DEEP CLEAN this FILTHY Room with Me *Nasty Kids Room*
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- čas přidán 8. 11. 2022
- My kids are the Epitome of I don’t give a fuck attitude when it comes to their room and keeping it clean. 
I know everything in here is nasty and dirty and it really does stink so here I am trying to clean up their room and make it at least somewhat presentable.
Just watch me clean and Declutter this room and the rest of my house in a series of “Ican’t keep it together”
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I’m a mother of 7 and I work nights aswell. I suffer from depression and I never thought another mom would understand how I feel everyday. Thank you so much for sharing and making me feel not so alone. 💜
AMEN,Sistah!
You are not alone. We are here with you.
Bless you and working overnight can be so hard on your body and raising kids is hard and depressing. You feel guilty for not being there at night and can't help them with homework and etc. I went through the same thing. Mental health is important please make sure to stay up on meds. and if need be therapy. GOD BLESS YOU
I’m an overwhelmed SAHM of 5 kids and I feel like this. I’ve got a playroom I’ve got to clean out to make room for a queen size bed and I’m dreading it
Can I buy the vacuum from you
New here. Girl you have to start NOW, making rules for your home. I have 3 children all close in age (8 year old girl - 6 - 6 boy/girl twins) and I taught them from toddlers to pick up behind themselves. We ONLY eat at the kitchen table. Doing just that will stop the crumbs and those smells in the bedrooms. If we are playing, we don’t move on to the next activity until we tidy up. Ex: playing with dolls, then 5 minutes later they want to do water paints. Sure! But we pick up dolls first and put them in the “doll bin”. make them help with daily chores. I promise it will make them think twice about being messy. Explain that they will have more fun time if they pick up behind themselves and not have to spend half a Saturday cleaning!!! 💖 best of luck
ima try this, i’m a mom of two (4&6) and it’s getting to the point now it’s making me angry.😤
I don’t allow food or drinks in the rooms and only water when they ask at night in a closes cup. I know how toddlers are! I have a 6,5 and 4 YO. They make a mess with their toys. I can’t imagine the mess they will make if I allow them to eat and drink anything in their room.
Exactly shes 7 she should be able to clean her own room she's not learning anything if its always done for her
Until you have a child who is a human tornado…you will NEVER understand…thanks for being real and vulnerable
I love to read all the mom’s comments on here that are uplifting. It really helps me with my depression knowing that I am not alone in this overwhelming cycle of maintaining a home with children. When I’m not working I’m doing all of that plus the many other things it takes to stay afloat. My social life suffers because by the time I’m through I don’t have the energy to even be on the phone and I’m most likely going to fall asleep halfway through my show. I feel for you and all my sisters who wakes up everyday to face the storm and puts on a smile as if the sun was shining. Because the weather is not always pleasant!
You have great taste in decor. Honestly, teach your babies a cleaning routine so they take it with them as adults. ❤
As your kids get older it's still a good idea to clean their room every so often, its a great way to know what they are into and holding onto. If it's drugs, weapons or poetry, or a science project...you will know by cleaning their room every so often ❤❤
OK so I'm not the only one😂😂
Never thought of this . But yes
Yea but it gets tiring when it becomes the whole house ! Everydaaaay at least twice a day ! U clean and it get back nasty I’m like how ?
This part 💯
Noted!
This is why anything my mama want/need she can have… One day those kids are gonna literally look back and realize how loved they were
My mom had 9 of us. She made us clean up. 😊
Try a 10-15 min reset each night. And then have them make their beds in the morning. Honestly, there is no help for the marathon cleaning sessions if we don't stay on top of it daily. My daughter is a hoarder. Imagine what that room looks like. She has gotten better, with a weekly cleaning, and then I deep clean it once a month. Hope it gets better, stay on it, Friend.
Giiiiiirrrrrl!!!!!!!!!!! You got me at THE CLEAN CLOTHES ARE IN THE DIRTY CLOTHES HAMPER!!!!! I am so glad it’s not just me!
