this was supposed to be a “clean with me” video but my ADHD had other plans

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 16. 05. 2024
  • I've been needing to clean up my studio for weeks now, and today is finally the day. I have put it off for FAR too long, so would you mind being my body double? This started out as my attempt to make a "clean with me" type of video that was calm and straight-forward...but things took a hard left when I found an old pregnancy test that send the rest of the day into a bit of chaos.
    This might not be the most helpful "clean with me" video you've ever watched on youtube, but it is eventful. Things got clean. Lost items were found. Urgent care was visited.
    It's truly all happening here in these 18 minutes. 😂
    Just keep hitting singles.
    Love you! ♄
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  • @jake_from_statefarm7209
    @jake_from_statefarm7209 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +716

    I LOVE that you don't put your kids on social media! I really, really don't like how normal it is to just put your child on the internet without their consent.

    • @jarlskane1214
      @jarlskane1214 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +19

      This x 1000000%!!

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +215

      I’m doing the best I can as I learn! I used to post them online when my social media was simply just my friends and family who saw my content. But as my platform grew, suddenly I became aware of how wide and far content can go once it’s posted. It’s pretty scary when you know the ins and outs of how content travels online.

    • @Call_Me_Cedar
      @Call_Me_Cedar Pƙed měsĂ­cem +8

      Or understanding what putting themselves on the internet means

    • @jake_from_statefarm7209
      @jake_from_statefarm7209 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +8

      @@elyse_myers Absolutely! The internet is a scary place in general, and especially for kids. Thank you for being wonderful!

    • @oldasyouromens
      @oldasyouromens Pƙed měsĂ­cem +14

      ​@@elyse_myers thank you! It is scary! And I mean this with absolutely no offense, but I do not want or need to see them. You can talk about them without me seeing them. I don't watch parents who show their kid to the camera much anymore, because I'm always worried for the child.

  • @mariahlamb2983
    @mariahlamb2983 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +222

    Wow. I am literally sitting on my computer doom scrolling, wondering where the last 2 hours just went, completely paralyzed from being productive and cleaning the way I want and need to right now. And Elyse swoops in to save me and give me the motivation I need 😭

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +63

      CZcams KNEW YOU NEEDED THIS TODAY! You’re doing great, you’ve got this! ♄

    • @natalie9746
      @natalie9746 Pƙed 13 dny +1

      NUUUUP Elyse fits into the "too entertaining" category!! can't clean *and* watch her 😂😂

  • @rosaliac.386
    @rosaliac.386 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +122

    The panic attack about the test, the speech about crocs & the spiral about the book coffee was all SO relatable I swear I have had all of these moments almost exactly đŸ˜‚đŸ˜­â€ïž

  • @danikay84
    @danikay84 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +154

    I really like the method of: go through a room with a trash bag - pick up trash; go through the room with a laundry basket - pick up clothes; go through and pick up dishes, put them in kitchen... That helps me when I'm just like ... paralyzed sos

    • @Ddrhl
      @Ddrhl Pƙed měsĂ­cem +9

      I've been really stuck and couldn't think of a different way to approach the mess around here. You gave me a really good idea to try. Thank you!

    • @MLiesel
      @MLiesel Pƙed měsĂ­cem +9

      Yes! This sounds like advice from the amazing book “How to Keep House While Drowning,” which is incredibly compassionate and helpful. I listened to the audiobook, probably while doing my dishes 😜

    • @danikay84
      @danikay84 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

      @@MLiesel I’m gonna have to read that! Or listen haha

    • @aprilpinkard9929
      @aprilpinkard9929 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +6

      I call that the ABCs. Bed, clothes, dishes, garbage

    • @NovasYouTubeName
      @NovasYouTubeName Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

      “How to keep house while drowning” is great, “Organizing at the speed” of life saved our home, and Elyse’s method here is like the batching method from the AMAZING book “the anti-planner” (if y’all have adhd this book is worth buying!)

