3 Reasons Why Men Prefer Younger Women
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On today's video Hafeez shares three reasons men prefer younger women. IF you are a woman watching this (especially an older woman) my advice to you is to watch the whole video before you comment. Too many people want to share their two cents before understanding the main point. Be sure to hit the subscribe button and get sign up for Patreon via the link below.
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What’s the name of the book again
Thank you for sharing
@@lakerfan9996 😂😂😂
Its So Sad 😥 That_ What Far Too Many "Modern Women" today do is what all "feminist" usually do_ Completely conflating, or deflecting the issue and distorting the facts to fit their narrow belief and feminist ideology!
Unfortunately Nowadays, Neither Young Girls or Boys are rarely taught the etiquette of being a Lady or being a Gentleman anymore? What little they do learn is taught haphazardly by (mainly single-moms) a generation of parents who haven't properly learned this themselves, or from the garbage of (feminist) mass-media 📺 TV & 🎥 Movie propaganda programming which, shamelessly, permeates the minds of nearly ALL of US in modern society these days!?
What most ladies nowadays have done, and consistently continue to do, is to take all respectability & place of honor away from Womanhood, Motherhood, Housewife, and Homemaker_ y'all have thrown it in the garbage! Your feminist propaganda falsely makes yourself and every young woman of the next-generation see it (being a "good-Wife") as a place of servitude & slavery? That is so Unbelievably Wrong of you women to do this to society! 😟
(P.s. Yes_ many moms, especially single mothers of today, do go out of their way to "try" to teach their young boys how to be a "man" and please a wife through the narrow lens of their feminist ideologies and indoctrination!) What really ends up happening is that they_ some but not all_ often unwittingly raise & crank out the same type of wimpy, irresponsible, punk a§§ young men that they Themselves Don't Want, and often complain about?! 😳
I'm done with this rant after I say (✍ write this). Women (feminist) and all the rest of society need to bring back🎖HONOR to the words Womanhood, Wife, Homemaker, and HOUSEWIFE.
You' all have wrongfully stripped & robbed it of it's luster! 🌞
*Feminism needs to stop glorifying broken 💔 families!* Just like they do on 🎥 TV & movies? We are all learning too much garbage from the Boob-Tube! 📺
Men like to date younger women because theirs a sickness within them it is pedophilia they will go as young as they can go as long as they don't get caught
And warning to the younger women. Do not let these older men use you up and throw you away cuz believe me everybody gets old one day
True, every day there are literally millions of women turning 18.
Use them up…What does that mean?
@@adulttalks3348 use them for sex….seems pretty self explanatory. Why would a 50 year old man go for an 18 year old lady? Because firstly a woman his age can see through his bullshit, a younger woman might be immature and little naive. And secondly younger women are more beautiful and have more/ better sex appeal. Youth is the peak of female beauty and fertility.
@@rahafalkhaldi1897 Asks “Why would a 50 year old man go for an 18 year old lady?” Then proceeds to listen and understand to the very reasons articulated in this videos, instead defaulting into simplistic thought patterns. Superb. Truly superb.
@@rahafalkhaldi1897 a young women would only get with a 50 year old if he's high value so your point is redundant. Furthermore why would a high value man at the peak of his powers in his 50s want an infertile woman with lots of baggage and who has hit the wall?
If men prefer physically fit women they should know that women prefer physically fit men too
Yes. You would be right to want that
@@Naomysaham That's cool, you better look like Brittany Renner or better sis. If you can't make $100k off your looks alone under the age of 30, then you don't need a man with racks.
@@Naomysaham No sweetheart lol. I'm straight, tryna to figure out what conversation you think Men aren't ready for.
@@Naomysaham Lady, what are you talking about? I have no issue with:
"men prefer young and feminine women [prefer] rich, stable and masculine men."
That's fine. That's how the world works.
You seem deranged.
Lmao you won't find men saying stuff like fat is beautiful. That's cause men already know this. It's women that try to come up with some weird cope to avoid having to confront this reality
Great topic! I'm 43 and blessed to be in the best physical condition of my life. A woman's age really doesn't matter to me if she's in shape, feminine, respectful, and willing to let me lead. I'll cherish her in return. Real men don't want women with masculine characteristics.
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❤️ real man right here
Thank you for sharing!
Good luck getting a 45 year old pregnant if kids are what you want
@@macktheripper7454 good point. However, I've got two great kids already and we talk about rolls in relationships so they don't fall into the negative categories. I'm very active in discussing real world stuff with them. I'm their friend but I'm their father first. My daughter and son are very open with me and value my input on what they're going through. It's a great relationship.
Young ladies in their 20's like me, LISTEN TO OLDER WOMEN. You will be them one day. Period.
Yes, That’s why these men cheat after that “younger woman” gets older.
Ladies if you’re past 25 time already ticking
Yes ma’am we are full of knowledge!
Please listen sweeties.
@@michaelbozinovski9357 no its not. First of all they typically live longer so they have a whole life ahead of them that they can use for literally anything And it’s possible for them to have kids up till 50. Honestly no rush by the time you’re 25
@@michaelbozinovski9357 good advice time is ticking & it flies by very fast!
I don't understand how men could honestly want from women to work and take care of themselves, but also act feminine...if men take care for women, of course they would still be feminine in older age and also they will be fit! Men don't want "worn down women" and heartbroken women, but still want to do whatever they want... what is the solution to all this? Women should bear all the burden of men's desires?! So women should lead in business but follow a man otherwise...in what?! In watching Netflix? Men should be providers, if they require women to be feminine
Exactly, you make some really valid points. I think instead of people worrying about becoming masculine or feminine and doing things that are considered masculine and feminine, we should look at our personal strenghts and weaknesses and look for a partner who balances or compliments those.
That right and when are providers I have the time to stay fit in my 50’s.
@@nailakamana763 Nope that doesn’t work
Most men don’t care how much a woman makes or even if she works so what are u talking about? you decide to work
@@dominicpersaud1155 who gon take care of yo kids when you at work? who gon feed them? who gon feed you? most men cant cook
Generalizing out the ass with this one. There’s 60 year old women in better shape than these 20 year olds. Not every woman is broken down and beaten up by age 35. And not every man is worth following.
That's a fact sis! Smh
Yes !!!!
Looks like we got our cat lady here boys 😺
Exceptions are not the rule.
they are infertile though. women have a biological clock, like it or not. would you want a 50 yo man that can't get hard anymore? that's about the same thing
Do you not understand that every time you have sex with a different person you become one with the individual? So now people are walking around with the attitudes, personalities, and behaviors of all the people they've been with. And we wonder why some are bipolar?
Sex is not just physical, it's spiritual, in which you're giving a piece of yourself away.
True!
This is true. It's not "just sex". Men and women need to guard their spirit.
Well said!
Oh that's why i have 50 personalities within me right now.
People think this is a joke, but its so true... and just sleeping around with just anyone. Your soul becomes one with the person rather you want to believe it or not. When they leave, they take a piece of you with them, AND YOU WITH THEM.
There's a spiritual world out there that people have no clue about.
I'm a mother of 5 live children, two stillborn, and I need to lose weight but still wear size 4 or 6 depending on name brand. I have not been treasured. I'm not a feminist, I feel feminist simple hate men. But I've been cheated on by my husband with 4 different women. My husband is the leader and runs this home. So I don't know if I fully fall for all this! You're right, I don't have the body after having 7 children, as I did at the age of 18. But that doesn't mean my value has dropped! I gave this man 5 children, have stayed loyal to Him, even though I wasn't be treated with the same respect. Are girls right out of high school more fun? Absolutely...They have no responsibility, no children relying on them and keeping them up at night. So no, I don't have hours a day to work on my body figure....I have this house to clean, laundry to do, shopping and cooking to do, helping my children every night with homework. And it's shocking to me that because my focus is on taking care of my family, children, and home, instead of exercises, that I'm no longer wanted! That's sick and heartbreaking!
God blessed you lady, continue being strong
Ma'am hats off to you for being this strong,also just to add on , you are cooperative and fit (size 6 after 7 kids is fit fs) , hafeez is talking about women who aren't fit nor cooperative. So no this video doesn't apply to you.