Mother of 2 boys and a husband and baaabby the struggle is really real trying to keep our house guest ready. New Subbie…pray God blesses you with the financial wealth and mental strength to keep mommying 💪🏾
Teneshia!! Thank you so much! Life is so much easier when you know you’re not going through stuff alone ❤️❤️❤️, I appreciate you for your words
My son is 17 an his clean clothes is always with the dirty clothes!.I'm always washing them all😮
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Whew so I’m not alone . I have 11 & 8 year old boys and I be telling them don’t let me find no clean clothes in the dirty clothes. Ima smell them cause like why so many clothes dirty . Smh my dude the same way smh he’ll clean the room and then I have a basket full of clothes . I hope my baby boy don’t be like that when he get older he only 9 months lol
Yesss!! I constantly tell my son who is 8 years old
Children are becoming more entitled nowadays . If you continue to clean up after them, they’ll continue to take your energy and effort for granted . You appear to be a hardworking mama, but the children must learn how to assist you to lighten your load. I have an eleven year old and I had to threaten to throw some things away if she wasn’t willing to clean up after herself. It’s working!
Your baby is a Cutie!
You are absolutely right! My grandmother was just telling me the same things today. They need more structure and discipline. I’ll have to work on that so they can become better adults.
Thank you for your words of wisdom ❤️❤️
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You’re welcome! 😇
Big claps to you girl, but ant no way!! My daughter is 5 and knows better and still learning. The first thing would have been washing all the clothes, bedding and curtains spot clean rug and got a throw rug 😮😬🫢we have to teach our kids discipline and cleanliness. May things get better for them and you
This is so real! As a mother of two, night shift hospital worker, college student and wife with depression and anxiety disorder alongside ADHD it's so hard sometimes to stay ahead!!!
Sis, I feel your pain. Have you tried cleaning the room with your daughters helping you? I agree with you regarding getting them to do their own laundry. That should help them take responsibility for keeping their own tidy room!
girl you did that please take several bows on behalf of being a great mother and still pulling through a true mvp and i totally agree build a community to build each other up its a village loved your video and beautiful babies as well...
Thank you so much Ashley! Parenthood is a job that comes with so many up’s and downs and I just want us to support each other. You know, just to feel less alone during the hard times, so I appreciate your words and support ❤️❤️❤️
@bremuvaof4 are u a single mother of 4 children?
Have you ever tried a daily chore chart for the 3 older ones? Example:
Monday- pick all clothes up from floor
Tuesday clean dresser
Wednesday get all the trash up
Thursday put toys away
Friday pick up all clothes AGAIN😂
I know it’s hard but everyday make them do a chore before they can play with electronics!
That's what I said..they need help keep their rooms clean at least..🤔..she is overwhelmed..I like the job chart....👏🏾👏🏾
I need to do this with my kids.
GIRRRL 🫶🏽 💯 You are FANTASTIC and so so REAL. I can relate. Every time i do this same thing, i talk to my 10-yr old daughter and she “promises she’ll take care of it from here”. I’m inspired to do it again bc of you, hopefully it sticks with her this time!!!❤🤞🏽
You did a good job and a lot of people don’t understand that being a mother, with more than one child will put you in a depression mode. Specially, when you feel you’re doing everything by yourself. Thank you for your video I can relate to you.😊
You are so real. You are a good mom and work hard. The kids are loved. If the mess can wait, let it! Keep moving forward. Xoxo
You did a great job, Mommy!!!
I’d like to share a little advice to make your job a little easier (in regards to things on the floor)….
1. Sweep/put EVERYTHING into one big pile.
2. Pick Out everything that you want to keep, as you do so, put them into piles by category. Toys, kitchen items, books, clothes, etc. ( while doing so you won’t have to bend over so much… You can sit and do this or have the children help you) When I was younger, my mom would say if it’s on the floor it’s going in the trash and then we would run and pick up all our stuff😂
3. Put all your items that you want to keep where they belong…. this process should be very quick because it’s already categorized.
4. Throw everything that is left from your original pile in the trash.
5. Vacuum
This is the most helpful advice thank you 🌈🩷🩷🩷
This is exactly how I clean and it makes it soooo much easier! ❤
Yes and White sitting nobody has to watch ur panties
Yes this! My mama said the same thing
Hi! Thank you for posting your videos. I just discovered your channel today and I'm really enjoying your content. I think your message is the most honest and real thing I've ever seen. At 57, as a mom of four and now grandma and caretaker of a 2.5 granddaughter, your videos hit me exactly where I've lived and make me feel seen. Thank you so very much! I know these struggles and you're doing a great job bringing reality to the difficulties of being a mom. I am off to watch more of your videos. You make me feel encouraged. Thank you for your posts. ❤
sis you aren’t alone. i could relate to 80% of what you said 😢.
I’m about to tackle my daughters room, and needed to CZcams some inspiration. Thank you!
