KAWIRA JOY - I REGRET KUOLEWA NIKIWA BIKIRA
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Maintaining purity before and in marriage is a godly principle that no matter what comes of the marriage, yiu shouldn't regret honouring God. And that's not the cause of the breakup actually.
I believe if you choose to be a virgin as a lady,do it for yourself not for a man's loyalty....do it because of your divinity with Christ not for a man to acknowledge you
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Ubikira ni agano ya msichana na Mungu wake,kama ulijilinda utukufu kwa Mungu.wewe ni wa maana sana kwake.
One of the biggest red flags you are in a relationship with a narcissist is that you have never had this many 'misunderstandings' with anyone else in your life!
Don't regret getting married a virgin, you did a good job... keeping your body as the temple of the lord as a girl to woman was the best thing, kindly mummy remember the enemy fights God's people especially those who have identified themselves with Christ, those are storms of life, Jesus is still good and He still have good plans for you and your children, don't get tired he will make a way.
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Nipitieni guys
Don't ever regret about virginity Kawira,you respected God with your body and that's enough. it's not your fault you were treated bad
Very true
Do not regret at all
She had no discernment please don't lie to her. Satan wanted to destroy her
Verbally abuse is the worst thing that can kill you before someone kills you physically,Good Kawira you walked out.
Infact I hope people may understand this!
Emotional and verbally abuse wueeh wacha Tu
This interviews scares me about marriage ..waah but still there are still remnants of good people
Kawira anaprotect huyo jamaa. Mashoga saa hii wanakubalika Kenya. Ndio ilikuwa ya kuficha white.
Really?
Kawira in unpacking her pain in small bits & pieces, let’s give her time ataitoa Ukweli wote. Time is a healer
Kweli
Let me give you a hint... dude hadi alikuwa amemuwekea CCTV... to monitor her. psycho!
Kawira I would applaud you for being courageous, many are suffering out there in the name of what will people say, and especially the church, nevertheless, never ever regret being holy and obeying God. The fact that you kept yourself holy, please don't regret it, there's a heavenly reward. May God continue to heal your heart.
Exactly.Every knee will bow Before the LORD.Dont ever regret for doing right,this is a life God want us to live.Leave those people do bad,they will answer God themselves as well.But you can't regret bcoz of them!
like me
I was married for 19 years now am single with my kids and am happy
19yrs Dear?
Yes 19 years but now I have peace with my single life
Waaa inavaa tutafutane pia Mimi nihivio hivio 19
@@floflo2352 just in box me
@@priscahelijah6872 yes 19 years
Psychological torture is the worst. Kawira God will see you through
One of the red flag of a person with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder is their unsuccessful past relationships. If your partner talk bad about their ex, called them crazy, playing victim to get sympathy, and sounds like everything is their ex's fault that's why their relationship didn't work out, then that's a sure sign.
If you are in a relationship with a Narcissist, you will lost people in your life. It will affect your friends, family and love ones. Remember that narcissist, don't love you for who you are. They love you for what you can do for them, for what you can give them. They love your status, your popularity, your lifestyle, your money.
Narcissists will only keep you and love you as long as you are beneficial to them. Once their need of you is done and you are no use to them, they will find ways to get rid of you just like what they did to their exes
True,,
I agree.
This lady needs to heal before appearing for interviews coz bado ako na machungu sana in her words. Second, as she has said their marriage failure was the fault of both of them, sometimes we should stop blaming the church yet we have as well seen good marriages from the church. Sometimes we make our own mistakes and lay the consequences of our actions on the church. The church is a group of humans not Gods. Humans whose thoughts are limited. Firsts it's like aliolewa juu ya 'ulimi' ya huyu mwanaume, she didn't consider other factors. Pastors are not God, they are humans , thats why ladies should stop looking for good husbands in pastors. Not everyone in the church makes a good husband. See a husband for a husband not a pastor for a husband.
Very good, this is the point. Both of them contributed to the failure of their marriage. "Akinitusi namtusi"
Kawira went through what I went through God 😢 tutapona tu
Mtu hajakua na such a jerk haezi elewa. Its so hard to explain exactly what happenned but you know where and how it hit you. Nakuelewa Kawira.