  • @karinwesterlund449
    @karinwesterlund449 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +76

    So I was really having a bad mental health moment. On the floor crying bad. I have a tiktok list with videos that help me feel better, and one of those was yours saying that you’ll believe in me even if I don’t believe in myself. It meant the world to me and I came to youtube in the hopes that you would have content here and honestly, just watching you clean calmed me down so much. Thank you for everything

    • @emmaskidmore2314
      @emmaskidmore2314 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +9

      Virtual hug from a random internet stranger. I’m sorry you’re going through a rough patch. Wishing you light and happiness.

    • @novalyn.acidgin
      @novalyn.acidgin Pƙed 29 dny +1

      Hope things get better for you soon. *Massive hugs* 💖

  • @Crysbu
    @Crysbu Pƙed měsĂ­cem +23

    You accomplished something new on your list in this video. You went to 2 stores looking for a pregnancy test cause you needed it, and you didn't order it off Amazon! You're still doing it! Congratulations! This was a win!

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +21

      I was so panicked I actually didn’t realize how big of an accomplishment that was until a few people pointed it out in the comments! That’s so cool! PROGRESS!!!

  • @katherinecallan5462
    @katherinecallan5462 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +49

    I folded laundry while watching this and felt like we were tackling house chores together as friends and it made me so happy! thank you for managing to consistently make simple things that bring so much joy!

  • @itsvalarieann
    @itsvalarieann Pƙed měsĂ­cem +83

    I feel this deeply to my core. As a 30 yr old mom myself, I feel so overwhelmed with cleaning and time management. I got officially diagnosed with ADHD last summer after finally unmasking years of symptoms. I struggle with depression and anxiety as well. Your content has made me feel so sane and normal. I pray I get to meet you in person one day & give you the biggest hug ❀

    • @ville__
      @ville__ Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Don't translate...
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    • @jenlockett92
      @jenlockett92 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      I’m with you momma!! 31 and a mom with all the above. Sending you love ♄

    • @mari_3kyu
      @mari_3kyu Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Sorry for going off topic, but I love your sweater, it's so cute!

  • @ASquareGranny
    @ASquareGranny Pƙed měsĂ­cem +34

    SIDE QUESTS THOUGH!! Felt that to my SOUL. truly.

  • @stacykupzyk2283
    @stacykupzyk2283 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +94

    I have stopped following a lot of accounts where the kids are shown. I love following parenting accounts, but I can't support parents using their children the way many do. I actually learned all about it when you announced you weren't showing your kids anymore awhile back. I think people are just realizing what damage it can cause our kids to give them a large internet footprint before they can even understand and consent to it. My 11 year old daughter wants to make YT videos and it was a hard no, she just doesn't understand yet. Thanks for sharing your life with us!

    • @Just999Me
      @Just999Me Pƙed měsĂ­cem +4

      Gives me more hope that there are good parents (mom & dads) out there who are protecting their kids from online footprints and inappropriate exposure to certain aspects of internet/social media. All I ever see are these terrible parents/family channels that exploit their families/children/relationship for a quick buck/cash grab.

    • @slim.quaidy
      @slim.quaidy Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      I can’t believe how many family channels I used to watch before I became a mom. It’s truly disturbing how parents can proudly sell their children to predators online with an innocent facade. Those poor kids will never know privacy

  • @NiGHTSaturn
    @NiGHTSaturn Pƙed měsĂ­cem +48

    I just came back from Japan and getting back to reality was a freaking slap to the face. The mess in my home in a week only is INSANE. I most likely have ADHD too. Let’s clean together Elyse 😂

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +24

      YOU’VE GOT THIS!!!

    • @SpacyMidnight
      @SpacyMidnight Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      I was also in “Japan» and came home to moldy food and just mess.

  • @littlerayofsunshine8825
    @littlerayofsunshine8825 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +19

    Thank you for these honest and transparent videos. As someone with ADHD and OCD your video have been a source of comfort, validation and joy!

