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I have no idea how you do it -- I'm 53, can't hold down relationships, cancelled a mortgage at the last minute (so still renting), dropped out of uni (twice) and failed so many businesses I've lost count! Sometimes the best I can manage is getting dressed, and even that can be too much at times!
Some days thats all i can manage and thats okay humans are not robots u got this dont let the world beat u down
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âHereâs a story, Iâm trying to buy a houseâ. My anxiety immediately skyrockets for you because buying my house was the single most stressful/traumatic thing I have done in the last 5 years and I never want to do it again...
We can see you're in bad shape, among all those triggering things. If you're not feeling like doing a video, don't push yourself. All of us can understand. Do what is good for you. IndiAndy and Purple Ella take a break too. We'll be here when you are ready. I wish I could help more.
In your videos you sometimes say to breath when anxiety is overwhelming. So breath, breath, breath.
We appreciate you, Dan. Take care of you.
You do what you need to do. Don't push yourself too far. Take as long as you need. I'll be here waiting. The die hards will surely agree.
Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable with us! I do hope things get a better for you soon.
Watching ur vid man makes me cope with my autism better. Ur amazing đ
I needed this Dan I spend everyday wondering why I never feel like I am getting any closer to my goals I feel like I need someone to just give me the steps so I can do them and I am so scared that the course I am doing in uni i am going to fail like i did my last assignment and that i am not cut out to be an interior design i feel like crying constantly my money was cut in half which means I am struggling financially I am constantly tired my place always feels like a mess no matter what I do I can't concentrate on my uni work to do it , I constantly get distracted I just feel hopeless I wake up most days and just think honestly what is the point I am in a never ending cycle I don't know how to break or achieve anything new my mom died last september I just found out her husband has been flirting and going on dating sites talking and being obscene with other women while my mom lay dying in bed I have no family in the UK they are all in the USA they are my other halfs family because mine are abusive I feel like everyday is a constant fight and meltdowns are building it's nice to know I am not alone. Also that jab made me feel awful for a good 2 days i was shaking feeling nausea, headache temperature pain, tiredness it's awful đȘđ
U need to tell yourself your best is enough every morning i used to be the same and every time u feel that way ether u or somone close to you needs to remind you till it mabie is a roitine train of thought i do it and sometimes i still need a reminder but u will get there own your achivements and remember your best is enough dont ever let somone tell you you are not capable of something find your way to do it â€
Also you ever need a friend my instagram is @memyselfjustautistic
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Take some time to treat yourself to a nap. That usally helps an whole lot. Went for a walk also today and feeling quite energized. Had both my pfizer shots and have had no issues thankfully(slight headache this morning but just from lack of caffeine). Best of luck brah wish ya the best. A new home is a big accomplishment.
I sooo relate to your story in there about the sprinkles and your son! I have two little girls and they add so much to my sensory input (and overload) every day. Out of curiosity, do you happen to have any videos more specifically addressing being a parent who is on the spectrum and/or dealing with sensory issues specifically while balancing parenting a young child...they add so much noise, mess, touching, visual chaos, etc to my day and it's been hard for me to find resources online from other parents going through a similar stage or experience. Thanks for everything you put out. I've really been soaking up you're channel!
I've had both Pfizer jabs and side effects vary per person. I'm an NHS worker admin. After my first jab I was so tired and my arm hurt but the staff at vaccinated centre were brilliant. My second jab I was so tired and my arm hurt but after 24 hrs I was fine. My work load is going back to pre Covid levels which is something I havent done before because I joined NHS during March 2020. I've been on the brink of meltdowns this week but I'm worried that if I have a meltdown then my boss is going to fire me but I'm going to do the best I can. Dan I will continue to love and support the channel. Much love from Northern Ireland.
So sorry youâre having a rough week! Sounds overwhelming. Praying it all works out.
I hope you feel better. I really like it when you vlog. Yes, I am still not up to par since having my covid shot, I feel exhausted.
for most vaccines (i.e. flu or tetanus) I only get a sore arm. The day of my second pfizer shot, I got a headache (along with the sore arm) within a few hours of getting the shot, and the entire next day, I had chills and full body aches. I wound up basically camping out in a recliner chair in my living room and living on tylenol. Thankfully, all symptoms had pretty much gone away by the second day. Hope you feel better.
Thank you for being so open Dan ! Your videos are really helpful for me! I barely got diagnosed so your videos help with advice for my dad to day.
I meant to say day to day
Wow, your Channel is growing so much. Congratulations. I hope put feel better real soon. đđ„°âïž
It is good enough things just take time. I know change is extremely hard and these are big changes. You guys will get it all worked out I just know it. đđ
I much prefer these types of vlogs that are day to day life, highs and lows etc (obviously sucks That you having a rough time though) .
For me, it reminds me others are in similar situations and isnât just me.looking forward to the vlogs .
this made me sad for you. its okay to have a meltdown, to take breaks, to take your time to let it out. I love your channel, I will keep watching regardless of if you post every day or every 3 months
Be prepared for the second shot to be worse. Not for everyone, but it made me sick for 2 days. Might not want to schedule anything too important or stressful for a couple days after the shot.
