Why would black women strategize about creating families with men who have shown, told, broadcasted that they don’t want families? Why would black women continue to do that?
Why do men sow their seed freely and recklessly into women in helping to procreate illegitimate children they abandon? Why is the woman being solely blame in the act of fornicating and procreating? Before pointing fingers at others start with self. Why do men lack sexual self-discipline? I’m guessing sexually weak will blame women for themselves being sexually weak. When will men, those certain men, take responsibility and accountability for their sexual behaviors without placing blame elsewhere?
Because not all black men are doing that, see I see what's going on here. Y'all trying to push an agenda that's why black people are in the situation they in cuz y'all always following somebody. You always listening to what the others have to say. Y'all the people that the Koreans can have straight up. I want people like y'all on the black community. Because for you to push that b******* like all black men are the same. That's despicable, I could understand if they're talking about men who are actually doing that. You act like you know every black man in the world. So for you to pose that question was the dumbest thing you could have ever done 🤦🏽♀️ Just because you guys don't know how to pick man, don't mean that all men are bad. You attract how you are and a lot of y'all attract exactly how y'all are and then y'all want to look crazy in the face when they treat y'all like s*** stop attracting them types of men straight up I said what I said 💯
@blackrabbit2282 i mean you say you rather be by yourself than to be with a man who disrespect you. Is a man disrespecting you the default setting in your life? And why? Do you think men who can respect you, exist?
@@blackrabbit2282 Honey, I wouldn't even listen to these idiots. It's just more gaslighting. He's literally trying to act like you're the reason you're attracting toxic men... I'm so sick of these losers.
Thank you. It drives me insane that all these people keep saying this whole thing is new and us blk women are copying from asian women or letting asian women decide for us how to live our lives. Like i’m a blk woman who been 4B since i was 19yo. And now i’m in my mid 30’s and still doing just fine. I actually figured out in my mid 20’s i was not interested in having kids, getting married, nor being in a relationship with anyone. And i show the signs of someone who is asexual as well. So yeah. This is nothing new. I didn’t even know this was made into a movement until a couple years ago.
I think a lot of Black Women in the U.S was 4B before 4B was even a thing because there’s more Women than Men in the Black Community. Also I think this is why Black Women are less married not because they couldn’t find a man but because they chose themselves instead of toxicity, drama and the turning them into Babymama Culture.
@@anonnnymousthegreatyea there’s literally a movement I think in the 60s when black women stopped having sex with the men because they were doing something bad and it worked almost overnight 😂
There’s only a fraction who have been living like that. Now it’s becoming more popular to prioritize oneself and do what’s best for us despite what society says. Similar to the childfree community refusing to be pressured into having kids despite people telling them they’ll be lonely and unfulfilled
I disagree with this one. BW at one point were promoting the whole "Miss Independent" "She got her own" motto but they never decentered BM. And BW are STILL extremely male identified. How were BW resting in their soft life when they were on the front lines of the George Floyd protest just 4 years ago lol? But I guess....
3:11 this sister honestly makes me laugh. Does she not watch relationship podcast and how black men have been degrading us for years now it’s not even a black thing it’s just a women’s thing. Men want us to be traditional wives and women while they go out there, and they continue to do whatever they wanna do and not be traditional men, what doesn’t she understand I’d rather be single then be with a man who doesn’t even see me as an equal partner. They try and trick us into thinking that being single is lonely it’s miserable when it really actually is not you have more peace. peace over everything
It’s not a trend. Because there are many women who’s been doing 4B movement way before it even became a movement. I wish people would stop calling it a trend or act like it’s something new. Because it’s not. Especially within the past 20yrs, women have been doing this in west. Over SK, the women didn’t even start doing this until less than 10years ago. Like in the west we’ve had many women that are single by choice, childfree by choice, choosing to stay a virgin/celibate and don’t want to get married for a long while now.
@patriciaroberts, here is some advice for you and the 14 women who agree with you. You want better, and here me out, you want better stop going after a man's wallet, because if a man starts to realize you are after his wallet, he will start treating you as 304. My God you women complain about wanting respect, but not one of give it, unless you are getting paid for it
@@patriciaroberts9600 has everything to do with your comment, you just don't like the fact you were called out on your BS. Or do you think it's decent and kind to judge a man by the size of his bank account?
Why do these pick me woman get so upset don’t this mean there will just be more man for them? That’s right the pick me rarely get pick or married. we already tried talking to men and they didn’t listen
Actually this is happening in other Asian countries asian women no longer want to deal with Asian men or even dating men in general. And if they are they going for westernized men
Some Black women have been doing the 4B Movement before it had a name. What they are doing is their choice. Some Black women are still dating, getting married, and having children. Do what works for you. 4-15-2024(Mon)
2:49 but it is though... I'd much rather spend my life alone if it means I won't be thrown to the wolf's and have to deal with everything by myself, if I have to deal with stuff on my own even as a married women, I might as well just live my best life by myself
What is she praying for unless she’s married to a worthy husband and all the right checks are marked off children and marriage shouldn’t be a option period. Women I think we need to work on ourselves first before we get into any relationship less alone having babies 😅
13:08 not all American women are the same. So even IF some don’t join there are SOME who do. So it doesn’t matter about the ones who don’t do it cause there’s Korean women who don’t support it or participate either and they’re doing just fine. Chalking it up to American women, when it’s not that it’s women who are male focused.
I feel like we need to pause from this type of relationship building and focus on reconstructing our community, building power and assets. Etc. Too many of us , our men especially have a zero value for our nation of people. Regroup. We don't always have tobe sleeping with each other or marrying up to build. Men need to rebuild with men, women need to put our resources together and build.
Lets show them once again whos really running the show ladys. To the lady talking about its going to lead to a lonely life, so youd rather take the life of getting cheated on,stds, stressed out til you bald, sick taking care all they bad ahh kids, taking care of everyone in the house, begin they maid yea okay you have fun with that life. Ill be with my girls bonding drinking and having a good time.
