Alysia Harris and Miles Hodges "Doing It Wrong"

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  • čas přidán 28. 03. 2012
  • Alysia Harris and Miles Hodges featuring Nick Hakim performing "Doing It Wrong" live at The Strivers Row showcase, Dean's List 3.
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  • @yourfavoritesis
    @yourfavoritesis Před 5 lety +196

    Who’s listening to this years later-- so fresh

  • @ahmaadrobinson662
    @ahmaadrobinson662 Před rokem +20

    These guys are the reason I found the courage to let my emotions spill. almost a decade later and I still get chills from these poems

  • @heykid95
    @heykid95 Před 10 lety +352

    That shit got me missin an ex I don't have

  • @ladyinluv110
    @ladyinluv110 Před 6 lety +125

    6 years later and I still have it memorized. Still cry even though I'm not in this situation. That is true poetry.

  • @TaylorReneeDB
    @TaylorReneeDB Před 8 lety +141

    I still can't listen to this song without thinking about this performance. Every time I hear the song, I'd rather be listening to Alysia and Miles

  • @sulibreaks
    @sulibreaks Před 12 lety +21

    This was my favourite one

  • @StyledByAsh
    @StyledByAsh Před 6 lety +35

    “Why ruin the ambiance with honesty?” “His voice doesn’t sound like yours no matter how many lights I turn off” yessss

  • @imbelly2350
    @imbelly2350 Před 4 lety +36

    This still runs chills down my back. Feels just as potent at 16 years old to now 24.

  • @nonkululekolekota1804
    @nonkululekolekota1804 Před rokem +12

    I first heard this poem when I was a student at the University of Pretoria in 2010, with my second postgraduate qualification. The message really touched me, they spoke to me and I swore to myself that I would not allow myself to be taken advantage of. I am now 37 listening to the poem again. I still love the lesson.

  • @jeanien94
    @jeanien94 Před 11 lety +14

    "Hands feel like hands in the middle of the dark, but his voice don't sound like yours no matter how many lights I turn off."
    I will never get enough of this poem.

  • @chibichichio
    @chibichichio Před 10 lety +30

    We really ARE the generation of 'not being in love' and 'not being together'...but we sure make it feel like we're together.

  • @ilaallstar
    @ilaallstar Před 10 lety +47

    "i'm reminded that when its done they can call on your soul when ever they want to; at will. When ever their lonely needs its fix" I love that!! it just sets the whole poem to a slayed rest! its sooo relatable and true

  • @ladyinluv110
    @ladyinluv110 Před 4 lety +16

    8 years. 8 YEARS and I’m listening to this at 2 in the morning trying to get emotional and failing thoroughly.

  • @ItsSamanthya
    @ItsSamanthya Před 10 lety +63

    God, Miles Hodges is freaking gorgeous. Wow

  • @didintlempedi9114
    @didintlempedi9114 Před 3 lety +25

    Alysia: I know that you’ve heard this before, I know that your patience has run thin and these love poems are getting boring. After the 5th one night stand, she said she felt like a slave to your lips. I guess that’s when you started fearing, using your tongue as a whip. When the lust is so thick and the morals so weak, her blood still violet on the inside but her lipstick’s gram pink. When you scrape your paintbrush across her canvas, nothing but water color courage and red wine to pour. Intentions and temptations blurred like, like a beautiful sunset but you swore on the blood of every black bird. Not to answer her calls, not to empty her depths, not to fish her pearl but just look at her black curls. So much midnight about her you feel like she’s cursed. And you can’t tell what’s worst, admitting you’re a coward or telling her you just don’t want her.
    Miles: After the 5th one night stand with the 4th different woman for the 3rd time this month, he wrote a poem about how 2 is the loneliest number he’s ever known. And how the most at home he feels is in highway drives that wind him home, in the tar of I-95 north, across Bronx, south of route 4, west 87 towards Jersey. The damps of mattress plural she’s left behind, the contoured faces of girls wondering “why?” haunt through the air. And she likes it there. And he likes it there, in that haze.
    Alysia: She is literally saying his name
    Miles: In other men’s beds. She actually told them that but the last text he read said “Miles you are fucking disgusting, to think you came in me one week ago”. He puts the phone down back into the centre counsel of the car. Face steady like warriors after a clean death without a flinch or a murmur of lips as Take Care fades back through the speakers. You know, you know it’s messed up when you can start relating to that shit. When the best excuse you have for leaving before the sun rises is “she’ll never understand me anyways.”
    Alysia: And yeah, the truth hurts, but don’t tell her you love her if you’re not willing to put in work. After the 5th date, with the 4th guy who looks like you I’m beginning to wonder if I’m not just a little nostalgic and I’d apologize but he doesn’t love me anyways,
    he’s just in love with an idea, so I promise instead not to fart or cough. I’ma just let Einstein keep dreaming all hypothesis & semen.
    Why ruin the ambiance with honesty, I just happened to have breast and ass and added a bonus for free. So whatever feelings he claims he has it won’t last no matter how bad the hangover, it’ll past.
    Miles: ‘Cause I can stomach damn near everything, even gas and a lit match with your initials etched on the back
    Alysia: I don’t have to think when I’m with him if that’s any constellation, surface conversation in the blind observation that hands feel like hands in the middle of the dark. But his voice don’t sound like yours no matter how many lights I turn off.
    Miles: And I, and I, I can’t get high enough anymore to disregard the beautiful, young lady, my one and only, that reminded me, keeps reminding me that when you give yourself to someone, when your walls collapse and your masks are thrown to the floor. You’re so close to someone, that everything seems to have a taste, the texts of her insides, poems in self over swooning to cum at the same exact time.
    Alysia: I’m reminded that when it’s done, they can call on your soul whenever they want to and will, whenever their lonely needs its fix.

