The Struggle Of Being Mixed Race

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  • @im.not.typical91
    @im.not.typical91 Před 8 lety +617

    For the love of God Mexican isn't a race

    • @Daniel_in_Paradise
      @Daniel_in_Paradise Před 8 lety +1

      Tru

    • @bingbung
      @bingbung Před 8 lety +7

      He never said nor implied that it was. That's the nationality of one of his parents, who happens to also be of a non-white race. You can be half German, half Chinese, half American, half whatever nationality YOURE half of. Simply stating this doesn't mean to equate this nationality to a race of its own by the same name.

    • @mmsantana8092
      @mmsantana8092 Před 8 lety +6

      +RevucumberTechUSA One thing is he if he says "Half American Half Mexican", when, by deduction, because most of the American population is white and most of Mexican population is mestizo (mix of Indigenous and White), that this his mix. But he didn't. He said "half White half Mexican". And what about the white Latinos (and it's not a small number)? And if it's a video about "Biracial" people, considering this, in this crazy "race" logic of this world, why he is on it, being 1/4 or maybe less, Indigenous, which is the other thing but white about him? This video it was just bad planned. Buzz Feed have to be serious about things if they want to talk about it.

    • @xrystalskyes2838
      @xrystalskyes2838 Před 8 lety +7

      Mexican isn't a *language* but all of my Mexican friends claim themselves as exactly that. If you have family decent from Mexico then you are Mexican, what am I missing

    • @weemeemoo
      @weemeemoo Před 8 lety +1

      More over, 'white' is antiqued and ambiguous. Stop using it people.

  • @FloofyMinari
    @FloofyMinari Před 8 lety +2902

    I don't think they know the difference between race, ethnicity, or nationality.

    • @shinmusashi44
      @shinmusashi44 Před 8 lety +78

      +Luis R. Sadly most people don't.

    • @rainylampone5020
      @rainylampone5020 Před 8 lety +46

      what's the difference? Not trying to be rude just want to be reassured

    • @diaryofagoofygal
      @diaryofagoofygal Před 8 lety +114

      +Rainy Lampone race is white, black, Hispanic,Asian all that. ethnicity is what your parents are. are your background. and nationality is where you were born. If I'm not mistaken

    • @shinmusashi44
      @shinmusashi44 Před 8 lety +27

      *****
      You are a little mistaken.

    • @ayooKondom
      @ayooKondom Před 8 lety

      +shinmusashi44 can you clarify please

  • @woyzing
    @woyzing Před 3 lety +1105

    Dude I’m biracial. They’re acting as if it’s some horrible disease. It’s barely an inconvenience.

    • @moisttowlette1247
      @moisttowlette1247 Před 3 lety +37

      Seriously tho.

    • @ScaryProbe
      @ScaryProbe Před 3 lety +24

      for some people including myself, yes

    • @jackandthebeanstalk4253
      @jackandthebeanstalk4253 Před 3 lety +8

      Pretty much

    • @woyzing
      @woyzing Před 3 lety +5

      Darren Dalton • 63 years ago ?

    • @jockeboss
      @jockeboss Před 3 lety +52

      me too but i struggle with my identity. it feels like i dont belong and that makes me feel kinda worthless

  • @metroid7299
    @metroid7299 Před 2 lety +67

    As a mixed race person myself I find this video entirely stupid. It's not the end of the world just because someone doesn't know what you're mixed with.

    • @Sukiroofficial
      @Sukiroofficial Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly

    • @auxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
      @auxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Před 2 lety +4

      I’m black and white and like I do get called white bc of my hair but I am mixed u know

    • @bomb3rhhh176
      @bomb3rhhh176 Před 2 lety +4

      I am mixed race and I couldn’t care less whether or not people say that I am black or white.

    • @skillius_
      @skillius_ Před 2 lety +4

      I agree. I couldn't really care less if people can't guess my race right off the bat, since it's understandable. If there's any struggle with being mixed, I'd say just trying to find where you truly belong. I feel that finding who I am has been quite a struggle for me through the years.

    • @kimisorensen4974
      @kimisorensen4974 Před 2 lety +1

      THANK YOU!!!

  • @petra3217
    @petra3217 Před 5 lety +551

    Mexican👏🏻is👏🏻not👏🏻a👏🏻race👏🏻
    IT IS A NATIONALITY

    • @lithesubliminals6701
      @lithesubliminals6701 Před 5 lety +24

      Thank you tell them

    • @user-un6eu7on5o
      @user-un6eu7on5o Před 5 lety +9

      It’s called Latino

    • @petra3217
      @petra3217 Před 5 lety +28

      @@user-un6eu7on5o he said im "half white and half mexican". not hispanic/latino and mexican is not a race

    • @rdg7078
      @rdg7078 Před 5 lety +5

      he probably has family from Mexico and doesn't know all the details. Don't make this a huge deal we all knew what he meant

    • @petra3217
      @petra3217 Před 5 lety +19

      @@rdg7078 u don't have to be mixed to know what races are.

  • @xoxoarielk
    @xoxoarielk Před 8 lety +785

    This video seemed oddly dramatic.

    • @yokitooli7325
      @yokitooli7325 Před 8 lety

      tru

    • @melealineberry4901
      @melealineberry4901 Před 8 lety +8

      yea im biracial and there r only 2 bad things that come out of it for me one is stupid standardized tests asking what race i am and when my grandma expects to already be speaking Spanish

    • @kevindragon843
      @kevindragon843 Před 8 lety +11

      I'm biracial and this made perfect sense to seem dramatic

    • @luisamisaki509
      @luisamisaki509 Před 8 lety

      ikr

    • @Ravjot03
      @Ravjot03 Před 8 lety +1

      I thought I was the only one

  • @danette26
    @danette26 Před 3 lety +104

    Why do people think Mexican is an ethnicity? It's a nationality. It's like saying you are half-American

    • @ricoweaver7808
      @ricoweaver7808 Před 3 lety +10

      because there are many ethnicities in mexico so saying mexican is like an umbrella

    • @gigglesandtickles9159
      @gigglesandtickles9159 Před 3 lety

      @@ricoweaver7808 no offense but your pfp is concerning. NVM

    • @free.lifestylee
      @free.lifestylee Před rokem

      well what do you want them to say?
      also do you care if i ask if you are hispanic or latino-a

    • @godrilla5549
      @godrilla5549 Před rokem

      When I think of Mexican I think of these dirty mixed raced people that stink a lot.

    • @danielcarvalho1453
      @danielcarvalho1453 Před 4 měsíci

      @@free.lifestyleeBy "Mexican" most people racially mean mestizo, which is 1/2 European and 1/2 Native American

  • @enyo-7178
    @enyo-7178 Před 3 lety +137

    im biracial but I don't get why it's so sad

    • @godjihyo453
      @godjihyo453 Před 3 lety +31

      same, these people are so whiny

    • @cenoviopereira8603
      @cenoviopereira8603 Před 3 lety +7

      You're so insensitive to the soundtrack haha

    • @Soso-hx9zi
      @Soso-hx9zi Před 3 lety +4

      @@godjihyo453 people have different experiences than you you know

    • @deyaniraocampo1131
      @deyaniraocampo1131 Před 3 lety +4

      Omg the music

    • @dave9547
      @dave9547 Před 3 lety +8

      Nothing these people said made me feel remotely bad for them. The sad piano?? 😂 What are they even whinging about?

  • @zombiexminer123
    @zombiexminer123 Před 8 lety +567

    im biracial and i dont really care if someone doesnt know what my race is lmao stop getting so sensitive.

    • @tylermathews7833
      @tylermathews7833 Před 8 lety +4

      +MrDucky Me too, I appreciate their gesture, but they don't need to get upset when people mistake them for a different race.

    • @arbitraryasmr5654
      @arbitraryasmr5654 Před 8 lety +1

      I understand why one might get annoyed at people never knowing what race they are, but what should be most important is for other people to not stereotype them into a certain race. The thing is, it shouldn't matter what race you are as long as you are true to yourself who cares what other people think.