One thing i think a lot of people don't understand is, regardless of what religion you subscribe to ( _i know the roommates have a big Christian audience_ ) if you believe in evolution and genetics men are biologically suited for multiple partners and women aren't.
Men's role in the past has always been to protect and provide, but a consequence of this job is a higher deathrate. In order for humans to successfully propagate with significantly less men than women men needed to be able to biologically reproduce more often than women. And women shared men that could provide enough resources.
Genetically this is proven by the number of females that have contributed to the gene pool vs. the number of males that have contributed.
Men and women aren't equally yoked sexually, in terms of biology if we are being honest ladies. Not only do men have higher sex drives on average but we literally produces millions of sperm cells a day. When a woman gets pregnant and goes through hormonal changes a man's sex drive stays constant.
Just something to consider when thinking about sexual infidelity on men's part in marriages.
I'm sorry to hear you were cheated on though 😔
@@Mj783980 there you have it...the welfare system.
@@findmysoulgarden914 Natures hard control over men's promiscuity has always been the resources they could provide. If you reproduced too much and can't provide the children and mother died. Welfare has acted as a saftey net to remove this consequence. If nature had its way what would ultimately happen is women would either raise their standard of *character* for men they have unprotected sex with, forcing men to level up in character just to get sex, or women would just suffer the consequence of their poor choice.
I am a 45 year young woman .. and its so true what you speak about!
Woman be happy, work on your body and brain..
Read, have fun, walk nature and smile inside!
I still hear that people think i'm young not because i dont "look" like a 45 year old woman but because my spirit is still smiling..
What ever happends in your life ..
Be a woman!!! Dont be afraid 2 be feminine and show the world you are lady!!
HELLO beautiful Queen How are you. Single man no kids looking for one Seriously
45 years old is old for a woman not young lol grow up
I am a 66-year-old woman and I totally agree with what you said in this video. I didn’t realize how much I was in my masculine energy until five years ago when I got breast cancer. I went to a holistic practitioner and his first question to me was “who has been blocking your femininity?“ That question lead me to take a deep inventory of my choices, attitudes, and behaviors. Feminine energy is more important than women think. I spent years in the military and then in law-enforcement; two highly masculine energy professions. I was able to use my feminine energy in those professions and I did pretty well but somewhere along the line I drifted further into my masculine energy. After my cancer, I started on the journey to recover my feminine energy, find joy in my life again, and appreciate my every moment. This journey has been incredible. I didn’t realize how much I had suppressed my feminine energy until I got cancer. Feminine energy is real, vibrant, and extremely important to women. It’s so easy to get caught up in the masculine energy that presently dominates our world. Of course, the politics of feminism has done nothing to help femininity. Women are trying to be equal to men and they have always been equal to men, only different. It is that difference that makes everything worthwhile. I really enjoyed listening to the video and plan to listen to more of them.
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Who was your holistic practitioner? That was such an amazing question to ask a patient.
@Ark I agree! Unfortunately, it is really difficult for men to understand their role in supporitng their wives and children financially, spiritually for us to be what they need and want. Of course, it is required we do our part as well. We must have our roles to support them support us.
What is femenine energy or to be femenine can someone explain or give examples please🧡
Hi, I am a 31 year old woman who needs to regain my feminine energy. May I ask you what steps did you take to regain your feminine energy?
Most important advice just be yourself. Whoever loves will love you for you.
Totally agree with you Lisa🌺🌺
HELLO beautiful Queen How are you. Single man no kids looking for one Seriously
Hafeez: Men like fit women
Translation: They are hotter
Hafeez: Younger women are feminine
Translation: They aren't mean & stuck up
Hafeez: Younger women are flexible
Translation: They aren't control freaks.
Thank you for sharing
@@TheRoommatesPodcast Keep grinding 💯
🤣😂☠️ feminine they dress like strippers flexible they go with anything to get 💴🍿but who am I to tell u wat to do with your life no one
@@downbad2874 what world are you living in where 30+ women dress modestly??
@@TheRoommatesPodcast no- thank YOU for sharing
Here’s a test question I asked my current girl that elevated her to that position. I ask every girl if your man starts collecting model trains, puts on the little hat, spends time in the basement building his city. Are you o.k with that? 99 percent of the women I asked all said that was weird, I’ll try to make him find another hobby, etc.
My current girl said without a beat. As long as he ain’t collecting hoes he can choo choo at home all he wants, I’ll even buy him the hat and choo choo with him if he allows me to. We been together ever since.
She sounds like a keeper bro, hang onto her!
That's not even weird lol that's a whole hobby. Some people just watch CZcams all day.
I agree with her!
@@sonderexpeditions Hahaha
@Maxx P. Women don’t want that, that’s foolish. But just like men, they want someone who is considered attractive by other women. Both men and women like to have a person on their arm who is coveted bu other people. No guy wants to bring a girl around his friend group and when she leaves all they do is clown him for being with someone like her. That’s the immature and vain perspective, at least.
1. Fitness (3:30)
2. Femininity (6:50)
3. Flexibility (12:20)
I find it amazing that a woman is called an “older woman” after 30 but when referring to a man in his 30s, he is simply called “a man in his 30s”. Difficult women come in their 20s. A difficult woman has likely been like that all her life, traumatized and “damaged” women often get their bad experiences in childhood and teenage years. Women don’t become stones on their 30th birthday.
Exactly
I know rightttt like I get what he's trying to say but i really disagree
BTW I love your profile pic. It is excellent 👌🏾
@@jessicablack6473 Thank you
For real! He’s only talking about easy women.
These videos motivate me to be physically fit and healthy for myself and how important it is :D
How?
That's amazing!!
@@classicairwrecka I wanna know too lol
Couldn't say it any better.
Honestly… you should always wanna feel and look your best for you… but the right man doesnt think rigidly about our weight. I’ve heard so may men including my husband say that as long as their woman is making an effort to be healthy then that’s fine. They don’t care about “oh she’s a size 8 when she used to be a size 4”… because unless your genetics allow for it, you will gain weight. It’s a part of our aging process
They’re cuter. They’re healthier so they’re cuter. They have less emotional baggage so they’re less stressed so they’re cuter. No I haven’t watched the video but y’all are not that complex.
They are naive. Being young doesn’t mean that adolescent is healthier either. Just simply mean their body isn’t showing the signs of their poor dieting.
Also being younger doesn’t mean that girl or boy doesn’t have just as much emotional baggage.
@@bunipeachy5547 my comment still stands
As a younger women who dates older men . they always try and play you . Also maybe men should confider that if a woman is not respecting you maybe you don’t deserve the respect from the lifestyle you live ? These all all superficial and extremely general . The girl said older men want younger woman to control and you just said the same thing . U said men want to mold women like playdough ? The question is men lose attractiveness as the grow older if a man is single in his old age wouldn’t that be his fault ? now that I’m older I find that older man have so much baggage it is insane men also need to respect woman as well . It’s easy to blame the other sex for everything but as a man how are u taking accountability to be a good partner outside of making money .
Word for word!
Well said, I'm 20 years old and don't understand their strange mindset
I only invest my time with younger women. The simple answer is sex. Older women are no longer interested in sex and I do not find them attractive. Younger women will happily exchange sex for resources and they are a lot more fun to be around. Why would I want to be around a 50 year old entitled, boring, overweight woman when I can spend time with a young, fun woman half her age? Why is this so hard to understand?
@@GBU61 I seee . lol good for you !
@@GBU61 I don't know what you consider younger but I am 30 and I am not attracted to older men so I understand you on that. I also love sex when I'm really into the man. So maybe it's just your bad experiences or maybe older to you as women in their 50s.
For the first time ever I a 24 year old girl disagree with you.
I am a lawyer, so if I chase my career and aspire to become a judge, I become masculine because I pursue my career?
If I acquire properties like a car and a house then I become masculine?
Strongly disagree, the real point you are glossing over is that youth is currency and younger women are easier to manipulate.
Most younger women only deal with older men because of their financial status.
