Would you marry outside of your preference? | Jamal and Natasha Miller | Dear Future Wifey E807
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- Is marrying for love enough to build a successful life?
In episode 807, Jamal and Natasha Miller explore with host Laterrras R. Whitfield the controversial intersections of love, money, and success. This episode questions the motives behind marriage and partnership in today's world. Jamal opens up and says that he married for money, not love. This interview examines the practicalities that contribute to a fulfilling life partnership. Through personal stories, critical insights, and a reevaluation of what it means to choose a partner, Love that Lasts is a must-listen to understand the implications of marriage and success in the modern age.
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[00:00:00] Intro
[00:06:33] The Millers journey: Defining success
[00:12:08] Love vs. Money in marriage
[00:17:52] Preparing for marriage
[00:31:43] How did their relationship start?
[00:39:38] Physical appearance in relationships
[00:48:57] Cultivating the relationships and looking for help
[00:58:10] Building a mature relationship
[01:06:38] The financial dynamics
[01:12:37] Call to Woman challenge explained
[01:21:08] Closing segment
Key Quotes:
“Success is when your soul is healthy.” - Natasha Miller
“Everything we do in our life is based upon our ability to make wise decisions.” - Jamal Miller
“Don't overlook heart posture over your height preference.” - Laterras R. Whitfield
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This might sound so stupid, but this episode showed me how intentionally remaining a virgin until marriage really keeps the connection channels pure with God and how premarital sex can do the opposite. I applaud them ❤
You're comment is definitely not stupid! You're wise to be in alignment with what God is looking for in MAN.
~Romans 12:1-2 NIV
Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God--this is your spiritual [1] act of worship. 2Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Permiscuity is a dangerous thing to fall into...
HIV/AIDS, STD, pregnancy, abortion, adoption, foster care, prostitution and the negative list goes on. You and the next generation in your family tree will be blessed! You're worth the wait! God loves you for honoring Him. You have time to grow and do His Will and you shall be blessed with the right mate. I applaud you for your wisdom.
My husband is not my physical preference but he is definitely my HEART preference ❤
Does he make good money??
I can relate.
Yes, I know exactly what you mean as my current partner is my heart preference and I am praying that he is my future hubby because he has captured my heart with such an honor like anyone has never before cared for. ❤❤❤❤❤
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I love the new introduction. It’s beautiful!!! 🎉🎉
Yes, the new intro fits the show.
Yes!🔥
Agreed
Yess🎉🎉🎉it's beautiful
YES! Me, too!
She made the non-negotiables list. God gives us what we need. 🎉🎉
That was a good gem. Stop seeing only what we want to see and see as GOD sees.👂
I participated in Praying for you future spouse challenge for 2 years and thank God I did! Met my husband the next year and still reach back to the learnings from the challenges to this day
We had to remarry each other....POWERFUL!! This is where many quit instead of doing the work!! Good gems!!❤
Yes I agree...selfish pride and lack of accountability will lead to quitting!!
Yes, I quit due to insecurities. We did not do any work to try to make it work...my biggest regret.
Who all else finna be there when laterras get married?😂😂
I'm in
Me!!!!....absolutely!!!!
Can’t wait 👏🏽
I betta' get an invite 😂
We are the online inlaws and need a seat at the wedding
Marriage is the biggest flex we have in our community! it is the quickest path to becoming a millionaire and obtaining financial freedom!
Is this a joke?
Definitely possible if both are on same page and being disciplined.
Facts. When two intentional, God fearing, honest and committed people come together
@@yvonneoshevwe2334If you marry the right one then no it is not a joke. If you marry the wrong one then yes it is.
@@HisGraceIsSufficient555 oh chile say that again to the pple in the back!!
Man you better speak. I just shared a post saying this exact thing. I remember being on food stamps and WIC and now were at more than enough! My husband said we will not stay here and worked 3 jobs to help us get off assistance. God is so faithful! 🙌🏾
Glory to God 🙌🏽
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉
@@nikkyshamz2696 yes he is! The fact that I was able to finish 4 nursing programs for less than $4k was such a blessing.
@@VisibleTimes thank you! We give all glory to God
I was listening to this earlier while driving and Pastor Jamal said something that freed me. I couldn't catch the time stamp to find it but he was saying - we are humans beings with the ability to use wisdom to make decisions. After a dating situation a few years ago, I was afraid to trust myself in who I dated because I OBVIOUSLY made a horrible decision at that time. It has prevented me from being FREE in this area but I thank God for the revelation through this episode.
