Sadhguru - Punishing somebody is not going to transform you, don’t go that way!

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  • If somebody cheats on you, is it wrong to punish that person or to believe they will be punished one day?
    -Punishing somebody else is not going to transform your life,not going to make your life beautiful in anyway.
    -Some sick satisfaction you will have for two days,
    after that you will feel guilty about that also, don’t go that way.
    If somebody cheated you It's a great opportunity
    ...
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Komentáře • 259

  • @shonalivk1474
    @shonalivk1474 Před 6 lety +40

    Awesome
    true reality
    thank you guruji for moving us forward

  • @amritdutta5162
    @amritdutta5162 Před 5 lety +49

    No one cheated me...
    They just pushed me towards the ultimate reality from an illusionary state!!!😊

    • @sexymary
      @sexymary Před 2 měsíci

      I love this mindset..

  • @user-qe5lr2ok8p
    @user-qe5lr2ok8p Před 5 lety +52

    He is soooo right. You should be the loves of your lives. A healthy relationship consists of two independent individuals who can live without each other but do not wish so because they enjoy each others company. No need, no personal interest, just love. So if you have the feeling that you are the love of your life whenever anyone cheats on you, you will not take it personally or get hurt in the longterm. Ego is the only barrier. Get over it!

    • @teeahtate
      @teeahtate Před 3 lety +1

      You are the love of your life. Very good advice. I think the issue is we compare ourselves to others. We see others with love and we want the same for ourselves.

  • @almamia229
    @almamia229 Před 6 lety +154

    People that cheat are on a very low energy vibration. Thank them and leave them. Karma will take care them. That you can be sure of.

    • @richagoel1
      @richagoel1 Před 5 lety +17

      I'm really confused. Does it really exist? I've seen some person who badly cheated on his wife and kids and is very happy with another woman. I wonder when will karma work.

    • @kamals6624
      @kamals6624 Před 5 lety +12

      @@richagoel1 I think you would have seen only the outer layer of them, just do what you want to do in your life, everything will happen on its own when your effort is in your life on right path 👍

    • @thomasaustin3280
      @thomasaustin3280 Před 5 lety

      I hope so

    • @non_dual
      @non_dual Před 4 lety +6

      Why does karma need to take care of them? Either they will change by the amount of self inflicted pain, they will learn to control their negative sides (you can see this as karma). Or they will find someone who can accept them the way they are. Why is one option better than the other

    • @sundarrajan9223
      @sundarrajan9223 Před 3 lety +7

      @@richagoel1 We can never figure out Karma's ways. It will hit the person where it pains him the most and it will do it through a person they trust the most. May be it has already started working and that person and you have not realized it yet that karma has started weaving it's web around him.

  • @shrutis4661
    @shrutis4661 Před 6 lety +41

    It was hard for me to forgive someone but this video change my perception and now I m trying to forgive and forget that person

    • @NXT_LVL_DVL
      @NXT_LVL_DVL Před 3 lety

      What is your answer to your kids ?

  • @teeahtate
    @teeahtate Před 3 lety +48

    In other words, be the love of your own life. Powerful! You cannot depend on people for your own happiness. Relationships are not absolute, they are variables-always unknown and constantly changing.

    • @vicsidhu1300
      @vicsidhu1300 Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you I was seeking for that exact answer. Love you sadguru
      We are blessed to have your presence and your guidance in our day to day obstacles of life. He is truly among us always making us stronger with wisdom, focus, being one with who we are and to complete our purpose on earth as human species. I cannot sleep without some simple words from sadhguru and when feeling down sadhguru tops up my energy and keeps me focused on my purpose. Thank you so much 🙏😇🙏

  • @Sunilkumar-ob7wo
    @Sunilkumar-ob7wo Před 6 lety +24

    When i feel that life is boring
    And i feel like dying
    Sadhguru changed my mentality
    Thanku sadhguru😘

    • @organizedmicrowave4414
      @organizedmicrowave4414 Před 4 lety +1

      I think it's time you find it in you to change yourself, so that one day you may stay in such a blissful state without Sadhguru or anyone for that matter. Inner Engineer yourself to become ectastic and indomitable.