Lol. This is the problem. Women think and try to tell men what they want. You don’t have to like it. But it is what it is
You're not a man, do you not realise that attraction is primal??? We are not attracted to the same things. Stop convincing yourselves that we want to manipulate women. There is enough NATURALLY OCCURRING masculinity in our bodies so we want to be complemented by a feminine energy. It's very simple. You can be masculine at work (necessary) but do your best to be feminine around your man.
Yes, it comes with the territory of having an extravagant career. Especially if you're with someone who's not on the same level with you in a career
@@Snapchat-blackwayne100 I never said I won't be feminine around my man, funny thing is I am a girly girl if that makes sense, I would obviously fall back and let him be the man as it was in my household growing up as long as he does not try to belittle me and make me feel irrelevant.
If anything, I am working really hard on myself to heal from traumas and be the best version of myself.
I like this channel a lot because I agree that society these days has lost some core values but these days be honest, if you had a daughter how many modern day men will you allow her get involved with? While advising the women to do better, I feel like this channel never talks about how positive masculinity is declining.
@@brandon2771 Like what you like, I really don't care. Do what you want, your life your choices.
A lot of older men don’t have it together financially and they tend to complain a lot. Not all but most. Women their age are often better off financially and happy with their lives. All that talk about women hitting the wall, men forget with age they develop “turkey neck”, gray hair, loose their hair and look silly chasing 20 year olds
Cope.
@@sweetpea6230 you wanna try being a man in his 20s being hit on by a woman in their 40s and 50s 🤮
😆😂😂
@@sweetpea6230 never a good thing to make generalizations based on anecdotal evidence.
Yea a convo between us 20 year old girls we think older guys are so sad for chasing girls in their 20's with their wrinkly dick thinking they have a chance over the young hot guys. They look really bad because they cant even get a woman at their own age. We also know their only motivated to peruse girls on their 20's because of our looks.
Femininity will always be the most attractive trait in woman
Facts!! ✌🏾
"Moldable" is not the word you want to use. "Moldable" is giving manipulation and predation.
Yes. It's literally manipulation.
Let them keep telling on themselves
I think he just meant trying to help mature them nothing negative I’m assuming
Moldable is a very creepy term to use and screams toxic relationship.
@Chukwudi Otuyahe was pretty clear with his point. He wants moladable young women like playdough
To OLDER WOMEN , don't be disheartened .. here is what you can do. It's true as we get old life becomes hard and it becomes tough to take care of ourselves. But the least you can do is respect other men who genuinely seem to care about you and don't make you uncomfortable. Also if a man likes and cares for you, make an effort to understand him. Try staying fit atleast for yourself, because being fit also means good health. :)
To OLDER GUYS , if you don't look so great..it's okay.. but try taking out time for yourself to be more healthy. And respect the woman who is putting an effort for you.
I promise you no older women are disheartened listening to this guy. Lol.
I am 47 and I work for Walmart and customer service has aged me. Along with other things. I'm still feminine. I'm even in a relationship. And I am also overweight (working on it). I was 116 lbs when I got married to my ex husband in 94...after our divorce I gained 60 lbs. I'm also unattractive to some people's views.
If I didn't have man today I'd likely die alone because I don't want to be hurt again. The man I'm with now is wonderful.
Why would they be disheartened? They know old men can desire young women as much as they want but the data doesn't lie, young women stick to their age. Unless a guy is a millionaire the chance of getting a young woman is slim.
@@sonderexpeditions a confident non millionaire old guy can get young beautiful girls 👍
@@is2275 🧐🤧🧢
“An older woman in her late 30’s” lol
I laughed at that too!!
IKR
Exactly what the heck does that mean !!!
My Mother always taught me not to date a guy who is any more than 3 to 4 years older and I followed her advice. When I was in college several 30 year old men would ask me out, but I never accepted. I never wanted to be a lot younger than my husband. I nver seemed right and a lot of guys date younger women to control them. They want a parent-child relationship. My husband jis a few years older and we married after age 40. No regrets.
Looks like you missed out on many opportunities due to bad advice and ended up marrying in your 40s when your sexual market value had plummeted instead of 20s or early 30s when your SMV is the highest. I’m sorry you were taught this way and this goes against what this video is about.
@@3500camarz the woman is obviously happy with her life and has no regrets not everything in life is about sExUal mArkeT VaLuE also she probably dodged a bullet when she avoided those older creepy men
@@sleepystuff1516 There lies the problem you quickly judging the men as creepy even though you haven’t even seen them or know anything about them. And the original poster saying that men date younger women to control them. You’ll obviously didn’t watch the video.
@@3500camarz because that's the kind of world we live in , older men hitting on girls who are 10 years younger and more is creepy . not saying all of them are but a good majority is
@@3500camarz also saying men date women because they are fLexAble is the same as saying they’re easier to control therefore the original comment is right
I think it's very sad how society disregards a woman aging, so sad. My advice to women, even if I'm 20 is lean on God not earthly men, I learnt from my mother to not put too much thought into marriage because you can be desperate and settle for any type of man and then really become a woman with many issues centered around a man. I'd say decenter the idea of Marriage for a while, don't sleep around yes, but decenter the idea of being married for a while your whole purpose shouldnt be about a man otherwise you Wil believe that once you turn 30 you are no more valuable that's so foul.
It’s not the standard. Its just how these kind of men view women. Plus a lot of people marry in their twenties so what he’s talking about really doesn’t apply to everyday people
No the lesson here is don’t waste your time while your value is at its peak. God don’t pay bills and raise children you. Single parent homes are why children are growing up so messed up. We need to learn how to be families again not independent from each other
@@dallasowens5277 men need to stop devaluing women for aging
@@charminglove8594 exactly
@@charminglove8594 Your sense of how valuable you are shouldn't really depend on anyone else
I am actually fitter now than I was in my 20s, I am 35. The last time I was this fit and small was when I was 15.
You don't have to get bigger because of your age especially in your 30s.
You are an outlier, not the norm
Well then you are an exception. Congratulations. But that does not change the fact that you are reaching the end of your fertility. And with each passing year it will be difficult to conceive and even if you do, the chances to complications increase exponentially. For me I never consider women above 30-32 for this sole reason. I want a wife and children. I want a traditional family and have worked very very hard to become one of the top 5% earners. And also become the kind of man that everyone on my circle can trust and lean on.
@@anandmehta2323 you’re doing way too much 😂. Relax
@@JamalW239 there seems to be a lot of outliers then😂😂😂
@@anandmehta2323 maybe she don’t want kids shut up
It’s most important for those men who want children (35 is kinda the cut off for that). Otherwise the maturity of an older woman can be attractive if she takes good care of herself. It’s really a case by case basis. Some women age a lot better than others but the kids factor is universal.
While women’s fertility decreases after 30, many women get pregnant in their early 40s! Don’t be disheartened if you like a gal and she’s 38. You may want to get married sooner than later but there’s hope!
@@moodsofkiwi9285 it’s possible for sure but it’s a lot more difficult and opens up chances of the baby having genetic issues like Down’s syndrome etc. I wouldn’t want to start trying to get pregnant at 40… (more like 30-35 max) Sure it’s possible in some women but other they may have exhausted all their eggs by then. I’m not for in vitro or test tube kids either (very expensive and against my religion). If I married a woman near 30 and we were trying (it can take a few years..never know) then yea I’d be willing to try up until the end of her fertility. That’s not the same as starting at 35+. I want kids though. This all goes out the window for guys that don’t.
@@charliedallachie3539 yea I get that perspective
@@charliedallachie3539 Bro.. *NEVER MARRY a Feminist!* 👩
If she happens to be the only type of girl to date available at the ⌚ time_ cool Ok, kick it with her a bit. But, Do Not Marry Her! (We've gotta be careful, don't knock-up a Chick you know that you ain't gonna be with?) Stay on point, keep on your mission!
Guys.. We've gotta "collectively" drop these "femfatales" like 🔥 hot 🍳 skillets! When they 👀 see their more feminine 💃 counterparts move on to more fulfilling, harmonious relationships, and_ that they're not being chosen in mass perhaps, they'll finally get the message? Or, they can just stay right where they are, kicked to the curb & left in the dust, with their feminist attitudes and all... ✌😎
@@charliedallachie3539 The one thing I'd like to address is the QUESTION Often posed by Feminist concerning boys being taught to be more "effeminate" & domestic like the way girls today "Should oughta Be" taught? None of which the majority of girls aren't being taught any of this anymore?!
