HOW TO LOVE THE INFP WOMAN

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  • čas přidán 11. 09. 2024

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  • @shawdo_yt
    @shawdo_yt Před 5 lety +190

    My INFP gf saw this thumbnail on my playlist and laughed her ass off. Then she kisses me all over cuz she thought me figuring out how to love her more was sweet. Gosh i love infps

    • @candicedavis5737
      @candicedavis5737 Před 4 lety +12

      You're amazing
      I love it

    • @hanhdao6191
      @hanhdao6191 Před 4 lety +7

      wholesome to the max

    • @Marilag2911
      @Marilag2911 Před 4 lety +5

      That's so sweet ❤️

    • @siphokxzi
      @siphokxzi Před 3 lety +6

      It is though!!! It's such a sweet thing to try your best to understand someone rather than assuming they are a certain way

    • @CapedCrusader77
      @CapedCrusader77 Před 3 lety

      💗💗💗

  • @GorudoEkusuperiensu
    @GorudoEkusuperiensu Před 5 lety +94

    This channel has been just INCREDIBLE for me... I'm an INFJ and have an INFP partner. Your tips have made me much more capable to comprehend her even better and make her feel special. She was seriously hurt in the past and she's recovering - she's been letting her emotions and feelings flow to me unhinged, she's doing the things she loves and smiles all the time, it makes me feel incredible. Thanks a ton Lex, you're amazing!

    • @geekchic7560
      @geekchic7560 Před 5 lety +2

      I have a crush on an infj, sorry if I'm overstepping, but how well do your personalities mix? I'm an Infp and I'm very curious about the infj/infp compatibility.

    • @plantsbeautylove
      @plantsbeautylove Před 5 lety +5

      Geek Chic hey 👋🏻 I’m a infp female and I’ve been dating a infj man for almost 2 years :) .. I would say at first it takes a bit of getting used too but over time we understand each other’s mindset .. he has made me feel safe and we have shown each other how to affectively communicate i am more reactive and prone too moods because I infp females are more emotional and infj men are emotional so they come from a understanding point of view ..a infp women we need someone who can calm us down .. also I’m coming from a very toxic past relationship , I have serious trust issues and fears of rejection abandonment..a infj man lets me know he’s not going anywhere and my heart feels safe .. also I love how he’s a homebody ..a infj man is brilliant And as a infp women we notice how special and wonderful they are💗✨

    • @reginaldknowles3890
      @reginaldknowles3890 Před 4 lety

      @@plantsbeautylove Now, if I could just find that in a female...

  • @reginaldknowles3890
    @reginaldknowles3890 Před 4 lety +28

    Seriously, on some real shit, this channel has been a Godsend in my life. It feels so good and refreshing to Finally be understood and be around others like me. It helps me to stop feeling so alone and gives me hope that I will find my soulmate, yet.

  • @MartianMoon
    @MartianMoon Před 5 lety +89

    Maybe I’m alone in this but as an INFP male all of these points are equally relevant for myself too

    • @HARUNOboy17
      @HARUNOboy17 Před 5 lety +3

      Martian Moon Agreed. Great video Lex!

    • @Achilleas7
      @Achilleas7 Před 5 lety +2

      a nightmare ain't it?
      girls to appreciate this nature today...
      good luck finding her boyz.
      i decided to stop caring coz i'm 37 now and it looks like everything around us has purpose, nothing is random!
      Y'all Invited to check out an extreme INFPs videos which as you would presume have been created for others and not for paying it back at the INFP non existing self!
      and i do wish you the best of luck with finding girls to appreciate INFP guys. a family is the greatest blessing!!
      In fact, i mention this in part2 of "Grande Finale" for whomever might have the patience to watch
      If someone watches till the end it would be INFPs :-)
      tips and tricks all around the way!

