CELEBRATING DIVORCE & THINGS I DIDN’T KNOW BEFORE MOVING TO AFRICA

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  • CELEBRATING DIVORCE & THINGS I DIDN’T KNOW BEFORE MOVING TO AFRICA
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  • @sylviayvette
    @sylviayvette Před 10 měsíci +29

    Hi guys ❤I caught your premier yayyy love you guys ❤your is amazing I usually watch on tv and notification pop-up whoaaa yesss❤

  • @maxinegill3828
    @maxinegill3828 Před 10 měsíci +57

    My sista ES, you've said it all. That is so true. I'm American born, but Goodluck for me. I have foreign parents.
    So, as an American born, we do have a way of adjusting to the American lifestyle and creating what we think is our own identity.
    And as far as changing brother Vinman. I like who he is. He's natural, pure, honest. I like how you guys are together. I celebrate your togetherness

  • @smileycoast5331
    @smileycoast5331 Před 10 měsíci +26

    That losing your identity part, that comment you said that is true. I knew my African husband before we married and when I went to his homeland expectations of me being a certain way were put on me. But he told me to continue to be myself, and I did just that. 4 years of our union and it's been beautiful. He is Gambian

    • @wandaedwards9803
      @wandaedwards9803 Před 5 měsíci +3

      My ex husband is Gambian as well I know exactly what you mean by expectations and change. I wish mine protected me from his family (mother etc) I was so young and once we married and his family became Involved our whole marriage fell apart….@26 I was stressed beyond my years he was 41, definitely lesson learned. He took all the land we purchased in Gambia and I changed my mind regarding moving there and building for my children, I’m looking at Ghana now

  • @lanlande24
    @lanlande24 Před 10 měsíci +43

    No your hair is beautiful. I loved the color she picked. I was a little bit afraid at first but the finished look is beautiful!

  • @maxwellowusu7625
    @maxwellowusu7625 Před 6 měsíci +6

    Am from Ghana, and I have lived in the States for years. You're very special and Angel. I hope millions will learn from you

  • @awaken1701
    @awaken1701 Před 10 měsíci +33

    Dear E.S. If you reply to this it will mean alot to me as it will mean you read my comment. Today, I resigned from my job. I needed it but it was coming with the cost of my inner peace, my inner being. My Whole Being ♥️
    Your videos help me get centered.I am African living in the diaspora for over two decades. Your videos are really inspiring me to come back home, Mama Africa. I love the paradise your husband and you have created. You have showed me how to create one. Thank you for your vulnerability. Thank you for your strength, Thank you for being you.
    Regarding you and your husband...All Is Well. You Are Safe and You Both Are Loved. You Both Are Trying Your Best To Live This Life. Life is just an experience, nothing more nothing less. Long vacation. ENJOOÒOY.
    Love, H

    • @DIYHOUSEANDFARM
      @DIYHOUSEANDFARM  Před 10 měsíci +8

      🥹🥹🥹🥹
      Wowwww! We are rooting for you! I know the feeling of stepping out into the unknown especially after identifying aspects of life which are unfulfilling. All we can do is focus on the next plan of action which will make you feel good! Do you have a plan? 🥹

    • @babzyaro908
      @babzyaro908 Před 10 měsíci +2

      What a man to tyr the woman shoes????

    • @ebazileyes1475
      @ebazileyes1475 Před 9 měsíci +2

      You right about life being just an experience. Enjoy it to the fullest in the moment and don't take the challenges of life too seriously let some things roll of your back. Relax and breathe. All the best

    • @TheJoyceTV
      @TheJoyceTV Před 5 měsíci

      I'm also inspired to return to motherland by ES and hubby...love what they have created

  • @tonimarie9985
    @tonimarie9985 Před 9 měsíci +5

    You are so correct. I never wanted a divorce and didn't believe in it. But I had to go. Especally when the bed kept shaking and dark shadows would show before he came home. I left and wanted nothing. I later was scared to date whom Im with now and when he asked me to marrie him I paused cause. But God showed me how wonderful he is and still is to his day. Ben married almost a year but to gether 6 years. Yes I had him wait cause I felt I could not get away if I was married. He is my best friend and only friend. Many bleasings to you both love your channel. 💐❤😊

  • @azurisora9836
    @azurisora9836 Před 10 měsíci +20

    The bunny is melting my heart. Love your walks through the countryside, seeing a neighbor, just pure peace. God has made our path, and to see it unfold is amazing.

