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Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Sometimes they underestimate the strength of their victim because the victim is a good person.
Very true. Sometimes the only thing the good person can do is take them head on because it is the right thing to do for your own existence.
Wise, especially when free of the need to self-declare oneself `an empath´. Next, we have to pay for YT videos telling us that breathing is a secret superpower. 🤗 `The opposite of a narcissist is a sane person (not an empath)!´
Never judge a Book by its Cover
@@a.m.pietroschek1972 There is no such thing as a sane person, it's all on a spectrum. Everyone is a little crazy in some form or fashion. A little crazy is a good thing, a lot of crazy eh not so much.
@@Jonathan-fs7es True, but in my own experience, sometimes it's worth it to convince a narc that you are an entire WORLD of crazy.
The Narcissist's biggest mistake is thinking their empath victim is weak. The narcissist fatal act is to call the empath weak. What follows is not cruel, it is self defense against an emotional felon.
DAMN 😊
That so almost absurdly obvious , you shouldn’t even have to clarify, that clear and coherent factual equation. “Anyhow”.....,👧👌👍🙏
@dp
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Agree 💯%
No weapon formed against me will prosper 🙏 ✨️.
AMEN
God place the invincible, invisible, impenetrable Armor of God upon me.
The helmet of Salvation
The breastplate of righteousness
The belt of truth
The shoes of gospel peace
The shield of Faith
& The Sword of Your Word no weapon form against thee shall prosper in Jesus mighty name amen
The whole armor @@drdrv9856
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By the blood of Jesus
Narcissists don't respect boundaries period
Most people respect the badge
Everyone respects the gun
They have boundaries: the law that protects the vulnerable
Narcissists have no regrets for anything they do. Narcissists have no empathy. Everything offends them. False sense of offense provides narcissists with excuses to abuse and blame their victims. Become impervious to the brutal attacks of narcissists. You cannot appease or reason with narcissists. Go no contact. Stay Grey Rock with narcissists forever.
The worst part about these kinds of relationships is that you're most likely already trapped in by someone before realizing what's happening. This is something that should be spoken about in our highschools.
so true. and they won't take a hint and leave you alone once you make the mistake of letting them into your life even a little
I totally agree
I married 2 and single now. Thank you God
Good way to fight enemies is using their own weapons against them.
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I agree this is a good one to do. They are that full of themselves they don't realise that you have learnt from these parasites just what to do back to them. Give em hell but make sure you are safe.
@@danielhansen8310 Very well said. I'm having a little bit of fun with some of these tactics with my ex Narcissist and he looks so confused!! I finally saw his Mask slip and the demon(s) inside of him for a few seconds. Whoooa😮 It's scary but I didn't back down from him. I'm 62 and he is 70. It's also very true that they get worse as they age. He's trying to hoover me again but I'm not dealing with his delusional BS anymore. God bless and have a blessed day ❤️
I'm also 62 my experience with a narcc.was terrible when she finally got ready to leave ( with my help) I told her what she really was,the look on her face was priceless.what sucks she was my only true love,but 46 years people change.the no connection I could not deal with.
the Lord says no weapons formed against me will prosper
Nonchalant shoulder shrug saved my life.
1. Don’t get tangled up in their battles, NARCs thrive on strife turmoil and high emotions and someone to act as a punching bag for their deep seated self-hatred and guilt. This is narc supply and if their target goes away they’ll not have a punching bag any longer.
2. Show no interests in their theatrics, they hunger for attention and power dynamics, control and manipulation to sway my thinking. Make them feel unimportant and be happy and enjoy my life. Not interested in theatrics.
3. Confront them publicly. Narcs are masters at manipulation and to deceive others to feel superior to conceal their incompetence, exposing their lies and exaggerations to friends and colleagues. Test them on their true natures. Show their flaws and errors in plain view.
4. Reject their emotions and narrative. Refuse their lies and tactics. I see through the lies and won’t allow manipulation. I will longer accept your lies and sick twisted mind game.
5. Display disgust and scorn towards them. Don’t allow their criticism or devaluation of others. Do not allow them to demean or diminish me taking a stand of boundary setting.
