Shaadi Ki Umar Hogayi || Captain Nick
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Ab Tak it wasn’t necessary but aaj kuch logon ko yeh video samaj ne mein difficultly horahi hai.
Let me write the video concept also since video ke through yeh kuch log abhi bhi nahi samaj pa rahe.
The idea of this video is really simple -
1.It is against the negativity of society, jo 4 log aapke ghar ki baatein bahar discuss karte hain, and rumours spread karte hain.
2. Jab family, unnecessarily aapke private family matters ko relatives Tak extend karti hain, jahan se woh baat dusre relatives tak jaati and aise hi sabko aapke ghar ki baat pataa chal jati hai.
3. Shaadi ki umar na nikal jaye bas isliye, bina background check kiye ladki ki shadi karva dena.
Although, being feminist is not a wrong idea, but mere videos ke through I’ve never said ki bas career banao, shadi mat karo, akele raho, men are bad or anything like that, cz I don’t believe in these ideas to promote them in the very first place.
I make videos jahan 10 out of 8 times my only message is, ki family ki baat family tak rahe, bahar waale toh bolenge hi, unke darr se apne ghar ka mahol na bigaadein.
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So.. Much right Niharika didi❤you are best nd your opinion videos are so.. Good ❤🔥love you di🖤
Its true dear.
Same situation going with me, real life 😘
Meri to 30 nii hui h didaa phir b life me un so called char logo ki wajah se jingi narak ho rkhi h🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ family b nahi smjhti yarr apki to phir b understanding h!!!🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️ Bs paisa dekh lete log to fek do ldki ko uske yha....
Pta ni kb un char logo ki maut aayegi
Ekdm dil se nikala h na di?!!!!
Smjh rhi mai jbb aap mataji ko smjha rhe the tb
Maturity is realising that this is not only funny content.
The truth of society and message for society included in video 🥰
Agreed from the core of my heart
Yes
@@tanujajoshi1362 what's ur age?
True
You missed one truth and message about marriage (for my life my rules girls) : difficult to find good grooms for marriage due to overage ( they realise marriage is important after 35 and being ready for marriage but eligable grooms aren't available and boys want yonger girls for wedding)....
Niharika's obsession for shaadi contents 🗿
Edit : I have never got these many likes.. Thank you so much 🤪💖
She slays it everytime so why not?
Kyuki bhai wahi chalta hai 😭also this is my favorite topic
Gher wale sach me shadi shadi hi krte rhte hain
@@improveyourself1654 true AF
Hope it never leaves her tbh
As a 31 year unmarried girl I can relate this so much !!! I literally cried
As a 32 year I m also unmarried bahot tress hota hai rona bhi ata hai kya karu samaj nahi ata bahot frustration hota hai
Aur yaha 18 ki hu or family aise karte hai jaise 30 ki hu 😫😭😭
@@diyamoni563 SAME am 23 and rishta aate h said no to them..meri masi mami mujhe haa khne k lia smjhate h but we do not know anything about the boy....my mom and relatives say " when u cross 19 and become 20 u r already old"..."abhise ldka dekhna shuru krna chaye"..etc etc....good marriage is good luck
Same. I can totally relate.
@@diyamoni563 25 tak shadi kar lena varna ager der ho gayi to der hi hoti rahegi
“Saare ache ladake nikal jaayege”this line is fited in every girl’s life…😢😢😢
🙂yeah
Damn true 😢
Or ye khi na khi sach bi h😢
@@Anushri234 sach me????
Damn true
Hats off to you Niharika....... your way of demonstrating evil social practice and telling it's harsh reality is epic..........This really gave me chills in the backbone
Evil practice?
Shruti ka story mein boli naa... forced marriage,extra marital affairs... her mental health getting neglected...
@@aelenak no....extra marital affairs are.....
Practical bt boli h😑😑😑😑
Yes really, I have seen her 1st time..
Each and every things was so particular and correct things..
So real.. these things really happens...
