Selena Gomez - The Heart Wants What It Wants (Extended Intro Version)

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  • @dayainsomnia4364
    @dayainsomnia4364 Před 5 lety +126

    4:49 i love this part 😭😍

  • @jennifercondor1746
    @jennifercondor1746 Před 4 lety +5361

    This hits differently when you have actually experienced the pain :(

  • @axmarie0649
    @axmarie0649 Před 5 lety +13772

    "I picked someone who was going to break my heart.." *damn I felt that...*

  • @brunorocha4464
    @brunorocha4464 Před 4 lety +2531

    2014: I guess I don't love myself first...
    2019: I needed to lose you to love me.

  • @ughasif7262
    @ughasif7262 Před 4 lety +8098

    They missed the "He made me feel crazy, he made me feel like it's my fault. I was in pain."

    • @nobitch6421
      @nobitch6421 Před 4 lety +358

      shit hits differently once you reflect on what broke your heart 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @ughasif7262
      @ughasif7262 Před 4 lety +23

      @@nobitch6421 true

    • @marcisaacmartinez2129
      @marcisaacmartinez2129 Před 4 lety +4

      bitchy slayer aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

    • @marcisaacmartinez2129
      @marcisaacmartinez2129 Před 4 lety +1

      Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

    • @AB-yk2pq
      @AB-yk2pq Před 4 lety +85

      They didn't 'miss' anything. Selena said that her speech is about 5 minutes so we didn't hear all

  • @TylerJo666
    @TylerJo666 Před 5 lety +5729

    The worst sound ever is the crack in the voice of a person who is about to cry

    • @mathankir4070
      @mathankir4070 Před 4 lety +97

      Well she is singing something very painful that happened in her life so of course she'll cry. like what were you expecting for her be happy about her heart being broken ;-;

    • @waqaralishah5446
      @waqaralishah5446 Před 4 lety +15

      im copying this line

    • @eeee504
      @eeee504 Před 4 lety +10

      Well known quote !!

    • @Chyna627
      @Chyna627 Před 4 lety +1

      Tyler Black man what this is so true💯💔🥺🥺

    • @genm5998
      @genm5998 Před 4 lety +6

      I know, makes me wanna cry too 💔😭💔😭

  • @blinkeuu3107
    @blinkeuu3107 Před 5 lety +7320

    “I guess I don’t love myself first” So relatable 💔

    • @alexventura1947
      @alexventura1947 Před 5 lety +14

      Exactly :(

    • @mhm77887
      @mhm77887 Před 5 lety +24

      I'm 14, and as most teens I'm insecure. But I think I hate myself a bit too much. If after I stop being a teenager it'll keep up, I don't know man...

    • @genericchannel126
      @genericchannel126 Před 4 lety +13

      Man, its a life long journey to 100% love yourself.

    • @genericchannel126
      @genericchannel126 Před 4 lety +8

      So yeah, dont let that stop you from loving other people 🙂

    • @cutienerdgirl
      @cutienerdgirl Před 4 lety +15

      She has a tattoo that says "Love Yourself First" now!💗

  • @michiletics13
    @michiletics13 Před 4 lety +4634

    Who listening to this after hearing “lose you to love me” just to see how much she’s healed?😭

    • @user-zm8ji2or8w
      @user-zm8ji2or8w Před 4 lety +23

      michelle santana Me, cause I want to know
      If it’s true that he sang the chorus in this song. In her song she said “ you sang of key in my chorus, cause it wasn’t yours” ? What does she mean by that?

    • @yaniamarytza
      @yaniamarytza Před 4 lety +63

      The chorus is the HEART of a song. He played around with it because it wasn't his.

    • @user-zm8ji2or8w
      @user-zm8ji2or8w Před 4 lety +7

      Yania Madariaga Ohh that makes sense! Thankyou for explaining!

    • @AlbertoRodriguez-kc9ji
      @AlbertoRodriguez-kc9ji Před 4 lety +1

      michelle santana me

    • @ryliewoods336
      @ryliewoods336 Před 4 lety +1

      @@user-zm8ji2or8w Baningalsbffgoids 💖💌🐼💌💖💖💖🎁💚💾💾🐣😌

  • @ferencfehervari5860
    @ferencfehervari5860 Před 4 lety +5430

    Who’s revisiting this gem right after listening to “lose you to love me?”

