The Truth About My Abuse….
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- The Truth is not easy for people to hear
The Truth is a difficult pill to swallow
but The Truth will also liberate us from the shackles of Shytan.
For anyone who has been through such as abuse, just know Allah allowed it to happen for reasons not understandable to us.
But know that Allah has never forgotten us rather there is a special prize waiting for us due to our patience.
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for watching.
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I'm not making fun of you; Im not disgusted by you. I am your brother in Islam. I thank you for sharing this horrible experience as a wake up call to me and the other siblings of the Ummah. May Allah makes us firm and steadfast on our religion and protect us from the evil within us and our surroundigs. take this
Allah humma aameen ya rabbil ‘alameen
ايش الموضوع ما فهمت شي
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jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your love & support.
I appreciate you.
@@mohammadhajeer3649 شكرا على الرد
Habibi you’re one strong, gifted and inspirational brother. May Allah use you to help those to be strong and also aware ! 🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
Helloz
Bro ur a famous CZcamsr I luv ur vidz
Not a Muslim. I’ve been recommended your channel a couple of times over the years, and I noticed this in my feed today. Other than that, I have no knowledge about your platform. Nevertheless, I just wanted you to know that I think you are incredibly brave for speaking out in this issue. May God bless you and May He ease the pain which you had to go through.
Ameen may god guide us to the straoght path🤲🤲🤲
@@AliMezz Amin!
Ameen🤲🏼
@@AliMezz Aameen
It hit home to me when you said “Allah is my therapist” it’s literally what I’ve been saying to people as well. I’m sorry for what you went through and glad that it made you stronger! We all have mistakes and/ir things that we are ashamed of that we wouldn’t dare to say to anyone, but it takes courage to speak to the internet about such things. Forgive your past self for everything as long as your are still seeking Allah’s path he’s the most merciful and the all knowing. May Allah forgive all of our sins and help us make up for all the shortcomings we keep on falling in day after day. 🤲❤️
Amiin ya rabbi al'Alameen
I've been watching you since i was 14 or 15, but I'm 17 gonna turn 18 this year. And everytime I've commented just something like I love you or something like that but today i wanna comment something different. Wallahi I'm so proud of you, you are one of the strongest people i've ever came across. You forever my brother, i ain't ever disgusted in you. If anything, i respect you 100x more than I did before, i'll continue to support you forever Inshallah
I appreciate you & your kindness.
Means a lot to have such a beautiful community.
People want this type of love & loyalty but Allah has just blessed me with you.
You guys are the true hero!
@@WAYOFLIFESQ I love you my brother SQ! Same here I will always support you no matter what because you are so real and you always want the good for us teaching and giving us advices. I don’t have the words to describe the amount of respect and empathy I feel for you! This Video was like a wake up call for me. InshaALlah we’ll meet in Janatul al firdaws and all my Muslim brothers and sisters!
you are appreciated
Yooo, this story is insane Subhanallah. This is honestly what terrifies me most about having kids. Especially if I have a daughter. Because if someone violates my child in any way, man or woman, I'm going to jail, maybe even prison. And you can't shelter your kids too much, nor can you let them run loose anyhow, it's a delicate balance. I'm glad my parents did their best to protect me. I used to get mad that I couldn't do certain things other kids could do, even as I got older like stay at certain friends houses, stay out late with the boys, or go to birthday parties and what not. Now I see why, and considering the fact that my parents were immigrants and weren't raised in America, I see now why they were extra cautious of where I was. Now looking back, I realized I ain't miss out on nothing. I still had a great childhood and had good and bad memories just like everyone else. Glad you made it out SQ, and may Allah make the one's who didn't recover from their trauma and make them prosperous. Ameen.
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your comment
Subhanallah you’re right
It’s scary but we don’t feed the fear, we rely on Allah.
We know Allah is the one who protects us. So we rely on Him.
He will always take care of His servants
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for this
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@@WAYOFLIFESQ which country are doing this am interested am in Nigeria
@@fataizainab5365 pakistan i think
😂😂😂 bahahahaha
Brother as a sister I respect you for sharing such a traumatic incident. I know how hard this must've been to talk and publish on this platform, especially being an Asian Muslim man. You are a top brother for being so so brave. This is a huge issue within our society, especially in the developing countries and these uncomfortable, horrible issues needs to be addressed and safeguard our children/people from such filth and destruction.
