HOW TO READ SOMEONE’S MIND!

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    How you can read someone’s mind!
    Tricks to see what people are thinking!
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  • @spudgod8375
    @spudgod8375 Před 3 lety +2033

    For some reason my mom gets PISSED when I blink a lot while having a serious conversation even though I just get stressed talking to her.

    • @rebecamotta20
      @rebecamotta20 Před 3 lety +51

      Tell her you are stressed

    • @myheartwillgowonandon5467
      @myheartwillgowonandon5467 Před 3 lety +76

      I don't get stressed, I really have an eye problem, I blink too fast. Also when I'm sad my eye color is green and when I'm happy my eyes are blue. Wth is wrong with my eyes- also people find that attractive but I don't lmao

    • @BlooBerd
      @BlooBerd Před 3 lety +41

      @@myheartwillgowonandon5467 epic eye

    • @DaniSC_real
      @DaniSC_real Před 3 lety +11

      @@myheartwillgowonandon5467 its ok dont take it seriusly.. its just parent :)

    • @shaziasohail3492
      @shaziasohail3492 Před 3 lety +9

      I recommend you tell your mom you get stressed by talking to her sometimes.

  • @realgirlchip6758
    @realgirlchip6758 Před 3 lety +1375

    "How to read someone's mind"
    Google: That isn't possible but you can assume what someone is thinking based on body language
    Bing:

  • @TheJackMC
    @TheJackMC Před 3 lety +1283

    Him: "look at the pupils"
    Me, who has black eyes or a really dark brown: *"im unreadable."*

  • @yerico5325
    @yerico5325 Před 3 lety +581

    *"If they are looking to bottom left that means they are trying to recall true event"*
    Me trying to lie: *"CASUALLY LOOKING TO BOTTOM LEFT"*

    • @tristan0260
      @tristan0260 Před 3 lety +14

      same or when i feel pressured. I look more to the top when I’m confused and trying to think of something

    • @SwrveYT
      @SwrveYT Před 2 lety +9

      He’s messed it up, it’s the other way around

    • @tristan0260
      @tristan0260 Před 2 lety +3

      @@SwrveYT yea. is it too left trying to recall something true and bottom left is a lie, am I right?

    • @zubairrahman9203
      @zubairrahman9203 Před 2 lety +2

      For me he’s right I’m always gonna try looking to the bottom left when lying

    • @pinksugar8942
      @pinksugar8942 Před 2 lety +1

      Uhhh I look right up to recall a true event

  • @keving.3374
    @keving.3374 Před 3 lety +661

    When their pupils are closed it means its to bright in the room…

  • @jakieboi0216
    @jakieboi0216 Před 3 lety +785

    So my councilor must be hella stressed-

  • @deepro2499
    @deepro2499 Před 3 lety +45

    Also, if a person cannot physically stare at you directly in the eye when you’re talking to then it means they either have a massive crush on you, or there extremely nervous.

    • @mohamedeltahan7517
      @mohamedeltahan7517 Před 2 lety +2

      That’s true

    • @sirbrain5497
      @sirbrain5497 Před 2 lety +3

      Sh*t, I hope my crush doesn't see this.

    • @limecookie6578
      @limecookie6578 Před 2 lety +1

      Man I just did this on Friday

    • @FallenAngel1314
      @FallenAngel1314 Před 2 lety +10

      Me being extremely introverted and hating people. I guess I’m always nervous. Makes sense, I do have severe anxiety.

    • @gracekeepsittogether4322
      @gracekeepsittogether4322 Před 2 lety

      I use to keep eye contact.
      Now sadly; I'm keeping distance, detached. Enclosed w/in self.
      Have other insight? let me know. From outside looking in some are more aware then own self I've learnt

  • @okamikashikoi4738
    @okamikashikoi4738 Před 3 lety +54

    So, the "where they're looking" part actually changes depending on if they're right or left handed. Just a tid bit I learned in my communication class.

