Sadhguru - Punishing somebody is not going to transform you, don’t go that way!
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- čas přidán 12. 07. 2018
- If somebody cheats on you, is it wrong to punish that person or to believe they will be punished one day?
-Punishing somebody else is not going to transform your life,not going to make your life beautiful in anyway.
-Some sick satisfaction you will have for two days,
after that you will feel guilty about that also, don’t go that way.
If somebody cheated you It's a great opportunity
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Awesome
true reality
thank you guruji for moving us forward
No one cheated me...
They just pushed me towards the ultimate reality from an illusionary state!!!😊
I love this mindset..
He is soooo right. You should be the loves of your lives. A healthy relationship consists of two independent individuals who can live without each other but do not wish so because they enjoy each others company. No need, no personal interest, just love. So if you have the feeling that you are the love of your life whenever anyone cheats on you, you will not take it personally or get hurt in the longterm. Ego is the only barrier. Get over it!
You are the love of your life. Very good advice. I think the issue is we compare ourselves to others. We see others with love and we want the same for ourselves.
People that cheat are on a very low energy vibration. Thank them and leave them. Karma will take care them. That you can be sure of.
I'm really confused. Does it really exist? I've seen some person who badly cheated on his wife and kids and is very happy with another woman. I wonder when will karma work.
@@richagoel1 I think you would have seen only the outer layer of them, just do what you want to do in your life, everything will happen on its own when your effort is in your life on right path 👍
I hope so
Why does karma need to take care of them? Either they will change by the amount of self inflicted pain, they will learn to control their negative sides (you can see this as karma). Or they will find someone who can accept them the way they are. Why is one option better than the other
@@richagoel1 We can never figure out Karma's ways. It will hit the person where it pains him the most and it will do it through a person they trust the most. May be it has already started working and that person and you have not realized it yet that karma has started weaving it's web around him.
In other words, be the love of your own life. Powerful! You cannot depend on people for your own happiness. Relationships are not absolute, they are variables-always unknown and constantly changing.
Thank you I was seeking for that exact answer. Love you sadguru
We are blessed to have your presence and your guidance in our day to day obstacles of life. He is truly among us always making us stronger with wisdom, focus, being one with who we are and to complete our purpose on earth as human species. I cannot sleep without some simple words from sadhguru and when feeling down sadhguru tops up my energy and keeps me focused on my purpose. Thank you so much 🙏😇🙏
It was hard for me to forgive someone but this video change my perception and now I m trying to forgive and forget that person
What is your answer to your kids ?
If someone ruined you and they are enjoying their life, so many emotions boil up in within, it's difficult to cope. Ok, you move on, but you turn slient, you shut everyone out, you forget living. Over the period of time, you forgive also, but you can't re-live. Only one can know the depth of his pain. It's excruciating, extra ordinary, life changing.
Joy hi, the pain of finding the love of your life cheated is the worst pain in the world as you thought more of that person than he really was. I my cheater aboned his children too. this affected them both very badly which in turn was a double blow to me. the cheater only thinks of himself. and the pain May go away but it can come back. I'm 65 and it still hurts me. he is now on his 3rd marriage and she knows his past. what kind of person is she. he got his karma when 2nd wife left him. so I have a question for anyone on here. is that his karma sorted and he can now go on happily with 3rd wife who doesn't have his children but someone else's.? xx
was trying to say my cheater abandoned his children with me and put second wife before them. but his karma was that she left him while he was at work. lol
Happened with me, I am still dealing with trust issues. I am 27 now, it's 9 years now after she cheated on me. I don't flirt or if they flirt I tell them not to do that. I talk to females but have no female friends. I am so afraid of facing these thing again that I have shut everything out. don't know where my future will lead 🤷
Agreed
@@ultrainstinctO7 I'm with you my friend. I can't help you but I understand you. I hope you a happy life.
When i feel that life is boring
And i feel like dying
Sadhguru changed my mentality
Thanku sadhguru😘
I think it's time you find it in you to change yourself, so that one day you may stay in such a blissful state without Sadhguru or anyone for that matter. Inner Engineer yourself to become ectastic and indomitable.
