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  • That's the way Kandi Burruss feels.
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    Xscape: Still Kickin' It will follow the four original members of the multi-platinum hit '90s girl group, as they make their triumphant return to the stage after nearly 20 years apart. Since the breakup, Kandi has become a sought after Grammy-winning songwriter and successful entrepreneur, but is she ready to share the spotlight again? Putting her music on hold to make family her number one priority, Tiny is keen on relaunching herself in the industry, but just as her music career is on the rise her marriage is tested. LaTocha is all about focusing on the group and pushing them to the next level of super stardom, meanwhile, Tamika who continued in the industry over the years is looking to get back to her roots with where her music career all started. With two sold out shows in Detroit, performances at the BET Awards and Essence Festival, will the group be able to reconcile and look past bubbled up resentments and give their fans the comeback they've been eagerly anticipating?
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  • @jaykristian745
    @jaykristian745 Před rokem +76

    The fact that you could tell Kandi was on the verge of breaking down and Tocha smiled is a true representation of who Latoxic is. She has a dark spirit. The way she's acting here is exactly how her mother acted when Tamika was explaining her feelings to her.

  • @LBDesignsIIV
    @LBDesignsIIV Před rokem +254

    I’m scared of people like Tocha. They’ll look you dead in the face and make you think you don’t remember things correctly. 😊

    • @theebonyshow5536
      @theebonyshow5536 Před rokem +21

      Omg!!!!! Girl!! It’s soooooo scary

    • @thickgoddess1835
      @thickgoddess1835 Před rokem

      She is the poster child for covert narcissism.

    • @MERTIE123
      @MERTIE123 Před rokem +14

      Tocha even had a little smirk on her face. It's ok though, her future endeavors won't prosper but the Xscape 3 will excel

    • @MERTIE123
      @MERTIE123 Před rokem +8

      @@theebonyshow5536 to me it's not scary. I'll look them dead in the face and let them know that I know they're lying

    • @Khumzwi
      @Khumzwi Před rokem +1

      It's sociopathic.

  • @absalemfikru388
    @absalemfikru388 Před rokem +36

    "This is the first time am hearing about it" Tacha's favourite word 😂

  • @Tabaitha_Elle
    @Tabaitha_Elle Před 6 lety +1480

    She knows exactly what Kandi is talking about. She doesn't want to admit to being a mean girl back then. They were young and that tends to happen at that age. They'll never be able to get along as long as people aren't admitting to what they did wrong.

    • @MelSpeaksMD
      @MelSpeaksMD Před 6 lety +86

      It's Tabaitha YESss! My thoughts exactly. She knew exactly what Kandi was talking about 😒

    • @jessicaburgess1464
      @jessicaburgess1464 Před 6 lety +46

      These are mean girls for real 😳

    • @lyndiex4215
      @lyndiex4215 Před 6 lety +13

      Mel n Toscha still playing the Nut Role...smh

    • @wisediva9807
      @wisediva9807 Před 6 lety +18

      It's Tabaitha I feel where kandi is coming from I'm going threw that now it hurts alot its painful yes I cry because it bothers me

    • @Acrylicbae
      @Acrylicbae Před 6 lety +24

      It's Tabaitha Exactly totally agree, Kandi is still very much hurt 😢 it’s like they bring her old bad memories

  • @xcdom324
    @xcdom324 Před 6 lety +247

    Kandi is really an underrated queen of reality tv.

  • @lewisedwards4058
    @lewisedwards4058 Před 4 lety +351

    Kandi is an extremely sensitive person emotionally. She holds on to pain for a long time and expects people to give her back all the effort she gives them. When that's not reciprocated, she feels betrayed and like she's not worthy of that same kind of friendship. I feel. She is actually really good at expressing her emotions maturely, even if she cries.

    • @breezykey229
      @breezykey229 Před rokem +21

      Exactly! She is true Taurus!!!! Us Tauruses expect the same energy back in the friendship and if we don’t get it back it just feels like betrayal….

    • @MERTIE123
      @MERTIE123 Před rokem +11

      The hurt never went away because Tocha never admitted to the real issues that they had. Like in this video, she was acting like she didn't know what Kandi was talking about.

    • @mt.billings1234
      @mt.billings1234 Před rokem +8

      ​@@breezykey229 I agree, maybe that is what it is with me too , and I'm a Taurus also

    • @ladydonna773
      @ladydonna773 Před rokem +9

      She’s a Taurus through and through…ik firsthand because that’s EXACTLY how I am in my friendships. We’re loyal so much that sometimes it’s to a fault. We give so much of ourselves & when we feel like the same isn’t reciprocated, we take major issue with it. Because it really is hurtful when you give someone your all & they don’t reciprocate the same type of energy.

    • @tab87hottie2
      @tab87hottie2 Před rokem +4

      I’m a Taurus I hate feeling unappreciated bullied and disrespected.
      Everything Latocha did to Kandi

  • @Camw356
    @Camw356 Před 6 lety +609

    I dont think Kandi address a person when she is disrespected or done wrong.Then she decides to just let it go but on the inside she never let it go, and beats herself up for not speaking up about it. I feel bad..