    • @okamikashikoi4738
      @okamikashikoi4738 Před 2 lety +4

      @IR Gaming in the usual case studies, yes. But you do get the occasional odd ball where due to child hood trauma at the extreme end and public presured expectation (like back in my father's day when if you wrote with your left hand you were the child of the devil and needed to change your ways by extension of changing your writing hand as a mild example) where they could be right/left with the body language of the opposite hand based neural processing group. And diving further down the rabbit hole (my tunnel of the rabbit hole) where either direction could mean anything because they aren't actually fully assigned or said person you're trying to read bounces to anything they see even vaguely move in the corner of their eye, and when they are hyper focused on a conversation with you they cont even blink because they're trying to pay attention to every detail which ends up making them look either super creepy or very flighty. Those are the odd balls though, which are fewer and less studied. I'd say try to know the person you're trying to read before making the attempt. And if you can't get to know them, study their behavior like an obsessed fangirl (without being neither creepy or a stalker) before you read them. Helps to read someone if you observe within context first.

    • @okamikashikoi4738
      @okamikashikoi4738 Před 2 lety +3

      All in all, language and communication (especially body language during and outside of communication) is actually a complicated study.

    • @sirbrain5497
      @sirbrain5497 Před 2 lety +1

      But I am both handed-

  • @Fishy77777
    @Fishy77777 Před 3 lety +225

    I’m pretty sure pupils adjust to light not emotions unless your a cat-

    • @LMNL_SUPRSTR
      @LMNL_SUPRSTR Před 3 lety +28

      that too, but yes, they do adjust in size on some emotions
      like if youre looking at something you love, your pupils will expand 50% more or something like that

    • @milkywae1655
      @milkywae1655 Před 3 lety +9

      they adjust in size to emotions too :D

    • @MyBlurryEyes
      @MyBlurryEyes Před 3 lety +1

      I don’t think so? Cus mine do without light but maybe it’s just me? Idk I’ll go do some research

    • @may-belle3180
      @may-belle3180 Před 3 lety

      Ikr

    • @may-belle3180
      @may-belle3180 Před 3 lety

      @@LMNL_SUPRSTR oh I didn't know

  • @simplyxreid9579
    @simplyxreid9579 Před 3 lety +194

    Does anyone ever remember how you have to blink then you blink like 3 times a second? I just did that no cap

    • @nielharoldolarte2350
      @nielharoldolarte2350 Před 3 lety +6

      3 times each second is a bit too much and I wont be able to see something clearly wtf

    • @simplyxreid9579
      @simplyxreid9579 Před 3 lety +3

      @@nielharoldolarte2350 it's called a ✨ joke ✨ smart Alec

    • @ReRush
      @ReRush Před 3 lety +5

      @@simplyxreid9579 must be something wrong with our eyes then

    • @Daniel-cc6gs
      @Daniel-cc6gs Před 3 lety

      @@simplyxreid9579 there was no fucking joke smartass

    • @ronelmondo8469
      @ronelmondo8469 Před 3 lety +1

      Do you believe this guy you are stupid

  • @kuronoob
    @kuronoob Před 3 lety +311

    Me after this: “Your next line is what?”
    Random person: “what?”

  • @ethanstephens8293
    @ethanstephens8293 Před 3 lety +40

    "If your talking to someone and their pupils are dilated it usually means affection"
    *Me quietly bussin off a perc*

  • @charleighhicks5365
    @charleighhicks5365 Před 3 lety +25

    I always blink like that and I always try to read my best friend's mind lol

  • @BxByDoll927
    @BxByDoll927 Před 3 lety +85

    The fact that I can walk around without blinking and talk to people without blinking really concerns me

    • @O-O189
      @O-O189 Před 2 lety +2

      I blink about once every 2 mins😂

    • @hermionegranger2930
      @hermionegranger2930 Před 2 lety +2

      Same like i can just not blink for like 3mins and it concerns ppl lol

    • @trynabeproductive6808
      @trynabeproductive6808 Před 2 lety +2

      Similar lol, not everytime but there are times where I don’t blink for a long time

    • @BxByDoll927
      @BxByDoll927 Před 2 lety +1

      @@w5208 nope

    • @kittencat3386
      @kittencat3386 Před 2 lety +3

      Ya same I donk blink but I look around a lot I think it's from all the starting contests I was in from elementary school

  • @rodi1652
    @rodi1652 Před 3 lety +21

    "Blinking a lot means your stressed"
    Me who blinks no matter what:
    I am 4 parallel universes ahead of you

    • @M-A-N-ey3kg
      @M-A-N-ey3kg Před rokem

      Me: Literally My face is just 😐
      My friend trying to read my mind: 😀🤣😂😄😉😍😉😑😙☺️😉😚🤔😑🤨😑😊🤔😑🤨😉😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶
      Meanwhile me: 😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😑😐😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑

  • @O-O189
    @O-O189 Před 2 lety +6

    "If a person you're talking to has dilated pupils, they may be feeling affectionate"
    Girls around me looking like herobrine

  • @ion7951
    @ion7951 Před 3 lety +119

    Now I need to count my GFs blinks...