  • @user-bo9pe9oz5c
    @user-bo9pe9oz5c Pƙed měsĂ­cem +6

    It's super cool to see someone else cleaning like I do, needing a tv show on and making "cleaning piles" in bags. I feel like it takes years before I go through them. Sometimes they go in closets. Sometimes they just become Mount Stuffalus. And consequently when I do get to them it creates even more "wow i didn't know i had that" side quests. I'm such a failure at cleaning, and it creates a lot of problems, but this video warms my heart for showing a true adhd experience and is probably my favorite one of yours.

  • @lauryncole5522
    @lauryncole5522 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +25

    As a Starbucks barista, I will say, you can’t get cold brew as decaf. so the only way that we can make that drink decaf and as similar as possible is to make a decaf iced Americano. We would still be able to add the syrup and the foam on top! Hope this helps!

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +9

      I completely blanked and realized the author meant iced americano! I was thinking they were saying salted caramel cold foam on top of a hot decaf americano which still I guess would make sense but not as much! Hahaha yours makes more sense! Thank you! My brain really just exited the building while reading that 😂

  • @carolynturk-hu7je
    @carolynturk-hu7je Pƙed měsĂ­cem +60

    Just a thought, that because the studio is a business expense because of your job....hiring a cleaning service would be covered as a business expense.đŸ˜Šâ€

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +52

      We have an amazing team that usually comes in once every two weeks to clean in terms of sanitize things, which is so helpful! But I still need to pick up and generally tidy every room every week so when they do come, the studio is ready to go for them! But also because of the tornados here in Omaha, they weren’t able to come one week so it had been over a month since anyone came and so I really let things go 😅

    • @carolynturk-hu7je
      @carolynturk-hu7je Pƙed měsĂ­cem +14

      @@elyse_myers Good that you do have that service! Bad or should I say sad about the tornados. Thank you so much for replying. Know you are busy. Just know it made my nice day!đŸ„°

    • @lmatrasko
      @lmatrasko Pƙed měsĂ­cem +6

      ​@@elyse_myersI find that my once-per-month cleaning service keeps me accountable: I HAVE to tidy up before they come bc they don't put stuff away for me. 😂

    • @AshleySureen
      @AshleySureen Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Michael Jackson starts playing đŸŽ¶you are not alone...I am here with youđŸŽ¶

  • @cailin5301
    @cailin5301 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +9

    CZcams is my go-to for cleaning entertainment, because it tends to be like hanging out with a friend and listening to them ramble about stuff, without being so very entertaining that you have to keep looking at it. A lot of CZcams channels could technically be podcasts.

  • @baleighherring6464
    @baleighherring6464 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +11

    This is my comfort person. Watching your videos just calms me down and makes my mind quiet for a little bit💛📾

  • @alyssahansen2229
    @alyssahansen2229 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +8

    You said we should body double if there's things we also need to accomplish... and I am sitting at home trying to pack stuff up to move while my husband is at work... this is exactly what I needed, and I agree with the comments saying it's like sitting at home with your friend doing chores together. Thank you ❀

  • @danii0121
    @danii0121 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +27

    The PREGNANCY TEST😂😂😂😂😂 the amount of times I've pulled them apart and moved around in every light and taking a picture on my phone .. with and without flash .then editing it 😂😂😂

  • @allie_fallie
    @allie_fallie Pƙed měsĂ­cem +13

    Okay, but can we talk about how you did one of the things on your list?! 9. When you need something last minute, going and getting it without ordering it off of Amazon. Super proud of you for that, friend!! đŸ„°

    • @Brezooka
      @Brezooka Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      She had to go to TWO stores!

    • @allie_fallie
      @allie_fallie Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      @@Brezooka Right! Double win. 😊

    • @Kazemba
      @Kazemba Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      You're right! Life goal accomplished!