  • @KhadijahInspires
    @KhadijahInspires Před 10 lety +112

    his voice don't sound like yours no matter how many lights I turn of..

  • @amandaseneff1866
    @amandaseneff1866 Před rokem +4

    “But you swore on the blood of every black bird,
    Not to answer her calls.
    Not to empty her depths.
    Not to fish her pearl.
    But just look at her black curls, so much midnight about her you feel like she’s cursed.” 💔

  • @theblerdcademic
    @theblerdcademic Před 10 lety +24

    The first time I saw this I was convinced Miles was singing. hahaha
    Love this poem

  • @iSayThisApp
    @iSayThisApp Před 2 lety +4

    Who's listening in 2021? I haven't stopped since it came out.

  • @mizzbankz88
    @mizzbankz88 Před 10 lety +12

    moral of the story "soul ties are dangerous"...that was really deep

  • @stacykirui9713
    @stacykirui9713 Před 8 lety +31

    Alyssia takes my breath away every time !

  • @OhSoDisrespectful
    @OhSoDisrespectful Před 11 lety +8

    Whenever I'm having writers block I always listen to this to free my mind. This piece is just so amazing.

  • @sivenathimkaza5070
    @sivenathimkaza5070 Před 7 lety +46

    I cry every time. it's been years. lol... it's tiring. 😂😂

    • @Agape-Kay
      @Agape-Kay Před 7 lety

      Sivenathi Mkaza very 😂

    • @tiannaliner5207
      @tiannaliner5207 Před 6 lety

      Listen 😩😭😭😭

    • @rahii
      @rahii Před 5 lety

      Same.. till this day. This gets to me 6 years later smh

  • @yakiisuperstar
    @yakiisuperstar Před 12 lety +6

    I feel truly sorry for everyone who haven't seen these videos of these amazing people. these should have million, trillions of views.

  • @KwanesiaEllis
    @KwanesiaEllis Před 3 lety +2

    I still come back to this.... even in 2021.

  • @ladyinluv110
    @ladyinluv110 Před 10 lety +33

    No matter how many times I watch this, and even after memorizing it- I can't seem to get enough of it. Tears are brought to my eyes every time without fail.

  • @noiwantjamilah
    @noiwantjamilah Před 5 lety +14

    Still watching this is 2019 and still in love with this 😩🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @angiem7122
    @angiem7122 Před 8 lety +19

    DAMN! ::snaps profusely::

  • @ladyinluv110
    @ladyinluv110 Před 11 lety +6

    After the 5 one night stand, with the fourth different woman, for the 3rd time this month, he wrote a poem about how two is the loneliest number he's ever known. Miles.

  • @nena7253
    @nena7253 Před 3 lety +7

    8 years later & yet still in love with this. The feels are always there.

  • @amor9982
    @amor9982 Před 3 lety +2

    Its 2021and i cant forget about this one....

  • @AzraDiii69
    @AzraDiii69 Před 4 měsíci +4

    still listening 🖤

  • @2010babi3s
    @2010babi3s Před 10 lety +87

    The moment you realize, this poem is actually about the two....she is in love with him, and he is incapable of love.