New opener is EVERYTHING🔥🔥Season 8 is off tha chain, keep elevating King❤
Stunning!
@@OnlinewithMathuto Absolutely!
Yessssss! I loved it. Great job Laterras.
Yes!! Very well said I love it..hit rewind 2 times to look at again 😊😊.
He did that for sure 💯🔥
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
If you search for Shelly Renee White online, you will discover all the necessary information. Thank you.
Marriage is a blessing from God! We can accomplish more together than alone!! Thank you God ❤️ 🙏🏾
Amen
Amen 🙏 ❤
The key is to let God have his way
Amen, Sis✝️❣️I couldn't agree more‼️
The new introduction is so beautiful! Just a beautiful visualization & celebration of Black Love🖤
Lovely intro. I love it when I hear mature married couples speak on the challenges they've encountered in the course of marriage and how they overcame. It takes work, it takes intentionality, it takes prayers, and a sound supportive community. Mentors, good friends, all the works.
YESSSSS!! One of my FAVORITE married couples!! I’ve been a part of Pastor Jamal & Natasha’s The One University facebook community since 2017 & learned so many valuable lessons from their Pray For Your Future Spouse Challenges! Love them!❤️ So happy to finally see them on the podcast!🫶🏾👏🏾
The One University🙌
JAMAL YOU BETTER PREACHHHHH ON THIS PODCAST !!!!!!!!!!!!!! WE HAVE THE CHOICE AND WE CHOOSE WITH GOD!!!!!!
Love this!
Latterras Whitfield is an excellent interviewer. He asked all of the right questions! 🙌🏽
He's Laterras "Right-questions" Whitfield 😊
I love how thorough this talk was! Talking about unrealistic expectations on finding a partner, what it means to be married, FINANCES! Also this quote from the Bible: “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge” what a word!
I truthly I love Natasha and Jamel. 💯🥰♥️
They also came into my life when I needed them the most and most importantly, even if I haven’t been married again,
In 2019 also, I saw a message that showed on my Instagram and I didn’t even follow either of them at that time... 🤯it was out of nowhere 🫣 but it was also because I was in prayer in that season of my life (passience).
They changed my perspective from being in a relationship, to love myself more, learning to pray for my future husband, pray to get closer to God before asking God for that person will approach God first.
Even when I thought I was ready to get married again...
I have been learning throughout these years, at the age of 47, that there is much more than God wants to do with me in my single season.
Thank you very much for this Laterras podcast, BRING THEM BACK... 🎯🥰💯
I love them, their transparency, and the wisdom they have. They are young but so full of intentional purposed wisdom. It gives hope to those who still believe in the beauty of marriage and all that it entails. When they spoke of height, that spoke to me, I’m 5’2” and said I cannot date anyone my height or closer, we both can climb on the countertops to get things from the top shelf. 🤣 Now I have to adjust my mindset and look beyond height. This blessed my soul, thank you all for a great episode.
I love this couple. Attended their first TOU live in 2019 in Chicago, and i have not been the same. The presence of the Lord during that conference was there and you didnt want to leave. I was not teaching that year had stepped back to take a break from education, so my funds were a little shaky that year. When i tell you that i ended up going due to people blessing me to go, i knew it was meant for me to go. Im 48 still have not married and im still allowing God to finish. My main thing during that conferences was connecting with hungry believers and taking my relationship with God to the next level. So happy they moved to Dallas. Looking to hear from these two more soon.
Laterras, I love where God is leading you with this podcast. Please keep these strong couples coming!!!
Dynamic couple, I have done the PFYFS challenges a few times and each time while in relationship or headed to relationship and they fell apart. In hindsight, I was asking God to make way and align me with my future spouse. 😊 It is amazing what can be accomplished when we set aside our desires for the desires God puts in our hearts and how far God will take us when we surrender to His Will. His Will is always good! Always to prosper us and not harm us. Joining us together to build His kingdom here on earth. God bless The Millers! ❤
At the beginning of this year I feel like the Lord instructed me to start preparing for marriage. This platform has truly assisted with this task. Thank you, Laterras for the amazing content that you share with us. Loved this episode and this beautiful couple. God bless your journey!
You're welcome. Thank you.