    • @myheartwillgowonandon5467
      @myheartwillgowonandon5467 Před 3 lety

      😂😂😂

    • @anandapublicity8760
      @anandapublicity8760 Před 3 lety +10

      Stop lying to yourself, you don't have gf
      or maybe you have a good friend without benefits

    • @theoriginalmushroom
      @theoriginalmushroom Před 3 lety +2

      @@anandapublicity8760 maybe he or she does, it's social media we don't know if they are lying or not

    • @cloves2072
      @cloves2072 Před 3 lety +2

      @@theoriginalmushroom You know you can use they/them if you don't know their pronouns, right?

    • @theoriginalmushroom
      @theoriginalmushroom Před 3 lety

      @@cloves2072 I know, I used they the second time I referred to them

  • @vampyxfangz
    @vampyxfangz Před 3 lety +86

    Me who is always scared and thinks someone is reading my mind:👁👄👁

    • @e62yearsago41
      @e62yearsago41 Před 3 lety +1

      My anxiety everyday

    • @prussianbluephantom3968
      @prussianbluephantom3968 Před 3 lety +1

      I laugh about it. Because if they only really knew..😂🖕😄

    • @lolimilkii8678
      @lolimilkii8678 Před 3 lety

      Me too!

    • @food-kk1zk
      @food-kk1zk Před 3 lety

      Im scared too

    • @jacobc9221
      @jacobc9221 Před 3 lety +2

      Just do the opposite on purpose. Look in the bottom left when lying, blind yourself with a lamp when you're happy, etc.

  • @anarxh3196
    @anarxh3196 Před 3 lety +3

    That's basically how I read someone's feelings

  • @KishuuMochii
    @KishuuMochii Před 3 lety +56

    "The first thing you need to know is about the eyes"
    Me in my country: *Dark colored eyes*

  • @unusannnus4
    @unusannnus4 Před 3 lety +53

    The blinking one is so true
    When I feel pressured / angry / sad and about to cry I blink like 10 times every 5 seconds istg

  • @mshere8532
    @mshere8532 Před 3 lety +106

    **Me having a conversation with someone**
    Curious me: i want to know how they feel while i am talking to them
    Me:. continuously looking in their eyes
    They: WTF are you SOO CLOSE TO ME?????GET OFF FROM ME !!

    • @omarg7084
      @omarg7084 Před 2 lety +1

      Lol, but I would do that too if someone got that close

    • @KIRA-jt6rk
      @KIRA-jt6rk Před 2 lety +1

      🤣

  • @lachlank
    @lachlank Před 2 lety +1

    I feel like he is one of those creators that still ideas and information from other creators

  • @grace_the_gaming_animator_5500

    My little sister can read my mind! When I asked her what number i was thinking of, she said 1234, and she was right...she also guessed what I was thinking of when I kept asking her what number, food, animal, etc, what I was thinking of! She does it without even understanding this! I'm amazed! And this does help, I can only see a couple of hours into the next day for the future TwT

  • @boringlaya8502
    @boringlaya8502 Před 3 lety +19

    okay i was watching this and then started to count, i only lasted 3 seconds before i blinked and that’s when he told us you were uninterested lol

    • @jasoninirllife
      @jasoninirllife Před 3 lety

      He means if they blink and there eyes are closed for 2-3 seccond

    • @boringlaya8502
      @boringlaya8502 Před 3 lety

      @@jasoninirllife oooh okay

  • @sullendays8180
    @sullendays8180 Před 3 lety +4

    You're not reading me, bruh. I literally 'lock eyes' with whoever I'm talking to until they get uncomfortable enough to look away.