    • @MartianMoon
      @MartianMoon Před 5 lety +2

      @@Achilleas7 sure is =(

    • @Achilleas7
      @Achilleas7 Před 5 lety

      @@MartianMoon how old are you buddy?
      if i am here for any reason (here as "around") is to teach one thing with my life that gives a message of hope to yours.
      can i try to offer some thoughts that could maybe help?
      My intuition feels like "the depression killah" is the first video i should suggest.
      In short... there are ZERO accidents around you!
      beware of wishing too much for something you deserve in the first place!
      There's a reason for not having it!
      i hope i've intrigued you to check out my work that has become my dedication.
      Reason being, ... the depression i see around me!
      i make no money of this.
      i only hope my experience can be of help!
      feel free to contact anywhere INFB (Bro) ;-)
      all smiles! check vids, grab a ride, don't be shy!
      no patrons, no paypals!
      no other motive than your frown!
      that goes to everyone reading this and is in struggle as i too was!

    • @infpeople4749
      @infpeople4749 Před 5 lety

      Martin Moon, Agreed!

  • @vjamison2
    @vjamison2 Před 4 lety +7

    I’m finally discovering at 38 that I’m an Empath and an INFP. I relate to 95% of it- but I’ve learned after a 13 year relationship with a narcissist- 3 years ago that boundaries are a must to keep my energy good,

  • @jonathanpettus
    @jonathanpettus Před 5 lety +29

    wait ok is no one gonna talk about that bird scream😂😂

  • @DagToreLarsen
    @DagToreLarsen Před 2 lety +1

    I think everything you said there also aply to How to Love the INFP Male ...I would know because I am one. What you are refering to are probobly sensory and thinking dominant personality types. Most men have this personality types. (In my experiences it aply to females who are sensory or thinking dominant too) - I personaly (Strong Fi) thinks that the concept INFP woman/man dosnt exsist. I think there only exsist INFP person. (Gender equality is my strongest core value - Norwegian INFP)
    1. As INFP I totalty understand that concept and it is how I operate. I do listen to any people and I do not stribe to find solutions for them.
    2. INFP are the most open and understanding people on this planet. There are people who can say and pretend they understand you, but INFPs DO TRULY SO. Because we read others like an open book. Its one of our superpowers. Only quirk that annoys me is when someone is jugding other people or and making slander. We should accept all people no matter what. I even encuraging to be different.
    4. As INFP I value closeness, and deep connection to a person. If I dont feel that, sex is out of the question. I need to love that person deeply and I need to feel deeply loved back for it to be a thing. Sex is not very important to me anyway as I cheerish closeness and cuddles much more. To feel understood is very important to me. Feel safe and be able to trust and be trusted.
    5. Again it would be nice if you stop use term "INFP Woman" as I feel it dosnt exsist. INFP Persons is much better. thanks ))))

  • @florinacarmen7608
    @florinacarmen7608 Před 5 lety +13

    I swear to God that you are a sister from another mother ( I am an INFP with mostly the same characteristics as yours). I have never ever said anything like that to anyone until now. And yes, you also have a Novation controller there, same as mine. Sending you my best wishes!

  • @NeoNine10
    @NeoNine10 Před 2 lety +3

    This is the video that really makes a man see why a woman can't always accept male reciprocation. The thing that's so confusing for a man though is that she says she wished more men would stand up for her like when she's in trouble, but then she doesn't reciprocate and appreciate the man because she's afraid that how she was treated before by some jerk will happen to her again even by the nice guy.
    Men are essentially getting frustrated at women's poor dating choices, and how men view other men is men getting fed up of giving their time and attention to a woman that doesn't not only not reciprocate but keeps him hanging on because she enjoys the money, she enjoys the attention, but still won't give the nice guy problem solver a chance because she's afraid of losing the emotional drama high of not having what made her feel that way..The thrill of being on the cusp of something, but not quite having it.
    Men tend to think more logically. Women it's more about how something feels. For a highly sensitive INFP male myself, we can lean towards the feminine in some moments of how deeply something makes us feel, but lean towards the male when we need to uphold what's logically thought out in our minds that we've come to a conclusion to, and to uphold our values, pride, integrity and principles.
    Why your videos are important to me Lexi is because you seem to be one of the few INFP's that's made it (at least mostly since there's still more about yourself i'm yet to learn i'm sure, and you never know what goes on behind closed doors off camera as they say) when it comes to relationships. And i want to learn more about how that's possible and how that works for you. You must be with a good partner that balances your souls needs almost always when you need it to have that happen and for such a length of time.
    Wish i could say the same for myself but sending love your way Lexi and for any continued good fortune that comes your way, whether that be in any projects, video making or relationship wise. ❤
    Appreciate you and your videos very much, and hopefully we will speak more soon whether that will be on Instagram or here. I really feel i need to speak with you more about things and maybe explain myself more about what i commented on your latest video about dating someone with ADHD. There's a lot to everything you see. But just not always easy to get it all out and all i need to say, especially in one go. X

