i bought a pet rat...
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- čas přidán 21. 04. 2023
- possibly my worst idea ever...
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not everyone is equipped to take care of a a pet. Thank you for doing the mature thing of taking Remy back and giving him another chance of a good home.
he is def not a person that can give him a good home you mf. RATS ARE SOCIAL CREATURES. THEY LIVE IN A MF GROUP.
Yeah, even if his care wasn’t the best and there were a lot of flaws not to mention he impulse bought Remy, but he was still mature enough to realize he wasn’t equipped to taking care of Remy and decided to give him to another home which is MUCH better than what most “popular” CZcamsrs are willing to do to any animal they impulse purchased let alone a rat.
Hope Remy is living his best life with hopefully other ratties ❤️ (if he ever did get neutered ofc)
1000 like but yeah that's true 😢
My rat was called Remy untill she died
All jokes aside I couldn’t imagine how much it would hurt to give up Remy, it was the right decision though and he’s happy hanging out with his rat friends.
@@karencorane4615 what?
@@karencorane4615 ? wtf ?
@@karencorane4615 Yass stinky feet!
@@karencorane4615 what 💀
@@karencorane4615 f e e t ?
A few notes (if ben gets more):
1. Get more than one
2. Don’t use saw dust because they are prone to respiratory problems
3. Please cover the stairs and floors as they’re feet could get trapped or it could hurt them (could get bumblefoot)
4. Please don’t take them outside again 😅
If you read my comment, thank you, I am sad that you are sad ☹️
Edit: yes, it is penis (I think)
Edit 2: thanks so much for 100 likes
Edit 3: thanks so much for 200 likes
Edit 4: MUMMY IM FAMOUS
actually this are his BALLZ
@@UnknwnRaven ok
No, it is their balls. Penis like cats, are retractable.
@@UnknwnRaven uhmmm okkkk....
Than*
8:55 had my DYING. That was true fear right there. Thank you for taking accountability.
Ben made the right decision to give back Remy. Rats are a lot and need the proper research and care, and him giving Remy back just shows how much he cares. We love you Ben ❤❤
fr, the fact he was able to acknowledge his own skills not being enough makes him an amazing person
@@amateurdechats agreed. It was even amazing that he broke character and was real about having to leave Remy. I hope he’s doing alright
col rat he mead!!!
he should get 2 pet rats cuz if you only have 1 that’s bad for the rat and keep it this time tbh
Yep but he was so sad
I love how people are commenting how Ben is so funny while meanwhile not even watching the whole video so they don’t even know Ben gets real sad at the end💀
edit: im lowkey probably still gonna get replies like a year from now😭😭😭
fr💀
I was looking for this comment 🗿
DEADASS
LITERALLY 💀like I honestly feel bad for him
Fr im like wth 😭
FINALLY SOMEONE WHO DOESNT HATE RATS LIKE OML THEYRE SO CUTE😭
yes they are
please no rats are literally pigeons that cant fly.
@@thesimpcarddpoo poo head ‼️
@@thesimpcarddI have 9
@@Spooky_the_therian i hope i don't know you (i probably don't)
was not expecting him to cry, bro needs a hug fr
Seeing Ben cry again is just sad, this man should deserve the whole world almost
"almost" lmao
@@alexgelman6515 :’)
Almost?......
I want to eat the rat
@@Bozo_bot oh
I feel so bad for Ben rn, after he took Remy back I started crying and I still am and it just breaks my heart to see such a happy person break down like that. And I just wish I could give him a hug rn 😭
same dude i feel so stupid crying but like seeing him cry was actually so sad, i feel so bad for him😭
It’s good he took him back
@@Halovian_ Ik it’s just sad seeing him cry
Bro he’s an actual id!0t People need to stop having petrol they clearly don’t know how to care for them because that rat is literally dead things to him now domesticated animals cannot survive in the wild and now due to his stupidity he’s dead. He’s always doing stupid things are videos but now he’s actually putting an animal’s life in danger without thinking twice this guy’s an idiot. I don’t know how we honestly didn’t think the rat could possibly get out from that because rats literally climb walls and squeeze through small holes it’s not unknown information he should’ve done his research
@@itsemilia7364 yeah
You'd be a great rat owner, Ben just do a lot of research about everything first, for example that you can't use wood-chips or anything and they can't be exposed to dust because they are at a super high risk for respiratory infections. If you do research about everything they can and can't have and what they can safely do then you would be a amazing rat dad lol
like actually seeing Ben cry just makes my heart melt. just know that we love you Ben and you make us happy
As a person who owns pet rats I think you made the right decision. Rats are a fun pet to take care of but they can be hard pets to take care of at the same time. Rats might not be for everyone but I know one day you will find the right pet💕🐀🐁
No bc rats are so difficult to look afterrrr
i dont think a rat is something you should have as a pet.. maybe a hamster is good
@@zypxier hamsters r shit pets, ive had 3 very cute to look at but so much work for an animal with no thought also they do bite randomly , not ideal for kids
@@arctic-rn1sq so rats dont bite?