    • @Blade_wolf729
      @Blade_wolf729 Před 3 lety +3

      If I did that I would get punched in the nuts or face

  • @bobfredrick4890
    @bobfredrick4890 Před 3 lety +1

    U just gotta love how he perfectly pours the water to not over flow lol

  • @1deeznuts
    @1deeznuts Před 3 lety +3

    no one:
    wattpad authors writing someone lying: their bright blue green purple blue yellow tan orbs had no trace of the dark mysterious pitch black dot in the middle. their orbs moved to the back of their head, definitely indecating theyre lying.

  • @farzanakashif1764
    @farzanakashif1764 Před 3 lety +4

    Him: big pupils mean the person is happy or exited (I keep replaying to what he said but keep forgetting ;-;)and small pupils mean they are angry or scared
    Bright side: big pupils mean the person is lying
    Small pupils mean the person is not lying

  • @glitch_boi6050
    @glitch_boi6050 Před 3 lety +7

    "this is how you can read someone's mind!"
    Me: "that's nice"

  • @lordnnarat
    @lordnnarat Před 3 lety +2

    “If the pupils are huge then they love you”
    Or they have a... sugar rush

  • @x_luciddream_x6132
    @x_luciddream_x6132 Před 3 lety +2

    "If the pupils are large it means they are looking to someone they love"
    Me looking to kazoo:

  • @DUCK271
    @DUCK271 Před 3 lety +3

    I blink every 3 seconds don't worry I'm not always bored.

  • @ishiii.
    @ishiii. Před 3 lety +6

    My mom know if im bored or not :D thx for teaching me ❤

  • @weirdocrazyperson
    @weirdocrazyperson Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for this. It really helps😊

  • @greenieandbrinatv
    @greenieandbrinatv Před 3 lety +1

    I am not surprised with the perfect timing

  • @-Atlas._.
    @-Atlas._. Před 3 lety +3

    Me who just blinks a lot naturally because I have tourette syndrome: Welp guess I’m always stressed

  • @atlas1924
    @atlas1924 Před 3 lety +4

    Next you'll say "This can't possibly be true".

    • @z_xcv747
      @z_xcv747 Před 3 lety +1

      This can't possibly be true.
      WAIT WHA-

    • @atlas1924
      @atlas1924 Před 3 lety

      @@z_xcv747 N'NANI?!

  • @mollymarroquin7541
    @mollymarroquin7541 Před 3 lety

    Eyes don’t have to do with lying, but you can sometimes tell if someone is lying by if they have a change in things like how they are fidgeting or change in tone or speed in their voice. But that is only telling if someone is comfortable or uncomfortable

  • @rinaa_pal
    @rinaa_pal Před 2 lety +1

    You just helped me thank you so much! I'm subscribing!

  • @MrMerseyblue
    @MrMerseyblue Před 3 lety +10

    The eye's up to the right lying thing is nonsense. It just means they are trying to recall a memory.

  • @Mclolers
    @Mclolers Před 3 lety +7

    Now I know how nobody can read my mind
    Also very underrated CZcamsr/TikToker like your content

  • @JackleTon
    @JackleTon Před 6 měsíci

    Also, if the pupils are displayed while they’re looking at you, they love/like you
    But if they are contracted, they either don’t feel anything or dislike you.

  • @harp4239
    @harp4239 Před 2 lety

    All of this can change, light makes your pupils smaller, and larger when it’s darker. Also I don’t like making eye contact because I’m anxious so I don’t look at them, especially when your close enough to see my pupils lol. And lastly if different people blink at different paces and if you have light beaned in your eyes you blink more because it’s bright.

  • @musicviz4305
    @musicviz4305 Před 2 lety

    Your videos are so great and i watch them always.

  • @claireekimm
    @claireekimm Před 2 lety +1

    ‘You have to look at the pupils’
    Me who has super dark brown eyes:
    *I am four parallel universes ahead of you*

  • @frogcake
    @frogcake Před 3 lety +1

    i always look directly at my mom when im lying so she thinks im telling her the truth but im like dying inside because eye contact is scary and should be banned

  • @user-tr2rf7nh5i
    @user-tr2rf7nh5i Před 2 lety +1

    I have adhd so I just look everywhere when someone’s talking to me

  • @Oopy_Doopy42069
    @Oopy_Doopy42069 Před 3 lety +1

    I just realized when watching this I was blinking every 2-3 seconds

  • @YukiiYukii_
    @YukiiYukii_ Před 2 lety +1

    Me after hearing this: "Mun! Am I adopted?"