Sitting here in tears...May Allah bless you for your bravery in speaking out about this traumatic event in your life. My heart breaks for you and the other children...Stay strong .. you have helped others by making this video. Making lots of dua for u bro
jazzahkum Allahkhyr my sister for your kindness
What we think of u does not change the slightest bit. U were a kid, vulnerable and innocent. Alhamdulilah for everything
Subhanallah
May Allah continue to preserve you❤️
100%
Someone said "Yea what he did was a sin"... he was a kid..there was no sin, it was wrong but he isn't held accountable for that plus he was a victim to his circumstances, some of yall need to chill, WE NEED to have these conversations, we might not get it right cause many of us are just starting but this is very much needed, people are too silent on these things that are so common (sexual abuse, child abuse etc)
That’s why abuse continues to happen & people are forced into silence; not be the abusers but by the lack of support from their loved ones
@@WAYOFLIFESQ may Allah bless you and your family, i hope this will be beneficial for people and start more productive conversations
JaskaAllahu khiren brother for sharing your story with us. As a mother I really appreciate it. And you never think things like this happens in our society, because no one talks about such a thing. It's good to be educated. SubhanaAllah they were spreading evil amongst younger generations. So many things happened and as parents we are unaware of what our kids do. Thanks again.
Now I understand why my parents didn’t want me to have sleepovers and alhamdulillah for my parents. Every time they were protecting me, I thought of it as unnecessary restrictions. Only Allah knows what Shaitan whispers in whose ears and what it makes the person do.
Subhanallah absolutely!!!!!!
These are the things we think about as parents especially a parent who has been through it
This wallahi brought me into tears because I have experienced something similar and Alhamdulillah, its absolutely amazing how Allah can save us from evil in the most unexpected ways
Yes bro the impact of the child hood traumatize i was experienced again in my college year because im living with the same situation but in the end our family is the savior parents always remind me the importance of praying thats help me alot from going too far.
Subhanallah you’re absolutely right!
Allah indeed is our protector.
Perhaps we go through this to help others.
We have to champion these issues to prevent future issues.
God! This is disgusting as hell!!! Alhamdulillah God saved me from any such trauma... But i feel so bad at this moment to be in my bubble and don't even realize what's happening around us!! Thank you for sharing and opening the eyes of people like us that just live in their bubble and don't realise what others have to go through... 💔😭
It is disgusting
& it was even nastier living with it.
May Allah protect us indeed.
But these are the realities
This made me cry so so much. I could never imagine being able to talk about what’s happened in my life in a 100 years. I have so much more respect for you.you’re an amazing person and .Stay strong for your two beautiful girls. May Allah bless you and keep you happy always Ameen ya rabbil Aalameen. May Allah reunite you with the ones you love in Jannah Ameen
I am sorry you had to go through such a traumatic experience. No child deserves to be exposed to such filth and disgust at that age. You weren't in control and it wasn't your fault. May God bless you today and always. ❤️
Thank you for making this video. This kind of stuff happens so often and this is a great reminder to so many parents that we need to keep our eyes closer on our children. Even if they are hanging around with other Muslims, kids of the same sex, cousins, every one. You can’t trust your kids with anyone. Mashallah, you are so brave for putting yourself out there like this. It needed to be said, for your sake and for others’. I hope this was healing for you to get this off your chest.
jazzahkum Allahkhyr!
I appreciate you seeing the good.
Parents do need to be mindful!!
It’s important that we realize that we are not angels & we all are prone to shytan a whispers
May Allah grant you and all the abused and suffering children in the world complete shifa physically, mentally and otherwise, and grant you all the highest level of jannah. I can't imagine the strength it takes to go through such trauma and talk about it. I'm honestly shocked to my core that things like this happen, thank you for opening my eyes brother. May Allah grant you and your family peace and healing in this time of difficulty, ameen.
Honestly it’s scary but someone right now is dealing with this & perhaps this will help them
jazzahkum Allahkhyr
I appreciate you so for being vulnerable and sharing your experience. In a world where so many of us have been taken advantage of by those with inhuman intentions, greedy for power- you’d think we’d be working together to heal. But you are that light, SubhanAllah. I pray for your healing, and the same for the millions of us in similar boats as you. We are strong together, vulnerable, and kind. Thank you.
Being vulnerable takes a lot of courage and strength. I’ve been watching your videos since you barely had subscribers. I’m so proud of you for your channels growth but most importantly your spiritual growth. You’re really unique and relatable. Thanks for everything you do for the ummah. May ALLAH accept all your efforts and multiple the rewards of your deeds times a trillion. Keep doing your thing bro
Hey brother, I was crying while hearing your story. You're VERY strong for being able to put this into words (it must have been the hardest thing) there isn't enough said about these cases even it happens everywhere. Allah knows how hard it is for you, May He relieve your pain and replace it with happiness inshallah❤
I literally can’t believe what I’m listening to. May allah protect our children. I’m so sorry u had to go through this.