    • @marymantanyani3528
      @marymantanyani3528 Před 4 lety +6

      Me♥️♥️

    • @michellea6598
      @michellea6598 Před 4 lety +1

      Ferenc Fehervari ofc ❤️🥺

    • @TheN92
      @TheN92 Před 4 lety +18

      Revisiting this song because the new song did nothing to me. It’s boring. Selena can do so much better. Also I can’t believe she’s still singing about Justin 😭 this song has actual emotions

    • @jaylinntorres53
      @jaylinntorres53 Před 4 lety +1

      Omg- same

    • @kittenkaterinaxoxo9986
      @kittenkaterinaxoxo9986 Před 4 lety +14

      Noah oh my gosh finally someone that agrees with me. Her new song didn't give me any emotion this song however made me cry a lot.

  • @dianahernandez5878
    @dianahernandez5878 Před 5 lety +13140

    A year ago I didn’t understand her pain.. and now that I’ve gone through the same pain I understand.

  • @JazzyJ96771
    @JazzyJ96771 Před 5 lety +5622

    I love it when artists make themselves emotionally vulnerable, it's so beautiful.

    • @Victoria-op8xj
      @Victoria-op8xj Před 5 lety +37

      Jazzy J it sells

    • @blinkeuu3107
      @blinkeuu3107 Před 5 lety +67

      go listen to her others songs “perfect” & “nobody” they’re so beautiful and deep at the same time

    • @romarijhwani5380
      @romarijhwani5380 Před 5 lety +12

      Jazzy J that’s why they are called artist right ?

    • @randomlyysillyy
      @randomlyysillyy Před 5 lety +11

      @@blinkeuu3107 perfect is so deep 😭

    • @milkytaro3201
      @milkytaro3201 Před 5 lety +8

      this is true art 💗 art is meant to make you feel

  • @ivypostell
    @ivypostell Před 4 lety +2110

    This is my first time hearing the extended audio and I started crying because I know exactly how she felt because it's how i feel right now.

    • @natha.h
      @natha.h Před 4 lety +20

      I feel the same right now 😭😔... You're not the only Person who must to go through it.... 😢 You're not alone.... 😓

    • @joana-cf1bs
      @joana-cf1bs Před 4 lety +6

      I'm sorry ❤️ that sucks but you'll get through it, just like Selena x look at her now is what you'll say in no time too ❤️

    • @saadanisoumia8537
      @saadanisoumia8537 Před 4 lety +1

      I feel the same

    • @ivypostell
      @ivypostell Před 4 lety

      @@joana-cf1bs thank you and that song Look At Her Now is my favorite

    • @erikaribeiro9624
      @erikaribeiro9624 Před 4 lety +1

      Me too girl, i‘m struggling so hard 😢

  • @user-fw8lv1ov2e
    @user-fw8lv1ov2e Před 2 lety +216

    "Everybody goes through, I guess, something like this but... I didn't really understand it and, I have no other option but to laugh at it this point because everybody asks why do you still stay, and I'm like... I guess I don't love myself first. That's it. It's not really... that's it. When I was on stage and I was thinking of... I felt like I know him though and I know that I know his heart and I know what he wouldn't do to hurt me. But I didn't realize that I was feeling so confident and feeling so great about myself and then it just be completely shattered... by one thing. By something so stupid. He doesn't know who I am anymore... And it doesn't matter because I guess I picked someone I knew was gonna break my heart."

  • @nooneofconsequence7920
    @nooneofconsequence7920 Před 5 lety +4503

    "I picked someone who was gonna break my heart..."
    You never really understand why she stayed and why she was in so much pain until you experience it yourself.

    • @enriba7842
      @enriba7842 Před 5 lety +11

      Violet Elizabeth 😒....thats why you girls complain, you guys do this to the nice guys🖕🖕. Always wanting the bad boy smh I don't feel bad at all, you girls put yourselves into this situation.

    • @nooneofconsequence7920
      @nooneofconsequence7920 Před 5 lety +64

      @@enriba7842 I wasnt asking for sympathy?

    • @enriba7842
      @enriba7842 Před 5 lety +9

      Violet Elizabeth I know.
      Im just saying though,
      that YOU girls go for the
      bad boys, and deep down know
      is not going to work out, but still you girls for them right? of course and complain and complain thats where the thought comes in "all guys are the same"
      If you girls don't want to complain
      make better choices.

    • @nooneofconsequence7920
      @nooneofconsequence7920 Před 5 lety +55

      @@enriba7842 the guy I was talking about isn't a bad boy hes a good guy. But sometimes shit doesnt work out and I should have known it wouldnt but I cant tell the future. So therefore, I picked someone who was gonna break my heart. Idk if that makes sense.