  • @splitzyvonsweets6074
    @splitzyvonsweets6074 Před 5 lety +17

    words of bloody wisdom! Personally I'm a bisexual INFP but this information still speaks volumes to me. Keep doing what you're doing, these videos are a joy to watch! ^u^

  • @princessleai
    @princessleai Před 4 lety +4

    Me as an INFP woman, going over this list making checking to see just how on point it is 👍🏽👍🏽🙂

  • @clipsfromfilms
    @clipsfromfilms Před 5 lety +12

    Howdy Lex, Great video as always. As an INFP man, I feel that this could also apply to guys as well as gals. Ironically my ideal partner (kind of similar to yourself) would be an ENFP woman. Perhaps the famous INFP male to ENFP female relationship would be Kurt Cobain to Cortney Love.
    It feels kind of weird engaging in this discussion because I don't consider myself anything other than masculine, however western societies definition of what is deemed masculine seems almost the anthesis of how myself and many other INFP guys operate by default (and there are occasions that INFP guys get wrongly labeled as "Faggots" by those that know no better ).

  • @tynakatroberts5117
    @tynakatroberts5117 Před 4 lety +9

    Anyone else feel like crying?

  • @abacaxi.maldoso
    @abacaxi.maldoso Před 5 lety +36

    11:23 what was that? You scared me! 😅

  • @sonicthehedshot9789
    @sonicthehedshot9789 Před 4 lety +5

    I’m intp and I look for a logical solution to a problem. Venting is a practice I don’t understand. It’s fascinating this need to express for the sake of expression. Thanks for vid this is a look into understanding my wife’s brain.

  • @jarredkrumm2712
    @jarredkrumm2712 Před 5 lety +9

    I'm reading all these comments in an Australian accent and it's good. -ENTP

  • @Neptunianist
    @Neptunianist Před 5 lety +6

    I'm an INFP-T man and this sounds like me too. Thanks.

  • @larissahanson3404
    @larissahanson3404 Před 3 lety +2

    Hey Steph from a fellow INFP thank you for sharing your inner most experiences that have shaped you. We appreciate you! 💜

  • @Jo8Nathan
    @Jo8Nathan Před 5 lety +3

    Good points. Excpet point 2. Now it is certainly true. But it is so important to understand that you are not perfect and really see the dark side of you. And in doing so differentiating between these bad traits and it´s potential for evil and the acted out part of who you are.
    The thinking I accept myself like I am and am happy with it is dangerous and has bad effects. You have to think further than that.
    You have to acknowledge the bad in you and see how you can improve to reach your potential ideal self.
    Now the ideal self of you is who you truly are and in working on improvement everyday to get there you act out your true self.
    And that you can love and be happy with. And here is the kicker. When you experience this you will feel a way deeper feeling of happiness and peace with yourself. Because you are not lying to yourself and create positive effects in your relationship and your life in general.

  • @phillconklin382
    @phillconklin382 Před 3 lety +1

    I am an INFP and ideally I would be with an INFP woman who shared all my values. I just feel like it is unlikely the more selective I am the less likely it will happen. I appreciate your perspective, it certainly can help out.

  • @sambiancefeels
    @sambiancefeels Před 4 lety +4

    im glad your partner had the patience with you that you deserve, mine didnt sadly enough.

    • @siphokxzi
      @siphokxzi Před 3 lety +1

      I'm so sorry about that :( you deserve way better dear! In due time I guess ♥️

  • @MyloveIneedyou
    @MyloveIneedyou Před rokem

    YES!!! Listen, be there, don't fix, don't give advice, don't try to tell people how to change to"be better" when there are challenges. We just want to talk and be heard and be held while venting.