I’ll never begin to understand the trauma you went through, but you’re one resilient man making it through all that. Lot of people off themselves from depression and ptsd after incidents like that and I’m glad to see you kept fighting the good fight.
Appreciate you
This was brave . It’s hard for a woman / girl to talk about the disgusting things that happened to us but it is exceptionally difficult for a man.
Brother, May Allah forgive you , have mercy on you and help you feel peace .
You are helping now by the work you do InshaAllah
This literally happens everywhere kudos to you for bringing it up because people actually believe that it is not real it doesn't matter they really can't understand the consequences it brings the psychological disorders that people develop after going through sexual abuse May Allah protect every child Aameen
I sincerely thank you for sharing this experience as it helps anyone in the ummah suffering from this and also wakes them up. This undoubtedly caused my respect for you to grow. You forever are my brother and I am always here to support you. The world would be a better place if there were more SQs.
Because of this, I am going to be extra vigilant as on older sister to look after my younger brothers. I'm really sorry that this happened to you. Thank you, you have saved others from the same ordeal from the moment you spoke out about it. May Allah make this easy on you.
Brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing this and in spreading awareness. It's truly traumatizing and I can't even imagine the emotion and difficulty of this. May Allah guide this ummah. I'm so sorry you had to go through this and may Allah forgive them all. I'm speechless.
My brother, the amount of respect and empathy i have for you is beyond words, regardless of what anyone says or thinks or whomever tries to judge you, the only opinion that matters is Allah’s. I just prayed and made dua for u and inshallah allah eases your pain/trauma and protects all children from such evil. Your dawah and spreading awareness about such events is what is needed to shed light on the harsh reality for some and gives parents a chance to educate and protect their children so that they may never have to experience these horrible things. May allah bless you and guide us all❤️
Ameeen
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your kindness & sincerity.
May Allah bless you
Don’t cry ever u didn’t do anything wrong, those older people should be crying that they did this to little kids.
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Something similar happened to me as a child. Thank you for sharing your story, it’s definitely something that needs to be addressed but is brushed away. As a child, you think whatever the elders are doing is right so you blindly follow them. To everyone, don’t feel bad or humiliated for something that’s happened in the past which you couldn’t control. Instead, think about the things you can do now and how to improve in future. And although it’s hard, don’t be afraid to speak up.
Thank you again for sharing your story, and spreading awareness.
This video is SO NECESSARY.
May Allah give you more than you ever wished for
I cant imagine the strength one needs to say this out loud. May Allah protect us and guide all of us. Surely this is going to help alot of us keep eyes on our nephews, nieces, little cousins and future children. Thank you for advising us. Coming across this video and learning about this, definitely Allah has chosen me to be guided and guide the people I can. I feel blessed alhamdulila.May Allah forgive our sins, guide us and keep our hearts close to him and him only.
Alhumduallah Jazahallahkhair ty brother this sickness is out here
You are so brave for sharing this. SO MANY people have been through this including men..may Allah heal you from your trauma 💙💙💙
Subhanallah may Allah bless you
I've been through something tad similar at a very young age too, I understand you, I feel you. And the part you mention Allah is your therapist, I understand that very deeply, talking to Him makes me feel... I can't even describe how blessed I feel to just raise my hands or even just sitting down, talking to him, conversing with him about things I like what I dont like, telling him random things, even when I feel like someone would think I'm psycho talking to myself when I'm just talking to my Creator, it makes me feel like I'm constantly wrapped around with Him, His mercy, His compassion and protection, it feels RIGHT.
Just gained a follower. Thank you so much for opening up about this because it happens more often than we may think. So many women and men out there are afraid to speak out but you have set such a brave example. In shaa Allah you will be rewarded abundantly for this. May Allah s.w.t give you peace in this dunya and the hereafter.
Thank you for sharing the story
Most of us have been through, witnessed, or heard of something similar but could never speak out. Believe me these things happen almost everywhere and in every country even Arab/Muslim ones.
I believe especially as Muslim families, we should normalize letting kids tell you everything freely instead of blocking them using reasons such as "respect, Haram, wrong..".
befriending your kids is a crucial thing in order for them to come and tell you every single thing they hear or see without being afraid of being blamed or punished, and this in turn will protect them from being harmed or traumatized.
