Your Past Matters? | Reggie & Nova Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli

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  • @KiteZz_
    @KiteZz_  Před měsícem +6

    Time Stamps
    00:00 Intro
    00:30 Opening Statements
    02:53 Reaction Starts
    15:25 Did they Date?
    01:36:20 Closing Statements

  • @TSidez
    @TSidez Před měsícem +31

    You both hit the nail on the head w/ this recap. Nova and Reggie showed the reasons why they are single in this recap. However it appears Nova came out with the intention to harm. She shared vulnerable things he told her in confidence and used it against him. Not a trait a person with integrity and substance looking for marriage wants to see in a potential mate.

  • @AlwonDomz
    @AlwonDomz Před měsícem +27

    Reggie isn’t perfect but he’s not bad either… This young lady came off like a “victim-narcissist”.

  • @DLShoulders29
    @DLShoulders29 Před měsícem +22

    Okay, let’s just for grins say Aaron the plumber was a problem. Can we also agree many of these women from the show are a complete mess? These women come on the show, toting a whole ton of baggage, and basically tell the men, “that was my past; move on”. This woman is STILL doing online work, with a child and is sitting there saying HE is the problem. This mess is crazy.

    • @SweetC69
      @SweetC69 Před měsícem +1

      Agreed 👍🏾. Many of these women don't know how to work past stumbling blocks. They could have really built something. But patience is a virtue 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @jj10176
    @jj10176 Před měsícem +27

    I don’t want to be that guy but Dr. Elom was right about shorty. When he said she needs therapy it sounded rude but with all the context now he got it. Reggie trying to change someone who doesn’t want that change he should’ve been fell back

    • @rockon8174
      @rockon8174 Před měsícem

      Agreed. If the person you meet isn't the one you want them to be, they never will be.

    • @zidane8452
      @zidane8452 Před měsícem +3

      Looks like Dr elom can see through people. Cuz kayla also proved his point

  • @Nick_legit_910
    @Nick_legit_910 Před měsícem +17

    The way she misrepresents, misinterprets and ignores context in her recap is dangerous

  • @NaijaBoiTellEm
    @NaijaBoiTellEm Před měsícem +11

    His mistake was staying after seeing the OF haha. Some of you dudes can't help walking away from a (semi-attractive) woman based on morals.

  • @samuelgates5935
    @samuelgates5935 Před měsícem +26

    Sooooo, she has a child, Only Fans, but HE has a problem!🤷
    This is sooooo delusional.
    This pop the ballon show is horrible.
    Because people on the show never ask proper questions that's why they never match.
    Many times the women pop their balloons BEFORE the men speak.....this is all around bad.
    If she's "crying" about something she's RESPONSIBLE for and wants to "Shame" this man because SHE does Only Fans, then why did she go on the show?
    Keisha is going to be Keisha......run BM....run!

  • @SweetC69
    @SweetC69 Před měsícem +10

    She can't hear herself while she's saying that she doesn't do it anymore but just put up a video in April. What? I'm so confused 🤔. And she's mad at dude for questioning whether or not she's still into it. Smdh

  • @skorwolf2719
    @skorwolf2719 Před měsícem +12

    Lajuan and riyah moved fast it wasnt a problem...this woman obviously hiding things that detered the relationship

  • @rae2443
    @rae2443 Před měsícem +4

    the way the video started off chill and wholesome then out of nowhere the whole narrative was changed😭😭 i can’t wait for twd video. I personally love video games and watching the gameplay so I will definitely be tuned in regarding that

  • @marilyndejesus4971
    @marilyndejesus4971 Před měsícem +17

    She cant handle a leader, so she falls back on her old ways.

