WHAAAT! You Cannot Marry a Black Man? - Mufti Menk
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The amount of people that are going to listen to this and then say "he is 100% right" and then when it comes their way, they reject it smh.
😂😂 so true
Yep...
Very true. Sad isn’t it
He isn't right and openly reject it & I'm not even a muslim.
That's true,may Allah Swt protect us and forgiveness
My brother is sick, but he is reading the Quran. Read a prayer for him.
May Allah Almighty bless him with good health. Aameen
May Allah give him sifa
Allah is merciful and Allah will heal your brother and make him healthy and happy again in sha Allah.
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May Allah Almighty cure your brother. Aameen
May Allah help him
The black man is the most feared man in the world.
Very true
Why
FACTS
and the most misunderstood.
@@surambayakiwango9490 anti-blackness is world wide.
My sister had the worst experience. She met and fell in love with an Arab man. He asked her to marry him met my parents my father gave his blessings. When She met his parents they were disrespectful and racist to her. They forbid the marriage and the most he said was that she should give him time to work on them. When my father heard he was beyond furious. He withdraw his blessings called them and was adamant that his black daughter was too good for this kind of family. Their son had not even gone to university and his daughter was in medical school. My sister did eventually agree that it just couldn't work and they went their separate ways. It is important not to love someone so much that you must love yourself less in order to be with them.
It's not the fault of your sister's lover or fiancee so why did she abandon him if his family refused her he loved her and wanted to marry her she is marrying him not his family
Arabs of gulf countries are racist people by nature. Even Islam couldn't change them
@@financialliteracyeducation5112 my arab brothers they live as family. Family is something big to them the girl has to be with them. Better to let go
Your father is a smart man.
@@financialliteracyeducation5112 it's a cultural thing, we are Caribbean , you don't just marry a person you marry a family. A family that your children will be born into. If they do not respect you, there will never really be peace in your marriage.
Thank you for touching such an important topic Sheikh Mufti Menk, Stay blessed always :)
@Loqmane Nasar walaikumusalaam wa rehmatullah wa barakatu, thanks for such kind words
@@FreeQuranEducation A.A.R.B. marrying black muslim men & women is permissible. It's marrying non-muslim men & women is forbidden in Islam.
I love ❤️ your videos
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahiwabarakatu may Allah blees you free quran education
@@FreeQuranEducation kamu orang malayu kan ?
Alhamdulila I married a black African man and I'm from Indian muslim diaspora. We are completely from different backgrounds, culture and upbringing but similar university backgrounds and Islam and correct aqeedah unites us and our children masha Allah. Bless my parents for never being racists, always putting Islam first and always loving him as their son. I never felt discriminated either from his side Alhamdulila but we also live independently in a different country to our respective cultures. So relations are cordial and easy on both families sides Alhamdulila.
@@NomadNotMad are you stupid ? She wrote that He is Muslim
But islamic ppl hate other non isalmic ppl so how is it true religion
That is beautiful. All that matters is God and someone’s heart. The prophet told us all races are equal, men and women too, all that matters is our character.
@@hfradar9763 who the heck told you we hate Non Muslims? And don't try to pull some Sur'ah you know absolutely nothing about.
I live currently where I was born in Muslim region of the country but overall country is predominantly Orthodox Christian(but in all reality they are car from true Orthodox Christianity but that's on them ) country where 6 Million people 85% out of 7 Million are Orthodox Christians and 1 Million rest are Muslims(which make only 4% of country(,Catholicism 5%, , Protestant(0.9%) and rest 5% other religions.
So say if we go by that statement which is utterly stupid I should hate 85% of the country? I should hate anyone who isn't Muslim?
Man wake up and don't be so dumb next time.
Yes amen !
The first person to call the faithful to pray was a Black man.
I am so ashamed of that fact, if it's true...😭
Job 30:30 said a black man has suffering . I think a black man is attacked as a chosen race as garden of Eden is in Africa . Africa is blessed with mineral resources with gold, diamond, tobacco , copper, goal etc
@@forgood2954 why would you be ashamed?
Balahl was a slave who Muhammed bought from another Arab.
@@TreyeParker I'm ashamed that a black person should be able to understand Islam for what it really is. Allah is not the same as Yahweh.
I have 100% respect for you sir, racism shouldn't be an issue anymore in 21st century
Love from South Africa
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Yet Quran says satan looks like a black man
@@klopcodez lol Satan is not even man...
@@dmitri970 exactly not sure why anyone with a brain would follow it I mean quram promises men 70-100 virgins that become virgins over and over as it says what kind of sick sht is that?...and oh there white while anyone else is locked up sick cults
I'm Indonesian and my wife is Moroccan. Asia - Africa☝🏽
Maçhallah! 🙌🏽💕💖
@Adam Malik Moroccans are not arab they are berbers. You do have a small arab population but most of them are Berbers (native northafricans)
@@canelo1728 most of them are arabs
@@canelo1728 morocons are very mixed with Arabs, Europeans and black Africans.
