Dangers Of A Sexless Marriage
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- čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
- In this episode, we explore the silent issue many couples face but few discuss openly: the dangers of a sexless marriage. We know that its absence can lead to a range of issues, from resentment and frustration to deeper emotional drifts. Whether you're experiencing this in your relationship or know someone who is, this episode offers a compassionate, informed look at a topic that deserves more attention and most importantly from a biblical perspective; what God says about it.
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Yes! I tell my husband that all the time. I don't put a cake in a cold oven, so why approach me without warming up first 😊
Right. Was he always like that?
The "Window Analogy" is a very good description of what's happening in the life of a woman. This type of content and more of it is Much needed in Christian Marriages. Excellent episode!!
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15 years ago last time, but marriage pretty much sexless before that, My wife is fatter than me. And she yelled last time" In an impatient angry tone. "Hurry up" Gave up asking after that after so much rejection after that, Feeling trapped now, because I never chose celibacy.. but a sexless power struggle saps your motivation. And it is not the other way round, when the sex stops, the intimacy stops, and the praying stops and then the man's motivation stops.
Love the window analogy. Women have a lot of blocks. Your hubby sounds a lot like mine. Can you two have more topics on sex in marriage?
Its hard to have sex with a wife that continues to tell you that you are always wrong and basically she is right about everyone and trys to run the marriage and think you should follow her way. So i now dont have any desire really to touch her, ao i haven't tried anything in a month
I'm sorry to hear of your struggles but take it from someone in a sexless marriage, just a body is by itself is a HUGE blessing that I don't have - I don't care what she is saying - I care about naked female body parts.
This was soo good!! Thank you! ❤
What if the reason is being talked about, putting down name calling, blaming me and my daughter for things we didn't do. Outside things are making for unhappy. And her son was taken around by her brother. She doesn't want help she blames everyone. I get it she's hurting. She was this before the passing of her son. I have problems, but I don't take it out on her.
I needed this
Medications play a part as well
Yup, I wish all the hypocrites that judged me for keeping my son as single mom would have warned me yrs ago.
I waited years after chaste like a nun y'all. Then married and had great intimacy. Now we are in a sexless marriage, and im not the one saying no.
But what if they don't the same thing you want, that is, maybe they want a roommate situation? The lower desire partner always wins in my experience.
Prioritize. Love is not valued anymore. Money, career and independence have clouded our minds. We have to get back to essence of needing love.
Years...
So it is all up to the man, who also has a lot of windows open, bills, scheduling, repairs around the house. When dating the girl anticipation when she was going to see her man and was ready, now he has to come home from work and go to work to warm her up. Time for her to get her self mentality ready.
You have to evolve in your romance. People change and require more the longer you're together. You can be great in everything but lazy in your marriage. God cares about your marriage more.
Both should be attracted to each other…workout together….
I agree, love them they want to be love!!! Not the way you want to be love!!!
Marriage is scary, been there done that. Focus on that one person can only create tensions at least eventually. Humans pride ourselves for being more intelligent than other species; i don't think we are. I'm yet to find a female fighting male or male fighting female in other species but with humans its more or less the norm. Even when there is competition the female will fight the other female though this is less common; it's usually the males that fight. I think if we remove government, church and culture from relationships we could go back to our natural self. I may be wrong, i dont know what other people think
this issue with the sexless marriage is getting worse