Julie Bowden ACOA Co Dependence

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  • čas přidán 20. 08. 2024

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  • @gturcott1
    @gturcott1 Před 3 lety +8

    What an amazing talk! If this was an AA talk it would have 1k views but because people don’t want the soft label acoa or coda people don’t here this! What a powerful talk

    • @reneemoore6249
      @reneemoore6249 Před 2 lety +1

      Is that true? So many suffer, really really suffer from this. Massive numbers of people. How many recover? We are others focused. It's not my problem. Clearly it's them. So step one is impossible.
      Hugs to the reader.

    • @dianeibsen5994
      @dianeibsen5994 Před rokem

      @@reneemoore6249 Renee I didn't understand this. Can you clarify what you're talking about? It just feels too vague.

  • @martinmary1011
    @martinmary1011 Před 4 lety +14

    The little girl that fought to get me here. Wow

  • @Uncivilize
    @Uncivilize Před 4 lety +8

    Your book Recovery, A Guide...was the first thing to begin opening my eyes. Thank you eternally. Also, your mention of how society is codependent is an important point not often heard, even now in 2020.

  • @ghengis430
    @ghengis430 Před 3 lety +4

    Lovely to hear a woman speak. My child does resemble Alien 2's child at the moment, and I'm grateful to be made aware of her fear, and presence. I'm learning to take care of her, more than I realised. Thank you so much 💓

  • @Douglas-gu4my
    @Douglas-gu4my Před 5 lety +9

    Wow what an absolute fantastic speaker. Thank you so much for this, me and my inner child is greatful. Thanks to the uploader also. Much love.

  • @ToniDJohns
    @ToniDJohns Před 5 lety +3

    an absolute amazing workshop .... clears a whole lot of confusion in exactly how co-dependence starts .. not in the genes but in learned behaviour .. such a subtle emotional mental poison is co-dependency

  • @DirkWaive
    @DirkWaive Před 4 měsíci

    Amazing. Thankyou

  • @carolinew.m.5271
    @carolinew.m.5271 Před 3 lety +1

    Your kid was listening... true! I have to follow through on my sentiments. Thanks for sharing this video.

  • @trevorblaise
    @trevorblaise Před 3 lety +1

    thank you julie

  • @61gopal
    @61gopal Před 4 lety +1

    Thankful

  • @djdebssuperlawyersjusticeu9855

    Codependency is deadly too

  • @kylemedeiros6907
    @kylemedeiros6907 Před 2 lety

    1988 wow

  • @dianeibsen5994
    @dianeibsen5994 Před rokem

    Thank You so much for sharing this. I can't believe this isn't from 1988! I started my "second path" of recovery in 2000. First in OA 1984 85. Why is this been such a long and painful path? ACA was not very strong back then 2000 even 😥 I'm confused by what Bill W said about Will we are willful. Or we need will to not be dependent?? In ACA it's not will that's going to take away these traits these codependent traits it's powerlessness step one yes?

  • @monitoroxfordhouse2125
    @monitoroxfordhouse2125 Před 5 lety +2

    INTERESTING ANALOGY WITH THE ALIEN 2 MOVIE.... TO BEING A CODEPENDENT ALCOHOLIC, ADDICT, OR ACOA...... BECAUSE MOST ALL ARE VERY MUCH TRAUMATIZED.... THUS RECOVERY IS A LIFE LONG PROCESS OF PEELING OFF THE LAYERS OF THE ONION... AND ITS GOING TO BE PAINFUL...SO GET PROFESSIONAL HELP WITH IT NOW... DON'T WAIT....

    • @omalone1169
      @omalone1169 Před 4 lety

      38:00 she puts on military equipment and goes into the womb of danger to recover the child . Terminator 2 also has this when Sarah Conner sees him as a father . Ghost in the Shell 2 has a few of themes in terms of the reliable protector

  • @dj.deb.usa007justiceangels6

    100%✓✓✓✓✓✓ RULES ARE & WERE DON'T TRUST , DON'T TALK, DONT FEEL , WHITE NOISE.... CODEPENDENCY IS JUST CUNNING BAFFLING AND POWERFUL JUST LIKE ALCOHOLISM!!!

  • @debbot6129
    @debbot6129 Před 3 lety +1

    THIS GOES OUT TO ALL THE LITTLE GIRLS SEXUALLY ABUSED AS BABIES, GIRLS, TEENS, YOUNG ADULTS, AND GROWN WOMEN....
    USE YOUR SUPER POWERS SUPERLAWYERS 😘😍📸📜🗡️🎧🙏🎼💖🎶📽️📽️⚔️🏳️‍🌈♀️♀️📱📲💛🐈💗💟💜🎧10/3/2020

  • @debbot6129
    @debbot6129 Před 3 lety +2

    RECOVERY IS LOVE...
    ADDICTIONS ARE SELF DESTRUCTION....
    10/2/2020
    SAYS,🎼🙏🎧🙏🎼💖🎶🎵🎵📽️⚔️🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈♀️♀️(**DR.DJ.DEB.USA**) SUPERLAWYERS

  • @ts3858
    @ts3858 Před 4 lety

    She is still angry...please heal your anger...🙏

  • @debbot6129
    @debbot6129 Před 3 lety

    HERE NOW BECAUSE I FOUGHT TO SURVIVE.....XOXO 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘 LOVE IS LOVE SAYS,(***DJ.DEB.USA, SUPERLAWYERS, LEGAL ADVOCATES JUSTICE ANGEL'S AND SUPERMODELS AND ALCOHOLIC ANONYMOUS RECOVERY ANGELS IN USA!
    10/3/2020

  • @TheScientist43
    @TheScientist43 Před rokem

    Had me until you started reading from the Bible.
    I'll find something else.

  • @Snow-wz6eu
    @Snow-wz6eu Před rokem

    Lost me at the bible. Freakin' USA.