  • @Lord_OTD
    @Lord_OTD Před 12 dny

    I play this probably once, maybe twice a year if I’m lucky. This piece is second to none in my humble opinion.

  • @alexiscraig9504
    @alexiscraig9504 Před 4 lety +2

    I will always remember this

  • @MariahFambro
    @MariahFambro Před 8 lety +21

    This is my favorite. There's so much I get from this every time I re listen to it. Different feelings, different context, different reactions.

  • @amberortiz5393
    @amberortiz5393 Před 9 lety +12

    I think I listen to this at least 50 times a day.
    It is really hitting home right now...

  • @IamJonEspinoza
    @IamJonEspinoza Před 10 lety +14

    Me and girlfriend went through something similar. We recently broke up for good. I heard this poem months ago, and it was good. Now, it brings tears through my eyes.

  • @GracefullyKaren
    @GracefullyKaren Před 8 lety +12

    I love this poem. Man I've watched it over 6 times. Peaceful. Music 👌🏿

  • @uggy823
    @uggy823 Před 9 lety +7

    I can't stop replaying this

  • @legendk009
    @legendk009 Před 10 lety +13

    Sigh I love themmm! Miles you melt my heart honey.

  • @MissBrice-yv8pj
    @MissBrice-yv8pj Před 2 lety +1

    It never gets old to me....

  • @ascension_maintained8451
    @ascension_maintained8451 Před 2 lety +1

    Intention and temptation blur like , like a beautiful sunset

  • @thekayla2587
    @thekayla2587 Před 5 lety +2

    After 5 years still my favorite poem 😫😫😫

  • @toocute2refuse
    @toocute2refuse Před 8 lety +4

    These are my two favourite people.... This makes me ache every single time.

  • @504Diva
    @504Diva Před 11 lety +5

    "I'm reminded that when its done, they can call on your soul whenever they want to. At Will. Whenever their Lonely needs its fix" *******Finger snaps*******

  • @natashathomas5350
    @natashathomas5350 Před 2 lety +1

    This is still so incredibly moving

  • @01choicelover
    @01choicelover Před 12 lety +3

    "...I'm reminded that when it's done, they could on your souls whenever they want to, and they will, whenever their lonely needs it's fix."

  • @InADaysWorld
    @InADaysWorld Před 12 lety +1

    "Don't tell her you love her if your not willing to put in the work". Seriously this poem moves mountains, of perspective.

  • @camillehendricks9819
    @camillehendricks9819 Před rokem +2

    Yo this is still fire 😭😭

  • @Oneloveisontheway
    @Oneloveisontheway Před 10 lety +6

    I teach young people Spokenword and this poem will now feature in a lot of my class sessions. I love the story narrative of the peace and the fact that Miles whom
    I saw at BMV in 2009 &10 when we brought a group over from the UK,he uses himself as the boy within the poem. It makes the poem poignant and strong.
    I love the impact at the end, the final reveal, the epiphany of the peace.
    Well done to both of you also the music score is brilliant too. There too many favourite lines within the poetry that sticks out at me I too like the end lines the most.
    "i'm reminded that when its done they can call on your soul when ever they want to; at will. When ever their lonely needs its fix" I love this also @ilaallstar

  • @kislande1
    @kislande1 Před 8 lety +3

    This poem is honestly everything that pops up in my head but could never find the right words with cursing up a storm. 😞 🙌🏾

  • @DJThATsbRIsk
    @DJThATsbRIsk Před 9 měsíci

    Still feels like I’m listening to this for the first time. It’s my 10000000000000th time

  • @candiceg3092
    @candiceg3092 Před 4 lety +2

    Love this forever x

  • @khalilthepoet9616
    @khalilthepoet9616 Před 8 lety +4

    Liquor and thoughts I shouldn't be thinking brings me here every time

  • @ladyinluv110
    @ladyinluv110 Před rokem

    That makes 10yrs. Timeless. 😢

  • @darney14
    @darney14 Před 9 lety +6

    The concept of this poem and just every word is amazing... It's so gritty I just love it! #Amazing

  • @nadiacharles8091
    @nadiacharles8091 Před 7 lety +2

    5 years later and this is still amazing.

  • @desjawilson8415
    @desjawilson8415 Před 9 lety +4

    This poem has meaning 😊 I love listening to it.

  • @janetlekoba6890
    @janetlekoba6890 Před 6 lety +1

    I've listened to this far too many times, but it's still not enough.

  • @thabisoaugustinemashala740

    God i''m always doing it wrong. this is a beautiful peace to the core.

