Therapist Reacts To: Fishtail by Lana Del Rey *tough one*
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- čas přidán 6. 04. 2023
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PLEASE DON'T BE AFRAID TO SHOW YOUR EMOTIONS! This is your channel and you're allowed to be vulnerable. This is your space and you can use it however you want to. Even if you need to process stuff while listening to songs, that's OKAY!
lana has frequently talked about how due to her melancholic music, people expect her to be sad all the time. in Mariners apt complex she says “you took my sadness out of context, at the mariners apartment complex, i ain’t no candle in the wind.”
Ignore the comments that you mentioned suggesting that you shouldn’t share/display you’re emotions, please share as much or as little as you feel comfortable sharing with us! I think those comments are a just a couple anomalies and the rest of us support you and just love seeing your genuine reactions! Looking forward to seeing more reactions from you!
her new album is really deep, and i love all of your reactions it actually helps to get the song when someone like you reacts and explains things!
this song is always on repeat and i've gone thru narcassistic abuse in my own family home and that thing about being not treated like youre smart or worth anything is so real
Ugh fuck those comments, Mere. The world would be a scary place if therapists were emotionless robots.
Another interpretation for the “Wearing nothing but the summer bruises on my knees” lyric could be that she was always having to beg the person for their attention. So my mind goes to summer vibes, going out with friends, taking trips. She she felt she was figuratively always having to “be on her knees” to get their attention and the time she used sucking up to this person outweighed the time of attention she was given in return. So it kinda is used in every way possible
I find it interesting that people would say “this therapist needs a therapist”. As a psychotherapist myself, it’s essencial that we take care of our emotions, so yes, even therapists need to go to therapy! That’s not a sign of weakness or not being able to do your job, but because our profession can cause strains in our own emotional health… we lend an empathetic ear to someone who’s suffering and that has an impact on us! If it wasn’t for that, if it didn’t had an impact on us, we wouldn’t have become therapists in the first place. I struggle with depression and I need to take care of myself in order to take care of my patients, I need to be honest with my own emotions in order to help others. So, don’t be afraid to show your emotions. I love your videos mainly because you’re so authentic and you’re not afraid to share what’s on your mind. And you’re able to do that while respecting your own boundaries. That sends a powerful message for others. I love your videos reacting to Lana’s music, can’t wait to see the next ones. Much love ❤
Your interpretation and perspective is so valuable, especially for Lana song which have so much to unpack. Please make more I love these so much
You're wonderful Mere! Ignore the haters. I love how genuine your reactions are. We're all human and it's human to have feelings and emotions.
as a lana fan it’s crazy having someone live deep diving into her discography without knowing all the 300 songs that came before
Lana del rey is such a part of my life. Her music has been on in the background of my life since my daughter was born. (13 years) people don’t understand how someone’s music can almost guide and heal you and having it connected to so many amazing memories with my daughter just makes it mean so much more. I love how open you are. I’m happy I found your channel
I think here Lana is kinda referring to her fans by saying "you wanted me sadder" cuz most fans want her to release albums like her previous records "born to die" and "ultraviolence". she was sad during those eras because of her boyfriend and family issues. however, she says she is ultimately happy and loves making this kind of music
It's interesting because since I first listened to this song, it gave me the impression that it was dedicated to a section of her fanbase: the one that keeps saying that they miss the old Lana (=the sad one). And she is trying to reclaim her new music vision (I have things to say). And it is constructed from the perpective of her in a bad relationship because it's kind of it... those fans don't really care about her growth and the reasons behind her change. Try listening the song from this perspective...
Empathy makes therapists good therapists ! Without it their education is useless, never feel like you are too emotional for your career! It's a gift (:
who tf said that therapist cant have feelings wtf???? mere doing u dare say that u'll listen to them 😭😭🙏🙏
I always get summer bruises on my legs because I’m outside more in the summer doing outdoorsy things. So that’s how I took that line. Could be wrong though.
People tend to forget that feelings and emotions are universal and having a professional career in x,y, or z field doesn't change that. On these videos you're using your knowledge to analyze a song, you're not giving therapy to a patient, you're allowed to react and show your emotions. Maybe the haters would benefit of doing the same instead of projecting their insecurities on someone online. Keep the good work.
Please don’t ever stop being emotional and yourself it’s beautiful and I’m so happy I’ve found your channel you’re amazing!!