Subhanallah you’ve made an excellent point
For real
As parents we need to also start by believing our children
Keep your spirits SQ.. Respect and support from Indonesia 👍
Agree with you. Instead of making our children "sterilized" we ought to be able giving them "filter" to distinguish between the two : bad or good. CMIIW
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Can you sum up the video?
we all have been through traumatic experiences like you told yours SQ and it’s okay to sometimes confess it to someone but you’re literally brave enough confessing it to the whole public and there are times where we hide these emotions and perhaps they’re bad for the future..... you get depressed, anxiety and all that but you can’t figure out why..... because it’s been bottled inside you and it’s in the past but we’re afraid to dig that out from the graves but it really does get off the burden from our chests.
Subhanallah you hit it on the head bro
Seriously I feel a burden lifted & ready to move on.
jazzahkum Allahkhyr
no one is perfect my brother, this dunya is imperfect, we’re just spiritual human beings having a spiritual experience, allah is the judge, but it’s okay to confess sometimes.... or it can leave a hole within inside.
I know how it feels when something from the past keeps bothering you that you have to pour it all out. I feel your pain. Even with your past, look at you inspiring thousands of people now. Thank you for sharing this
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for sharing
Means a lot
May Allah continue to heal you
Exactly. U r an inspiration @wayoflifesq. Thank you for sharing and we love you fisabililLah. Allah will continue protecting u. And may He continue gibe u ability to give daawah, Ameen.
Thank you for speaking up about it. It finally made me realize that it was never my fault
Me too!! I finally feel relieved 😔
As someone who has experienced something similar, I had tears watching this video. I am so proud of you for making this public because this happens all around us. No one is disgusted by you or is making fun of you. I pray for you brother. I pray that Allah SWT heals your heart and soul. And that he protects our ummah from this.
You are so courageous for making this video. I commend you brother.
Brother, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I couldn’t even watch the full video. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. May Allah reward u for ur struggle. Alhamdullah, Allah has allowed u to overcome this and has guided u. May Allah help our youth and keep them away from such things. Hopefully parents will learn from ur experience and protect their kids.
I appreciate you
I believe this comment section is focusing and judging sq more on the fact that he has come out and said his story by advising him or telling him that he is "exposing himself and the sins on other" rather than just listening to the actual story and message he is trying to get out to us. Rather than being supportive of the brother so many of the people in this comment section neglect his whole story and the vulnerable position he has put himself into in this video and instead they are telling him to delete the video he has tried to get off his chest for so long. Just please be mindful of others and respectful of their struggles rather than finding ways to judge them just because he is a Muslim sharing his experiences.
*Yeahhh you're absolutely right... that's what i also wanted to say.... honestly I got to learn a lot from this video and...Now In-Sha-Allah whenever I get married, i'll take extra care of my childrens and keep them safe from all these types of things..I'll pay more attention to their friendship so that they don't fall into the wrong company...And I'll try to build such a relation with my childrens from childhood so that they can share all their thoughts, thinking, talks freely with me and not be shy...Honestly I got to learn a lot from his video.... May Allah bless this brother🤲Ameen...*
Brother, he can see a therapist for these sorts of things. I don't think it's advisable to put out a video like this with such explicit description when most of his videos cater to children (e.g. the Islam questions for a free Ipad or airpod videos). Sure there was a warning put out to ask your parents if you can watch it beforehand, but let's be real. Most children are gonna watch it without asking anybody. I understand if it was in good faith, but it's best to keep things like this hidden or recommended to see a Muslim therapist.
I actually listened to the whole story and I understand why he is upset, and I am supportive, but he really shouldn't tell us for 2 reasons
*Kids under 13 watch this channel
* He is exposing his sins which is also a sin in Islam.
sq ??? Ik its him but sq is shortcut of what
Sorry but this is common is South Asian countries, the men are crazy are for sex, they get married late or too many restrictions around them and they go out of their way to make these sins happen. The Imams rape young kids because they have to go and live work far away from home etc..... it is absolutely disgusting how much common it is there, unfortunately Islam is not preached very well there, you tend to practise Islam becuase that what you were raised into, you don't learn the true beauty of Islam, these countries are just simply nasty when it comes to controlling their sexual desires.
Sooo glad you are making this video because the muslims need to take up and KEEP AN EYE ON THE KIDS ALL THE TIME!!! They should ALWAYS know who their kids are with and what they are doing!!! Muslim WOMEN need to STOP spending all their time in the kitchen and pleasing the society, they need to invest their time on making their kids into good muslims, the dads need to STOP going after this world so much and spend time helping the mother!!! Wake up Ummah the muslims youth are committing sins all the time because we are not good parents
Absolutely heartbreaking. جزاك الله خير اخي الكريم thank you for your bravery, no child should ever endure this torment may Allah protect us all
With this video,you have saved hundreds and thousands of children. Now atleast their parents know it can happen to their children. They will try to protect them. In Shaa Allah. You must be proud of it brother. May Allah be with you me and everyone :) even if parents don't protect them after listening to your video ,still you will get reward as you have taken them out of ignorance atleast. :)
It happened to me too ,when I was 6-7 years old ,so I completely understand what you been through + I tried to tell one of my friends in middle school but she said ( no way ) In way that you’re a liar, so no one knows about it ‘till now but الحمدلله I’m very good now ,Thanks for sharing this hard story to tell , we appreciate it more than you think .