You are truly such a good mom. I know how hard it is to work nights and still have to be a mom during the day. Sometimes I don’t clean at all because I’m just so tired from working all night. BUT my daughter is healthy and have everything she ever needs and most of what she wants and that’s what truly matters and from the looks of it, your children are happy too. You’re doing great mama!
I just found your video randomly, and let me tell you, I can definitely relate. My daughter's room was always messy to and gross. Somehow, food was always hidden in some corners! This really shows the truth about motherhood and working moms. I appreciate this honesty and wish you all the well-being and love. 😊❤
I mean this. Your my truth. Im a mom of 6. Fulltime student and full time mental health worker and im dealing with being overwhelmed myself! Love your truth! You speak my truth!
GIIIIRL! I just looked up a video and saw the cover photo and knew you were in the same boat as me!!! I'm a full time working mom of 3 in school and this is how my kids rooms look!!!! I do keep them to clean and it will stay clean a few days. I feel this 100%!!!! I also had PPD with all my kids.
Thank you for your video! My children are all grown up, but for a while I suffered from depression. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. You're strong and looking for ways to help yourself and others! I pray you get through this speed bump in your life! ❤
I agree girls are very untidy I have that problem with my kid but my son is so neat crazy 😂
Same! My son likes his room clean, you would think it’s opposite
I needed motivation today. Today is the first day off in a while for both my hubby and i and i got a baby sitter to watch our 2 yearold. I have an autoimmune disorder and have a few disabilities that keep me from pushing to keep the house clean everyday. I try so hard too and then my daughter she loves throwing everthing on the floor. Right after i clean i get so frustrated cause i legit hurt myself cleaning. I try and turn cleaning into a game but she just doesn't seem to understand yet. Im gonna keep up with her and hope i can raise her to clean up after herself. But i needed this video today to get my self up and motivated to clean the house and push through the pain and just do it ❤❤🎉
I like that you’re a normal relatable person with relatable messes.
You got this mom of 3 as a new subscriber!
You should be proudof yourself just being able to get the energy to clean up while battling ppd and going to work is amazing . Proud of you 🤍🤍
Good job 👏🏻 getting it done ✅ I totally understand what you experience... Proud of you woman 👠 ♀️ 👑 Been there with the depression which pops out every now and then... And you have to get these kids doing something to help keep the home less chaotic.... You will be a little less overwhelmed I promise you 😊
I’m a single mother of 1 and I work nights as well as a nurse. I feel overwhelmed many days and guilty for struggling with just 1 child. Thank you for showing your truth. It helps a lot to not feel so alone.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this mom. I too have suffered from major depression, anxiety, and panic disorder ( diagnosed at different times) . Unfortunately for me, I also have OCD and judge myself harshly if my house is not in order. I've found that taking the extra time to teach my children how to clean each room before supervising as they do it on their own has been a life saver. I've taught them we're all responsible for keeping our living space clean and peaceful. (Not including my husband because he's stuck in how his mom ran their house. For years he only maintained the outside and repairs inside). For my kids it was easier assigning them one corner at a time to perfect. They were easily able to master in small sections. They'd get a break, and go on to the next area. Started thus when they were each between 2-3 yrs old. Good luck to you. Also don't forget to seek medical attention because there are mild medications that can help wuth depression
Thank you for the honesty, I needed this for cleaning motivation
A good helpful tip love is no food beyond the kitchen
I can relate!!! And u are absolutely right a personal carpet cleaner is a great investment
Thank you so much. U made me feel motivated to clean my musty crusty bedroom. Keep the hard work up! ❤
I recommend a area rug dark! At least will protects majority of the carpet👍🏼 I really relate to your life as a mom and the depression as well 😢. I only have motivation to sleep lately to avoid everything! Life isn’t easy. But us moms have to go to God for strength and peace! I live how honest and humble you are! Need more moms like u on this platform… not fake pretend to have it all together moms ugh!!!😩
Omg I needed this I thought it was only me I have four kids and every since we purchased our home it’s been straight messy all they do is blame each other and I get every thing you just said smh I be in deep depression behind this I’m so happy to see that it’s not only me 😢
The best part is knowing it took you all day because of everything else you have to do as a mom. As a mom and wife with ADHD and I suffer from depression I always thought it was my ADHD that was the reason it took me so long to get different cleaning projects done around the house. Even though I have to stop and feed people, change diapers, put them down for naps etc. I just thought I was flawed and the only one this happens to. It's refreshing to see people clean who have real messes and I like the girls lights on the wall I bet they love that.
