Better Late Than Never? The Benefits of ‘Later’

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  • čas přidán 22. 08. 2024
  • Are there benefits to things happening later in life? Guest bro-host and comedian Jay Pharoah weighs in.
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Komentáře • 59

  • @kathleenweinberg6442
    @kathleenweinberg6442 Před 2 lety +84

    Never stop trying for what you want even if it doesn't work out at least you try

  • @melissalitus8879
    @melissalitus8879 Před 2 lety +75

    I love this segment. I agree everyone's path and timeline is different. Don't get discouraged, put your work and believe. Better late then never 💯 I stopped caring what people think about me long time ago. They will doubt you and put negativity into your head but you have to rise up

  • @rashnas4029
    @rashnas4029 Před 2 lety +20

    “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second best time is now”

  • @Chaptersaudio
    @Chaptersaudio Před 2 lety +41

    This phrase is apropos to life as we age, as Loni pointed out. I'm embarking on my writing in a serious way after DECADES of starting this or that manuscript. Always putting it off. Now I'm finally taking it seriously and ideas are flooding into my brain.
    As long as you are alive, it is never too late. It's all about stepping out on faith.

    • @nlee4566
      @nlee4566 Před 2 lety

      That's right! Good for you!

  • @charmedgeek_
    @charmedgeek_ Před 2 lety +28

    Thank you, Loni! I needed to hear that. You were speaking directly to me. 😭

  • @beauty4717
    @beauty4717 Před 2 lety +16

    I gotta believe I can do whatever I want & seek God more to guide my path 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Desi-zz4gb
    @Desi-zz4gb Před 2 lety +8

    I remember not finishing my AS degree. I went to college 2014 to 2016 and had one more credit class left that I didn't know about until it was passed deadline. I just didn't go and just worked for 4 years, not worrying about it. During, I watched high school classmates of mine graduate at the standard year we're supposed to, 2018. I even cried. But I finally finished up my credits last year and now have at least 1 degree. Now i just gotta start on my others. That's why I whole heartedly agree with better late than never.

    • @bfree4830
      @bfree4830 Před 2 lety

      Come through! Congrats on your achievement 😊

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn Před 2 lety +37

    That clock for every human is ticking whether it’s a clock for finding love… having children… that specific craft/ job they want… maybe even getting a degree whatever it is we put pressure upon ourselves… and it’s always based on society’s pressures not because we necessarily feel it’s meant for us ! If we all simply listened to that voice inside our heart and head to lead us on the path of what is truly within our realm of destiny and not look back or stress we would be much better as a whole ! Don’t second guess… don’t think about other peoples feelings ! You come in this world by yourself and will eventually will leave it by yourself so look out for yourself and make yourself happy no matter how “ late “ it may seem to do what make su happy !

  • @DigitalLambchop8
    @DigitalLambchop8 Před 2 lety +17

    Love this conversation! Covid threw me OFFFFF, SO BAD..been feeling like I missed the boat lately 😪 Needed this reminder!!! Wish this segment was longer!

  • @flyingchong
    @flyingchong Před 2 lety +36

    Adrienne just said what I was thinking. I’ve gotten better at not dwelling on regrets of not doing something sooner. Regret doesn’t do anything for you. I wish I traveled more after college, especially with COVID hitting later, but when things lifted up and after getting vaxxed, I finally went on my dream international experience of an African safari, in Tanzania. If I did it, even if later, then that’s what’s important. Here’s to more later but not never experiences 💗

  • @dilciaenid57
    @dilciaenid57 Před 2 lety +8

    He said I’m going w Fancy hahahahaha!!! Sheeeee I want tot go to prom w Fancy! 💃🏻 ♥️

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 Před 2 lety +16

    Me and a bunch of friends didn’t go to prom so we threw our own prom party! Loved this segment. Watching it at the right time.

    • @freshangel1
      @freshangel1 Před 2 lety +1

      Congratulations on your prom party

  • @wholesomevibez
    @wholesomevibez Před 2 lety +14

    Adrienne looks so cute with the shorter hair!

  • @sgabrielle20
    @sgabrielle20 Před 2 lety +11

    Styling on this season is on point🔥 love it😍😍🙌🏼

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 Před 2 lety +7

    I view goals similar to trains...Some trips take longer but they all arrive to their destination if the driver doesnt quit.

  • @liah6952
    @liah6952 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m almost 40, and been on a career journey; this topic makes me not feel so bad.