Barak allah feek
May Allah reward you for being vulnerable and sharing this. That’s very powerful & you’re a real man, don’t feel ashamed my brother you are an inspiration. Thank you
Thank you so much for sharing this video. I believe most of us have similar stories that we live with and suffer in silence and don’t get the help we need.
JazakAllahuKhairun for always being a role model for us and doing what’s right.
None of it is ever our fault. We need to take it more seriously to keep our families close like Allah tells us to
Man this is next level disturbing, it's a horror movie, may Allah reward you for bringing awareness about these issues though it must've took a lot of confidence
These type of things are very real and it’s been happening for decades and is currently still happening. It’s just no one talks about it because they’re afraid of being judged. I thank you for making this video and bringing this topic to light. Thank you 🙏
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for taking time to watch this & leave a comment.
I TOTALLY respect you brother
Thanks for talking out
Thanks for being brave and show us what our children, friends might be going through
Thanks for showing us that we can change because of Allah mercy
Don’t cry man. Stay strong you’ve done a good job with this video raising awareness 👏
What‘s the problem with crying?
@@pandanina I think it’s the way you read it. It felt to me that he was comforting him.
I have an immense amount of respect for you. For sharing your story knowing how hard it is.
I'm proud of how brave you are, thank you for sharing this
Brooo SQ May Allah bless you, I can’t even begin imagine what it feels like to go through what you have been through, i always had the highest respects for you but this video has just increased it more, you truly are a brave man, I will make Dua for you and your family and I truly pray that Allah eases this trauma, and remember that everything that happens to us is by the design of Allah. May Allah make you amongst the people who have the highest ranks in Jannah. Ameen
Your duas are all I need habeebi
I appreciate your love & support
But we must unite the ummah
& sometimes you need to speak the truth.
insha Allah this helps just one person gain victory over their trauma
@@WAYOFLIFESQ insha Allah 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Vulnerability is a strength. Brother u have so much courage and i admire you for this. You would be surprised how many of us have similar experiences and never brought it up or able to express it. These things live with us buried deep inside us because we didn’t understand the effects it has on us or the severity of the moment at that young of an age. May Allah increase you for sharing this story.
These stories are extremely true. It's widespread in countries like Pakistan, Bangladesh, Afghanistan and I'm sure many more. It happened to my close friend almost exactly the same story in basements in NYC. It affected him greatly. I hope anyone this happens to finds courage and support. You're not alone my brother.
Lots of love my brother
Appreciate you
@@WAYOFLIFESQ you got me watching some of your other videos. I'm in Ozone Park and we have a big youth group. I think they can benefit from a talk by you on mental health, Islam, but the biggest issues we have over here is cultural misunderstandings between parents and children (mainly teenagers) if you're up for it, hit me up I would love to setup something at a local hall. I'm 39 but I think the younger kids will gravitate towards your personality.
Ya Allah, what has this world come to?
I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
Its courageous of you to share it here like this.
Thank you so much for raising awareness.
Wow….your transparency and honesty in this video has made me and many others love and respect you even more for the sake of ALLAH SWT. Your in my duas and I hope Allah increases your sincerity and imaan ❤️. Everything happens for a reason SQ so carry on living your life obeying Allah no matter what you go through. I deeply believe Allah had mercy on you that day by allowing that cigarette to burn you and saving you from being victim. May Allah bless you and your family! Wasalam
This story hit me, seen this crap before. You feel so helpless but with imaan, the strength you get is hamdullah undescribable, I wish you all the best and jazak allah kharain bro.
I am not making fun of you, you made me cry with you. You are beautiful human being who deserves the best.
Your very brave for talking about it ! Something similar happened to me when I was a child and I can’t still talk about it. May Allah protect you and all of us brothers and sisters ! You’re an example of courage Allah bless you ! This the first thing video of you that I watch and I see nothing but goodness in you and I’m following immediately !