You are doing just fine ….just keep steppin girl, it’s when you can’t see the dirt and nasty that you are in trouble….❤️
So good to see/hear another working mama that's not afraid to admit that their life is crazy and the house isn't always spotless. I have boys and whew chile😅
Your babies are beautiful!!! You are a good mother. All you have to be is good enough. If your house is messy sometimes, it's ok!! As my mom told me, one day your house will be clean & your babies gone. ----and she was right. I sure miss them being little.❤
I can appreciate your hard work and determination! At least you work at it, I've been to homes of young and mature women where you have to maneuver strategically! God keep you ❤
I love the commentary and I feel for you, mama! Kudos to you being able to do all this with 4 kids. I have 1 and another on the way and I'm already too tired haha
I can do relate to this. My daughters bedroom always looks like this. I stopped cleaning it for her when she was 15 (she's on the spectrum, and has ADHD) I will help her if she gets overwhelmed by the mess but I won't do it for her. She's almost 18 now and I still find clean clothes in her laundry basket, but thats slowly changing since I introduced her to the washing machine and she realised that her clothes don't get cleaned, folded and back in her room by magic.
Good luck teaching your kids to clean up after themselves. It's an on going task but they have to learn eventually.
I have 7 and a husband. Believe me I know where you're coming from. One thing I do to keep myself sane is make sure my room is my peace. A no kids zone, unless with permission.
This was a really good video I love they room and you did a great job you have really inspired me to start my CZcams as a single mother of two kids I am finally moving on my own and I always wanted to start a CZcams. Thank you so much for pursuing your dreams and not letting nobody stop you or talk you out of it. You are definitely letting god use you to change live keep going.
The only good news is that the kids will grow up and it will be easier. You are a great mom. Good job 👏🏻
I’m a mom of four and you’re helping me so much 😢I just want to thank you cause it is hard
Omggg! I just subscribed because of this video. You popped up in my feed and I can definitely relate to a couple of things in this video ❤🎉
I don’t have kids and I completely understand because I babysat my little cousins, and babyyy them kids will destroy the cleanest of spaces in 5.2 seconds. You’re doing great mama, keep up the great work! ☺️
I have 4 and this is how their room looks. My 3 older ones 8,7,4 have to share a room and so it looks like a tornado went through there. My 1 yesr old sleeps in my room and so it causes little people to think everyone is welcome and so then my room is a whole mess 😂 thank you for being real and being in this mess with us other moms ❤ we need more people like you who arent afraid to be real ❤
You are amazing, mom. I am a mom of 5 children 😢they clean up behind themselves because they are bigger that your,but your decorating skills are amazing.
this is literally what my little sisters room looks like 24/7 and when my mom says time to clean she shoves it all under her bed and in her closet 😭😭
I feel you so much! I have 3 children 17, 8, and 7. Currently my 7 and 8 year old share a room and this is what will happen with their room within about a week or less after i clean it. No food or drinks allowed in their room but every time I'll find trash of stuff they snuck in their! And trash that appears out of nowhere! It's a constant battle! Now that they are getting a little older I'm a bit more strict and have them help a lot more but its still a constant battle. It's so nice to know I'm not alone!
Great job, MOM! And my daughter has that bed too is super cool it’s in my living room
New sub here! Momma of 6! And girl I struggle with depression and I’m wanting to share cleaning vlogs and mom life! But I’m loving your channel! We got this mommas!!!!!! 🤞🏾🤞🏾
Oh babe, I’m a daycare worker, people would be surprised how fast they can destroy the place. All day I run around cleaning after them and staying on top of them cleaning up. Not everyone has time for that when it’s not their main job. Kids will grow and they will learn. Just keep doing your best mama!
Your video got me off the couch and cleaning house.
Thank you 😊
I was just thinking about that when you said it great moms think alike, I do love the decorations.
God bless you, I remember going through this a Mother and a wife cooking, cleaning I felt like I was on a hamster wheel. But then I turn 50 and told them I am done, I am no longer killing myself for anyone. In your case you have babies so be strong mama God got you.
My dear, i just press play listen to you speak and clean my house with you so its fun. Ty for the solid mutual conversation without words lmao 😅
I understand. I'm also suffering with depression. You are doing a amazing job keep it up
You go mama! Every week its always a struggle putting laundry back. But at 46 I've taken to hanging more than folding. I hang everything! I'm just loaded with hangers. Besides socks, everything needing folding such as underwear, and jammies just gets thrown in the closet
We as mothers have more in common with each other than we allow ourselves to be vulnerable with. I’m a mom of 3 teens and a 3 yr old and it seems like I can never keep the house clean. Constantly repeating things (especially to kids old enough to know better) is sooo depressing. We have to learn to be easier on ourselves AND other mothers/woman. I truly believe that’s step 1. Still working on figuring out step 2 lol
First video I've seen of yours and im subscribed! This is real life we all go threw it! And girl I find clothes in the dirty basket with tags still on them!! Cleaning up to my kids means throw everything and anything in the dirty clothes. I get so mad because I have enough laundry to do!