  • @harriettbellamy8980
    @harriettbellamy8980 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I like your hairdo but when you walked into that salon with your natural twists you rocked that look girl.

  • @gildajames3208
    @gildajames3208 Před 10 měsíci +15

    The braids look beautiful! Sometimes, what you don't think will look pretty on you does in the eyes of others. I will go to the beauty supply store, look at that particular color, and wouldn't get it for myself, but I will see it on others and think, "Wow, the color looks great on her!" I've never tried it, that's why!

  • @ylstaggs
    @ylstaggs Před 10 měsíci +7

    Your hair looks beautiful, I see you are glowing and skin is nice and clear!❤️🙏🏽🌹✊🏽🇬🇭

  • @nationreport12
    @nationreport12 Před 9 měsíci +7

    You two have built something extraordinary. Thank you for celebrating the beauty in life and sharing it with us.

  • @hazell1593
    @hazell1593 Před 10 měsíci +17

    ES I think you have grown so much. Your self reflection is on point. SN that hair colour is gorgeous on your golden skin. Hugs from Canada💛💛

  • @lazarouschewe3535
    @lazarouschewe3535 Před 10 měsíci +23

    Your videos are educative. We are made to think American women are wired to divorce the next day and this sends shivers in our spine for us who would love to maintain one woman our lives

    • @thewordsmith5440
      @thewordsmith5440 Před 10 měsíci +9

      No they just don't allow you to cheat on them or beat them that's not crazy. Men have to pour into their marriage not just get married and run around with other women or be absent in their home.

    • @Only1trueQueen
      @Only1trueQueen Před 8 měsíci +1

      No being divorced is not all American women ways it has nothing to do with were you are but how you are brought up

  • @blessedchild2182
    @blessedchild2182 Před 10 měsíci +12

    Well said my sister ,on behalf of marriages. It's really sad, when people get excited when marriages fall apart. Some people hearts are like stones.

    • @yasinradee
      @yasinradee Před 10 měsíci

      I don't think they are excited about it falling apart.
      They are excited about moving on and being free.
      What is the matter with that?
      To each his own.
      Everybody moves on in their own way.

  • @gannyegoestoafrica
    @gannyegoestoafrica Před 10 měsíci +14

    I’m not ready to move😔. But OK!! If we must go and experience bigger and better things, I’ll not complain. 😮😊❤❤ By the way, ES, your hair is beautiful and you wear it well.😊

  • @feliciabrown7131
    @feliciabrown7131 Před 10 měsíci +11

    Sis. I love your videos, so visually stunning. Can't wait for the movie! The farm is amazing. Kitty has rubbed her favorite wooded bench smooth. Lol. Looking forward to the peacocks 😅🦚
    Peace and blessings. ❤❤❤

  • @SergeDidierNganko
    @SergeDidierNganko Před 10 měsíci +6

    If you find LOVE; and it's start with your own heart, keep it, nurture it, be patient with it.

  • @misskhwaka4370
    @misskhwaka4370 Před 9 měsíci +1

    The colour of the braids goes amazingly well with your skin tone. Wow her braid
    work is really good

  • @annaledoux7441
    @annaledoux7441 Před 10 měsíci +10

    Everything will be alright... that is good. In each moment. Was good to take a walk with you on the beautiful day 💚💚

  • @CookingWithDee_
    @CookingWithDee_ Před 10 měsíci +7

    You are so beautiful. I love the color, it matches your beautiful skin tone. Love your channel. 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @jacobstarwireitaengwa7436
    @jacobstarwireitaengwa7436 Před 10 měsíci +8

    I just wish and pray that may the good Lord give me some money and have a carbon copy of this home in Zimbabwe...may the Lord bless you and your home as well ...Mad Love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼

    • @kwesiasante7752
      @kwesiasante7752 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Hard work, focus and sacrifice, you can achieve your wish and dreams.