@@alhashmy1310wrong
It doesn't matter if he/she/they is black,blue,white,whatever in colour, they are still human
Blue? 😂
@@uh.3486 hes just trying to say no matter how you look you are human
@@uh.3486 LMAO- well i havent seen people like that but- its always nice to be unique- right
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Ye except rainbow i hate rainbow
I am not a Muslim, but you gave good advice for everyone!
If your not a muslim and it is obvious by how you look and dress, payatension to how muslims look at you, talk to you.
@@thomasdoubtingdon’t say nonsense please
@@wa2sk515 what do you mean "nonsense"?
My parents were from different countries, cultures and religions. But their marriage was absolutely strong. they taught me to judge all people on their merits as an individual. Thank you for touching on this important topic
I’m a Christian guy. I love my Islamic brothers & sisters. God bless you all. ❤️
God bless you, and our Christian brothers ❤
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I'm a Buddhist and I love all my brothers and sisters of this world.
God bless you 🙏 too
see we got 14 dislikes but I am a black man I am a Muslim and I converted to Islam a year ago and I watch you I study I really like what you say Allahu Akbar 💙
I would love to learn the Quran speak Arabic by the time I converted covid-19 came and everything I learned I learned on my own still learning
@@damionsworld3146 where do you live ?
Well done and welcome to Islam brother may Allah sw Guide us to the right path stay blessed always.
@Paki Taknolgi n Signs minishtr nobody but I would like to get trump out of office
@@damionsworld3146 ?
Thank you for speaking truth. I’ve taught my children I’d rather you be happier married to someone of another race then to be married to someone just because they’re the same race as you but treat you poorly. Love has no religion or race and everybody needs it. Love is the best feeling in the world. Who wouldn’t want to feel loved Thank you again
TELL IT .... TRUE WORDS ❤️
Mashallah for your mindset
Isn’t Hagar the Black Egyptian the mother of Ishmael, and therefore the mother of Muhammad??
Asking for a friend.
The answer is yes, so without Hagar there would be no Muhammad.
Don't ask, denial is not a river in Egypt. Lol
Yes...ignorance!!!
Learn sumin new everyday... I knew Yeshua/Jesus had skin like burnt brass and burnished bronze... dark brown...but i didnt know Muhammad was a black man as well... it makes perfect sense.. you can figure out most of the past by looking at the present...apparently. btw i guess Arabs are basically mexicans on camels? mixed i mean ...
Hebrews are black.jews are white
Absolutely agree, but unfortunately there are racist people.
It all works out in the grand scheme of things. Allah has a plan no doubt and none can frustrate His plan.
always has been and sadly always will be
May ALLAH (SWT) cure all of the UMMAH, and the entire world, a complete cure from the evil of racism.
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Amazing recitation of Surah Al Mulk
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@Mohammed Mirza he had reddish complexion,the prophet described him
It's crazy that this needs to be talked about in 2020
It doesn't.. these cults are catching up now. With their cult leaders treading carefully..
Racism will never leave this earth even in year 4000 no matter how advanced we are. Its Satan work and Satan is here until the end.
Never say never
This is bcos of politicians and satanist who wanted to control the world. They make us fight each other when we ourselves were actually dosent care our skin colour
Because still existe in 2020🤷🏿♂️
Why are we as blacks alway want other women but not black women and complain when they’re rejected
Thanks, for this video as a Black women its refreshing to see. Stay blessed and safe.
As a blackwoman i say thankyou for this topic lets resist racism
Islam dosent have color thats why mohammad ali converted cuz in the eyes of god islam and muslims
See ppl as same.ur beutiful
@@Rexbraiku yet racism is prevelant
Prophet Muhammad’s last sermon before death was that an Arab is not superior to a non-Arab and a non- Arab is not superior to an Arab. We are all descended from Adam and Eve.
I DISAGREE BECAUSE THERE IS A CONTRADICTION IN THE QURAN
If we say that Allah created all of us equal, it contradicts multiple chapters and verses where slavery was allowed and officialized by the Allah.
The Quran even gives laws about how to treat slaves . It even autorizes a man to sleep with his wive and his slaves. So I am confused about the term Equality in creation. Please let everybody comment on this question because it is causing a lot of confusion and disagreement between us here in Algeria. Wallah, c'est difficile à comprendre mes freres et soeurs.
salam
@@azzizdeblida7983 Islam abolished slavery pretty much. What it allows is captives of war. But on certain conditions.
Slaves can only be caught in war, no exceptions.
The master must treat him how he would treat his family, and himself with proper accommodation and the same food as you eat.