Its simple, because collectively you actually dont have any problems like that. Its a psyOp and women are collective stupid and are jumping on this movement as a response to what men have been doing in regards to going overseas, passports, mgtow, etc. The reason the birthrate is dropping is because the men have stopped attempting to build relationships because the gender dynamic has become so lopsided that the females are attempting to dominate the males via divorce, alimony, child custody, child support, dating in general, lack of trust, constant cheating and all of the micromovements women have been pushing over the past few years(#wastehistime, #hotgirlsummer,#thefutureisfemale, toxic masculinity and every other demonization label that was pushed) Look at all the latest random trends and issues. The gym fitness influencer issue with women just randomly starting stuff with dudes and making things up. Its all about attentions and they are collectively terrorizing the men because the men dont want to deal with them. Because of this, the marriage industry is collapsing(davids bridal shower went bankrupt, zailles as well i believe). In other words, the women have become corrupt and are terrorizing the men, the men are leaving the work force, colleges, and dating in general, and the women are lashing out because they either dont understand what is happening or are bitter at the results they are getting from acting the way that they do, and as things get worse and we see report after report, compilation after compilation of women crying how come nobody wants to date them, they are jumping and trying to push this movement as an attempt to get attention OR as a way to distract from the fact them being insufferable and destructive is what is causing men to avoid them and not because THEY chose whatever because men bad and women good. Does that make sense in some way, shape, or form? Not say what im saying is true but should be concise an explanation of what MIGHT be going on.
Thank you for all of these perspectives. If western women want to do this I'm all for it. I'm sorry for that 2nd creators, the young woman who was all about "white feminists convinced us to throw our men out the house." Not mass incarceration, over policing, the literal policies of Social Services. Oh, and not the extremely high rate of abusive behavior of black men towards black women. Nope, it was all the white feminists fault. This is why I hate that we don't control the teaching of our history. We live like our history began at enslavement therefore we have to keep that thinking. I checked, she got smoked in the comment section of her videos. I wish people could see she's just young and we all have different ideas when we are young. I mean look at the ADOS movement, which is the dumbest thing fake black activists every came up with. But the young woman who pointed out that American women have problem sustaining a movement, that was a fair criticism. Too much of what she said was so true I couldn't argue with it at all. However, something needs to change. Not just in the US, but across the world. The treatment of women everywhere MUST change.
At least they are fighting for what they want. Maybe we need to take a page out their book and start fighting for what we want and not rely on a vote come November! Why cant black Americans start a movement . Such as the Crown Act. We should NOT have to have such a bill!💪🏾😡Does any other race have a bill? When are we going to finally fight for ourselves? This is not 50/60s. 🙄😡🤨🤨🤨🤨💪🏾
@@xxwoman Its simple, because collectively you actually dont have any problems like that. Its a psyOp and women are collective stupid and are jumping on this movement as a response to what men have been doing in regards to going overseas, passports, mgtow, etc. The reason the birthrate is dropping is because the men have stopped attempting to build relationships because the gender dynamic has become so lopsided that the females are attempting to dominate the males via divorce, alimony, child custody, child support, dating in general, lack of trust, constant cheating and all of the micromovements women have been pushing over the past few years(#wastehistime, #hotgirlsummer,#thefutureisfemale, toxic masculinity and every other demonization label that was pushed) Look at all the latest random trends and issues. The gym fitness influencer issue with women just randomly starting stuff with dudes and making things up. Its all about attentions and they are collectively terrorizing the men because the men dont want to deal with them. Because of this, the marriage industry is collapsing(davids bridal shower went bankrupt, zailles as well i believe). In other words, the women have become corrupt and are terrorizing the men, the men are leaving the work force, colleges, and dating in general, and the women are lashing out because they either dont understand what is happening or are bitter at the results they are getting from acting the way that they do, and as things get worse and we see report after report, compilation after compilation of women crying how come nobody wants to date them, they are jumping and trying to push this movement as an attempt to get attention OR as a way to distract from the fact them being insufferable and destructive is what is causing men to avoid them and not because THEY chose whatever because men bad and women good. Does that make sense in some way, shape, or form? Not say what im saying is true but should be concise an explanation of what MIGHT be going on.
How come they don't think the fact that they were killing female children? Might be the reason the population is low or the birth rate is low. If there's no women, how could it be a birth rate if you kill the women children. What is the country accomplishing by killing female children? I never understood this
I don't need to know about feminism in Korea to understand the 4b movement...right now being in a feminist in america is getting just as dangerous as it is in korea...American women are literally being reduced to baby makers by men who hate feminism..so although I appreciate the sister telling us about literature that defines the movement, she needs to understand its not a vast diffrence in what's happening in Korea vs America....
There isn't a population crisis. There are more people in this world then ever. What will happen is there will be a dip. The economy will drop and then it will gradually level out again.
It's more than that, the lack of children gets carried on into the next generation. The lower childbirth numbers will cause even lower childbirth numbers in the next one. Someone did the math and it's going to be bad. For them, not us women 😊
Grew up in India and have experienced every single one of the experiences that the Korean Guy (singleandcelibate). Watched my uncle behave exactly as he described. We couldn’t even eat if he didn’t show up at lunch time. Asian patriarchy is a lot more toxic.
OK....for all of the Korea living content creators, it's crazy how they can WITH A STRAIGHT FACE acting like the 4B movement isn't strong. Understand that Koreans in general don't speak their true thoughts in public. If the marriage shops were doing well, then you would see more marriages but ofc marriages are down substantially in Korea as well as births. I've lived here almost 20 years, so yes, 4B isn't the primary reason for low birth rates in the country, but let's not kid ourselves. If 4B wasn't a thing, we would see consistent marriage rates too. Smh
Bro its like 10 women actually doing the 4B thing, to blame the low birth rate on 4B is correlation without causation at best. But hey if you want to cut your nose to spite your face cool.