    • @scan752
      @scan752 Před 8 lety

      Same here. They are being over dramatic about all this

    • @destinyfaith6777
      @destinyfaith6777 Před 8 lety

      +MrDucky I am biracial and i am very happy that they made this video.

    • @JordanStJohn
      @JordanStJohn Před 8 lety

      Same here

  • @BrieAlexis
    @BrieAlexis Před 8 lety +2556

    I'm biracial & I don't approve this message...

    • @angelash8998
      @angelash8998 Před 8 lety +185

      +Brianna Alexis i dont understand this whole self pity over this tbh

    • @BrieAlexis
      @BrieAlexis Před 8 lety +175

      +Angel Bocanegra me neither, some people are just over sensitive

    • @bingbung
      @bingbung Před 8 lety +18

      There is no message.

    • @sehnisweet343
      @sehnisweet343 Před 8 lety +143

      yeah I agree. I'm biracial and yeah almost nobody can identify my race but I'm not gonna get all dramatic and feel sorry for myself

    • @blkberri
      @blkberri Před 8 lety +4

      For real

  • @tilermendoza3920
    @tilermendoza3920 Před 3 lety +52

    Mexican isn't a race though

  • @MrSky10101
    @MrSky10101 Před 3 lety +169

    Only BuzzFeed can turn this into a negative race issue. My kids tell me being half Chinese is awesome.

    • @jrhprs
      @jrhprs Před 3 lety

      half chinese and what, american?.

    • @supercharger5727
      @supercharger5727 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@jrhprsAmerican isn’t a race

    • @jrhprs
      @jrhprs Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@supercharger5727 i think i meant the descendants of european settlers who migrated to america when I commented this

  • @aedamar7
    @aedamar7 Před 5 lety +128

    I think they’re really confusing race ethnicity and nationality. Mexican is not a race.

  • @faintmc
    @faintmc Před 8 lety +2165

    When you're half oompa loompa and people can't recognize it :'( RT

  • @thomasxbr1411
    @thomasxbr1411 Před 3 lety +60

    Why do people think that they NEED to be in one race group. They don't, and the worst part is that Buzzfeed makes it look like it's a big deal that people don't know your races when actually, it doesn't matter at ALL

  • @Averagecabbage0
    @Averagecabbage0 Před 3 lety +40

    So sad 😞🥺 I’m Mexican, Salvadoran, Indian, Chinese, Spanish, Filipino, And Korean. But people mistaken me for an attack helicopter 😢😭😭😭😭

  • @snvlogs3216
    @snvlogs3216 Před 5 lety +83

    They're talking about ethnicities, not races. And I don't think there's one person in the world who's fully 100% one ethnicity. And like, honestly, who cares???

  • @chocolatesoappp
    @chocolatesoappp Před 8 lety +241

    I'm biracial and find this so dramatic..... It's really not a big deal.

    • @ChickennoRotMG
      @ChickennoRotMG Před 8 lety

      +Tasha V. I agree completely, as someone who's a melting pot of races (being russian, hispanic, and native american), I think that they make it seem like this is a massive issue but it really isn't.

    • @JordanStJohn
      @JordanStJohn Před 8 lety

      Me too

    • @yellowfin321
      @yellowfin321 Před 8 lety

      +Tasha V. , I totally agree with you. In Hawai'i its a total norm to have friends and family who are at least more than two races. From what I notice its a question we ask each other in Hawai'i just out of curiosity to feel more connected :) I'm fully Chinese and if I know someone who is half or one third, I'm thrilled.

  • @williammcpherson9222
    @williammcpherson9222 Před 3 lety +36

    Since when is Mexican a race. Nationality

  • @lamiamoonshadow1104
    @lamiamoonshadow1104 Před 2 lety +20

    The rejection on both sides is a big one I feel pretty much daily. I'm too dark to be accepted as white and I'm too light to be accepted as Native American.

    • @demetri_lopez
      @demetri_lopez Před 2 lety +5

      Omg this it’s like a weird limbo not being part of either

    • @adrxie9296
      @adrxie9296 Před 2 lety +2

      feel it too. it feels like you're just a product sometimes ..

    • @nashiPAGE
      @nashiPAGE Před 2 lety +1

      I wish people would understand this. :(

  • @RamonChiNangWong078
    @RamonChiNangWong078 Před 4 lety +205

    Mexican is more of a nationality.

    • @MrsLevitanBoss
      @MrsLevitanBoss Před 4 lety +14

      Chubby Huang Many Mexicans (along with most Latinos) are mixed with White and Native anyways.

  • @Zullala
    @Zullala Před 8 lety +323

    Ugh, I know!! I absolutely hate it when people can't tell that I'm 50% German, 30% Polish, 10% Russian, %5 English 3% Asian, and 2% Pict ! It just really annoys me that people can't just tell by looking at me >:( .

    • @calista5811
      @calista5811 Před 8 lety +1

      I have fewer ethnicities than you but I still have the same problem 😭

    • @user-cg4ri2gw6o
      @user-cg4ri2gw6o Před 8 lety +1

      You pretty much only have one race. You do realize that right?

    • @Zullala
      @Zullala Před 8 lety +12

      Nyssa Ching I'm being sarcastic because in the video someone was like, "I'm half Danish!" and Danish isn't a race.

    • @user-cg4ri2gw6o
      @user-cg4ri2gw6o Před 8 lety +1

      +Zullala You're an idiot. She's Dutch and Indian. Dutch is a European race and Indian is an Asian race. Which means that she's mixed race. They assumed you would know that, which you honestly should, and felt that they didn't need to clarify.

    • @Zullala
      @Zullala Před 8 lety +6

      Nyssa Ching European is not a race either. If you say you are European it means that you are a native of Europe (People consisting of different races can be European). Dutch is a nationality. Caucasian is a race. She could say she is half Caucasian and half Asian.
      All I said was Dutch isn't a race, which it isn't. Calm down.

  • @kevinstreeter6943
    @kevinstreeter6943 Před 3 měsíci +18

    My mixed race Asian/White son did not have a problem until HS. It was from the Black students. It was the White half they hated. Before HS, he had Black friends. At HS, it stopped.

    • @bunnybird9342
      @bunnybird9342 Před 3 měsíci +6

      Literally anybody can be racist, not just white people. That is a sad truth.
      I am also Asian/white mixed and most of the kids who were being racist to me in elementary school and middle school were black.

    • @Henryfordisright
      @Henryfordisright Před 3 měsíci +2

      ​@@bunnybird9342some races are more aggressive than others.

  • @personaglover2259
    @personaglover2259 Před 3 lety +15

    German Shepherd / Pit Bull mix here. It’s really hard sometimes, when other dogs look at me and assume I can fight. The truth is, I can really fight. So to prove my point, I always run up to them and bite into their neck, no hesitation, so they can go “a-ha! He’s a German Shepherd / Pit Bull mix after all!” as they pass away. And it gives me so much satisfaction. Better than simply identifying myself, or doing an interview with those weird Buzzfeed dogs.

  • @ZayAgka
    @ZayAgka Před 8 lety +274

    I don't think that people not being able to guess your race is a problem... Let's leave all this sensitivity in 2015 and make videos about actual problems. I'm biracial and I don't care if someone guesses me as Hispanic or Chinese. I may be biracial, but someone not being able to tell isn't a world problem, nor is it racist. Just sayin'.

    • @LJ_S1K
      @LJ_S1K Před 8 lety +9

      +DizzyGEICO You missed the point of the video. It's not about people mistaking you for another race(that to me is the fun part) it's about people assuming you should be a certain way because of how you look. Sure it's not a huge issue, but it is something people have to go through for their whole lives, especially in America

    • @littlebitawsome100
      @littlebitawsome100 Před 8 lety

      +Joshua but whats wrong? it's not their fault you look like a different race.