@@zypxier No actually! Only if you teach them not to! Sometimes you might get a good rat that’s okay with playing and snuggling with you!
As a previous rat owner, I was ready to type some paragraphs on how to make Remys life safe for a rat but glad you returned him❤
yes same!!
Same 😢
They said same😂😂😂 No way you had a rat as a pet my man 😂😂😂
@@wohawoah i did. in fact, i had two. unfortunately one ended up dying, the other ATE the dead rat and then ended up getting so lonely they died themselves.
@@wohawoah rats* people by them 2 or more under 2 rats is abusive
I don’t think the cage was busy enough. Rats like a VERY CROWDED home, to hide things, store things, etc. -rat owner of 6 yesrs
When Ben began to cry I began to cry because I have like never EVER seen him cry and it was really sad
Ikr it's so sad my baby ben😢
Seeing Ben, a usually funny and lively type of person cry, is so heartbreaking. I cried immediately when Ben started crying because of Remy. You made the right choice giving back Remy, I know that one day you'll find something that you can take care of. Love you Ben and Remy.
This is beautiful 🥹
I cried aswell. I felt the sadness Ben did. But I'm lazy remy deffinetley has a safe home now.
I feel the same way. I’m not usually so sympathetic, but seeing him cry, I instantly broke down.
Yea, even a happy and joyful person can cry if they have to, Ben is a human like us, with real emotions too
fr bro 😢
I own rats myself and was quite concerned when I saw the first part of the video for many reasons, one being the cage, the fact there was only one rat. But I'm glad that Ben realised Remy would be better being with other rats and someone who could take better care of Remy. :)
Literally had the same thought. As a rat owner, I had at least 25 cardiac arrest watching the video, and I'm glad he took the right decision. :)
Came here to say the same. I wish CZcamsrs would do a bit more research and educate followers. Rats are emotional, social, intelligent animals. I heard he brought it back so good on him, but I’d love for him to tell followers to do proper research before purchasing a pet.
@@AMarie1981 yes i completely agree
I literally had the same thought i have owned 3 rats in my life and my family love rats so they had about 14 rats though of the years
@@the_siming_huhn wow 14, that's so amazing that your family loves them. Mine aren't such a big fan haha. But they're coming around
Imagine the stories he's gonna tell his grandchildren some day
(BTW I'm sorry you had to get rid of your rat. I actually cried when I saw you cry.)
I FEEL SO BAD FOR LAUGHING AFTER CRYING AT THE END 10:23
At a rat owner I wasn’t entirely thrilled by this video and your techniques, but the love you had for little Remy was genuine, and I definitely think you’ll be an amazing rat owner after doing some research. Rats are amazing companions, and their little hearts can store an immense amount of love.
Agreed! After some time of learning and mutureing i bet hewill be great rat owner!! I am happy that now he made the right decision
Yeh i agree, cause the bedding and the cage itself were pretty bad cause rats have really sensitive loungs butttt the love he had for Remi was just so amazing 🥹🥹🥹❤!!