Sure.. Boys are being taught to cook and have domestic skills, because with women's lousy attitudes today they'll be totally screwed in their homes if they don't? The biggest problem for young men nowadays is that that many of them aren't encouraged by today's cultural norms of society nor their parents have given them the Skills, Knowledge nor the Drive to truly & properly grow into "Manhood" these days? But, Lots of Chicks think it's more important for the main 🔎 focus on boys nowadays, is to learn how to cook 🍳 and change dippers? WTF, seriously??!
How in the Hell do you expect these boys to grow into becoming the responsible, strong, 💪 protectors & providers that "you women" and society expect them to be_ then, you often criticize them for not being!! Damn!! (Misandrynistic) Name calling, which many women will do when you confront them with truth, don't mean 👎 nothing to me... But, this sh!t right here is actually making me 😠 mad for real?!!
The whole backward focus 🔎 nowadays is on just telling young girls about typically masculine skills & traits (while they may 👗 dress & look feminine, they're full of masculine energy) which in the end as they get older "Modern Women" simply begin looking for the same things in their potential future Husband's that a "Man" would normally be searching for in their WIVES???😳 WTF...You Can't Make this Sh!t Up?! ☝ Ga-Damn !!...
The problem is that there is no training, prepping or counselling young men and women how to be and what to do in a healthy evolving relationship.
Ppl are deluded about the expectations for themselves and their prospective partner.
The one thing I'd like to address is the QUESTION Often posed by Feminist concerning boys being taught to be more effeminate & "domestic" like the way girls today "Should oughta Be" taught? None of which the majority of girls aren't being taught any of this anymore?!
Sure.. Boys are being taught to cook and have domestic skills, because with women's lousy attitudes today they'll be totally screwed in their homes if they don't? The biggest problem for young men nowadays is that that many of them aren't encouraged by today's cultural norms of society nor their parents have given them the Skills, Knowledge nor the Drive to truly & properly grow into "Manhood" these days? But, Lots of Chicks think it's more important for the main 🔎 focus on boys nowadays, is to learn how to cook 🍳 and change dippers? WTF, seriously??!
How in the Hell do you expect these boys to grow into becoming the responsible, strong, 💪 protectors & providers that "you women" and society expect them to be_ then, you often criticize them for not being!! Damn!! (Misandrynistic) Name calling, which many women often do when you confront them with truth, don't mean 👎 nothing to me... But, this sh!t right here is actually making me 😠 mad for real?!!
The whole backward focus 🔎 nowadays is on just telling young girls about typically masculine skills & traits (while they may 👗 dress & look feminine, they're full of masculine energy) which in the end as they get older "Modern Women" simply begin looking for the same things in their potential future Husband's that a "Man" would normally be searching for in their WIVES???😳 WTF...You Can't Make this Sh!t Up?! ☝ Ga-Damn !!...
Fellas.. *NEVER MARRY A FEMINIST!* 👩
If she happens to be the only type of girl to date available at the ⌚ time_ cool Ok, kick it with her a bit. But, Do Not Marry Her! (We've gotta be careful, don't knock-up a Chick you know that you ain't gonna be with?) Stay on point, keep on your mission!
Guys.. We've gotta "collectively" drop these "femfatales" like 🔥 hot 🍳 skillets! When they 👀 see their more feminine 💃 counterparts move on to more fulfilling, harmonious relationships, and_ that they're not being chosen in mass perhaps, they'll finally get the message? Or, they can just stay right where they are, kicked to the curb & left in the dust, with their feminist attitudes and all... ✌😎
@@vickmurray5751 where im from, feminists marry feminists. A lot of men are feminists too.
EVEN IF WE TAUGHT YALL THE RIGHT WAY.....
dafuq makes you think people will just CHOOSE it????????????????????????? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Usually Men who prefer younger Women are "Insecure". They need to feel Superior. Younger Women are in AWE with everything they say. They have no experience so he feels Strong and smart by helping her. Where as a Woman his same age is as smart or smarter. He doesn't feel superior.
Typical shaming language trying to imply men are insecure for wanting more attractive women. This is usually a coping mechanism from older women. It’s biology. Men are subconsciously attached to the healthiest and most fertile women. Father Time waits for no one
Never mentioned the word "Beautiful" Younger. They want Younger but she makes them feel Important.
Men let themselves get out of shape just as much as women, maybe even more so. I see lots of dough boy men with fit women.
@Adam A. mmk. Have fun with that.
@Adam A. I deleted my comments because I just realized that you and probably other men are unaware of certain things about how women think & I’m not trying to mess up anyone’s bag. Anyway, good day.
OK, so then I don't wanna hear ANYONE f**king complain 😂
@Adam A. I was going to say this exact things
@Adam A. money can also vanish....somehow a younger woman would beae this in mind. Why should she go for an older man who a) can lose the money b) if he is older than 50 probably has children heading for adulthood which means lawsuits for her should he die c) does not have the best quality sperm when compared to a young man d) will , especially if from the black community, not live to see his childs 20th birthday
Men prefer younger women but younger women are also in it for the long haul. You can't win a race with a team member who is already 100km away from you
We forget when we advance these arguments that procreation is a balancing act, the need for resources and security as well as quality genes for the offspring
This makes a lot of sense. 🤔
Thank you for this! 💕
This is a hard truth that even when difficult to hear has very valid and valuable points, thanks for the content
The funny thing is in Africa, a younger woman can be bedded by an older man but she can never dethrone the wife 9 times out of 10. So youth has a currency yes albeit a short lived and weak one
HELLO beautiful Queen How are you
I think I just heard a bunch of justifications for being a creep.
@Ark yes, dating younger women IS creepy. Also, you're making a hell of a lot of false assumptions, lol.
@Ark what does a 35+ year old man have in common with 18-25 year old women? What do you think attracts older men to younger women? It's all about the physical appearance of the younger body and the fact that young women are more easily manipulated and controlled. Once those young women get a little older and smarter, they usually end up cheating or leaving the relationship with an older man.
To be fair, older women who date younger men are just as creepy. Are there exceptions? Of course. There are exceptions to everything in life but most relationships between younger and older people don't work out. The younger person usually grows out of the relationship.
@@Sara-gl8ue Totally agree. However I let people do want they want because it's their actions and their consequences to deal with
I wouldn’t say it’s creepy. But it does strike me as kind of selfish
@@ellen8961 very true! Life is all about learning lessons. Sometimes the large age difference does work out.
I love love this. There is so much content on how to have healthy and happier relationships it’s uplifting. Quality Content put out by men are blessings like this video. 👍🏼 I’m 41
This was a wonderful message. Great job.
I agree with Hafeez especially the first one. But let's keep it real the long explanation of 2 and 3 is pretty much what the chick asking the question said, only less bitter and more nausea. Men prefer younger women because they are more open, which comes from not fully knowing yourself and not yet being matured by normal life experiences of working, relationships (including drama from family and friends), things that happened in the world around you. All these things age everyone and it unavoidable.
Which is why this can be a trigger for older women because it's feels like we are being punished for just living. It's also why men that prefer younger women find themselves in this cycle of having to find another younger women as the current one ages out of "still open and not matured by life experiences" range. It's why a lot of men that marry and settle down with women in their late teens or early 20's find themselves being served divorce papers at the 8-15-years mark (if not sooner), because these women find themselves and realize that don't actually share the same views or want the same things she did when she first met these men. Because again, people change and grow and learn themselves over time.
I get the pull of younger women, so to each their own. But, there are a lot of older women out there that have been matured by life, but it hasn't made her bitter, mean, or jaded. It's just made her more aware, better at making life choices, and better able to handle the things life can throw at you. Plus, I've been around young people, they bring their own set of drama and want so much without working for anything. I think there some calmness that comes with being with more seasoned people.
Nicely put, yes.... I agree, I still do like the young, sexy, hot and fun, but lately the new “every woman is an Instagram model” fad where all the young women are lazy AF and just want to be treated to everything is getting ridiculous, point goes to more mature women (early 30s?) who usually have some sense of responsibility and at least can feed themselves... Times are changing, z gens are just not worth the squeeze.
