Relationship Therapy 101 | The Joe Budden Podcast

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Komentáře • 297

  • @DRMZBeatz
    @DRMZBeatz Před 2 lety +37

    Man I really miss these guys together. Something special you had to be there.

    • @nasa5700
      @nasa5700 Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah i feel u , this is something thzt no matter how much money u couldnt create what they had

    • @bk2les
      @bk2les Před 2 lety

      @@nasa5700 big facts. I've been rewatching all the old INTL epsiodes.

  • @EmersonAce1
    @EmersonAce1 Před 4 lety +112

    “We don’t take into consideration how much energy we take in, and hold on to” - MAL

  • @NuffCeD410
    @NuffCeD410 Před 4 lety +211

    Mal spitting facts on this one. That's why relationships 99% of the time end in disaster. People rush to next relationship before fully getting over the last one. In essentially not giving the new situation your best version of yourself.

  • @circa2008
    @circa2008 Před 4 lety +315

    Mal: “aight but this ain’t no relationship therapy 101 with Mal tho....”
    whoever uploaded this: “Lmao”

    • @UVFlow
      @UVFlow Před 4 lety +14

      Savon out here wildin'

  • @yoelpachuco6875
    @yoelpachuco6875 Před 4 lety +297

    WAITING 280 EPISODES FOR MAL TO EXPLAIN HIS FEELINGS IS CRAZY 😂

  • @NinaBae8
    @NinaBae8 Před 4 lety +42

    Mal was trying to say he's EMOTIONALLY unavailable and wants/needs to do more self-work before he's ready for a relationship.
    This is important to know.

  • @Dkmo94
    @Dkmo94 Před 4 lety +168

    I find myself moving like Mal; you can't be happy with someone else if you can't be happy with yourself. it takes time to heal and learn yourself; hopping to another relationship as soon as one ends is a fat set up (Ladies)

    • @Peprahism
      @Peprahism Před 2 lety

      This was why joe asked mal if its self esteem issues but he denies it. I think it could be self esteem issues or fear of commitment

  • @cptheartist
    @cptheartist Před 4 lety +80

    Everyone needs 1 friend like Mal.

    • @imanrich800gaming
      @imanrich800gaming Před 4 lety +3

      we here for you man

    • @joewill9967
      @joewill9967 Před 4 lety +5

      I’m that guy for my friends. It’s awesome to be so knowledgeable

  • @marco.lasean
    @marco.lasean Před 4 lety +409

    I wouldn't ask Joe for relationship advice...

    • @yoelpachuco6875
      @yoelpachuco6875 Před 4 lety +48

      Ikr...and somehow he judging mal all the time 😂😂

    • @rell3500
      @rell3500 Před 4 lety +15

      Gives you insight about how he may be in a relationship. Joe is delusional lol

    • @MannyTwice
      @MannyTwice Před 4 lety +43

      Why not? A person that's tried and failed will probably give you better advice than someone who hasnt

    • @citylights3452
      @citylights3452 Před 4 lety +5

      MannyTwice finally someone with some common sense

    • @TheMr2face
      @TheMr2face Před 4 lety +7

      Yea Joe thought it was a good idea to propose to a woman he hasn't talk to in 3 months just to get her back lol

  • @carolstrickland2316
    @carolstrickland2316 Před 4 lety +127

    They not hearing Mal at all. I feel him on another level! Mal on his grown man right now. Whoever gets him after this will be GOOD!!!

  • @kameronbryant1341
    @kameronbryant1341 Před 4 lety +79

    Some y'all hating because Mal got this game figured out.