Stay strong brother, I'm going to pray for you in my Tahujud after this video 📹 🙏 ❤️ 💙
jazzahkum Allahkhyr my bro
Growing up my parents never let me stay at peoples houses except a few lifelong friends. The leash wasn’t loosened till I was about 14/15. I used to dislike it but Wallahi I am super grateful. It, as the brother says, takes so little to corrupt.
A babysitter, a neighbour, a relative- all it takes is that one encounter to corrupt your child.
This is a major major flag to anyone with children- know that these things happen, it’s not about distrusting people around you but it’s about protecting your children from a common evil.
The prophet PBUH instructed children to be separated from the age of 7, for them to never share beds, and so on because these things happen.
Don’t go by Western Standards, go by Muslim standards - know your mahaarim and the boundaries of socialising in Islam, and don’t let your child move indiscriminately until they can clearly discern and fend for themselves.
May Allah bless you SQ and make the situation easy for you. You have made me cry today. Alhamdulillah “Indeed with difficulty comes ease,
Then surely with difficulty comes ease” 9:45. Stay strong brother and if you have to take the video down for you and yours - do it or at the advice of people of knowledge also. And May Allah reward you by your intention
Mashallah what a beautiful comment
So we’ll written & thoughout.
Alhumdullilah you supported it with Quran & SUNNAH
What a beautiful reminder.
Yes this is prophetic reminders. Parents need to be careful.
Alhumdullilah so many people are seeing the wisdom behind their parents strictness.
jazzahkum Allahkhyr my bro
Love you
I’m so sorry this happened to you. You can’t blame yourself for any of it, you were just a child that needed to be protected. It is happening and no one is talking about it. I’m proud of you also You worded it perfectly. I’m a mother and I’m always aware but this was a big wake up call. I’m sharing this with my older kids and will talk about this with younger ones. The youth need Guidence and Allah gave you a position to work with him.
Your family and friends will know and be more aware for the future of the children. Because of this video… watch how much barakah Allah will give you. May Allah protect you and your family.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH MY DEAR BROTHER! AS A FATHER OF TWO KIDS (WITH A 3RD ON HIS WAY) I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU TELLING YOUR EXPERIENCES. YOUR ADVICE/ANEKDOTE SERVES AS A REMINDER TO KEEP OUR INNOCENT CHILDEREN CLOSE TO US AND OUR DEEN AND AWAY FROM ALL KINDS OF FILTH THAT EXISTS IN THIS DUNYA.
MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU, MAY ALLAH MAKE YOU AN EVEN BIGGER ASSET FOR OUR UMMAH, AND MAY ALLAH GRANT YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY SUCCES IN THIS LIFE AND THE HEREAFTER.
AMEEN!!❤
Please keep your head high brother. Do not worry about people judging you rather focus on the minority - if you will. Saving one person is as if you have saved humanity. You are an amazing brother and I salute you for your courage, honesty, and sincerity in educating the public about such a taboo topic. Jazaakallah khayr for sharing such a disgusting reality that parents are so oblivious of due to the "shame" culture we live in, where everything gets hidden under the carpet as if none of it exists. May Allah (SWT) reward you with precious gifts in this world and the next. Keep up the amazing work brother. From your sister in Islam
My sister I appreciate your kindness & willingness to send your support my way.
Appreciate your time spent watching my story & writing this comment.
May Allah bless you
Alhamdulilah brother. I am very clingy with my sons, and my husband says I’m too paranoid. I make sure they have fun, but I trust no one with their safety or wellbeing. I’m either there, it’s a public place, or with someone I completely trust. Never at a random relative or husbands friends. I heard close friends tell me those type of stories and that scared me too much to allow that to happen in my watch. Allah is the planner, we can only do as much as we can. May Allah protect our youth and our children Amiin thank you for your story, this is so hushed about in our community.
I'm 16 and I feel sorry for what you have experience...none of this is your fault....mashaallah...so many times Allah has saved you...Allahu akbar...I respect you cuz you still think of others who were doing that "activities" even after a long time...mashaallah...may Allah guide us all and may Allah protect us all from this fitnah of the end of times...
I'm glad you made this video. Some of us had once been victims of peer pressure and the likes. Plus parents need to let their children know that they had to speak against anything they feel is wrong or better still speak to their parents about it. Allah really loves you. I'm glad you never partake in it.