Well said and before long these same men end up in a nursing home somewhere or end up wanting to marry the same women that they didn't want to give the time of day in the first place..nope not performing any nursing duties over here sir
This isn't true. Closing off in response to life drama is a choice. A common theme is women HATING accountability. All the instances you gave could come down to a women improving HER vetting process for friends, relationships etc. But you rather blame men then close off and become nasty.
@@Snapchat-blackwayne100, Closing off and being hateful is a choice. Having direction, goals, realizing you have to say "no" to things, being more cautious, and not taking everyone you meet at face value or trusting, comings with just dealing with people.
Realizing people are flawed, not all can be trusted or just that people want different things; so now you ask more questions, you make sure people are who they say or acting showing you, you can trust them in time (hoops). Isn't being closed off, it's being aware. Something our parents teach us.
When we are young we believe are parents are superheroes in fact physiologist will say we as children need this very belief because until they show us otherwise we have to trust them. But over time as we get older learn we soften to the reality that our parents are flawed, make mistakes, don't know everything. Now, that can be good or bad, but it's inevitable and it does change you and how you deal with other people.
No one is blaming men for this, I am disappointed that men will choose not to date me because I don't just trust them or because of my responsibilities that living a productive life or having goals, means I'm less inclined to say, yes or be open to everything he suggest. If you met a 23-year old woman that wants to be doctor and is working towards that goal, she too would be less inclined to be open, because she has her own goals.
Some women do blame men because they got hurt in the past, and treat men harsh now. But some men get annoyed or hurt by these women and now don't want to deal with them, both sides do it. Because life experiences change us.
@@kishahelena5312 Agreed
Yeah, a lot of expectations are put on women - we have to be successful, take care of a family, make money, and look sexy doing it!
Shout out to all the women out there who are doing the best they can for their family and putting their kids needs before their own.
Men have never said that a women has to make money or be successful to be desirable. You have nowhere near the expectations that men have. We have a burden of performance
No accomplished man cares about his womans fancy educational degrees (as long as she is reasonably educated), her career, her designation and her salary. Thats a lie that you women have been sold and you have bought it. Any accomplished man will bring home the bacon. He wants a wife and a mother. Not another masculine, corporate competitive colleague to shack up with.
Yesss, another sensible person in the comments. Props to you!!
@@anandmehta2323 You don't get to decide that though. I believe every woman in the world should be self dependent. Every woman. In corporate culture or whatever. Many woman suffer through poverty and go through hell by making the mistake of relying on their husbands. You're an Indian, you should know that better than anyone. And woman need intellectual stimulation and their own social circle too other than their families. It's absolutely cruel to expect that your wife should forsake all other social ties just to serve your family where both of you should have been equal participants.
Women don't have to be successful to men. That's a feminist narrative... that's women misleading women for the sake of women empowerment
Feez this video was VERY tasteful. Great job with the delivery!!! I appreciate that. I must agree with everything said. I’m going on 27 now and at 21-22 1/2 I was BARELY 120 lbs. Currently I’m 150 lbs, and that’s AFTER weight loss. It’s hard but still putting in the work! ✨💪🏽 I’m learning, tapping into, and maintaining my femininity and learning womanly skills NOW before I get too old. The goal is once I’m in my 30’s and beyond, I’ll be the exception to the rule. I’ll be that fit, feminine, flexible 40 year old woman men have never seen before, married or not. That’s the goal.😉
I love this channel. I think it great both men and women. You guys know how to explain ideas without degrading people
All I will say abt this video is the Mis-education of Manhood and Womanhood. Let's properly educate ourselves on what manhood is and what womanhood is.
Good topic.. However, because women were those things when they were younger and didn't have boundaries, they end up getting hurt! They trusted way too much, so now they are yes, "Not as Flexible"!
That's fair. They get that way due to life and experiences.
Couldn't agree more!
Exactly and they aren’t well verse or experienced in relationships, sex, life, and then men can’t stand to be around them bc of those lacking areas. Dating has become a whole new most we in today’s modern age.
Didn't they just get hurt because they gave their trust to a low character man?
Hafeez isn't saying young women should trust any and everyone that's not what being feminine means
@@Mj783980 I agree
As a 29 year old married woman with children, I am learning so much from these videos. I'm learning both what I am doing right as a woman and as a good partner and what I can improve on to better my relationship. What I'm currently working on is how to communicate with my husband without coming off as demeaning or nagging.
That is absolutely wonderful. You go girl.
Couldn't say it any better. Everyone should listen without prejudice and learn a thing or two about every particular video. Some people are hurt by the truth but you seem to be open minded to learning and taking constructive criticism.
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@@Natur3girl HELLO beautiful Queen How are you. Single man no kids looking for one Seriously
I think it would serve you better to talk to your husband directly as he’s the one you’re in a relationship with
Good stuff Hafeez, very well said
Why does all the blame seem to fall on women? A lot of the things that turn men off about women have been adverse reactions to what some man/men did to women throughout their lives. If men operated fully in their roles as men women would not need to be in their masculine to provide for their households.
At least Mr Cog understands
This is bullshit. They call men who be in their masculine role toxic masculinity and try to get them canceled. The media, court systems, law enforcement allowed women and told them it is okay to be masculine. Women don't want men to lead. They want men to be their slaves while they continue bad behavior and disrespect men. So stop the cap.
@@robertchambers369 Masculinity and toxic masculinity are two different things.
@@LoveAndSnapple your right, but this thing progresses quickly. When the phrase “toxic masculinity” first came out, there was a clear distinction. Not anymore. We’re heading towards where all things masculine are toxic.
I didn’t know women in their 30’s were old 🙄
Wait until they realize the only women interested in them in their 30s are women in their 30s.
@@sonderexpeditions nope! LOL
@@nelsongonzalez4062 How much money do you make? And if you’re 30, sure you can averagely get 25+
@@pinkqueenscookie im 29 but I can get with 20-24 year olds no problem without flexing money at all, 30+ men can get with early 20 women no problem. Yall value us diferent.
@@pinkqueenscookie women live live on easy mode up until 30 after that it becomes different and harder. The sooner you find your man the better.
Before getting defensive, these are general guidelines. Of course men want a fitter, younger, more feminine woman. Don't women want a fitter, younger, more masculine man? Duh. If you want to improve, take heed. Women may not be able to get younger, but a change of attitude and being positive makes a world of difference.
No. They want mature, masculine, financially stable men which in most cases doesn’t equate to a younger man. But go off sis…
The issue is older women are just too difficult, dates feel like job interviews and they loose feminity and girly vibes.theres no fun or life on them
Women want younger men? Since when?
I don’t want a younger man
Not necessarily. Men are more visual. I once went to a concert at a casino and I saw two people in their early 20s, a very attractive woman and a very swab only looking overweight guy. But you don’t see the opposite as often
Can you do a video about virginal women? Women that would like to save themselves for one man in marriage. How does a virginal woman in her 20s get a high value man to marry her in a country (USA) where chastity in women is no longer a) respected by marriage minded men b) something men don’t want to deal with.
Please and thank you!
Find a man with your same values on the value of sex being reserved for one man only. He will love that you have shown self-control, discipline, modesty, and have respect for your future husband! Most of the men in my life want a woman who hasn’t slept with other/many men
Edit: and I’m in the US as a married woman. My husband and I were both virgins when we married
Make sure he is a virgin too.
Good luck
@@sonderexpeditions but not many men are virgins these days because due to the hyper sexualzed society.
@@thatimokoena8357 wrong, look up the stats on male virginity. Finding one really shouldn't be that difficult
I am so grateful to be finding this content as a 23 year old woman instead of when it’s too late. Thank you for giving us women the hard truths that society tries to hide 🙏
Society does not try to hide it. Women don't like to hear it when men say it. Good to see you hearing it now rather than later.
Based on yt, please do not feel under pressure to date older men though unless you want to.
@@Wonderwoman79G ya'll women need to feel SOME pressure tho 😂
@@RodneyKimbangu and what men don’t want to hear is women do eventually harden with age no matter what you teach them now.