I personally know the guy was engaged to him before kawira and im telling she is even being nice. That man is a monster narcisst mkubwa sana woi wacha tu
@@leilamercy2235 Thank God you escaped. The kind of emotional injury they leave in your heart is so deep. One may never recover fully. Kawira still looks shocked if you are keen. I wish i knew her personally we would compare notes ajue she is not and was never at fault. She was just a victim of a demon. You don't have to have done anything wrong to be mishandled by a narcissist. In-fact they pick the best and destroy. I don't think there is a narcissist victims psychological counselor in Africa. You can only heal by sharing with people that have been there and recovered.
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That was me 2019 being married to my self it's better single than being married to my self
Don't worry tuko wengi,single forever
Single tano tena sina araka
Salvation is still important.
Messes don't validate evil, it doesn't make sin turn to righteousness.
Kawira I feel u.the narcissist will make u doubt ur own reality.u cannot pin point ur issues.
Kawira I know you before since the time of Papa shirandura.Marriage is good but if it comes to fight or quarrelsome and luck of respect??? Early is the best to move!!! Some of men are 😈 and they just hide in church but the actions are bitter.. May God bless the single parents forever.
Kawera I feel u.i got married to a man serving in church who was toxic but extremely trusted by the servants of God,bishop and the rest.he was 2 faced.up to today I don't know how I survived it all and left while still sane.bottom line no one believes me cz he is the holy one.
Aki pole dear
Hugs dear
Sorry
This men no one can accept they can do anything of that sort
Narcissist are super manipulative and they go on a smearing campaign making people believe that they are good and you are the bad one
Yaani ndoa ziliisha kenya 🙄🤔I thought I was worse to have left with in less 90days yawa am happy n willing wish to get another cos nothing swt like marriage with real loving person 😊
Mine ended after 18 years 😮kawira u did well.ur story is exactly mine but the difference is I have over stayed.
Unless you have there, you'll never understand that some of these things can't be put in words. And apparently most narcissists have a sweet tongue.
Kawira pia wewe husemi ukienda,utaundwa.He is human
Pole joy I didn't knew this😢,I usually watch Yu vioja mahakamani
In marriage if you wait for someone to change it will cost you later.
Sure it happened to me like that thinking someone will change.
True pastors really act holy but their spouses go through hell they know the devil
i still want one.
@@MyJOSE2013 There is genuine ones, may God connect you to one.
But not all of them are bad, am married to a good type.
Dealing with narcissistic relationships can be quite an emotional load. Time heals
Kawera notice that he had sons. He was a divorce
She seems to be filled with vengeance....love of a father to his kids is unconditional and most ladies come to realize this when its too late
Kawira still I watch you on vionja mahakamani. So you just work hard for the future of your children.For me am with God trusting in him with hope and faith since I separated from the marriage, I thank God coz I hv peace of mind.
Kwa kifupi saidi karambu umejitoa kwa ujinga na ukumbavu mapema sana, kuna wengi sana wamefumilia hizo vitu kwasababu ya uoga ta aina mingi, mungu akusaindie sana kwasababu musichana kama wewe wa kuolewa akiqa sealed pia huwa changa moto zake katika ndoa
Both should ask God to change them. Humble and admit their weaknesses to God. God is able to restore their marriage.
I lived 2 yrs na nersccist wueh!! Nikajiambia wacha nijipende ..red flag 🚩 5 niligiff up ...imagine going to a live band in a club ..I.node my head to my rhumba music niliwekwa Kofi ati najipendekeza kwa Hao wakongo wanione 😆wacha nicheke sahi juu hakuna Ile haichekwi, I moved out n nikapumua
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😂😂😂Waingo cheeei
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We went through all that no happiness but he provides everything.It was toxic marriage.
Thee njeri very true
I feel like am in the same situation
This has been hurt deeply,she needs psychological counseling seriously.its deep.
Chaste life is a command from God. How can you regret obeying God?
Concealing so much.. Speak it out girl that you may help others!
Mtu akiamua kuja out na afunguke aseme kilichotokea wazi ili watu waweze kurelate na wasaidike...sasa kusema ni mambo siwezi sema iyo ni nini surely...half truths doesn't make sense
Let’s give her time; I think she is slowly unpacking it
She is a liar, that's why she fears to say the truth.....
I know say the truth tusaidike sis Wote
She is dodgy and fake 🤥
On other side bona tunaskia unaleta mum yako kwako mkae naye
Huyo ni jini makata kazi yake ni kuaribu ndoa za watu, continue praying my dear sister, ndoa ita itakuwa poa, sheitani, uja kwa, kuaribu, kuuwa
My time is coming soon and very soon.... Regrets😥...I support ongea uskike....