    • @gisellenicole2731
      @gisellenicole2731 Před 8 lety

      yaz

    • @krystelle3521
      @krystelle3521 Před 8 lety

      Everything has the possibility of it being a problem or not. For a example, a chair is a problem. Most people think its not but a few may be scared of it or injured multiple times from it.

    • @littlebitawsome100
      @littlebitawsome100 Před 8 lety

      Krystelle Anne Ternura true, but does that mean there should be a video made about people with a fear of chairs?

  • @MrsLevitanBoss
    @MrsLevitanBoss Před 4 lety +615

    They need to learn the difference between ethnicity, nationality,and race

    • @user-tj2kh1nh4p
      @user-tj2kh1nh4p Před 3 lety

      @si Markeyan no, the city where I'm from there is a huge and growing asian community. Most of them identify as Mexican too.

    • @assaniase8638
      @assaniase8638 Před 3 lety +4

      Your right ....nationality and race are two different things: Mexico is a nationality and Black is a race, hence I would be Afro-Mexican

    • @theethnonationalism3234
      @theethnonationalism3234 Před 3 lety +3

      @@diegoperalta4104 Both north and south america have no race or ethnicity

    • @blaylocklld7895
      @blaylocklld7895 Před 2 lety

      When they says "mexican" they mean native. Its not hard to understand. Even white people can be mexican, but just by country.

  • @pje1976
    @pje1976 Před 3 lety +15

    The lady who said half Danish and Half Indian, I guessed her correct as Half Indian. Kudos to me

    • @bekindandpolite2158
      @bekindandpolite2158 Před 3 lety +1

      Me too she looked like a beautiful mix of Indian and Caucasian though she ended up looking like Palestinian or Lebanese

  • @spiritedrenee9895
    @spiritedrenee9895 Před 3 lety +36

    I know this video is +4 years old but the way they put dramatic sounding music over it makes everyone sound like they’re whinny children.

  • @meer-hoo
    @meer-hoo Před 5 lety +92

    As a biracial person I'd just like to say: these people are making no god damn sense lmao

  • @arabwaluigi5248
    @arabwaluigi5248 Před 8 lety +352

    Oh boy I'm so upset people can't identify me I'm a special snowflake
    This was awful

  • @thisislogout
    @thisislogout Před 10 dny +7

    Who is complaining? They're just stating facts. Those who are not biracial don't understand how tired we are of people asking us "what are you?" I tell them I'm an American. When they ask "yeah, but are you White, Black, Asian, Hispanic?" I have to explain that my grandmother on father's side is English (White), her husband is mix of African American and Native American. My mother's mother is French Canadian (White), and Native American. Personally, I don't care what a person's ethnicity is, just that they are cool and genuine and intelligent and not racist. There are good and bad people of every race/ethnicity. Most Mexicans are mixed with Spaniards and Native American, but since they speak Spanish and from Mexico (or parents from Mexico) nobody asks them "what are you?", ..they just address them as "Mexican". Bottom line is it doesn't matter what race one is, but what are ones morals and respect for humanity.

  • @jackandthebeanstalk4253
    @jackandthebeanstalk4253 Před 3 lety +54

    Being mixed race isn’t that deep

  • @roxannemapache826
    @roxannemapache826 Před 8 lety +200

    As a biracial person, I totally get how it feels to be rejected on both sides (not black enough, not "Spanish" enough is what they say). It never really bothered me. Whoever likes me, likes me and that's about it.
    My thing is, why couldn't buzzfeed make a video about how awesome it is to be biracial? How culturals blend, hair textures develop and our outside is a mystery? Why must everything be "Woe is me?"

    • @neyson220293
      @neyson220293 Před 8 lety +2

      +Roxanne Mapache believe me, you're black enough sweety. and spain's a multiracial country so if you say you're spanish, then I totally believe you. being multiracial is neither good nor bad, it just is.

    • @AkonFenty1992
      @AkonFenty1992 Před 8 lety

      +Roxanne Mapache I'm mixed and feel the same way.

    • @naiyaalysia5152
      @naiyaalysia5152 Před 8 lety +1

      Thats literally my life story but my dad left so I ended up being way more Hispanic but nobody's ever able to guess my race until they hear my Spanish accent

    • @kellylynn5597
      @kellylynn5597 Před 8 lety +3

      +footy facts Just because you don't face issues with being biracial doesn't mean we all don't. I've had a really tough time growing up half white and half black especially living in such a racist prejudice community. I'm glad you had it easy but for a lot of us biracial people life is a struggle. Im rejected by my white peers for trying to be "too black" and I'm rejected by my black peers for white passing. Although I admit this video should have been more about the feeling of not belonging to a certain community and not just people not recognizing their races.

    • @roxannemapache826
      @roxannemapache826 Před 8 lety

      +Roxanna Krause Thanks! You're stunning btw!

  • @lptrevijano
    @lptrevijano Před 8 lety +762

    I don't understand why anybody feels the need to belong to a certain race, or to be identified as a race or mixed race. What's the point?
    Am I the only one that thnks this only encourages racism? We are all people, who cares what race your parents or grandparents are? You are you.

    • @MultiMissLucy
      @MultiMissLucy Před 8 lety +6

      +lptrevijano Some people like to feel connected to their culture and basically be able to say "I'm x and y" and not getting comments like: "Oh but you don't look like!" or "I thought this certain race looks like...".
      This video doesn't encourage racism but your comment might be interpreted in another way...

    • @lptrevijano
      @lptrevijano Před 8 lety +20

      Linkexx That's exactly what I mean, why bother about what other people think?
      I feel this video just emphasises the importance of the way you look and how that is supposed to tell you who you are. I have no doubt that is not at all what Buzzfeed meant with the idea, I just think it turned out all wrong.
      You don't need to look certain way to connect with your culture. That's what this video should be about.

    • @lptrevijano
      @lptrevijano Před 8 lety +5

      Linkexx I get what you mean, however I believe that holding on to those cultural prejudices is not good.
      I insist, we are who we are and no one should tell us otherwise, specially if it is based on the way we look.

    • @8932ken
      @8932ken Před 8 lety +1

      I get your ideology but frankly that's an ideal. So many people are suffering because of people who don't think like you (us), and it's not up to every victim to say "well screw everybody I'll be who I am" because reality is that social constraints make it very hard for them. It would be nice if more people realized what you think, but reality is that a lot of people are perpetrators of these prejudices and people who have racial privileges are not in the position to accuse the victims.

    • @-zerenity-4382
      @-zerenity-4382 Před 8 lety

      +lptrevijano I agree ::=)

  • @brittanysapology9528
    @brittanysapology9528 Před 2 lety +30

    The sad background music is pathetic

  • @user-rq7ky4tc3s
    @user-rq7ky4tc3s Před 3 lety +32

    I am Korean and white. I don’t victimize myself. The truth is it doesn’t matter. If you live in America, you’re American, no matter what ethnicity you are.

    • @Rc-db7mo
      @Rc-db7mo Před 3 lety +5

      Race is different than ethnicity

    • @parksnrec9298
      @parksnrec9298 Před 3 lety +2

      Same. Half Russian half Japanese. I love myself and I’m American. I speak many languages and have diverse family and friends. I’m dating a white guy as there’s 80% white guys in my college as it’s America. If I was in Japan I’d be dating a Japanese guy I guess based on population.

    • @sophiadevizio9418
      @sophiadevizio9418 Před 3 lety

      It’s not just that. It’s people thinking that they can be racist around you. It’s having an identity crisis. Hating being one race and wanted to just be one. Not understand at a young age that I can be more than one race.