How are women cutting off their nose to spite their face? How is not being involved with men harmful to a woman? When a woman is single with no man, it’s the most peaceful time in her life. I know because I am a woman and have women friends and family.
@@monicafoster3593 Ok that's a fair point. One question though, are you saying that all men are the problem (I'm assuming you're not) and if so, are you saying you and your friends just perfect women.
@@Oyi_14 I have no idea how you would reach the conclusion that I feel me and the women I know are perfect. I just re read my comment and I’m genuinely stumped as to how you cane up with that. 🤔🤷🏽♀️ I said women in general are more at peace in their lives when they are single. If that means we’re perfect oh well. 🤷🏽♀️
@@monicafoster3593Very true. A woman's life without a man is beyond peaceful. We as black people age well to start with. Add that to a stress free life without a man and now at almost 60, I am constantly told I look like I am in my 20s. I am Vegan and seek only organic food as is humanly possible. If I had a man, I'd be looking every year of my almost 60 years.
Its simple, because collectively you actually dont have any problems like that. Its a psyOp and women are collective stupid and are jumping on this movement as a response to what men have been doing in regards to going overseas, passports, mgtow, etc. The reason the birthrate is dropping is because the men have stopped attempting to build relationships because the gender dynamic has become so lopsided that the females are attempting to dominate the males via divorce, alimony, child custody, child support, dating in general, lack of trust, constant cheating and all of the micromovements women have been pushing over the past few years(#wastehistime, #hotgirlsummer,#thefutureisfemale, toxic masculinity and every other demonization label that was pushed) Look at all the latest random trends and issues. The gym fitness influencer issue with women just randomly starting stuff with dudes and making things up. Its all about attentions and they are collectively terrorizing the men because the men dont want to deal with them. Because of this, the marriage industry is collapsing(davids bridal shower went bankrupt, zailles as well i believe). In other words, the women have become corrupt and are terrorizing the men, the men are leaving the work force, colleges, and dating in general, and the women are lashing out because they either dont understand what is happening or are bitter at the results they are getting from acting the way that they do, and as things get worse and we see report after report, compilation after compilation of women crying how come nobody wants to date them, they are jumping and trying to push this movement as an attempt to get attention OR as a way to distract from the fact them being insufferable and destructive is what is causing men to avoid them and not because THEY chose whatever because men bad and women good. Does that make sense in some way, shape, or form? Not say what im saying is true but should be concise an explanation of what MIGHT be going on.
i applaud the 4b movement. that means you have to be honest with men and tell them straight up that you aren't interested. that's the best outcome because he doesn't have to waste time trying to date or smash, let along marry or impregnate. leave them to their own devices and go find someone that is for you. keep in mind, that means totally leaving them to whatever happens. identify them, label them as 4b feminists and treat them accordingly.
Ok, listen up ladies, the 4B is a much bigger success than you think. Someone did the math, if only a portion of women, say 20%, would participate in 4B, already in a few as 5 years the consequences will be in full effect, like half empty schools, certain baby and family products industries crashing, causing a generation dip that won't be refilled for centuries, etc. From my standpoint of view, white east European here, the African American women are already the spearhead of this movement in the US, and they're not f*cking around, they mean serious business (no pun intended). Even if only a part of the women will participate the effects will be disastrous - for men and the capitalist overlords, not for us women 😊 4B ftw
I understand that the 4B movement is necessary in some countries. Where women have a lot of rights or in a small ethnic community, the 4B movement is self-destruction.
Its unfair and inaccurate for that female black you tuber to blame white women for the crisis of fatherlessness in the US. That is of their own making. Everybody is responsible for their own choices in life
People don't know this, but these women movements (Divestment, De-Centering Men, 4B, etc.) they point to the samething, not having children is found in s scripture... The Book of Thomas. Just because certain books weren't included in the bible doesn't mean it will not happen. Also, the bible speaks of a separation of men and women before the end of time.
Also, the Bible describes marriage as a gift and singleness as a gift as well. I believe that it’s in the book of Corinthians (I don’t quite remember). People like to disregard the “singleness as a gift” part to push a narrative to reproduce.
Yes. Certain men are causing self- destruction by not treating women like human beings instead of servants that they can fuck, and not treating acting like responsible adults that women would want to marry and have children with.
Better self destruction than to keep upholding the patriarchal system that constantly tells us that we are less valuable and bring nothing to the table despite the fact that we risk our lives to bring future generations into existence. I bet you wouldn't appreciate that either if you were in the same situation.
@buttergurls6401 ?... girl get offt my comment with this bull.crap.. I didn't know what you were saying. But if i agree with someone.. I just say I agree. And I don't totally agree with you...because even if I didn't have a man...I'm not going to do that. Not to black men anyway. God bless yiu anyway..... I'm gotta go get back on my hooked on phonics
Its simple, because collectively you actually dont have any problems like that. Its a psyOp and women are collective stupid and are jumping on this movement as a response to what men have been doing in regards to going overseas, passports, mgtow, etc. The reason the birthrate is dropping is because the men have stopped attempting to build relationships because the gender dynamic has become so lopsided that the females are attempting to dominate the males via divorce, alimony, child custody, child support, dating in general, lack of trust, constant cheating and all of the micromovements women have been pushing over the past few years(#wastehistime, #hotgirlsummer,#thefutureisfemale, toxic masculinity and every other demonization label that was pushed) Look at all the latest random trends and issues. The gym fitness influencer issue with women just randomly starting stuff with dudes and making things up. Its all about attentions and they are collectively terrorizing the men because the men dont want to deal with them. Because of this, the marriage industry is collapsing(davids bridal shower went bankrupt, zailles as well i believe). In other words, the women have become corrupt and are terrorizing the men, the men are leaving the work force, colleges, and dating in general, and the women are lashing out because they either dont understand what is happening or are bitter at the results they are getting from acting the way that they do, and as things get worse and we see report after report, compilation after compilation of women crying how come nobody wants to date them, they are jumping and trying to push this movement as an attempt to get attention OR as a way to distract from the fact them being insufferable and destructive is what is causing men to avoid them and not because THEY chose whatever because men bad and women good. Does that make sense in some way, shape, or form? Not say what im saying is true but should be concise an explanation of what MIGHT be going on.