Agreed
As someone who is sitting with two rats in there hoodie pocket I also agree 👍
the amount of dust remy was exposed to scares me
Remy was not just a rat, he was a small part of our lives that we will never forget,it was the right thing to do and I'm sure he is safe and thanking you everyday in his little pea brain for making the right decision. It's never easy giving up pets but we will never forget Remy 💙💙
I agree
Bruh talking like it was ur child do u remember that rat now 😭
agreed... also i made the comment number 3 the likes 333 and 3 is da best number. also i have a rat
@@user-fr5tb6zg2f right thats cute that u have a rat
@@coma4977 Sorry, I meant ratS, as they are social animals and NEED a friend, even if you can spend 24/7 with them (which. you can't... for obvious reasons) :)
The “building blocks because I want to teach my rat English” got me rollinggg
Seeing him be so emotional just made me cry❤😢 safe travels Remi
You made a very responsible decision. I'm sure giving back a pet that you're attached to is hard but you clearly cared a lot about his safety which shows you have very good intentions. We love you Ben. ❤
Ben just saying if u wanna get a little guy to take care of that’ll make you feel proud like ur rat son I suggest getting a hampter they’re fat cuddly creatures that in some cases like to be left alone but i think your do great with ‘em👽💃🏻
@@diyathetitan hampter
@@luvlyriley8627 indeed
Indeed
@@diyathetitan HAMPTER
That was a really mature and responsible decision considering how hard it can be to let a pet go, even if you've only had them for some time. You'll find the right pet someday!!! 🐁🐀❤️💗
why r u congratulating him he is doing the bare minumun
@@Thebestlynettemain Just stay quiet if you're going to make others feel unappreciated 💀
@@aboombalakaka8140 im not its basic your not supposed to get a pet for clicks then return it even tho u didnt do no research 😐
@@Thebestlynettemain he returned it bc something unexpected and out of his control happened
MATURE would be if he did not buy rat at the first place... I thought he is teenager because of his behaving and looking younger but as an adult person he should know that first you should think if you can take of animal... In this point, I really think he bought him just for the sake of video for likes and views... which is a disgusting move .. Like you can not buy animal It is cute I want it.. He is my age and I can not imagine anyone around me of our age doing something immature, selfish an unresponsible to animals... If he will not do research and buy animals for fun or because it is cute, I hope he wont buy any other animals. The animals do have feelings and you should firstly be prepared for it like for child not just get it and not knowing what next and do not investe time in proper preparing. Luckily he had rat just for a little time because alredy he did a massive mistake taking it outside. This could cost the rat health because they are sensitive on dust and wind and it could give them respiratory problems on which the rats are sensitive.
Ben-wears a hazmat suit
Also Ben-doesn’t wear a mask
“are you a dog person?”
ben: no
“are you a cat person?”
ben: no
ben: i’m a rat person
Tip for those who are thinking of owning rats or already own some: You should have more than one, I recommend two since they like to stay in groups and are very social creatures. Just make sure they are both the same gender so you don't have to worry about them fighting. Also, DO NOT use the bedding that Ben used in the video. Rats have very sensitive noses, so don't use wood chipping. If you would like more tips, let me know! 😊
How long do they live? Also do the ones u buy have diseases?
@@lydia9757
About 2 years for the regular rat, though it’s hard to let them go, that’s the biggest flaw.
Domesticated rats are way less likely to have diseases than cats or dogs.
@@lydia9757 2-4 years --- I don't know if Yui is referring to like rabies or something
but yes rats are fairly prone to becoming ill and can carry different spreadable viruses
which is why a clean cage environment is a must
@@After_Pasta they don’t live 2-4 years 😂 ans they are referring to stuff like the plague because people associate rats with contagious disease but let me know if your rats lived to four because that might be a world record
@@Elissa_Reads13 Rats typically have short life stages. Domesticated pet rats normally only live 2-4 years-but the longest living rat in captivity lived to be 7 years old! A pet rat's life expectancy is much better than their wild counterparts, though, who typically live less than a year.
My rats died last year and I wish I had just one more day with them. Like Ben said, I know there just rats…but they are living, beautiful, intelligent creatures that deserve so much more love and recognition from humanity. You did the right thing giving Remi away and I hope one day, when you’re ready, you can get more rats and experience the wonder that is owning pet rats.
I’m so sorry for your loss! It’s just a horrible feeling when you loss a pet. Lots of love and ratty kisses!❤️
2:22 *"OOO BAG"*
10:03 BEN NO DONT CRY😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I’m sorry to hear that Ben, when your ready to own another pet I recommend a hamster. Since you seem to be ok with rodents. Not all hamsters are social so you could get a hamster instead so you don’t have to worry about taking care of two rodents. It was very sweet of you to try and make Remy a nice little home but it was for the best, like you said, he’s a social creature. I hope you feel better soon!❤️🩹❤️🩹
Hamsters aren't good starter pets imo
Rats are still far better starter pets
@@koi_eats_grass thats’s true, but Ben has owned multiple pets so I think he knows the responsibility pets come with. I’m not saying he should get a hamster right away, he should still do his research, and there are nothing wrong with hamsters. I’m not saying rats aren’t great but if ben’s looking for a non-social creature then I recommend a hamster, or a beta fish, but fishes aren’t really fun. (Sorry if I sound rude rn, I’m just trying to explain my reasoning a little better, but I see your point)
@@x._.Hachi._.x yea I get what you are saying
It doesn't sound rude btw
He bought a hamster and made a youtube short about it but he deleted it cause of the negativity. He put it in a small cage and clearly didnt do research. Hope he rehomed it
@@koi_eats_grass ok, I'm glad that I didn’t sound rude I didn't want to insult you
You did the right thing. My heartbeat stopped when you brought him outside. You’re lucky you even found him.