  • @kaybond007
    @kaybond007 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +28

    Doing something that takes longer just so you’re in forward motion is 10000000% me 😂😂😂😂

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +18

      Okay I’m glad I’m not alone in that. 😂 I also married one of the most careful and steady human beings on the planet so I am often just mentally spinning watching him take the necessary time things usually take (bc I would do it faster and so much worse)

    • @kaybond007
      @kaybond007 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +4

      @@elyse_myers i think Jonas and my husband are very similar đŸ˜‚đŸ«¶đŸŒ my husband is so so kind and slow to process and does things right. But just at a different schedule where I’m over there making a bigger mess but at least I’m in motion. If I stop, I’ll not start up again or find a new thing to fix. 😂

  • @DelphiaStrickland
    @DelphiaStrickland Pƙed měsĂ­cem +8

    I like to listen to audio books or upbeat music when I'm cleaning, it helps me focus my ADHD. I love how you yelled "SQUIRREL!!!" when you saw one, distracting you from cleaning by in the most figurative AND literal ADHD move lol

    • @jenniferriske1328
      @jenniferriske1328 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Have you read the Holderness’ book “ADHD is Awesome”? It’s so good.

  • @standup2982
    @standup2982 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +11

    I absolutely LOVE that you haven’t got your children online. It’s a dangerous place for children, the internet is full of predators who take images or videos of children are use AI to alter the content for, well you know what for. I applaud you for stating that children can’t consent. You are a wonderful Mum and woman ❀

    • @Just999Me
      @Just999Me Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      THIS ❀

    • @standup2982
      @standup2982 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      @@Just999Me it’s vital to protect our children, that’s our job ❀

  • @Curiousbatling
    @Curiousbatling Pƙed měsĂ­cem +7

    Being a mom and also being worried that you're pregnant is truly a new level of intense anxiety, I feel you.

    • @rin68nyr90
      @rin68nyr90 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      This is how I knew we were done. Am ready had 2 kids, who I did/do adore, and was late one month. I was just late, not pregnant, and the feelings before I knew, and after, told me for sure
we’re done!

  • @danielleschmidt2954
    @danielleschmidt2954 Pƙed 3 dny

    I am watching this video for the third time right now. I just found you about a week ago, and the past few days I have been a bad place anxiety wise. But watching your videos is so comforting. Last night I watched this video at 11pm when I was feeling sad and anxious. But I was like, why dont I clean with Elyse? Not only did it make my anxiety go away, but it also made my house a touch cleaner. Thank you so much for being who you are and making the content that you do for us all to enjoy. I truly can't thank you enough for being such a comfort.

  • @kelleyharding1892
    @kelleyharding1892 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +6

    Hoarder shows are the perfect shows to watch when cleaning. Gives me motivation and makes me feel good about my own house.

    • @ladybolski
      @ladybolski Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Me too!

    • @RAMBDesigns-jh5ot
      @RAMBDesigns-jh5ot Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Same!!!! đŸ€Ł my adhd doesn’t help but hoarders ALWAYS helps keep me more on track
 I joke all the time “if you don’t clean up you’re just a few boxes away from being on this show” it’s not that bad but I tell myself it is to purge more đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @samanthap.879
      @samanthap.879 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Midwest magic cleaning I always watch him

  • @screenplaya4562
    @screenplaya4562 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +4

    I lurve these. I dig your openness, and I dig that you explained why your kids aren't being made a part of this. You're aces, lady.

  • @valeria821
    @valeria821 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +4

    That was the best explination of shows to watch while cleaning! 😂 No one in my life understands why I'm SO picky with my shows but this graph is perfection!

  • @smoothjazz4789
    @smoothjazz4789 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +12

    Literally on the verge of tears with how much has been piled on me the past week, so this video is perfect timing and a literal blessing:,) Thank you for how encouraging you are, it helps more than you know ❀ (also I legit watch your videos every time I need to feel like I can do hard things, ADHD is my biggest superpower and hindrance lol)

    • @ville__
      @ville__ Pƙed měsĂ­cem

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  • @Yoeri22
    @Yoeri22 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +20

    That knife on the desk for breaking in anxiety is so real, so glad I'm not the only one who does that

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

      I have to take that back to the kitchen on a weekly basis. Noises when I’m by myself scare the crap out of me. 😅

  • @jenlockett92
    @jenlockett92 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    Love love love love love love what you said about who’s consented to having an online presence. You are just awesome in every way. I relate to you SO MUCH. Thank you for sharing yourself with us ♄

  • @AdrienneZazulak
    @AdrienneZazulak Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    Elyse you were made for this job. Thank you! for all the joy

  • @nicolel9410
    @nicolel9410 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    I love the transition you did where youre standing in the middle of a bunch of different rooms! That was awesome!