The wisdom I hear here is more than all the wisdom I have heard in all of my life.
This man speaks a lot of sense i would love to just sit and talk to him he has a lot of wisdom
It's hard truth, as soon as I except it I will be fine too. And I excepted. Finding everyday little little happiness works well. 😊 it's my life and I will give it what I can...
what makes this so great is that without having to be made to believe it or told that this is fact you know that its true because it makes sense. its just true.
I wish i could get This knowledge one year ago. But still knowing all these now making me a better person. Thanks 🙏 sadhguru
Such an excellent and literally EYE-OPENING talk. Thank you Sadhguru 🙏
This is one of the wise men I've added to my collection. He is proving to be a very interesting and helpful addition.
I am loving his eye opening speeches and my fingers not letting to change any other channel programs including comedy which is my favourite
Nothing but the truth...thank You SadhGuru!
I have been struggling so much with anger from being betrayed so many times. This video is really helping me let go of the anger. I am grateful that I know now and not later when I am old and unable to do anything. Now, I am still young. I have options. I can rebuild my finances. I can rebuild my life. It’s never too late to change but it’s much better to change now while I can, while I am still young and healthy.
Thank you for this !!! God bless
:0 I like the Sadhtguru say to us his opinion ! Thanks
Incrediblely Said! Love you and more power to you SG :)
i agree ,when you hurt them back
later you realize or feel not well,
AT ALL
Thank you to OnePath and Thank you to Sadhguru Ji Aum
Thank you Sadhguru. This helps me to realized a certain situation that's happening in my life at the moment.
Brilliant, Sadhguru, as usual. Thanks, baba, for sharing your wisdom with us all.
This is spot on. Repeated listening is required i think.
Just to be able to ignore internal automatic objections.
This is what we need to know and much needed wisdom.
Sadhguru is Genius Fantabulous and an enlightened Master
ASHISH BARJATYA
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He is enlighted thats the reason he does not have human emotions...
Reminding me just on time. Merci
cili horvath If life is complete by itself, then why did nature created 2 genders and gave them the instincts to be together for feeling harmony? why do only certain person feels very special to you while others are just normal? if you respect nature, then respect it's purpose.. relationship can be absolute and harmonious with the right person.. and he said only relationship with God stands over time and human relationships are not.. but a mother's relationship with her child over time is the most absolute relation that even God would get envy of.. no offense but sadhguru's idea of relationship is for himself based on his own illusion.. but not for everyone.. the solution he is offering is called "Escapism".. pls don't escape from what life throws at you.. remember: Pain breaks you at first but will also build you back stronger for a higher purpose.. so don't run away from relationships.. anything that doesn't go with the flow of life is not spirituality at all..
I always knew this in youth ,but I had to experience it in real life to know it also solidifying the truth of it.
Thank you Sadhguru!
Thank you Sadhguru...
soo true...n it really makes ur life easy n happy wth such wonderful thought..
I so needed this Sadhguru. Thanks a zillion. God Bless.
Practical and fulfill with the problem
U r Great sadguru Ji.. We must be thought with all u r speech. When we were in school .. life would have been much better
Simply Insightful.♡
I always admire Sadhguru, but this one left me speechless, really. I think it's best to rethink my mindset. 👁️
Namaskaram SADHGURU.
I enjoyed this Video. Thanks
This video probably saved my life and changed it for the better!
Pranam Master, it's true and very beautifully said. Thank you
Amazing analogy
Thank you Dear God for guiding me to the right path 🙏🏻
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Beautiful speech and speechless
Brilliant
Thanks for sharing
Love yourself like you love him/her😏😉
Great words thank you
Great!
Pranam Sadhguru
Thank you ❤
Very good Sadguru....thank you.
This feeling also works well, I didn't cheat , but got cheated, now moving with the hope I can try to give better things to lthe ife. 😀
sadguru is genious ..i really like the way he speaks it really touchs the heart he is my guru
I love to listen to to you but I have to listen very carefully.
But you are a hoot and not in BBB a disrespectful way !!
Enjoy you very much ...
It's like raining wisdom.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank u
The wiser the best guru is Sadhuguru
The best 10 minutes I ever spent.