  • @booshbear
    @booshbear Před 8 lety +543

    these people really need to stop being so offended

    • @CherryNocti
      @CherryNocti Před 8 lety +1

      +Boosh Bear These people are offended because all their lives they have been identifying themselves as both of their origins and the fact that people don't understand who they are and their point of view hurts their self-image

    • @booshbear
      @booshbear Před 8 lety +9

      +Cherry Goyangi people get my race wrong all the time i dont get butthurt and cry over it cause my "identity" is ruined

    • @CherryNocti
      @CherryNocti Před 8 lety +1

      I don't get butthurt about it either but my identity is important to me and I hate when people simply judge you without understanding

    • @booshbear
      @booshbear Před 8 lety +20

      +Cherry Goyangi they dont judge they make a human misunderstanding, you need a reality check

    • @bclp986
      @bclp986 Před 8 lety +2

      Have you ever faced the struggle of no one knowing what you are, and when you tell them they joke about you or stereotype you or even flat out don't believe you? It's who you are and they won't except it? I doubt you have

  • @flaviospadavecchia5126
    @flaviospadavecchia5126 Před 8 lety +427

    My God, the struggle. Poor rich Americans.

    • @Tokkoking
      @Tokkoking Před 8 lety +1

      Yes please kill them, ours sake

    • @akailacox2082
      @akailacox2082 Před 8 lety +6

      Not all Americans are rich.....

    • @flaviospadavecchia5126
      @flaviospadavecchia5126 Před 8 lety +11

      Of course not, and poor people have their REAL struggles. Being mixed race in America is NOT a struggle.

    • @beth.5986
      @beth.5986 Před 8 lety +2

      OXYMORON
      My English teacher would be proud.

    • @DRM0087
      @DRM0087 Před 8 lety

      +akaila cox *rich person*

  • @alishaxx2242
    @alishaxx2242 Před 3 lety +43

    Im mixed and its not that dramatic-

    • @narutoyama7284
      @narutoyama7284 Před 3 lety +4

      exactly!!im confused of what they said lol,,i wont be disturbed if someone guessed my identity wrong really.

    • @sundecorise
      @sundecorise Před 3 lety +2

      Lol same, it's just a plus for me cause in Thailand they call me pretty lolol

  • @veltro5659
    @veltro5659 Před 3 lety +22

    I am half european and half native American and every time I go sleep my european part try colonize the other part...

  • @Artbug
    @Artbug Před 8 lety +213

    *Why would you take offense to someone making an honest mistake???*
    Should I get mad when people come up to me on the street and ask me for directions and I don't know the directions?... Do I look like someone with amazing spacial skills or something. How dare they make that snap judgement about me!

    • @Artbug
      @Artbug Před 8 lety +14

      And don't base your sense of self and worth on your race: You are so much more of a person than that.

    • @Itsandreamb
      @Itsandreamb Před 8 lety

      +Artbug Thank you ! Finally someone gets it !

    • @OrangeEBIL
      @OrangeEBIL Před 8 lety

      I don't think it's offensive. Its more annoying than anything. Why bring up someone's background in the first place? If you can't readily identify someone's heritage then shut up and keep moving. It's not life or death.

    • @cilia3696
      @cilia3696 Před 8 lety

      +LRK - if someone looks white, but has black in him, then you can't tell on first glance that this person is mixed. Asking where he's from or assuming he's white isn't rude or anything. If i see someone, who looks white i don't think "oh no, what if i assume wrongly and he/she is actually mixed :((("

    • @OrangeEBIL
      @OrangeEBIL Před 8 lety

      +Zelda Pika it's not wrong to assume, but it maybe annoying to ask. I'd rather have interactions that don't circle around heritage. When people first meet me that's usually the first thing they ask. It gets tiresome. When I first meet someone I ask them about their work, school, kids, etc.

  • @4715826930
    @4715826930 Před 8 lety +286

    Are you kidding? Being biracial is awesome. I get to make black people jokes and white people jokes w/o anyone calling me racist.

  • @93seronica
    @93seronica Před 2 lety +18

    I’m half black and half white, recently I’ve been calling myself black but I have to accept that I’m both white and black. I can’t put myself into one box. I’m two races.

    • @zoemorin1623
      @zoemorin1623 Před 2 lety +7

      Yes. Same. We are two races and for me it’s to identify as both black and white. No one gets to force me to pick one or another

    • @anonbunnybabe
      @anonbunnybabe Před rokem +1

      Yes girl!!

  • @nellustylejeb7210
    @nellustylejeb7210 Před 2 lety +25

    im half nigerian and half finnish and being mixed is kinda hard ain't gon lie. The finnish society calls me black not finnish. And nigerian society calls me finnish not nigerian. So sometimes i don't know what am i.

    • @MsTomas086
      @MsTomas086 Před 2 lety +3

      Your mixed. No confusion there.

    • @sanu7325
      @sanu7325 Před 2 lety +4

      Bruh just dont care

    • @NotFckingBen
      @NotFckingBen Před 2 lety +2

      You’re you! Be proud of who you are and your uniqueness!! You don’t need a label unless you want one. I am 1/2 Ethiopian, 1/4 Italian and Norwegian, 1/8 Native American, 1/8 Arab with my Norwegian family being born in Brasil. I’m proud of my grandparents, parents, and I being mixed race. I look more Ethiopian and Italian than anything so I can relate to your struggle, Ethiopians saying I look more Italian/Italians saying I look more Ethiopian. But I remember that’s because I’m unique, in my looks, culture, personality, and genes.

    • @thomasjohnston8970
      @thomasjohnston8970 Před 2 lety +3

      This is why race mixing is bad.

    • @tryphenarose384
      @tryphenarose384 Před 2 lety +2

      @@thomasjohnston8970 You've got some confusion if you think there's such thing as a "pure" race.

  • @wilpos
    @wilpos Před 8 lety +283

    I find it really strange how people in the USA make such a BIG deal about race. I'm Mexican and since everybody here is mixed race nobody gives a flying truck about what your race is, nor people get anxious if their race is not adressed correctly by others.
    Such a strange concept.

    • @superjacksonfan12345
      @superjacksonfan12345 Před 8 lety +1

      +Rodrosv Loll thats sooooo not true. Mexicans are sooooo biased for light skinned people. Have you even seen a novella? XD

    • @wilpos
      @wilpos Před 8 lety +5

      I mean sure, the Mexican media is racist (and sexist) as much as the next country, but that's not what I was talking about. I was talking about people feeling "victimized" when their race is not adressed correctly by others.
      Like... Why do they care so much?

    • @superjacksonfan12345
      @superjacksonfan12345 Před 8 lety

      Rodrosv Its just annoying to be constantly asked and treated as some sort of "guess what!" commodity.

    • @wilpos
      @wilpos Před 8 lety

      +Penny Lane Oh I see, that actually seems annoying.

    • @AceofDlamonds
      @AceofDlamonds Před 8 lety

      1960s....barely 50 years ago there were race wars and government sanctioned crackdowns on blacks. Thats pretty recent and scars dont heal well. Plus blacks still live in poverty.

  • @nasmafalah7363
    @nasmafalah7363 Před 8 lety +3039

    Why are they acting like its a sad thing and a struggle like who cares

    • @Indomitable
      @Indomitable Před 8 lety +3

      +nasma falah Mainly racists.

    • @Nicole08068
      @Nicole08068 Před 8 lety +7

      Maybe it's not such a big deal nowadays, but in my father's generation race was pretty important, i.e segregation was still a thing that happened. My father is Hispanic and in the south about 40-45 years ago there were black restrooms and white restrooms, both told him he wasn't supposed to be there. Luckily that doesn't happen today. Growing up as half Hispanic and half "white" I never realized that I was concidered biracial. Think of it like in Harry Potter, some full blooded people look at biracial people a mud bloods. Some prejudices will never disappear :(

    • @HokageSama
      @HokageSama Před 8 lety +29

      cause it sucks going every day being told your nor black enough or asian enough. when you feel like you dont belong to a culture , and feel rejected. you may not be able to relate, but others can bro

    • @krystelle3521
      @krystelle3521 Před 8 lety +12

      And there are people who do care, unlike you.

    • @proserpinehymn
      @proserpinehymn Před 8 lety +4

      it is sad in a way because your heritage and culture is constantly glossed over or disregarded. i dont expect everyone to know my background heritage but i also dont expect people to disregard my blood and call me full white.

  • @Zbxwzz
    @Zbxwzz Před 2 lety +33

    Look at the comments. That, alone, is a big part of the struggle.