    • @dimitriassession2327
      @dimitriassession2327 Před měsícem

      Naw he love bomb her and became controlling. Instead he should've court her and be patient. Think about it she never let him meet her daughter so it was the early stages. She was out of his league from the beginning

    • @AlwonDomz
      @AlwonDomz Před měsícem +2

      @@dimitriassession2327: She should not of come on the show…

    • @skorwolf2719
      @skorwolf2719 Před měsícem

      Nice analogy

    • @dimitriassession2327
      @dimitriassession2327 Před měsícem

      @@AlwonDomz lol, why you say that

    • @AlwonDomz
      @AlwonDomz Před měsícem +1

      @@dimitriassession2327 because Arlette and her husband are trying to find people love… She came on the show, left out these details about herself and ran away from someone she matched with. She wasn’t ready for love.

  • @user-ei5hv1bp5d
    @user-ei5hv1bp5d Před měsícem +10

    Yes, it matters. Unfortunately it is all written on her clothes! She is not ready to be a wife, a good wife!

  • @Thenoble1j
    @Thenoble1j Před měsícem +11

    That man Kitez typing 60 words Per minute 😭

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem +6

      83 wpm Is my record 🤣👍

  • @tonethevirgo
    @tonethevirgo Před měsícem +9

    “You can wait” that’s crazy when she talked basically this Whole episode, I think he was Moving Fast & She was Ungrateful and Lacked Some accountability , I hate to Say this But this is why Most men are Hesitant doing things As a Nice Gesture Because Of the lack of appreciation from Most(Not all) Women

  • @malcolms3220
    @malcolms3220 Před měsícem +6

    I went to an all boys HS in the mid to late 2000s. If OF existed back then and it came out somebody’s mother was on there…. Saying it was gonna get ugly would be an understatement so I can’t even imagine how it would be now lol.
    Unfortunately it seems like a lot of ladies that participate in adult content and dance kind of want to pretend like it’s nothing and it doesn’t exist because they don’t want it to but the internet is forever. Don’t think they consider that men do get judged for seriously entertaining women like that. She even seems to know the stigma attached by saying she’s an “entertainer”, which is kind of a vague half truth about what she does.

  • @LngLvdKing
    @LngLvdKing Před měsícem +11

    Ppl like that are dangerous in real life 💯
    When they (intentionally) leave out key details, or only tell (half truths) in order to psychologically manipulate others against someone.

  • @jeffreyjay1723
    @jeffreyjay1723 Před měsícem +9

    @KiteZz_ I've been waiting for y'all's response to this video. I already saw T P's response video and it was hilarious as usual, however, I really appreciate you all's response videos because I love hearing a married couples perspective.

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem

      Hopefully it was worth the wait 😁👍

    • @skorwolf2719
      @skorwolf2719 Před měsícem +1

      Me to I felt the same way I needed there reaction

  • @taulantiillyrian5619
    @taulantiillyrian5619 Před měsícem +6

    It is vicious to ask someone to "get over it" and have grace and understanding for your "private person" self whom the world has seen naked on demand (paid to strip and OF), someone whose ideal relationship is a "Bonnie and Clyde" situation, and not doubt that you might not have fully gotten over it yourself, but you cannot have grace and understanding for someone who does not have your kind of past, who has developed feelings for you (like you wanted him to) and who cannot find it in them to just leave you right then and there. And how have you gotten over your past when you pick an extreme cleavage for an interview for the world to see, filmed by a married man in front of his wife just to make a point to Reggie that you feel no shame and have no trauma from your past (cap!)?

  • @crispyshadow3729
    @crispyshadow3729 Před měsícem +5

    This is why only fans women cannot be married, there's too much to dig through and she isn't going to be happy about you personally getting a shovel, not worth it ever, move on.

  • @zitmo1
    @zitmo1 Před měsícem +3

    Homeboy dodged a bullet!! I know he's feeling her but she's too manipulative and disingenuous.......she tried to give the impression she hasn't been in the "entertainment" industry in 6yrs but yet she has an active Onlyfans and she was actively on it 3 months ago.......Unbelievable!!

  • @ItzTjones7334
    @ItzTjones7334 Před měsícem +5

    Awesome reaction you guys give great relationship advice I'm 29 single taking notes can't wait to watch the walking dead series as well much love and support this way.

  • @loxsochic22
    @loxsochic22 Před měsícem +4

    What people classify as a date is subjective. If the two people establish it as a date, then, yeah...woalah...it's a date!