6. Don’t take them seriously, they have a mental disorder and cannot logically function on their own. Disregarding and disempowering their influence. Don’t give the attention they crave. Refuse to acknowledge their exaggerations and belittling of others and won’t impress or impact me. Not falling for her embellishments and exaggerations any longer.
7. Speak the ugly truth. Narcs possess a vulnerable self-image and are incredibly manipulative. Speak the truth and this is something that they do not like and it contradicts their inflated self-worth. See the truth in your own conduct and stop bullying others.
8. See beyond the façade. Narcs rely on their fabricated self-image to sustain their ego, impacts their delicate insufficient and inadequate she genuinely is. False perception of self and shows I discern the truth and the lies won’t work any longer to maintain the façade presented for years.
9. Refuse to acknowledge them. Declining to recognize them is a commanding technique to disempower a Narc. Give no attention and refuse to feed into their narcissism. Makes them insane and depletes their power. Silence can be unsettling but is crucial to persevere.
10. Moving on and letting go. Sever all ties on all levels. You have no value to me any longer. This is essential for my own well-being. I’ve given all I can and you’ve taken so much from me.
Good list. Boundaries throughout all 10 stages.
Thank you!
AI theatrics spoken as theetricks?
It takes too much energy to do all that. Just separate yourself from them. Let go and let God. Karma and the universe always works itself out!
Thank you for the list Kevina. For you 👍✌🍀🌼💜
I seem to attract narcissists, the word "no", works wonders.
You don't ATTRACT Narcissists. Narcissists try their nonsense with everybody. The difference between a victim and the Toxic-Proof is the Toxic Proof person SAYS NO!!
Finally, someone is Teaching us how to stand for ourselves and how to disempower the narcisist! Thank you.
It’s been taught for a very long time……you weren’t ready to hear it or take it seriously until now.
Joe B House
HG Tudor
@@karmadog4565 , Could it be that I wasn’t long enough on this topic to hear all the Podcasts? Don’t be so quick to judge!
@@elenabogdan3874 I didn’t judge. There has been a large volume of assistance available on this topic for a very long time. This is not the first person offering assistance….its just that you found it and now you’re ready to hear it. Stop it with the “judging” bs. Stating truth is not judging……just because you don’t want to hear it.
Thanks for the video, one thing is with a narcissist they underestimated the power a empath has and once you know you go you get out and you stay out 🙏
The best way to handle the narc is to give them nothing- no data points for judgements. And they particularly hate when they realise that you don't require their authenticity or anyone else's.
This is exactly what I did 16 mos ago. She may be my daughter, but I’m not going to tolerate her cruel backstabbing treatment. I’m moving on with my life. I hope if you are in a relationship, or if it’s a close family member, that is a Narcissist, Sociopath, or Psychopath. Don’t allow them to do this to you. Remove them from your life. Learn to recognize their tactics. Do not wait til you are older, after you’ve wasted most of your life, do it now ! Do it for yourself !! You deserve to be loved, respected, & Cared about !
And then they call you the narcissist when in fact they are the narcissist.
I have a narc daughter. Since she was a little girl, she has been defiant and disrespectful towards me. I didn't know what was wrong for many years. As a senior citizen, I had more than enough and initiated no contact. My stress has indeed disappeared 😊
I was able to deal with my ex husband whom I was married to for 20 years, he is a dentist and narcissist. When I decided I no longer could tolerate his behavior I did everything in this video. In my opinion narcissistic people are going to lose up against an empath.
Sounds like a dentist I know in the Upper Peninsula 👍🏻
Sounds like my ex dentist too !
I was married to me for 20 years. Finally broke free 3 years ago. So relieved 😌
The best advise ever. Exactly took me 20 yrs to do what you just described, but I did achieve the perfect outcome. Thank you for the best advice ever needed.
What drove my mother crazy was when she would go off on a rant about her scapegoat du jour , I would say something like, " I really like her. She was very helpful when I started my last job." I also got good at pre-empting her public rants by introducing one of her talking points into a conversation in a group setting , except I would state the opposite of her take on it, ie., she would go on public rants about how much she disliked Mexican food, but before she could get started, I would mention eating at a Mexican restaurant and go on about how good the food was. Of course, someone else would want to tell about his/her favorite Mexican restaurant and it would go from there in a direction that Mother's rants about disliking Mexican food would just get her blank stares if she tried to bring it up.