That line about break of girls confidence when girls are rejected by their photos........it hits me so hurt......... I'm facing all the these shit about more than 3 years 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
who are seeing only looks for marriage are most stupid people.... wether its girl or boy.... looks is just temporary when we love any person he or she automatically looks beautiful
Sending a very tight hug to you. Stay strong. Things will get better for us. We will come out from this shit, stronger and better. But I'm gonna be honest, society's bitterness is highly contagious like I feel irritated becuz of these standards all the time.
Their rejections leaves us guessing what's wrong with us. I totally get u. I wish all the girls dealing with similar situations get a non-toxic partner soon.❤️
@@deekshadwivedi4507 Thankyou so much dear ❤️❤️❤️
@@lakshmirani3898 its the biological law by nature for straight persons which is a women is primarily a beauty object for men and men are primarily a success object for women. So not only women got rejected for their look , men also rejected based on their financial capabilities in a huge manner , mainly during arrange marriage system.
Bro it's their fault who are rejecting you. You are beautiful in a unique way.
"Shruti aapko call kyun nahi karte "?
That silence was really loud dude.
Today I've realised one thing that youtubers are also contributing so much to the society ❤....and Niharika di has done her part through this video...🙏🤗... And I request the parents and families please keep things to your immediate family only and don't bother by others...🙏
She is damn talented.
Huge respect for her.
How beautifully she brings out society norms.
Hatts off to her hard work and great contents.
Nice
I literally cried , i m 31 this year nd fat , photo se reject hona nd attitude dikha rhi is common hurtful things i listen everyday 😭
I am 29 and getting married next month. That line "meri umar nikal gai aur sab achhe ladke shaadi karke bachhe paida karne me lage hai" I felt that😅 ab jo bacha hai usse kar rahi hu shaadi🤣
Same happen with me.. at the age of 28 . Jab koi ladka mujhe pasand nhi aaya to jo ladka meri family ko shi lga use se kar rhe h. Jbki wo ladka merko acha nhi lga..lekin bina mere puche rista pakka kar diya.
Are you guys doing ok? i am in a similar situation. i found a guy, who is a good man, but I don't like him that much. We have no connection,but just because I know he will not turn out be abusive, I am thinking maybe this is it! Too tired of waiting for the right guy.
I honestly cried a little bit after watching your monologue....more than 3 years..daily ka struggle hai bhai..sahab....daily ...my question changed from "kab sudhregi ye duniya?" to "nhi sudhregi ye duniya "...I just accepted the fact.
Same ..
Same here
More power to you. You’ll get a good guy InshaAllah dont worry
Same here😞
Us bro us
I am 26 year old ,married..feel bad for those who have to hear shitty things from society about marriage.. beacause just getting married is not important but getting married to right man or right woman is more important.. otherwise living peaceful alone life is better..🙏
Khud married ho aur dusro ko salah de rhe ho .mat kro.....waah didi waah
@@cyclosporine-a2829 she probably found right person early
@@cyclosporine-a2829may b she understood the consequences of marriage early🤭, anyway jokes apart, i think u didn't get the comment she never said shadi mat karo she said shi insan se kro , there's a difference between them baki to sab apni marzi h ap chaho to 16 sal me karlo shadi
@@bsachdev492 are koi na dii....Maine toh aaise hi faltu me comment kr Diya tha 😁😁......waise Mera mann'na hai ki Hari 🙏 hme manpasand chij nhi dete h Jo milta hai usse khush rehna chahea
This is exactly what happens in every household. The part where you got serious in the conversation, trying to communicate with mom. And also the words ' kya me bojh lagti hu' really touched me. Lots of love to you❤️.
Hats off to you captain ❤️
No words to say how damn relatable this is.. the pressure and the emotional blackmailing..
The way you brought the frustration out of all the girls, Respect 🙌
Maturity is when you realise that this video was made out of frustration and the daily situation that a girl faces everyday. Thanks for sharing and making a video on this topic.
The mother-daughter conversation over marriage in the beginning felt like it's me and my mom 🙂
Us bro us🥲🥲🥲
Same here
Same here
Being 25 and unmarried is too difficult.
Same Mei guarantee chiki hu is truma se....