  • @CopperK
    @CopperK Před 10 měsíci +6

    Paradise you two!
    Maam-
    Your braid color is natural looking and compliments your skin. Its beautiful...enjoy the color!!
    I appreciate this unique Black love, nature, experience, and awesome advice. Imma share!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤😂😊🪶

  • @angela14962002
    @angela14962002 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I am not into blonde hair, but that's for me...however, that color looks really good on you.

  • @hopefullychosen1
    @hopefullychosen1 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Greetings! The message, the scenery, the vibes...so beautiful. Thank yall. 😊 ☺️😘

  • @saundraking7168
    @saundraking7168 Před 10 měsíci +13

    I am 62 and on my 3rd relationship. 1st 18-30
    2nd 40-57
    3rd 58-present ( hopefully last!) I have learned that people change and grow apart and to pay attention to the little things and dont try to be his everything and perhaps complacency wont take hold and blindside you. 3rd time is the charm right? I am wiser. This time I am with a giver and not a taker. World of difference!!! Ghanaian love is deep!

    • @DIYHOUSEANDFARM
      @DIYHOUSEANDFARM  Před 10 měsíci +10

      Thank you. I have a philosophy too about relationships but I don’t share much on this channel. I tested the waters and know not to go there here but what I will say and I’ll ALWAYS stand by this…I am the one I’ve been looking for. To find a mate is a good thing. But….I am the one I’ve been looking for. This is why I try to share with the ladies to not over romanticize anyones relationship. We are all whole and not a half of a thing. I appreciate Saundra! You inspire a video at Higher mind network. 🙏💕🌸

    • @saundraking7168
      @saundraking7168 Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@DIYHOUSEANDFARM as YOU BOTH inspire me. Thank you!

  • @chrisola6460
    @chrisola6460 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Great views and great work. I’ll like to see the new building 👊🏽🇬🇧🇳🇬

  • @jaalahford1637
    @jaalahford1637 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Love your and Vim Man's videos - so life affirming.

  • @ReincarnatedStargazer
    @ReincarnatedStargazer Před 10 měsíci +6

    I like the hair color and I like that you switch up color and styles often. ❤

  • @joyfulliving1511
    @joyfulliving1511 Před 10 měsíci +4

    ES SIS you look beautiful the hair is giving all it has! I love the color!!

  • @rosemondadjaidoo9001
    @rosemondadjaidoo9001 Před 10 měsíci

    Aww always love watching you guys, well done with the progress on your building

  • @guerlandemompremierworld9883

    Thank you for continue speaking the truth, and sharing real life with us.

  • @MrSolonolo
    @MrSolonolo Před 9 měsíci

    Girl this Kylo had me feeling some kind of way...... Very happy that you are being productive together and working it out. Inspirational spiritual and grounded all at once ! Love and continued blessings to you.

  • @startingoverbygrace
    @startingoverbygrace Před 10 měsíci +1

    I love watching you. The dynamic of your relationship to embrace all aspects of each other is so beautiful and unique.

  • @Joy2day4eva
    @Joy2day4eva Před 10 měsíci +5

    Hello Vim Man and ES, so happy to hear about your newest project! I can't wait to see what you've done so far, I am certain that it is beautiful. Peace and Blessings.

  • @brooklynhomesteader3721
    @brooklynhomesteader3721 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Ghana and DIY House Farm is on list of must see as soon as you are ready to receive guests...and that Savanah....swoon! My daughter and I comment that even your farm animals and pets are curated..your cats are so pretty!!!