This actually made me cry to I was also attached to Remy and I only saw 10 minutes and 28 seconds of him but he was adorable and I feel like you did the right thing I hope he’s happy in nature and may Remy be happy ❤
dude the pain in bens voice at the end broke me like im glad he knew he couldnt take care of remy but i felt so bad. ive never seen him cry and i hope he can get some pet soon!
Hey Ben, I know it was difficult for you to give Remy up again but that was probably the most responsible thing you could have done for that little guy. Not many people have the true courage to admit when their home or lifestyle is not fitting for a pet and I really just want to say I am proud of you for taking that essential and responsible step. Use this as a way to learn and treasure the time with him, not as a mistake. Stay strong
He gave the rat back ?
@@jemdzieci2137at the end yeah
Why are you congratulating him.. He was a terrible owner and he shouldn't have gotten the rat in the first place. He did not know anything on how to care for it. He only got 1, and rats need constant attention every second of their life, and the only way you can do that is buying having 2 or more rats. Also he literally let it outside, that can go wrong in so many ways. Returning the rat was the bare minimum. If he had kept that rat for over a day it could have been depressed and or aggressive. He did not do any research whatsoever.
@@ChickenFryBlox whats your problem, atleast he gave the rat back, thats the most important thing
@@jemdzieci2137 that was lierally the bare minimum
You did really good as a rat owner, I’ve had a few rats before so I can speak from experience. If you ever want another one then I would get a male as they’re usually more mellow. I would also make sure he’s young so that he has more time to feel comfortable in your care. Having rats is a lot of fun and I’ve never had my rats bite ever which is something beginners often fear
I love how different males and females are. All my males can have zoomies, but love cuddling and pats. My girls however are in zoomie mode forever, unless asleep
It’s very true that male rats tend to be more mellow. But always make sure to get them in pairs or more!
Oh yeah good point. They do especially well when you by the pairs from the same breeder so that they have a little background with eachother
@Bryan Wells rats that bite are fairly rare but i have
one that liked to bite just about everything in sight for about the first year
none of my others have ever been like that
how can you say he did great as a rat owner if he only had one rat. he clearly didn't inform himself abouf rats before getting that poor rat.
Tough decision but you did the right thing. Like all the other posters are saying, simply make sure you get at least a pair, and just set up the right amount of space for 'em. U clearly are a loving rat person, and they'll pick up on it right away. Don't give up. A few good rats deserve a loving home!
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Tip1:rats are very smart and can climb over stuff it's most likely that you get a very big cage or get cages and combine them to make a giant cage for your rat to explore.
Tip2:rats are very social so get 2 or more make sure they have lots of toys to play with or they might become depressed.
Tip3:NEVER LET YOUR RATS OUTSIDE! They are most likely to escape and might get killed by cats foxes or any other carnivore even with a cage rats can escape and are very fast. that's all the tips I have for now I hope you will be able to take care of a rat better soon. Also don't forget to make sure you change out the beding for the rats cage😊
Fun fact: rats didn’t cause the Plague. Yersinia Pestis originated in rat fleas and the rats were just as much a victim of the Plague. Rats groom obsessively and are actually cleaner than cats. I've owned 5 rats and they're total sweethearts.
I'm so glad someone else has said this. There's more studies being shown that it was actually humans spreading the plague.
Wild rats can carry some nasties but so does every wild animal. Domesticated rats are good and should only get nasties if they've been outside. You do have to watch out for rat bite fever and it's always good to excersise caution when cleaning their bedding but other than that they shouldn't have diseases.
They can catch ringworm and rat lice though, that's why it's always good to quarantine any new rats in the house for two weeks before introing to the current mischief
NOOO REMYYY!!!💔
Ben, it’s completely not you’re fault DONT be upset! You did amazing. It’s a first time for everything! I’m sure you’ll be able to take care of something as your own someday,❤️.