When I refused to clean up my room, my mom put everything in a trash bag and gave me one hour to clean up. Everything left in the trash bag was supposed to be thrown away. Including clothes. Nothing would be replaced. Since that day my room was a lot more clean. 😅
Haha hold him I'm cleaning YOUR room. I felt that. I swear my daughter is a craft hoarder
My kids room would get just like that. So I relate to you . One day I was just done so I went in the and sorted all the toys in boxes took them out of the room. I only allowed a small box of toys in room. I rotated them every month. I also downsized their clothes to a 10 articles of clothing and1 pair of tennis shoes, 1 pair of sandals and 1 pair of slippers. Once they grow out of slippers I no longer bought them cause they never used them and 1 jacket. They grow out of the clothes so fast anyway : once the clothes didn’t fit I bought more but took out the ones that didn’t fit immediately. I wish you luck
Good job non for having the courage and strength to do this !
Im a single mom and I do housekeeping for work, by the time I come home I’m so exhausted and have to start preparing for the next day and the last thing I want to do is clean after cleaning all day and yes sometimes it gets pretty bad. It’s hard but we got this !
Babe u are not alone. There was a time in my life when my kid’s room would be like this often. Now my kids are grown but suffer from mental health problems and sometimes her room will get like this now as an adult😢 we are all humans going through very real experiences, so be kind to yourself and each-other.
Edit: I still have to take apart my vacuum almost every other time I use it 😖
Me too about the vacuum cleaner
Girlll when he said it’s you I fell out 😂😂😂 it’s always your own kids to play you out 😂😂😂
Love this!! Completely relate! Watching from Kent uk xx
Just subscribed! Thank you for this video! I’m currently cleaning my boys room and girllllll it’s always a disaster! Thanks for the motivation 🎉
I relate OMG 4 now all grown, thus is real… full time working mother as well, it’s tough, father did help out around the house SOMETIMES, you doing well, don’t panic, 1 step at a time, it’s endless, ended up throwing the tiny toys out
One room at a time about to get it today. Thank you for inspiring ❤❤❤
Love, prayers and my subscription. Keep pushing, your doing an amazing job. What has helped me was "a peaceful home" by elisabeth elliot, and learning from another older woman (who was a stay at home mom) that her kids clean everyday for 2 hrs. I am a full time, working preggo mom of 3, and i spent 1 hr each day teaching the kids to do laundry, dishes, and tidying up. I cook and huddy takes out the trash, this helps maintain daily life. ❤❤❤
Needed this today. ❤ the honesty
THANK YOU THIS IS REAL LIFE - NEROSPICY MOM AND WORKING ON MY OWN BUISNESS
Hi Briana,
Just watched your video and Girl don't worry! because I can relate, I am a single Mother, and both I and my 14-year-old are living in a 2-bedroom flat in London, where we have been living for the past 10 years, we have not had the opportunity to do any real work on our place as yet, but after just getting used to the environment, I have decided that I would much prefer to move somewhere different and put a deposit on a new place.
Although we try our best to, keep it clean it's whenever I am at work, and because I usually work full-time hours it's like the things that just compile up in this property it messy and it just makes me think sometimes shall I just stop work and stay home and clean instead?
But at the time, when I was working full-time any days that, I had off on the rota, I would use those days to, get the cleaning done!
So, I can understand it can be a real challenge to juggle the cleaning of the house, and working at the same time as a single Mother!
So cute I love this❤
Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone lmao
I am just happy that we have playroom ans not need to experience this on my kids room. But you are doing great. 😊
Something stinks in here!!🗣️ its you 😂🤣 the kids just say anything ❣️❣️ hang in there they grow up so fast
I like the fact that this how it be in real life . Some of these people make it seem like they house always clean and all that when they know dam well is a mell and they cleaned before filming lmao but u show the real thing i can relate to everything u said ❤️ sending love ❤️
Thank you so much ! My biggest goal for this channel is to have someone for us normal folks to relate to
I can sympathize with you and a full blown job. I would suggest making a chore chart for the kids that can help do and that receive a reward at the end of the week.