ITs a known conversations between girls in their 20"s about our taught on older men than 30 trying get in with young girls are considered creapy and sad and probably socially retarted cause they cant manage to get a women at their age.
So essentially what the older woman said is accurate. This is why back in the day Father's used to vet the men who were interested in their daughters because they needed to verify the man's ability to lead, provide & have integrity. But now you're saying that women (older) who vet men for their abilities is an issue...interesting. The irony is that the reason why older women vet men more vigilantly or appear to be 'inflexible ' is primarily because of her past experiences with men... when she was more feminine and flexible 😂....so the whole reason she became more closed off/guarded is because of men. So now that she's more aware of man's nature she is less desirable😂 and the men want fresh, younger more vulnerable women to bend (flex) & possibly break. I totally get it. I agree with the part about fitness definitely. But the rest of it when you break it down leads right back to what the older woman said originally....no matter how much fluff is currently being added to try to logically explain it. Luckily I still maintain my joyful nature & zest for life...I haven't allowed anyone to suck the life out of me and I earn an income doing feminine activities. ...and I'm fit.
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So now that she’s more aware of men’s nature she is less desirable
If your picker is working right, you won't need to be all competitive with a potential mate. And, If you can answer the question why you can't be judge and jury, you will have your answer.
You said it all! The older women, my girl is 100% right.
Bruh literally no accountability and you just made up ur own story in ur mind,
@@dialogical513 what story? Are we on the same page here?
I like how Hafeez speaks for the general. I just know there are opposites and work out very well. If a woman is masculine then she will take the lead and a man will follow her. It may not be often seen but hey🤷🏾♀️it's really out there. And there's nothing wrong with that. Some women are born masculine. They should accept a man to follow her or tolerate a more masculine man. Choice is all yours girls😉
Interesting video. I have came across a lot of stories of older man who are or were in age gap relationships with younger women, albiet most of these said relationships didn't usually last. It also surprised me, when i started using the Tagged website to find a partner during my early 20s that there were middle aged men leaving flirty comments to girls in their 20s and late teens
Masculinity is a necessity! I LOVE masculinity in a man , and I will not engage with a man that is weak and passive.
You don't eat fruits before you plant a tree. You plant the tree first. Meaning, you'll find such a man when you focus on being feminine first.
That man you are talking about have options and you know the rest what these kind men are going to choose.
@@ainkeyour not even worth it
@@puresoul1389 same to you. That’s why we going our own way.
@@ainke it's ok...i have blenty of my type...they all want my attention...so there is no need for somone like you...the men i know are real men with dignity
My mother taught me: men harden with age, if he is difficult now he will become more difficult later. I feel like what you say is exactly the same. I HAVE hardened with age and not even noticed it, and I am in my mid 20s
The Plato example the Plato example is GOLD. Thank you for this❤
I’m not against anyone’s view I like asking questions and getting a deeper understanding as to why u think things and have u taking this into account
It’s just nasty af when older men talk about younger ladies, like seriously you really can’t handle a woman you’re age. Simple narrative nah bro, it’s what it is. Ain’t no legitimate reason it’s to a point that it’s an excuse. I don’t care what you’re “reason” is it’s sick af.
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@Ark the young women you literally described end up being those older women who “realize” when they get older…. Don’t nobody wanna marry a young piece of ass who everyone is after LOL, CUTE though
Agree. What does a 40 yr old man has in common with a 20 yr old woman? Absolutely nothing. Its creepy af
Booo, how much younger we talking now? Bc I get dating a younger woman. But after a certain age it is weird
It's disgusting. Creepy. I think it's mostly unclean men that are shallow like this.
I was a completely different person at 20 yrs old. I'm 30 now and I am so much more wiser, smarter, emotionally intelligent, fitter and I really am more secure in who I am. I can't imagine being in a healthy relationship and knowing who I am in my 20s. Men are visual, sure...but most men who are looking for commitment..aren't looking for the most attractive female in the room. Its whoever he finds attractive (aka not repulsed by her)..and values her mind and heart. Anything otherwise..the man is not seriously looking for a committed relationship.
Same... I'm 30 too now and I'm so happy I didn't settle down in my 20s I was too naive, didn't love nor respected myself enough...
We are so much wiser in our 30s
Loving the pepay soup! (Sorry can't spell it 🤣). This is so true. I want a fit, healthy, masculine and stable man. So I too should be that! Just survived pneumonia and working to rebuild my fitness and lung capacity! 💪 I am doing this for me, spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally and financially. I am leveling up in my femininity for me and I emplore men to level up for themselves too 😁 Lets do this guys! No more excuses!
The tone on this was really good “they don’t have time to be fit” 💀💀💀
More like women make "better and more clever" excuses the older they get. The ratio of men over 30 vs women over 30 in the gym is astounding.
You don’t need time to be fit when you started with fitness at 13, and now you’re 42 and in better shape than most 20 yr olds because you put in the work over the years. Woohoo!
If this mattered so much then why are most mens wives not physically fit either? It seems to me that what what men SAY they want and what they can actually afford are two completely different things? Ive also realised that the women men marry arent hot or very young. Why is that?
Hafeez is going to to be writing a lot of “Thank you for sharing” replies in this comment section. Lol
😂 he’s hit me with that a couple times. At least he says something
Thank you for sharing
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Sooo personable to those who support 😂😂
Sorry about the general responses. We are actively working to be better and give you guys more depth and personable responses. You guys mean the world to us and we want you to feel valued and appreciated.
Hafeez talks way too much about relationships for an unhappy, single man
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Aht aht aht there is no need for this 😂😂😂😂😂
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Great Video
Great topic!
I love how you are giving the sisters clarity on why they have a lot of masculinity because of the careers have changed them and they don't know how to be femininity for a man. it affected the older women as they developed these habits its not completely their fault but they must be self aware.
In my point of view HYPERGAMY Possibly May Not Always Be For Purely Selfish Reasons On a Woman's Part? (Whether they are older or not) It is mostly natural, and from an evolutionary standpoint, it has in practice, been going on for thousands of years!
It's a part of the normal dynamics between men & women_ this thing with women dating/marrying social-economically "across & up" and men typically will date/marry "across & down", it's nothing new, this is not a modern-day phenomenon? The problem comes in when today's "modern women" expect from men the obligations of chivalrous traditional treatment. (Still may often get anyway?) But, most women refuse to offer anything in the way of reciprocating on their part in traditional responsibility?
What is new_ which is flipping & fu€king up the whole 🍎 apple-cart is the deleterious and chaotic effects that political correctness, Popular-Culture and the dogma of Feminist indoctrination is having on the natural dynamics of male & female relationships and the stability of family structure.
Generations of young women & young men are confused as all hell, and many of them (us) don't even know it..?! At some point some sensible people, which I optimistically would like to believe are in the majority number, they've got to stand on the truth_ and remind everyone that The Sky is Actually Blue and_ that Water Really is Wet..!!
Fellas.. *NEVER MARRY A FEMINIST!* 👩
If she happens to be the only type of girl to date available at the ⌚ time_ cool Ok, kick it with her a bit. But, Do Not Marry Her! (We've gotta be careful, don't knock-up a Chick you know that you ain't gonna be with?) Stay on point, keep on your mission!
Guys.. We've gotta "collectively" drop these "femfatales" like 🔥 hot 🍳 skillets! When they 👀 see their more feminine 💃 counterparts move on to more fulfilling, harmonious relationships, and_ that they're not being chosen in mass perhaps, they'll finally get the message? Or, they can just stay right where they are, kicked to the curb & left in the dust, with their feminist attitudes and all... ✌😎
This applies to men as well. So many men who don’t have their finances together and don’t know how to be in their masculine energy.
Hi ho Silver!!! Lone Ranger for life right here…learned my got damn lesson….
Fantastic description
I really like this new thumbnail design It's really eye-catching
These were all generalisations. As idealistic as one may be, the world is not so black n white. Full of nuances and caveats. That's the reality.
I guess you weren't listening to what he was saying. Because of that, you have proven that you fit in the majority of those generalizations that he talks about. He said "not all" ffs.