Islam even says you should help the individual with work.
Any physical violence against the individual means you have to release them under sharia law.
If the individual converts to Islam, then you have to free the individual.
A slave can go to the sharia courts and make a contract with his master, that he will do a period of work usual 20 years, and then he will become free.
Islam has no discrimination among individuals of different race, everyone is the same regardless of race.
If you wish to marry the individual, you have to set the individual free.
The Quran calls for the freeing of slaves, either the owner manumitting the slave, or a third party purchasing and freeing the slave.The freeing of slaves is encouraged is an act of benevolence, and expiation of sins. It is believed to be the one of the greatest acts you could do and P.Muhammad highly encouraged the freeing of slaves.
The Quran recognizes slavery as a source of injustice, as it places the freeing of slaves on the same level as feeding the poor.
Slaves can also buy their freedom in instalments which is encouraged in the Quran.
And slaves can also progress higher up on the social platform, and there were many examples of that in the past, with the mamluk dynasty of Egypt being founded by Circassian slaves.
But none of this matters because all Muslim nations agreed to ban slavery in the 1960s admitting that Islam’s goal was to slowly get rid of slavery, by choking and discouraging its practices, like P.Muhammad did with alcohol.
Peace!
Proud to be a Muslim Islam is the best religion May Allah grant us forgiveness Ameen
Allahumma Ameen
It’s the only good religion. Alhamdulilah
And may ALLAH (SWT) grant you and your entire family double forgiveness in DUNYA and AKHIRA.
@@bassamimam1019 Allahumma Ameen
MashaAllah nice name
What does it (Bassam) mean?
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Amazing recitation of Surah Al Mulk
Hope you will like it
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I'm a white dude, i have listened to you and I have come away with positive thoughts about you, I'll check back again.
That's awesome! How's it going now?
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Black is best, everyone else is jealous.
Ask the Sun whom He loves the best. Those He don't burn.
The Sun is God look it up
If it were possible I would give you 2 thumbs up 5 mics and 2 turntables fam.
I'm sorry if your offended by the comment, but the brother is for his nation,nothing personal.
@S R based on the title of the video, that alone creates problems.
@S R Ishmael was black, he comes from Abraham a Black man and Ishmaels mother was black too, she was an Egyptian a servant of Sarah.
The white man mixed his seed with the seed of Ishmael and eventually everyone on the planet. But Everyone now is against the black man even their own.
I am not Muslim but I am studying your faith for an honest opinion and this is by far the best moral teachings thank you.
A Abyssinian man (Bilal) was the first to make the call to prayer in the history of Islam, and one of the most beloved companions to Prophet Muhammad ☺️
@@hasibabdullah3463 Are you a scholar? just asking cause i need some help
@@hasibabdullah3463 it is kinda private, i don't want much people to know, if i can message you or no?
Islam isn't racist. It's the racists within Islam giving is an unearned poor reputation.
You can start with the criminal laws of Arabia and watch out for amputations and stoning.
I am glad that such a topic is being brought up and discussed upon, as now days, racial discrimination is a global issue and I feel like it's a topic worth discussing. Great going sheikh!
I DISAGREE BECAUSE THERE IS A CONTRADICTION IN THE QURAN
If we say that Allah created all of us equal, it contradicts multiple chapters and verses where slavery was allowed and officialized by the Allah.
The Quran even gives laws about how to treat slaves . It even autorizes a man to sleep with his wive and his slaves. So I am confused about the term Equality in creation. Please let everybody comment on this question because it is causing a lot of confusion and disagreement between us here in Algeria. Wallah, c'est difficile à comprendre mes freres et soeurs.
salam
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There is one race on this planet, the HUMAN race.
Human race. Human family. Which one are you?
A very popular response but Human is not a race. But I get your point.
The bottom line is that Islam is a false word of God, this not something new to the ears.
@@MrDFJohnson species ;) hominid
That's real talk
Alhamdulillah best piece of knowledge I needed exactly today for a close person of mine. Jazak Allah khair sheikh. Ya Allah help us all and accept our Duas. aameen
Ameen.
Anyway,
Peace be upon U my brother and sister.
My Muslim folks only for the sake of Allah SWT I would recommend u to subscribe/watch the channel named "Farid Responds" who debunk/refute anti-Islamic (Islamophobe ) people’s false accusations against Islam or misinterpretations of Hadith and Quran.
& they are trying to Muslims get out of Islam & playing with innocent average Muslims mind.
May Allah SWT guide us & protect us from these devilish people’s game.
Let Muslims be aware of their own Islam, so that they can have enough knowledge to confront these Hypocrite/Black Sheep or for own knowledge.