Let's get real hon,they feed you and they help you,not the way round,ya'll just don't acknowledge it or show gratitude instead you degrade and mistreat them,ya'll don't deserve em and you know it
Black women. Aka the daughters of Zion. Listen good. Your Father, Our Father in Heaven did not make you to be following any nation against his kings and priests of Zion. Your men are fighting a serious war and you daughters are being used b, weaponized and manipulated by the devil to go against them. When you follow or We follow these nations we are affected waaaaay worst than them because we are set apart people Deuteronomy 7:6, Exodus19:5-6. The nations are against us two. Yet they are falling our God is fighting for us whether you lnow or not.. We have fallen hard and we came here on the boat tpgether(Deuteronomy 28,30] and we shall leave together. Time to unite and repent and start building in these days. If you dont take heed and make these changes it wont go well…. We love you and remember to confess your faults and make changes.. Shalom!
Its simple, because collectively you actually dont have any problems like that. Its a psyOp and women are collective stupid and are jumping on this movement as a response to what men have been doing in regards to going overseas, passports, mgtow, etc. The reason the birthrate is dropping is because the men have stopped attempting to build relationships because the gender dynamic has become so lopsided that the females are attempting to dominate the males via divorce, alimony, child custody, child support, dating in general, lack of trust, constant cheating and all of the micromovements women have been pushing over the past few years(#wastehistime, #hotgirlsummer,#thefutureisfemale, toxic masculinity and every other demonization label that was pushed) Look at all the latest random trends and issues. The gym fitness influencer issue with women just randomly starting stuff with dudes and making things up. Its all about attentions and they are collectively terrorizing the men because the men dont want to deal with them. Because of this, the marriage industry is collapsing(davids bridal shower went bankrupt, zailles as well i believe). In other words, the women have become corrupt and are terrorizing the men, the men are leaving the work force, colleges, and dating in general, and the women are lashing out because they either dont understand what is happening or are bitter at the results they are getting from acting the way that they do, and as things get worse and we see report after report, compilation after compilation of women crying how come nobody wants to date them, they are jumping and trying to push this movement as an attempt to get attention OR as a way to distract from the fact them being insufferable and destructive is what is causing men to avoid them and not because THEY chose whatever because men bad and women good. Does that make sense in some way, shape, or form? Not say what im saying is true but should be concise an explanation of what MIGHT be going on.
The men you interact with says more about you than them and vice-versa. Most men aren't monsters you choose monsters that's on you!!!!! Why on gods green earth is it so hard to be accountable
Nothing to see here the Creator of life and death will have the final word that has already been spoken. You sodimites just refuse to listen. Have a day.👉🏾📜🔥
This 4B movement is going to die out just like the 90 day date the steve told y'all women to do to men and that didn't workout then y'all had the Me Too Movement and that too also died out so i say hey go for it 😂😂😂!!
Why would black women strategize about creating families with men who have shown, told, broadcasted that they don’t want families? Why would black women continue to do that?
Why do men sow their seed freely and recklessly into women in helping to procreate illegitimate children they abandon? Why is the woman being solely blame in the act of fornicating and procreating? Before pointing fingers at others start with self. Why do men lack sexual self-discipline? I’m guessing sexually weak will blame women for themselves being sexually weak. When will men, those certain men, take responsibility and accountability for their sexual behaviors without placing blame elsewhere?
Because not all black men are doing that, see I see what's going on here. Y'all trying to push an agenda that's why black people are in the situation they in cuz y'all always following somebody. You always listening to what the others have to say. Y'all the people that the Koreans can have straight up. I want people like y'all on the black community. Because for you to push that b******* like all black men are the same. That's despicable, I could understand if they're talking about men who are actually doing that. You act like you know every black man in the world. So for you to pose that question was the dumbest thing you could have ever done 🤦🏽♀️ Just because you guys don't know how to pick man, don't mean that all men are bad. You attract how you are and a lot of y'all attract exactly how y'all are and then y'all want to look crazy in the face when they treat y'all like s*** stop attracting them types of men straight up I said what I said 💯
It’s beyond me lol. It’s been past me since I was a kid I didn’t want none of this
Here we go with the *EVERY Black Man is evil* 😈 logic!
All men don't think like that you think like that
I rather be lonely by myself than with a man who disrespects me. I'm not going to weed out the bad men for the one good one. Hell no.
Why r you attracting disrespectful men? What energy are u putting out in the universe?
@@RW2996 what was disrespectful?
@blackrabbit2282 i mean you say you rather be by yourself than to be with a man who disrespect you. Is a man disrespecting you the default setting in your life? And why? Do you think men who can respect you, exist?
@@RW2996 no but why take the risk? No one is getting hurt, so who cares? And if you care, why?
@@blackrabbit2282 Honey, I wouldn't even listen to these idiots. It's just more gaslighting. He's literally trying to act like you're the reason you're attracting toxic men... I'm so sick of these losers.
Black women been doing this in the U.S. there's nothing new here. Black women are just chillin in their soft era. Good luck and Blessings to all!!
Thank you. It drives me insane that all these people keep saying this whole thing is new and us blk women are copying from asian women or letting asian women decide for us how to live our lives. Like i’m a blk woman who been 4B since i was 19yo. And now i’m in my mid 30’s and still doing just fine. I actually figured out in my mid 20’s i was not interested in having kids, getting married, nor being in a relationship with anyone. And i show the signs of someone who is asexual as well. So yeah. This is nothing new. I didn’t even know this was made into a movement until a couple years ago.
I think a lot of Black Women in the U.S was 4B before 4B was even a thing because there’s more Women than Men in the Black Community. Also I think this is why Black Women are less married not because they couldn’t find a man but because they chose themselves instead of toxicity, drama and the turning them into Babymama Culture.
