Confident Body Language: 8 Tips To Make You Look More Self-Confident
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In this video, I share 8 body language tips that will help you look and sound confident. Some of these tips are taken from the former FBI agent and body language expert- Joe Navarro- and his book "Louder Than Words."
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Confident body Language Tips
1. Eye contact
2. Smile
3. Maintain open body posture
4. Open palm and steepling
5. Mirroring
6. Having good manners
7. Looks and grooming
8. Dress for respect
Thank you.
This is a great video; all 8 tips are important. The last tip, dressing respectfully, should be a more common subject in etiquette videos and discussions. This also includes dressing for special occasions such as weddings, funerals, or going to a house of worship. I’ve seen too many people dressed like they’re lounging in their living room.
I agree with you
How to look confident:
1. Strong eye contact
2. Having a genuine Smile
3. Maintaining body posture : thumbs out, palms visible, stippling, verbal mirroring
6. Having a good manners
7. Looks and good grooming
8.dress for respect, dress up who you want to be.
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Jamila, thank you so much for all of the work and effort that you pour into this channel. I benefit SO much from your content and I look up to you so much. Thank you for being a lovely role model! Lots of love from Brazil ❤️
I really appreciate your tips on eye contact. Especially how you mentioned what we can do when we feel uncomfortable. After all, unfortunately, not everyone watches these etiquette videos, so we have to deal with them all the time. Very grateful for your videos!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Jamila, you are the finest role model for people world-wide!
Exactly, we can use her as a role model to dress up to and for etiquette knowledge.
Thank you so much!
The tips on eye contact are practical and useful. Thanks for elaborating beyond the "eye contact is important" cliche and acknowledging the importance of cultural background!
Thank you 😊
You are a great help to some people who did not receive such significant teaching from school keep up the good work and may God give you good health to continue making these lovely videos 🙏🙏 from 🇸🇸🇸🇸🇸🇸 🇸🇸
Thank you 🙏🏻
Wow your videos are so helpful and useful ❤
Hi, Jamila! These videos are gold for me, I really struggle with social anxiety so, having a plan and rehearsing calms my panic a lot! Thank you so much!
Try to become confident instead of looking confident :)
@@chiarascura7574 That how normally goes, with things that require experience the only hard but successful way is the "fake it until you make it" but, thank you for the advice! :)
Absolutely !
You are very welcome 🤗
your voice makes me so relaxed and thank you for the tips
I love your tone of voice, so calming and securing, thank you for your tips! ❤
Thank you 🙏🏻
lovely dress and great topic! we can always use tips to appear (and then feel ) more confident 🥰🙂
Excellent video!
Thanks!
Thankyou so much jamila ❤
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Thank you, Jamila, for sharing these valuable tips! I always learn a lot from your videos. The only part of the mirroring tip I would not use would be to mirror adjectives. If someone says "stunning," then I would not repeat that word and would use "beautiful" instead because repeating "stunning" feels too contrived, too parroted. However, using the same language to describe certain nouns, such as saying "issue" instead of "problem," seems like a great idea, especially when discussing work projects.
Inspiring and well done as always! Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you 🙏🏻
Great video ❤️
Thanks Jamila, so informative and helpful! 😊
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Excellent video. Thank you for doing it.
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Thank you so so so much Jamila for giving this 8 tips on how to make you look more self- confident beautiful it's truly truly helpful to me and I really love your videos so so much and I wish you reach 700K Subscribers very very soon!💞✨☺️
Thank you!
Warm greetings to you Jamila,
I love how you explain these things so well. You don't know how you are playing a huge role in making people's personalities like me better and better day by day with your knowledge, etiquette and manners. I aim to be more like you with a special personality that everyone adores.
Thank you dear ma'am 😊💗.
Thank you so much!
Thank you very much, You have realy helped me by this tips.
Glad I could help!
Great video thank you. 🙏🏽
Glad it was helpful!
On youtube your channel is my fav♥️ love your content, whenever I saw your vedio's notification get more excited to learn something new 😊 keep uploading ! Good work 💫
Thank you very much ☺️
I have read all the books suggested by you. And all of them were really amazing. And next, I will be reading this one!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Just gorgeous Jamila, amazing video!
Thank you
Hello, and thank you so much Jamila, another great and inspiring video.
I would like just react about "mirroring".
I am not an expert in body language at all, but personnally, I think that mirroring another person (especially in words) may show, on the contrary, a lack of personnality.
We all have our words, our favorite and personal expressions, it's part of our overall signature.
I remember a colleague of mine who loved using other's very personal words and expressions, as if he "stole" them, in a way. He began to use and re-use the word / expression, and finally we all noticed that it wasn't his genuine way of speaking. And he was laughed at, sadly.
That's a bit extreme, of course. I really think that mirroring should be done in a very very subtle way, even in one simple and unique conversation.
Greatings from France 🌹🌹🌹.