I mean it kinda is his fault lmao he shoulda researched more dont impulse buy animals this the reason majority of animals aren’t treated well and neglected because people just think ah cute and don’t actually realise it’s hard work regardless of the animal
@@deiadadoll okay you didnt have to say that
@@hi-ng1jn same as he didn’t have to get a rat for the sake of a video not knowing a thing about it he is like 22 he is more than old enough to understand the responsibilities of pets
@@hi-ng1jn I said what I said he’s breaking down in a car over something he caused this why I don’t think many people should be allowed pets because their often mistreated and not cared for properly which is the exact case here I hope he doesn’t have anymore animals
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10:14 i cried watching videos of cute rats the tears these rats cause lmao
Ben its okay to make mistakes! When i first became a hamster owner i made tons of mistakes like introducing her to my dig but those are things that happen! It was your first time taking care of something and you cant just be great at it instantly, you have to do research and learn simultaneously.
It must hurt to give up a pet, not because it was dangerous, but because u felt like u weren't responsible enough, Remy was an adorable chill rat, and i hope he still is an adorable chill rat, and I hope Remy remembers you.😇
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I feel this, so glad he did the right thing and yes it’s such a painful choice to give up a pet for that reason. I was in the process of re homing my rats because I developed an allergy to them over time, hives, itchy eyes, coughing, sneezing and all that. I had like 7 months to bond with them before I knew I was allergic and I couldn’t give them up at that point. They have a great life don’t get me wrong and I’m definitely responsible, but my issue remains in the painful hives that I break out into every time I clean their cage or take them out to play. For me it is worth the sacrifice to keep my babies but there are all sorts of valid and heartbreaking reasons someone might have to re home a pet.
@@e-cigarette2050 I hope you're coping with having to get rid of ur rats😁
finally somebody who doesn’t hate them with a burning passion ❤️❤️❤️❤️
FR!
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Fr rats are literally adorable😭
i literally love rats so much
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I'm so sorry for you I know it is hard to lose someone that feels like family
I’m so sorry that u had to give him back. Hope ur okay and i would recommend (if you do decide to get another rat or a gerbil) letting it run around your room with the door closed. Also if you just got another rat to be his like little buddy you wouldn’t have to give him as much attention and watch his every move because he would have a freind to play with, the cage was probably big enough for quite a few more really. I’d also recommend getting a little bowl or something to fill with dust bath (idk what it’s called ) that you can get at almost any pet shop.
For people who are looking to get a rat as a pet here is a helpful tip (from someone who owns multiple rats themselves) when you are looking to buy a new fuzzy friend make sure you buy two or more as rats are pack animals and can get depressed when by themselves. You can tell when your fuzzy friend is loney when they stop eating or drinking. Its a very sad fact but it happened to my friend after one of her rats passed before the other had. I'll let you know though that rats are very clingy, love attention, and live to cuddle with one another! But make sure you do the propper research before purchasing one as it may take you by surprise when half of your closet gets eaten by your new friend...... Its okay though I still love him! (Sometimes) hope this helps!!! (Also I don't think you guys care but my rats names are Remy, and Dedenne (yes after the Pokemon and the movie rat) and the newest one is goop)
Such cute names !! I also own rats 😃
@@snake4683 that's amazing! I'm sure your fuzzy friends are very happy to have you as their owner lol! Have a wonderful day!
I want a rat!
@@ellierose9444 They make great pets! They are very intelligent and can even be potty trained like a puppy! But know they can be destructive if you don't care for them right. Make sure they have the right food for their diet, the right bedding, and make sure they have many things to hide in or chew. Rodents such as squirrel and rats teeth never stop growing so it's nice for them to have something to chew on. They are also at the bottom of the food chain so they often get anxious if left out in the open. So make sure you have spaces for them to hide in. But please do research before purchasing any animal, especially exotic animals such as birds. Hope this helps you at all!
Tizzy taz.Hi want a rat but I can't get one because I have 2 cats it would not end well. I have a Guinea pig but he's like The size of a bunny so they know not to eat him But they would definitely eat A rat if I had a pet rat because they love hunting rats.