Thank you for sharing ☺️ that's a genius move. I'll have to use it.❤
The simplest thing to do is don't even acknowledge their presence in the room. Don't even look in their direction and they'll crumble. Did this to one of my bullies after years of being treated like trash, and surprisingly they now have nothing to say, because I'm not even paying attention anyway. 😂
all narc victims are good and nice person.. not perfectly good.. but also kind/soft hearted person and understanding.
Nah, competing narcissists WILL be among those `victims´. Science already warned us that PTSD is found in the victims and in the villains, and in early stages both SEEM the same.
I disagree. Narcs victimize other narcs as well
Not necessarily. Inauthentic or co- dependent people are also prone to attract a lot of narcs. And there is nothing truly “good” or “nice” about that. They’re as deeply unhealed as the narc. only in a different way.
Narcissists are cruel cowards who hate nice people who they think are phony and weak. Narcissists are wrong. Sooner or later most narcissists run into their nemeses.
The worst can be the damagedones with BPD abandonment fears and demusional fears.
My narcissist's biggest mistake was thinking she was smarter than me. She was good at reading people, gaslighting and manipulation but she was still dumber than a box of rocks. If she was smarter than me, why am I still here and she's dead? Not the victory I wanted but this is what got me through it and able to resist being gaslit. 1.) When my gut screamed at me the loudest that something was wrong, I listened to it and it served me well. 2.) I answered this rhetorical question everyday. "What is most important to me?" Answering that question allowed me to hold on to my sense of worth and counter the harmful effects of gaslighting. What kind of person would I be if I didn't share it for others to benefit?
joelnyhoff....Yes, a lot of people think narcs are clever; I just think they are sneaky, mean and crafty. They don't need brains for that, just nastiness.
They are sneaky,mine was sneaky way back in High school. She is smart in many ways.buy I called her out on it,needless to say she did not like it.o well now she can text her well groomed handsome Houston men all hours of the day/ night and I hope that's what she really wanted because that Is what she got. I don't miss that stress at all.
@@Cat-and-mouseyjdm Absolutely. Some of the dumbest people are narcissists. Some narcissists are otherwise smart. Either way, narcissists can get neutralized.
@@ganymeade5151how?
Thanks for the information is insightful, practical and relevant !
Knowledge is power.
In a strange way sometimes it takes monsters like this people to bring out the warrior in you , I’m sending thoughts of confort and strength to the people going or have gone thru this and are now are able to STAND STRONG ! Continue to move forward people ❤
This is a great comment. I noticed that since breaking up with my ex narcissist I have finally started not putting up with baloney from other people as well. Whether it's someone wanting professional advice but isn't actually booking a service of mine (and wasting hours of my time) or a person hitting on me in a classless way that I used to feel obligated to be nice to. I'm finding it super easy to walk away, not respond, or be quite blunt in my honesty. Not cruel, but not sugar coating either anymore. It's freeing! It's this realization that my empathy went so far out to everyone else, but rarely considered my own needs.
I did it all. Divorce was the result. Thank you God!!!!!
Great list but PLEASE make sure you are not in a vulnerable position with them if you are going to engage like this. If you live with them, or if they hold any power where they could mess up your life, use the greyrock technique first until you are free from harm.
A true narcissist will experience narcissistic injury, they will split you black, and they will see you now as subhuman or completely as an object -- this is called the discard phase it it is often super cruel. They have no empathy in general, but now they will morph into destroy mode and have no boundaries whatsoever. It will get UGLY and often very unsafe.
Their web is probably even bigger than you realize, so think of all angles they could possibly hurt you from. For example, greyrocking and playing nice until the custody battle for the kids is over will work in your favor. They are relentless. Detach, drop your pride and ego, and play the game until you're safe -- then do this stuff here if you still care. By that point you may have already let go emotionally and just implement no contact. Dr. Ramani is full of wisdoms on how to safely navigate narcissists.