    • @sxm76
      @sxm76 Před 3 lety +28

      Why you all in MY business?

    • @lane524
      @lane524 Před 3 lety +15

      I'm The Same way . She'll get there, in hee own time . Strength , Courage and Wisdom 💪💪👑👑

    • @Camw356
      @Camw356 Před 3 lety +6

      @@sxm76 oop don't feel bad, I'm slowly progressing from that 😂😂

    • @sxm76
      @sxm76 Před 3 lety +15

      @@Camw356 Yea cause you just broadcasted my whole life on CZcams and I don't even know you. 😂😂😂😂

    • @uniquequeen7869
      @uniquequeen7869 Před 3 lety +18

      I think it’s a Taurus thing. Truly. I’m the same way.

  • @michaelchancley1617
    @michaelchancley1617 Před rokem +9

    Now seeing how she treats Tamika, it makes total sense that she saw Kandi as a little sister. She wanted control and didn’t like being checked by either one of them, even when she deserved to be checked.

  • @ellasabe6377
    @ellasabe6377 Před rokem +91

    Wow! Now that we see how Tocha gets down on this NEW show??? She is the queen of gaslighting, always telling people that what they experienced was either untrue or a figment of their imagination. It takes a special kind of inner cruelty to pull that off as effortlessly as she does.

    • @Sleek310
      @Sleek310 Před rokem +1

      She's a whole sociopath, everyone around her could be breaking down and she'll be like, huh? I'm so confused, what's going on? A true southern bell, fake, manipulative and unaccountable to anything she does to people, same reaction, Phaedra had after she got busted telling all them lies

    • @igradin08
      @igradin08 Před rokem +6

      Most Narcissist are very good at it!!

    • @chartishachartisha1229
      @chartishachartisha1229 Před rokem +4

      Yesssssss my grandmother always said what's done in the dark 🌑 shell come to light 💡💯💯💯💯🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @warrenaray
    @warrenaray Před 4 lety +174

    I think Kandi was bullied by some of them in the group. The fact that Latocha don’t see or understand Kandi at all is a red flag

    • @BlackGreedy18
      @BlackGreedy18 Před 2 lety +14

      I heard from a person that knew them personally that said she was by both sisters

  • @Myaccount923
    @Myaccount923 Před 6 lety +446

    Why is she playing stupid? Lol. She knows what kandi is talking about

    • @Myaccount923
      @Myaccount923 Před 6 lety +37

      Moni Klay it seemed like kandi didn't just wanna air the real dirty laundry on tv. And then latocha was playing dumb on top of it "I don't know how you got that" gurl...

    • @keioshamerriweather9068
      @keioshamerriweather9068 Před 6 lety +4

      Right that what I said

  • @Jettiedoes
    @Jettiedoes Před rokem +39

    Coming back after the premiere of their new show and Latocha is definitely the problem

  • @715Jman
    @715Jman Před 6 lety +519

    These ladies need to go see a therapist about their past issues....it's some DEEP pain there from Kandi. It's not just as easy for some people to move on when they feel like they've been hurt & betrayed the way she does.

    • @conc3it3d.prxncess
      @conc3it3d.prxncess Před 6 lety +7

      Marquies305 No.They've Been Separated For 20 Yrs. The Lie Was Told Like 7 Or 8 Yrs Ago

    • @taurus163
      @taurus163 Před 6 lety

      ThatNigga_KC 1998 what lie?

    • @conc3it3d.prxncess
      @conc3it3d.prxncess Před 6 lety +9

      Lea Wilson Tamika Said Kandi Slept With Jermaine's Dad, And This Other Man. And She Said She Slept Her Way To The Top. And Kandi Said It Was A Lie And She Made Her Apologize

    • @randybagley9456
      @randybagley9456 Před 6 lety +9

      they all have the issues with each other. There is a lot of pain to go around, so it appears. Everyone has their own idea of what happened with the group's demise. In this scene, LaTocha is trying to get Kandi to give her some specifics. Kandi just keeps saying like, "I never felt like you liked me." Both have very strong personalities and wills. Those can clash and bump heads some times. Kandi needs to make peace with it and let it go. It's been 19 years. Also, if you are on a reality tv show with them, doing shows and have a joint company, then, it appears to me that this has been put behind you and you can move on. I don't know anyone who still has beef that would be so involved with the group like that. You all are damn near 40 or at 40s door. For you to sill be having conversations like, "I don't think you like me", like that's so middle school. LET IT GO and give us some GREAT MUSIC!

    • @Acrylicbae
      @Acrylicbae Před 6 lety

      Jamar K Agreed

  • @Fromdafifthflo
    @Fromdafifthflo Před 6 lety +954

    Y’all make fun of her crying, but she hasn’t talked to these people in almost 10 years. It’s like opening up an old wound. Crying is not a sign of weakness. She prob held that shit in for years.....9 years ? Maaan Let that woman cry lol This we’re their Lives. Not just a group. Hell I’d cry too outta frustration lol

    • @ASmith-jn7kf
      @ASmith-jn7kf Před 4 lety +3

      Anyone's talking about that is an idiot, just ignore them.