5:55 Ben looks disgusted, hurt, betrayed, went through 5 stages of grief, the whole package
We all feel bad and started to cry as well when we see Ben cry like 10:11 like we know it’s a rat and most people think that rats are disgusting but really they arnt they should be treated like all of the other animals☹️
Some rat fun facts: when they're playful they do this thing called "popcorning" when they Jump up and down like popcorn popping
They do this clicking thing called bruxing anf sometimes they do it so much thst it makes it look like their eyes are popping out of their hesd
Many people have mentioned rats needing other rats to bond with, so I'll throw in another small but very useful tip for rat care... hide aways! Rats love hiding places. You should put lots of places for rats to hide in their enclosure, it makes them feel safe and it stimulates their instincts in a fun way going from one hiding spot to another. It's very easy to get creative with them, too! There are specific ones like sputniks(a plastic toy that can stand on the cage floor or hang from bars), hammocks, plastic igloos, ferret tubes, etc.. If you can't access these for whatever reason, that's fine! Your average dollarstore will have lots of things like tiny plastic buckets and such. You can also use small cardboard boxes... if you have a confident rat, you will often see them roaming, but when they wanna nap nothing is cuter than walking by the cage and seeing a couple tails hanging out of a hammock from a rat slumber party.
My rats were seniors when i got them and didn't like coming out of the cage but they spent their time sleeping or playing with each other.
This ⬆️ 👍🏼
seeing a energetic person like ben cry is heartbreaking very sorry for remy
AAAAND you encouraged bad human behaviour by giving ben the attention he wanted when he posted this video... congratulations...
Bro whar?? Ben was literally crying dude.
@@nunyanunya4147what are you on about
@@nunyanunya4147huh? How is ben a bad person?
Ben you did so good at taking care of Remy we all make mistakes but the fact you cared that much to wait a whole hour for Remy really says something about how you did taking care of him!
Ben you are usually in a goofy happy mood when we see you and to see you cry breaks my heart knowing that Remy was apart of your soul.. hey you could always try again!
Ben’s chaotic energy is literally introverts when they are alone
EDIT: 200 likes in 10 minutes- MOM I AM ALREADY FAMOUS✨
47 likes no comments? Let’s fix that
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From a former rat owner: Rats need friends, getting 2 makes them much happier! Rats are also very clean, cleaner than dogs :)
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U talking about the rats that started a disease or other rats we don't know about
@@Ray_9832*pet
@@Ray_9832 PET rats that are CLEANED :)
Not those rats that invaded my house during Covid😭
9:59 I mean, you’ve made it home for half of the kids on the Internet. They may not be able to express it as well but they feel like your child. They feel like if something’s not going right and they can’t talk to anybody they can go to you make them feel safe and loved like your a home with warmth and love they feel welcomed you’re a lovely person Ben you practically raised your fans you made a home here
It’s so cute when Ben has rat as a child 😊
I can imagine how hard it is giving up on a pet that you love and always wanted
Edit: thx for 500 likes i did not except to have that many likes
one of the hardest things for me was letting my dogs brother go to another family because we cared for him so much but we just could not afford taking care of three dogs i still get to visit him when ever its a good time tough
@@aidenarredondo8321 I can relate
The decision you made was such a mature decision. You didn't feel as if you could provide Remy a proper home, so you brought him back to the person you got him from, knowing that they could probably provide a better environment. My sister just got rats maybe less than a year ago, and they are a huge responsibly. Thank you for making the best decision for you and the rat
he shouldnt have got it in the first place.
@@Chemira. but he wanted it, plus he didn't know all of this would happened. So stop being a jerk please.
@@ken-je3ni well i want a belgian malinois and a doberman but i dont get them just because I feel like it, do I? I know i wont be able to give them the proper care so im being the more responsible person by not getting them in the first place, instead of not taking care of them, ruining them completely, giving them several mental & behavioural problems and then giving the problem to someone else to deal with. He would know what to expect even if he did the bare minimum of research about rats. even a 15 minute video would give him a basic/overall idea of what to expect. Im not being a jerk for calling out animal abuse, you are for defending it.
@@Chemira. but Ben thought he could give it proper care, plus he just wanted something to take care of. I'm just saying please don't be a jerk , he was even mature enough to give it to a good home.