  • @Letalis86
    @Letalis86 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +11

    "Think positive thoughts!" I died laughing.

  • @ProudtobeaNeurodivergent_1248
    @ProudtobeaNeurodivergent_1248 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

    3:25 “it works for me but also it really doesn’t” is so funny and relatable 😭😂 “I don’t even use half of it I don’t know why I have it” I didn’t understand why I couldn’t save money as a kid until recently 😂
 I would just follow the dopamine until everything was a mess 😂

  • @Phoenix-me8ze
    @Phoenix-me8ze Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    It made me so happy when you said desperate housewives at the end because EVERY time i try to talk about real housewives i call it desperate housewives.

  • @xXxSugaxQueenxXx
    @xXxSugaxQueenxXx Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

    Thank you so much, I felt the EXACT way you did about the coffee line. I deeply appreciate you for always being you ❀

  • @cindygoodwyn1655
    @cindygoodwyn1655 Pƙed 19 dny

    I appreciate you sharing yourself and your very human quirks with us. It really helps me to feel like I'm not alone. I talk to anything and everything, especially if it doesn't talk back. I admire that you protect your family's privacy, as much as humanly possible, especially when you are a social media icon, such as yourself. You are doing an amazing job at being so many things to so many people. But, the job you seem to take most seriously is Mom and Wife. That's the most important thing. You have a beautiful family. Thank you so much for all that you do!
    I must say I agree with your Croc assessment...they are NOT FOR ME! If you ever catch me with a pair on, something is VERY WRONG! Alert the authorities!

  • @Yeppers5443
    @Yeppers5443 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    I absolutely love your videos! They are one of the few things I watch on CZcams that can ALWAYS make me feel better, thanks Elyse🌾

  • @kristinguthrie7636
    @kristinguthrie7636 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    I recently got medicated for the first time in my life for my ADHD but I was diagnosed 22 years ago
 whew
 anyways your content is really soothing for me because I feel so seen and it’s so relatable. Thank you.

  • @rachelfairholm764
    @rachelfairholm764 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +8

    "Depends on how many side quests I go on" - goes to buy a pregnancy test. (Love calling them side quests, btw)

  • @carolynturk-hu7je
    @carolynturk-hu7je Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

    I can so relate to wanting to organize the letters in the letter box! The angst is so real!đŸ˜Šâ€

  • @jenesisnavarro
    @jenesisnavarro Pƙed měsĂ­cem +5

    "We have a friendship... I like him more than he likes me" haha

  • @erinmlaswell
    @erinmlaswell Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    I look forward to your video every Thursday / Friday more than any other video during the week. Thanks for sharing with us and being so transparent and direct about your work/life boundaries. You’re a great role model đŸ„č

  • @kayleenvanderhorst
    @kayleenvanderhorst Pƙed 23 dny

    This is so me, thank you for sharing! It’s making me feel better about my cleaning style. You are appreciated. Sending you love and positivity!

  • @CactusKitty42
    @CactusKitty42 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    I love how she went on a 2 minute rant about why her kids aren’t in her content it’s so amazing I love her 😂

  • @michellepetersen5121
    @michellepetersen5121 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +6

    The Sharpie cap spitđŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚ OMG love you and your honesty. ♄

  • @bre5744
    @bre5744 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    One of the reasons I started following you is because I love that you don't put your kids on the Internet. It's so refreshing and I love that you stand by that choice.
    Love your content, it puts my brain in a happy productive zone 💙😊 keep up the great work!

  • @savannahsmiles67
    @savannahsmiles67 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    Oh my goodness! Gifts make me nervous too! As a family we give gifts to each other as they come in and say Happy
whatever and on the day we don’t actually have a gift to give except for Christmas

  • @alyssazaidel1904
    @alyssazaidel1904 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    As someone who drinks almost exclusively decaf I would like to weigh in haha when the cold brew cold foam drinks first came out, I was bummed I couldn't get it (too much caffeine). But the barista suggested that the dupe for the cold foam cold brew was an iced americano with the cold foam/other add ins because the espresso can be decaf, but the cold brew cannot.
    Hopefully this helps add context! I think it was just worded strangely.