  • @zipporah6841
    @zipporah6841 Před měsícem +2

    I can tell that Reggie is ready to settle down. I don't know him but based off this follow up he appears to have a lot of great husband qualities. He understands how marriage works. He knew to seek counsel from his partner on how to make things better. He is also a solutionist, whenever she gave him a problem he found a solution. A is also wise enough to know to seek advice from married people who want to see them and their relationship succeed. I wish them both the best though.

  • @Youngesey
    @Youngesey Před 12 dny

    Poor guy...bro you killed me at 1:01:10 he was teaching you how to invest lmao 😂😂😂

  • @eleanesmith1263
    @eleanesmith1263 Před 2 dny +1

    As yall can tell i am still binging your channel still

  • @robertjames5317
    @robertjames5317 Před měsícem +3

    Men are interested in a woman’s past, woman are interested in a man’s future.

  • @zipporah6841
    @zipporah6841 Před měsícem +2

    This is the second time where a man from Arlette's Pop the Balloon has tried to put a young lady on and the young lady jeopardizes the opportunity. It's sad because I have noticed that in dating a lot of women have gotten so sidetracked with wanting a man to buy her luxury items and pay all of her bills, and when he doesn't do that (after all they are not in a relationship) she decides to cut him off. I saw this same behavior with Eric's situation, he was willing to help the first young lady he matched with get model castings just so she can be set for life. The same thing has happened with Reggie, he was showing her the blueprint that could change her life whether they were together or a part. It's sad how we as women have gotten to a point where we don't value men who are willing to provide resources like knowledge and connections that can change the entire trajectory of our lives. We have placed way too much value into fast cash.

  • @LoverboyB_Pookie
    @LoverboyB_Pookie Před měsícem +2

    Her onlyfans is still active and it’s
    $25 a month lol

  • @dimitriassession2327
    @dimitriassession2327 Před měsícem +12

    34:58 respectfully speaking Nova can't rewrite her history or herself being. Reggie a hypocrite because he wanted transparency and Nova give him transparency so I don't want to hear from Reggie complaining or changing her past. You're not dating her past, you're dating her future. Side note I notice majority of the guys think they match with someone they belong to them sorry it don't work that way. For Reggie to love bomb Nova so fast prove she was overly attractive to ladies in his past.

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem

      I see what you are getting at 🤔

    • @dimitriassession2327
      @dimitriassession2327 Před měsícem

      @@KiteZz_ elaborate bro?

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem +2

      The part about dating her future really rung a few bells. Though in my opinion past does matter, holding people too strongly to it can and at times does, block someone from being able to progress forward. So thank you for giving me some food for thought as usual 👍

    • @dimitriassession2327
      @dimitriassession2327 Před měsícem +1

      @@KiteZz_ Reg seem to talk at Nova instead with her and understand her view. However Nova is heavy opinionated by her Mother which can become overwhelming.

    • @NaijaBoiTellEm
      @NaijaBoiTellEm Před měsícem +7

      He should walk away. You can't change her past but you can also say that you wouldn't want someone with that past to be in your (long-term) future.

  • @marilyndejesus4971
    @marilyndejesus4971 Před měsícem +5

    two weeks in not enough to get this serious.

  • @Sugarchaela1
    @Sugarchaela1 Před měsícem +4

    Shes quite ungrateful

  • @ahamadoudiallo4399
    @ahamadoudiallo4399 Před měsícem +5

    Both need to be more transparent with their intentions. Overall their communication just seemed inconsistent.

  • @dg91097
    @dg91097 Před měsícem +2

    Now this is the one right here that I've been waiting patiently for lol

  • @chellez29
    @chellez29 Před měsícem +1

    I hope Reggie doesn't change. He will find his match.

  • @marilyndejesus4971
    @marilyndejesus4971 Před měsícem +11

    shes not ready to be wife material.

    • @Juan-tb2ww
      @Juan-tb2ww Před měsícem +1

      Its over for her. She did too much in her past.