[If anyone here who is Non-Muslim & genuinely honestly seeking knowledge & can keep their ego/arrogance or mindset aside while searching knowledge then I would recommend u too to watch and listen to his words just for ur knowledge my friend. As they don’t preach against ur belief, they're only answering those who are misinterpreting Quran and Hadith & spreading falsehood against Islam.
Be neutral in search of knowledge if u r truthful my friend. .
In-sha-Allah, by ur creator u'll find the truth.]
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I have no intention to argue with anyone. So, be peaceful.
JazakAllah Khairan brother and sister.
Note for ignorant people :
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Not Anti thought based channel. Rather they defend anti-Islamic people’s misinterpretation & falsehood against Islam.
& I'm just trying to work for my Muslim ummah from my position and ability. .
Assalamu Alaikum woa Rahmatullah woa Rahmatullah.
Ameen
Aameen
Amiiiiin yaa Rabi
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GOD CREATED US ALL EQUALLY NO MATTER OUR SKIN COLOR‼️ AMEN 🙏🏽
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Alhamdillilah
As a black myself I say you are right but you can’t tell that to arabs most especially they they think blacks are meant to be their slaves they refused to accept we are all equal till today they feel they more human than us one of my yemeni classmate said if she ever gets married to a black man her family will kill her I was shocked to death I tried to make her understand we are all human beings in the face of God she knew it but she was very afraid of her family
Thank you my brother. Sending many blessings your way!!🇯🇲🇯🇲
I’m not Muslim but I love good talk, great knowledge speaking so I definitely agree with you Sir.
Honestly i knew about this as a black muslim brother but i dont sweat it about marrying out of my race! Who said a black queen ain’t enough for me 🤷🏽♂️
@Blackà Đønz Youre actually mental.
Please listen to what the man is saying before spouting nonsense black donz... if it was about the title why did you bother clicking it
@Blackà Đønz the title is click bait. You'd have to watch the video in order to get and understand the message. I'm not even Muslim and I understood the message. He spoke against using religious doctrine to reinforce racist motivations. Something that southern U.S. Christians have been well known for.
@@neilmcdonaldii4367 so why use a black man to get views? Click bait smh It is racist. He could've come up with a less offensive title. Everybody who saw that title who isn't subscribed to the man clicked on it because they wanted to hear why you shouldn't marry a black man. But we got something a bit different. I think it's pathetic.
To make that statement your title just shows me what you really feel inside. He doesn't like black men, and he wouldn't want one to marry his daughter.
@@No_Frills_Carnivore did you even watch the video? Have you even been to the middle east and mingled amongst the Muslims? What he did with the thumb mail is what a lot of content creators do to grab people's attention. It's a very touchy subject. Some of the biggest racists/bigots I know are black!
I’m a black American woman and I’m married to a Yemi brother. I teach him about the harms of our dumya and he teaches me more about the deen. MashaAllah we balance one another out!
May Allah grant you happy marrige sister ❤️
Allahuma Ameen
Allahuma Ameen!
Arabs male love all kind of females even jew women but you wont see a jew or black man marry a muslim girl.
@@avrahamalamo8475nore then 20% of the muslim world is in Africa.... As for the none muslims its not allowed by the islamic law
First of all we Black men don't beg to marry nobody... Relationships work two ways not one.
As a non religious person this is good hear as your faith is portrayed in a dark light at times , great to see you sub count is so great.
My parents denied me from marrying a revert sister who I got to know, her character was what I liked the most. They did not want to meet her even just because of the skin colour difference and treated her as a lesser human with a negative attitude towards her.
I'm not even sure on marriage anymore, the time and generation we live in people are not marrying anymore before ages of 35 or 30! There are too many requirements from looks, financial etc and the Marriage websites/apps make it even worse so you flick through the best looking person, these apps promote the extenal attraction NOT internal and before people realise it years fly by and they have regrets.
I wanted to marry from a young age and I hope future generations will stop chasing the world and realise the important things in life.
I pray that Allah blesses all humanity with the basic understand of the meaningful things in life and move away from materialism.
My sisters are in the same issue getting older with so many requirements and I really fear for them!!
The UK/Western mentality is just ridiculous
You will never fully be happy trying to please others. Date who makes you happy.
and i also think as a guy you have more rights to marry who you want as long as she fits the criteria within our deen and if the reasons ur parents don't accept her are un-islamic then they don't count
I so agree with you
cast system , some countries ppl will kill a child at birth if its too dark.
@@dragomage6467 oh my god how disgusting
YOU COULD MARRY WHOEVER YOU WANT because color don’t matter BUT WHEN CHOOSING SOMEONE FIRST IS IF THEY ARE RELIGIOUS THEN THEIR WEALTH/STATUSAND LAST THEIR BEAUTY IN THE QURAN👍🏿
@Daniel Khan yes that’s the reason wealth is last the main reason when choosing someone is looking at how religious they are and wealth is last meaning not the main criteria but is one of the last criterias in the Quran.