  • @sharisss2608
    @sharisss2608 Před 2 lety +6

    He’s so sweet i think him and garcelle would be cute together he seems genuine lol I’m shipping them

  • @mea174
    @mea174 Před 2 lety +25

    Ooooo is he flirting with garcelle 👀

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 Před rokem

      Actually It kind of seems to be the other way around in a sense😊😄 since she said she would go with him if he asked lmaoo but yeah😊😊😁😄

  • @Kari7283
    @Kari7283 Před 2 lety +7

    Loved this segment!!! This is 'the crossroad I'm at right now if I should go for it now at 38 ugh. Thanks for this ❤❤

  • @kennahkennedy5636
    @kennahkennedy5636 Před 2 lety +5

    I can relate to him, I never went to prom either. I was one of those awkward people who didn't have friends.

  • @mandys1038
    @mandys1038 Před 2 lety +8

    This was a good discussion, I agree with all of them its never too late.

  • @hygory8576
    @hygory8576 Před 2 lety +5

    Seriously What's Holding A Man Back♥️💜💙🖤👑

  • @littlebean2494
    @littlebean2494 Před 2 lety +8

    You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take - Wayne Gretzky - Michael Scott

  • @nicolejohnson5604
    @nicolejohnson5604 Před 2 lety +4

    This is perfect cause I have goals and I know they will happen

  • @50shadesofzena14
    @50shadesofzena14 Před 2 lety +2

    I REALLY APPRECIATED THIS DOWN TO EARTH SEGMENT

  • @EboJ13
    @EboJ13 Před 2 lety +1

    Great segment. I really appreciate this discussion.

  • @Memkoh
    @Memkoh Před 2 lety +3

    Needed this.

  • @lavonnealexander6936
    @lavonnealexander6936 Před 2 lety

    I graduated high school at 19 and got a free prom dress 👗. Went to prom , it was the best time of my life. Lol 😂 I will never forget that day.

  • @freshangel1
    @freshangel1 Před 2 lety +1

    I needed to see this today

  • @ashunt29
    @ashunt29 Před 2 lety +1

    I don't know if I have ever heard Jay Pharoah's real voice until today! That's crazy!

  • @Chucklez881
    @Chucklez881 Před 2 lety +1

    Love this 🙌🏾

  • @hygory8576
    @hygory8576 Před 2 lety +1

    Gotta Believe In Myself Mo Than Anything Dats Not To Selfish🎧 📱 🖤🎭🍇👑

  • @KK-tb2uz
    @KK-tb2uz Před 2 lety +3

    Why am I just realizing that she played Fancy?.. 😩😩😩

  • @LiahB
    @LiahB Před rokem

    So true

  • @creativelady37
    @creativelady37 Před 2 lety +4

    That wig loni is cute

  • @alexandraanderson3988

    Lmaoo the ending when she said I’ll go with you 😊🥴😄 then he got excited 😂🤣😄😄 and said oh my gosh I’m going with fancy.😊🥴🤭😂 Now that was hilarious & kind of funny.🥴😊😅😂 I kind of wanted to see her face at the end when he said it 😏🤔🤭🥴😊 but oh well her laughing was all I think I needed to hear to be satisfied with this desicion but good enough for me tbh anyways. It kind of shows and tell she’s amused and kind of interested in a way.

  • @allieberrie9245
    @allieberrie9245 Před 2 lety +5

    Sidebar loni is looking soooo beautiful...

  • @kellycraddock269
    @kellycraddock269 Před 2 lety +1

    I understand

  • @maureenandrew8636
    @maureenandrew8636 Před 2 lety +1

    A I love your outfit

  • @OneLoveRSR
    @OneLoveRSR Před 2 lety +1

    Better late than never, within reason.

  • @charleslaw5365
    @charleslaw5365 Před 2 lety +1

    Everything in the room charging double

  • @staysunny170
    @staysunny170 Před 2 lety

    Jay Pharaoh❤️

  • @user-gh1gm8lp6t
    @user-gh1gm8lp6t Před 2 lety +3

    Loni is so different than her brown liquor jokes

  • @24kchefkimmy43
    @24kchefkimmy43 Před 2 lety

    🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽

  • @kinghiggins5021
    @kinghiggins5021 Před 2 lety

    OK

  • @A...LA...LA...A
    @A...LA...LA...A Před 2 lety +1

    The more mature you are, the least likely you can be taken advantage of... I wanted to ba a musician earlier on but decided to wait after seeing diabolical behavior.

  • @mea174
    @mea174 Před 2 lety +1

    First!

  • @yulnikita
    @yulnikita Před 2 lety

    Not a fan of dude.