  • @thisisaname1536
    @thisisaname1536 Před 3 lety

    People that take 2-3 seconds to blink are usually disinterested or bored
    Me who blinks every 15-20 seconds : my goals are beyond your understanding

  • @eliphoenix
    @eliphoenix Před 2 lety

    i blink alot but its one of my tics
    also i look upperleft when trying to recall events bc the ceiling usually hasnothing on it so it not distracting me from the question or whattever

  • @gideonwilson6989
    @gideonwilson6989 Před 3 lety

    The direction they look depends on if they are right or left handed. Pay attention to what hand they use before you pay attention to where they look

  • @aravioli4203
    @aravioli4203 Před 3 lety +1

    When people are angry, their pupils are usually more dilated, as an effect of adrenaline

  • @TheCoconutnutisabigbignut

    Nah, don't gotta read people's minds, just gotta feel their vibe and you're good

  • @fernandagomez958
    @fernandagomez958 Před 2 lety

    The last one is so true I always do that when someone's talking

  • @uzuitengen916
    @uzuitengen916 Před 2 lety +2

    Me after doing science GCSE throwing a fit because the size of pupils is affected bit the brightness of the environment 😩

  • @A_ndrija
    @A_ndrija Před 3 lety +1

    Tnx bro this is helpful

  • @juantwothree321
    @juantwothree321 Před 3 lety

    I like how he’s using the eye movement part based off of “The Negotiator”

  • @CanOfBeenz5192
    @CanOfBeenz5192 Před 7 měsíci

    Me who blinks 1 time every 3 minutes and looks straight into someone’s soul when lying or telling the truth and my pupils never get dilated unless I’m looking directly in the light 🙂

  • @Tu_mama227
    @Tu_mama227 Před 3 lety

    I oook to the top right to think about something 💪🏼

  • @ronplaysroblox3693
    @ronplaysroblox3693 Před 3 lety

    I started blinking as fast I can when this guy is in my shorts

  • @erinpascarella7223
    @erinpascarella7223 Před 2 lety

    Seriously good info!!! You do a great job at concentrating info and keeping it understandable...you should teach/professor

  • @user-1-800-Nobody
    @user-1-800-Nobody Před 2 lety

    Clair de lune playing in the background, I love it.

  • @donnaburias9251
    @donnaburias9251 Před 3 lety +2

    This is the type of guy who put sugar under his pillow to have sweet dreams

  • @retroeditz7980
    @retroeditz7980 Před 3 lety +1

    Me literally blinking like two times or five times a day ;-;

  • @bananabananabananas
    @bananabananabananas Před 2 lety

    0:19 ppl like me who have conditions: I don't have such weaknesses

  • @RetroStrikeofficial
    @RetroStrikeofficial Před 2 lety +1

    Me in math class : 1 blink per hour

  • @AHHHHH4
    @AHHHHH4 Před 2 lety +1

    Everyone: wow the water fills up perfectly
    Me: he waisted so much water

  • @stoptryingtostealmyaccount7245

    or if they just dont want to look at you its either because they are scared of you or because they have social anxiety so they avoid eye contact because it makes them feel uncomftorble and scared

  • @MrHushCrush
    @MrHushCrush Před 2 lety +1

    Now I have proof that my friend has been lying to me 😂✌️

  • @memeprovider244
    @memeprovider244 Před 2 lety +1

    This video made me not blink for 10 minutes

  • @laylastxrr
    @laylastxrr Před 3 lety +2

    Me who swears I’m a bit autistic or just REALLY socially awkward-
    So when people talk to me they think I’m happy, scared, angry, lying, being truthful, thinking about something important and recalling an event all at the same time....interesting 🤔😂

  • @arandomperson5026
    @arandomperson5026 Před 3 lety

    That guy from Friday night dinner: Boredom intensifies

  • @H20MAXAMAS
    @H20MAXAMAS Před 2 lety +1

    Me a gamer who has trained not to blink for almost 20 minutes

  • @SmokeyTTV
    @SmokeyTTV Před 2 lety

    His pupils being contracted:
    BLINK TWICE IF YOU NEED HELP

  • @TheWendable
    @TheWendable Před rokem

    Some people pupils don’t dilate, like mine, it takes me longer to get used to the dark. Children all have big pupils until the eye muscles are used more, thus making them smaller as we age.