@@Chemira. scartch that jerk part
No, feel bad for you because you had to put back your rat
Congrats on you rat, I would recommend to get your rat a rat hammock they enjoy sleeping in them. Love your content👍
do you know whats the most sad thing in life to experience? watching benjamin cry. lietrally breaks my heart since i see him all the time happy and funny
He deserves to cry, He fuking killed an animal. Do stupid things get stupid results and reality check you can’t release domesticated animals into the wild because they can’t survive they’re literally just going to die
I literally almost cried bruh 😭❤ I love Ben sm and I can't stand him being sad😿
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Seeing Ben cry is actually so sad , you were a great owner Ben and that rat will forever remember you and you’ll always remember him
He was not a good owner to the rat at all...
@@ChickenFryBlox HOW??
@@bangpinkarmyblink5894 well clearly youd be a terrible owner too.. 1, rats need attention 24/7 which a human cannot do so you nned to get more then 1 rat. 2, HE LET IT OUTSIDE?? and im not going to spend my time writing a paragraph
@@ChickenFryBlox everyone makes mistakes at first & considering it was Ben's first time to have a pet rat he did his best. About letting the rat go outside, he wanted to let the rat to play in nature but he didn't knew the rat will run away. What matters is that at last he got it back & it was safe not injured at all. Also for the rat safety he gave away the rat to a safer place with more rat friends
@@ChickenFryBlox for his first time, it was pretty decent compared to others. He gave it proper food, a maintained cage, and cared for it. Some would neglect it, not feed it required food, etc. He really cared for remy.
I’m so sorry that you lost remy, you were a good owner and done better than I ever could. I’ve been watching you since 2020 and have laughed at every video you made, RIP remy or wherever you are❤
Omg no seeing Ben cry just makes me cry too. He deserves everything that he desires❤
I have 7 female rats so I’m glad you decided that you were not ready to take care of one. It’s a LOT of hard work and they are super intelligent and amazing pets!
7????
i have 3 girlies, and will have 3 more at the end of next month, can't wait for the added chaos (plus they are absolutely gorgeous from the pics I have been getting from the breeder)
@@renee7893 yup! I have 7 girl rats! Couldn’t get enough of them!
@@SpottedLeafy awesome to get them from breeders! Happy to hear you will have 6! Congrats!
every day I'm more and more worried about Ben's mental health
me too 😭
@@ariasfave Same
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I'm worried for his health and his mental health 💀 I'm worried for his health cuz rats can give infection and disease's
Edit: ik it is a domestic rat, this comment was for If Remy wasn't a domestic rat💀
Lol fr
2:14 smooth slap
It’s so sad seeing someone so happy, funny, and cheery like Ben cry But he did the right thing thing 😢
Poor Ben he looks so sad and hurt, he deserves better....Remy will always remember you..
Edit: Thx for 140 likes
Yeah...
I agree too
Yeah.
As a person with rats. it makes me happy that you did a mature thing and took remy back, hopefully one day you could get pet rats !! You did a great job taking care of him
I used to have a rat and they are very hard to take care of we actually gave him away I still miss him even knowing he was a rat so I feel for you Ben it was the right decision to give him back❤️
Pet rats don't usally carry the plague or really any disases! Its ok to handle them without any gloves, but wash hands after as if they like you they 'scent mark' which is really just...peeing on you...
Seeing someone as funny,happy, and energetic most of the time like ben cry makes me want to cry aswell
Tips as a rat owner for anyone looking to get a rat!
1. They are social animals so get at least two
2. Hey is a no no, they have very delicate respiratory systems, I recommend newspaper
3. That’s a male rat (since that input was requested
4. they are very clean creature that clean themselves more often than cats
5. Don’t put bedding over all the surfaces, instead put fabric to help prevent them from getting bumble foot
6. rats love climbing and being high up, that is a good cage but it would be better to add some hammocks and bird toys
7. Rats are very adventurous and balanced so it climbing out of the tank is not a big deal, that rat WILL monkey bar across the celling of her cage and be fine lol
8. For the food I’m not familiar with that food brand but it seemed fine, as long as it doesn’t contain alfalfa, I recommend oxbow
9. Rats won’t bite you unless they are under extreme distress, recovering from abuse or mistook your finger as food
10. I don’t think the mist thingy was a good idea, again they have delicate respiratory system so that could suffocate him
11. You probably shouldn’t be interacting with your rat this much on the first and second day, there are a lot of different methods to get your rat used to you but they all take TIME
12. Don’t set up a play pen outside, just don’t- they could overheat, get out, get eaten by wild animals ect
13. That’s not a good play pen for a rat, he will jump over that so easily
14. Having to give a rat back is a very heartbreaking experience, maybe do better research and try again when you’re in a better place to take care of it
Im pretty sure that rat had male genitalia, maybe you should look again? /lh
@@crazyemoontheloose ok, but the male rats that I have seen have very large and easy to identify genitalia
@@crazyemoontheloose I rewatched it, maybe it is a dude, I’m not sure, I’d have to see it in person
My personal recommendation is to have at least 3 rats so when one of them dies you can take your time getting a replacement for it without having to watch the remaining rat get increasingly stressed out from being on its own.