By God's grace now I'm happily married...Alhumdullilah
Tbh the part where u were discussing with ur mom, i literally was crying, big heart to u ma'am. U spoke everything which I m just keeping inside me
For the first time she made me emotional. Yes, I did cry...very relatable. Reality exposed with a realistic acting. 💗
Its so relatable..I am in my 30s and same issue..reject hote hote self confidence ki dhajjiyan ud gyi..Thankgod my parents are not pressurising me and I am doing my Ph.D successfully..really need break from "shaadi" thing 😒 Really appreciate your content🙌🙏
Hope u will meet your special one soon ❤
@@sydneydiaries8470 thanks dear but mere parents hi interested nhi hain 😅 khud hi dhundhna padega koi 😢
@@learners_zone007 omg same kind of issue with me
@@importantstuff3370 all the best dear
@@importantstuff3370 focus on your career and then find someone..that's the option we have 😅
You said everything I wanted to say... I have been in this situation for th past 2-3 yrs where I used to fight with my parents almost everyday. I wish I could have expressed my feelings better like you. But finally my time came and I found a guy and everything is falling into places slowly. I think we as parents will behave better than our parents generation. We can't do anything about this society now.
I am 30 and unmarried and now decided to be like that coz I knw it’s not possible to make everyone understand my point of view and what I want.
I live my life I do my work I pursue higher studies and I am happy.There is no point of getting married just because everyone is doing that.Jab tak samajh me na aaye mat karo.Peacefully rehna is more important.
It is not easy for people to understand ki sirf package k liye shadi nahi ki jaati hai.Everyone is earning well these days.
Exactly my point yaar
me bhi boht torture jhelti shadi ko lekr.. me khud success hona chahti hu
Great 👍 thought
Very well put up
Even I am about to be 30 and yet pursuing UPSC CSE
And well...i am happy this way😎
Jab budhapa ayega tab ye earning bhi kam nahi ati jitna life partner kam ata he... end me tum dono hi reh jaggery...pese dene par do din koi kam karne ayega badme pese Udine par bhi koi nahi milta budhe logo ke Kan ke liye ...abhi young he to hath per chal rahe he jab hath per nahi chalenge sahi se to ek iodex bhi nahi laga paogee khudse isliye wakt rehte achhe riste karlo.. married girl...
Aap har baar hasaa deti ho.. Aaj rula diya!! 🥺🥺
I think this is what goes on in every household that has an unmarried girl in the age group of 27-35. Thank u for putting this out for us. Sending it to mum and mamaji ASAP. And that cousin angle is damn spot on. Thanks a ton.
This video really left me thinking about it for hours. Why aren't we able to find the so called true love like our elder siblings did? And why aren't we even ready to settle for something less than that like our parents did? Alike many others, I too have tried and failed. So even when I want to settle with someone, why am I too lazy to look for that someone, and if I do then why can't I find the one? I finally realized that the 90s kids are basically undergoing a collective form of disillusionment! We are aware of the impending dystopian world that is dawning upon us. We don't want to bring children in a world that's polluted, filled with crime and might end soon! We also don't want to compromise because why would we? We don't need anyone to rely on. We have bought ourselves comfortable lives and houses. So, altogether I feel that we are aware of the need to find someone, but too lazy to look or too lazy to work towards making it happen. If we try, we are not ready to compromise or let someone into our comfort zone. This hyper independence combined with the feeling of not wanting to settle for less or the awareness of the world nearing it's worst can be a reason that we want to be able to enjoy whatever life we have left on this planet in peace. And I think it's true for all genders alike.
#fragments of my thoughts.
Bahi mei 24 ki ho phir v pareshan ho gyi hu
@@madhumitaPaul1998 that must be such a pain. Forward this video to them to slap some sense into their stubborn heads.
True, I'm 26 now... Me and my parents daily have these conversation, words are exactly the same in this videos..
jitna agree karu utna kam he!
Exactly
Am a mother of a teenage girl - must say u prorated me to deal with such sensitivities 🙏🏻. U r a gem niharika
Means a lot 🙏❤️ thank you
So relatable.I got bit emotional.Being into a family of four daughters,I can completely relate this.Even though My parents tried their best to obstruct the societal pressure of marriage ,at times it became so difficult for them and it’s really heartbreaking to see your parents so helpless 😢
i didnt get a single smile while watching it .
its very heart wrenching reality!!!
i faced all this at the age of 23 and *the worst inhuman thing in whole toxic process is when girls is getting rejected for any nonsense reason, girls family also start blaming their own daughter*
This is so true!!😔
@@Disha_J06 i can feel it personally!! you should be strong Disha.