Please be careful and do not underestimate them to try to get some sort of revenge because of your pride and ego. Let go, get into therapy, listen to Dr. Ramani, and find other empaths. We're out here waiting for y'all to untether yourselves ❤️🩹 Be safe out there!
Yeps, my dad. Poor dad was an arrogant, egotistical narcissist. I could not have a conversation with him - especially on topics that might have been too taskful for him to handle. He'd shut me down all the time. I've 'never' had a conversation with my dad. So, to get him back for being a slacker father unable to handle a conversation with a boy, I just stopped talking to him. I stopped responding to him when he spoke. I treated him as if he was not there. I would not even look at him. It didn't take long for that to really bug him. I know because it was my mom that told me so. For as much as a teenage boy could still living at home, I went no contact, which was to just stonewall him - give him the silent treatment. It went on for about two weeks when he asked me why I would not talk to him. So, for the first time in two weeks, I spoke to him and said, "Because you refuse to listen." I continued my silent treatment therapy for another week, then slowly began responding to him again for my mom's sake. You see, I made a choice to be silent. I chose it. He could not do anything about it; he could not intimidate me any longer; and that bothered him.
As an empath, I look for an opportunity to back fire at their games with a sense of humor! My ex wanted some blinds after he moved out while I was working. I spray painted on the back "I love ****" in big letters! His buddies got a real laugh! Currently my spouse surprised his sudden Vegas Trip with the flying monkeys in a steak house thinking I was going to flip out. Instead I so joyous and wanted to know when they are leaving, had a blast for a week home alone and disconnected the security cameras!! Can't forget when the Narc went to Fla as a surprise on me so I hacked their computer! Sent photos and websites so they knew I got pass the sign in and searched their computer!
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Show them this, show others that, display disgust, do not allow them to initiate a conversation, do not take them seriously, make them feel weak-I feel like this is all advice on how to manipulate and abuse people, whether they're narcissistic or not
Trust me- this is different when dealing with a normal and kind person but when it comes to a narcissist that has mentally affected you, you need to do enough to establish you are not a piece of meat, slave, thoughtless, no self-care. These tactics for someone who is in this position is not to intentionally hurt the other person- if anything, it will be the proof the narc needs to recognize they can no longer push the empath around. There are so many feelings an empath experiences when dealing with the narc- we often feel guilty about how we may affect the narc despite disrupting their manipulative expectations. It’s a weird thing because you continue to hurt yourself or end up hurting them. In the end, we must choose ourselves. They cheat on us and make us feel like crap all the time. There come a point where we recognize they choose not to change so we are the only ones that can grow and change. Meanwhile they continue the cycle with others. (Unless they get saved, which would be extremely rare but genuinely amazing.)
I agree that also is wrong
Some people consider it cruelty to stand up for yourself. It's not cruelty to do that, it's righteous anger. Cruelty would be something done to deliberately hurt someone else, but speaking the truth in love to correct a narcissist who is out of line is acceptable. Just don't go overboard.
Soon as I saw this I thought ill watch this to see how many I checked off the list. They hate that blank look. It can get you decked.
Oh yea, ive spoken the complete facts ! ... the look on his face is beautiful....❤ it.
It takes a lot of crap, to make this empath angry…I use to ignore him pray, they have no heart, exposing the narc is best, speaking truth, if they take you around those they wear a mask, they are too good at covering their tracks.
I did show disgust 🤮🥵chaos never ends they feed off of it, told him he’s crazy, I never one time started any trouble with him , it’s all about them 24/7
Imagine that I have had to bite my tongue when I hear the N bragging that his gf paid for their entire vacation & cruise leading the neighbors to believe he’s just a gigolo. I stay away from his gf as each time all 15 gf’s we fixed him up with he found fault with for little things like asking him if he wanted a sandwich, or the way they called him, “honey”…I got blamed when they dump him. He has some deep rooted issues! His gf is a former psycho-therapist! & not the sharpest knife in the drawer, & it’s not my place to message her to let her know what he’s doing. They’re so shallow minded, it’s ridiculous. Must be from all the quackseens!