This is male, he has visible testicles.
Remy looks so dead at 9:17
10:00 it’s ok Ben 😔😔😔
I feel so bad for Ben he was so happy at the beginning when he got him. Even tho it was just a rat Ben actually felt a concert between then and it's pretty obvious that he liked the rat And it was really difficult for him to let him go. I really hope you are doing okay Ben
He made the right choice, it’s hard a lot of the time and I’m so selfish I’d never let him go, you did what’s best for remy and that’s more than some of us can image, I can’t describe how much I love that you did what you thought was right even if it meant you’d be sad ❤
yeah i am selfish I would probably won't let him go too
I literally cried during this part😭😭😭😭😭😭 10:04
When he started crying I did too. I can’t stand seeing people that are mostly all fun and full of joy cry, I simply cant take it bro🙁
Honestly I have never seen Ben this sad we hope you feel better Ben ❤
Frrrrr thoo
Bro got me so emotional 😭
frr hes usually all chaotic, a whole mood, energetic but this just upset me, he did it for the good atleast
10:25 is honestly the saddest part
If at a later date you choose to try again, make sure you do research online to find out what they need, how to care for them, and what you should avoid. If you get one from a good, reputable breeder, they should be quite friendly and rats bred to be pets don't require a hazmat suit or gloves, but maybe some hand washing after handling.
Be sure to ask he breeder all kinds of questions about how to bond with them and things you should know about.
I'm sorry to hear you had to take your new friend back to the breeder. Hopefully one day you will try again. They really are super sweet and make such good pets. They are just various curious, love to climb, and they have tiny little claws that can be prickly even when they are not trying to scratch you. xp Don't hold it against them if they leave you with very fine scratches on occasion, they can't help it.
The ending, your little speech had me crying
Aww Ben, not everyone starts of responsible of raising an animal or a child, I was heart broken when my dog killed my baby chicken who I bonded well with, but I've learnt from my mistakes and I know I can take care of another one better in the future. I hope one day you can get your Remy back and feel better about yourself in raising a rat ❤
Aw, I feel bad for you, I need to say I almost love my dog more then my family... I know how it is-
How did it happen?
@@ItzEvelyn2 I left my chick outside with her sisters while I went in for lunch- the place we keep them was barricaded from my dog- but I guess he got too tempted and broke the barricade somehow and killed her [the other two survived- he probably didn't see them because they were smaller]. I was so sad, but this was a few years ago so I'm alright now😅😅
9:02 IM CRYINGG😭😭😭😭
6:28 bars✨
im glad you recognized it was better for him to go to someone else and was the right thing if though it made you sad this broke my heart i hope your okay
dude I don't know whether to feel horrible for you or laugh hysterically 😭💀
Ben you have never been this emotional before ur so funny and energetic all the time so if ur not feeling good it’s ok to express yourself to others and i hope Remy has a great life ❤
your user 💀sounds like Remy is saing this
Shhhhh I’m trying to be sneaky ur about to blow my cover
@Hi I’m rat I live in a mess ohhh right sorry 🤐🫡
@@bg1998FRRR
Even though this was a while ago you should still be told this. As a rat owner myself, you did a really good job. Even though you had a scary moment you still stayed there and protected Remy when you only wanted him to see cool stuff. You are a good rat dude or rat dad or whatever you wanna be. 🐀
Hey Ben I’ve been watching your videos for a year I had a Mouse and she died at night so this is so lovely and it made my day I know it’s not a mouse but it’s just so cool to know people like those animals ❤
i started sobbing in the end this man was mature enough to do the right thing but seeing him so upset made me feel bad for him :( i love ben sm and im glad he did the right thing
I'm sorry it didn't work out Ben, I understand how much it hurts, but it was very responsible of you to return Remy. I'm proud of you man.
Im a first time rat owner, and dude i did NOT expect it to be more than what it is. Its more work than you think. But theyre do precious. He should get some more after reading up on it
“I know it’s just a rat” I giggled he sniffled I cried 😢