Subhanallah you’re right sister
May Allah increase you
Had me in tears man ❤️. May allah make it easy on us, i wanted to ask a sheikh a out these kinds of stuff but i wasnt brave enough! I have been watching you but without subscribing and now you just gained one
So proud of you for coming out so strong. I hope Allah heals your heart, soul and mind. Trauma is a trauma. No matter what other says
Subhanallah you’re right
jazzahkum Allahkhyr
This is the most bravest thing I have ever heard a man say. I swear many Men call them self's brave but I swear none of them would have the heart to talk about this. I don't know how did u have the strength to talk, but thank u❤
I salute you for being so strong and courageous to come out in the open and tell your story. If anything this is a warning and a message to us all to be aware and conscious of people out there. I'm really sorry for what you experienced and I pray the other innocents are ok where ever they are. Don't blame yourself for not telling anyone. Like you said it was the qadr of Allah. Your amazing brother. Seeing you change for the better inspires us all. Now that you have taken it off your chest just breathe and move on. No one's judging you. We are all proud of you 👍
You're just so brave, brother. You're genuine person, may Lord keep you happy, in this world and hereafter. Thanks a ton for sharing this, I'm sure many here needed this like air in this fake suffocating world.
Akhy you were a kid.
Your character hadn't yet developed.
The true wastes were the older men.
You're not being judged.
You cannot be judged.
You keep on doing your videos and being yourself.
Thank you for understanding
@@WAYOFLIFESQ brother, no need for thanks. Do you, we're all here
Youre a good man for staying faithful to Allah swt and sharing this. My Allah swt keep you strong and give you peace ✌🏼
SQ, may Allah bless you. I can tell you have been through a lot and you work hard to overcome your traumas and vices. May Allah reward you much for this jihad and becoming the great man we know today. This story does't make me think any less of you, in fact it makes me admire you more because of how much you've overcome and your courage to share these things for our benefit. May Allah protect all the vulnerable children out there in similar situations. Assalaamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
Omg that must have been so traumatizing.
Thank you for sharing and bringing awareness to this topic. I think youre actually brave for bringing up such awareness.
You know, in our Muslim communities we often dont speak of these things but we really need to. Some conversations just need to be had. we have to educate eachother on these very real issues. And thank you, my brother, for being a voice in that conversation.
Child assault is more common than you think (within muslim communities and out) and I feel people just ignore the reality of it because they dont wanna deal with it.
I just clicked when I saw the title...I am all about being truthful and being transparent...I just read a few comments so I know it is about ABUSE....been through abuse, as a kid and as an adult..not going in details here on what happened to me but....not easy, went through therapy, saw counseling, professionals, group therapy etc...this is a topic very painful for me too...but the truth shall set you free regardless what anyone has to say...share your truth and never wirry about what others will say...I couldn't careless anymore...am 48, 4 kids, I am a SURVIVOR and I owe nobody an apology for speaking up!!! RESPECT for you for speaking up and sharing...YOU ARE BRAVE!!! I am a woman and I respect you for telling your story! #badassmama #stayfocused #slaylikeachamp #yana YANA means You Are Not Alone
I literally cried up!!! Thank you for sharing this !!! This meant a lot !
I commend you for sharing this. It takes a strong man to be vulnerable enough not only to give words to the pain of what was done to you but also to confess what you have done to others.
This sets you free. You will be able to use your own experience to help and reach other people. That's your most valuable asset, your life story.
Not how many quran verses you can recite, not what you can produce, (because our works can puff us up and make us self righteous(, but simply what and who you are, you're a child of God, you always were and you always will be. Nothing and no one can take that away from you.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, it's especially hard when you were young and there's themes of a lack of control which makes trauma harder. It sounds like you have survivor's guilt, which is common in trauma too. Alhamdulillah you are here alive, away from where it happened, helping people and spreading a positive message by CZcams. Insh'allah, others get this message out to help others for a force of good to come.
It's very brave of you SQ to talk about this and may Allah help others who have suffered and will suffer like this 🙏
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your kindness
Perhaps I do
May Allah bless the ummah & help us all
Thank you so much for sharing this. You are being helpful to all the people out there who have felt like they were alone. I am sorry this happened to you. No kid should experience this. However by sharing this experience you are helping to educate. It is essential to teach kids about sexual boundaries, consent and coercion
man I am really proud of you that you came out an share this traumatic experience of yours may Allah bless you
jazzahkum Allahkhyr for your love & support.
May Allah forgive us and protect us all. Thank you so much for sharing this I thought I was the only one. My brain was also suppressing a trumatic memory that felt like a dream very similar to your story but I was a 7or 8 year old girl. I thank Allah for saving me and from other experiences later on in my life and during such extreme peer pressure alhamdulilah. I never fully processed the confusion and trauma but this video really allowed me process and address the reality and try to move on from it so thank you so much for creating this video despite it being very hard for you. I have never had the courage to fully talk about what happened without feeling heavy disgust, fear and embarrassment. I've only told my husband about it and not in detail. So I thank you again for sharing this to everyone who may need it and to feel like they aren't alone, despite how hard it was to share.