I think mirroring happens naturally so that kind of mirroring is ok. You get to keep your personality while allowing people to feel welcomed.
this was fantastic and should be taught in school... thank you maam
Thank you! I agree
Lovely video, thanks for sharing.
Thank you!
I am highly impressed by her way of giving the knowledge as I am watching her all vedios. It's very difficult for me to take my eyes off . The fluency in explaining things in simplest language and don't wanna miss her any word as she took my all attention. Lots of love with respect Jamila ❣️from India ✌️
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Great video!
Thanks
Thank you so very much for sharing . I have learnt a lot from this video , but the funny thing is that I was only thinking today about these very topics and how to improve myself . If I might add , I really do not know about editing or filming or public speaking but this video had a beautiful flow to it as does your approach to the topics. Thank you. Tracey 🇬🇧💛🤍
You are welcome, Tracey ☺️
Hey Jamila..... Love ur videos.... Indeed its best etiquette channel on CZcams...... Could u plz make videos on travelling etiquettes, bathroom etiquettes, kitchen etiquettes, public dealing etiquettes..... I know u must be thinking y bathroom etiquettes but i think elegant person should always be filled with full of etiquettes.... Doesn't matter she is with people/ surrounded by people or all alone..... It would be really helpful to grow as person.... Lots of Love..... God bless you.... Keep it up.... Keep growing..... Keep enrich us with etiquettes......❤❤❤❤❤
Jamila im still 1 min in the video and the first thing I noticed is how beautiful you look! MashaAllah, I also really love how this lip shade compliments your face
Thank you so much Jamila!
Such a nice and respectful way. So much good common sense.
You really embody what you say. That's always the truest way!
Thank you for your lovely words 🙏🏻
@@JamilaMusayeva 😊🙏
Love this topic and thanks again for another great video! You've done videos on how to have a good posture, may I suggest you do a topic on facial expression management, especially when giving a public talks, or shoot video from your own experiences? 😊
Noted☺️ thank you!
Key points---
Trick to maintain a good eye contact is to check if you are able to see their eye colour,try until you see it.
One to disengage from eye contact first is considered weaker & submissive. To build power avoid disengaging first. Look in the eyes & imaginary triangle there.
Dress for respect (take yourself seriously) , groom yourself.
Hand gestures - open palm , steepling is super useful.
Mirroring - their vocabulary especially (makes them feel they are being heard).
Be an active listener , be genuinely interested in others(they have experiences that you dont have, its like a new learning opportunity).
Lovely video!
Thank you!
These are all great tips. The problem with me is I forget all of these once I meet someone and then remember after I already gave a first impression 😂
The more you practice, the better you will become
This is a great video
Thank you so much for all these information you share with us ❤️ I just started a teaching job, and your videos on public speaking and now on confidence help me present myself better.
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Hello,
Please, please, please, please, please could you do more videos on being elegant. I want to know so much more. I love you videos.
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Noted ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you! 😊😊
Thank you❤
Greetings Lady Jamila,
Ok.. Good... Take Care..
With regards,
RanjithJoseph (R.J)
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Jamia Musayeva....... Love from 🇮🇳India. I like your all videos😊
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I love you videos thank you
Thank you!
Thank you so much beautiful lady ❤🙏
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Please make a video about professionalism in corporate world to those who are new to it.
P.S. I love your videos and the way you present yourself.
Thank you. Start watching my business etiquette playlist ☺️
Good content. Keep it up 👌🏻👍🏻
Thank you!
Great video.
Thank you!
Sizi cox sevirem ve umid edirem kanaliniz daha da boyuk kutlelere yayilar.
Sag olun 🙏🏻
Really very much useful n informative tips n lessons. 🙂.
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@@JamilaMusayeva most welcome ☺😊.
Thank u
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Wonderful video! I agree with every word! Talking about grooming... I find your makeup look soooo elegant. Please, could you share what color is your lipstick? Thanks 🤗
Thank you! It is a mix of lipliners ☺️
Nice 🙏
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Welcome
Could you please make a part 2 of this video?😊
Noted ☺️
Could you please guide us a bit about how to slim down the lower half of the body? You are so pretty and mostly provide us with the best pieces of advice as you possibly can! I would be glad if you could touch on that subject too. I go belly dancing but it does not seem to be effective for me to get a bit slimmer. 😑 Much love!😊💖
Go in for full body workout
Walking and Pilates at home workouts help me 😊
You are very pretty today🥰🥰
Hello Jamila. It would be lovely if you do an etiquette video about beach and swimsuit. It's something nobody talks about. Maybe you could also show us some of your favourite swimsuits, flip flops, beach bags,... Thank you
ma’am i feel like you're now my role model 🤭☺️
Thank you!
In some African countries, Kenya included eye contact is perceived as being rude and disrespectful. When extending a greeting one is forgiven for maintaining an eye contact but do not stare
Hi!! Could you make more videos on grooming tips for women? ❤️
I have done some. Check my beauty and wardrobe playlist
Can we have more fashion content?