  • @nickysmith1865
    @nickysmith1865 Před 4 lety +11

    This man speaks a lot of sense i would love to just sit and talk to him he has a lot of wisdom

  • @Mahanaim7299
    @Mahanaim7299 Před 6 lety +64

    The wisdom I hear here is more than all the wisdom I have heard in all of my life.

  • @caruetd-rblx1562
    @caruetd-rblx1562 Před 6 lety +17

    It's hard truth, as soon as I except it I will be fine too. And I excepted. Finding everyday little little happiness works well. 😊 it's my life and I will give it what I can...

  • @joy2694
    @joy2694 Před 6 lety +54

    If someone ruined you and they are enjoying their life, so many emotions boil up in within, it's difficult to cope. Ok, you move on, but you turn slient, you shut everyone out, you forget living. Over the period of time, you forgive also, but you can't re-live. Only one can know the depth of his pain. It's excruciating, extra ordinary, life changing.

    • @janeyd5280
      @janeyd5280 Před 6 lety +4

      Joy hi, the pain of finding the love of your life cheated is the worst pain in the world as you thought more of that person than he really was. I my cheater aboned his children too. this affected them both very badly which in turn was a double blow to me. the cheater only thinks of himself. and the pain May go away but it can come back. I'm 65 and it still hurts me. he is now on his 3rd marriage and she knows his past. what kind of person is she. he got his karma when 2nd wife left him. so I have a question for anyone on here. is that his karma sorted and he can now go on happily with 3rd wife who doesn't have his children but someone else's.? xx

    • @janeyd5280
      @janeyd5280 Před 6 lety +2

      was trying to say my cheater abandoned his children with me and put second wife before them. but his karma was that she left him while he was at work. lol

    • @ultrainstinctO7
      @ultrainstinctO7 Před 3 lety +3

      Happened with me, I am still dealing with trust issues. I am 27 now, it's 9 years now after she cheated on me. I don't flirt or if they flirt I tell them not to do that. I talk to females but have no female friends. I am so afraid of facing these thing again that I have shut everything out. don't know where my future will lead 🤷

    • @HemalathaKiniA
      @HemalathaKiniA Před 3 lety

      Agreed

    • @nincnanc
      @nincnanc Před 2 lety +1

      @@ultrainstinctO7 I'm with you my friend. I can't help you but I understand you. I hope you a happy life.

  • @jones6686
    @jones6686 Před 4 lety +6

    what makes this so great is that without having to be made to believe it or told that this is fact you know that its true because it makes sense. its just true.

  • @DurjaySarkar
    @DurjaySarkar Před 5 lety +11

    I wish i could get This knowledge one year ago. But still knowing all these now making me a better person. Thanks 🙏 sadhguru

  • @alisonguidry7952
    @alisonguidry7952 Před 7 měsíci

    I have been struggling so much with anger from being betrayed so many times. This video is really helping me let go of the anger. I am grateful that I know now and not later when I am old and unable to do anything. Now, I am still young. I have options. I can rebuild my finances. I can rebuild my life. It’s never too late to change but it’s much better to change now while I can, while I am still young and healthy.

  • @jones6686
    @jones6686 Před 4 lety +5

    This is one of the wise men I've added to my collection. He is proving to be a very interesting and helpful addition.

  • @rajinisai1387
    @rajinisai1387 Před 3 lety +4

    I am loving his eye opening speeches and my fingers not letting to change any other channel programs including comedy which is my favourite

  • @SHANMUGHAVALLIS
    @SHANMUGHAVALLIS Před 6 lety +9

    Such an excellent and literally EYE-OPENING talk. Thank you Sadhguru 🙏

  • @mohammadafshar7270
    @mohammadafshar7270 Před 3 lety +2

    i agree ,when you hurt them back
    later you realize or feel not well,
    AT ALL

  • @ashishbarjatya2983
    @ashishbarjatya2983 Před 6 lety +20

    Sadhguru is Genius Fantabulous and an enlightened Master

  • @41lakshmi
    @41lakshmi Před 6 lety +2

    Nothing but the truth...thank You SadhGuru!