    • @enriba7842
      @enriba7842 Před 5 lety +1

      Violet Elizabeth You should be my girl, fr fr, you sound like a genuine girl, i like that.

  • @kelly_ckm7705
    @kelly_ckm7705 Před 4 lety +1339

    When she said:" He doesn't know who I am anymore..." that shit hurts...

    • @Kimberly-wh4fe
      @Kimberly-wh4fe Před 4 lety +6

      Kelly _ckm I KNOW! 😭

    • @Tiaaa-rk5yc
      @Tiaaa-rk5yc Před 4 lety +4

      omfg. I know right 😣😣😣

    • @brittlynnxx
      @brittlynnxx Před 4 lety +6

      What did she mean by that?

    • @mookiemookie7144
      @mookiemookie7144 Před 4 lety +1

      Kelly _ckm 😩💔

    • @kelly_ckm7705
      @kelly_ckm7705 Před 4 lety +59

      To me it means that you get to know someone..who they are, what they're like, how their mind and heart works...their weaknesses and everything they're passionate about, the little kid they hide inside..just everything....and then there comes a moment were that person acts so cold like he doesn't know you like he doesn't know your heart and soul that he doesn't know where you're coming from when you're talking to them.
      You start to wish that he sees YOU again....but it doesnt seem to happen...and you know you are slowly losing him.

  • @hedrayoel6701
    @hedrayoel6701 Před 3 lety +1015

    Its been YEARS and this song STILL plays on my heart strings

  • @micaela8340
    @micaela8340 Před 3 lety +681

    No woman should feel like this, like, NEVER. For all those men that play around with a girl’s heart, remember that karma is a bitch and you’ll pay for what you’ve done someday. Sending love to all the people in the comments and to Selena too.

    • @nataliawashington872
      @nataliawashington872 Před 2 lety +23

      No Woman or Man, I feel so bad for the men and women that have to put up with what Selena went through

    • @micaela8340
      @micaela8340 Před 2 lety +12

      @@nataliawashington872 yeah that’s true, everyone can experience something like that, is just that is a very common behavior in man

    • @eunicekadzima3753
      @eunicekadzima3753 Před 2 lety +2

      It feels like you can't breathe

    • @netninja8981
      @netninja8981 Před 2 lety +4

      What about women playing with men hearts?
      Nobody should give false feelings to someone.

    • @katty5017
      @katty5017 Před rokem +1

      Say it louder....

  • @melinaonal7780
    @melinaonal7780 Před 5 lety +4627

    2021 and it still feels...

    • @BubblyRens
      @BubblyRens Před 5 lety +5

      it really does

    • @kyra2004
      @kyra2004 Před 5 lety +2

      I am, it’s a great song but I honestly forgot what it was written about

    • @melinaonal7780
      @melinaonal7780 Před 5 lety +1

      Kyra Tolbert what was it written about?

    • @kyra2004
      @kyra2004 Před 5 lety

      Melebra Onal idk i forgot

    • @syafiqahhafizullah2905
      @syafiqahhafizullah2905 Před 5 lety +1

      how u tm ft of uh rglhf😗😇💑👥👰💔

  • @jennifercates6888
    @jennifercates6888 Před 5 lety +3666

    This is the definition of true pain.

  • @kaylabrooks_28
    @kaylabrooks_28 Před 4 lety +4865

    There’s so many girls who can relate to her story

    • @actuallymilo
      @actuallymilo Před 3 lety +250

      boys too... i could relate to this song for my whole life.

    • @srinidhiaithal1999
      @srinidhiaithal1999 Před 3 lety +54

      @@actuallymilo Mee too bro😭😭

    • @grahamwolfie2203
      @grahamwolfie2203 Před 3 lety +102

      Boys too. This song describes the relationship with my ex boyfriend dead on

    • @brianfarley3239
      @brianfarley3239 Před 3 lety +18

      @@actuallymilo same here brother

    • @tlalimaya
      @tlalimaya Před 3 lety +8

      100% for sure I do

  • @suuh1996
    @suuh1996 Před 4 lety +1985

    He may be married, but these songs will never be deleted. And their love too.