My 8 year old daughter does the exact same with her laundry 😤😂 great idea getting them to do it themselves! Please do more cleaning videos! Love from England ❤
Just found you on YT and I could relate. Glad I’m not the only one going through this.
Girl I came across your content on IG and just had to subscribe to your CZcams channel just subscribed a minute ago and I already love your channel! 😊
I'm a mom to 7 and I take care of my mom dad and help my sister with her kids I also take my son's brother on weekends and sometimes.i literally find myself crying in my bathroom so I feel you love
My post partum was the worst after my 6th baby. He's 3 now, but i feel like im just now really recovering, honestly. Plus, on top of the fact, my mom passed 7 years ago now. But it still feels like i relive that day every day. It's like my mom just went missing, and we can't find her. My oldest just graduated, and my mom isn't here. Life is always coming at me fast feels like. It feels a little better knowing life is coming at other mothers fast, too, because i definitely feel like im the only one.
I was one of the kids that was messy. My mom was always yelling at me when i didnt clean things "her way" but something i learned was parents cant always have control over their kids. Especially at that young age. Sometimes you gota just let them be kids for awhile. Its not your job to clean after them either. Let them be messy. As long as they are safe is all that matters.
I don’t have children but I feel like I can relate to the depression part my spouse is a bit mean and doesn’t do anything with helping with the household cleaning he works I also work 10hrs a day plus whatever cleaning I have to do and some reason it won’t stay clean for days I have to clean every single day but I’m also struggling with depression it started with being treated poorly than my dad passed away than the pandemic now I’m trying to come out of it so I can relate I know with kids it’s 10xs worse because you have to appear happy for them God bless you thank you for posting ❤
Good luck ...i hope you get them on a schedule of cleaning WITH you...and make them clean their room every day..,.you are a good mom... just too much for just you..BUT YOU ARE DOING IT WELL👏🏾👏🏾
To be totally honest, I would see things like this at a few friends home and think about how lazy and nasty a woman had to be to allow this. As an adult I see it and am sad because it is the result of a lack of support. My mother would have a fit over stuff like this so my trauma response does not permit me to think clearly or rest when the house is in disarray and causes flare-ups when I can't keep it in order. I feel for her because it is a lack of support. There would be no sleep in my home if we ever tried this as children. I recall.a lot of our toys being thrown away for not putting them in the proper place.
I had to double check to see if my daughter left this comment b/c I have bagged up LOTS of toys.. things I spent my hard earned money on when she wouldn’t put things in their designated places!
Oh and this is definitely a lack of support!
Gurl…yes! Get you a carpet cleaner of your own. It’s such a big help with kids and pets
Teaching your kids to clean up after themselves is so important, from a young age. They will have hard time keeping their homes clean as adults if you always do it for them.
Omg I feel the same way. I don’t understand how my kids mess up their rooms. I have 5 children. I have to go back behind them as well.
When I say this Its in no way disrespect! You need to sit down your children and talk to them about the value of money and how important it is to keep your home clean and organized for your mental health. Also to just feel safe and clean with no stress! It looks to me like they dont respect the beautiful things mom buys for them (hince the dresser Im specifically speaking on🤔)! If my child damaged something I worked for, OOH NO SWEETIE, NO, NO NOOO NOT HAPPENING! You have beautiful things that most can't and will never have so treat it special❤ They need to learn this from mommy 1st tho! Have a family meeting, make it a fun time go to dillar genral and pick up a foam or poster board, markers, foitter, stickers, etc and make a family chore board and follow through on it daily so they get into a repetitive routine! Mom you have no idea how much stress this will take off your shoulders just having help and a clean home! I promise you it will start making you feel motivated and energized to do more and more! Remember, what their growing up seeing from mom & dad is eventually what they will mimic for their future with their families. Break that cycle now! Again, this is no shade at all just trying to help I know what your dealing with to well and I am on the outside looking in🤷♀️ What better then to hear my opinion it cant hurt! ! I used to clean my son's room and then do all his wash you know all the motherly duties Im suppose to do. But he got ungrateful and felt intitled for more and more! So when he turned 14yr this past March, I showed him how to do his own wash, cook good food not air fryer and microwave, real home cooked meals😋 I showed my son how to properly clean our home too. When I clean, I deep clean wiping down ceilings, walls,fans, base boards, etc. But I suffer from mental health issues as well and I get lazy and dont want to do anything besides lay in bed but then I get a throat kick back into reality, the show must go on😂🤷♀️🤦♀️