  • @cheeseball3173
    @cheeseball3173 Před 3 lety +19

    This is so sad. Alexa, play despacito. No one knows I'm 2% white

  • @dannysyoutube5812
    @dannysyoutube5812 Před 8 lety +257

    When they act like this is a real struggle 😭😂

  • @christia8981
    @christia8981 Před 8 lety +144

    It honestly breaks my heart when people can't tell I'm 45% Latino 30% Arabic 20% Italian & 5% French 😪😪 sometimes life is such a struggle seriously who cares about the innocent people getting killed everyday😌

  • @MISayera97
    @MISayera97 Před 3 lety +14

    It's just skin colour, people. We are all humans.

  • @jennypai1776
    @jennypai1776 Před rokem +35

    This is what happens when your country is obsessed with race. Latin America is way more mixed that Europe and US but they don't have this identity crises

    • @juliuscaesart
      @juliuscaesart Před rokem

      I know, I was born in the states but everyone asks me where my family is from 🙃

    • @nancib2963
      @nancib2963 Před rokem +1

      Yup. People in U.S. seem to need to slap a label on others so they know how they can treat them. For example, you look Latin so you can pick up my yard or take care of my kids. Or you look African-descent, so you'll be dishonest/combative. I'm so tired of it.

    • @pumfeethermodynamics3286
      @pumfeethermodynamics3286 Před rokem

      they do they just ignored it until people started forgetting their indigenous ancestr.y

    • @aglassofmilk5779
      @aglassofmilk5779 Před rokem +4

      Bro they do what are you talking about💀💀💀
      I can’t tell you the insane amount of criollos and mestizos who larp as Indians, and the other way around

    • @Giovanna-nc7xd
      @Giovanna-nc7xd Před 7 měsíci

      You are wrong, in Brazil there are people unable to identify their own skin color. Lol

  • @ainenighuairim8791
    @ainenighuairim8791 Před 8 lety +424

    No hate but buzz feed is always looking for things to complain about like is anyone of them actually upset that "people don't know their nationality " nobody thinks before they go to sleep about how hard it is that people don't know their race. Can buzzfeed stop creating problems

    • @tata132818
      @tata132818 Před 8 lety +1

      THIS! I agree 100%

    • @sandywilson3126
      @sandywilson3126 Před 8 lety +2

      +mordam I agree with you and understand :) The point of the video wasn't primarily to say that they're upset whenever someone cant identify their ethnicity correct. It's to show how they felt growing up how they felt like they never fit in wherever they went. How they were told they had to be one thing and they couldn't be that one thing. That wherever they went that was how it was, and people would kind of push you away for not seeming to fit into their standards. I dont think this is just an issue in U.S.A. People who experience this and know how it feels aren't spoiled, ungrateful people who's problems should be counted as "nothing". And it honestly made me angry to see that people are saying that. If you haven't personally walked in their shoes and gone through what they have gone through then don't say anything. You have no right to tell them that their problems are insignificant. Because I'm sure there are people experiencing this also in developing countries whom have also felt that same feeling. Im sorry I jusy felt like ranting that to anybody who is willing to read this comment. I just think you shouldn't tell somebody that their problems are stupid unless you have suffered the same way they have. Only then can you truly see what they've gone through

    • @mariocastro6895
      @mariocastro6895 Před 8 lety

      yes some of us are kind of annoyed when people stereotype you.

    • @mariocastro6895
      @mariocastro6895 Před 8 lety

      +Mario Castro us not you, stereotype us

    • @mariocastro6895
      @mariocastro6895 Před 8 lety +1

      and I have thought about it before I went to sleep.

  • @bak3519
    @bak3519 Před 6 lety +60

    Their is starvation, poverty, homelessness, etc. but you’re upset because people don’t know what race you are?

  • @--BACKTFUP
    @--BACKTFUP Před 3 lety +42

    I'm black but everybody thinks I'm black but I'm actually black. I hate it here. Life is so goddamn hard

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox Před rokem +39

    This comment section is horrible and the fact that much of it isn't from six years ago but just a few weeks old sucks. Just so you know: This video was extremely powerful and I'm sure a lot of people feel seen by it who have felt lost in their identity at some point in their lives.

    • @crxtube187
      @crxtube187 Před rokem +6

      It's lame .
      They are being overly dramatic over stupid reason.

    • @eggchin22x78
      @eggchin22x78 Před rokem +1

      @@crxtube187 are you mixed race?

  • @mhjj78hola
    @mhjj78hola Před 8 lety +160

    Then why are they being sensitive if people don't know what race they are.

    • @FloofyMinari
      @FloofyMinari Před 8 lety +9

      +AnimeWonderland How could you not know, They are humans, what other race could they be? a canine?

    • @tycko4
      @tycko4 Před 8 lety +1

      Insecurities of being mixed.

    • @kulotz5555
      @kulotz5555 Před 8 lety

      cause theu are racists

    • @theanimeartist2024
      @theanimeartist2024 Před 8 lety

      true

  • @Elise-mz4kt
    @Elise-mz4kt Před 8 lety +211

    why are they acting like it's an everyday struggle it's a gift be happy about it

    • @AsBe25.
      @AsBe25. Před 8 lety +2

      +Verelle im biracial and don't get hate

    • @AsBe25.
      @AsBe25. Před 8 lety +2

      Verelle i live in Italy

    • @AsBe25.
      @AsBe25. Před 8 lety

      charlottesasaki i don't think so. i know who i am and where i'm from

    • @cairoclacio2953
      @cairoclacio2953 Před 8 lety

      +Elise e IKR

    • @briannasuxs
      @briannasuxs Před 8 lety +1

      As a multiracial person I do battle it everyday and sometimes get made fun of.

  • @RaverGasm
    @RaverGasm Před 3 lety +39

    Small Rant: Everyone's always talking about how race is important and how you should be proud... except for when it comes to mixed raced people... Mixed people are just being overly sensitive and dramatic when quite literally... It is very common for them to be outcaste, bullied and confused about their social identity because they don't immediately fall under a larger category. It's facing an extra prejudice to their person... and somehow that's not as bad as being discriminated against as one race? Sure they might be "passing" as something else visually... but they don't associate with that... These comments are so negative for no reason. People are allowed to be upset over their own struggles... and you don't have to specifically agree because you don't relate! these are entirely other people with different lives. Imagine telling someone about their gender... you wouldn't unless you were completely insensitive.

    • @idkman290
      @idkman290 Před 3 lety +1

      who cares mixed people dont go threw anything.They take spots from black women.

    • @RaverGasm
      @RaverGasm Před 3 lety +10

      Bro you sound stupid... never speak again. @@idkman290

    • @Geck_Gxng
      @Geck_Gxng Před 3 lety +1

      @@RaverGasm nah he/she/apachi attack helicopter is speaking facts

    • @puclopuclik4108
      @puclopuclik4108 Před 3 lety

      No, race is not important and should never be something to be proud of. Only when you should care about your skin color is when you're buying sunscreen.
      If you want to know your identity, check your passport, unles you're member of some minority as Amish or member of native tribe.
      Don't be proud of your genetic, but on your achievement.
      I wish Americans would care about their character as they care about their ancestry.

    • @RaverGasm
      @RaverGasm Před 3 lety +7

      Huh... you just said It's not important while also expressing why it was important... Amish people are not minorities... That is a chosen lifestyle. I'm about 5 different ethnic minority groups and don't live in America. The passport thing also doesn't make sense! but I understand what you we're talking about I guess... I agree that it should not be the defining factor of a persons personality but I was not talking about any of that. @@puclopuclik4108

  • @user-lw5op5bj7d
    @user-lw5op5bj7d Před 3 lety +58

    half mexican half white? mexican isn't a race. his mexican parent could be white, meaning that he's just 100% white

    • @guerito6984
      @guerito6984 Před 3 lety +9

      As a white mexican this is true mexican isnt a race go to los altos de jalisco and 1/10 people are white

    • @ingridrodriguez3273
      @ingridrodriguez3273 Před 3 lety

      Well culturally you can be half Mexican

    • @miguelhuerta4126
      @miguelhuerta4126 Před 3 lety +3

      @@ingridrodriguez3273 I doubt he meant it that way

    • @ameilioracryptos5298
      @ameilioracryptos5298 Před 3 lety +5

      White guy trying to feel special

  • @andrijanailic4408
    @andrijanailic4408 Před 4 lety +571

    "if im going to be white, why cant i have blonde hair and blue eyes"
    is she serious?