    • @katarinastanacev8143
      @katarinastanacev8143 Před 4 lety +60

      love will remember.. ❤️

    • @suuh1996
      @suuh1996 Před 4 lety +10

      @@yezbelify Agree hun. 😕

    • @saminouminou
      @saminouminou Před 3 lety +120

      Their "love" was toxic af tho. I never understood why so many people like them together when it was so obvious that they were poison for each other mind.
      I'm happy that he finally found a supportive wife who make him better and healthier. And selena really needed to focus on her health and let all this jelena bs in 2013.

    • @sidneysanchez962
      @sidneysanchez962 Před 3 lety +4

      @@katarinastanacev8143 move on

    • @misspriss2482
      @misspriss2482 Před 3 lety +37

      @@saminouminou I watch videos of him and his wife. She puts up with him just like Selena used to. I feel sorry for her.

  • @nicolemarquez6861
    @nicolemarquez6861 Před rokem +53

    you know you’ve been through it when you have the whole beginning of the extended cut memorized

  • @marrmm4554
    @marrmm4554 Před 5 lety +12464

    "...Everybody goes through,I guess something like this,but I,I didn't really understand it and,I have no other option but to laugh at it at this point cause everyones asks "why do you still stay?" and I'm like " I guess, I dont love myself first" thats it,its not really.. thats it
    When I was on, when I was on stage
    And I was thinking of..
    I felt like I know
    I know him though
    And I know that, and I know his heart
    And I know what he wouldn't do to hurt me
    But I didn't realize that I-I-I
    Feeling so confident, feeling so great about myself
    And then it just be completely shattered
    By one thing, by something so stupid
    He doesnt know who I am anymore
    And it doesnt matter because.. I guess I picked someone that was gonna break my heart..."

    • @Marina-qb2mu
      @Marina-qb2mu Před 5 lety +421

      Currently dying inside....💔why after years I still love him even thoe he breaks me and pretends it's my fault ... that his cheating is my fault for not being good enough ..

    • @Nnv630
      @Nnv630 Před 5 lety +103

      @@Marina-qb2mu you are good you are a beautiful heart and you deserve more than that I wish you to find someone that will make you happy

    • @Marina-qb2mu
      @Marina-qb2mu Před 5 lety +31

      @@Nnv630 thank you....I will keep keep hope .. you do too

    • @glow2500
      @glow2500 Před 5 lety +38

      thank you. but ..shit 💔

    • @henriqueafonsooliveira5576
      @henriqueafonsooliveira5576 Před 5 lety +7

      aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa thank you so much!

  • @316arcangel
    @316arcangel Před 4 lety +165

    Never get 2 attached to anyone unless they also feel the same towards you, Bcuz one sided Expectations can mentally destroy you💔💯💯💯

    • @lilyhill5412
      @lilyhill5412 Před 3 lety +3

      Your right

    • @misspriss2482
      @misspriss2482 Před 3 lety +9

      True. The problem is that abusers pretend like they care when in fact they are either using you to avoid loneliness and/or using you as a placeholder until they find what they want. As soon as you start to pull away, they reel you in. People like this are masters at reading people. They know just when to turn the temperature back up to keep you holding on.

    • @qazedc3
      @qazedc3 Před 2 lety +1

      I've always caught feelings fast and then was disappointed when my expectations were not met

  • @anitalorraine4607
    @anitalorraine4607 Před 5 lety +183

    Can’t believe I judged Selena’s relationship when I was in middle school until in 2017 i fell inlove with the wrong person and despite knowing that still came back ..countless times and used me for two years. It’s such a strange thing to see the red flags from the outside but when it’s you it’s impossible to see

  • @gotopinions9087
    @gotopinions9087 Před 5 lety +557

    “I guess it doesn’t matter... I picked someone who was gonna break my heart.”

  • @jennagomez9862
    @jennagomez9862 Před 4 lety +109

    “He doesn’t know who I am anymore😭” bruh that shit hit me😭😭💔.

  • @keimanigrant737
    @keimanigrant737 Před 5 lety +155

    "He doesn't know who I am anymore" that hit me hard when she started crying when she said that:(

  • @winterflower8930
    @winterflower8930 Před 4 lety +92

    "after this fever I'll survive"
    It kills me! If you read this comment and your are passing through a hard period, I want you to know that you are strong, beautiful and you deserve to be happy! Just keep going, you are not alone! You will make it! ❤️

  • @emilysaunders7903
    @emilysaunders7903 Před 6 lety +1189

    This song always made me cry.