@@anonnnymousthegreatyea there’s literally a movement I think in the 60s when black women stopped having sex with the men because they were doing something bad and it worked almost overnight 😂
There’s only a fraction who have been living like that. Now it’s becoming more popular to prioritize oneself and do what’s best for us despite what society says. Similar to the childfree community refusing to be pressured into having kids despite people telling them they’ll be lonely and unfulfilled
I disagree with this one. BW at one point were promoting the whole "Miss Independent" "She got her own" motto but they never decentered BM. And BW are STILL extremely male identified. How were BW resting in their soft life when they were on the front lines of the George Floyd protest just 4 years ago lol? But I guess....
I applaud the young Korean man for talking about this when feminism is such a taboo and sensitive subject in Korea.
Who cares?? And why should we care about people who aren’t our own.
3:11 this sister honestly makes me laugh. Does she not watch relationship podcast and how black men have been degrading us for years now it’s not even a black thing it’s just a women’s thing. Men want us to be traditional wives and women while they go out there, and they continue to do whatever they wanna do and not be traditional men, what doesn’t she understand I’d rather be single then be with a man who doesn’t even see me as an equal partner. They try and trick us into thinking that being single is lonely it’s miserable when it really actually is not you have more peace. peace over everything
There will always be ratchet in our community you really think men care what y'all do with your own box
@@Darian-mf8kkfacts. That's what she was saying. Men don't GAF. They don't mind dying off
She's too busy praying to watch. Her eyes are closed shut!
this is her grift. She's a #pickmeisha like that Pearl chick.
It’s not a trend. Because there are many women who’s been doing 4B movement way before it even became a movement. I wish people would stop calling it a trend or act like it’s something new. Because it’s not. Especially within the past 20yrs, women have been doing this in west. Over SK, the women didn’t even start doing this until less than 10years ago.
Like in the west we’ve had many women that are single by choice, childfree by choice, choosing to stay a virgin/celibate and don’t want to get married for a long while now.
Brothers need to do better,. No one wants to live in an abusive relationship, that the bigger problem.
Men think women should take one for the team for life. Sad but true. Glad I am single for life.
Facts
@patriciaroberts, here is some advice for you and the 14 women who agree with you. You want better, and here me out, you want better stop going after a man's wallet, because if a man starts to realize you are after his wallet, he will start treating you as 304. My God you women complain about wanting respect, but not one of give it, unless you are getting paid for it
That has nothing to do with my comment. I'm talking about decency and kindness...
@@patriciaroberts9600 has everything to do with your comment, you just don't like the fact you were called out on your BS. Or do you think it's decent and kind to judge a man by the size of his bank account?
Why do these pick me woman get so upset don’t this mean there will just be more man for them? That’s right the pick me rarely get pick or married. we already tried talking to men and they didn’t listen
Are they pick mes or critical thinkers who have different opinions???
It's fine for them to have different vie but why do they have to push their traditional views onto people who have chosen something else?
They like the toxic competition
Actually this is happening in other Asian countries asian women no longer want to deal with Asian men or even dating men in general. And if they are they going for westernized men
Dont speak for asian women, you know nothing about asian and asian men and women!!!!
Nobody wants to deal with whyte men
And then some dumbass say it's cuz of race
Women in Africa have already had to create safe havens for themselves and children away from brutal men.
Ya know Black men could try listening to, respecting, and being better partners to Black women, and maybe avoid a 4B movement in our community...
That first pick me speaks for herself and the one in the white sweater speaking for themselves. We need to thin the herd.
Some Black women have been doing the 4B Movement before it had a name. What they are doing is their choice. Some Black women are still dating, getting married, and having children. Do what works for you. 4-15-2024(Mon)
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I don't have to be convinced, I'm there already. No strategizing needed.
2:49 but it is though... I'd much rather spend my life alone if it means I won't be thrown to the wolf's and have to deal with everything by myself, if I have to deal with stuff on my own even as a married women, I might as well just live my best life by myself
It's crazy how i can beat 100 females in a fight as a guy😂😂💀
Ive been single since 93. Decided not to date in 09. I was married and have procreated . What I see is an increase in fearful people.
Nobody back then took black men out the home black then and now choose not to be in the home and marry the mothers of their children.
What is she praying for unless she’s married to a worthy husband and all the right checks are marked off children and marriage shouldn’t be a option period. Women I think we need to work on ourselves first before we get into any relationship less alone having babies 😅
Cynthia G Been Saying THAT For YEAR'S! . .it's Nothing New🤣
13:08 not all American women are the same. So even IF some don’t join there are SOME who do. So it doesn’t matter about the ones who don’t do it cause there’s Korean women who don’t support it or participate either and they’re doing just fine. Chalking it up to American women, when it’s not that it’s women who are male focused.
I feel like we need to pause from this type of relationship building and focus on reconstructing our community, building power and assets. Etc. Too many of us , our men especially have a zero value for our nation of people. Regroup. We don't always have tobe sleeping with each other or marrying up to build. Men need to rebuild with men, women need to put our resources together and build.
This. ❤
All of this. ❤❤
Lets show them once again whos really running the show ladys. To the lady talking about its going to lead to a lonely life, so youd rather take the life of getting cheated on,stds, stressed out til you bald, sick taking care all they bad ahh kids, taking care of everyone in the house, begin they maid yea okay you have fun with that life. Ill be with my girls bonding drinking and having a good time.
Its simple, because collectively you actually dont have any problems like that. Its a psyOp and women are collective stupid and are jumping on this movement as a response to what men have been doing in regards to going overseas, passports, mgtow, etc. The reason the birthrate is dropping is because the men have stopped attempting to build relationships because the gender dynamic has become so lopsided that the females are attempting to dominate the males via divorce, alimony, child custody, child support, dating in general, lack of trust, constant cheating and all of the micromovements women have been pushing over the past few years(#wastehistime, #hotgirlsummer,#thefutureisfemale, toxic masculinity and every other demonization label that was pushed)
Look at all the latest random trends and issues. The gym fitness influencer issue with women just randomly starting stuff with dudes and making things up. Its all about attentions and they are collectively terrorizing the men because the men dont want to deal with them. Because of this, the marriage industry is collapsing(davids bridal shower went bankrupt, zailles as well i believe).