  • @shamailaahmed7442
    @shamailaahmed7442 Před měsícem +3

    Finally a really good analysis on this one. Im really pissed at her, like next level pissed because she's contradicting and hypocritical and speaking and thinking in terms of the "entertainment world" which is crass, conditional and transactional. I thought she was sweet but my god.. This woman tainted this guy as some pimp and he could have lost his job over the claims she made! He was only doing his best to make things easier for her and was adjusting his life for her even to the point to suggest something that wouldnt be so freaky as opposed to someone who hasn't seen all that. Fair point.. He should've slowed it down a little to get to really see this side. But I think he was so besotted over her, she really blew my mind too had no idea she had such a cunning character

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem

      Thanks for sharing your viewpoint with us 😁🙏

  • @MikeJones-pf3bp
    @MikeJones-pf3bp Před měsícem +3

    Ima support the other genres yall post fr

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem

      That means the world to us 😁🙏🏾

  • @kikialeaki1850
    @kikialeaki1850 Před měsícem +2

    I’m not a gamer but I like you guys and I like play throughs. You guys are funny so I’ll definitely check my notifications especially for TWD. I definitely wanna see how you play your characters (especially AJ lol👀).

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem +1

      It drops tomorrow, glad to know you are looking forward to it 😁👍

    • @kikialeaki1850
      @kikialeaki1850 Před měsícem +1

      @@KiteZz_ happy to support💜

  • @Thenoble1j
    @Thenoble1j Před měsícem +4

    Support the gaming content 💯. Nahhhh she doing too much 😭. Having RECENT OF content (still haven’t deleted the page), wanting a provider but then mad when he wants to provides 😭
    This is the definition of a plane crash. The were doing so good, and then it just went DOWN

    • @Thenoble1j
      @Thenoble1j Před měsícem +2

      Nvm they both a mess 😭😭😭

  • @shaelovesJesus
    @shaelovesJesus Před měsícem +2

    What he wants is what my husband and I did...INTENTIONAL DATING. We took sex off the table ( I don't know if he did that). We had hard conversations from the beginning. My husband and I timeline is:
    Met: June 2018
    Date: July 2018
    Engaged: October 2018
    Married: February 2019
    We are still married and still going strong.

  • @kingtchala6832
    @kingtchala6832 Před měsícem +9

    For a man who’s big on communication and for a woman who swears she’s past her trauma, Reggie doesn’t seem as good at communicating as he thinks and Nova doesn’t appear to be as over her traumas as she says.

  • @KrystalKat1244
    @KrystalKat1244 Před měsícem +2

    I’m excited for you guys to play the walking dead Telltale series! It’s one of my favorite games to play and watch. I’m a big fan of Telltale in general so if the walking dead ends up a success I hope you guys also check out the Wolf Among Us! As always much love I love your channel ❤

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you for the suggestion 😁👍!

  • @isaiahtr
    @isaiahtr Před měsícem +1

    I don't want to pick sides but to me she sounds like one of those people who Will be done with a relationship but wait for a reason to make their exit and if they can't get one, they piece together something all in order to not look like a villain, and they also love using friends and family to co-sign their decision. Also, it's not that weird to talk to your girl about a threesome, especially if she's had them in the past. It's weirder if she shuts it down without a good reason.

  • @mkawa1566
    @mkawa1566 Před 10 dny

    The producers need to vet the contestants on this show.

  • @MrQuietstorm383
    @MrQuietstorm383 Před 20 dny

    New subscriber here. Great review. My input is that, yes he was moving way too fast for two weeks in. However, he was moving according to how she gave output. She’s a former stripper/porn star whatever… with a child out of marriage. Now she didn’t make marriage a requirement from her baby daddy, so he’s probably thinking why do I have to wait. Plus, she should be ok with the freaky stuff due to her past, in his mind. My opinion is her baby dad is her level and she does need to lower her standards otherwise she’s going to be unmarried in her 60’s with a cat. He does need to select better and make his intentions known up front.