  • @janniefoo
    @janniefoo Před 12 lety +2

    "But dont tell her you love her if you're not willing to put in work"

  • @Mon23Heat
    @Mon23Heat Před 4 lety +1

    Still love this! Miss all of this real poetry.

  • @lovedichoreo1529
    @lovedichoreo1529 Před 9 lety +4

    They are going in!!!!!!!!!

  • @TheCr8iveBrand
    @TheCr8iveBrand Před 9 lety +4

    I love this one so much. Repeat since they uploaded it.

  • @nonnymasango41
    @nonnymasango41 Před 11 měsíci

    These two made my teen years ❤

  • @Pretty_Gem318
    @Pretty_Gem318 Před 3 lety +2

    Me in 2021 🙌🏾😩

  • @idontwantnoravioliok
    @idontwantnoravioliok Před 2 lety +1

    This is still my all time favorite poem

  • @ebonylott531
    @ebonylott531 Před rokem

    2022, 6:00am. I needed a refresher. A quick course on how we as humans, are just humans at the end of the day. Love this poem 🤎

  • @deblovee
    @deblovee Před 12 lety

    Love this !

  • @jahnayDmusic
    @jahnayDmusic Před 11 lety

    love it!!

  • @fundilendisile2267
    @fundilendisile2267 Před 9 lety +2

    you draking me right now!

  • @tanayax333
    @tanayax333 Před 11 lety

    this is so amazing

  • @lincris10
    @lincris10 Před 11 lety

    That was amazing!

  • @YoungIdentityMCR
    @YoungIdentityMCR Před 10 lety

    Love this

  • @PWUHearD
    @PWUHearD Před 12 lety

    Luv it!

  • @Tre2011Y
    @Tre2011Y Před 10 lety +3

    Snap! Snap! love it

  • @koolo212
    @koolo212 Před 10 lety

    I love this!!!!

  • @thatsingagirl
    @thatsingagirl Před 11 lety

    That was truly amazing

  • @riceball5503
    @riceball5503 Před 4 lety

    I love this ❤️

  • @BreezyPitstop
    @BreezyPitstop Před 11 lety

    this is amazing.

  • @MiszPhantomG
    @MiszPhantomG Před 9 lety

    Omg i just love this

  • @lovemachine225
    @lovemachine225 Před 11 lety

    THIS is so beautiful i love this

  • @BeaTheJournalist
    @BeaTheJournalist Před 12 lety

    i just really love this

  • @queenkahlua579
    @queenkahlua579 Před 6 měsíci

    Their poetry is so beautiful; it’s opens you up to your own soul’s vulnerability. Thank you for creating something beautiful to give to the world. ❤️🙏🏿

  • @LaTerickaH
    @LaTerickaH Před 10 lety

    Amazinggg

  • @brittneyedmondson2294
    @brittneyedmondson2294 Před 11 lety

    Nothing like Alysia n Miles to deal with these cold nights and hard dreams. Life savers! Please continue to inspire

  • @marqy7
    @marqy7 Před 11 lety

    This is fantastic

  • @abigailm6166
    @abigailm6166 Před 11 lety +1

    i love this even more everytime i hear it.

  • @cijaeb
    @cijaeb Před 8 lety +10

    I want this instrumental so bad!

  • @davidtombale8441
    @davidtombale8441 Před 8 lety +4

    Sometimes it's terrible the things that happen under the cover of darkness, "whenever their lonely needs a fix."

  • @Ravengal101
    @Ravengal101 Před 11 lety

    This is too awesome.

  • @daeholley4602
    @daeholley4602 Před 11 lety

    Amazing!

  • @samanthaduarte8142
    @samanthaduarte8142 Před 7 lety +2

    One of the most beautiful and captivating pieces I've ever heard. Watched it so many times

  • @kaia6584
    @kaia6584 Před 10 lety +1

    This is beautiful

  • @kgaogelomogano1945
    @kgaogelomogano1945 Před 4 lety

    I still love this so much

  • @jamilapinto5825
    @jamilapinto5825 Před 10 lety

    Loveeee

  • @jjewell2125
    @jjewell2125 Před 11 lety

    I've listened to it hundreds of times and it never gets old. "You can't tell what's worse admitting you're a coward or telling her you just don't want her."

  • @sydriam999
    @sydriam999 Před 11 lety

    I've watched this so much. It's so beautiful.

  • @thapelomosikare6665
    @thapelomosikare6665 Před 7 lety

    goosebumps!!!