Very true Sadhgurujee🤞
Thank you 🥺
Thanks sadguru..
Good message
How we can forgive.
Excellent.
Loved it..
Very different version & vision.
What an insight
Thank you.
Nic too looking athe this reality
This is the saddest reality 😔 the betrayal still hurts though.
Jai sadguru swami pranam swami
Thought provoking
thankkk youuu
Thank you ... i am really need to here this ... xx
Mutiara Baby Do watch if u prefer, a quest for new life ,foundable on youtube as-
Three Genius | Triguna | Svyasa International yoga film |2017| /Q3gohvCjDn4
Best of 13 - Thank you ... i wll have a look ... cheers
I would be really happy if Sadguru makes new videos on black magic and ways to rise above its hazardous effects
Ashma yes...I agree
Thank soooo much once again 🙏
Thank you
Lov u guru ji.......I love the way u motivate us.....thanks alot guru ji..........u r a gem
How beautiful is that Gurudev!
Oh !
Thank you 🙏
Very Deep my master🙏🌿🙏🌿🙏🌿🙏🌿🙏🌿
Thank you sooo much gurujee
I mean we are taught By you my Guru that I am part of you and you are part of me. If this is true then wouldn’t it be normal to feel incomplete?
great
It's hard....it's very hard to forget nd also forgive...
Because punishing isn't in our hand. .
very apt
Thankyou Sadh
You punish someone not because of remorse because of fear you will have or a threat he or she poses or you may feel that even you have something to say to him or her that you have to. This is the tendency.
So so true. 🙏
amazing guru g....hatts off
Not completely satisfied with the discussion here. If not punish then what do you do? You move on or you forgive? How do you get over it? How do you heal yourself once your trust is broken?
That's what Sadhguru is trying to say that not to trust anyone a 100% because except for spiritual relationship with the Almighty, every other relationship is variable. We are no one to forgive or punish the ones who cheated us, KARMA will do that job for us. Rather, we should focus on our inner self and grow from that bad experience. One should have a constant conversation with the Almighty to heal from all these problems. Once you start that, HE will take over you the next time you face the problem. All the best!
Senora Fernandes move on. Forgiveness will come later
It is not saying anything about god and karma. It is simply that you can consciously separate yourself from feeling pain of betrayal. No one expects you to do it all of a sudden. Some amount of sadness will be there for some days. Venting it out, speaking to somebody may also be required in those days. But once you get in recovery phase, it is important to do right self talk to close the chapter. Forgiveness is not required either. Not now, not at any moment in your life. You may very well persuue legal path to punish this person. If no law is broken, still you are breaking bonds with the person.That is ok. The whole point is not allowing that pain to become integral part of your whole life. Whichever of above two may be the case, you have full power to decide how you want to live your life past that point. Happy or miserable. Self talk should contain some necessary components. According to sadguru you should see what type of assumptions about the person that he proved wrong. Then you will recognize that he was unworthy of so much trust. He had different priorities. Being loyal to you was not as the heighest priority of his. And after all it is not end of everything. That will close the chapter, will have a takeaway learning for you, separate you from pain after some days. As you will be separated from pain , you will be saved from sickening anger urges to punish. Though law or fate may still punish the person
I think the point is during your future relationships remember you're already whole without that person and that people are not perfect and will disappoint you if you give them that power. Also, you can enjoy people without putting so much pressure on them to do what makes you happy even when it no longer makes them happy.
Same here...trying to forget but everyday i survive ...its been difficult fr me to b spiritual even because that can b done peaceful mind not mind full of hatered....the more satisfying is when u see him regretting fr loosing u then fire which is burning will be extinguished
Great guruji
So beautiful
If only courts would recognise awakening to ultimate reality from illusionary state as positive grounds for divorce.
Hail Sadguru ji🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Not worthed to give somebody trouble, be good to all, we are fragile....
Then what should be my immediate next step when you are in this situation
Great satguru
most of the time he makes fun of any serious question asked by any troubled debotee. i remember he made fun about a guy who asked question about his suicidical thoughts. Altought I respect Sadguru and with his practical solutions to any problems
Perfect