7:00 I literally cried after seeing this scene 🙃
Same yrrr
Meee tooo yar.....
Me too yaar...
Me too
Me too yr
7:45 the part where you got serious and tried having a simple conversation with your mom but she ended up dragging you back to square one was so infuriatingly relatable.
I admire you a lot for your talent of conveying a strong message while entertaining us at the same time, Nick!
I'm just grateful for my parents, they're the coolest ever. They've never told me that marriage is compulsory or anything, always have put my career and studies first, taught me to be independent. Shaadi is totally on me and completely my choice.
Dam this made me cry it's so true and relatable , Parents consider society first then their own kids
The way this girl made our life so much better
3:13 that photo dekhkar rejection wali bat hitted very hard 😥😥 No matter how many people tell me that looks don't matter, I know that they do. Throughout my life, my family has constantly reminded me that I'm not attractive which has caused me to have low self-confidence even though I have achieved great things in my life such as being a topper in school, having three years of job experience, writing a mystery thriller novel that has gained 170k+ reads, and coming second in a national essay writing competition where 40k+ students participated. Despite all this, at the age of 21, I still feel like no boy will be interested in me because of my appearance.
What ! Your parents are forcing you to marry at the age of 21 ! Behen apne parents ke chakkar me apni life kabhi mat kharab karna. Isse accha koi job dundo aur alag raho apne parents se.
@@dikshasuman After my graduation exams were over, I was able to secure a job with TechMahindra within 4 days of last exam. Unfortunately, after working there for 3 months, I was forced to leave the job by my family. To stay afloat, I am currently doing internships and part-time work without informing them, as they do not want me to work.
You are too young dear, don't let these kind of experience pull u down.
Society wants everything in a girl, Beauty with brains as well as money.....if it will be beauty then also chances are not good may be better than the so called non-attractive ones(acc. to society), then also there is possibility for girl facing difficulty in marital life.
You just focus on your part, I hope u get to meet someone who in many ways will suit u well.
Don't leave you financial opportunities for anyone....fight for ur life dear girl., no one comes for help in difficult situations, God help those who help themselves try to stick with it.
You know what these things are even forbidden in islam . Watch nouman ali khan lectures and try to make your parents understand that through them ............
@@Wonder_Voice beauty lies in the eyes of beholder!!! Always remember this. Allah created everything and everyone beautiful. No one is worthless . Every person born on this earth has a meaningful purpose.Stay strong girls.
As a 30 years old, I can relate to it. 😢
Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰
Tu bi kuwari hai kya Mulli tu log to apne bhai se shaadi kar leti ho hahahaha 🤪🤪😁🤣
I really don't know how you spoke everything that a girl wants to voice out so easily❤️
Being a girl I can say each and every word u said is so damn true...that picture one which boys put on profile of 8-10yrs old is damn true...being a girl we put latest pictures but men don't..
Men have to be rich.. who have generational wealth .. proper job.. "sarkari naukari".. it's not like boys have it easier
@@BhaktManomandirVihariniUma no one is saying that bro. We agree that both men and women have to face these stereotypical implementations that women should be pretty and men should be wealthy. Pls dont see this as an attack
@@paraathakare1851 I am just clarifying.. because nowdays Men hate is trend lol..
@the fear files - it’s been since decades, but this video is not intended towards any kind of hate for men.
It’s in general for “society” and the video is from feminine view point because I’m a female and I could portray this better bas.
@@BhaktManomandirVihariniUma bhai men are mocking and hating women by memes like women ☕ & glorifying eve teasing, perverts, harassment against women by memes like "men will be men", I have seen hateful comments by men even on periods related content. Hm women ko defend nhi kar rahe par Hate to bhai men hi phaila rahe hai.
You literally portrayed my life Nick.😂😂
Meri bhi yrr
Same 🥲
Same
Same
Same 😔
Fantastic video. Touched my heart. I was almost 😢 & had bouts of hearty laughter as well. You have put across such a sensitive topic so beautifully.
