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Komentáře • 93

  • @shandisfancher8766
    @shandisfancher8766 Před 6 měsíci +22

    Honestly, props to you for having “boring and predictable” finances… consistency with finances and being able to stick to your budget is a huge accomplishment!!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci +1

      I totally agree! Now I'm obviously not perfect.. I definitely make impulsive Amazon purchases & overspend sometimes but for the most part, my budget is just very predictable 😂

  • @cucumberbreezee
    @cucumberbreezee Před 6 měsíci +52

    Thank you SO MUCH for keeping the questions on the screen! I love having videos on while I clean and if I need to leave for a second & come back it’s so hard to figure out what question is being answered if you miss it! This is awesome!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci +11

      Ah good to know it's helpful!! I never know if I should leave it on screen or not!

  • @SelenaTrevino
    @SelenaTrevino Před 5 měsíci

    loved this chatty chill catch-up

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 5 měsíci +1

      I really wish none of us had daddy issues, but I feel like makes me less alone when I hear other people talk about them 🥹🫶🏻

  • @xnocturnalwavex
    @xnocturnalwavex Před 6 měsíci +13

    Happy Sunday! To answer your home reno filming question, I enjoy the updates throughout vlogs but find most important a before/after once you’re done. It could be in a vlog alongside the final update, some before clips to remind us what it had been (it’s so satisfying to see the changes!!). If a standalone video will help more with views/channel growth, do what you’ve gotta do 🤑 because I’d absolutely watch that too

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you for the feedback! This is honestly my preferred way to do it. I give all the home reno channels out their immense kudos because its so hard to remember to set a camera up everytime you're doing something around the house and then organize all the footage for a video! Sharing updates in vlogs is easiest & putting together a reel!!

  • @diaryandgirl
    @diaryandgirl Před 6 měsíci +6

    I love how beautiful this video is-the night and the wine and the light make for such cozy catching up with your friends sleepover vibes! thanks so much for your transparency in this video. I know you describe your channel all about getting through your 20s raw & unfiltered and I think this video really showcased it 💌

  • @ameliarose47
    @ameliarose47 Před 6 měsíci +7

    As someone whose only ever had cats, its wild to me just how much goes into dogs. Not just the size and having to walk them but all of the training. Yes you can teach cats some stuff but you dont have to. Dogs it seems almost mandatory so they dont tear up your home and run away after squirrels and things. So glad that despite the challenges you're putting the work in for Delilah and giving her a new chance at life (and preventing her from potentially being euthanized in the shelter).

  • @MadsBee3
    @MadsBee3 Před 6 měsíci +3

    I like reels for the home Reno’s with updates in the vlogs! Might also be cool to do one “wrap up” sit down video saying what all you did like the under $500 kitchen Reno and where you spent with pics or videos incorporated?!

  • @bhavikashah7065
    @bhavikashah7065 Před 6 měsíci +4

    It is so so important for all women to discuss birth control with a doctor especially with so much misinformation all around. I'm a dermatologist and I've seen so many people with really bad acne flares or dryness after experimenting with isotretinoin. I know healthcare in the US and Canada is more expensive than here in India but it makes a lot of difference!
    It's great that you're so respectful of your family and their comfort levels being in front of the camera.
    I have a friend who started posting fitness content on CZcams and she had to stop because of the number of people constantly commenting on her diet and lifestyle. It does get really taxing after a point to be bombarded with advice.
    I love reno content as shortform or longform but I feel it will perform better as shortform content.
    Have a great week!

  • @samanthaallen8323
    @samanthaallen8323 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I've been in a reading slup for years and you got me out of it, so Thank you!! The Shadow Hunters series is soon good I can't put it down! I rented City of Bones from my library however now I plan to buy the series! I would love to read them all! I'm going in order of Cassandra Clare's recommendation to start.

  • @MadisonEran
    @MadisonEran Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this video and your thoughts! You couldn’t be more accurate about the creator dynamic of a relatable and interesting. Just know that those of us that actually watch because of who you are as a person don’t give a crap about being “interesting” because you already are. Hope you have an amazing day!

  • @hannahwright1385
    @hannahwright1385 Před 6 měsíci +5

    THANK YOU for the birth control chat!! it kills me that birth control is made out to be something horrible recently. i love my birth control!!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci +2

      I am all for doing what's best for your body. For some that may be getting off of it but that doesn't mean it should be demonized you know? Just because it doesn't work for one person doesn't mean it won't work for another! P

  • @karissawidder9538
    @karissawidder9538 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love specific videos! A kitchen vlog would be fun!!!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci

      I honestly love them so much but it's just so much work to keep up with uploading 2 to 3 times a week and then also doing renovations vlogs but I'm gonna try my best!!