    • @gerardraney7668
      @gerardraney7668 Před 3 lety +24

      I agree brother Montrell Reid.Crying is releasing and being restored simultaneously

    • @stevensonnicolei1235
      @stevensonnicolei1235 Před 3 lety

      UK kl8pi8

    • @lakeshiaball1609
      @lakeshiaball1609 Před 3 lety +21

      Kandi is a very emotional person I’m like that beside crying cleanses the soul ain’t nothing wrong with that

    • @trelljohnson9702
      @trelljohnson9702 Před 3 lety

      TRELL SUP

  • @hoochijami7
    @hoochijami7 Před 6 lety +819

    Khandi Is being truthful. That is why she having a hard time.

    • @unaninanine3743
      @unaninanine3743 Před 6 lety +23

      hoochijami7 She is always truthful and I love her for it.
      Yes, she's very emotional which I don't like but as a person, Kandi is a lovable angel. And thank goodness she's the most successful too.

    • @robertduncan379
      @robertduncan379 Před 6 lety +24

      Una Nina Nine there is nothing wrong with being emotional.

  • @NeicyJ1990
    @NeicyJ1990 Před rokem +12

    This is the scene Da Brat was talking about on The Rickey Smiley Morning Show that LaTocha doesn't remember

  • @KeishannaMichele
    @KeishannaMichele Před rokem +67

    You can’t keep asking a person “why we never got along” and when they tell you, you deflect and tell them “I don’t know how you felt that way” you simply apologize. This is why even now on the new show, they can’t get along because if Kandi is telling she felt like everyone was against her, all Latosha had to do was simply apologize to her in that moment, instead of blaming her for feeling attacked

    • @goodlife8044
      @goodlife8044 Před rokem +5

      She’s gaslighting her

    • @KeishannaMichele
      @KeishannaMichele Před rokem +5

      @@goodlife8044 yes!!!!!!! You hit the nail on the head 🎯

    • @Sleek310
      @Sleek310 Před rokem

      Now she on that, "Kandi is jealous of the great Latocha"

    • @chartishachartisha1229
      @chartishachartisha1229 Před rokem +6

      Narcissistic at its best💯🤦🏾‍♀️🤬 2023 they coming out more now then ever. It's best to stay away from them because you'll never ever get the truth or the rightful apology ever you must go heal on your own

    • @goodlife8044
      @goodlife8044 Před rokem +2

      @@chartishachartisha1229 🎯

  • @SoloStarDee
    @SoloStarDee Před 2 lety +37

    Kandi is a true Taurus...we love our friends like family and that shit hurts when you see them for who they really are

    • @TheOfficial_Bri308
      @TheOfficial_Bri308 Před rokem +1

      Don’t have nothing to do with a zodiac sign. That’s ANYBODY who loves hard and who feels hurt and go through emotions when ppl are not who you thought. It has nothing to do with a damn sign. Childish mindset.

  • @foodforthoughtoccassionall456

    Latocha had this exact convo with Dbrat . She accepts no accountability.

  • @aphrodite1699
    @aphrodite1699 Před 2 lety +114

    I can see the smirk on her face when Kandi starts crying, she must have been a mean girl for sure

    • @calenajackson8772
      @calenajackson8772 Před rokem +11

      I believe she is the problem in the group

    • @shavandawatkins8917
      @shavandawatkins8917 Před rokem +1

      When did she smirk??? Are you watching a different video?

    • @aphrodite1699
      @aphrodite1699 Před rokem +2

      @@shavandawatkins8917 read her non-verbal cues, it's too obvious

    • @tsmith9063
      @tsmith9063 Před rokem +2

      @@shavandawatkins8917 I think you are not looking at the same video it was very clear even Stevie wonder could see rhat

    • @mochas9249
      @mochas9249 Před rokem +1

      She do seem a lil wicked

  • @Nyx72215
    @Nyx72215 Před 6 lety +602

    I'm not getting why people keep joking about Kandi crying and talking...people act like they never got mad enough to where they just started crying. Not because there a cry baby but because the anger is so much. Its not an uncommon thing. And every time I've seen Kandi cry she's talking about something serious to her. If you've only had bad experiences in a group or felt you were an outcast why however many years later why would you want to be apart of it..? I get why in the clips and the interviews she seems kind of dismissive but it's understandable. We need some Understanding in these comments.

    • @shaktra1563
      @shaktra1563 Před 6 lety +27

      Tonks We really do. All these kandi comments are incredibly disheartening . Everybody says she's petty for holding a grudge and that she's being a crybaby but there is more to it than that. She is saying these issues have been there from the start. If that's the case, why would she want to rejoin the group? Just to have the same things happen? That's unacceptable. She obviously has some deep routed pain from what happened in the group, it's not really fair that people are coming at her because of that.