  • @manuelaalboreto2280
    @manuelaalboreto2280 Před 6 lety +10

    :0 I like the Sadhtguru say to us his opinion ! Thanks

  • @valleyjams362
    @valleyjams362 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you to OnePath and Thank you to Sadhguru Ji Aum

  • @cilihorvath9609
    @cilihorvath9609 Před 6 lety +7

    Reminding me just on time. Merci

    • @silverprad
      @silverprad Před 6 lety

      cili horvath If life is complete by itself, then why did nature created 2 genders and gave them the instincts to be together for feeling harmony? why do only certain person feels very special to you while others are just normal? if you respect nature, then respect it's purpose.. relationship can be absolute and harmonious with the right person.. and he said only relationship with God stands over time and human relationships are not.. but a mother's relationship with her child over time is the most absolute relation that even God would get envy of.. no offense but sadhguru's idea of relationship is for himself based on his own illusion.. but not for everyone.. the solution he is offering is called "Escapism".. pls don't escape from what life throws at you.. remember: Pain breaks you at first but will also build you back stronger for a higher purpose.. so don't run away from relationships.. anything that doesn't go with the flow of life is not spirituality at all..

  • @michaelredding1130
    @michaelredding1130 Před 2 lety +1

    I always knew this in youth ,but I had to experience it in real life to know it also solidifying the truth of it.

  • @himanijoshi1811
    @himanijoshi1811 Před 6 lety +4

    Thank you for this !!! God bless

  • @adityamohite4791
    @adityamohite4791 Před 4 lety +3

    Love yourself like you love him/her😏😉

  • @uzuyoga
    @uzuyoga Před 3 lety +3

    Brilliant, Sadhguru, as usual. Thanks, baba, for sharing your wisdom with us all.

  • @1perle
    @1perle Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you Sadhguru!

  • @ariessachin
    @ariessachin Před 5 lety +3

    Incrediblely Said! Love you and more power to you SG :)

  • @marygaysilvero1063
    @marygaysilvero1063 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Sadhguru. This helps me to realized a certain situation that's happening in my life at the moment.

  • @manalizaveri02
    @manalizaveri02 Před 6 lety +2

    Thank you Sadhguru...

  • @ramanip.r3793
    @ramanip.r3793 Před 2 lety

    HERE IS A EXAMPLARY GURU SADHGURU 🤗🤗🤗🤗 WITH THE MOST PRACTICAL WAY OF HANDLING. SITUATIONS . TRUE TRANSFORMATION 🔥🔥🔥🔥 OM NAMAH SHIVAYA

  • @caruetd-rblx1562
    @caruetd-rblx1562 Před 6 lety +10

    This feeling also works well, I didn't cheat , but got cheated, now moving with the hope I can try to give better things to lthe ife. 😀

    • @manjunair4943
      @manjunair4943 Před 6 lety +1

      sadguru is genious ..i really like the way he speaks it really touchs the heart he is my guru

  • @MNC29NAT
    @MNC29NAT Před 3 lety

    This is what we need to know and much needed wisdom.

  • @isagive
    @isagive Před 2 lety

    This is spot on. Repeated listening is required i think.
    Just to be able to ignore internal automatic objections.

  • @verasaucedo8876
    @verasaucedo8876 Před 3 lety +1

    I love to listen to to you but I have to listen very carefully.
    But you are a hoot and not in BBB a disrespectful way !!
    Enjoy you very much ...

  • @kokis9561
    @kokis9561 Před 4 lety +1

    U r Great sadguru Ji.. We must be thought with all u r speech. When we were in school .. life would have been much better

  • @sareetakumari6665
    @sareetakumari6665 Před 6 lety +3

    Practical and fulfill with the problem

  • @HemalathaKiniA
    @HemalathaKiniA Před 3 lety

    I so needed this Sadhguru. Thanks a zillion. God Bless.

  • @pekotunes
    @pekotunes Před 3 lety +1

    This is the saddest reality 😔 the betrayal still hurts though.