  • @skorwolf2719
    @skorwolf2719 Před měsícem +2

    Cervics level 😂

  • @Uzi-E
    @Uzi-E Před měsícem +1

    im in there for the Walking dead Telltale series especially season 1 power through episode 1... it only goes WAY UP from there...

  • @tyboogie2k10
    @tyboogie2k10 Před měsícem +3

    Really hope that we can have more successful matches

    • @samuelgates5935
      @samuelgates5935 Před měsícem

      Never going to happen.
      They never ask proper questions.
      The women pop their balloons before the men introduce themselves.
      It's all about disrespecting..... especially the women with the men. Got a million childish reasons "Too short," while they're wearing heels🤷
      "Too put together"🤷 "He looks like he spends more time in the mirror than I do"🤷 "He looks like my uncle, my brother, my ex"🤷🤷 One rejected a man because "She had to keep up with the sisterhood!"🤯(Actual comments by women on the show)
      How do you look "for love" and you're doing only fans? And a mother, with a daughter! The kids at school will soon be teasing her daughter about this! (There are many examples of this online)
      It's all ALL about clout chasing.

  • @brandonleemoss
    @brandonleemoss Před měsícem +1

    I can't wait for The walking Dead series I love watching that🎉❤🎉❤🎉

  • @nicolemarie9875
    @nicolemarie9875 Před měsícem +1

    Can we normalize not telling EVERYONE you date about your past? Some things are just not necessary. If we are moving forward we don’t need to know your deepest darkest secrets. It’s really not necessary to trauma bond so early on in a relationship.

    • @dripbeasy5
      @dripbeasy5 Před měsícem

      delusional…? if you were a adult film star especially on the internet in the past that should be talked about lol, yea sure small stuff shouldn’t be brought up but major things from your past definitely need to be talked about. if u met someone who murdered someone 15 years ago wouldn’t you want to know about it even if they served there consequences? id think yes lmao

    • @dripbeasy5
      @dripbeasy5 Před měsícem +1

      usually when people hide there past or deflect its a reason. if you has nothing to hide or feel ashamed about it you should be open.

  • @RayHanmaForce
    @RayHanmaForce Před měsícem

    Peace of God and His blessings to y'all 💪🏾

  • @ftcdp42
    @ftcdp42 Před měsícem +4

    Thing about onlyfans is that it wasnt intended to be a porn site

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem +2

      Very true, but sex sells and corrupts everything it touches 😭

  • @cedrickearley5751
    @cedrickearley5751 Před měsícem

    A simple case of breh not being able to let go of her past. Its obvious that he was into her and fell for her quickly but once she opened up his ego couldn't handle it. You can tell he's never dealt with a woman like that because he kept asking questions and has to get outside opinions on how to move. Thats not a leader. He just used that cop out thats he a great communicatior while running over her opinions with how he feels

  • @rza380.
    @rza380. Před měsícem +1

    First of all why are they acting like they were in a full blown relationship after just matching they need to slow down

  • @rockon8174
    @rockon8174 Před měsícem +1

    58:56 why you all pause on this expression!!??😅😅😅

  • @JERRYDELVA-li4wn
    @JERRYDELVA-li4wn Před měsícem +1

    I’m trying to get to know someone I’m gonna tell every detail about me. I’m not gonna lie about nothing that I’m saying about me because there’s no point of lying if I tell you something about me and tell you what I don’t have when I do tell you something what I do like and I don’t like I’m telling you, so you don’t cross the line when you get mad at argument

  • @MikeJones-pf3bp
    @MikeJones-pf3bp Před měsícem +1

    Ayee

  • @taneahumphrey7918
    @taneahumphrey7918 Před měsícem

    Oh man why am i soo slow when she kept saying the entertainment industry 😂 i thought she was talking about being in rap videos or something 😐.. Sorry i could not move past that especially since she is still doing it so i understand why he said confidence but it was more self respect is what he meant. Women are not required to sell themselves at any capacity to make a living even if you have a child.... unless she receives Christ Jesus and is redeemed by his blood mam we cant move past that you wanna belong to the streets..