Greetings from Germany ♥️
What exactly would you like to see?
I always love your videos ♥️✔️ But isn’t this the Illuminati Hand signal?
All the other tips are great!
No. It is a gesture called steepling. Emperors and rules have used it long before.
What are you tips for staying thin and looking young?
Eat healthy, work out, drink plenty of water,and mind your business 😘
I will consider doing a video on that
I struggle with eye contact, it's not that I'm too shy to look someone in the eye, but for some reason my eyes unconsciously go to the lower triangle of the face even when it's not appropriate, and when I catch myself doing it I try to keep my gaze on the upper triangle but that causes me to completely lose focus from the conversation and what the other person was saying :/
Can you do a video about, zoom calls, women's makeup,and proper under garments! Women who wear no bras. Gossip and proper discussions. I also notice if you wear a necklace you do not wear earrings, I feel the same but many wear a ton of stuff, perhaps less is more as I always say. Where I live designer pocket books, shoes and beaded bracelets are huge, in a casual hot climate. Thanks again for your guidance. Men or women wearing hats in restaurants or church? Children's behavior in restaurants and public places with parents? I worked so hard on that and I see children that have no respect or manners. Color analysis has helped me greatly as well on male up and dressing! I also would love to know your thoughts on eating out, drinking, drinking too much and how to pay, split or get our own bill. My husband and I end up picking up the tab now because people start to expect it, then we end up babysitting a few grown classy people all night because they drink to much.
Thank you, elegant lady! Could you share , please ,where does your dress comes from. Thanks
It is by Caroline Constans
@Jamila, I was thinking you were going to produce the 1-hour video, I forgot about the topic, however, it was going to be interesting if you had developed the video.
Can you elaborate on your point
@@JamilaMusayeva My operation to you was about the 1-hour long video. I picked it up from your story which is advertised on your Instagram, however, I am not aware of the topic, so, can you elaborate for me, Jamila.
Hii mam , mam how to find stong feature in body.
And mam your suggestion is Always brilliant ,can you tell me how i improve my English means i can understand but couldn't speak fluently.
Listen and speak more in English to become fluent
❤️hi
In the point of Mirroring, what if you're the tourist who doesn't know their language/vocabulary well? How are we then supposed to take the conversation further and amicable?
Hello,👋👋👋im interested at Etiquette book how? From Philippines ❤️
I know it’s off topic but your décolletage looks very moisturizer. I’m curious to know if highlighter was used or body oil?
It is a mix of body oil and highlighter ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva it looks great, I’m wondering if I should try this or maybe for the camera only. I’d love to work on my body language. Is the book you mentioned the best starting point reference? ( more for personal use not career)
Please react to Zendaya eating on vogue Italy, I think u have a lot to teach when u watch it
Will do ☺️
Hlo jamila you are really amazing lady I love your tutorial but please do you have any special advice or trick to loose weight I m a teenager and i try really hard to shed some weight but nothing work for me bcoz I try everything for short time and give up noo matter how much I am hurt from ppl talks but when I start any exercise or diet I m fully confident that I will achieve my target weight but within some week I stopped and failed but I never give again I get hurt from ppl disrespecting behaviour and start again the same thing happened again ..from almost 5,6 years I am trying but really trust you I fell connected with you like I know you dont know what is this but I think you and only you could help me in this ..plzzzz reply me I am waiting for your reply you have to reply plzzzzz zzzzzzz
Yes and no to the "dress for the job u want". I worked my entire professional life around corporate/business types and the most successful ones wore the most casual (yes, sometimes very expensive) clothes, because they had nothing more to prove. We even joked you could tell who the assistants were in a room because they were dressed sharper than the CEO, they were trying too hard. Especially these days, after working from home for over 2 years, no one cares anymore, I see managers in shorts, cat t-shirts, boobs everywhere...
Intentional / relaxed dressing preference mostly depends on one's personality. It's just that the dressing rules have changed and now allow people to dress how they truly want, so we finally see those who have always wanted to dress less fomal.
Another rule that applies is the "poor people start to dress sharp - richer people make relaxed a trend", "lots of people start getting lip injections - richer people start valuing harder-to-achieve natural looks".
It has more to do with the mindset that you would like to have. If dressed in jeans you feel empowered, do that. But usually the sharper you look, the more confident and empowered you feel. Dress for the job you want means look like someone you want to become before you become that.
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Dear Jamila, thank you for the videos. Can you kindly do a video on Grooming. Everything grooming, detailed to look super polished like you. And what do you think about grey hair on women in their early 30s? Do you think it affects appeal on men. Thank you!
I have gray hair and I dye it black.
Dressing in modest clothes if you are visiting a conservative families in some middel estern countries
Another important note if you are a man do not shake your hand with a woman in the middel eastern conservative countries
U have good points but your voice is kinda annoying after a while
Casualness kills credibility.
Thanks Jamila.
Also, I followed the link to your IG account but I can't seem to find your account 🤷.