Why Confidence Is An Inside Job

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Komentáƙe • 61

  • @shoogarplum4436
    @shoogarplum4436 Pƙed 3 lety +14

    This is a game changer for helping confidence! It is about perception, not circumstances. Confidence will not be “earned” once you accomplishment something. It is active daily choice to perceive yourself as worthy of taking up space :)

  • @yourcalmplace
    @yourcalmplace Pƙed 3 lety +20

    - I just want to let anyone who’s reading this comment know. I wish you great success, health, love and happiness! ✹

  • @jackspedicy
    @jackspedicy Pƙed 3 lety +4

    I think, what I understand here, is that you can’t chain confidence to a job position, a car, a body figure, a beautiful person you’re dating, a persons acceptance of you etc. Basically, you can’t chain your confidence to something external. Because when chained to “X”, and you lose “X”, you lose your confidence. The goal here is to be confident without those things; to be content and sure of yourself, without being chained to anything external or materialistic.

  • @mannychong100
    @mannychong100 Pƙed rokem

    Your the best dr.aziz. you are the man, keep doing what your doing brother

  • @sleve695
    @sleve695 Pƙed 3 lety +5

    Thank you for everything you do! I resonate with so many things you say and you help me a lot 🙏

  • @TheOriginal1910
    @TheOriginal1910 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Wow...damn. I mean, you just nailed my train of thought. Always thinking that if I had a perfect body, perfect job or perfect anything I would feel more confident. And what you say it's true. That doesn't translate to confidence at all (I'm starting to really tap into that thought). Honestly, what you say in this video is the key for confidence. You have to encourage yourself to do things, not criticize. It's ok if you fuck up. We are humans after all. We are bound to make mistakes. And trying to change that isn't gonna cut it. You have to be happy with what you are right now. You want to be more muscular or have a better job? You want to be better at communication or anything else? Go ahead! But relax, don't start saying to yourself that if you don't achieve your goals you are a bad person or that you aren't good enough. You are fine as you are, and that's a fact, to anyone who might read this. You want to improve yourself? Love yourself as you are first. Be happy if you fuck up. At least you tried! It's ok to talk to people without a 100% confidence. No one has that much confidence! People won't attack you or criticize you. And if they do is ABSOLUTELY FINE!!!! The only person you have to be happy with is YOU! Amazing video. Really recommend it to anyone who wants to have more confidence. It takes time, be patient. You can do anything you set your mind to. DON'T FORCE OR PUSH YOURSELF TO BE BETTER! Do it in your own way with self-love!

  • @yackieshabaker4370
    @yackieshabaker4370 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Thank you very much,I trying to watch this and other videos of yours to improve on myself.sorry I never found you earlier

  • @angmathew4377
    @angmathew4377 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    you are gem. Thanks man

  • @ordinaryclass8508
    @ordinaryclass8508 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    You are amazing. Lots of love and prayer from me

  • @jessewallace12able
    @jessewallace12able Pƙed 3 lety

    Your work is great đŸ‘đŸ». So helpful.

  • @santana2.0
    @santana2.0 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    I saw your 4 year old video about performance and you spoke about reverse visualisation. All my life I been doing this not knowing why when I think bad things the world goes in my favour, your video helped me a lot and I learn a lot from you thanks for doing CZcams

  • @brilliantwriter4856
    @brilliantwriter4856 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Hey dr aziz,
    I’m always confident until someone rejects me or dislikes me. I always feel like there’s obviously something wrong with me. My confidence is dependent on what others think because I lack sense of self & wonder if there truly is something wrong with me.

    • @GetMoreConfidence
      @GetMoreConfidence  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      There's nothing wrong with you. You simply need to gain more confidence skills. Keep up the good work!

    • @brilliantwriter4856
      @brilliantwriter4856 Pƙed 3 lety

      @@GetMoreConfidence ❀

  • @shyama5612
    @shyama5612 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    One story I tell myself has eroded my confidence: "not met life's milestones that many of my peers have". Doesn't bother me as much now as I have 'other' shit but as you correctly point it, its not about the other things either.

  • @Anhedonxia
    @Anhedonxia Pƙed 3 lety +1

    thxxxxx doc

  • @om9670
    @om9670 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Great aziz bhai...

  • @djsallas3887
    @djsallas3887 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    First here..💯👌🏿

  • @renasrenaissance8691
    @renasrenaissance8691 Pƙed 3 lety +3

    I think confidence is a full time job as you're building it, but once it's attained you can kick back & retire

  • @chelseanwalor3503
    @chelseanwalor3503 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Hi. I’m watching your video where you talk to strangers I’m cringing inside BC I GET SO NERVOUSz yk how people say they get second hand embarrassment, well I’m getting second hand NERVOUSNESS! Ah! But good job

  • @DayTradersDaily
    @DayTradersDaily Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I have had a fear of public speaking because I have witnessed I change in front of an audience. I can’t smile and I can feel my voice shaking a bit. I just feel the anxiety gripping me. Seems like no matter what I try I can’t relax and let my personality come through
..

    • @GetMoreConfidence
      @GetMoreConfidence  Pƙed 3 lety

      That's very common. When I first had trouble with my public speaking I joined a local chapter of Toastmasters. You might like to give that a try.

  • @matenem8984
    @matenem8984 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    I just enrolled into a new school and we have 27 girls and 6 guys in the class. I completely feel like I cant be myself and i always fear of what people think of me

  • @mohammedammari8694
    @mohammedammari8694 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    I'm the second đŸ€

  • @dantesinporno
    @dantesinporno Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Much like one's worth, making confidence contingent on external validation and arbitrarily established benchmarks is a recipe for misery and disaster.
    Nobody and nothing outside of your own psyche can do anything to afford you any more or any less worth.
    You are the only person in the history of the universe that can actually determine your worth. Once you genuinely acknowledge that you possess it, nothing can ever diminish, destroy, nullify or affect it.
    Confidence works the same way. Recognize that it always has and can only come from within.

  • @marwanmohamed2500
    @marwanmohamed2500 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    im funny, please laugh.