  • @fannyalba7953
    @fannyalba7953 Před 5 lety +405

    It’s not just the song it’s the WHOLE thing that she says every single word describes what I have been feeling lately. It’s my fault for thinking he was the one

  • @lululala233
    @lululala233 Před rokem +61

    Been listening to this ever since it came out and never felt her pain because I never went through what she did. Today I sit here listening to this and crying like a maniac because I finally understand each and every word down to every single emotion she felt in that moment. A person who loves you would never let you sit alone to cry the way I cried. Get yourself together and fight that sadness.

  • @denisedenise1812
    @denisedenise1812 Před 4 lety +46

    Uggg I feel soo bad for her and I know that there’s still a part of her that wants him still.. I know the feeling ! I wish I could just hug her like omg

    • @jazminemaquin1
      @jazminemaquin1 Před 4 lety +5

      I dont think she would ever take him back but yes she loves him and he loves her. There love will always remain I believe, but he knows he hurt her to much and there is no rewind button from what he did getting married and now he has to try to fix the mistake he made by actually trying to be happy with hailey now. I do think he loves hailey, there is no doubt, but not the way he loved selena. I think Selena will come out strong because she has given herself time to heal

  • @evelyndiaz9543
    @evelyndiaz9543 Před 5 lety +303

    Selena has honestly been through a lot , and who wouldn’t admire her strength ? She’s probably the most strongest female singer I’ve ever heard , idc what anyone says , she’s just so strong and amazing 💗

    • @ptyh27
      @ptyh27 Před rokem

      It's why she is going through health and mental issue. The stress is killing her, sadly

  • @bartusenpire4586
    @bartusenpire4586 Před 4 lety +87

    From “I guess I don’t love myself first” to “Why don’t you recognize that I’m so rare” 🦋✨

  • @chasingghosts1090
    @chasingghosts1090 Před 3 lety +124

    “I thought you were the one...” Jesus Christ I’m going through this rn....

  • @worldofivy8816
    @worldofivy8816 Před 5 lety +427

    My poor baby...this hurts so damn much :( She came back like a queen.

  • @shree1772
    @shree1772 Před 5 lety +283

    SELENA DESERVE THE WHOLE WORLD

    • @xrome6619
      @xrome6619 Před 5 lety

      Shrashti Rajput there’s people out here getting it worse than her and you think she deserves the world....

    • @1..0w0..3
      @1..0w0..3 Před 5 lety +5

      @@xrome6619 *Just because someone has a problem worse than yours doesn't mean your problem magically disappears or become irrelevant.* So stop with the "someone else has it worse than u, so you don't deserve the best, only they do" bullshit.
      No it's not. *This is just a stereotype towards problems in life..*
      Ex: You got into an accident, you didn't die, but you lost your leg. Now someone else died in that accident. It is true that someone else had it worse, but *does your pain of losing a leg disappear or become less relevant?* Nope. What hurts still hurts. The pain is real regardless of someone else having it tougher.

    • @xrome6619
      @xrome6619 Před 5 lety

      T҉h҉e҉ ҉D҉a҉w҉n҉ ҉R҉i҉g҉h҉t҉ ҉B҉e҉f҉o҉r҉e҉ ҉ T҉h҉e҉ ҉S҉u҉n҉-҉R҉i҉s҉e҉ ҉I҉s҉ ҉T҉h҉e҉ ҉D҉a҉r҉k҉e҉s҉t҉ then everyone deserves the world not just her

  • @kylahearts213
    @kylahearts213 Před 4 lety +2183

    *2014: “Everyone asks, “Why do you still stay?” and I’m like, “I guess I don’t love myself first.”*
    *2019: “I needed to lose you to love me.”*
    I’m so happy she’s found her peace😕

    • @vitorsozza1941
      @vitorsozza1941 Před 4 lety +23

      I Hope that i'll find mine soon

    • @Mariemarie-uw7id
      @Mariemarie-uw7id Před 4 lety +7

      Vítor Sozza you will you are strong 💜

    • @deihoward
      @deihoward Před 3 lety +7

      currently sobbing :')

    • @kylahearts213
      @kylahearts213 Před 2 lety

      @Olives Tea And you’re obsessed with her. Seek help, it’s not healthy❤️

    • @TheBestOfSac187
      @TheBestOfSac187 Před 2 lety +1

      Does that mean that it took 5 years? Pain.

