Mistakes women do after a divorce / breakup /

Divorce or break up is never fun and the hope is always to heal as fast as we can. How ever there are some things women do , that keeps them captive in a painful place for a longer time. In today's episode of that christian woman Pod chat video, i share some of these things with you.
what in your opinion are some of these things we do as women that keeps us in a place of hurt such much that, we need to stop doing them?
Help a sister.
#datchristianwoman

[@shemikagreen2657]

I would say, get counselling to help with the healing/hurt. Counselling I believe should be able to make you see where you as the woman have gone wrong so that you avoid the same mistake in the future..

[@Dafrolavours]

Yes very important. We discuss this on the next episode

[@Datchristianwoman]

* Let yourself heal, don't play the I am ok game*.(typo In the video)

[@CarineFavour]

Though some points might be difficult to put into practice, still the best thing to do. LET GO

[@Datchristianwoman]

Yes , best to do. Let go sis. Cos holding on, we d do na wah self.

[@JOETSINAZ]

can you also one day look into the subject of remarrying and help with ur understanding of it; considering verses like Mark 10, matthew 5, 1 corinthians 7, matthew 19, romans 7, etc

[@Datchristianwoman]

Yes. I will in more detail. Cos I touched on this light in another video. Thank you brother.

[@JOETSINAZ]

@@Datchristianwoman thank you my sister

[@mayongegbe1811]

Some women still bother and get jealous about who their partner is dating after years of divorce or separation🤣.......plse ladies let go and let love lead

[@Datchristianwoman]

Exactly. And that is killing them and making healing almost impossible.

[@shemikagreen2657]

How does a woman not give a man the right to be disrespectful to her? How can she prevent that or change that?

[@Datchristianwoman]

First set boundaries, stick to it. If you let him break over and over again, then he takes you for granted.
Love you, and b unapologetic about it, let him know from how carry yourself that you love him but you also love you. If he keeps disrespecting you then act. if he continues then you know he has issues and you can get him therapy to fix it or walk away if refuses or stay and take the disrespect. 🚶‍♀️

[@shemikagreen2657]

@@Datchristianwoman hi sis. Thank you. Practical advice. Appreciate it.

[@anicet9341]

@@Datchristianwoman what if you move away, he seems not to be a physical and or mental threat to the kids but a physical n mental threat to the woman at the least opportunity he has, either physical or phone contact? What do you do with the contact between him and the kids?

[@leslieanneachimbi1283]

People treat you the way they feel you should be treated, so it is your responsibility to take or leave it . You can’t prevent people from treating you the way they want. But you can decide to choose how you show up for people when they treat you in a certain way.

[@Datchristianwoman]

@@leslieanneachimbi1283 true talk