  • @JERRYDELVA-li4wn
    @JERRYDELVA-li4wn Před měsícem +1

    A date to me is that you plan for a date and you say let’s go to red lobster between you and the girl that you’re dating that’s a date to me if you go on a date with two other people that’s not really a date because you’re not really dating the other two people you do one person

  • @brandonleemoss
    @brandonleemoss Před měsícem +1

    Man we need Aaron on this
    one😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    He would did this girl a favor😂

  • @adriangallon956
    @adriangallon956 Před měsícem

    Too fast, and intentional are two different things.

  • @christof123
    @christof123 Před měsícem

    Can you all make a reaction to the plumber getting exposed for using fake pictures?

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem +2

      Unfortunately no, we are staying away from that situation, has brung us nothing but trouble, sorry 😔🙏

    • @christof123
      @christof123 Před měsícem +1

      @@KiteZz_ I respect that.

    • @loxsochic22
      @loxsochic22 Před měsícem +1

      ​@@KiteZz_ I'm so glad you both made the decision to stay away from that topic. Wise decision! The whole thing was becoming a massive dumpster fire and you both didn't need or deserve to be caught up in it. Smart move!

  • @lmkejame22
    @lmkejame22 Před měsícem +1

    What's her only fans link?

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem +5

      🤔 what you need it for my Brotha?

    • @lmkejame22
      @lmkejame22 Před měsícem +5

      @@KiteZz_ I'm doing a research project!

  • @DarionCortez
    @DarionCortez Před měsícem +3

    Y'all love to be Captain save a Pookie. Had everything in the world to say about her "issues" but glossed over his.
    Two-three weeks in and he's already planning for them a year out?! Badgering her about her past and because it doesn't fit his narrative he thinks she's lying. Asking her to deposit HER check into HIS account and get an allowance. Y'all tried to paint that as him teaching her financial literacy. You don't need to hold someones check to teach them financial literacy. It would be really dumb for a single mother to give her check to a man she met weeks ago.
    Telling her to uproot her and her childs life to follow him to wherever he has to go. Planning to impregnate her by this time next year but not putting a ring on her finger is WILD! Trying to dog her for her past but turn around and ask for a 3way. He wasn't trying to adapt to who she was as a person in the now he wanted the old version of her she'd grown past. On top of that he was trying to hurry her along on HIS plan and not acknowledging she has her own plans/goals.
    Having a plan doesn't make you a leader, being financially literate doesn't make you a provider. They both have things they need to work on but y'all trying to put majority of the blame on her is nuts to me.

    • @KiteZz_
      @KiteZz_  Před měsícem +4

      Its not that deep for us because we dont know them. Plus just because you see it this way doesn't mean we are suddenly crazy for seeing it how we see it.
      Different perspectives, remember we never at any point said we were the right way of thinking about it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, sorry we didn't have the same viewpoint. 🙏

    • @shamailaahmed7442
      @shamailaahmed7442 Před měsícem +3

      You fr? He was dating her not pimping or controlling her life-- that's the essence of a relationship and one where you grow together. Do you really think doing only fans was something positive for a grown relationship? He was suggesting ideas and telling her where he is at so that they both could begin something foreseeable in the future, he didn't kidnap her or say anything negative about her character or family. She did.

    • @DarionCortez
      @DarionCortez Před měsícem

      @@KiteZz_ It's not about having the same view point it's pointing out the bias that y'all were a lot tougher on her than him. Like I said they both have issues but y'all only highlighted hers.

    • @DarionCortez
      @DarionCortez Před měsícem

      @@shamailaahmed7442 IT WAS 2-3 WEEKS in why is he planning any of that in the first place. Also there's plenty of women/men who are in adult entertainment and are in long term relationships or married. He was trying to move to fast forgetting she's a WHOLE PERSON with her own ideas.

    • @Theonlyphuevos
      @Theonlyphuevos Před měsícem +3

      Womp womp 🤣

  • @shaelovesJesus
    @shaelovesJesus Před měsícem

    Chile