In other words, the women have become corrupt and are terrorizing the men, the men are leaving the work force, colleges, and dating in general, and the women are lashing out because they either dont understand what is happening or are bitter at the results they are getting from acting the way that they do, and as things get worse and we see report after report, compilation after compilation of women crying how come nobody wants to date them, they are jumping and trying to push this movement as an attempt to get attention OR as a way to distract from the fact them being insufferable and destructive is what is causing men to avoid them and not because THEY chose whatever because men bad and women good.
Does that make sense in some way, shape, or form? Not say what im saying is true but should be concise an explanation of what MIGHT be going on.
Thank you for all of these perspectives. If western women want to do this I'm all for it. I'm sorry for that 2nd creators, the young woman who was all about "white feminists convinced us to throw our men out the house." Not mass incarceration, over policing, the literal policies of Social Services. Oh, and not the extremely high rate of abusive behavior of black men towards black women. Nope, it was all the white feminists fault. This is why I hate that we don't control the teaching of our history. We live like our history began at enslavement therefore we have to keep that thinking. I checked, she got smoked in the comment section of her videos. I wish people could see she's just young and we all have different ideas when we are young. I mean look at the ADOS movement, which is the dumbest thing fake black activists every came up with. But the young woman who pointed out that American women have problem sustaining a movement, that was a fair criticism. Too much of what she said was so true I couldn't argue with it at all. However, something needs to change. Not just in the US, but across the world. The treatment of women everywhere MUST change.
At least they are fighting for what they want. Maybe we need to take a page out their book and start fighting for what we want and not rely on a vote come November! Why cant black Americans start a movement . Such as the Crown Act. We should NOT have to have such a bill!💪🏾😡Does any other race have a bill? When are we going to finally fight for ourselves? This is not 50/60s. 🙄😡🤨🤨🤨🤨💪🏾
Ok, so what is their point again (those against the West 4B)?
They’re just trying to shame us into accepting the mammy role. They can keep it. I’m out and been out for over a decade
@@xxwomanWell done. #Metoo
@@xxwoman Its simple, because collectively you actually dont have any problems like that. Its a psyOp and women are collective stupid and are jumping on this movement as a response to what men have been doing in regards to going overseas, passports, mgtow, etc. The reason the birthrate is dropping is because the men have stopped attempting to build relationships because the gender dynamic has become so lopsided that the females are attempting to dominate the males via divorce, alimony, child custody, child support, dating in general, lack of trust, constant cheating and all of the micromovements women have been pushing over the past few years(#wastehistime, #hotgirlsummer,#thefutureisfemale, toxic masculinity and every other demonization label that was pushed)
Look at all the latest random trends and issues. The gym fitness influencer issue with women just randomly starting stuff with dudes and making things up. Its all about attentions and they are collectively terrorizing the men because the men dont want to deal with them. Because of this, the marriage industry is collapsing(davids bridal shower went bankrupt, zailles as well i believe).
In other words, the women have become corrupt and are terrorizing the men, the men are leaving the work force, colleges, and dating in general, and the women are lashing out because they either dont understand what is happening or are bitter at the results they are getting from acting the way that they do, and as things get worse and we see report after report, compilation after compilation of women crying how come nobody wants to date them, they are jumping and trying to push this movement as an attempt to get attention OR as a way to distract from the fact them being insufferable and destructive is what is causing men to avoid them and not because THEY chose whatever because men bad and women good.
Does that make sense in some way, shape, or form? Not say what im saying is true but should be concise an explanation of what MIGHT be going on.
How come they don't think the fact that they were killing female children? Might be the reason the population is low or the birth rate is low. If there's no women, how could it be a birth rate if you kill the women children. What is the country accomplishing by killing female children? I never understood this
Who's "they"
I don't need to know about feminism in Korea to understand the 4b movement...right now being in a feminist in america is getting just as dangerous as it is in korea...American women are literally being reduced to baby makers by men who hate feminism..so although I appreciate the sister telling us about literature that defines the movement, she needs to understand its not a vast diffrence in what's happening in Korea vs America....
There isn't a population crisis. There are more people in this world then ever. What will happen is there will be a dip. The economy will drop and then it will gradually level out again.
It's more than that, the lack of children gets carried on into the next generation. The lower childbirth numbers will cause even lower childbirth numbers in the next one. Someone did the math and it's going to be bad. For them, not us women 😊
Last Sweetheart!! Check Yourself!! Let’s Deal With Our Own People!! But You Are Young!!
Grew up in India and have experienced every single one of the experiences that the Korean Guy (singleandcelibate). Watched my uncle behave exactly as he described. We couldn’t even eat if he didn’t show up at lunch time. Asian patriarchy is a lot more toxic.
Eclipse is just another day.😅
OK....for all of the Korea living content creators, it's crazy how they can WITH A STRAIGHT FACE acting like the 4B movement isn't strong. Understand that Koreans in general don't speak their true thoughts in public. If the marriage shops were doing well, then you would see more marriages but ofc marriages are down substantially in Korea as well as births. I've lived here almost 20 years, so yes, 4B isn't the primary reason for low birth rates in the country, but let's not kid ourselves. If 4B wasn't a thing, we would see consistent marriage rates too. Smh
Bro its like 10 women actually doing the 4B thing, to blame the low birth rate on 4B is correlation without causation at best.
But hey if you want to cut your nose to spite your face cool.
How are women cutting off their nose to spite their face? How is not being involved with men harmful to a woman? When a woman is single with no man, it’s the most peaceful time in her life. I know because I am a woman and have women friends and family.
@@monicafoster3593 Ok that's a fair point. One question though, are you saying that all men are the problem (I'm assuming you're not) and if so, are you saying you and your friends just perfect women.