    • @Silhouette_1
      @Silhouette_1 Před 4 lety +4

      Exactly. A whole bunch of blue pill beta boys in these comments. They need to take the red pill ideology and wake up. The game is different now

    • @imanrich800gaming
      @imanrich800gaming Před 4 lety

      @Christian Barrett Should already know . but that's good

    • @jourdancallahan5144
      @jourdancallahan5144 Před 4 lety +2

      Silhouette Yeah he’s red pill but can’t out himself for obvious reasons

  • @yoelpachuco6875
    @yoelpachuco6875 Před 4 lety +159

    BASICALLY WHAT MAL IS SAYING: THE ONE THING BEING IN RELATIONSHIPS IS THAT YOU DONT EVOLVE AS A HUMAN BEING SO YOU GOTTA BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE YOU CAN HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP...🔥

    • @delrayvelo3277
      @delrayvelo3277 Před 4 lety +4

      Wow bro it was so hard to understand mal explaining it 3 different ways but I’m glad you broke it down

    • @BryanV4
      @BryanV4 Před 4 lety +12

      That statement isn't true. I don't think he meant that exact. I agree you can't look for another to complete or fix you, but you definitely grow together. If we all waited to be our best self no one would be in relationships untill 50

    • @stephanieduncan9023
      @stephanieduncan9023 Před 4 lety

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    • @donpatchey3178
      @donpatchey3178 Před 4 lety

      @CaramelBeauty03 oh you poding now

    • @jklee0323
      @jklee0323 Před 4 lety +3

      I don’t think anyone is whole or their best self when they get into a relationship. No matter how long you been single or how many seminars you’ve watched/attended.

  • @Blazin50s
    @Blazin50s Před 4 lety +39

    18:11 Mal's face after Rory starts speaking 😂

    • @Jayberryjam
      @Jayberryjam Před 4 lety +1

      😂😂😂 😐

    • @BIGBARLIN
      @BIGBARLIN Před 4 lety +1

      @@Jayberryjam fr he was like 🤣🤣😐

  • @nijadeans8359
    @nijadeans8359 Před 4 lety +25

    Totally agree abt broken ppl trying to fixed broken ppl!

  • @kaiwhat1207
    @kaiwhat1207 Před 4 lety +54

    It was really nice to see Mal finally peel back a few layers and be a little vulnerable. Idk who that girl was but she really hurt him.

    • @Msalike
      @Msalike Před 4 lety +3

      And I'm sitting here trying to flirt with this guy who doesn't even notice me LOL. I would never do you like that Mal..

    • @kaiwhat1207
      @kaiwhat1207 Před 4 lety +5

      Alike Cooper Mal is definitely fine af lol but he got trust issues and man trust issues are the WORST!

    • @Msalike
      @Msalike Před 4 lety +1

      Jamilah Hardiman yeah it is men who don’t trust usually dog the woman out but dang Mal fine Lol

    • @ownthispwn
      @ownthispwn Před 4 lety

      never knew mal was such a simp smh

    • @pimpindymepiece
      @pimpindymepiece Před 4 lety +1

      Girl I BEEN in Mal’s dms trying to get a reply. I won’t do him like these other women did lol

  • @graysonorphe9420
    @graysonorphe9420 Před 4 lety +68

    Mal is slowly taking over the Podcast lol

    • @yoelpachuco6875
      @yoelpachuco6875 Před 4 lety +21

      Slowly? I would watch a mal and joe pod, a mal and rory pod, but a joe and rory pod aint doing it for me😂😂

    • @rell3500
      @rell3500 Před 4 lety +13

      Once Mal came the pod blew up.

  • @Norisknoreward310
    @Norisknoreward310 Před 4 lety +62

    What i kinda learned from this is that Joe , Rory and parks would prolly get financially and mentally finnessed by a woman wayyyy easier than Mal would.

    • @dallasvfx3d
      @dallasvfx3d Před 4 lety +4

      yeah what rory said at 15:45 is exactly how to get finessed by a woman.

    • @naimhasan8154
      @naimhasan8154 Před 4 lety +7

      Some of the types of women they date is the reason they are jaded.