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@Daniel Khan The person isn't saying its important however it is fair to look at such a thing and if someone can't support a family it makes sense why some women won't try to marry them.
On the flip side if a woman is too old or can't have kids many guys don't want to marry them even if they are religious.
Humans are superficial creatures and the facts are people are going to have preferences and they aren't haram.
@Daniel you need some wealth to get married, also most people want similar lifestyles to what they are used to. This is very logical and plain to understand.
Allahmudillah my brothers and sisters. I am a white American male and I'm currently studying Islam. InshAllah I will be taking my Surah soon and becoming a proud Muslim Brother soon. There's no place in this world for hate no matter what. We All need to know this.
Allamudillah.
Beautifully said. Thank you for your insight.
Thank you for this, im so tired of people mixing religion and culture in with their own beliefs. Just keep it pure and you can't go wrong.
I think he is criticizing people who say that
You are just spreading hate and he will disprove your idea of “pure”. We have been mixing for generations. Stop spreading hate.
@@saiyber908 Spreading hate? I am muslim. Im also a black man. When i say "Pure" im saying keep it just how Allah intended it to be, no skin color should matter when it comes to marriage. If the two want to marry then the father should allow it. Maybe you mis understood my comment.
@@saiyber908 Also ive experienced many middle eastern muslims to be racist when it comes to marriage. No Black men, No Bengali, No one but a Cousin is worthy of marrying their daughters no matter if you can meet the dowry or not. Ive seen this mostly with Yemenis.
@@saiyber908 ohhhh!!! Ok my meaning of Pure is different from their's.
Please make dua for my beautiful sister I lost her yesterday. Innalillahi waina ileyh rajiun.
I've been meeting brothers and be felling welcomed. This topic has been in my heart and mind as I see the hatred for the African and African-American people all over the World. Thank you for this teaching it had bought joy to my heart and easy to my mind. Alhamdulillah
What a powerful message🙏🏾
As a Palestinian who married a Pakistani, we were brought up in the same community, we went through the same schools and shared a lot of the hobbies. But after marriage, I realized that even though people are all similar outside the house, inside the house people are very cultural. The little things when you engage your self in an interracial marriage become eventually big, like different food, language, lack of family compatibility and so on...we ended the marriage on good terms between me and her, and ended up marrying a Palestinian like myself and things are better, an easier marriage without any doubt.
People behave in their houses differently than outside, children of immigrant parents are more cultured than we think.
@@RSingh-lv1ro the Pakistani is a she :) we ended it well and there no fights, we realized due to the culture clash, it would be much harder to have kids
What cultural differences can lead to separation? I think u guys already knew u had different backgrounds already. I am not judging u personally, just wanted to know some reasons.
@@menbereabreha5786💯 percent FACT
I’m so glad you’ll be speaking on this.
Yeah as it is the need of hour dear .Jazakallah Khair.
We need this bad.
God created us all EQUALLY
NO MATTER OUR SKIN COLOR ‼️ AMEN 🙏🏽
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I get so tired of hearing Islam isn’t racist yada yada yada. We know Islam isn’t racist but some Muslims are! How about, let’s address what is happening!
Being an African Muslim you have brought on a good topic.
Jazakallah Khairan
Wanting to preserve your race, is not racism. If a father refuses his daughter to marry a black man, he shouldn't be called racist. People dont know the definition of racism so will call everyone who thinks differently a racist.
I am black and I agree with this statement. Most people will even prefer to date people within their own race. How much more a father expecting his child to do the same. There is nothing wrong with that. However, the problem comes in when the parents don't respect their child's wishes. The thing to always remember is your child has now become an adult.They are supposed to make decisions for themselves.
Mashallah, I am a white londoner and my husband is black londoner. I am blessed to have met such a wonderful man. We compliment each other, complete each others sentences at the same time. Have in depth conversations, and learn and support one another as well as problem solve. Outsiders, and so forth do have their opinions, but we choose to ignore, as we have the strength and Allah to guide us through this wonderful journey. Alhamdulliah.
Greetings from South Africa
Thank you for taking the time to share this beautiful message 💕
Beautiful message. Thank you 🙏🏻
Please can I know you more. I want to married
Would you marry a non black man?
Thank you so much for discussing such an important topic. May Allah continue to keep you healthy and anyone reading this. Ameen🤲🏿
I can see Mufti Menk has been blessed with wisdom more and more as I see more of his videos.
Being a black Muslim I’ve dealt with a lot of racism even in the mosque of all places! it really upsets me.