  • @dhairyavyas3698
    @dhairyavyas3698 Před 2 měsíci

    I have been trying to understand an INFP since months. But her walls are so high. Every time we connect and have an honest conversation she raises them further up next time. I don’t know what to do! 😔

  • @dilemmablue2494
    @dilemmablue2494 Před 4 lety +1

    Hahahaha why did you scream 😭😭 fucken got me dying. I love that you just moved on

  • @Life_moreabundantly
    @Life_moreabundantly Před 5 lety +8

    Thank You Lex #INFPGANG 🏁⛅🙌🏾⛅🏆

  • @waayneinteressierts9704
    @waayneinteressierts9704 Před 4 lety +4

    I really hate being an infp. I am 21 now and I'm depressed for almost 6 years now. I think about suicide a lot. I get so nervous around people and often fail to open my mouth and start talking. I had girlfriends but I felt misunderstood or was way too dependent. It's not like my life has gotten any better in the past 3 years. It's always more of the same shit. Doesn't anyone here have advice how to live a happier life as an infp?

    • @rachelleedwards4522
      @rachelleedwards4522 Před 4 lety +1

      WaayneInteressierts I’ve struggled with this, and the only thing that worked for me was not running from the depression, or your shadow self, but facing it and embracing your inner child. Hug yourself, and say “I love you. You are enough.” This is most important: suicidal thoughts rob you of your intuition and perspective. Seek a professional counselor or doctor, and be honest, tell them you are having these thoughts. They are required by law (in most Western countries) to help you. It is hard for INFPs to confess our dark thoughts because we are idealistic. Listen, best piece of advice I received: if you come to the edge, just sit down. The crisis will pass...usually takes about 15 mins. Just sit down, and don’t move. Let the thoughts dissipate.

    • @honesty247
      @honesty247 Před 4 lety +1

      WaayneInteressierts I had the same issue until I brought the Lord into my life and before I realized I was an INFP. Now I am at peace and no more depression. Check out the Scariest Movie Channel. He just did a video on INFPs.

    • @itsa-mea-marion7653
      @itsa-mea-marion7653 Před 4 lety +1

      Personally I'm most at peace when I let my creativity flow, and when I actually do find a person I can talk about my passions with. I can go on about them even if the other party doesn't really cooperate, especially in text form. It's great to let your emotions run free.

  • @J.Cubbin
    @J.Cubbin Před 5 lety +11

    Welcome back INFP Lex x

    • @litlife3113
      @litlife3113 Před 4 lety

      Wow! Your pic brought to mind an angry Jesus Christ!!! 😆 Btw, your wife is an incredible person and a great authentic voice of the infp community. Especially the women. Stay blessed

  • @MaxItUpwithMarta
    @MaxItUpwithMarta Před 5 lety +2

    hmmmm..... all this INFP is new to me. I will have to look into it more. I don't like it when I share a problem and my problem doesn't try to fix it. I only share my problems when I need help with them. I actually lose respect for a man who doesn't try to help when I have shared a problem.

    • @JeffCaplan313
      @JeffCaplan313 Před 3 lety

      You are one in a million. It's the common refrain of females of the modern generation to tell men, "I don't want you to do anything to/for me, just sit there and let me emote at you!!!"
      When a woman wants a man to do something for her these days, she has Tinder and the U.S. Government.

  • @loralee4786
    @loralee4786 Před 2 lety

    Lex, this is totally brilliant! ..... So, ok.. It's 2022 now, 2 years after the last comment here, but I wanted to tell you that I'm taking a course with Dr. John Gray (men are from mars women are from venus) and there is science now that back what you are saying here in terms of hormones. It's as if you have tapped into the collective female and then so articulately laid it out for us as to how we innately are (due to estrogen). I'm sure that INFP women (men) can more intensely feel and relate to this and we are all just catching up to you. Lex, You are so beautiful in and out! Keep up the beautiful work you are doing! Lots of Love!

  • @AhmedM.Bakhit170
    @AhmedM.Bakhit170 Před 5 lety +10

    Wow,, I like your accent 😍

  • @clipsfromfilms
    @clipsfromfilms Před 5 lety +2

    Hope you don't mind me commenting to say that more guitars are needed in the guitar stand background (James will understand what I am saying. of course, I am very very biased being a guitarist myself!!!!!!! REally inspiring to see other creative bohemians living life by their values.

    • @Lexmorningstarnz
      @Lexmorningstarnz  Před 5 lety

      😂 I absolutely agree! We need much more. Thanks for the comment fellow creative 😎

  • @shayrandle9943
    @shayrandle9943 Před 5 lety

    Welcome Back Lex! Very insightful video ! That random bug freaked me out haha.