Sounds like my life experience leading up to a complete breakdown 21 years ago and Iâve never fully recovered. Be careful please!
Sending care.
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The first vaccination shot made me feel like that too. The second made me feel horribly ill. I suggest plan on taking a few days off for the second dose!
I hear you about estate agents and meltdown! I was exactly the same a couple of weeks ago with the ups&downs til we found our new flat we're renting :S
I always need my sunglasses too; generally don't go anywhere without them due to sun and indoor lighting! (Sunshine also makes me sneeze a lot, which looks great in a pandemic đ) Remember to do things that recharge you amidst all the stressors *virtual hugs* x
I've been feeling terrible too lately. Lots of anxiety, tiredness and my mood all over the place. So terrible anxiety and tiredness đ€ą
I had a full meltdown at work my 2nd day back from a year in iso (except my introverted roommate)
NTs just don't understand that it's not so simple as to take a few minutes to "gather" ourselves. I was so humiliated as I've never worked with some of my new colleagues in person and their impression of me is a 40 year old woman who can't stop crying.
Any tips for recovering my reputation?
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I know how you feel as I am currently in the same position. Work have put me on a queue where the instruction aren't clear and I am on 100% marking. This causes enough stress then when I brought up this issue and I was told "Read between the lines." They have since had my report and I was told "It is only a suggestion and we have no legal requirement to follow it." On Wednesday I have a hearing for "Not Fit For Work."
internet hugs, sorry, i can hear your anxiety in your voice, my first covid vaccine really messed up my head for days.
Very interesting. I'm sorry you are having a difficult day but tomorrow will be better,. You are so loved. I do pray for you
Do you take pharmaceutical meds as well? I want to figure out how Brillia will work for my son (13) together with his prescribed meds.
We got some to try for myself and my 15 yr old daughter. Only been a week so far, so canât say how well itâs working yet. Iâll try post a comment in one of Dans vids later when we have been taking it longer as it takes awhile to get into your system.
I'm so sorry you're having a hard time :( If it's any consolation I have meltdowns almost daily since the pandemic hit. Hang in there! You are not alone
Thank you for sharing your feelings so honestly.
LMAO-honestly, Lol
I had a meltdown recently when I discovered that my benefits had been changed from DLA to PIP and it was horror as I was so anxious about not being able to pay my bills and other expensesđ°.
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Iâm sure you wonât see this, but I must compliment your hair. I usually prefer long hair, but the cut actually made you look even younger. Cute kid. âš
I do hope you recover soon from your symptoms after the vaccine shot. As far as your housing stress, I can't believe this ironic coincidence. I've spent all day online researching the process and added costs to buy a house. I have an appointment with a loan officer tomorrow for prequalification. The more I read, the more I just felt it's all too much. My apartment landlord wants to know in a week which lease term I'm going to choose. Less time equals higher rent rate. My anxiety was getting worse. I decided to get on You Tube to take a break from my uncertainties, and just so happened to click on your vlog. ( I'm also in your Level up Autism course. Do sign up folks. It's awesome!) Be well Dan, and trust your instincts, as you often inspire me to do so!
I got vaccinated the same day you did! (I saw your tweet). And I have to agree Iâve definitely have been feeling a lil rubbish. It definitely effected my work stamina, just a lot of irritable-ness.
I got the Pfizer and it definitely gave me a little mini-flu after my second shot. The first shot wasn't bad at all though and I just had arm pain. The second shot made my lymph nodes hurt. It was intense.
Sadly with Pfizer the side effects can vary from person to person. My mum had hers (New Zealand we are a bit behind the UK) as she is an essential worker and she has no side effects and she has some health issues. Hope you are feeling better
I think I'm going to be having a meltdown soon as I am having my Universal Credit claimant commitments reinstated and there is no way I'm going to be able to cope with 35hrs job search and full time employment. I know people will say "Oh just lie", well for someone on the spectrum lying is typically not our strong point, also I'm an alcoholic who will be 2 years sober in June and I'm worried I will relapse due to the stress and threat of sanctions. As regards to the full time work, I'm hoping to be able to do full time in the future, but my last job shot my confidence to pieces and not to mention the virus setting me back.
I just don't know what to do.
I was officially diagnosed in 2019 at age 34 after suspecting something was wrong since I was 12 but no one listened to me. So this will be the first time stepping back into the workplace since my diagnosis.
Thank you for being so transparent
I felt crap after the jab, the headache was worst than anything I've experienced
I know it's hard to get rest with all the stuff going on, even with a 2 year old. When my 2 were 8 and 2, they decided to throw around baby powder on everything in the family room. When I was trying to study IT, the older one kept on taking her Palomino rabbit out and run around with it. It would mess on the floor. I'd have to put the rabbit up. She would do the same again. Her little sister a few years later would take out a whole gallon of milk, pour it on the floor and exclaim M is for milk and M is for mop. This was done repeatedly each day. She had a strong compulsion to do that each day. We had put a special strap on the refrigerator. It only worked until she saw her older sister open the refrigerator. We had told the older sister not to open the fridge in front of her. Other times there was coffee grounds she threw on the floor and danced in them. Another time there was sugar. Both of them had complicated creative messes they would make. We had just moved in a house that was abandoned for four years.