  • @Psych86_
    @Psych86_ Před 4 lety +12

    When they get in their relationship bag it helps me so much

  • @natashashere
    @natashashere Před 4 lety +7

    Relationships are there to show you yourself. They are our mirrors. When you stay single for a long period of time, you don’t have anything to show you your issues. You said it best Mal, you’re not ready to give that time and attention. That’s real.

  • @likestxrscream
    @likestxrscream Před 4 lety +14

    damn this was such a good talk. cool to see the guys I normally put on to laugh at or hear their opinions on current events, etc can have a real conversation and be just as entertaining. good shit

  • @dhstillcantaim
    @dhstillcantaim Před 4 lety

    been watching this pod for years and this clip is the most relatable one i've seen

  • @ShaiSew82
    @ShaiSew82 Před 4 lety +19

    Joe might want to listen to Mal and move accordingly. Obviously we don’t see what Mal is doing in the streets / sheets. But at least homie keeps himself away from a relationship when he feels that he isn’t about it. No matter how many years it takes. 💪🏾

  • @mzalthomas
    @mzalthomas Před 4 lety +3

    “No, I can get Mal for free.” 😏😂🤣😂🤣😂 Joe is hilarious for that!

  • @tamarasky2043
    @tamarasky2043 Před 4 lety +17

    Just finished my college class thanks for the stressed reliever anatomy and physiology is killing me

  • @MODERNDAYGRIOT
    @MODERNDAYGRIOT Před 4 lety +6

    3:38 “JadedKiss”🤣🤣🤣

  • @TalibKweli882
    @TalibKweli882 Před 4 lety +28

    Mal being the thumbnail on a video titled relationship therapy is crazy

  • @mahgorstark7793
    @mahgorstark7793 Před 4 lety +2

    Im in that situation now and its the worst its like you know no one is perfect...but at the sametime you want what seems to be your version of perfection😂😂😂 it truly makes no sense

    • @antoniocervantes6522
      @antoniocervantes6522 Před rokem

      I think it’s all about finding someone who isn’t perfect (like you) but is similarly striving to what you’re striving for (principles, relationship, goals) and is willing to grow with you towards that. And a whole lot of grace.

  • @elsolbrilla3652
    @elsolbrilla3652 Před 4 lety +14

    People don’t care about feelings anymore.

    • @imanrich800gaming
      @imanrich800gaming Před 4 lety

      SMHHH

    • @Noog6284
      @Noog6284 Před 4 lety

      They don’t bro you’re right

    • @tyjusto9351
      @tyjusto9351 Před 4 lety

      If anything, some use those feelings to their advantage. I've seen women go date hunting, knowing damn well she wouldn't give the man a shot in the world for a relationship, or sex. It's another reason why dates have been watered down, cuz people don't know if they getting played out of they poccet

  • @gie3973
    @gie3973 Před 4 lety +8

    Relationships are overrated

  • @lochofmceo
    @lochofmceo Před 4 lety +26

    "I don't think it's a repetitive thing,it just happened a few times"

  • @stephaniemarquezramirez8371

    Right. It's all good.. to each it's own

  • @sarcasm176
    @sarcasm176 Před 4 lety

    Therapy session part 2 please 😂

  • @animeroomradio6799
    @animeroomradio6799 Před 3 lety +3

    I love how they deflect to laughter and jokes when things get to deep. Especially when they notice mal gets uncomfortable.

  • @tatsithytv
    @tatsithytv Před 3 lety +2

    Won't lie, miss this.

  • @brandonf.8360
    @brandonf.8360 Před 4 lety +21

    Jaded Kiss top 3 dead or alive, that's just off one GF. Have a healthy relationship with yourself before jumping into anything.