I had been praying and hoping you would interview the Millers. I been following them and taking their challenges for years now. Great interview 🙏🏽❤💯
This was a beautiful episode. I will share it with a young couple in my church that's getting married in November. This was a great conversation! I listened on Monday and signed up for the Called Women masterclass that night. What a blessing it has been!!! God is truly working through ALL the coaches to reach women. Natasha's gift and the prophecy on her life are on full display! To God be the glory!! ❤❤
You in yo bag Unc!!! You’re getting all my faves on the couch ❤❤
Love it!!
You are doing an amazing work King Laterras. God is so proud, God will definitely reward you, the vision is for an appointed time.
The way you use your influence and platform to help us singles believe in God, believe in love, believe in ourselves and understand marriage by these amazing and real interviews.
You deserve your flowers💐💐💐💐💐.
Thank you for taking the time to do the hard work(working on yourself) and sharing your journey with us, giving up hope.
You deserve every acknowledgement and recognition.
You're now getting started. The Best is yet to come🙌
God bless you and your team🙌
To God be the glory. Thank you
😂 focus on the goodness of God ❤
Yes.. you deserve flowers 🌺🌺🌹🌹🌹. thank you for representing black men in a strong powerful way!!!
You're welcome King!
Omg these episode keeps getting better and better, Thank you!
I'm seeing God hands moving on this podcast. You're definitely in alignment with God.@@DearFutureWifey
Yes . God is writing my love story right now. I love this podcast . This is anointed and so is Laterras. I immediately envisioned myself on the show . I am shy at times but I believe the testimony is going to be too great and powerful for it not to be shared .
This is one of your best in this season. Love the intro as well!!!
Love the new intro Laterras! 🔥❤️
Good morning Laterras, and DFW Family! Thank you for a new episode. The new intro is just beautiful! 🎉❤
Have a great day, everyone!
Great episode, Laterras & I love the song & intro!! 😁
Natasha!!!! I’m literally screaming in my bathroom cause Girrlll you just preached the shortest, most powerful and influential message most women will ever hear👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
(We Christian Women Want To Be Treated/Desired Like The Women In The World) Jesus🙌🏾
Love the Intro ❤love this episode so glad I signed up for her Master class. Thank you for all the gems that you shared 🔥🔥🔥
Love everything about this episode!!! A wealth of knowledge...
The new intro is SO beautiful LaTerras!
I had chills all over!
We LOVE Natasha and Jamal Miller!!!
BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL INTRODUCTION!❤️
The introduction song and video is beautiful ❤️ I love the growth of this podcast!
Now let me watch the actual episode😊
Pastor Jamal will break out and PREACH in a minute!!! 👑 ⚔️ 🎙️ 🎤
GREAT GREAT GREAT Interview, lot of nuggets as always to take away. I wasn't aware of this couple will start following them. Thank you as always brother.
Love this new intro!!! Omg!!!!😍
Always been such a fan of theirs. Great interview.
I love the new intro! ❤️🔥
Very good episode. That commitment piece 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I just noticed your new intro to the podcast…I love it! The momentum of DFW is contagious! I’ve learned so much and I’m grateful for your obedience to this assignment!
Wow. This was so good! 🙌🏾✨️
This was awesome ❤ I Love the Honesty....
This was one of my favorite episodes. I went through TOU and that is how I actually came across this podcast. They dropped so many golden nuggets. I needed to hear this as I prepare for marriage.
Great! Great! INTERVIEW!! 👏🏾👏🏾 👏🏾
I love the new intro❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥. Season 8 is New Beginnings...
whewwwwwwwwwww the therapist said I am not going to counsel you into a decision!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love your guest, you always pick the perfect people to bless your followers, thank you i really needed to hear this podcast, with tears in my eyes,this has truly blessed me,you are the best friend in my head that i can't find in the real world, amazing in every way. God bless you,i pray this year is all you want it to be.😊
....... the intro was 🔥🔥🔥, the conversation so inspiring, every love story is unique and this was beautiful....n you mr DFW was looking good
Whaatttt?! I love The Millers, T.O.U. 2020 representing!!!! I have been learning so much from them and you are the epitome of beautiful partnerships with purpose!!!! Proud alum!!!! So glad that they are on Dear Future Wifey🙌🙌
SOOO ENJOYED THIS PODCAST, IT WAS BLESSED, AS ALWAYS
I love your channel! You always deliver amazing content that is much needed in our time! ❤❤
This was a good one!!! They blessed me!
