kickboxing world championships, “had a considerable degree of success”
Contradictions
Thank you, Dr. Grande, for bringing up another video that addresses the gender movements (feminism to the men's movements) and gender wars. I'd never heard of this man nor most of the people you study, but I've heard the term alpha male and the zillions of labels people have developed in the past 20 years. I like that you started off by a clear, succinct definition/description of what you mean by "alpha male". All these topics deserve a larger, balanced study and discussion, which I rarely hear anywhere, because it seems most people come with opinions and conclusions before they start: It seems most people want to move to radicalizing people or advocacy, rather than truly understanding humans first.
Most people?
I’ve been waiting for this video 💀
Hey Dr. Grande, I just wanted to let you know I really like the shirt you're wearing here.
Another spot on analysis, Dr Grande. As a woman I find people like this Tate fellow very disturbing but you did an excellent job pointing out the ridiculousness of personas like his. Thank you for your interesting, educational and humorous content. I'm totally hooked! 😊
but how come so many women go for man like him ??? it really confuses me
People like Andrew Tate are just copying the WWE and Mr McMahon. If you think these guys are bad, then watch the documentary "Wrestling With Manhood". That was 20 years ago! I already saw this coming decades ago.
@@clintstewart5545 They really don’t. Yeah he might get their interest initially because he’s in good physical shape and relatively handsome and successful but once he opens his mouth most women worth a damn are gonna make fun of him he tries way too hard
@@clintstewart5545 perhaps it's free advertising for them. **joke**
Do you know of Andrew Tate directly or only by this video of Dr. Grande?
Never heard of Andrew or the other two. Attracting male followers and admirers, to the exclusion of female followers and admirers doesn't suggest "alpha" to me. The ability to lead people no one else wants isn't particularly challenging. Look at Charles Manson. He could have been tic toc king, I suppose.
If I remember right, the daughter of Jordan Peterson, a successful podcaster herself, was an admirer of Tate for some time, even travelled to Romania to meet him in a hotel and get business advice from him.
Not many people could attract a group like Charles Mansion. He had a talent, put to bad use to be sure but he certainly had his superpowers.
@@carlotapuig lol. "business advice" You sir are quite naughty
Charles Manson attracted some young women from the middle class to his cult and had sex with at least one of them, so he could speak to women.
“ lead people no one wants” where did you come up with that conclusion? Seems to be a disconnection in your logic making things up. So I could say no one wants you? You seemed to pull that randomly out of your A . If he’s rich and has tons of women clearly he is doing something right smh 🤦♂️.
Its the search algorithms. They return crazy stuff. So these guys search for stuff like "women don't like me" and the search engine returns stuff like Andrew Tate and incel sites. And it's overwhelming. Then the more they watch, the more they get. And the algo doesn't let go easily. It may keep sending you crazy videos two years after your initial search.
Watching this, after he's been arrested for trafficking, I'm finding this such an amazing analysis!!!
Good on you, Dr. Grande!!
Your jokes are absolutely amazing and low-key. I am laughing at 1am while also learning about a horrible human. We love it
@Sound Logic my husband's pretty masculine. I would say he's a man's man. He's just not a douchebag with a 1 cm Peter. Also pretty sure all women are in some form or way a feminist since we have a vaginas and we have to kind of protect those
@@lynetteireland that's what I said. Men who think it's funny to beat women and laugh at their bruises aren't really the best guys. Men who are being investigated in Romania of all places for sex trafficking aren't the best ones. I said what I said and you're not going to change my mind
@@NeuroUMW He is a world champion kickboxer, he beats the crap out of other men for money, and he managed to become a multi-millionaire. So uh yeah. Maybe he doesn't have that great personality, but that doesn't makes him not a masculine man lmao
reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas
@@emjayee he isnt like that + reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas
This was a great video. I enjoyed it immensely. Thank you. The alpha male concept is one that I love to laugh at. Dr Grande, you are an Alpha analyzer. :)
U sound like u were bullied into homosexual behavior
That wrap up was just so (chef's kiss)
I think the shirt choice is a comment that men can be men without all the show of masculinity! Dr. Grande is correct!
Hi, Dr. Grande! 🌵🌵I’m LOVING your shirt choice! Take care, and thank you for the late upload! They are my favorite. 🙏
Ok. Here is the comment section I always look for. Yes!!!! To the Hawaiian shirt!
@@kathyglass2922 Dr. Grande always has the best shirts!!! 💛
I looked at your playlist and you have a lot of true crime videos. Its true that women are obsessed with murderers.
@@davidharrow9025 You are correct, except that I would say I’m not obsessed with the murderers themselves, more so the psychology and motivations behind their actions. But yes, it wouldn’t be incorrect to assume I’m obsessed with true crime.
@@suzf5045 I'm just trying to learn how not to be a murderer.
As a young man who recently found himself deep in the Andrew Tate rabbit hole, I would like to share that, for me, I was first drawn to him because I saw that those parts of myself which I had deemed ugly and bad could actually be powerful and advantageous. Maybe the reason why he is gaining so much traction is because so many young men have been told in some way that they should feel shame for certain things. And this was a way to not only acknowledge and accept those traits, but in fact celebrate them.
Now I see that this is not the way for me, personally. It felt like I was pushing, striving and resisting my way through life as if it was all one big game or competition. Hopefully the young folks out there involved in his content will also see that there's a middle ground, as with everything in life. A way that is much healthier and will lead to more happiness.
so the guy tried to make you masculine and you said no lmfaoooo, its not about competition it's about being your true self which is masculine if you're a guy
@@nohandleeeeee if you have to learn to be what he defines as masculine, is it really your natural self??
@@nohandleeeeee Masculine? What is masculine to you?
@@alimbo9436 To simpletons like that guy, being masculine is when you behave in such a horrible manner that eventually you push everybody away from you. That's what a lot of guys think masculinity is. It's no wonder so many young men become even worse, because social parasites like Tate take advantage of these confused young men
Find God.
I had an Andrew Tate in my life before: my father. And he was abusive.
stupid shaming tactics by you lol, he speaks facts. this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real
I bet you didn't turn out like Mr grande. I was abused as a child as well, and while it sucked it made me stronger. It made me see the bad in people. When you look at man like Mr grande, you get the sense of insecurity, submissiveness, and contentment. He is like that episode of SpongeBob where he goes "normal". Idk ig what I'm saying is diamonds are formed under pressure. Quit being a victim, and be a fighter that survived.
Grande is also exactly what men shouldn't be, just as much as Tate is
Speculating on what could be happening in a misogynistic hellscape like this
I've been hoping you'd do this one! Absolutely astute observation delivered in the most informative and entertaining manner. Thanks for another stellar take on what might be happening in a sad and pathetic case like this. Love from Reno! (Usually Ohio, I'm on vacation)
Where from in Ohio? I’m from NE Ohio. Love Dr. Grande!
Agreed Erica! As soon as I saw this one I had to watch immediately! Astute and witty with a delightfully dry delivery! Hope you are enjoying your hol's (vacation) in Reno - love how you mentioned that! And greetings from Perth, Western Australia (not on hol's - but planning a camping trip to Mount Augustus (world's biggest rock) in October).
Are you italian ?
@@stefanoc.k.k1159 She's from Ohio.
Not really.. I don't like tate.. but if you read beyond his shock statements. He is extremely smart that is playing a character. So this is actually a bad video...itsfunny nobody picks up on the good Ole Dr irrogence and his envy shows in his tone of voice