    • @showcase1219
      @showcase1219 Před 4 lety

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @taylormotley3611
      @taylormotley3611 Před 4 lety +2

      Parks was mad wild for 11:00 tho!!! Lmao🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣 who says that to another dude

    • @brandonf.8360
      @brandonf.8360 Před 4 lety

      @@taylormotley3611 🤔🤨🤦‍♂️🤣

  • @mahgorstark7793
    @mahgorstark7793 Před 4 lety +3

    I understand what mal saying...but from the otherside i Actually know my lack of being in a relationship is due to my self confidence

  • @dayle.johnson6683
    @dayle.johnson6683 Před 4 lety +6

    Therapy time on the job podcast.

  • @lindsayt7950
    @lindsayt7950 Před 4 lety +3

    Mal is definitely me when my friends try to pin me down and get all into my emotions *rolls eyes* like damn leave me alone lol

  • @webbie1891
    @webbie1891 Před 4 lety +94

    Pro Tip 101: you can’t make a woman happy

    • @NuffCeD410
      @NuffCeD410 Před 4 lety +8

      Jumbo Factz

    • @webbie1891
      @webbie1891 Před 4 lety +25

      Christian Barrett exactly! Women aren’t equipped to be happy because if they are, there won’t have anything to complain about. 😂

    • @NuffCeD410
      @NuffCeD410 Před 4 lety +10

      @@webbie1891 u call it "complaining" I call it bitching😁

    • @alexanderjones8510
      @alexanderjones8510 Před 4 lety

      BOOOOOOO

    • @ShaiSew82
      @ShaiSew82 Před 4 lety +12

      Pro tip 102, making yourself happy (male or female) is way more important.

  • @AyeshaGo
    @AyeshaGo Před 4 lety +3

    After that phone call with Kash Doll we need that Mal speed dating series

  • @moonintaurus5918
    @moonintaurus5918 Před 4 lety +7

    I think Joe doesn't know his worth when it comes to women. Some of his popular girlfriends are not in his league. I see him with a beautiful and successful woman, not some love and hip-hop losers.

  • @davidf5449
    @davidf5449 Před 4 lety +1

    17:22 and ON Joe sums up everything Mal says

  • @daddytrees9074
    @daddytrees9074 Před 4 lety +8

    Who hurt Mal 😂😂😂 damn

  • @MrHumble1116
    @MrHumble1116 Před 4 lety

    Hopefully, at the right time, Sir Mal!

  • @lookatme247ok
    @lookatme247ok Před 3 lety +1

    More shows like this.

  • @nijadeans8359
    @nijadeans8359 Před 4 lety +4

    Gotta respect Mal's honest tho

  • @mizzyfit_334
    @mizzyfit_334 Před 4 lety +3

    Jadedkiss.... ladies and gentlemen Mal.

  • @justinschamp6212
    @justinschamp6212 Před 4 lety

    what company makes that hat? its fire!

  • @Hovitv
    @Hovitv Před 4 lety

    When mal first got his Jesus piece that shit was shining! Now that shit look like the lights went out 🤣

  • @CPI99
    @CPI99 Před 4 lety +18

    mal 2 stacks?!?!?!?! insane

  • @BigTrisStreams
    @BigTrisStreams Před 4 lety +1

    I'm just like Mal honestly. Same form of thinking

  • @MarcusJII
    @MarcusJII Před 4 lety +1

    That’s trickin 101.

  • @brittney5563
    @brittney5563 Před 4 lety +3

    MALs therapy session was great...

  • @DeeBrownLTD
    @DeeBrownLTD Před 4 lety +4

    I wish I could’ve learned what I learned now in just one relationship like Mal. Lol fr tho

  • @Keviekev115
    @Keviekev115 Před 4 lety

    Raury is a mini bill burr lol

  • @A1KX100
    @A1KX100 Před 4 lety +9

    Joe Budden.
    Top 3. Not 1 or 2.
    Trick Daddy.

  • @1HunnitGrand
    @1HunnitGrand Před 4 lety

    If I put my trust in you what am I trusting you to do? Trusting what you say? Why? I can figure out information on my own. What do I need you for? Being beneficial to my life doesn’t make make you my souls mate girlfriend or baby momma it makes you a good person.