    • @Nyx72215
      @Nyx72215 Před 6 lety +3

      xxDark_kamuixx I agree, I hope it can all be settled eventually :(

    • @spkn_hues
      @spkn_hues Před 6 lety +17

      Tonks I can't speak when I'm emotional either, so I understand Kandi. Sometimes when I'm REALLY crying, I start hyperventilating if I try to speak, lol. A lot of these commentors on here are just fronting for the internet. Acting like they don't understand emotions...

    • @abalb9321
      @abalb9321 Před 6 lety +6

      Tonks Agreed!, they don't know how that lady feeling she's been hurt very badly and people chile F what people say they always got some crap to say always opening their mouths telling someone what they should and shouldn't do I don't think she asked for opinions etc. let that lady get her pain and hurt out the best way she knows how not the best way you know how get over yourselves people let this lady heal or whatever her way. Thank you!!!, chile bye a mf always have something to say.

    • @halleyjenell1279
      @halleyjenell1279 Před 6 lety +6

      Tonks yes! Yes! Thank you well said she did say she was and is the youngest of the group and she always felt unheard and now they are all grown she can really say how she feels but it's still a lot to get over and she feels like still they are not listening to her feelings and hurts

  • @adirayasharahla984
    @adirayasharahla984 Před 3 lety +42

    Kandi is a lot like me. I never tell people when I have an issue, I just brush it off, then it festers inside of me.

  • @ResilientBeauty22
    @ResilientBeauty22 Před 6 lety +635

    Kandi is very emotional, she needs a deep personal connection with people to build relationships. Praying for her to gather the words to explain to her group members what her experiences were with them and why she felt the way she did.

    • @roberth5708
      @roberth5708 Před 6 lety +27

      I agree, kandi feel thing DEEP....and it not a game to her.

    • @judithjackson1086
      @judithjackson1086 Před 6 lety +25

      CaramelCurls 15 daddy issues can really fuck a child up...Kandi needs to feel like you see her if not she shuts down and closes her self off completely cause it's easier that way...I can understand her

    • @lyndrabowman1922
      @lyndrabowman1922 Před 6 lety +2

      CaramelCurls 15 You are so right.

    • @Preciousvibez
      @Preciousvibez Před 6 lety +21

      maam i do not know you but you just help me to deal with 34 years of misused emotional energy by realizing that i must connect deeply to BUILD relationships.. thats makes a lot of sense when i take to a moment to evaluate my relationships .. dear God bless YOU. maybe thats a Taurus thing i hear kandi is one

    • @Couture426
      @Couture426 Před 6 lety +5

      CaramelCurls 15 she's a Taurus they are a very difficult zodiac to get along deal with

  • @MERTIE123
    @MERTIE123 Před rokem +5

    They don't get along but that was sweet of Latocha to give Kandi a hug when she started crying

    • @Jamietheroadrunner
      @Jamietheroadrunner Před rokem

      Look closer at the little smirk she had. Tocha is DEVIOUS!

    • @MERTIE123
      @MERTIE123 Před rokem +2

      @@Jamietheroadrunner Yes she is but I think she kind of felt bad though because she even shed some tears that time

    • @vineshamiles8250
      @vineshamiles8250 Před 11 měsíci

      NAw she needed money and Kandi was holding it up to her.

  • @queengypsy8486
    @queengypsy8486 Před rokem +9

    Say what you want kandi story has never changed. I believe her. She just pretending she didn’t see it.

  • @MrChalaki
    @MrChalaki Před 6 lety +261

    this was sad, I felt bad for her I know that feeling of being around people and feeling alone

    • @amandaxyc
      @amandaxyc Před 6 lety +9

      MrChalaki I was like that with my group of friends thats why I feel her pain and everytime I cried to them about my feelings they will look at me like why the hell you crying so I feel her pain on this one

    • @wisediva9807
      @wisediva9807 Před 6 lety +2

      Amanda Carter me and you both yes I cry because it hurts

    • @amandaxyc
      @amandaxyc Před 6 lety +6

      Wise Diva it do hurts and it hurts more when they dont understand

    • @kryshonday8198
      @kryshonday8198 Před 6 lety +7

      Feeling like an outsider is no joke smh

    • @kryshonday8198
      @kryshonday8198 Před 6 lety +5

      I dont like feeling like that

  • @kayl2141
    @kayl2141 Před rokem +19

    She knows good and damn well what Kandi’s talking about. This is not the first time she’s heard this…Take accountability and stop acting like the shit didn’t happen!

  • @pjonesps
    @pjonesps Před 2 lety +21

    My heart breaks a little when Kandi cries. She’s crying out of frustration. I’m glad they finally moved past it.

  • @robae7998
    @robae7998 Před 6 lety +179

    As much as I dislike Kandi , I believe her when she said the sisters made her feel that way. Hell I get a vibe that they don’t like her based on the first episode so I couldn’t imagine what they were like when they were teens

    • @latoyaderrick7567
      @latoyaderrick7567 Před 6 lety +33

      Blue Bullets your comment was very sincere and real, you don't have to like Kandi or anyone to understand someone's pain. However, I love Kandi though and I honestly think her and Tiny get along so well after all these years is because they are sincere among one another. Think about it, Kandi have no problem with Tiny. Any how I liked your comment because you where weren't basis although you don't like Kandi.