I have no heart, BUT I am not a narcissist. I simply do not care about others, either positively or negatively. I hate my enemies with passion but do not care if they live or die, win the lottery or go bankrupt, find their dream "soul mate" or or lonely. I used 2 be an "empath" , but sympathy is a useless emotion (2 "feel" 4 someone). Actively "helping" might be helpful, but who is in a position 2 help anyone? Helping yourself is the best way. Sorry, just my experience & opinion.
It's this simple: When an empath is angry, we turn into what made us angry. We move engery through us or it consumes us. Don't be an azzhole and you won't see an azzhole. Period.
What if the narcissist is your coworker? You cant just stop communicating with them. However, ive stopped any conversations with them. Also, blocked their contact.
Go silent 🤫
We appreciate this video so much sir thank you it's a good speaker and good and it makes sense a lot of sense in is really really true I love it thank you
I worked for a bunch of those A-holes one time. They were absolutely exhausting. They ended up pissing me off and got their tail ends verbally torn apart for 30 minutes. What they didn't realize was that everyone in my family was blue collar for like 4 generations until me. Those guys would make a sailor blush. Oh wait, some of them WERE sailors. LOL She's a sweet, takes all the Sh** college educated nothing. mmhmm.. They learned that day. Dude was cowering behind his desk and contemplating crawling out the window by the time I got done with him. My final statement was - If you don't straighten the F up, you will be OUT OF A JOB! So get your SH** together! I was not wrong. the warehouse I was working at was shutdown 6 months after they finally paid me to leave because they were tired of me countering any statement they made with - Eat Sh**.
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Thank you sooo much for your videos 👏🏻💯🔥 Your advice & guidance are PRICELESS. Thank you for sharing your extraordinary knowledge & wisdom with the World & raising so much awareness of the seriousness & harm Narcissism causes. Worldwide. Bless you Sir 🙏🏼🌟👏🏻💫💙🥇🥇🥇💥💥💥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Kepp strong. Do not break no contact...
Thank you I will soon be facing a narcissist that I have never met. your suggestions are pretty much what I intended to apply in the first place.
Some NARCISSISTS Are in our own FAMILIES. WE HAVE TO LIVE WITH THEM EVEN WHEN AFAR!
And also some of us have narcissists as bosses and coworkers. So we must learn how to deflect their slings and arrows and learn how not to internalize their cruelty. Narcissists won't change. We must change.
@@ganymeade5151 no disagreement there!
Thank you. No Narc can touch you if you apply these 10 points on them. You'll completely destroy them.
💯💥💃🌹🎯‼️🙏🙌 Trinity God Son and the Holy Spirit is the only way to break free from these evil doers devils Amen🥰
No need to waste your time and pay them with their coin, you're too high class for such low and poor behaviour. They were not the right people, continue being yourself and trust God, you will meet the right one for you.❤
And I am starting with the man in the mirror.
Narcissist hate the truth!!
They are crazy …. go no contact…. move on with your precious life. ❤
Excellent, straightforward, solid advice. Great video! Thanks!
True empaths don't take revenge on narcs. They take care of themselves so anything a narc does doesn't effect them. Other narcissists are the only ones who take revenge on narcissists in attempts to destroy them.
My boyfriend is more concerned about his “integrity” than anything else. If I’m feeling insecure and voice it. He immediately goes on the defense because to him I’m “” attacking his integrity “. Breaking up with him has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I’ve spoke the truth multiple times and he STILL doesn’t get the hint.
This stuff truly does sound great to do it truly does but for me the reason ive been bullied by narcies and sociopaths is because i have yet to find the courage to do these things
It supported my actions!
I don’t do revenge.
Revenge requires putting work back into the relationship. That's not something I'm willing to do anymore.
Silence is revenge
I did this to someone at work who has been pick g on be for years. Dude literally is the definition of a narcissist and is miserable to work with. He no longer speaks or even looks at me. He does not pick on my co-workers anymore.
Just make sure you're safe, these guys are truly dangerous.
For those dealing with a manipulative or abusive person, stay strong. You are seeking help, self improvement, and strength to get through this. You will get through it, you will conquer this monster and become a better person for it. You are not too far gone, nor are you unworthy. Embrace the good things about yourself, ignore any critiques from the abuser. Recognize any criticism by an abuser is not out of a desire to see you improve, but out of a desire to prey on your insecurities.