  • @SP-uj3kf
    @SP-uj3kf Před 4 lety

    Exhaust video plz

  • @MichelleMonet15
    @MichelleMonet15 Před 4 lety +1

    Crazy how no matter how many times Mal said how he felt, they kept telling him no, this is how you really feel like how are y'all gonna tell that man how he feels and what he wants lol. Everybody dnt want to be in a relationship just bc y'all are in one lol. Joe loves telling ppl how they feel or expecting everyone to think like he does as if we dnt all have our own individual experiences. I understood exactly what Mal was saying and it wasn't that he was looking for a perfect woman. It's actually very mature to realize that you're not interested/ready for a committed relationship and staying single vs getting into a relationship and messing it up bc you weren't ready for a commitment. That's what makes ppl jaded yet they're clowning him like he doesn't know what he's talking about when he was making the most sense imo. They're acting like they can speak for everyone's experience just bc they're in relationships smh.

  • @anthonycolon4681
    @anthonycolon4681 Před 4 lety

    Peace and blessins

  • @ashcash1991
    @ashcash1991 Před 3 lety

    Mal is speaking straight facts 👏🏾

  • @MsAyoFashola
    @MsAyoFashola Před 4 lety

    Lol you can only think that if you’re jaded lol 😂

  • @lochofmceo
    @lochofmceo Před 4 lety

    This convo had me looking like that Michael Jackson meme where he's looking sad in the chair .Depression

    • @lochofmceo
      @lochofmceo Před 4 lety

      @Christian Barrett horrible break up to LTR.I hate everything

  • @kedurham226
    @kedurham226 Před 4 lety

    lol!!! why Joe and Rory asking Mal all these questions like we as a people dont have internal emotions that say when you are or arent ready for a "Relationship"

  • @MrJbake17
    @MrJbake17 Před 4 měsíci

    They could never have this level of conversation on the pod now smh

  • @judithjackson1086
    @judithjackson1086 Před 4 lety +4

    " I need to be single." Mal

  • @fg8512
    @fg8512 Před 4 lety +7

    Anybody else feels like Joe is intimidated by Mal a little?😂😂

    • @KingStreetBrody
      @KingStreetBrody Před 4 lety +8

      Bobby Capone naw mal just doesn’t give him what he wants psychologically so joe wants to picks his brain

  • @ivytalks1279
    @ivytalks1279 Před 4 lety +2

    I rock with Mal 100% on this.

  • @SP-uj3kf
    @SP-uj3kf Před 4 lety

    Lol the letter O instead of the number 0 kept me from finding your accounts smh

  • @Shyannieme
    @Shyannieme Před 4 lety +2

    Interesting... I found this from someone special I met online and he choose to watch this video than spend time with me in a little time we're together and I'm jaded with it😂😂

  • @cridahinsane7692
    @cridahinsane7692 Před 4 lety +3

    Joe budden is the only cornball that’s cool

  • @braydenhutson2860
    @braydenhutson2860 Před 4 lety +1

    Where does mal get those hats

  • @tonypyro21
    @tonypyro21 Před 4 lety

    Mal 1k trying too get them 2stacks!

  • @donaldwarren2497
    @donaldwarren2497 Před 4 lety

    Facts mal

  • @raymondezell7817
    @raymondezell7817 Před 4 lety

    Jaded. For sure.

  • @franckofourever8733
    @franckofourever8733 Před 4 lety +1

    RELAX 🤣🤣🤣

  • @producedbykhireyakeem4340

    Why are all Mal’s hats flipped upside down

  • @gtmtv9566
    @gtmtv9566 Před 4 lety

    relationship therapy

  • @Silhouette_1
    @Silhouette_1 Před 4 lety +18

    There’s no such thing as relationships in today’s era. I don’t care what anyone says. I suggest all men to not fall in love with anyone but with your self and your purpose in life. Chase the success never chase women and they’ll chase you

    • @Silhouette_1
      @Silhouette_1 Před 4 lety

      Christian Barrett we can agree to disagree. And it’s not an excuse or insecurity it’s accepting reality and understanding female nature.