How do you claim to be Muslim but you think you’re somehow better than me cause of the color of your skin? Mitchewww
Yup. And it kinda forces you to look for predominantly Black mosques which isn’t right. Smh
True, I remember the first day I came here to Canada and there was some Arabian dude and when you pray_you put your legs together..the dude was moving his leg away from mine during salah and the guy beside him was arab and they joined together...it's so sad
@Banshee Lurcher yes this is literally right here in America the only time these people want to be next to you is during Ramadan and you can literally feel how they stiff when you stand next to them.
I hate to say it but Arab/ or Arab like and brown folks are racist asf .
We see the following regarding the kafa’a for marriage in the classic Shafi’i manual of Islamic law titled ‘Umdat as-Salik wa ‘Uddat an-Nasik (Reliance of the Traveller and Tools of the Worshipper):
والكفاءةُ في: النسَبِ والدِّينِ والحريةِ والصَّنعةِ وسلامة العيوبِ المُثْبِتَةِ للخِيار، فلا يُكافئ العجميُّ عربيةً، ولا غيرُ قُرَشيٍّ قُرشيَّةً، ولا غيرُ هاشميٍّ أو مُطَّلبيٍّ هاشميةً أو مطَّلبيةً، ولا فاسقٌ عفيفةً، ولا عبدٌ حرةً، ولا العتيقُ أو من مسَّ آباءَهُ رِقٌّ حرةَ الأصلِ، ولا ذو حِرفَةٍ دنيئةٍ بنتَ ذي حِرفةٍ أرفعَ، كخياطٍ بنتَ تاجرٍ، ولا معيبٌ بعيبٍ يُثْبِتُ الخِيارَ سليمةً منهُ، ولا اعتبارَ باليسارِ والشيخوخةِ، فمتى زوَّجها بغَيْرِ كُفءٍ بغَيرِ رضاها ورِضا الأولياءِ الذينَ هم في درَجتهِ فالنِّكاحُ باطلٌ، وإن رَضُوا أو رضيَتْ فليسَ للأبعدِ اعتراضٌ.
(Taken from the section of Kafa’a in the chapter of Nikaah in the text)
Translation: Kafa’a (Suitability in marriage for a female) is in the lineage (ancestry of the man), and in religiousness, and his being a free man (not a slave), and in his profession, and his being free of defects that can cause the annulment of the marriage. And the ajami (non-Arab) is NOT suitable for an Arab woman, and a non-Qurayshi is NOT suitable for a Qurayshi woman (Quraysh was the tribe of the Holy Prophet (S)), nor is a non-Hashimi or non-Muttalabi suitable for a Hashimi or Muttalabi woman (Hashimites are the members of the clan to which the Holy Prophet (S) belonged to, and Muttalabites are the descendants of the grandfather of the Holy Prophet (S)). Nor is an immoral man suitable for a virtuous woman, nor is a slave suitable for a free woman, nor is a freed slave or one whose ancestors were touched by slavery suitable for a (free) woman whose ancestors were free. Nor is a man of a lowly profession suitable for the daughter of someone with a noble profession, such as a tailor wanting to marry a tradesman’s daughter.
So we see that the following are NOT kafa’a (suitable for marriage) for women:
Non-Arab men for Arab women
Non-Qurayshi man for a Qurayshi woman
Non-Hashimi or non-Muttalabi for a Hashimi or Muttalabi woman
Sinful man for virtuous a woman
A slave or a freed slave for a free woman
A free man but one whose ancestors might have been slaves for a free woman whose ancestors were not slaves
A man with a lowly profession for a woman whose father has a noble profession
You know that there are white Christians that don't like Black Christians even when Christianity suppose to preach brotherly love. You know that it was the Popes that sanction slavery. The point is that racisms knows no religious boundaries, nor culture boundaries. My advice to you is find another Mosque with people that respect you and love you. Please don't waste anymore of your time there.
You know I’ve come to respect Islam more after listening to you👏👏👏
A very brilliant Islamic scholar. I love your submission & the world need someone like you as a connecting bridge
I'm Black American 🇺🇸 My husband is Moroccan 🇲🇦 . 💕
Mashallha may Allah bless you both and all of us Ameen
@@afsananehath689 Thank you so much 🌹
@@amarisbelghiti94 your welcome 😊😊
many Moroccan marry black
roses maybe black Moroccans but not black Americans. I am Morrocan and black American. I do not see Moroccans and Black Americans couple and children like myself who is a cross between, I am sure it exist but it's not common like example a black and white couple/ black and white kids., i think it's more so because of different culture/religion than anything else that's what my birth mother said..
May all your "IN SHA ALLAH" turned into "ALHAMDULILLAH "🍁
Say Aameen 🌹
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Thank you so much for your kind words of wisdom and it's very important that we humans understand this may God bless you
Beautiful messages ❤️
So many of us have experienced it, by not having the same nationality and therefore not being good enough for this person, even though we wanted different, but they wanted their children, no they demanded their children to only get married within the same nationality. Despite calling themselves muslims as well.