I'll be praying for you.
Oh my god! I couldn't help but laugh when I read this but at the same time couldn't imagine how hard those messes where to clean up. I couldn't imagine.
Oh trust me I always have meltdowns so I can understand this video here plus I'm also planning on getting my show back
I feel the same thing. I try and try but itâs just not good enough.
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Super awesome vlog! I get my first shot on the 29th of this month. Already building up anxiety about itđ. I am always amazing at all that you do! Good luck on getting a house you worked hard for it! Also good luck on getting your Tesla its an amazing car! I have a Model 3 and I love it! Thank you again for all that you do it surely has been an amazing help to me!
Don't worry dan we are all here for you!
Be gentle with yourself xxx
Dan I've been there too bud, I hope all works out for the best. Take care mate.
Praying you make it!
Sand, glitter, sprinkles i hate the mess it makes as well. Major trigger for me, everyone know Birthday card with glitter are off limits.
The link for the candy thing in the beginning is broken, I think
Hey no idea why it didnât work here is a working link: BRILLIA: bit.ly/3wE245l
Hang in thereâ buddy
We got your back
I just found this channel and it's amazing!
Youâve got so many things going at once anyone would get stressed and worn out doing all that you do. That said, the Aspie acceleration and intensity certainly makes it worse.
A couple of thoughts. Melatonin works great to chill out to sleep or nap. The very low carb/sugar and high protein with fat diet really does work at keeping glucose regulated, and glucose is a main ingredient of stress and inflammation.
Naomi did a great job with your hair!
Dan! Good to see you man! How have you been?
Keen to see how Brillia helps. I am keen to try and NOT take pharmaceuticals but herbal I would be open to.
Oh my pitbulls used to sleep under a Blank-E- and they were just like that đ BREATH IN DEEP AND OUT 5X
Just know you truly are
appreciated!
Thank you for sharing my 13 yo son is the autism spectrum high functioning also has adhd...love watching your show he also does not like to talk about his autism he insists he does not have it...please help with suggestions
I was the same way a few days ago (couple days after getting last vaccine). Felt pretty lame, but I've been worse lol. Autistic, too.
Dan please take care, don't be so hard on yourself fella
Dan ur thinking u havent done enough because your setting to many goals in one go yes u can hit every goal but once u complete all of those in a short amount of time ever thought ur adhd needs more i do the same thing i could have done this was that good enough but i end up telling myself at 31 every morning my best is always enough u need to start telling yourself your best is enough dan
I hope you feel better
I hope you're doing better.
đ vaccines going into sensitive ones is no bueno. Be well dear man!!!!
To You & Your Family
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"I believe that god works in mysterious ways, and everything is meant to be," why do you believe that? I'm genuinely curious.
got my first pfizer covid shot yesterday. so far no side effects other than a sore arm
Youâre going to be ok.
You have every right to be upset. Dude, she lied to you. That makes me mad and I'm not even involved.
I swear as soon as I get a stable income I'm gonna buy some Brilia
Make a nuisance of yourself with the estate agent. They will soon fix you up with a place just to get rid of you. I write from experience.
But it may be a house with hidden issues. They may try to take him for a ride too. Best to hire your preferred agent if possible. I don't know how it works in his country.
Youâre right, God works in mysterious ways. I remember the spouse had very much wanted to get a high profile project for his company but it didnât go through. Later on, after the project was done, we heard the client was an absolute nightmare from friends in the industry who worked on it. So we realised we dodged a bullet on that one. We only realise it was His mercy and goodness for us on hindsight. I bet there is a better place out there for you and your family. Hugs.
Geez Iâm getting exhausted just listening to you speak, you need to take of yourself, health before wealth.
Hope everything is alright!
This is the BEST video you have made yet. Thanks for sharing real life. Also, yes the vaccine has a nasty after effect!
This tittle is my life hahhahahaha
Both jabs kicked my ASS. The flu shot does as well but this was worse. 3 days of flulike, and I didn't get over all the fatigue (which was the worst) for 5 days.
And as far as the Life-stress, I feel you man. My son is also very 2, with inadequate indoor space, and I'm trying to figure out how to Build more house (Though we're Super lucky to be out in the country where he can play outside) But the thousand little things that need doing, and planning, and and and, topped with autism depression and anxiety and trying to hold all of it in my head, as well as doing most of the cooking and grocery shopping is just .... *sigh* it's rough, and leaves me very little time or room in my head for my own coping strategies. So I get it. Hang in there man.
Also your Brillia link doesn't seem to be working, though it could be a browser issue on my end.
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Homeopathic medicines do not have any active molecules (placebo effect kicks in) while herbal medicines do (the content is what's helping you).
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Join the enemy and go into real estate. It pays a lot better than whatever job you're having now ;)