    • @Eriq7001
      @Eriq7001 Před 4 lety +16

      They didn't like Kandi cause she was chosen to be lead singer of Xscape (by JD) and she was am integral part of Xscape. And after Xscape was good finished she didn't need THEM of the Xscape name to have a successful mult business ( non musical) career. Both Kandi and Tiny didn't need them.

    • @downtown_ny458
      @downtown_ny458 Před 3 lety +13

      Actually Kandi and Tamika were BFF’s back in the day. Kandi have said this many of times. That’s why Kandi was so hurt when Tamika lied on her because 1 it was a blatant lie and 2 they were extremely close she said she would’ve done anything for Tamika. She said her and Tiny didn’t link up until towards the end of Xscape’s run. The only real issue within the group was Tocha and Kandi.

    • @ms.aquarius4854
      @ms.aquarius4854 Před 2 lety +1

      Kandi saw straight thru the fake camera apologies from the sisters. Its doesn't take yrs to right your wrongs. I dont blame her for how she felt. If what they tried to do popped off they wouldve gave her the finger like she said. Forgive and move on..I knew Kandi was leaving after hearing LaTocha's response to the issues she had. Nothings changed but its sad to see a great group like them end.

  • @theaccountinggirl
    @theaccountinggirl Před 6 lety +169

    kandi be looking at her crazy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @natashabrower7706
    @natashabrower7706 Před rokem +4

    When you feel like someone doesn't like and y'all never seem to click. Trust and believe your instincts, it's telling you the truth. Something ain't right, and the other person is trying to cover up what they were doing.

  • @sevyntennyson4181
    @sevyntennyson4181 Před 5 lety +45

    I remember when LaTocha was on RnB Divas, she was even throwing shade at Kandi THEN TOO!

    • @BlackGreedy18
      @BlackGreedy18 Před 3 lety

      What she say

    • @sevyntennyson4181
      @sevyntennyson4181 Před 3 lety +8

      @@BlackGreedy18 they had their mother on and the three of them were saying this exact thing, that kandi was jealous, that kandi wanted to be lead, kandi needed to get over herself, that kandi didnt know how to take a joke etc its like episode 2 or 3 of RnB Divas

    • @BlackGreedy18
      @BlackGreedy18 Před 3 lety

      @@sevyntennyson4181 ok thanks

  • @illinthe_____
    @illinthe_____ Před 6 lety +317

    I think both Kandi and Tocha are alpha women - but because Kandi was always the youngest, she wasn't allowed to fully express her opinions openly and frankly. But holding on to them has made it hard for her to move forward. But Tocha's not really trying to get to the bottom of how her personality created that environment.

    • @egyptscott4801
      @egyptscott4801 Před 6 lety +7

      illinthe_____ HMMM GOOD POINT

    • @wisediva9807
      @wisediva9807 Před 6 lety

      facts

    • @tee1736
      @tee1736 Před 6 lety +21

      exactly latocha isnt try to get the bottom of that and i feel kandi intimidates her and because she is older she dont like it and i get why kandi is so emotinon when u cant express yourself and feel like your being heard its so hard to be around people who belittle your feelings

    • @andriantaylor9354
      @andriantaylor9354 Před 6 lety

      That’s is so true

    • @shainaj1391
      @shainaj1391 Před 6 lety +2

      illinthe_____ the realest and most truthful statement concerning these two....it’s so true

  • @GregThatDudeTv
    @GregThatDudeTv Před rokem +30

    Latocha doesn’t know how to take responsibility! I’m glad people are finally seeing that she’s always been the problem!

  • @tiffanymatsvai1929
    @tiffanymatsvai1929 Před 5 lety +14

    Kandi has a good cry I love it, her voice starts shaking and everything 🙈🙈

  • @leviny
    @leviny Před 6 lety +182

    Kandi I love you. Stay strong.

  • @Nayahpooh012
    @Nayahpooh012 Před rokem +8

    Look at how the tables have turned. Now her own sister Tamika and Da Brat have come out and admitted that Tocha was not nice to Kandi and that Kandi was overlooked because she was the youngest and often had to fight to be heard.

  • @rockt378
    @rockt378 Před 6 lety +5

    Kandi need serious love, understanding and hug from her sisters

  • @jermaphobic8308
    @jermaphobic8308 Před rokem +3

    Look at how she smiles when kandi starts crying. She’s an evil person.

  • @LeeJ90
    @LeeJ90 Před rokem +4

    I teared up watching Kandi cause that’s real hurt… I felt tht pain

    • @JS-ix6hr
      @JS-ix6hr Před rokem

      Whew! That shxt literal made my eyes get real watery, you can always tell when something is real versus fake emotion.. 😩 when the clip was over, I’m sitting here like damn I know I ain’t crying lol. Yes, I felt every bit of that too.