  • @blackhannahofficial
    @blackhannahofficial Před 9 měsíci +1

    That SCENERY THO (behind your husband). I'm captivated by How blue the sky is, the fluffy clouds, and... those green pastures 🌅. Simply Beautiful 🌼

  • @mommyharris1111
    @mommyharris1111 Před 9 měsíci +1

    My dear, you have important work ahead of you for the universe! I definitely feel you are right where you need to be. Meditation and grounding to the Earth is key. Got to get that third eye opened all the way up so the ancestors keep bringing you the path. I think your hair looks beautiful, braids are great for a busy life. You have the right skintone to wear any shade, but golds definitely compliment you. Have a wonderful day and keep up the great inspiring work!

  • @lindandaba525
    @lindandaba525 Před 10 měsíci +3

    You look good in everything my sister. You made that colour work for you!❤

  • @omegapierre9855
    @omegapierre9855 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Love the way Vinman show appreciation for the delicious meal his wife cooks👏👏👏😋😋😋💞💞💞

  • @nakiagardner2182
    @nakiagardner2182 Před měsícem

    Love the color braids on you. Beautiful!

  • @marianamcanuff6835
    @marianamcanuff6835 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Thank you for the encouragement and good vibes 🥰

  • @teresakale1297
    @teresakale1297 Před 10 měsíci

    Love your hair and the color is 🔥! Perfect hairstyle for you. Your stylist nailed it.

  • @karleishacoleman30
    @karleishacoleman30 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Greetings Sis!
    Congratulations on all of your success in life and love in Ghana! I know that your braid color will have to grow on you, but your braid lady did an awesome job on your hair. Her color selection really brightens you up and compliments your facial features. She did an excellent job matching a good color for you.
    May God continue to bless you indeed and enlarge your territory!

  • @dawnsday7632
    @dawnsday7632 Před 10 měsíci +10

    Hello my name is Dawn and I’m new here to your channel and I’m so happy that your channel was in my recommendations. I live in America, but I am seriously thinking about moving to Ghana and I’ve been watching different videos for education purposes, before I make the big move and I just want to thank you for showing us all and telling us all about your experience in Ghana. Keep up the good work 🙏🏽

  • @shecreates365
    @shecreates365 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I love y'all channel and y'all as a couple❤....y'all are such an inspiration. May your love and marriage continue to thrive🙏🏾

  • @carolparker5685
    @carolparker5685 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Goes excellent with your complexion. 🔥 slay queen👍🏼

  • @paulag520
    @paulag520 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Your braids are pretty and I like the color. The walks in the country are beautiful!

  • @blondevaray4426
    @blondevaray4426 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Girl the braids are cute, the color is cute. Keep them in!

  • @reginashepard3675
    @reginashepard3675 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Looks very nice on you! Compliments your eyes!💯🧡🤎💜

  • @tawandahunter5885
    @tawandahunter5885 Před 10 měsíci

    That hair color looks great on you! Own it, ES!

  • @lisalove395
    @lisalove395 Před 10 měsíci

    I’m so happy I found your channel…you’re such lovely people. Stay blessed.

  • @dottobraham9051
    @dottobraham9051 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Beautiful to see you wearing TANZANIA t-shirt. I'm your fun and I'm fro there. I love what you do you encourage all women

  • @williamgamelisenaya793
    @williamgamelisenaya793 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Wow,luv the braids.
    Nuff respect
    Bless up🙏🙏❤️

  • @marmm8721
    @marmm8721 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Definitely working in silence is the way to go, Well wishes from Abu Dhabi

  • @ms.overcomer7181
    @ms.overcomer7181 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Truly inspiring to watch how you have grown into a beautiful woman. Love you

  • @kostak8175
    @kostak8175 Před 5 měsíci

    Love that hair color, it compliments your skin tone.