Hats off
Harsh reality , the monologue is the actual feelings of mine and many more 🥺 , lots of respect to you Nick ❤️
I knew you couldn't live without marriage content😂❤
I like how she brings a serious topic in a funny way ❤️✨
So true ....so relatable..nice to see I am not the only one stuck in this situation...thank you ❤
Didi u r absolutely an amazing actor plus script writer..... Can feel every single word of yours 🙂🙂
She literally cried explaining the whooleeeee situation to her mom
👀💖
7:35 totally real story of Indian society....truth said brutally
Pakistanis also have to face the same situation..😥
I can't describe how accurately you have expressed the emotion of a woman! Matlab seriously...Kudos to your acting! Legit amazing! 👏
Oh my god!! You made me cry and laugh at the same time.😃
Felt like you expressed my feelings..
exactly relatable.
Conclusion- don't take stress of marriage,just let it go 🤣🤣😂
Niharika, you are doing a great job. Marriage is not a necessity, it's just an option. Girls are not a pressure to family and settling with a guy is not an only motive of girl's life. Thank you for discussing this topic in this way.. thank you so much ❤️
I agree with you and totally support your thoughts .....bt today's family and society doesn't understand this 🥲 they all are ready to throw the girls into their so called reputation and all those nonsense thinks...😔
Yeah
Marriage is not necessity
It's just an option.
Your content is totally disclosing our societial structure and there behaviour towards youngsters. It may also help in the changing the thinking process and behaviour of old minded people.
You are amazing diii 👏👏👏
We want more videos on societial evil practices.
Love you di
❤️🔥🤩🥳
Thank You
Yaarrr i can relate to each & every word you're saying🥺😢 Love you Captain Nick! You never fail to win our hearts🥺♥️✨
Being 18 year old girl i think this video was totally a good message to our so called society
All 25+ girls can relate to this 😂
You meant women not girls
@@cosyappy7115 shut up
@@cosyappy7115 lol. Do you know the difference between a girl and a woman?
@@surbhimishra1649 😊
Hats off to you Nick ❤️ thanks for choosing this concept I think 90 % of girls are struggling with this
This is best video.. totally relatable to each and every girl who is about to get married
Niharika di frustration dil se nikla tha aisa lag raha h 😂 mast video ek ek baat sach the har family mei same scenes 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻😂
it's 101 percent relatable to my situation right now, it literally felt like she just came to about my life and nailed it here ..... but still there is no choice left at the end , everything is just and fair for sake of marriage according to Indian society
Me too
Hats off di..What u have show cased in this video is the reality... Almost while watching half of the video am crying... I have shared this video to my family too... hope they understand this. generation
Awesome Nick...dil tak pohchi aapki baatein aaj..d feelings were damn genuine...har ladki ke dilki baat kahi hai aapne aaj is video mein..hats off to u dear..
True🥺 so relevant at the age of 29 I can totally relate to this ❤️
Same
Same.how you are dealing with this?
Bahot zyada tough hain.mere younger siblings ki marriage ka pressure bhi muj pe aa raha hain.
@@rnv6261 Same situation as mine
Same yr 27
When Marriage is most important thing in our society than career 😤
What ??are you serious career important nhi hai sirf shaadi important h gajab baat ki apne
@@shobhanagadan704 say that you're being sarcastic......
Resonated so well 😂😂 sabka yhi haal hai 😅
Niharika lot of love.. aapne kitne acche se hum sab ki is situation ko beautifully convey kiya h👍 thnx..
Damnnnnnn, was waiting for thisss only. 😍😍This is what weekends feel like, laughing and spreading happiness by sharing this with everyone....
Loads of respect and love Nick 💗💗💗💗💗 literally the same arguments at home everyday n yes M 32 and literally koi ladka nahi bacha hai iss duniya main mere Umar nikal gayi for the society 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same here..