May Allah swt. Guide us all.
I was in a relationship with a Muslim black girl from Caribbean. We, went to the same college, had the same set of classes for almost 2 years. We both had the same goal in our minds, both becoming Nurses. I felt like she was my missing piece. I loved her so much, we been together for 3.5 year. When I tried to introduce her to my family they were really upset, called her names insulted her and her family, with out even getting to know her. I understand why we had to break up, but I felt like losing her, I lost a part of me. I pry that my family could just understand. She was not a criminal, she was a Muslim, she had goals and ideas similar to mine. But it’s all gone. Almost 4 years gone and 3 extra years of school for nothing.
I’m so sorry you went through that but you shouldn’t give up on her if that’s who you truly love try to bring a respectable sheikh who your parents respect who is not racist to advocate for your union
You should take a strong decision as a man to marry her
True wisdom🙏 Blessings be upon you.
Jazakallah khair for this.
I am French and I follow your sermons which are very enriching. Would it be possible to put subtitles so that I (and us French ) can understand what you are saying please. thank you, and peace on you.
Remember folks, Iblis was the 1st racist.
*"I am better than him. You created me from fire, You created him from clay."*
_-Iblis_
If your family don't want you to marry someone because of their race, Who are they acting like?
This is the best thing I've heard in weeks
bigoted maybe. Don’t you have to be both human of different races to b3 a racist?
From what I gather, Iblis isn’t a human being. Its like saying I can be racist to a goat just because we’re different species.
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That's not the same thing. A goat is an animal. Jinns & humans are sentient beings.
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I know that. My comparison was to show that angels or jinn and human beings are not on the same level. Though angels jinn and humans are all sentient, they are not on the same level of power and intelligence. The angels and jinn are purely spiritual beings whereas humans are not. I was using the goat as a benchmark to show the contrast . It wasn’t intended to be taken literally.
Shaytan, may Allah Curse him and all who follow him.
Thank you for that message!
Grate words of wisdom brother,May Allah continue to bless your journey of life😌🙏🏿
I'm Pakistani, husband is somali. Both Muslims. Main thing. We have a 2 year old son and I'm pregnant again. Alhamdulliah for everything.
Which country are you guys living in ? Is it UK?
Mashallah I hope that his family accept you because I know that Somalis usually do not like marrying outside.
@ahmed ali I am not Somali rather a proud Afghani but I know many Pakistani girls married to African ( They have CZcams channel).Also I didn't ask you so better to mind your own buisness.
@Balochi boy There is not wrong in marrying a cousin as it allowed in Islam.
Eye opener for parents mufti menk you are amazing waiting for so long May Allah bless you and keep you happy Ameen
This a great video, I’m going through this situation and I’m happy to hear this.
I'm a Christian but l just love how you speak so motivational, true about life.
Same 🎉
Peace and many blessings to you special person scrolling through the comment: I pray for your happiness, healing, victory from sources you never expected, and soon my beloved brothers and sisters may Allah grant you an expensive gift where you are left to shed countless tears of joy and may your final home be nothing less than Alfirdouse'l A'alaa!
Ameen, thank you for this prayer. I pray the same for you ❤️
Ameen!
Please CZcams SGI BUDDHIST MOVEMENT an introduction full length version. Peace and NammyohorengekyO!!
Ameen
Ameen
The best under (man) among us is the most righteous man, no one has superiority over another only by their righteousness (good deeds) Peace to all
Beautiful message! May Allah keep blessing you my brother, Inshallah
The teaching is so right. I pray people open their hearts to this message.
Thank you! I'm just starting my journey in islam and worry about finding a wife that is also a Muslim
This is such a cute comment! You’ll find the one who completes you soon, inshallah. Don’t lose hope, there are many great Muslim women out there
Before you convert to Islam, you really need to investigate the facts about Islam yourself. Take a look at this video. It will provide you with several Islamic sources for you to read. czcams.com/video/Qx1IkH5pNH0/video.html
@@heirofthenazareen3812 No thanks, that guy is nothing but hate......
@@HamzaSayyid ??? Absolutely not! He has never spoken a word of hate toward anyone. What he does is reveal the true facts about Islam and he does it by showing it in Islam's own scriptures, the Quran and the hadith. He never says anything without showing it in the Quran or the hadith.
Do you know there's a death sentence against you if you leave Islam? Muhammad commanded his followers to kill anyone who leaves Islam. You've ben told that Muhammad ended slavery, right? It isn't true. Muhammad was a slaver. Yes, he bought, sold, and traded black African slaves.
These are all facts proven by Islam's own sources. Do you want to know the truth about Islam? Or are you content to simply believe what Muslims are telling you?