The things I hear every day scare me.. I love marriage but wuueee
I have realized that the person you loved most,,, the person you love most with all your heart will hurt you alot.
Not really
Kunywa Gines2
Kawira worry not don't regret mungu you na wewe.
Some people face alot in life but they stand firm ...strong woman indeed may God bless you
She is an adulterer that's why she is not telling the truth....
1. There is a difference bewteen a saved person and a discipled person. One is only saved and the other is discipled.
2. Virginity is never purity so more than being a virgin is paramount.
3. Ministry is done under mentorship. It can be an idol and a stumbling block to your personal devotion with Christ.
Kawira was not enlightened before and sadly she is blaming 'other' things and people.
I just hope she is still a believer despite stepping back from ministry.
She needs to be wise in choosing her words. She may not still get it being a child of God. Lord have mercy.
She was in a toxic marriage with a narcisist - chances are he has threatened her , there is abit of fear in her voice - May she find peace
Yes
Being a single married i can imagine that situation
Imagine hii story ya kawira nikama yangu tu😢😢I feel for you girl.hata mmi ilibidi nijitoe nipate peace of mind 😢
Tuko wengi and they threatened you if you expose them
I wish you healing kawira..you are still hurting inside,may God give you strength to love again and to bring up those kids .. Please don't give up on your faith
Joy you are a Pretty woman. Beautiful soul.There's still someone out there for you gorgeous.
To have stayed for those years with a absent husband,,she rely, suffered,,morever marriage is a nice thing thou no one is perfect,,u realize the importance of it when kids grow to adulthood n u become old or one of u dies becoming a widow or widower,,those small thing u ignore can be very vital to sustain any union. It's ok if it happy gal.
Kawira pia Mimi nkona twins wako four years nilitoka kwangu wakiwa two years story yako na yangu n the same mambo ya ndoa n ngumu sana ,Tukona twins boy and girl wako four years tulitoka Kwa ndoa wakiwa two years labda niitwe interview pia Mimi niseme yangu
Lakini I thank God Kawira ni Dem anajua kujitafutia.
Wow! wow! wow! "Arûme tî banyakwe" my mum once told me😏
I salute kawira, sometimes we need to stand up for our rights.
Uweeeee.....it ain't easy kwanza hii kujificha in the name of public figure ndo inakill watu psychologically n n even leading to suicidal depression
Big up 👏👏to supportive parents❤. It means a lot.
Don't regret getting married virgin,it's one way of respecting yourself. Okey i got married when i was virgin and my husband keep on telling me, "by marrying you when you are virgin won't be a reason of not leaving you" so some times you can cleave to a marriage which can never work.
Do you regret being saved as in being pure as the lord commands.
Kawira may the Almighty God heal you and always protect you and your children
I salute you kawira
It's true , ata mimi nilikuwa na mtu kama huyo ulimi tamu akikosa makosa inaningeukia mimi
Some people here are commenting badly you need to know kama mtu ana acha ndoa yake si mjinga kuna sababu inamfanya atoke kwa ndoa,siku ile utapatana na mambo ndiyo utaelewa.
Sure
Similar story to me😭
But nivile ni opposite direction
Exactly what I felt with my Ex and he was an Orphan too.
The mistake that she made was to not date and experience being in relationships before getting married (you can date/be in a relationship without having sex)
I hate marriages, people goes through a lot in silence.
I undersyand her very well coz i too went through a lot but i kept quiet thinking things would change.
Joy kawira, the problem with ladies is that that look for things which appear good, good sweet words, good show off, excellent language, perfect satisfying sex, material gifts like money, cars etc. Men do not learn these things from starehe boys nor Mangu high school. It's all through experience and ability. They've tried it on a chain of girlfriends and found them working. While you think you've gotten the best, that woman who picks "reject" ndio kweli amepata.
Secondly, the mentality of women waiting to be put in a box attracts the folly tricky men with experience. You'll hear good words but that language is adapted from the chain of women he has met. Unafikiria ni wewe tu kumbe iko one million ahead of you. Sasa hata akikutesa, hana hisia kwa sababu ako na many
Women know what they want but we mostly do not know what we don't want until it shows up. Those graduates also learnt how to mirror women to look and sound exactly as what the women is attracted to.,Including moral values and spirituality, unless a woman possesses a very high level of divine discernment, deception continues.