  • @CazrioJM
    @CazrioJM Před 3 lety

    Mind reading is having a connection to pats interfences and asuming due to regular human acts of how people precede

  • @rabitrader5981
    @rabitrader5981 Před 3 lety

    If he stopped posting one day and came back randomly tht glass would give so much happiness

  • @anothersome1552
    @anothersome1552 Před 3 lety

    Girls around my friend: ●●
    Girls around me: ••

  • @Literallynothimbro
    @Literallynothimbro Před 2 lety

    Ty for the tips :)

  • @chloexsturniolos
    @chloexsturniolos Před 2 lety

    My cat has big pupils when she is around me. But then sometime she makes the other eyes when she sees something or get scared. It’s accurate for my cat.

  • @caseywukraine4408
    @caseywukraine4408 Před 2 lety +1

    Me: wondering if you can get a potion to read minds
    This: *saved me*

  • @heyitsalex2194
    @heyitsalex2194 Před 3 lety

    Me with anxiety: guess I'm always lying and always stressed

  • @I_UsedToTroll
    @I_UsedToTroll Před 2 lety

    Me an introvert just wanting to break eye contact: oh so im a bad LIARR

  • @halfbloodprincess7796
    @halfbloodprincess7796 Před 3 lety

    Me: I want people to have big pupils when talking to me
    My brain: You know you really want them to be scared of you

  • @gloriagloria1731
    @gloriagloria1731 Před 2 lety

    when i am lying i look you straight up in the eye that tricks the other persons mind so use it wisely

  • @Thedueloquat233
    @Thedueloquat233 Před 3 lety +1

    *uses these to convince people im not lying instead*

  • @rakhiagarwal7716
    @rakhiagarwal7716 Před 2 lety

    Love that ppl who have brown eyes are immune to the first trick

  • @hangpad7784
    @hangpad7784 Před 2 lety

    “Me blinking faster than speed of light”

  • @norahyourass
    @norahyourass Před 2 lety +1

    I blink allot because for example: if a ball comes straight to me then i blink so much and its the same sometimes with people and sometimes people kinda make fun of me for it😔😕

  • @mckazuha4683
    @mckazuha4683 Před 3 lety +1

    Ty, now all my friends who watch this will think im always telling the truth

  • @safari_the_wolf_cat9337

    When I'm explaining to myself how I'm going to tell someone something I always look to the bottom left because I feel embarrassed about the conversation when I'm not even talking to anyone.

  • @divyashetty377
    @divyashetty377 Před 3 lety +1

    Them: *speaking*
    Me: 👁👄👁
    Them: why are you looking at my eyes like that....

  • @_Kitsune_gaming_
    @_Kitsune_gaming_ Před 3 lety +1

    No wonder why I never blink I’m always bored

  • @candybar9602
    @candybar9602 Před 3 lety

    *Him explaining*
    *me just blinking evry 3 second*

  • @mbh5360
    @mbh5360 Před 2 lety

    Everybody gangsta until criminals use this video as a how-to

  • @NoName-mu6pn
    @NoName-mu6pn Před 3 lety

    Thats why im blinking 2-3 seconds while watching this!

  • @amberbarnett4474
    @amberbarnett4474 Před 2 lety

    It’s actually a very common and dangerous misconception that you can tell if a persons lying by the direction they look when recalling something here’s what is actually going on, and according to neurologist there is always a margin of error in behavior analysis:
    Remembering something a person saw - eyes will move upwards and mostly to left
    Recalling something heard - look to either side and tilt the head (as if listening)
    Recalling a feeling or emotion - look down and to the right
    Mentally talking to oneself - look down and to the left

  • @ShaynaCommenter
    @ShaynaCommenter Před 2 lety

    I wanna send this to my friends to indirectly let them know that all their conversations bore me out of my mind