  • @pinkcoffeedrink
    @pinkcoffeedrink Před 6 měsíci +1

    Having a “boring, predictable life” is aspirational to me 😆

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Same! If being "boring" means I'm at peace and content that's all I want

  • @amyelizabeth4058
    @amyelizabeth4058 Před 6 měsíci

    Love the aesthetic of this video!!! ♥️ and honestly I do love your finance content because I relate to it so much and it helped me get a budgeting spreadsheet & how to break down my spending categories etc

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci

      This is so kind! I'm so glad you enjoy it🥹💸

  • @raeraemillstone
    @raeraemillstone Před 4 měsíci

    Love the doggie content ans i LOVE your views on relationship! Great advice

  • @truecollar9059
    @truecollar9059 Před 6 měsíci +2

    so excited to watch this and have a catch up ❤ love your content!

  • @gaablove8054
    @gaablove8054 Před 6 měsíci +1

    You're so close to 100k! Here since about 13k :)

  • @JMott
    @JMott Před 6 měsíci

    Like you said it's your channel ... I watch for you! If Matt is in the vlog it's just because he's in your vlog. Love that you respect him and or his boundaries.

  • @pixeleverafter
    @pixeleverafter Před 6 měsíci

    I've been really enjoying your vids lately, Carter! Love these longer vlogs, it really feels like we're just hanging out and I'm here for itttt😃💕

  • @victoriaaaaaa57
    @victoriaaaaaa57 Před 6 měsíci

    Yes I would love home office on a budget videos!! Looking to make over my office space as well, so I would love some ideas

  • @Rebe650
    @Rebe650 Před 6 měsíci

    1:37 I was just telling my partner about how much I love your channel and that I think we would be such great chatty friends IRL!
    Love from your bestie from Ecuador💖

  • @karaarmbruster1595
    @karaarmbruster1595 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Oh my gosh we have the same tattoo! I have veni vidi vici above my elbow 😂

  • @JMott
    @JMott Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love budgeting videos! I found you from that content but it's ok lol I like your book content too.

  • @MELmodelesque
    @MELmodelesque Před 6 měsíci

    I havent seen a vid of yours in my main feed in over a year!!! I thought you took a break or something. Glad you’re ok and youve been active all this time. ❤

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Wow so strange! Still uploading 2-3 times a week over here🥰 Feel free to follow on IG and/or TT to keep up with my life too since I post regularly on there as well!

  • @jordanmayer5621
    @jordanmayer5621 Před 6 měsíci

    Yes to the full reno vlog!

  • @isabelbeck7
    @isabelbeck7 Před 6 měsíci +1

    35:34 It's so easy to feel alone in having a parent who's just "not there" as an adult. There's the guilt of thinking "I'm so lucky I have two parents who love me but this also hurts" a lot of people don't get it 😭

  • @lexs0208
    @lexs0208 Před 6 měsíci

    Yes give us renovation vlogs! I am renovating same time frame as you (since Nov) and need inspo!

  • @laceybeanreads
    @laceybeanreads Před 6 měsíci

    Love the sit down /having a phone call kinda vibes 🫶 Hope that you are having a great weekend, Carter!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci +1

      It's been a yucky rainy weather weekend here so lots of relaxing! Hope yours was good as well xo

  • @rootedreinvention
    @rootedreinvention Před 6 měsíci

    I'm totally up for what's easier for you but LOVE vlogs of reno / updates/budget redos - even if you rolled a bunch of reels into a longer form "diary of the reno" or something :)
    Also, thank you for sharing the parent stuff - i dont think you need to share anything more than "actually, i have both sides of this" and thats enough for most people to go "oh, i got you" and thats great you feel able to share some parts in DMs :)

  • @JordynLynnia
    @JordynLynnia Před 6 měsíci

    I love your birth control story because I relate to it so much

  • @jordanlouie6603
    @jordanlouie6603 Před 6 měsíci

    The honesty and real talk in this video is chefs kiss!! I loved it and the cozy vibes in this!

  • @peachy__pg
    @peachy__pg Před 6 měsíci

    happy sunday carter 💝 i hope you have a good week!

  • @JMott
    @JMott Před 6 měsíci

    I get the safety component too. I won't even share my face lol

  • @crawfordjennifer2015
    @crawfordjennifer2015 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing! I absolutely love your videos and ! Have a blessed and wonderful week! 🌼🦋🍄

  • @Zigkiss
    @Zigkiss Před 6 měsíci

    I would like separate reno vlogs. I think it's helpful for inspiration to be able to go back and find those videos. I am working on projects on my house too so if you do something I really love it's nice to be able to go back to that video and see it again. It'd be harder to find if you have little bits in regular daily vlogs.

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci +1

      I definitely plan on filming some of the home projects in their own video! And for the ones that I don't, I will be filming reels & shortform content for- so it will hopefully be the best of both worlds!