  • @ritaamoah8255
    @ritaamoah8255 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I always admire you both. Keep the fire 🔥 burning 🔥 ❤

  • @user-bs7ss2xx7v
    @user-bs7ss2xx7v Před 10 měsíci +1

    Hey Queen❤u kno I had to watch your video I pray 🙏 all is well at the frontier be blessed 😇 ❤

  • @QUESHONYA
    @QUESHONYA Před 10 měsíci +3

    i love the new color! it makes u look so young and vibrant. YES step out of that comfort zone cuz it becomes u! u guyz keep ur head up n keep god 1st n u will exceed ur best dreams! i pray for u guyz all the time.

  • @vilindanyann7614
    @vilindanyann7614 Před 10 měsíci +1

    How are you a tremendous job you are doing I love your excitement ya'll is so amazing through out your whole Jorney may the good lord give you exciting Adventures on Life and to make you and hubbies happy an keep pushing forward because God will be with you guides Forever live you guys God bless

  • @williamaidoo6996
    @williamaidoo6996 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Wow ES! I haven't watched your video for long time.Nice to see you and Vim man are still together.Always share your thoughts & problems with each other for common solution and your relationship will be stronger and last lifetime.

  • @JC-ty3zq
    @JC-ty3zq Před 10 měsíci +1

    Your home place is so green and so much maize growing all over the place.

  • @SoulWhisperer
    @SoulWhisperer Před 10 měsíci +4

    Oh, Nigeria! Yeah, they got it like that! 😃 2 hours, that's great. You look beautiful (as always). The color is good. Don't worry. I celebrate you and VM for the good you do together and rep for others! 🌻

  • @deniselittle1516
    @deniselittle1516 Před 9 měsíci

    Me and my husband love watching your videos seeing y’all work together.❤

  • @Sanchel929
    @Sanchel929 Před 10 měsíci +2

    You look radiant, been a while and I am happy to hear and see you :) Keep shining' sis

  • @franktambwe7634
    @franktambwe7634 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I TRULY LIKE THE ENERGY YOU'LL ARE DISPLAYING 😍😍😍😍😍😍AT LEAST YOU FOUND THE BIRDS IN THE BUSH 👏👏👏👏👏👏 THIS WORLD HAS ALREADY ENOUGH STRESS AND WE NEED NO MORE OF THAT, ONLY POSITIVE ENERGY GOES 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @natureisyourfriend
    @natureisyourfriend Před 10 měsíci +2

    Love you guys! Always wishing you both the best 🤎🤎🤎

  • @simoneallen2081
    @simoneallen2081 Před 3 dny

    Hair color is BEAUTIFUL for your skin tone. Own it!!! ❤

  • @3DPeach
    @3DPeach Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing yourselves!! The morning walk is really serene I'm sure, however I often wonder when you are alone, why don't you carry a companion stick with you just in case? ❤

  • @sharifahyarbrough2049
    @sharifahyarbrough2049 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I Love the Greenery ❤.

  • @inspiringsista5047
    @inspiringsista5047 Před 5 měsíci

    You're such a beautiful woman and I just love your spirit... You're such an inspiration I live in Las Vegas and I like to say thank you.. thanks for sharing 💯

  • @brandybarnes63
    @brandybarnes63 Před 10 měsíci +1

    That color looks amazing on you!

  • @jodieprice2593
    @jodieprice2593 Před 10 měsíci

    The color and finished look is gorgeous 😍

  • @angelalee3355
    @angelalee3355 Před 5 měsíci

    Bless you both lovely real people , your hair is beautiful.❤️

  • @laneshamitchell3365
    @laneshamitchell3365 Před 9 měsíci

    The blond is beautiful girl!!! You have to try different things often and its great that she takes you out of your comfort zone. You make me want to move to Ghana!! Im glad that I found your channel you and your husband are so inspiring and uplifting it makes me feel that anything is possible!! If you manifest it it will be!! How did you guys meet?? Peace, love and light to all ❣️

  • @TheGiselleBella
    @TheGiselleBella Před 9 měsíci

    I love you two, immensely. I have watched your channel grow beautifully. I adore what you said about just be happy and when a relationship is done, it is. Tis all.