  • @raqui174
    @raqui174 Před rokem +5

    Latocha is gas lighting her to the max

  • @RaisingAzzy
    @RaisingAzzy Před 6 lety +479

    Oprah should let Bravo borrow Iyanla. #fixitjesus 😢🙏🏼

    • @LusaïlToDoha
      @LusaïlToDoha Před 6 lety +14

      Lyanla can only help people who recongnize that they have a problem, Kandi doesn’t believe she is a problem or even have one. Lyanla comes to you when you call her not the other way.

    • @TheAirynDolce
      @TheAirynDolce Před 6 lety +3

      Never thought about it this way. Well said! لوسيل الدوحة

    • @keisha5542
      @keisha5542 Před 6 lety +6

      Yasss Iyanla needs to fix Xscape

    • @halleyjenell1279
      @halleyjenell1279 Před 6 lety +4

      C&N Love I agree from looking the first episode and now these trailers we can see that Kandi out of all the girls really has some deep hurts that hasn't let go of and because they are all friends Kandi doesn't know how to Exspress those feelings....clearly you can see it's a lot on her mind

    • @kkimberly2004YT
      @kkimberly2004YT Před 6 lety

      C&N Love wow!!!! If only!!!!!!

  • @jazzieladie5709
    @jazzieladie5709 Před rokem +2

    Fast forward to 2023…. She on the Same thang 👀

  • @Sylkimami
    @Sylkimami Před rokem +5

    U didn't see it.... But where is the apology???? How about... "I didn't know u felt that way... I never intended to make you feel those things... I'm sorry.... I love you. How can we fix this?"

  • @litawi7869
    @litawi7869 Před rokem +3

    At the 1:00 mark you can see a slight smile pop up on Tosha’s face, just as Kandi breaks down and starts crying. I know a Narc in act when I see one [now]!

  • @patricejay1260
    @patricejay1260 Před 4 lety +11

    Shit I’m just like Kandi I cry when expressing myself

  • @bryantrobin7087
    @bryantrobin7087 Před rokem +3

    Latosha is a devil in disguise, I peeped the little smirk latosha had on her face when Kandi started crying and that damn hug was not sincere AT ALL!!!

  • @ClaytonGWilliams
    @ClaytonGWilliams Před 3 lety +11

    It’s like twisting the knife! She knows what happened and she has explained it and tiny even confirmed Tocha wanted to leave the group. When people lie and act like they don’t know what they did or they’re doing it’s just hurting more

  • @katann216
    @katann216 Před 6 lety +301

    Kandi cannot cry and talk at the same time !

  • @Anonymous87744
    @Anonymous87744 Před 6 lety +5

    Nothing wrong with letting your emotions out shit I'm the same way 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @mar69storm
    @mar69storm Před rokem +14

    Ugh it's just.. Kandi is telling you how she felt. Instead of saying I didn't see it. You listen and say I'm sorry. It is not that hard. I dislike when folks want to be right all the time. She is telling how the hell she felt

    • @tyreesmith7028
      @tyreesmith7028 Před rokem +2

      Exactly. It is Kandi''s feelings and perspective. In all honesty, Kandi should have communicated to Tocha how she was making her feel instead of going to Tameka about it. Maybe she did not feel comfortable confronting Tocha about it, I dunno. Tocha needs to take ownership of her behavior as well and see how she impacts the people around her. If the people around you don't want to have deep conversations with you, you are making yourself to be unapproachable. Porcupines can't be hugged due to their quills. Is she making herself out to be one? Nobody wants to hug a porcupine. The pattern appears to be happening again with others in the group other than Kandi in recent occurrences.

    • @mar69storm
      @mar69storm Před rokem +2

      @@tyreesmith7028 exactly and at this point. At her age heffa is choosing to be that way.

  • @Acrylicbae
    @Acrylicbae Před 6 lety +14

    I think kandi went thru a lot with this group and she’s still very hurt 😢

  • @ebonywhite50
    @ebonywhite50 Před rokem +7

    She dark skinned in this but recently she’s been really light. I thought I was tripping🤦🏽‍♀️Kandi be speaking truth ( in my opinion) and it’s clear Kandi was telling the truth look what’s going on now

    • @Emrynbegaming
      @Emrynbegaming Před rokem

      Same here. I was like is she bleaching her skin.

    • @ebonywhite50
      @ebonywhite50 Před rokem +1

      @@Emrynbegaming she doing something to her skin. She is very light

  • @LeeDfined
    @LeeDfined Před 2 lety +16

    I think Tocha really cares for her...but nitpicks with her just because she can. But she also seemed hurt when Kandi said they were never on the same page. And Tocha said "never?" and seemed hurt by her saying they never had a connection.

  • @klion3924
    @klion3924 Před 3 lety +2

    They love each other like sisters. They love hard and fight hard.

  • @misshglady4lyfe
    @misshglady4lyfe Před 6 lety +20

    Awwww kandi I was crying with you 😢 . Hope they get it together. They were soo young back then too.

  • @gemmes8076
    @gemmes8076 Před 6 lety +157

    Let go and let God

    • @monicaj5110
      @monicaj5110 Před 6 lety +1

      Pateet07 Rich + Yessss I agree cause holding on to old pain keeps you in bondage.