  • @titirhalder1524
    @titirhalder1524 Před 6 lety +1

    soo true...n it really makes ur life easy n happy wth such wonderful thought..

  • @antarimachakraborty9797
    @antarimachakraborty9797 Před 4 lety +2

    It's hard....it's very hard to forget nd also forgive...
    Because punishing isn't in our hand. .

  • @teromanner1202
    @teromanner1202 Před 2 lety

    I always admire Sadhguru, but this one left me speechless, really. I think it's best to rethink my mindset. 👁️

  • @manjular3678
    @manjular3678 Před 6 lety +1

    Namaskaram SADHGURU.
    I enjoyed this Video. Thanks

  • @change_your_stars3262
    @change_your_stars3262 Před 2 lety

    This video probably saved my life and changed it for the better!

  • @bhairavenelaitambi873
    @bhairavenelaitambi873 Před 5 lety

    Simply Insightful.♡

  • @carmenonea3800
    @carmenonea3800 Před 6 lety +6

    Brilliant

  • @Butterflyechoes
    @Butterflyechoes Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Dear God for guiding me to the right path 🙏🏻

  • @mutiarababy2000
    @mutiarababy2000 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you ... i am really need to here this ... xx

    • @smileforyourself4303
      @smileforyourself4303 Před 6 lety

      Mutiara Baby Do watch if u prefer, a quest for new life ,foundable on youtube as-
      Three Genius | Triguna | Svyasa International yoga film |2017| /Q3gohvCjDn4

    • @mutiarababy2000
      @mutiarababy2000 Před 6 lety +1

      Best of 13 - Thank you ... i wll have a look ... cheers

  • @raji1952
    @raji1952 Před 6 lety

    Pranam Master, it's true and very beautifully said. Thank you

  • @evanfrancisca9674
    @evanfrancisca9674 Před 2 lety +1

    If only courts would recognise awakening to ultimate reality from illusionary state as positive grounds for divorce.

  • @Maria-ep4hv
    @Maria-ep4hv Před 5 lety +1

    Amazing analogy

  • @m.fender2989
    @m.fender2989 Před 6 lety +2

    Great!

  • @AnkitMishra-oz6ix
    @AnkitMishra-oz6ix Před 6 lety +2

    Pranam Sadhguru

  • @padmabai4217
    @padmabai4217 Před 6 lety +9

    Excellent.
    Loved it..
    Very different version & vision.

  • @gyanlama8879
    @gyanlama8879 Před 6 lety

    Beautiful speech and speechless

  • @MaryamAli-vd1xv
    @MaryamAli-vd1xv Před 6 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing

  • @shaunakm8830
    @shaunakm8830 Před 6 lety +4

    most of the time he makes fun of any serious question asked by any troubled debotee. i remember he made fun about a guy who asked question about his suicidical thoughts. Altought I respect Sadguru and with his practical solutions to any problems

  • @rohitjaiswal8116
    @rohitjaiswal8116 Před 6 lety

    Thanks sadguru..

  • @DarkDivineDepth
    @DarkDivineDepth Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @nathgo5331
    @nathgo5331 Před 6 lety +2

    Thank u

  • @adolcristin3526
    @adolcristin3526 Před rokem

    Thank you 🥺

  • @TatiainGreece
    @TatiainGreece Před 3 lety

    The wiser the best guru is Sadhuguru

  • @kidsonlineschoolby8051
    @kidsonlineschoolby8051 Před 3 lety +1

    The rational thought makes sense.
    In short this video comes up with a notion.
    " Be a human * Not GOD. when it comes to punishment.
    U can b angry but don't b GOD.
    HE is the ultimate reality & Only HE is constant.
    We r no one to punish.
    Be a human.
    That's the message for humanity on deeper level.
    PEACE OUT 🕊️

  • @sharonkour9721
    @sharonkour9721 Před 6 lety

    Great words thank you

  • @maywin4204
    @maywin4204 Před 4 lety +1

    Not worthed to give somebody trouble, be good to all, we are fragile....