@@michaelbrown5768 and that's YOUR problem. Trying to put everything man, woman, child in a box. Box yourself but don't put me in one. i don't live by shallow societal values.
@@CeeceeH1819 you put yourself in that box by not listening to what he said.
@@michaelbrown5768 i listened to everything he said n said what i said. Now go and figure out what make believe box u belong to, ciao.
The world is built on generalities. If you were teaching children about human anatomy, you would say humans have 2 hands. Does that mean every person has 2 hands? No. If you want good outcomes you should think about probability over possibility
Also the years scars one. We become more cynical and tired. I wish I was in my 20s again. I was prettier. But I was awkward as flip! Those were the wasted years. And here I am at 37. With a wall ahead.
Change your outlook then. You shouldn't call it "a wall" It's just life and it's different stages.....37 isn't even old like that anyway.
@Kakarot I was a dork in my 20s. I want the knowledge and confidence of my 30s and redo my 20s. Life would be so different 😞 much regrets haunting.
You may have felt prettier in your 20's but your still beautiful today. Remember true beauty resides within, your physical appearance will change and fade over the years as you age but the true beauty that is within you will never leave you!
@Kakarot sometimes the idea of an arranged marriage isn't such a bad thing. I wish I was Indian in that case lol.... I am a Hazzard to myself.
@@shannon5948 yeah with each day I wake up in a cold sweat knowing I messed up in life. But I will figure it out some how I suppose. I think it's this dying alone part I'm scared of.
This was a very clear explanation.
Thank you for posting this video Hafeez. I now feel hopeful again. I have always been extremely feminine and flexible. I have always desired and respected a dominant masculine man who takes charge. I am currently working on getting my perfect hourglass figure back. I feel hopeful and grateful for your video.
Flexibility aka growth mindset is important. Women, men are leveling up it's now your turn to level up as well. If you are not willing to grow emotionally, spiritually, mentally,...then there is the door 🚪. Also, men want peace 🕊️. If you cannot be his peace, he'll leave you and say "peace". No man wants to come home from work and have a nuclear arms race with his woman. So be better, not bitter.
Adios!
Of course men want peace, but women need to have peace to be able to give it and if they're working long hours, raising a family, doing the bulk of the domestic work......well they'll be too tired to be peaceful.
I hope you can afford her resting in her femininity to be able to give you the peace you so desire.
Younger women are feminine 😆😆😆😆😆laughs in tomboyishness. Not all younger women fit the profile of being fit, feminine etc. Some younger women automatically need more resources and therefore will need to work. I really dislike these overgeneralizations. Another thing is "younger" women can be worn down just as much as "older" women with factors such as mental health etc. I have to disagree with some of these sentiments
Preach my brother!
Brilliant simplicity!!!
HAFEEZ there is a slight mistake here. As a fellow observer, I have noticed some younger men are attracted to older women. Not too old but women in their 30's and 40's. The reason behind this maybe these young men much like young girls are a bit immature , willing to take on risks without acknowledging the challenges. Or, they have a kink towards older women. It's mostly these two reasons.
But most older women won't settle for this younger men because they usually consider these young men immature and they are not financially stable yet.
There are always exceptions to the rule and not all women have the same preferences. I like younger men and there are many other women who would also prefer to date a young man despite his socioeconomic status.
Usually those other women use you as their play toy that's it
what you must consider in these exceptional cases is that being attracted to women does not equate the desire for a serious relationship. Even the most desperate of young men would question whether or not they'd risk achieving a family with someone a decade or two older than themselves(it is the example I'm willing to provide since it shows the difference in an obvious way, but still generally applicable for a man in his early 30s looking to a woman in her 40s.). I can validate that I still do find women in their 40s quite attractive, but they must meet the attraction floor(and really, any woman who takes care of themselves can surpass this quite easily). But this is the part of the hindbrain that says" I want to tap that" as opposed to "damn, I want to tap that and I want her to be the mother of my children".
No it's because cougars are easy to bag. Not because young men truly want and desire them unless they're Simps.
@@lonewolfalpha4249 right bro. When i was 18, i had a 26 yr old girlfriend. S was great. Felt like i was used as a toy lol
Hafeez contradicted himself a bit 🤣 he inadvertently said what older women say. Younger women are easier for older men to “deal” with. AKA manipulate. Like play dough.
@Chukwudi Otuya I think he meant what he said.
“ Women prefer wealthy , confident, secure , good looking men for these 3 reasons “ should be the next video. 🤩
You're far too obsessed with men levelling up. Revel in your failed feminism 😂
@Narendra Modi they defo don't love Modi then. Short, fat and balding 😂
@@HariSingh96K awwww , you’re angry. I’m a conservative and I love rich successful tall
Good looking men of character. You mad? Yes, you are!! Don’t be jelous of the men women want! Don’t envy. 😀
@@gabrielamartiniuc6322 cool story
Lol I was looking for this comment right here! While I did find my tall, dark, handsome, confident dude who can support himself (bc this girls got her own finances sorted😉) I agree with your next choice of video! 🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😆
Aging does not necessarily mean that women lose their femininity. Most men do not prefer women with big egos.
It's crazy, I'm 25 but I prefer older women.
It's okay to like what you like
Same here brotha👌
:)💗
Right now you just might have a thang for older woman but trust me as you get older you will prefer younger women
Keep living bro lol
Women dislike any advantage men have, but hate to admit they have some too
Of course we do, no one wants to date and marry a broke man when they aren’t a teenager.
Fellas.. *NEVER MARRY A FEMINIST!* 👩
If she happens to be the only type of girl to date available at the ⌚ time_ cool Ok, kick it with her a bit. But, Do Not Marry Her! (We've gotta be careful, don't knock-up a Chick you know that you ain't gonna be with?) Stay on point, keep on your mission!
Guys.. We've gotta "collectively" drop these "femfatales" like 🔥 hot 🍳 skillets! When they 👀 see their more feminine 💃 counterparts move on to more fulfilling, harmonious relationships, and_ that they're not being chosen in mass perhaps, they'll finally get the message? Or, they can just stay right where they are, kicked to the curb & left in the dust, with their feminist attitudes and all...✌😎
@@pinkqueenscookie *Woohoo! ✋ Hold on a minute?* What far too many young women today do is what all "feminist" usually do_ Completely conflating, or deflecting the issue and distorting the facts to fit their narrow belief and feminist ideology!
Unfortunately nowadays, neither young girls or boys are rarely taught the etiquette of being a Lady or being a Gentleman anymore? What little they do learn is taught haphazardly by (mainly single-moms) a generation of parents who haven't properly learned this themselves, or from the garbage of (feminist) mass-media 📺 TV & 🎥 Movie propaganda programming which, shamelessly, permeates the minds of nearly ALL of US in modern society these days!?
What most of you ladies now have done, and consistently continue to do, is to take all respectability & place of honor away from Womanhood, Motherhood, Housewife, and Homemaker_ y'all have thrown it in the garbage! Your feminist propaganda falsely makes yourself and every young woman of the next-generation see it (being a "good-Wife") as a place of servitude & slavery? That is so Unbelievably Wrong of you women to do this to society! 😟
Oh boy! Most feminist are so selfish & narcissistic it's incredible! What could possibly be wrong with raising a daughter to become a "good wife" to please her husband? Would you not Tell Your Sons to Please Their Wives? You'd want your Husband to Please YOU! Don't You??
(P.s. Yes_ many moms, especially single mothers of today, do go out of their way to "try" to teach their young boys how to be a "man" and please a wife through the narrow lens of their feminist ideologies and indoctrination!) What really ends up happening is that they_ some but not all_ often unwittingly raise & crank out the same type of wimpy, irresponsible, punk a§§ young men that they themselves don't want, and often complain about?! 😳
I'm done with this rant after I say (✍ write this).
Women (feminist) and all the rest of society need to bring back🎖HONOR to the words Womanhood, Wife, Homemaker, and HOUSEWIFE.
You' all have wrongfully stripped & robbed it of its luster! 🌞
What ya really oughta be ashamed of is all your children callin' their kids 👶 and each other "My Baby's Mother" or "My Baby's Daddy? That's becoming way...y too prevalent in all of our society, especially in our Afro-American communities.