    • @KENDEE10
      @KENDEE10 Před 6 lety

      Amen

  • @ImHoNdO
    @ImHoNdO Před 6 lety +3

    If only these ladies would listen to the lyrics of one of their biggest hits, "Understanding"...."how can we communicate, if you don't hear what I say?"

  • @dominiquejohnson6322
    @dominiquejohnson6322 Před rokem +3

    I dislike seeing kandi cry. Cuz she’s literally so genuine. When she cry I cry Omg

  • @3BuckHead
    @3BuckHead Před rokem +5

    So LaTocha doesn't remember this???

  • @Thikbody1979
    @Thikbody1979 Před rokem +3

    LaTocha knows exactly what she talking about shoot we ain’t even a part of the group and we see it

  • @mont-doggBeats
    @mont-doggBeats Před rokem +3

    Kandi still is the most popular one out the group along with tiny..😂

  • @marquishasmith7441
    @marquishasmith7441 Před rokem +2

    who here after her conversation with Da Brat cause hooooney listen👀👀👀

  • @keshacaston6353
    @keshacaston6353 Před rokem +3

    Now she just said Kandi never told her this on the Rickey smiley show. Girl byeeeeee

  • @allegroaffettuoso9012
    @allegroaffettuoso9012 Před rokem +5

    Watching this scene years later is crazy. When I first saw it, I thought, well maybe LaTocha genuinely doesn’t remember. Maybe it’s just one of those things where two people don’t get along because they get their lines crossed, and misinterpret things, and make assumptions. But seeing her on the new show, how she is fully aware of all the scheming and nasty stuff she & her husband has done, seeing her she denies things that did on camera, seeing how she did interviews lying through her teeth makes me thing she knew EXACTLY what Kandi was talking about and tried to play it off. Then she had tears in her eyes while doing it. This is legit scary. She seems sociopathic. Like…how do you get real emotion while just lying through your teeth. 😂

  • @robertcurry4832
    @robertcurry4832 Před rokem +4

    Tocha smirking at Kandi’s frustration 🙄🙄🙄

  • @DM-3000
    @DM-3000 Před 6 měsíci +3

    This almost dragged me into tears seeing the emotional and mental disconnect amongst these two. Tocha seems like a very stern and serious women who can be completely oblivious to anything outside of her own personal concerns while Kandi seems to be real chill, confident and accepting. The fact that she feels tocha never accepted her the same way is why she feels the way she does. I get a Bossy/ Control vibe from Tocha which probably would be hard to deal with in a female singing group

  • @AskLisa1841
    @AskLisa1841 Před 2 lety +4

    The Scott sisters were mean back then, however they have since matured. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 for them all

    • @BlackGreedy18
      @BlackGreedy18 Před 2 lety +3

      You knew them personally? No shade serious question

  • @cherrymisha4797
    @cherrymisha4797 Před 3 lety +5

    Damn I didn't realize that I was crying. I'm so sorry Kandi. Peace, love , and blessings to you toscha

  • @puro210
    @puro210 Před 6 lety +26

    How could she not see hurt? How hard it is to figure out if someone else is hurting, she's so evil and inconsiderate she need Kandi now but she don't like her. The only way you can not see someone is hurting is when you r comfortably wounding that person. That's EVIL Tocha

  • @kellypirtle5148
    @kellypirtle5148 Před rokem +1

    The underdog always come on top

  • @terrantystancil581
    @terrantystancil581 Před rokem +2

    I'm here because of what Brat said on Ricky Smiley Morning Show earlier.😳!!!!

  • @recca9020
    @recca9020 Před 6 lety +439

    Kandi is the type to hold a grudge forever

  • @dickieu.k.2351
    @dickieu.k.2351 Před 4 lety +5

    Genuine! When the tears come out you know it’s real 💗

  • @jasminejackson592
    @jasminejackson592 Před 6 lety +8

    This show is better then I thought it was gonna be 🤔

  • @mayrar2321
    @mayrar2321 Před rokem +18

    Tocha never takes accountability for anything and always the victim. She's holding the group back

    • @chartishachartisha1229
      @chartishachartisha1229 Před rokem

      Yessssss she still says now this my first time hearing about this til this day

  • @nonyabizwax5892
    @nonyabizwax5892 Před 5 lety +10

    Even Tiny admitted Kandi never told the sisters how she felt. Kandi said it time and time again she hold stuff in and doesn't let things go. She opens up now and very vocal because she didn't say things then. She expects mind readers but hopefully she has learned now

  • @markp.6639
    @markp.6639 Před 6 lety +13

    ok Kandi you obviously are very hurt and probably for GOOD reason, but if Tocsha doesn't see you need to explain it, she is not a psychic, and she is obviously wanting to learn so that Xscape can WORK

  • @feliciac4703
    @feliciac4703 Před rokem +2

    She didn't see it cause your feelings didn't matter to her & for her to say she didn't see it you should never trust her.