Dont let narcissistcs push you around, don't be afraid. Even at the worst they can do, you always have your choice of your actions.
What’s funny is the voice we hear is that of a guy name Leigh, who operates Heaven Awaits. However this was how he used to sound. The deep intakes of breath were a result of some serious damage he suffered in a life threatening auto accident. He has since had that surgically corrected, and he speaks more regularly now, though the tone of hood voice is deeper. The real guy whose voice they cloned is heard on several CZcams ads, including this channel. Too bad he isn’t being compensated for it because his voice is easy to listen to and sustains your attention.
Us oldest Leo’s er truth head hunters don’t lie to us 😂❤🎉
For the first time since this fiasco began I have been able to stay no contact. I am not going back to that s#it show!
I would love to do all that to my auntie and uncle but I have no choice but to put up with it at moment cause I'm homeless with 2 children and if I call them out they will kick me out and I'm stuck at min and my girls are scared of what is going on . I've had this all my life from my family and I've kept my kids away from them but when u have no choice than to go to them cause socal services won't help and the council won't help I can only pay for hotels for so long . The schools have helped me but they don't have the money to keep doing it . And that's what a narcissistic person loves cause I see it with them when I'm happy they go mad or moody but when they dray me down they are happy it is mind bending 😢
It helps when you know that people behaving this way have mental problems. Known as sociopathy and narcissism.
This is great advice, however, the narcissist is so dangerous, well- connected and protected by the higher- ups, that you have to play dumb...or at least, don't show how smart you are. I have done this many times and with God's help, it always saved or rescued me. I'm never alpha and it gets people to put their defenses down. 🤷🏾♀🙏🏾
Great video I have changed my life and want nothing to do with my family especially my narcissistic brother and sister, ruined me completely both his wives and sons. Feeling great now
Unfortunately, you cannot always totally cut ties with a narcissist. I wish.
True....Mine is my step Dad whom I'm waiting to receive 1/3 investment from the sale of a house. I would like to just leave, but he would literally see that as forfeigting my investment.
Kids make it tough.
My strength was growing up in a loving caring home with parents and siblings that loved me and helped me develop my self confidence and awareness of my worth. I realized how weak he was and how much better a person I was than him, and I decided that HE was NOT going to make me as bad a human like himself, that decision was not his to make. So I started to greywall him and it was driving him crazy, along with a "little judo" to defend myself when he was physical. At last we left him 3 o'clock in the middle of the night never to return. My last words to him was that I stopped loving him long time ago but I didn't even hate him either, because he was not worth that sort of strong feelings. I hope I hit him in a soft spot, and I hope it hurt him very much. As much as I was hurt the night he woke me up kicking my ribs, so one broke and two bended. Feel free to comment, what do you think?
You sound like the narcissist not him
They're just playing the victim :(
My mother is wicked she fit these description to the tea
Mother's set of this whole vile pattern that makes us fall for a Narcissist.its a learned behaviour feels familiar.❤❤ uk
I enjoyed this
My wife is a narcissist and me and are kids are her punching bag 😢
Your AI needs an English refresher course. Several mispronounced words. But good info.
After 18 years I finally lost it and called him out and he lost it! He was in pure shock I stood up to him and moved himself out to his parents who said he was my problem 😂😂their problem now! Not married, no children it's amazing to be free 💪The devil left the party 😆
That AI guy sounded real you know. Until you had him say that completely improperly worded sentence. 😂
I disagree about confronting them publicly. Most of the time they'll just deny or gaslight you and evryone around you. If they're really good, the can also make the tables turned and they'll play the victim. So the best way to defend yourself is not to engage with them or avoid them.
😂 when they hit the floor they call their friends and police. They are the ones weak like twigs.
That blow from the police really hurt me.
Some of this advice is not wise; it is more important to gray rock as much as possible but to confront a narcissist, especially in public, can backfire
I confronted my ex in public when she was on a date ( on my birthday ) soon after the break up. It was ugly. Finally she got security and tried to have my escorted out but I left before that happened. I've been through this before. When I see the outcome going worse then the present moment, I usually walk away and save myself more headaches.