    • @oevandrorealconfia4762
      @oevandrorealconfia4762 Před 4 lety +12

      LMAOOOOOOO

    • @andrijanailic4408
      @andrijanailic4408 Před 4 lety +3

      @Србски Родољуб sto ne bi podrzavali mesanje? nek se voli ko s kim hoce i nek imaju dece koliko zele, ali ovaj video je glup i besmislen

    • @andrijanailic4408
      @andrijanailic4408 Před 4 lety +1

      @Србски Родољуб a ti si rasista.

    • @nicole-wf4pe
      @nicole-wf4pe Před 3 lety +64

      As if all white people have blue eyes

    • @masnwrdl0511
      @masnwrdl0511 Před 3 lety +40

      @@nicole-wf4pe I know right. I'm white and I have black eyes lmao but white skin

  • @flamflam6652
    @flamflam6652 Před 8 lety +115

    I'm biracial and it's never been an issue. I guess it depends on how bad racism is in your country.

    • @flamflam6652
      @flamflam6652 Před 8 lety +1

      New Zealand.

    • @cinderg1ock
      @cinderg1ock Před 8 lety +2

      Yeah, same here. I don't really care about fitting in and belonging to a group. I just make friends with the people that make me laugh, understand me, etc. But I see what the people in this vid are trying to get at. Kinda.

    • @coldramen2353
      @coldramen2353 Před 8 lety

      +Nicole H (Nicole the Goat) agreed. im triracial and i dont care what anyone thinks at all.

    • @dababyyoda618
      @dababyyoda618 Před 8 lety

      Ya but like thats not there point in this there point is they get called different races that they aren't

    • @cinderg1ock
      @cinderg1ock Před 8 lety

      Frankus Glasses xD "Triracial" I would say something like that with the number of ethnicities that I have, but honestly there's too much. I just call myself mixed. When people ask, I either say "The main ones are pretty much a cow" (the two colors) or launch into a whole backstory about my parents' heritage. My parents both have good stories, but honestly people just can't tell if I'm Egyptian or Dominican. And I'm neither...

  • @Lady_Omni
    @Lady_Omni Před rokem +16

    Being mixed Indigenous & European settler, and not being able to fit into either culture, I feel this in my teeth.

  • @gamingpig0074
    @gamingpig0074 Před 3 lety +18

    Please everyone listen to me! It’s not a struggle I’m Mexican and white and I’m doin just fine.

    • @idiomatico4993
      @idiomatico4993 Před 3 lety +3

      Mexican is not an ethnicity, it is a nationality. Actually, most of us, Mexican are multiethnic.

    • @joe_mama_
      @joe_mama_ Před 3 lety

      latino nor mexican is a race. You would just be a white latino. Biracial ppl usually have alot of self hate and identity problems

  • @maxdavinci579
    @maxdavinci579 Před 8 lety +221

    This so so ignorant from the first sentences. Mexico is a country, not a race. An as a country, it's filled with a lot of ethnicities. Yes, white people live in Mexico, too.

    • @TheRickyH
      @TheRickyH Před 8 lety +1

      +Max DaVinci pretty much this. That guy sounds like he wants pity points.

    • @pandagirl0618
      @pandagirl0618 Před 8 lety +5

      You can be Mexican you idiot

    • @TheRickyH
      @TheRickyH Před 8 lety +9

      undertakersbff〈3
      Mexican is not a race.

    • @AimeeFootit
      @AimeeFootit Před 8 lety

      +undertakersbff〈3 plz te read the comment

    • @GirlySimmerNatasha
      @GirlySimmerNatasha Před 8 lety

      Hispanic

  • @truittforrester8452
    @truittforrester8452 Před 8 lety +304

    Person- hi
    Biracial person- hi, I'm half Mexican and half white so ya...
    Person-Okayyyyyy??? *walks away*
    Biracial person- oh are you walking away cause I'm half Mexican???? I see how it is.

    • @pandaonsteroids5154
      @pandaonsteroids5154 Před 8 lety +4

      +Truitt Forrester Mmm... This is pretty accurate. Many people are like this. It's not because they're biracial. It's simply because they're just that type of person, but fair enough. Stereotypes don't come from nowhere.

    • @truittforrester8452
      @truittforrester8452 Před 8 lety

      +Panda On Steroids yes I do get that many biracial people do get bullied and I'm not trying to offend anyone but this vid seems a little extreme. Like bob Marley was bullied and made fun of a lot in Jamaica because his dad was British and he didn't care he just didn't listen to them and became famous and a great singer

    • @pandaonsteroids5154
      @pandaonsteroids5154 Před 8 lety

      Truitt Forrester You definitely didn't offend me. I agree with you. I'm biracial and I feel no struggle. Buzzfeed simply portrayed these so called "struggles" horribly. There are struggles, but this video did them no justice.

    • @truittforrester8452
      @truittforrester8452 Před 8 lety

      +Panda On Steroids I would love to be biracial because you get to be part of 2 cultures... What are you?

    • @pandaonsteroids5154
      @pandaonsteroids5154 Před 8 lety

      Truitt Forrester Black and white.. Also, not necessarily. I just live a normal American life. My parents are too lazy for culture.

  • @userpersonwhoisahuman
    @userpersonwhoisahuman Před 3 lety +10

    I am biracial. I am half black, quarter latino and quarter white. People think I am white when they see me. Do I care? NO!
    Do you know why? Because race (get this) doesnt matter.
    Being assumed as latino, white, asian, or any other race isnt a bad thing.
    Because being white, latino, or asian, isnt a bad thing.

    • @raisinghearts
      @raisinghearts Před 3 lety +2

      👏👏👏👏👏👏 I want my biracial children to think independently like you.

    • @idkman290
      @idkman290 Před 3 lety

      latino isnt a race omg

    • @userpersonwhoisahuman
      @userpersonwhoisahuman Před 3 lety +1

      @@idkman290 my point still stands either way

  • @isabelacastillo8116
    @isabelacastillo8116 Před 3 lety +32

    The Indian danish girl makes her look Italian lol

    • @ninili847
      @ninili847 Před 3 lety +4

      And that, is what the people in the video struggle with on a daily basis…

    • @isabelacastillo8116
      @isabelacastillo8116 Před 3 lety +3

      @@ninili847 I’m Indian Swedish

    • @ninili847
      @ninili847 Před 3 lety +4

      @@isabelacastillo8116 So? You’re still doing what everyone in this video is telling you not to do!

    • @sophie_drachen
      @sophie_drachen Před 3 lety +2

      I was initially going to say she’s half Georgian and Azeri, (from Azerbaijan). She’s actually Danish and Indian, wow!

    • @swayamsouravdash2433
      @swayamsouravdash2433 Před 3 lety +2

      @@isabelacastillo8116 she is beautiful in every angle.she don't looks like a albino Deasease

  • @irishboy0909
    @irishboy0909 Před 8 lety +221

    People are starving.

    • @SelimxBradley
      @SelimxBradley Před 8 lety +11

      for attention

    • @emilybrown1014
      @emilybrown1014 Před 8 lety

      Preach

    • @lailaalbernaz206
      @lailaalbernaz206 Před 8 lety

      well said. I'm mixed race, people often don't believe me when I say I'm not Caucasian, but it's not as big a deal as these people say it is. sometimes people forget about things like people dying from starvation and BLM movement.

    • @eddstactitudcaribe8046
      @eddstactitudcaribe8046 Před 8 lety

      And every part of the world.