    • @2Muchpjp
      @2Muchpjp Před 4 lety +1

      @Christian Barrett we lie in society that celebrates and encourages whore-ish behavior. this was a part of a bigger plan but that's a whole nother story. understand the times we are living in.

    • @Silhouette_1
      @Silhouette_1 Před 4 lety

      2Muchpjp thank you bruh. There’s always one simp ass nigga tryna be naive and negate the facts. “My girlfriend isn’t like that she would never” lmao ok

    • @Silhouette_1
      @Silhouette_1 Před 4 lety

      Christian Barrett ok buddy

    • @sock4661
      @sock4661 Před 4 lety

      Bunch of sad lil boys and big ole cucks on this thread. Go back to beating it and hating your life thanks

  • @stephaniemarquezramirez8371

    Yea n vise versa.. n took more energy on a girl tooo

  • @trace891
    @trace891 Před 4 lety +2

    Why is Mal talking? And Joe🤔

  • @stephaniemarquezramirez8371

    But that's the perfect timing next

  • @Firestorm2814Sector
    @Firestorm2814Sector Před 4 lety

    Mal ain’t having no kids 😂

  • @Keviekev115
    @Keviekev115 Před 4 lety +1

    Maul is wise AF

  • @stephaniemarquezramirez8371

    Friendships real friendships w no sex is the best

  • @cousywarhol1745
    @cousywarhol1745 Před 4 lety +4

    Damn, Thought Mal Was In His Late 20’s.. Makes Sense..

    • @cousywarhol1745
      @cousywarhol1745 Před 4 lety

      jpkp012345 Ok Yeah See I Thought Mal Was Like One Of Them Young Niggas That Stayed Around Older Peers But This Shit Makes Sense.

  • @mikesgarage18
    @mikesgarage18 Před 4 lety

    The day I "put up" with a woman who isn't being held to the same standard as me when it comes to cheating (emotionally, and physically) just for a relationship is the day I eat dog doo doo off the turnpike. Same sh*t. Barz.

  • @DesFunnyAF
    @DesFunnyAF Před 4 lety +1

    I fucks with Mal on this. He made great points and he is right.

  • @Drell82
    @Drell82 Před 3 lety

    Mal just confused but.....understandable it’s hard out here

  • @jordanebert3313
    @jordanebert3313 Před 4 lety

    Fucking needed this, big up man like Mal

  • @MrReal717
    @MrReal717 Před 4 lety +1

    Trusty shoes

  • @stephaniemarquezramirez8371

    It's beautiful when a man can be a man. And take the proper steps to lead and that comes from will/ wanting too . No one can be forced we all know that. Thats why older men who r indecisive r the worst boys growing into being a man which like in economics that's votalility

  • @geraldos9094
    @geraldos9094 Před 4 lety

    Trust but verify.....

  • @stephaniemarquezramirez8371

    So broken and narssasistic is all bad bad

  • @weird1877
    @weird1877 Před rokem

    I think Joe is just as jaded as mal but in slightly different way

  • @Rico.splash
    @Rico.splash Před 4 lety

    I 100% feel mal. Bitches will convince you for months and years they aint like the rest and then you find out some shit, youll forever be jaded after that. Cant trust em

  • @outoftime417
    @outoftime417 Před 4 lety +2

    I treat all my women like they cheating on me🤷🏾‍♂️ been that way since high school.

  • @stephaniemarquezramirez8371

    Right j be honest w urself

  • @izurohidesama6623
    @izurohidesama6623 Před 4 lety

    DOING IT STEALTHY

  • @mykelc205
    @mykelc205 Před 4 lety

    Lmaooo surface dude acting like its deep