Love the new song 🎵 & intro Laterras it's really awesome. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
First of all, so love the way this couple speaks. Honestly, I LOVE the laughs between them. That is the best!!! That shows true love AND friendship to me. Aaaaand, I am really appreciating this fit Bro Laterras! 🙌🏾 sharp sharp
This was such a blessing! Gem after gem after gem ❤ and God was glorified!!🙌🏽
Very good! I love their ministry!
This blessed me so much!!
This is GOOD STUFF right here! Thank you so much. ❤
That was soooooo helpful! I resonate with Mrs Miller so much! I’m newly engaged and have felt the same feelings as Mrs Miller. It’s so refreshing to have my feelings validated. Thank you
Marry for purpose...what a gem packed episode ❤
Wow! Love this podcast more and more each week! Thanks for giving me hope that my person is out there. Btw, love the new intro music - beautiful ❤
I watched this segment as I was preparing for work this morning. What a breath of fresh air, I truly enjoyed the laughter and transparency that this couple shared. May God continue to bless your family and union.
Excellent interview. I joined TOU years ago and was tremendously blessed by the experience. I’m happy to see Jamal and Natasha thriving.
This was AMAZING!! I greatly appreciate the transparency! I definitely resonated with Natasha thoughts of herself and desiring to do more.
THIS WAS THE REFRESHMENT I NEEDED ON THIS BLESSED WEDNESDAY MORNING❗❗❗❗ 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Love the message at hand
This podcast is so timely for me! Thank you!
This podcast in general is very good. This episode in particular is so excellent. It has hit so many important points, and I know I was meant to watch this. It’s making me feel more informed and more equipped. It’s been very freeing. Thank you!
Second comment, but THIS WHOLE THING was for me!! 😅
Omg, this is something that we needed (speaking for 1:08:44 myself as well). Pastor Jamal better preachhhh. 🙌🏾 I love the Miller's so much. Been following them since 2019 with their Pray For Your Future Spouse challenges and thankful God has now blessed me with my purpose partner. 😊 That intro was beautiful ❤ May God bless the Miller's, this channel and everyone reading this. 🙏🏽
This was so good!!
This episode really blessed me. Ty❤
I’ve been loving DFW but you been hitting it hard these past few weeks! I’ve done Natasha and Jamal’s challenge a couple of times but so happy we got to see more of their personalities!!! Thank you all for your transparency!
I definitely did a few years of TOU and grew tremendously in my walk with God and in life period. A lot of what I learned from them still plays a part in my life today!
Natasha was definitely speaking directly to me today in this pod and I can’t wait to complete the 5 day challenge!
Same here🙌
Jamal and Natasha are dropping GEMSSS…so many and so fast I cannot capture them all.❤ Love you both. Been tracking with y’all since TOSC2017 and I remember the Laterras interview…😅
The Millers have blessed me for the years glad to see them on your channel!
All three of you, PREACHED on this podcast. Hallelujah, God was truly glorified!!!!!!!! I was so blessed. Thank you 😊
I love love the intro, well done King, I loved the couple as well ❤
❤❤❤❤❤ another impactful episode. This one hit the heart in all the right places. I look forward to rewatching with my Fiancé
WOW!!! BEST COUPLE EVER!!! THANKS KING LATERRAS!!!❤️🙏🏽❤️❤️
Thank you @Laterras & @Millers for this amazing episode AND the Called to Woman program. Onboard and so excited to see all this unfold 💛💛💛
This episode BLESSED me!!!🔥🔥🔥
Love the new intro!
They dropped so many nuggets!! The wisdom🤯🙌🏽
Love the new intro & song 💙💙💙
Wow this is amazing!!!! I was part of the church when Jamal served as youth pastor in Chicago and he and Natasha were such a great example of a man and woman of God!!
I love this!
Love the new intro! ❤️
Thank you for sharing. I can so relate to this. May God bless everyone on this podcast.
This was a blessing to hear !!!❤
This is an example of handling your blessing like a business and your business like a blessing! Marriage creates a big blessing that can result in having amazing business partners. When you are aligned with God!
Great episode ❤ Love them!
Absolutely Awesome 👏🏾
Real love. Real talk. Beautiful!🥰 What an Amazing, Beautiful couple all around! Powerful ministry together!🎉
“Key word-flowing: means more than enough” 🙌🏾
One of my favorite episodes! Going to save this one!🙏🏾🥰😊