Husband, Wife, & Girl friend, Boy friend/ "fiancee" are honorable phases that we need to be using more often!
*Feminism needs to stop glorifying broken 💔 families!* Just like they do on 🎥 TV & movies? We are all learning too much garbage from the Boob-Tube! 📺
@Spider-Man Yep. But many men don’t have options with their tiny wallets. Idk why women wanna complain about looks.
What advantage? Young women prefer young men there are 1000 studies on it. There's so much cap in these comments. Average age gap is only 2.3 years. The larger the gap the more likely the divorce. When you stick to your age you relate more.
Preach it brother !!! Hallelujah!!!
Everything that Hafeez is saying here is facts. Only thing to add is femininity isn’t something that we as men need to earn. Women either lead with it or they get overlooked. It’s as simple as that. We as men have no choice but to lead with our masculinity in order to be deemed worthy. The same thing applies to women.
As a young woman myself (I’m 23) I guard myself from older men especially if they are not talking about marriage. Most just want great sex they don’t want a relationship with you. You have to think about what if he has children and if he does are they in my age range because if they are he will never take you seriously. His children wouldn’t respect you because you are their peer and not an elder. It’s a lot you have to think about.
Not really no. It’s only one thing you have to think about: does he have good character? This should be top priority with any man you date, no matter their age.
When it comes to older men the character issues are even easier to spot. An older man who only wants younger women for the sex obviously has horrible character. Dating is all about saying no, no, no and then yes when a man of great character comes along. 😄
Society in general is filled with a lot of people of low character so it’s totally normal that “most men” that comes along won’t be marriage material but you only need one. 😃
I met my husband when I was 25, he’s a lot older than me and had kids from an earlier marriage. The kids have always respected me and so does my man, even if I’m much younger. It’s not about the age gap, it’s all about his character. The main reason I chose to marry my husband is because he’s a good guy, he’s got great character. We’re celebrating 10 years of marriage next year so I’m still happy with my choice. 😄
My point is look for a guy with great character and everything else will work out. However, men with good character will only want women with good character so it’s also important to look at yourself. When I was 19 I had bad character not so surprisingly no good character men showed interest in me back then. Step one is always work on yourself and then look for a good guy.
HELLO beautiful Queen How are you. Single man no kids looking for one Seriously
Yes, so glad you understand that. A lot of girls your age don't.
I am 46 and trying to get in the best shape of my life. I am happy and in my most feminine self and I am flexible with things while keeping my schedule and setting boundaries..great video
Are you single
@@aloowalia2849 bro chill lol…
@@westcoastfrank I am a sis actually 😁
Lol..too funny..yes divorced with teens.
@@DianaGarcia-lb9dl you have the custody of child
Great video! Thank you much Hafeez.
So Hafeez, do you have any recommendations in your videos for being in your feminine energy but also taken seriously by men f.e. at work place and in daily life?
Watching these kinds of videos from The Roommates, Kevin Samuels, and Fresh and Fit have really helped me with my feminine journey. I’m only 23, but these videos have opened my eyes that youth isn’t forever and that my femininity can vanish the older I get and that is not what I want as a woman. Thank you for this insight I appreciate these videos from a male perspective. You have helped me embrace and heal my feminine energy. 💖
this was great!
full spectrum, i’d be interested to hear some men call-in or just a general show about why some men prefer women who are older(?)
i’m early 40’s & 90% of men i attract are mid/late 20’s & early 30’s. i also physically present in those age groups, so i get it
I believe you-you’re stunning!
40 where? 🧐
@@klickingkayasmr7585 omg! you’re too kind. thank u ☺️ 💓
@@sonderexpeditions 40 (+) 😝.
& thank u ☺️
I used to like older women cuz cougars and milfs put it on u and dont expect much but some long strokes
The part about older women getting heavier was something that I saw this last weekend. My friend and his wife went to the beach and it was going to be a small gathering for his birthday my wife and I were there and we were getting to meet people we’ve never met. Well all of a sudden one of the women that was there I did not recognize her until I saw something about her and I realized oh my Lord it’s their friend that I would Bumping to from time to time and she gained a few pounds. To be honest before she was a little bit thinner but she wasn’t in bad shape but now she gained a few pounds. And the sad thing is I’ve noticed that from women who have not gotten married or got married later with no kids or anything like that.
Hahaha the sleep thing hit me! I have a hard time snuggling and sleeping
Actually I like older women better.. women in their 30s act like they are 17
What is older woman age range? For you?
@@isabellalora6533 37 and up
Do you like single mom's too?
OMG, I cant with this message. Please show proof that older women aren’t feminine? Just because a woman has been hurt, doesn’t mean she’s not fun to be around with? She’s just not a fool anymore to open up that quickly with just anyone.
Younger women’s immaturity is what causes that “fun & happy” effect… until an idiot breaks her heart.
BTW my grandma is 100 yrs old, with all her senses, still does her nails, hair & makeup, she’s very feminine. So stop it with the lies.
Great video
Thank you for elaborating on what your female told you the reason was cuz I heard mostly the same thing in both explanations.
My only question is.... What are feminine tasks?
Some moms stay hotter than younger women. I prefer those moms.
Apex fallacy
lol you like what you like
So that means you don't want kids! Cause if you do then this is just a phase. You should recognize this and don't stay in this too long to create your own legacy.
@@jameso2548 u don’t know if it’s a phase for him also older women can have kids 😂
You prefer provisioning for other men's children?
I think the concept of feminine and masculine got misunderstood because of our culture today we only see it in
Being expressed in consumption of Clothes, beauty products, magazines, movies etc.
The thing is both women and men have masculine and feminine traits in them
Masculine stands for responsibility, authority, practicality, discipline, courage etc.
While the feminine stands for kindness, unconditional love, tenderness, creativity, Nurturing , compassion. So both men and women need to internalize these qualities within them and express them from their true self instead of building a false self and focus on being loved by others.
Not true. There’s actually studies that show that most masculine traits are biologically born to man and feminine traits are biologically born to woman. There’s a reason why man are naturally attracted to feminine woman and woman are naturally attracted to masculine man. Attraction is not a choice. Of course there’s some exceptions just like there is in everything but exceptions don’t make the rule. If you look at aggressiveness for example. Man are aggressive starting even when they are younger. There are more man in prison because man are just aggressive by nature.
You have to realize that the society we live in there’s a certain agenda being pushed and that’s this feminist bs. Man and woman are equally important but completely different. All the studies and researches that goes against the agenda has been pushed aside and not brought up. If you really do some research you will realize just how different man and woman are and how masculinity is associated with man and femininity with woman. Woman need to embrace being feminine cause no matter what a woman does she’ll never be a man and vice versa.
@@fitlegend9733 i do agree with you about the feminist agenda and yes men amd women are different of course. But what I'm talking about is psychological. Men and women both need to mature and integrate these qualities if they are going to be a healthy mature adult
@@Sam-ul1zr The thing though is in general man want feminine woman and woman want masculine man. If a woman starts integrating masculine traits it’s very unattractive. We don’t like masculine traits in a woman. We don’t want to feel like we are dating another guy. The same thing vice versa. If a man was emotional crying and feminine most woman wouldn’t be attracted to it. The results of woman being masculine today is marriage rates today are lower than ever and only getting worse an divorce rates are high. That’s what happens when both man and woman leave their roles. Neutral families are under attack. When you take away neutral families then society will suffer. This world was built on neutral families.
@@fitlegend9733 i see your point but what i mean women need masculine traits in terms of responsibility, independence, autonomy, practicality. But keeping her feminine side as well. That way she becomes a mature adult. Mostly women who are like men are usually didn't have a positive masculine presence in their lives. As for men there's nothing wrong with being vulnerable and showing emotions.
Standing ovation for you .. YOU GET IT. Thank You for expressing and defining these traits as some JUST don't understand it. These words has become a trend and most people do not know what it really means to exude nor execute these traits. Again THANK YOU :-)
Very much this explains me during my simpin’ days … didn’t help I was naive as hell
Funny how that wrks out in nothing beneficial as I got ghosted … guess it was best frm there on
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