Backfire, as in:
result in injury or death for the victim of abuse
I laugh at him and tell him how fake he is A LOT! Its almost like im the narcissist but i wasnt like this before him!
#1 is true.. I did that and got socked in the face 😒…#4 is why we’re separated lol.. He flipped the script to his family tho. #7 makes them hate you more
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What you are saying is it's ok to be abusive to someone with a mental illness. Empaths aren't real. You have childhood trauma and codependency issues that need to be address.
Thank you, I thought I was the only one noticing it. "Make them feel weak"-wtf?
I'm nice till I'm not
Today I realise my mom every morning come to me to argue, just feel better about herself 🌚 I didn't react at all, so she just left. I realise it never was about me.
And I did all the things in this video, doesn't exactly know what I am fighting to 😂😂😂
Lmao at THEETRIX mispronunciation for theatrics. Uneducated script reading narrators are hilarious! Fecksade & feckade instead of facade lmao!!! Did both lmao!! This video was extremely valuable for a laugh thank you lol!!
Narcissist?
He does mispronounce a couple of words, true, but he gives good advice nonetheless.
@@lisahelms591 no my child I'm highly amused can't you tell the difference? Should be pretty obvious
when an empath is angry,and threatened about they expose the truth
Empaths must be quite. The rest will be taken care of.
Very good.
They feed on attention and emotional manipulation. I don't supply either, No attention No door open to enter and create chaos. They rarely confront you and if they do call them out. The last person that tried, after the shock never bothered me again. They can create chaos if we let them.
I've known a few of these in my life, but the video shows here people who get joy out of hurting others. I've got a loved one who has displayed these behaviors but only relatively recently. Always quirky and socially clueless but went out of their way to please and always genuinely remorseful when hurt resulted. Anger over recent losses in past couple years changed them and me. And only since then did I see behavior that could be truly described as "narcissistic." I think maybe rather than the label we should be considering how grief and trauma can alter a person's behavior. When you are in survival mode it makes you unaware of your actions and potential consequences. Some people I guess are "born" to behave this way. Others are wounded which leads them to this behavior. A support system would be most effective in this situation.
They didn't change, they are just showing their true colors. Remorse, pleasing others, showboating personality, etc. Are all just tactics they use to manipulate others.
My kindness is a choice. The beast in me is sleeping its not dead. Dont take my self control for weakness.
Cutting all ties is difficult when you have children though 🤦🏽♀️
I record thay behavior and giv it to my Attorney😊
Some will beat you for some of that stuff lol
I learned how to deal with these people before I even knew the word narcissist. I learned at age like 6 that depriving them a foothold (reacting ext) fucken destroys them. They become confused, angry, and eventually disinterested. Pretty funny to watch
My father in law is a narcissist, a terrible one, and he tried every trick in the game. He gets so agitated and stressed when I’m present now. Fucken crushed that self centered pos
Why do narcissist talk 100 miles an hour and if you try to interject all hell breaks loose wow unbelievable lol
Ironically, when I get mad, I can talk extremely fast. Not sure how I acquired that ability? Maybe being hyped up on adrenaline when an argument gets too hot to control?
A great video. How can I remove the large text? Or can I only turn off the picture and listen to the commentary. Help.
Yeah. I THREW 'EM out of my life . (;This why the majority of the narcs I've come in contact with have even "gone to sleep " .
I will make you feel uncomfortable with your own actions
Yep
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My ex-husband is a covert narc and he doesn't have those dramas and theatrics. It would be more from me as an empath as a reaction to the betrayal, deception, cheating.
U ignore them..
U put them in public view
Makes them snap..
They attack other ways..
I dont want to end up dead
All good advice. 👍👍
No, not all.
I just tell the truth .
Narcissists create antisocial bombs that end up blowing up in their faces. Once you learn the hot and cold game you control the strings of the narc.
It is all good and well, but can confidently state that dangerous narcissists, take things to the extreme. They may even try to get their target killed.
If you do not speak up at some point, it can end in a disaster.