  • @AtlantisIsMyHome
    @AtlantisIsMyHome Před 10 měsíci +2

    No worries lady your hair is pretty looks really pretty

  • @lynwil2286
    @lynwil2286 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The color look good with your complexion.....she did a great job.

  • @jeremyofori
    @jeremyofori Před 9 měsíci

    Your videos/relationship is a gem.

  • @yvettejones4249
    @yvettejones4249 Před 9 měsíci

    Love watching you guys. Didn't get much of the divorce part, but that's okay. That's the past. Have a great day.

  • @redmambafungs1294
    @redmambafungs1294 Před 7 měsíci

    From San Diego California
    I love you guys and love Africa,everything looks so fresh and naturally beautiful
    Looks like a dream place

  • @adj1206
    @adj1206 Před 10 měsíci

    ❤Beautiful Lovely couple ❤and enjoying the conversation 2🥰. The braids are👌🏾color☑️. The pep talk at the end🙏🏽

  • @ThatsEunice
    @ThatsEunice Před 10 měsíci

    The color of the hair goes well with your skin. She did well.

  • @MillMill21
    @MillMill21 Před 24 dny

    I love that color…..it is very becoming.
    I mix my colors with light and warm tones looks beautiful with the african sun glow. Stay blessed

  • @pkdonkorjnr9089
    @pkdonkorjnr9089 Před 10 měsíci

    The braids are beautiful, ES you rock

  • @veronicagoodridge4625
    @veronicagoodridge4625 Před 10 měsíci +2

    The braids are nice. I love the colours.

  • @aiahsdaughter6597
    @aiahsdaughter6597 Před 10 měsíci +5

    One word...BEAUTIFUL

  • @whereyougoiwillgo.744
    @whereyougoiwillgo.744 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Hello from Philadelphia, PA ❤

  • @kilimanjaroflavour
    @kilimanjaroflavour Před 10 měsíci

    That Tanzanian T-shirt fits so well and your braids looks beautful. Please come visit TZ again.

  • @28116
    @28116 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Girl just wanted to say that color hair take you look awesome ❤❤❤

  • @vickipriegan3867
    @vickipriegan3867 Před 10 měsíci

    As always, wonderful and enjoyable videos.

  • @loisbullock3151
    @loisbullock3151 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Hello & I ❤ you guys matrimonial bliss. U are definitely compatible for each other. I loved your natural hair as well. I hope you rock it the next hairdo. Beautiful, Beautiful relationship. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pamelaboyland6953
    @pamelaboyland6953 Před 10 měsíci +2

    You look great! That color looks nice on you

  • @onyinyechinwazue9955
    @onyinyechinwazue9955 Před 10 měsíci +3

    It looks good on you. It is beautiful!

  • @imasseychambers
    @imasseychambers Před 5 měsíci

    Celebrate your beautiful partnership! Marriage is a blessing and wonderful! I live in the U.S. and my husband and I have been married for 48 years! I love your videos!💞

  • @orisalase
    @orisalase Před 3 měsíci

    Celebrating your happiness and progress 🎉

  • @darlenecard8522
    @darlenecard8522 Před 10 měsíci +12

    I Think You Put All Things In Perspective Very Well E.S. I Love Your Relationship You And Vim Man Have A Great Marriage!🫶🏽🫶🏽 I Pray Y’all Continue To Have A Wonderful Life Together 🙏🏽❤️❤️🥰 Keep Bringing Us Amazing Videos 👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @jimboisworking1255
    @jimboisworking1255 Před 10 měsíci

    welldone guys. you're the best!!

  • @fodaysaccoh3472
    @fodaysaccoh3472 Před 10 měsíci +2

    One thing that I'm happy about though is that you guys are going good still, marriage or relationship is about tolerance and commitment, God bless you guys