It’s so heartbreaking of how common this is across the world, across all cultural and religious backgrounds. I’m sorry for your pain brother. Know that I don’t think less of you
may allah protect our children and give me and everybody the power to stop this ameen. I am glad my brother has spoken about this and inshallah he can lead us to stop this in pakistan and elsewhere.
Subhanallah it’s sad
But it’s more common when we don’t raise awareness about this in our community.
We need to talk about this so that we can begin to fix the problem
I literally appreciate your courage ,may Allah always protect you brother!
wow that ending was hella powerful. Mashallah you are so strong your past hardships developed your character and look what you doing today spreading allahs words you should be proud of yourself. And youre right i really needed to see this video right today, not that something happened to me elhamdulillah but to a close one and it was hard for me to understand or accept it. Thank you!
Major respect to you brother! I know this isn’t easy to talk about, but it’s good that you did you can help someone out there that went through this. May Allah protect us from evil stuff like this. May Allah protect us from shatyann.
Brother SQ, you truly are inspiring. I can't even imagine how traumatizing that must've been to go through in your life, but look at where you are now and look at the way Allah has guided you to this point thus far. Ma Sha Allah you've grown into a man that we all aspire to be like. Your story is one that I'm sure many Muslims can resonate with, and the fact that you were able to overcome that trying time with the help of Allah gives hope to the people going through anything similar, and may Allah protect our children and make us the ideal leaders of society who will do whatever it takes to prevent this from happening to anyone, Ameen. We're proud of you bro, no one is looking down on you, and no one should shame you. May Allah continue to strengthen you brother, Ameen.
Jazak Allahu kheir. It doesn’t take a genius to see that it was difficult for you to share this experience. I hope you feel at ease now that much of that burden that you were holding onto has been lifted. It’s in hardship and difficulty that we are granted a lesson.
Thank you for spreading awareness even though it mustve been so hard to talk about. You are a very strong person, May Allah bless you ❤️
SQ this bought tears to my eyes, and pain in my heart, knowing you and the others went thru this trauma 💔 I really hope and pray this msg goes out far and wide to make ppl aware of what is still going on around the world. May Allah swt ease your heart, mind and soul Ameen 🤲❤️
Alot of people have been through similar things. May Allah give you relief from the pain and trauma and give you the ability to heal
Ameen
May Allaah bless you brother, this takes a huge amount of courage! Huge respect
I had no idea you went through this traumatic experience brother! May Allah make it easy for you! Thank you for sharing you never know who went through a similar experience and needed to see this!
Ayoooo SQ, Salaam my brother. wanted to say I love you man. I wish I can hug you my brother. You and millions of other have had this experience and it’s good you let it out. The Ummah needs brothers like you. Please don’t get discouraged from negative thoughts or opinions of others. Stay true to yourself. May Allah bless and protect you and your family and keep you steadfast on His deen. Barak’Allah Feek habibi
Had something quite similar happen to me in the UK when I was younger. It's crazy how so many traits you've mentioned were similar to them but different at the same time.
I am so sorry that happened to you 😔🫂.
Aslm brother, I am sorry you went through this terrible experience. I learned that so many young kids go through these experiences, the world is sick out there, as a mother, I don't visit family too much, my kids don't do sleep overs, my kids don't play in the street or neighbours house, because kid's get hurt in Al kinds of ways weather we want to hear it or not
But sister you shouldn't protect your children to a degree where they are scared of the world or afraid to take responsibility this wil lead to other problems when they are adults. Visiting family and playing in the street are normal things depending on what neighbourhood you live.
@@redman1300 true but the world isn’t so normal anymore 😭
@@Miss.R02 trust me, all children goes through some kind of abuse when u let them free, verbally or physically. Making children strong should be priority .
@@sakilahmed6788 agreed brother. But these physical ones seem to be more traumatic than verbal abuse. It’s best to keep them safe from such people and social gatherings like sleep overs when they are children. Teach them about the no no zones and boundaries wit people. My mom did the same for me growing up so I’m thankful for that. However around the age of 16 is when she let me go a little more, which makes since 14-15 year olds still have that childlike mind set.
I'm crying right now. 😭 Your so brave. My respect for you has increased so much. Your helping people, believe me.
JazakAllah khair for sharing dear brother. May Allah swt grant you ease to overcome this trauma and everyone else affected by it. It makes us who have been raised in a protective lifestyle realise that there are great harms out there and we need to be extra vigilant when it comes to raising our children.