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Okay so subbing an iced decaf americano for a cold brew!! Okay that makes sense!!! Thank you!

  • @meganchandler715
    @meganchandler715 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    You’re literally my hero. Thank you for being you. You’ve given me the strengths and courage to keep moving forward

  • @NovasYouTubeName
    @NovasYouTubeName Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    Amazing job Elyse!!! You should feel SOOO PROUD for cleaning that all in a day I could never do that

  • @terryann8854
    @terryann8854 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Hi Elyse! I so relate to you! "side quests" so funny! I just love your content! I'm actually super grateful I found your channel, I'm not alone! Love and Light to you as you challenge and conquer your "side quests"!

  • @sherinichols6404
    @sherinichols6404 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    I appreciate this so much. I hope you weren't sick!

  • @nitrorose986
    @nitrorose986 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    the decompression of snack after that was immaculate.
    also relatable expierence, brains are silly!!

  • @Queenleigh_Greenery
    @Queenleigh_Greenery Pƙed 4 dny

    Thank you so so much for not blasting your sweet innocent babies all over the Internet! The "family" accounts where it is 99percent their children drive me crazy and make me so so sad for those poor babies..... They are supposed to be outside playing, not spending hours making a video for the parents to profit off of .... And there is just so much abuse out there..... I am sorry for my rant. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.
    I love you girl ❀

  • @SpaceMermaid86
    @SpaceMermaid86 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Crocs are the perfect gardening & camping/fishing shoes! I've only wore them in public when I've had to stop doing one of those things to get something from the store that's needed to continue the task.

  • @CLNSL8
    @CLNSL8 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    Thank you for thst wonderful ❀ explanation of your choice vs family choices and privacy . Love your realness

  • @petrichorfan
    @petrichorfan Pƙed 12 dny

    There were SO MANY moments that I went to like the video because it was too relatable and then I’d realize I’d already liked it. I need to be able to like it multiple times!! lol

  • @ProudtobeaNeurodivergent_1248
    @ProudtobeaNeurodivergent_1248 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    1:54 thanks for showing people that kids should not grow up feeling like they can’t be themselves because the world is watching them! And good for you for being a content creator and owning the fact that you are the only one in your family on camera! I love your videos by the way! ❀

  • @crystalmccahill5408
    @crystalmccahill5408 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +5

    I love this so much. I always feel like I'm watching myself when I watch you đŸ€Ł

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +5

      I love that so much for the both of us hahaha

    • @crystalmccahill5408
      @crystalmccahill5408 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      @@elyse_myers right?! There's something liberating about it LOL. You're the best 💜

  • @MarisolHaunting
    @MarisolHaunting Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    The interesting tv bell curve is the same when knitting lace.
    Also I volunteer to untangle your yarn so you don’t have to cut it. Untangling yarn is my only true skill.

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      YOU’RE HIRED. On another day I might have had the patience to untangle it but I was so sick I couldn’t be bothered. 😂

    • @MarisolHaunting
      @MarisolHaunting Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      @@elyse_myers I totally get it! Every time I get frustrated enough with a tangle to pick up the scissors I remember I’m really bad at joining yarn and I hate weaving in ends, and that overrides the frustration at the tangle so I keep going.

  • @implorapace
    @implorapace Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    All I can say is I’m completely invested in all of this! đŸ„°

  • @Smudge429
    @Smudge429 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    You're so great. Turned this on to clean and couldn't be more perfect

  • @design.build.style.
    @design.build.style. Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    Good speech on kids on social media for people who have careers. Much respect. Also
.you are just relaxing to watch. 😊

  • @CH-sk7jr
    @CH-sk7jr Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    GOOD FOR YOU!!!! On everything generally but especially on keeping your kids offline. That was a perfect synthesis of the reasons why

  • @RiskaAvian
    @RiskaAvian Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Your content is just so relatable and I love it. Too entertaining to watch while multitasking for sure :D

  • @hepcatliz
    @hepcatliz Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Jonas hit it out of the park, that bag is AWESOME! 100% not an every day carry kind of thing, but lugging back and forth from work stuff? Perfect!