    • @yaneishahackett6904
      @yaneishahackett6904 Před 8 lety +1

      And commenting that on a videos totally helps. I notice you care so much. But then again if you did you wouldn't spend your time talking about people starving you'd actually do something.

  • @matthewgillespie2835
    @matthewgillespie2835 Před 8 lety +115

    There are millions around the world without enough food and water, struggling to survive, and you're over here complaining about people not knowing which ethnicity you are? Give me a break!

    • @Critique808
      @Critique808 Před 8 lety

      lol ikr

    • @mymykisses5980
      @mymykisses5980 Před 8 lety

      Lol true

    • @mango2800
      @mango2800 Před 8 lety

      omg true af

    • @laurenvuceta1101
      @laurenvuceta1101 Před 8 lety +1

      +Matt Gellespie im multiracial and i def agree with u... like Come On!

    • @yahiakandil4086
      @yahiakandil4086 Před 8 lety

      +CurlyGirly glade im not the only one who thinks this is stupid ... but to be real it is normal not to "blend in " because u simply dont belong there originaly se LIVE WITH IT ... well BuzzFeed did it again . couldnt be more proud xD.

  • @m.v_mil
    @m.v_mil Před 3 lety +13

    Bruh why are they so obsessed with their race

  • @anacarolinamenezes8912
    @anacarolinamenezes8912 Před 2 lety +25

    This is the most USian thing I’ve ever watched lol

  • @25Abril95
    @25Abril95 Před 6 lety +55

    Why is this video so overly dramatic? Im mixed race too and never had a problem about it

    • @alextheserpent6357
      @alextheserpent6357 Před 6 lety

      Probably because we have grown up in an almost completely different world than them.

  • @summer6071
    @summer6071 Před 5 lety +118

    Why is race sooo important in America.

    • @thanos2830
      @thanos2830 Před 5 lety +4

      Exactly, literally everything is made to be about race for some reason

    • @meganweaver2409
      @meganweaver2409 Před 5 lety +7

      Hate fuels pride and pride fuels hate. Victims become proud of their hardships. Being proud will make you a victim because people will tear you down when you're happy. It's an endless cycle in the US because "BE PROUD OF YOURSELF" is a major American motto. That applies to physical appearance (race, nationality, size) and achievements. Its pretty complicated and I hope that made sense. Race is an issue because we have loud racist and loud victims. Both are proud of their side of the story and butt heads all the time. Pride also creates closed mindedness so you don't try to find a middle ground nor try to change. You'd think racism would disappear the more advanced we get, but I work in retail and hear teenagers say very racist comments regularly. Racist people are proud of their own race and way of thinking. Then, they hurt someone for being *insert race*. That victim becomes prouder of who they are and will fight back by showing their pride. Thus, the racist will come again with a stronger attack. They go back and forth. Endless, unless one side finally stops existing. Sorry that it's complicated. I honestly hate it. Wished all US people would just be happy with each other and quit being too proud to change.

    • @lucyaklar6345
      @lucyaklar6345 Před 4 lety +3

      Glad u are asking that question. Those who make race sooo important should ask themselves that question.

    • @cereal_qilla
      @cereal_qilla Před 4 lety +2

      It’s important because this country was violently stolen from people who lived here because they were a different race, then those people who stole it chained up people of a different race, shoved them into ships, and shipped them across the Atlantic. And finally, once here, they wrote laws to enslave said people based of their race so the whole nation would follow suit.

    • @kisigma1102
      @kisigma1102 Před 4 lety +1

      @@cereal_qilla exactly blacks and native been in America before they even brought more blacks over

  • @jendjoyce
    @jendjoyce Před 2 měsíci +8

    I'm an middle aged orphan. There is no one alive to tell me "what" I am. My mother was mostly european stock. But looking at her parents there are clearly more than western Europe. My fathers side is completely unverified. There were hints he was colombian. At this point I give up. I'm just human.

  • @victoriadavenport5554
    @victoriadavenport5554 Před 2 lety +36

    One side of the comment section: This is stupid this is nothing to make a whole video about.
    Other side: This struggle is real and I am 100% with this.
    Personally, I’m half Chinese and half American, people who aren’t of mixed races don’t understand, and that’s fine. But that doesn’t give you the right to call this stupid. You all are calling this stupid because you’ve never dealt with this before. I’ve dealt with racist jokes, not knowing who I am in American society, and not being recognized about something I am isn’t a feeling anyone likes. If you’re not of many races and think this shouldn’t have existed, you are wrong.

  • @maryfaustus2609
    @maryfaustus2609 Před 6 lety +71

    This is so overdramatic

  • @hotgiial101
    @hotgiial101 Před 8 lety +305

    I honestly don't get what's the issue. How can you expect people to know what you are if you are biracial? You tell them if they ask. This is such a non issue and I don't get why the video is so dramatic.

    • @ravage842
      @ravage842 Před 8 lety

      👏

    • @kenyagreathouse9208
      @kenyagreathouse9208 Před 8 lety

      I 100% agree what with what you're saying! The only thing I can relate to is the rejection part. I mean it's not a full on thing, you aren't necessarily outcasted just for being biracial; that's a overly harsh way of saying it I say. I mean I've always gotten my feelings hurt when my Mexican friends
      would hang out with eachother all the time soley because they wet both Mexican , and when I mentioned I was half Mexican, they would laugh and say " No you're black" then wouldn't gave me the same bond of culture because of it. Then for my other side there were like 2 black girls at my school who didn't like half black girls for some reason I know it sound exaggerated but I'm being legit they upfront told me they didn't want to talk to me because I wasn't " really " black. So the thing is both sides said that I wasn't really a part of them and it kind of hurt. But yeah I'm just explaining the rejection part they make it seem dramatic and not necessarily as it is.

    • @kenyagreathouse9208
      @kenyagreathouse9208 Před 8 lety

      I mean I don't mind if people can't tell that I'm mixed it's understandable because of how dark my skin is and curls.

    • @kenyagreathouse9208
      @kenyagreathouse9208 Před 8 lety +6

      Buzzfeed just sucks rlly bad at portraying some things

    • @mimi_reckless8560
      @mimi_reckless8560 Před 8 lety

      ikr 😂

  • @vedaprabhakar1492
    @vedaprabhakar1492 Před 3 lety +12

    What’s up with the dramatic music in the background?

  • @thecelt471
    @thecelt471 Před 7 měsíci +18

    Fortunately being a white guy with northern european dna I have never experienced this.

    • @kingtachalla6181
      @kingtachalla6181 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yea me being an full blood native American, same for me lol

    • @thecelt471
      @thecelt471 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@kingtachalla6181 👍

  • @mimi-ig5kr
    @mimi-ig5kr Před 5 lety +35

    so they’re angry just because people can’t guess their race correctly? seriously?

    • @alienog6409
      @alienog6409 Před 5 lety

      no one is angry lmao youre portraying people in this video in a way thats dishonest to try to earn brownie points from other butt hurt haters

  • @jayfaisa6016
    @jayfaisa6016 Před 5 lety +187

    People think I'm Black.... I'm 2% Finnish. WHY CAN'T PEOPLE REALIZE THIS??!

  • @oliviagranberry4112
    @oliviagranberry4112 Před 3 lety +14

    It may not seem important to you guys/ stupid, and that’s ok for you guys to have your own opinion, but please understand there is a tough and crucial Internal conflict with some biracial people.
    I have an identity crisis almost everyday, because i never feel like I’m enough, I’m not black enough I’m not Mexican enough I’m not etc. And it’s tough because I feel almost alone. I don’t fit in with black people because I’m light skin and I don’t fit in with Mexicans because I can’t speak Spanish. I understand Not everything is about race, but as a Biracial teen who has always been excluded by my own people because I’m “not enough” it is a big deal to me.