  • @oliviabergin99
    @oliviabergin99 Před 6 měsíci

    Love these chatty vids!!! I’d love to see the Reno’s but prefer updates through weekly / weekend / daily vlogs, and short form!!

  • @Klara_is_finding_herself
    @Klara_is_finding_herself Před 6 měsíci

    Happy Sunday evening 🌼 I love your content 🩵

  • @anna_teresa
    @anna_teresa Před 6 měsíci

    Oh now I want to have a mocktail - buuuut I am sitting here with a hot chocolate and listening :D

  • @jennak6793
    @jennak6793 Před 6 měsíci

    I got my dad a russian blue breed cat from the shelter last year & he named her blue from Jurassic, she is kinda crazy but he loves her.

  • @emilyfraser-read441
    @emilyfraser-read441 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am HEREEEEE for big sister Carter content!!!

  • @kalisue6573
    @kalisue6573 Před 6 měsíci

    For my wedding- 100 people in my in laws back yard- we did a wood fired pizza food truck and it was perfect!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci

      Omg thats literally our exact plan! Sounds so dreamy, lowkey and fun!

  • @sereneadair4941
    @sereneadair4941 Před 6 měsíci

    I have been struggling with PTSD a few years back and its only been recently I have heard others share their story. Thank you for sharing yours..

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci +2

      Sending hugs! My DM's are always open if you need to chat❤️

  • @RichelleBStone
    @RichelleBStone Před 6 měsíci

    Greetings from NC, USA :) Maybe do Percentages for finances to protect specific amount for privacy/safety sake. Anyway, love all your vids!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci

      I probably should have clarified this some more- it's not my budget sharing that I feel is a privacy/safety thing, I feel as though I have a pretty average budget. it's all those other trending personal finance videos talking about "how much I have saved & invested" and sharing in depth money & savings numbers. That is the content I've really taken a step back on because no one needs to be putting their exact investment portfolios & savings balances online IMO. That's why I felt the need to take a step back from creating all this personal finance content because it felt like everything (besides my monthly budgets) that I was filming was a abit of a safety concern. Hope that makes sense! But I do see others do percentages for their monthly budgets which is great, I just have no issue sharing my monthly budget (it's mainly all the other videos).

  • @BrielleJuliet
    @BrielleJuliet Před 6 měsíci

    Do you have the link for that cute lamp on your side table?? I love her

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci

      Its from Amazon!!! I have it linked on my IG highlights!

    • @BrielleJuliet
      @BrielleJuliet Před 6 měsíci

      @@CarterSullivan thank you!

  • @JMott
    @JMott Před 6 měsíci

    Thanks!

  • @raquelfigueroa
    @raquelfigueroa Před 6 měsíci +1

    Good morning from California 🫶🏽✨

  • @nfrwasherbestalbum
    @nfrwasherbestalbum Před 6 měsíci

    you have such good takes tbh. thanks for sharing ❤❤

  • @JMott
    @JMott Před 6 měsíci

    I wish you would host like a Friday night wine night so we could chat lol because this is you chat and I try to keep up. This would be an awesome zoom or something

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci

      I do go live on Instagram as well from time to time!

  • @kierstinrishel7768
    @kierstinrishel7768 Před 6 měsíci

    I don’t have many friends so this video felt so good I love the catch up videos. Also would love long form house Reno videos. definitely need the budget friendly and realistic ideas

  • @Billy33753
    @Billy33753 Před 6 měsíci

    Love the lamps makes the room look homey

  • @JMott
    @JMott Před 6 měsíci

    Don't feel like your doing me a favor lol I just watch your channel when I'm doing the dishes or my makeup

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Před 6 měsíci

    Good Morning Carter!! Greetings from India♥️♥️🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @ryanrowe1975
    @ryanrowe1975 Před 6 měsíci +1

  • @kpatten100
    @kpatten100 Před 6 měsíci

    💖💖💖

  • @RJ-bj8ic
    @RJ-bj8ic Před 6 měsíci

    💛💛💛💛💛

  • @nicolepinkerton5564
    @nicolepinkerton5564 Před 6 měsíci

    Just wanted to point out that you said you did not want to share what year your elopement is going to be but then that you would share the elopement budget “next year when the time comes.”
    In case that was an accident and you want to edit it out.

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci

      I did share when we got engaged that we would elope within 2 years, we're just not sharing exactly when it's happening date wise next year but I've said before that it would be before the end of 2025! But I appreciate the comment 🥰

  • @rylsn
    @rylsn Před 6 měsíci +2

    i love your channel!

    • @CarterSullivan
      @CarterSullivan  Před 6 měsíci +2

      Thank you so much!! So glad you're here🥰

  • @KattsLife
    @KattsLife Před 6 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @actgirl1234567
    @actgirl1234567 Před 6 měsíci

    ❤❤❤