How to Find Halal Love | Sh Ibraheem Menk (Full Podcast)
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- čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
- Ustadh Shabbir is joined by Shaykh Ibraheem Menk where they speak about how to find a spouse and what struggles people go through when looking for someone suitable.
00:00 - Intro
03:45 - Does marriage fix everything?
11:47 - When will we know when we are ready to get married?
19:10 - Negotiables & non-negotiables, making compromises
23:53 - Mature love
25:35 - Don't pin your happiness on others
28:01 - If men get Hoors, what will women get in Jannah?
31:24 - How do I find someone?
32:30 - Asking elders/imams to find someone for you
33:01 - Telling elders you found someone you want to get married to
35:24 - Using marriage apps
38:12 - Directly approaching a sister
42:41 - Asking a sister for her mahram's number
46:27 - Hurdles in finding someone
47:20 - Don't be too picky
48:14 - Don't be shy in telling people that you are looking to get married
49:35 - The importance of having Taqwa
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Great topic at 4:40 Pornography addiction is a real issue.
Grateful for organisations like My Tazkiyah who offer support for those struggling with Pornography.
14.40 couldnt agree more with sheikh ibraheem 💯 being given / not given responsibility at a young age really does make a massive difference on the maturity of an individual.
Thank you so much for this one!! Really appreciate it. May الله reward you all immensely for your work.. aameen! ✨
I will be honest but not everyone is helpful. People are afraid to recommend people because if it doesn't work then they may be to blame.
This is true. I've experienced it too.
İmportant!! Was thinking of this topic
Barakallahu Feekum🤍
JazaakAllah Khayr ✨ interesting & beneficial conversation 👌 Alhamdulillah
Thanks for watching
BarrakAllahu fiik for this good podcast. Next time, I would have appreciated if you let the Sheikh talk more....
Salaam brother hope you don't mind but some advice when interviewing - look at someone like Lex Friedman. There are too many interruptions with this and it's distracting.
It's a podcast, not an interview
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Can I ask him if he has a porn addiction?
I know you can't ask about their past, but what if I know that I cannot be married to someone who has been intimate with someone/zina as I do not have such an experience? Does this mean I have to wait until I am mature enough to accept it or is it okay for me to think that I deserve someone who also has abstained from zina like me? I would not care if I am marrying a divorcee or a widow, but to be someone's first marriage and not be their first partner, makes me uncomfortable and insecure.
Instead of asking him, can I tell him that "I am looking for someone who has not dated or had physical relationships before so if that is you, you do not need to let me know, but please do reject me" (as they could have wanted to reject me anyway and I have not made them expose their sins)? I feel like it sounds a bit childish too, but it is something I will be affected by greatly
The way you framed the question is a good idea
that's a great way 👍🏼