  • @birds_are_really_fierce2226

    It’s interesting to see other mixed people speak on their experiences that mono racial people (white brown beige and black people) make us feel horrible over

    • @snailart9214
      @snailart9214 Před 2 lety +6

      i KNOW! These comments did not pass the vibe check at all lol

  • @jhopetion7329
    @jhopetion7329 Před 8 lety +468

    leave the sensitivity in 2015

  • @JamesV84
    @JamesV84 Před 8 lety +290

    *"I'm Biracial, But I'm..."* just as much of a human being as anyone else...

  • @Currentlyprocrastinating37
    @Currentlyprocrastinating37 Před 2 lety +17

    OK guys, the reason this is a problem a lot of people have is because race is a very big thing here in the States.
    Things like Cultural Appropriation and diversity points are hot topics here, so what race you are is kind of a big deal.

  • @hurricane_valence
    @hurricane_valence Před rokem +23

    That guy that said he was half Mexican half white obviously didn't know Mexican is most Mexicans are half native half white what he said pissed me off as a born and raised Mexican Mexican isn't a race I more identify which me indigenous side

    • @eggchin22x78
      @eggchin22x78 Před rokem

      I'm half White half Mexican. Try not to be so sensitive.

    • @perlacohen1166
      @perlacohen1166 Před rokem

      You're right, "Mexican" is not a race but I understand where that idea comes from, but certainly most Mexicans are mixed of different ethnicities features.

    • @eggchin22x78
      @eggchin22x78 Před rokem

      @soldierboy2873 Yes I understand this 100%.

    • @JonDoeNeace
      @JonDoeNeace Před 18 dny

      No they're not.

    • @JonDoeNeace
      @JonDoeNeace Před 18 dny

      Native means federally recognized tribes.

  • @zach8901
    @zach8901 Před 8 lety +1095

    Why tf is this a problem

    • @krazyk931
      @krazyk931 Před 8 lety +62

      +Zach Bellman PEOPLE LIKE YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND, I am 2% potato and people force me to eat french fries! I am eating my heritage...

    • @mialee2216
      @mialee2216 Před 8 lety

      +Zach Bellman It's kinda like people assume I'm mexican, assume I know spanish, assume I eat typical mexican food, when I don't

    • @katey6995
      @katey6995 Před 8 lety +6

      +iiMia Phandomii so what? it's just a mistake and then they get over it

    • @mialee2216
      @mialee2216 Před 8 lety +1

      Katey Melino I would like the world to get to a point where we don't assume anything and just go about our lives

    • @SeraphSeph
      @SeraphSeph Před 8 lety +3

      +iiMia Phandomii If you don't make assumptions you'd be dead already.

  • @happywithdrawal
    @happywithdrawal Před 5 lety +82

    this video makes me embarrassed to be mixed lmao

    • @brandonlawrence3172
      @brandonlawrence3172 Před 5 lety +1

      Don't be ashamed. I'm sensing that everyone in the comment section realizes that BuzzFeed was mistaken in doing this.

  • @JTheMelon
    @JTheMelon Před 3 lety +11

    It's disappointing that this isn't satire

  • @sike8358
    @sike8358 Před 3 lety +16

    On all levels except physical I am a wolf but nobody understands :(

  • @Jawad7178
    @Jawad7178 Před 5 lety +98

    Im 60% water i wish people knew that about me

    • @Lizadegun
      @Lizadegun Před 5 lety +4

      And I'm 30% carbon and I wish people knew that😂

    • @livquue
      @livquue Před 4 lety

      Really I'm 10% oxygen

    • @zkwkfjejiw8819-
      @zkwkfjejiw8819- Před 2 lety

      뭔 소리인지 궁금하다

  • @mariapazvallejosdietrich2597

    Mexican it’s not a race though, It’s nacionality

  • @nadaehab263
    @nadaehab263 Před 3 lety +31

    Why I feel that's so dramatic is that even a problem 😂😂

    • @nidhiaggarwal944
      @nidhiaggarwal944 Před 3 lety +2

      Nada Ehab that’s not even funny

    • @yongewok
      @yongewok Před 3 lety

      its an issue cause we dont have a community yet

  • @willywonka6384
    @willywonka6384 Před 6 lety +62

    The only thing I don't understand is why they get frustrated over people don't guessing their ethnicity right I mean? I don't look at someone and instantly know where they're from even if they're not mixed.

    • @lauriejamesmackeson
      @lauriejamesmackeson Před 6 lety +1

      willy wonka perhaps you don’t get it because it’s not an issue you deal with daily...and that’s ok...we all have our stories to tell. #OwnYourStory

    • @willywonka6384
      @willywonka6384 Před 6 lety

      Elle Jay the other things they said are completely valid. But I don't see the point in being sad because people can't get where you're from right away

    • @xujon19
      @xujon19 Před 6 lety +6

      willy wonka it's kind of hard to explain, but let me give you an example. I am half Chinese half Belgian and I grew up in Belgium. I've been stared at for most of my life because I obviously don't look mainstream Belgian. Even though I speak, eat, live and feel as a Belgian, some people still don't accept me as a Belgian. They tell me I look Asian or maybe Hispanic. Whenever I go to China to visit my family, I don't really get accepted over there as well. This is because I don't speak Mandarin as well as my family members in China and I don't look full Chinese. So conclusion: mixed people, like me, often get rejected in both cultures. It's not really about whether or not we are identified, it's about whether we are being accepted or not in a society. If you take a plate of rice for example and there is 1 rice grain that doesn't look white nor black. It might taste the same and have the same form as a white rice grain, but you'll always treat and experience it differently.

    • @willywonka6384
      @willywonka6384 Před 6 lety

      Jonathan Xu I get what you're saying! And of course that has been hard for you and everyone who's mixed. I was talking about them in the beginning saying "I have to explain that I am half white half Mexican" and etc because if you look different than the majority people are gonna be curious and ask you about it. I think that failing to guess your ethnicity is normal because you don't look at someone and automatically know where they come from. For instance probably when you went to China people didn't know that you were half Belgian but that didn't make you sad, I expect. One thing is what I've said other is saying that 'oh but you don't look *enter any race here*'. Even if people aren't being purposely mean saying that you don't look like the race you belong to is harsh.

    • @willywonka6384
      @willywonka6384 Před 6 lety

      Jonathan Xu Maybe I've misunderstood what they said. I don't know lol

  • @BenSohlberg
    @BenSohlberg Před 8 lety +145

    this makes no sense. ..... who cares what race you are, why are this people complaining about this...... this people just want attention and empathy. we are all humans, who cares about what race you are.

    • @krazyk931
      @krazyk931 Před 8 lety +10

      +Bens PK I feel like these people are trying to find a reason to complain

    • @SuperKeirsten123
      @SuperKeirsten123 Před 8 lety

      a lot of people care

    • @pandaayam234
      @pandaayam234 Před 8 lety +3

      well its more of an identity thing. im biracial and im never really discriminated against or oppressed but i do have a hard time deciding if i should identify as asian or white because the first question in always asked once someone finds out in biracial is "which are you more of" like its just annoying never being fully accepted. if i want to identify as bi racial, im told to choose. if i want to identify as asian, in told that im not asian enough. its not a huge issue but its something that a lot of people struggle with

  • @sollyrose
    @sollyrose Před 3 lety +11

    HUMAN IS THE RACE.

  • @VaporWolfYT
    @VaporWolfYT Před 3 lety +19

    who's here from Jojas Makes Videos?

  • @t.godemiche7087
    @t.godemiche7087 Před 4 lety +752

    "half mexican" you can be Mexican and full white

    • @therealamerindlc7832
      @therealamerindlc7832 Před 4 lety +11

      Thank you!🙏🏾

    • @centurion5754
      @centurion5754 Před 3 lety +51

      Funny thing is that most Mexicans are at least half white so he is white

    • @blyat5352
      @blyat5352 Před 3 lety +14

      @@centurion5754 three quarters white

    • @centurion5754
      @centurion5754 Před 3 lety +2

      @@blyat5352 yea your right

    • @beckyr.e1212
      @beckyr.e1212 Před 3 lety +4

      Truee, i live in Mexico and i know people who are “white” and nobody think they’re foreigners