@@Oyi_14 I have no idea how you would reach the conclusion that I feel me and the women I know are perfect. I just re read my comment and I’m genuinely stumped as to how you cane up with that. 🤔🤷🏽♀️ I said women in general are more at peace in their lives when they are single. If that means we’re perfect oh well. 🤷🏽♀️
@@monicafoster3593 I asked a question not made a conclusion I literally said "one question though" but it's fine
@@monicafoster3593Very true. A woman's life without a man is beyond peaceful. We as black people age well to start with. Add that to a stress free life without a man and now at almost 60, I am constantly told I look like I am in my 20s. I am Vegan and seek only organic food as is humanly possible. If I had a man, I'd be looking every year of my almost 60 years.
Not our problem black women. Let them deal with their bs on their own. And why are we concerned about their problems? They don't worry about ours.
Some people just have to be on every set.
Its simple, because collectively you actually dont have any problems like that. Its a psyOp and women are collective stupid and are jumping on this movement as a response to what men have been doing in regards to going overseas, passports, mgtow, etc. The reason the birthrate is dropping is because the men have stopped attempting to build relationships because the gender dynamic has become so lopsided that the females are attempting to dominate the males via divorce, alimony, child custody, child support, dating in general, lack of trust, constant cheating and all of the micromovements women have been pushing over the past few years(#wastehistime, #hotgirlsummer,#thefutureisfemale, toxic masculinity and every other demonization label that was pushed)
Look at all the latest random trends and issues. The gym fitness influencer issue with women just randomly starting stuff with dudes and making things up. Its all about attentions and they are collectively terrorizing the men because the men dont want to deal with them. Because of this, the marriage industry is collapsing(davids bridal shower went bankrupt, zailles as well i believe).
In other words, the women have become corrupt and are terrorizing the men, the men are leaving the work force, colleges, and dating in general, and the women are lashing out because they either dont understand what is happening or are bitter at the results they are getting from acting the way that they do, and as things get worse and we see report after report, compilation after compilation of women crying how come nobody wants to date them, they are jumping and trying to push this movement as an attempt to get attention OR as a way to distract from the fact them being insufferable and destructive is what is causing men to avoid them and not because THEY chose whatever because men bad and women good.
Does that make sense in some way, shape, or form? Not say what im saying is true but should be concise an explanation of what MIGHT be going on.
Never heard of this movement. And I agree with the black sister. Don't follow those foolish "movements".
They could easily get women out of other countries while they protest.
It's sad 😢
i applaud the 4b movement. that means you have to be honest with men and tell them straight up that you aren't interested. that's the best outcome because he doesn't have to waste time trying to date or smash, let along marry or impregnate.
leave them to their own devices and go find someone that is for you. keep in mind, that means totally leaving them to whatever happens. identify them, label them as 4b feminists and treat them accordingly.
Ok, listen up ladies, the 4B is a much bigger success than you think.
Someone did the math, if only a portion of women, say 20%, would participate in 4B, already in a few as 5 years the consequences will be in full effect, like half empty schools, certain baby and family products industries crashing, causing a generation dip that won't be refilled for centuries, etc.
From my standpoint of view, white east European here, the African American women are already the spearhead of this movement in the US, and they're not f*cking around, they mean serious business (no pun intended).
Even if only a part of the women will participate the effects will be disastrous - for men and the capitalist overlords, not for us women 😊
4B ftw
I want a husband and leader im going to be celibate until Jesus sends him. My salvation is important now.
Yall want our swag but thats it
I like the different view
I understand that the 4B movement is necessary in some countries. Where women have a lot of rights or in a small ethnic community, the 4B movement is self-destruction.
Not really. It's just a personal choice.
I’m not trying to be funny but is that First Lady not the adjudicator from John wick 3
Married 19 years to a wonderful man 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️.
Married almost 30 years to a wonderful man. 🙏 God bless
I'm 14 in and can't get enough... I feel so outside looking in...
We need to hear more such beautiful stories. Its not all doom and gloom out there
@@michaelmaps2004 so true, all the media pubs is negative when it comes to marriage😑… I’m sick of it .
Bring that movement to Mexico, we are overpopulated over here haha
Kiss&Tell I think it's a great idea, please teach the Europeans. Let the world go back to Adam's.
The Amazonians
It's much deeper than that do the research
Its unfair and inaccurate for that female black you tuber to blame white women for the crisis of fatherlessness in the US. That is of their own making. Everybody is responsible for their own choices in life
count me out
Foolishness.
People don't know this, but these women movements (Divestment, De-Centering Men, 4B, etc.) they point to the samething, not having children is found in s scripture... The Book of Thomas. Just because certain books weren't included in the bible doesn't mean it will not happen. Also, the bible speaks of a separation of men and women before the end of time.
Great, the end is near ❤
Nobody cares about the stupid Bible it’s not real
Also, the Bible describes marriage as a gift and singleness as a gift as well. I believe that it’s in the book of Corinthians (I don’t quite remember). People like to disregard the “singleness as a gift” part to push a narrative to reproduce.
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Self destruction
Yes. Certain men are causing self- destruction by not treating women like human beings instead of servants that they can fuck, and not treating acting like responsible adults that women would want to marry and have children with.
Better self destruction than to keep upholding the patriarchal system that constantly tells us that we are less valuable and bring nothing to the table despite the fact that we risk our lives to bring future generations into existence. I bet you wouldn't appreciate that either if you were in the same situation.
Deserved
Girl..I ain't ignoring my man
If you already have a man then that's not for you. I'm married, so if you have a good man, stick with him, but if I were single, I'm all for it
@buttergurls6401 I respect your opinion like you should respect mines... God bless
@@queenkuty1221 I was just in agreement with you. Can you not read?? 😂🤣
@buttergurls6401 ?... girl get offt my comment with this bull.crap.. I didn't know what you were saying. But if i agree with someone.. I just say I agree. And I don't totally agree with you...because even if I didn't have a man...I'm not going to do that. Not to black men anyway. God bless yiu anyway..... I'm gotta go get back on my hooked on phonics
@@buttergurls6401she's lost.