  • @Achilleas7
    @Achilleas7 Před 5 lety +2

    Nice to see you again dear Lex!
    we sure missed your smile dear!
    I hope the latest video in my uploads makes you want to go back for more as there's been one per month.
    Best approach is from playlists.
    but start with the 10min latest upload.
    i mention it because it is mostly towards parents and new families.
    I bet you are excluded from the list but i hope you enjoy my... style and approach :p

  • @benbookless7809
    @benbookless7809 Před 5 lety +4

    8:18 Interesting spelling of the word "cherish" 😄

  • @gwendolyno.3330
    @gwendolyno.3330 Před 5 lety

    Totally thought the scream was going to be a huge Australian Spider! 😂😂

  • @carletouk
    @carletouk Před 5 lety +2

    Your eyes are hypnotic

  • @theblacksworde
    @theblacksworde Před 5 lety

    Great video my Fellow INFP (especially as Im dating a an INFP)

  • @sammartina8574
    @sammartina8574 Před 4 lety +1

    Great video Lex!

  • @miriamcooper1320
    @miriamcooper1320 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow if only my ex had seen this back in 2015... maybe we would not have broken up.

  • @TheBlackFenceCat
    @TheBlackFenceCat Před 5 lety

    Infp here. Cool video. Thanks for sharing. Have a treasured day. Peace.

  • @shortsnaps7452
    @shortsnaps7452 Před 4 lety +4

    Good video, except I'd love to see a more inclusive dialogue. For example, same sex relationships and not just based on a man and a women. Good stuff 🙂

  • @karenwoolley4279
    @karenwoolley4279 Před 3 lety

    Thank you, we've been intuit it fairly well so far (INFJ transwoman AMAB and INFP Non-Binary AFAB), but it's good to highlight the important bits so they don't get forgotten. Be it cherishing them and then things will smooth out, or the other stuff.

  • @erobusblack3130
    @erobusblack3130 Před 4 lety +1

    I c ur guys guitars, nice

  • @daria668
    @daria668 Před 5 lety

    love listening to you!

  • @MaritsaDarman
    @MaritsaDarman Před rokem

    What mbti is James?

  • @adelemckenzie6490
    @adelemckenzie6490 Před 5 lety +1

    Does your video apply to LGBT relationships?

    • @Lexmorningstarnz
      @Lexmorningstarnz  Před 5 lety +2

      I'm sure it could. I don't want to offend anyone if I speak out of context. I can only speak from my personal experience, but I would definitely say LBGT would experience the same.

  • @nanas707
    @nanas707 Před 3 lety +1

    You had caused me an anxiaty attaque when you cried and screamed in the middle of vidéo . It Is not professionnel .

  • @publicpitchblendeorg
    @publicpitchblendeorg Před 3 lety

    Loved you named your self after satan!

  • @_VISION.
    @_VISION. Před 5 lety

    Or you mean how to love the SFP woman?

  • @donaldm2582
    @donaldm2582 Před 5 lety +1

    What about the poor bloke going out with you, his feelings, wants, needs, etc? Doesn’t matter right? Hahahaha. Ahhhh female narcissism boys, all personalities.

    • @Lexmorningstarnz
      @Lexmorningstarnz  Před 5 lety +21

      Of course that matters, but I am not qualified to speak on behalf of a man because I can't truly understand the male experience, I can only empathise and listen. I know myself so I can express how I think and feel, and how I like to receive love.
      You are welcome to make a video about your experience as a male, and what you need in a relationship.

    • @Kaori57
      @Kaori57 Před 5 lety +9

      I mean... did you read the title of the video? Lmao. She also literally explained that we reciprocate these things.

    • @donaldm2582
      @donaldm2582 Před 5 lety

      Namame sure princess

    • @sasasetti8660
      @sasasetti8660 Před 4 lety +4

      You should create your own video Donald discussing your perspective.

    • @donaldm2582
      @donaldm2582 Před 4 lety

      Hatori Sachiyo i make 7 figures a year sweetie, I don’t have the time to do a video and frankly don’t care enough 😂😂🤷‍♂️