  • @mrterbia95
    @mrterbia95 Před 2 měsíci +4

    From what I gather, Latocha wanted the big sister/queen bee role and Kandy wasn’t going to be her yes man. Latocha used to her younger sister Tamika being her yes man and probably Tiny too. That’s why she felt she was the leader. Kandi was a challenge to her power and her ego. That’s more than likely why Latocha and Kandi bumped heads. I’m sure there were slight good moments that they had, but they were overall frienemies. And since Tamika and Tiny followed Latocha, Kandi was the black sheep to that XSCAPE sisterhood.

  • @musiclover-cn7tb
    @musiclover-cn7tb Před 6 lety +4

    i am so glad i remember this group from the very beginning and i am not just now finding out about them.

  • @roseofsharon1009
    @roseofsharon1009 Před 6 lety +6

    Kandi you are winning!!! Just be cautious since you know what they are capable of and continue to win. Leaders are always alienated at some point and that's what makes them who they are.

  • @wisediva9807
    @wisediva9807 Před 6 lety +3

    I know how kandi feels it hurts

  • @BAKERY_CLOSED
    @BAKERY_CLOSED Před rokem +3

    Tocha you can't ask someone what's wrong and then when they tell you, you attempt to negate their feelings. It doesn't work like that.

  • @davidclark7770
    @davidclark7770 Před rokem +3

    And Tocha still til this day running around acting like she didn’t know, that’s why Da Brat came for her on the Ricky Smiley Morning Show.

  • @Tiajones333
    @Tiajones333 Před rokem +7

    Latasha know she does not like no Kandi Burruss let's keep it real she was supposed to be the star of the group she was supposed to be the most successful

  • @jananthony7308
    @jananthony7308 Před 6 lety +2

    Like maya angelou said you will always remember how people made you feel...

  • @Pebbles-707
    @Pebbles-707 Před 3 lety +1

    Awwwwww Kandi❤️

  • @Tiajones333
    @Tiajones333 Před rokem +5

    Latasha didn't like her from the first time she met her

  • @randybagley9456
    @randybagley9456 Před 6 lety +7

    I think this was good of LaTocha. She sat down with Kandi and said "let's fix this". That shows growth and maturity! A lot of people slam Tocha, but she has grown up and wants to reconcile and have a great understanding with Kandi.

  • @lovelymelanin9336
    @lovelymelanin9336 Před rokem +2

    Please make up!❤ We love you all!!!✊🏿🙌🏾❤️

  • @andrel8458
    @andrel8458 Před 6 lety +2

    Baby these two really need it this moment no lie im rooting for xscape

  • @MsMiscellaneous
    @MsMiscellaneous Před rokem +4

    One thing Tocha gon do is say she don’t know what’s going on.

  • @princesscochran3942
    @princesscochran3942 Před 5 lety +4

    When kandi cry I cry

  • @cassandrabannerbie6553
    @cassandrabannerbie6553 Před 6 lety +2

    Kandy always be coming with that f**k up crying voice....

  • @ryleighg6758
    @ryleighg6758 Před 6 lety

    Awh yall so bless and for it to not been able to work out longer than it did was very sad and sorta heartbreaking bt i hope yall able to bring it back full circle

  • @d.marcae2609
    @d.marcae2609 Před 3 lety +3

    I totally get her frustration it’s like talking to a brick wall … and even if you didn’t see it or don’t understand it … shut up and listen to me now ! Tf 🙄🙄

  • @roberth5708
    @roberth5708 Před 6 lety +95

    Tocha you are not the leader you think you once were.. Kandi is grow ass woman and have plenty success....not a child any more treat her as your equal................

    • @brandonwalls1998
      @brandonwalls1998 Před 6 lety +6

      Robert H how is she not treating her as a equal. You don't know what your talking about. Tosha has been nothing but nice and it's not good enough. Kandi needs to learn how to let it go!!!! I'm sorry but as far as being in a group kandi is difficult to work with PERIOD. Nobody has time to baby her ass up. She " felt". That's the problem she feeling to damn much. Stop being bias and look at it for what it is SMH.

    • @Sweetpea2977
      @Sweetpea2977 Před 6 lety +6

      Kandi needs to learn how to put her issues into words AS SOON AS they arise. There's no way she should've been talking with her mother about this and never letting the others know what was going on. A lack of communication is a major, major problem here.

    • @roberth5708
      @roberth5708 Před 6 lety +1

      and you do!!! first she made the set list without anyone input.. Second Kandi is a Grammy award song writer why would you not have her input on the song list.. Third it called a group not Tosha.fourth... you do not know if Tosha have been nothing but nice BS...who defining NICE....Fifth they did the 3 member group thing an WHEN NO WHERE.. STOP

    • @amcra1
      @amcra1 Před 6 lety +2

      Robert H stfu

    • @roberth5708
      @roberth5708 Před 6 lety +1

      amcra1 GSTH

  • @puremusicluveer
    @puremusicluveer Před 4 lety +2

    Khandi I KNOW that feeling all so well! Been there ! This scene took me back to an experience I had in the past.

  • @zeekiele
    @zeekiele Před rokem +2

    It's so annoying when you TELL someone how you feel and they say I don't know how you got that. Well I got it. That's how YOU made me feel. I understand Kandi's frustration. You don't have to agree with my feelings to acknowledge them.