Am single and i want to get married....then these stories 😢😢
She is protecting her husband.its clear she went through alot
But surely you are digging what is not meant for you, and you can do nothing even if you are told exactly what transpired 😢
Na vile anasema anapenda Na kusupport watoto..alafu kwani Nini hiyo haiwezi sema
Through experience,I believe you
The day kawira will open up kabisa tutabaki na mshangao.. GBV is the worst thing a person can ever go through.
Hebu tell them. Hawajui who that man is anyone who knows him anajua she is even covering for him.
I agree with you. This man must have done something hausemeki. She doesn't want to expose him
Pole kawira
You have nothing to regret coz being married a virgin. Ulifanya sawaaaa. Ubikira uhifadhiwe ni vyema. May be God wanted to teach you something.
Don't regret dear..Kuna special reward of all virgins, from the Almighty God..here on EARTH and finally in heaven.....
@@mercymeriy7851 🤣🤣🤣 Kwani hii special reward ni ya female virgins only.
Was the guy an illuminati,gay or what. From your share something worse tha beating leaves slot to be desired
@@pastorLilian I think the guy was gay. Thats why Kawira anasema ni mambo deep sana🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@MwaleWaGitau Those who live Christ and consulate marriage as virgins have the covenant sealed in blood. May the Lord give you understanding
I left my marriage of 12 years I was single in marriage
Kawii pole mwaari ona kumaka muno
Kawira you leave and you are not saying where you are going,you said in interview ushindwi,is better you step out instead of arguing with a man .may God give you grace
I relate
Nipitieni guys
Headline lazima ingekuwa hiyo ndo muweze kuongea vibaya,,,,,kawiraaaa thankyou for healing,,,haters and deputy Jesuses shauri yenu
Life is hard 😪 single for life
I get what Kawira is saying.Leaving was the best decision she made.
Why I didn't see this video before?? Your story is the same as mine. Kupelekea virginity mtu kama huyo is just like putting sugar in flowing water. Yes I know.
Seems she is telling us small truth
Kawera anasema ukweli aki , nishawai kuwa house manager wao ,kuna siku nilifungulia maji nikalala usingizi ikanipeleka maji ikamwagika kwa nyumba ,alinipigia kelele kaa mjinga adi anashoutia wife wake mbele yangu ,eti munalala tuu na hakuna kitu munafanya kwa hii nyumba ,Kila xaa alikuwa ananiambia nanuka
Jesus eti nini😳😳
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Waah pole
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That guy is bad
Kwani he married her to cover up what type of relationship he really into? The fact that she doesn’t want the kids near their father “they won’t be safe” my mind has traveled very fast 🤔
Mungu nifunze kunyamaza..
Najua mengi lakini wacha tu ninyamaze
@@rosemary_njage please 😂
@@rosemary_njagekuhusu Kawira ama? 🙊
Kanisa haipotezi mtu yeyote your dating was the one which was poor. And also your openness in your discussion before marriage was the one which was poor. Otherwise pole
True
I want to hear the side of pastor Ephantas that's all
@estherjesus3023 tafuta kamuhunjia show utampata hapo
I wish I could find a chance to talk to you kawira,am really in a hard situation,,and am confused what to do
To understand this lady, there is more than you see and hear, !!!
Yes, because she is lying.
@@charlesmaina4194 kwani you are friend to ex hubby or how do u know she is lying
@@puritynkatha7656 I know because she is hiding 90% of the reason why she separated with her hubby.....and can see clearly that she is the sweet talker.....
@@charlesmaina4194 you're every where saying she's lying...why can't you come out and explain your side of da story coz you seem to know better 😏
@@puritymuthama2243 We heard the story from the hubby, and her half truths proves she is the liar.....
Huyu anasema walikutana church mwingine alisema theatre waki act aisee ya wawili sicoment
Pole
Toxic marriage is real and women are suffering out here. Trust me
😢soo bitter
So kwa wale husema kufa kuzikana and here Kawira ameamua kutoka je utaolewa tena ama utaolewa na Yesu coz nmesikia ukisema body ya Yesu iko sawa bado.Bado uko msichana mdogo je ukipata muume mwengine does your faith tell you to remarry and where is the for happy for worse untill death go?
Ataolewa na mime muhamad
I have listened to this girl and it looks kuna more than that....
I would love to work In radio jambo