I literally cried watching this video....u r too gud🥺
This was really needed now. Thanks for showing the inner voice that is always shut in Our 4walls of rooms in which it was yet to be recognized or heard....really great 😁😘👍
Oh man, I am around your age, and I literally hear all these experiences from my friends and cousins! Hats off to you! I have been following you for so long, you have grown so much! Lots of love!❤
I wish i could show this video to my parents such a brilliant message i feel like crying and also having tears.. facing same issues..
Awesomeeee,,,, it's just awesome.. no other words.. its exact the reality,, I think out of 10 , 9 (9/10 )ladies can relate this story to der own. Almost 90-95% ladies face this in der life.. Niharika ji u r just great 🙏
So so soooo Relatable 🙏🏻.........She is hitting hard this time 'ladki nipat Jaye ' .....Thank u Niharika for this .
As a 26 year unmarried girl, I can relate to this... I want to send this to my mother
31 unmarried
26 only 🙄🙄
Only 26??your family is obsessed with your marriage??
Turning 30 this year and shaadi woh kya hoti hai?? 😂😂
@@ituxsoni same,and still not ready for marriage.
Literally tears in my eyes... Totally releatable reality..... Going to show it to my family... Hope they understand ✌
100% reality check, very realistic content...
This is relatable AF 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Disclaimer - This channel is very addictive.
Love you niharika di 💖💖
Huge respect to you!!! The way you pulled this off is really praiseworthy!!
out of the box ...i cant exprrss how much i enjoyed...
By heart hogya hai mujhe ye sab 😂😂 epic line
Thoda emotional ho gya mere liye......I hope every parent should watch this episode. Lovely Niharika di.. 😘
Niharicka you portrayed the problem of generation gap & marriage related stereotypes in such a realistic & relatable way. Amazing yaar! ☺🌻
Believe it or not....ekdummmmm simmilar things happening with me....even the line " main ghar chor dungi" ,"am i burden to u"😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ...I can relate perfectly... Every facts are exactly the conversation I had with parents 💜💜💜👍👍
I also think the same some time😢
Dude... What are you dude😭😭😭 hasa hasa ke bi rula dete ho and aise bi😭😭😭. Kya hi relatable hai yaar. Thank you, sharing this with mom🤣
Her acting is soo powerful.felt like her true feeling....
This is exactly my situation at home right now. All i did was cry looking at this , because i cannot talk any of this infront of my parents. I really feel like all my hard work , efforts, achievements everything is not even seen or appreciated just because i do not agree to get married right now.
EVERY SINGLE DAY i just listen to this and feel like a burden at home.
Same here dear😭😭😭😭
Just move on from your home 💀
@@hurricane19 I wanna stay here and be there for my parents, Yes I'll eventually go when things are better here. I don't hate them , but i would love to have some appreciation that's all.
I also didn't agree to get married and now I regret every bit of it.
Same here 😭😭😭😭😭😭
It was so real ...so pure way of expressing views. Hats off to you mam.
you are so multi talented .you depicted this scenario so well .😘🥰
thank you for this wonderful video .😊keep fighting and motivating .
You are really a source of inspiration .☺️
This content is soooo relatable, same exact same conversation between my parents and me. I am 24 and this is what i face everyday in my home. Finally someone said it loud. Kuddos to you! ❤
The way you described it..every unmarried girl can relate..you did it very well Niharika 🔥
This is the best video ever ...dil chhu liya
One of the best video . Reality check portrait very well ... amazing work Captian Nick.
This video has spoken on behalf of tens of thousands of girls across world....u raised the standard of this platform.... A piece of art.... take a bow queen!!!! 👑
So God damn relatable! Phenomenal work 👏 Congratulations on the excellent content progression. You are on a brilliant trajectory. Wishing you more success.
First time i cry while watching your videos ❤
33 unmarried. Can feel your pain bro!!
Literally cried and laughed in this video.. Such a outstanding acting and voice.. Hats off to you niharika di.. You are such a talented actress.. Lots of love ❣️❣️❣️❣️
Lots of love to you to ❤️🙏 Thank you
Comedy k sath sath aap k video main sikhne ko bhi milta hai ..salute to you di .you are the great .
Bhaisaaab maja aagyi me to fan hogyi aapki😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nick...... you are the lagend......handsoff......aapne Dil ki baat video me dikha di h