  • @ribby109
    @ribby109 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    The shots in the beginning of you in every room with you in the middle and just the background changing?? Brilliant!! So well done đŸ‘đŸ»

  • @bri6032
    @bri6032 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    me and u are so similar in the ways we process & make piles & rush around haphazardly 😭💗 i almost died when u were analyzing the book characters coffee order, i agree it made no sense 😂
    u inspired me to struggle clean my bedroom, thank u bestie

  • @jess.i.e
    @jess.i.e Pƙed 5 dny

    "I wanna paint that" to then seeing the painting in your other video was so cool!!!

  • @carthestar6
    @carthestar6 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    I support you and your choices! You do you and don’t let other sway you! đŸ™ŒđŸ»

  • @marissabuoncora1608
    @marissabuoncora1608 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Elyse! I just watched your agoraphobia shopping video and I’m so happy for you! I haven’t gotten an on record diagnosis because I feel like I’m unable to talk to anyone but my old therapist rn (who talks to me off record but no longer takes my insurance) and she says I have agoraphobia! I’ve been struggling so bad with it since 2022. a lot had happened long before then, but in 2022 I had my son (which was a blessing and is the reason I’m still here) but had an emotionally chaotic and also high risk pregnancy. barely left my house for the last 2 years, and I truly view everytime I do leave my house as a victory. A lot of people don’t understand us or why it’s so hard but I get it and I’m so proud of all the things you’re doing rn!❀đŸ„ș (also I freak out about being pregnant all the time and I haven’t even been “active” in months

  • @amandapanda1541
    @amandapanda1541 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    This was so relatable. Thank you for always being genuine.

  • @denisebentley5082
    @denisebentley5082 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    Thank you for respecting your kids and allowing them independence and autonomy!

  • @lizhalll
    @lizhalll Pƙed 29 dny

    your editing and bloopers are so top tier đŸ˜‚â€

  • @marthapineda4032
    @marthapineda4032 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    I feel seen! Elyse I enjoy your vision sooooo much ❀

  • @EmilytheBaleester
    @EmilytheBaleester Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    I definitely used this as motivation to start cleaning and got loads done. Thank you!!

  • @ChurchladyHmm
    @ChurchladyHmm Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Can I just say this might be my favorite video you have ever done?

  • @loriellerecord7747
    @loriellerecord7747 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    YES! I love that you are giving your children the privacy they deserve. Good for you! They can make a choice when they are able if they want to be in the public eye.

  • @jbone877
    @jbone877 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    Re: the letter beads - tiny little organizing tasks are the _most_ fun - but you spend all day doing it, and at the end it looks like nothing has been done lmao

  • @naybelauren
    @naybelauren Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    Moving taks like Cleaning the house gets a podcast/music. Stationary tasks like folding laundry or dishes i get to watch shows. Thats the only way i can get things done lol

  • @jordynheide4898
    @jordynheide4898 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    That EXACT moment in Just for the Summer got me stuck too! 😂

  • @jam7083
    @jam7083 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Your content is so fun and feel good. Thank you so much đŸ„°

  • @powerverwirrt
    @powerverwirrt Pƙed dnem

    The loading bar when you did the classic ADHD running in all directions because you didn't know what you wanted to do next. 😂Also, I would've 100% succumbed to watching the show or organizing beads. PS: That crochet bag is really cute, you should finish it.

  • @thisbetheverses
    @thisbetheverses Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    Yes. We do. We do need to clean. Thank you for this ADHD body double, perfectly timed. Chefs kiss.

  • @kirstensteininger5011
    @kirstensteininger5011 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

    I can interpret the coffee order because I think it is the same thing I do! It is a decaf americano because no one makes decaf cold brews, but they got the exact same flavors and toppings as the original cold brew drink.