@@heirofthenazareen3812 I have read both the Quran and Bible, feel free to do the same instead of listening to that Moron... weird but owning slaves is in the Bible also...... you are blind
I don't know how many parents need to hear this
I DISAGREE BECAUSE THERE IS A CONTRADICTION IN THE QURAN
If we say that Allah created all of us equal, it contradicts multiple chapters and verses where slavery was allowed and officialized by the Allah.
The Quran even gives laws about how to treat slaves . It even autorizes a man to sleep with his wive and his slaves. So I am confused about the term Equality in creation. Please let everybody comment on this question because it is causing a lot of confusion and disagreement between us here in Algeria. Wallah, c'est difficile à comprendre mes freres et soeurs.
salam
@@azzizdeblida7983 I wish I had an answer to that
All of them especially the fathers
The world and the religious leaders need people like you.💯🤝
Assalam 'Alaikum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuhu my dearest Mufti. Jazak 'Allah Khair once again for your continuous effort to enlighten us.
I was the one who asked you about the issues surrounding "secret marriage" proposals in our societies by in 2017 in London here.
After a long search and waiting for Allah's time, AlhamdulilLah I finally met my wife online during the Ramadhan 2020 and we finally married on Arafat Day 2020 without ever meeting or even seeing each other in real life. She lives, in Norway and I live here in London. We had wanted to meet up first before anything could happen, but due to the current situations as we are all aware of, we had to accept our fate and be realistic. We did few video chats, she was originally against that, but she had to accept it. We were very mindful or our boundaries and set up "Red Lines", very strict lady, Maa Shaa 'Allah.
She is originally from Niger Republic and my origin is Gambian. Her parents conducted the Nikah back in Niger. I only spoke to them once on whatapps. That is another issue which can be added to this, where someone lives or comes from.
I really resonate with everything that you mentioned here, a lot of people are experiencing this and I have been through it myself on numerous occasions. You know what, just like some have mentioned here, just ignore these types of people. Let them not get to you or discourage you in any way, shape or form. They really need some form of therapy. AlhamdulilLah I don't see anything in a fellow human being apart of Dean and Character. Give everyone a blank sheet of paper and remember that we are all mankind.
May Allah SWT make us among those who will hear and heed to good wisdom like these. Ameen. Ahmad
im a bosnian girl married to a pakistani. my family was always open minded to any rase, as long as hes muslim they didnt care alhamdulilah
If you are black you would have understood that your parents are not open-minded
The first transgression committed by Iblis was racism when he refused to bow to Adam due to him being made of clay. As servants of Allah we should always work to remember this.
Oh yes God made Adam in his image that means God is black and Sheitan was white and that explains why his off spring that infiltrated the human gene still despises the children of the Most High the people who look like the soil of the ground the true human being
@Wazza dan Mufti Menk literally has videos where he states this directly. Please look it up if you’re truly interested.
@@angelanyambura2843 There is no race in a Islam. We are all servants of Allah. No one is an “offspring of Sheitan” just because of their skin color.
Great message 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you from South Carolina!!
May Allah forgive all of our past, present, and future sins, Ameen.
ameen
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting your daughter to marry a black man. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Christianity is white mans religion and Islam is big joke
Wonderful insight- thank you.
Great message!!
Asalamu alaikum, this is a good topic to touch on. I am black, and my husband is white (Irish and French). His parents didn’t have a problem, but my parents did in the beginning. Once they seen how good he was, they relaxed, now they love him. I understood why my parents felt that way in the beginning especially since they seen so much racism in the south of USA when they were younger. Allhumdulillah that they were able to see that he has a good heart, and his intentions were good.
Thank you so much I have a hard time excepting my son-in-law after what you say I love my life thank you so much 🙏🏽
I'm glad you touched on this subject brother
Good message. 👍
I saw this and I the first thing that came to mind was the story of Bilal.
Just by looking at your profile pic in an islamic video Lmaoo 😭😂💚
Please get back to me if you find me interesting...!
him and halimah ;)
Don’t judge a book by its cover.
Thank you my brother and trust that these teachings will be practiced and implemented
nice one. Didn't know that! This is very positive to hear from a muslim.
Sadly here in pakistan everyone makes fun of black ppl, everyone laughs it up and think its funny. Even if the parents are looking for someone for their son/daughter they want someone who doesn't have a dark skin colour
That show the degree to which those people have been brainwashed by white supremacy
As an Indian, this is why I’m going to distance myself from that culture as much as possible.
And the actual fact is that there are no interational marriages there are always intro rational marriages..... for beyond the epidermis we exactly all Human...
Shell Mufti Menk brother you said the undeniable indisputable and irrefutable truth thanks soo much for such great advice I had to learn the hard way Alhamdulillah today all praise to Allah I'm doing well
So well stated brother let hope many people see this and learn from this.