  • @kruparajinikruparajini7437

    Good message

  • @kurtkemo3694
    @kurtkemo3694 Před 2 lety

    The best 10 minutes I ever spent.

  • @samhunsur6141
    @samhunsur6141 Před 6 lety +3

    You punish someone not because of remorse because of fear you will have or a threat he or she poses or you may feel that even you have something to say to him or her that you have to. This is the tendency.

  • @soenitaajhagjhoorsingh2419

    Very true Sadhgurujee🤞

  • @ashmadahal3938
    @ashmadahal3938 Před 6 lety +1

    I would be really happy if Sadguru makes new videos on black magic and ways to rise above its hazardous effects

    • @urmibh
      @urmibh Před 6 lety

      Ashma yes...I agree

  • @cameronokeefe8446
    @cameronokeefe8446 Před 2 lety

    Also “we must thank that person”??? I am without words. This is reckless to tell an entire audience of people who have potentially been abused. I mean there’s stuff in this video I agree with but the ending-

  • @maywin4204
    @maywin4204 Před 4 lety

    Very good Sadguru....thank you.

  • @romanastrasheim4895
    @romanastrasheim4895 Před 5 lety

    Thank you.

  • @trws97
    @trws97 Před 3 lety +1

    It's like raining wisdom.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @deblinasinha5932
    @deblinasinha5932 Před 5 lety

    What an insight

  • @sarownrai6363
    @sarownrai6363 Před 6 lety +2

    Jai sadguru swami pranam swami

  • @nehanishi6132
    @nehanishi6132 Před 6 lety +4

    amazing guru g....hatts off

  • @TheLuckett1
    @TheLuckett1 Před 2 lety

    thankkk youuu

  • @swetarajrout.
    @swetarajrout. Před 6 lety

    Thank you

  • @michelstamour7382
    @michelstamour7382 Před 6 lety +2

    Nic too looking athe this reality

  • @sachinmehta7992
    @sachinmehta7992 Před 6 lety +1

    Thought provoking

  • @shivaji735
    @shivaji735 Před 6 lety

    Great guruji

  • @Asmrkiwiii
    @Asmrkiwiii Před 3 lety

    Thank you 🙏

  • @raghavendraprasad8750
    @raghavendraprasad8750 Před 2 lety

    very apt

  • @cameronokeefe8446
    @cameronokeefe8446 Před 2 lety

    And when people break such an understanding in such a disrespectful and childish way.. they hurt others which is terrible because this is known to cause trauma especially in children with cheating parents. I wish the Guru had talked more about dealing with pain in this vid.

  • @manuelaalboreto2280
    @manuelaalboreto2280 Před 6 lety +4

    Oh !

  • @santoshmaharaj8992
    @santoshmaharaj8992 Před 6 lety +2

    great

  • @aysemustafa6088
    @aysemustafa6088 Před 2 lety

    Thank soooo much once again 🙏

  • @jamiyatraimakhijani5151

    Hail Sadguru ji🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nobodyI369
    @nobodyI369 Před 3 lety

    Sadhguru🙏💚

  • @Rooochiii
    @Rooochiii Před 2 lety

    So so true. 🙏

  • @mitalipal8622
    @mitalipal8622 Před 5 lety

    How beautiful is that Gurudev!

  • @DF-te2vm
    @DF-te2vm Před 3 lety

    Thankyou Sadh

  • @facto20023
    @facto20023 Před 5 lety

    Lov u guru ji.......I love the way u motivate us.....thanks alot guru ji..........u r a gem

  • @ravalimogili7469
    @ravalimogili7469 Před 2 lety

    Thank you sooo much gurujee

  • @mohankumarchaubey9839
    @mohankumarchaubey9839 Před 4 lety

    Very Deep my master🙏🌿🙏🌿🙏🌿🙏🌿🙏🌿

  • @rimonritu9992
    @rimonritu9992 Před 6 lety

    So beautiful

  • @princej9883
    @princej9883 Před rokem

    I need friends to talk i got cheated and left without explanation by the person I loved truly

  • @garimatalkk7420
    @garimatalkk7420 Před 5 lety

    Great satguru