Keep US out of it!! We need to be uniting with our men. ❤️🖤❤️🖤❤️🖤💯💯
Lol respectfully miss pick me,have you really not witnessed the way black men demean and mistreat black women,BW are the ones who need 4b the most
Korean men may turn to other women who dont mind the misogyny.
Leave black women out of your 4b mess.
We don't have a dog in the fight. Leave it alone.
Its simple, because collectively you actually dont have any problems like that. Its a psyOp and women are collective stupid and are jumping on this movement as a response to what men have been doing in regards to going overseas, passports, mgtow, etc. The reason the birthrate is dropping is because the men have stopped attempting to build relationships because the gender dynamic has become so lopsided that the females are attempting to dominate the males via divorce, alimony, child custody, child support, dating in general, lack of trust, constant cheating and all of the micromovements women have been pushing over the past few years(#wastehistime, #hotgirlsummer,#thefutureisfemale, toxic masculinity and every other demonization label that was pushed)
Look at all the latest random trends and issues. The gym fitness influencer issue with women just randomly starting stuff with dudes and making things up. Its all about attentions and they are collectively terrorizing the men because the men dont want to deal with them. Because of this, the marriage industry is collapsing(davids bridal shower went bankrupt, zailles as well i believe).
In other words, the women have become corrupt and are terrorizing the men, the men are leaving the work force, colleges, and dating in general, and the women are lashing out because they either dont understand what is happening or are bitter at the results they are getting from acting the way that they do, and as things get worse and we see report after report, compilation after compilation of women crying how come nobody wants to date them, they are jumping and trying to push this movement as an attempt to get attention OR as a way to distract from the fact them being insufferable and destructive is what is causing men to avoid them and not because THEY chose whatever because men bad and women good.
Does that make sense in some way, shape, or form? Not say what im saying is true but should be concise an explanation of what MIGHT be going on.
Honey black women have already created their own movement. Nobody is forcing black women to join anything.
Because they don't need no man's help and they don't need no man's food
You don't produce food, dusty! You men don't even have a supermarket.
I won't feed them I will not help them
Let's get real hon,they feed you and they help you,not the way round,ya'll just don't acknowledge it or show gratitude instead you degrade and mistreat them,ya'll don't deserve em and you know it
Black women. Aka the daughters of Zion. Listen good. Your Father, Our Father in Heaven did not make you to be following any nation against his kings and priests of Zion. Your men are fighting a serious war and you daughters are being used b, weaponized and manipulated by the devil to go against them. When you follow or We follow these nations we are affected waaaaay worst than them because we are set apart people Deuteronomy 7:6, Exodus19:5-6. The nations are against us two. Yet they are falling our God is fighting for us whether you lnow or not..
We have fallen hard and we came here on the boat tpgether(Deuteronomy 28,30] and we shall leave together.
Time to unite and repent and start building in these days. If you dont take heed and make these changes it wont go well…. We love you and remember to confess your faults and make changes.. Shalom!
Its simple, because collectively you actually dont have any problems like that. Its a psyOp and women are collective stupid and are jumping on this movement as a response to what men have been doing in regards to going overseas, passports, mgtow, etc. The reason the birthrate is dropping is because the men have stopped attempting to build relationships because the gender dynamic has become so lopsided that the females are attempting to dominate the males via divorce, alimony, child custody, child support, dating in general, lack of trust, constant cheating and all of the micromovements women have been pushing over the past few years(#wastehistime, #hotgirlsummer,#thefutureisfemale, toxic masculinity and every other demonization label that was pushed)
Look at all the latest random trends and issues. The gym fitness influencer issue with women just randomly starting stuff with dudes and making things up. Its all about attentions and they are collectively terrorizing the men because the men dont want to deal with them. Because of this, the marriage industry is collapsing(davids bridal shower went bankrupt, zailles as well i believe).
In other words, the women have become corrupt and are terrorizing the men, the men are leaving the work force, colleges, and dating in general, and the women are lashing out because they either dont understand what is happening or are bitter at the results they are getting from acting the way that they do, and as things get worse and we see report after report, compilation after compilation of women crying how come nobody wants to date them, they are jumping and trying to push this movement as an attempt to get attention OR as a way to distract from the fact them being insufferable and destructive is what is causing men to avoid them and not because THEY chose whatever because men bad and women good.
Does that make sense in some way, shape, or form? Not say what im saying is true but should be concise an explanation of what MIGHT be going on.
What could women do if men decided to collectively world wide force women
Ain’t gone happen 😂
There is a book written on that scarlet letter if I recall. Would not be supported worldwide.
So almost be the same as now 😂
You mean The Handmaid’s Tale? And what a bunch of politicians worldwide are trying to bring about? It will only happen if women stay *passive* .
It's crazy how i can beat 100 females in a fight as a guy😂😂💀
The men you interact with says more about you than them and vice-versa. Most men aren't monsters you choose monsters that's on you!!!!! Why on gods green earth is it so hard to be accountable
They're developing a machine that can make babies 😂 The external wound project .
READ!
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Not to mention they keep finding ways to break your Torah. they still hate you remember it's every group...read please! 🤦🏿♂️👉🏾📜
I think you are in the wrong comment section.
@@Yarn-only no they are in the right one
@Storytellers_Tale7388 Aparently, that is not something you are capable of, which changes nothing about wtf your black ass has been told to do.
@@dantes4729 how so?
Nothing to see here the Creator of life and death will have the final word that has already been spoken. You sodimites just refuse to listen. Have a day.👉🏾📜🔥
This 4B movement is going to die out just like the 90 day date the steve told y'all women to do to men and that didn't workout then y'all had the Me Too Movement and that too also died out so i say hey go for it 😂😂😂!!
I think American women should stay out of this movement, and mind their own business.....