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

      Ohhhhh like a decaf iced americano instead of a cold brew?? Okay that makes sense!!!

    • @kirstensteininger5011
      @kirstensteininger5011 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Exactly!

  • @seanharvey6316
    @seanharvey6316 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    not me just putting on Elyse while I have my laptop screen tiled so I can track time bookkeeping and find myself taking twice as long because I did not consult the Cleaning Entertainment ROI chart PRIOR. She's too interesting.

    • @elyse_myers
      @elyse_myers  Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Hahahahha I’M HONORED THOUGH

  • @user-kj2zi9ui1g
    @user-kj2zi9ui1g Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    This system is so incredible. I LOVE the graph

  • @1231amandamarie
    @1231amandamarie Pƙed 26 dny

    You are so creative and funny. I could literally watch you stare at a blank wall and I’m sure it would still be entertaining lol. Thank you for being you and sharing your creativity with us.

  • @tvinson39
    @tvinson39 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    Thank you for making me feel less unhinged for doing the same pregnancy test side quest in the middle of my workday a few months ago 😂

  • @Bananna219
    @Bananna219 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    I loved this video. And thank you for not using the pregnancy test anxiety outing as clickbait. I hope you feel better!

  • @zumae
    @zumae Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    Yeah, I feel that. But when I'm cleaning I have to listen to music or something without images because the need to watch is too strong in me. Even if it's something I've watched before, I have to know everything that's going on. I might catch something, I didn't the first two playthroughs. Watching this makes me feel like I really need to go check myself for adhd.

  • @Mom4peace2011
    @Mom4peace2011 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Hey Elyse , fellow ADHD’er here
 I giggled watching you clean only because I can fully relate.
    I don’t know if you’ll see this, but I wanted to tell you keep doing what you’re doing. I also have Anxiety & OCD, and watching your videos makes me feel not so
. Alone. Or weird. Your videos are like comfort food when I need to not feel so out of place. Thank you đŸ™đŸŒ

  • @lulaslife13
    @lulaslife13 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Just a shout out to say hello😊 and see how you're doing. Know you haven't felt well. Also, find comfort in knowing that if you are not feeling like you, that's par for the course as an Empathic Sensitive such as yourself. The planet as a whole is unwell right now while we are shifting out of the dense sludge of the old world as we fully step into the new one. You are not alone, beautiful soul! ❀

  • @babushka_OG
    @babushka_OG Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    I CANNOT clean without my headphones with my favorite music playing! Dancing while cleaning is motivating.😆

  • @TheBoobieDocs
    @TheBoobieDocs Pƙed 3 hodinami

    Wow, I relate to this so much, especially the piles but not the pregnancy scare! đŸ€Ł also I missed seeing you on TikTok but so happy to see you here. đŸ„°

  • @Rose8
    @Rose8 Pƙed 16 dny

    So Beautiful! I love that you stopped to take a picture of the wall. You helped me cook!

  • @mvlara44
    @mvlara44 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    I always feel like I need to strap myself in for a wild ride with your videos. I laugh, I cry, I relate to many of your feeeeeeelings. I legitimately have a big list of things to do that I've slowly crossed off. What's left? 4 items that have to do with cleaning. I don't have ADHD, and find it a struggle, so I feel ya, honey- the struggle is REAL. Procrastination has haunted me from birth- I was born late. LOL I'm so happy I caught this video before I decided to tackle my cleaning mission. Fingers crossed that I am able to tackle at least one of the four items to completion without getting too distracted. Thanks for always being so real. (Now back to your video! ) EDIT: Finished the video- you land in the too entertaining in the ROI for me 😂and I hope you don't have strep throat, and if you do, I hope you are feeling much better now! xo

  • @lmatrasko
    @lmatrasko Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    This worked in reverse for me: I was supposed to be getting ready to go out (dressing, hair, makeup, etc) but watching you clean had me tidying my bathroom and putting things away. Luckily, traffic wasn't too bad so I was only 3 minutes late to where I needed to be. Thank you!