  • @mercedesrogers9951
    @mercedesrogers9951 Před 5 lety +434

    2019
    Selena: "He doesn't know who I am anymore".
    Me: 💔😔

  • @Queexn
    @Queexn Před 5 lety +804

    The ending was from her singing it live and I swear it’s the most genuine heartfelt performance she’s ever done ❤️😭

    • @teteali7697
      @teteali7697 Před 5 lety +13

      Ikr!! Thought I was the only one that thought that

    • @JuanFlores-mx5dx
      @JuanFlores-mx5dx Před 5 lety +1

      Jdnk I am not. Dank. Snks
      Osbus. Snksbj. Smksbi sm
      Osbu I nocs I have. Snksm
      Bubkfs. Thanks snks snk
      Ybksnk me know what you
      Busnks me and. Snksb sm

    • @doris__
      @doris__ Před 5 lety +1

      True💝💝♥️♥️♥️

  • @beachedsirens
    @beachedsirens Před 5 lety +742

    "You still love them, even if they no longer love you. There is bravery in letting go of a love you thought you knew. There is no shame in wanting someone who doesn't want you back. But darling, you deserve someone who wants to love you just as much." - Courtner Peppernell, Pillow Thoughts II

    • @angelazhang2411
      @angelazhang2411 Před 5 lety +2

      priscilla ortiz I LOVE COURTNEY SO MUCH 💓😭

    • @lexiehelm8884
      @lexiehelm8884 Před 4 lety +1

      I felt this deep in my soul

    • @badhabit7553
      @badhabit7553 Před 4 lety

      Wowm never crossed on my mind all of those beautiful words. Thanks dear for wake me up

  • @cblue5885
    @cblue5885 Před 4 lety +72

    Feeling so confident in myself then be completely shattered by one thing...by something so stupid..

  • @bishamoon_
    @bishamoon_ Před 4 lety +159

    Just when i thought the song is already sad enough, i started to read those comments. God bless every one of you, I hope you all will overcome your heartbreaks and smile again. Not many people are going to read this, but even if we all don't know each other, we're all human who experience kind of the same things so, just tell me if you need someone to talk i'm sure a lot of people here are willing to speak about each others problems 💖

  • @NFKhan-eu3ff
    @NFKhan-eu3ff Před 5 lety +921

    Love will make you, break you and then transform you completely.... into someone you never imagined to be....a someone who's the exact opposite of what you used to be. You're staring at the reflection in the mirror and how much it has changed physically, mentally and spiritually. With arms and legs having red streams flowing down you look at yourself....in desperation....but you don't know yourself anymore. You can't look in the mirror and not feel regret these days. You think the pain never ends. You think you're so broken you can't be fixed. You look at yourself and your shattered dreams...and how with each gust of wind the pieces travel away further making it even difficult for you to pick yourself up and fix yourself but the biggest misconception is that love doesn't destroy us but Its absence does.

  • @Marahezzat
    @Marahezzat Před 6 lety +430

    selena deserves the world i swear

  • @baebay6015
    @baebay6015 Před 4 lety +131

    October 2019 and still love this song 💔😓

  • @rileybfree1913
    @rileybfree1913 Před 2 lety +8

    the intro is heartbreaking

  • @dodoalsaleh4820
    @dodoalsaleh4820 Před 5 lety +139

    This song never gets old

  • @cassiejaide
    @cassiejaide Před 5 lety +811

    I just got out of an abusive relationship...and I’m SO happy !!!! 😁😁😃😃 I didn’t realize how unhappy he made me until I had no other choice but to leave

    • @sampeters7350
      @sampeters7350 Před 5 lety +13

      Cassie Jaide Been there 9yrs I stuck it out unbelievable the heartbreak unhappiness trauma illness etc etc. One person can cause through Abuse Domestic Violence bloody incomprehensible at times. Good luck

    • @chips_guac68
      @chips_guac68 Před 5 lety +9

      Good for you girl!

    • @amberday3918
      @amberday3918 Před 5 lety +9

      Cassie Jaide Im happy you left !! ❤️

    • @joycetarabay9624
      @joycetarabay9624 Před 5 lety +6

      Youll be proud of yourself later on

    • @princessabarquez5588
      @princessabarquez5588 Před 5 lety +6

      Cassie Jaide You were brave. I’m proud of you. ❤️

  • @helsa6168
    @helsa6168 Před 2 lety +89

    You got me sippin' on something
    I can't compare to nothing
    I've ever known, I'm hoping
    That after this fever I'll survive
    I know I'm acting a bit crazy
    Strung out, a little bit hazy
    Hand over heart, I'm praying
    That I'm gonna make it out alive
    The bed's getting cold and you're not here
    The future that we hold is so unclear
    But I'm not alive until you call
    And I'll bet the odds against it all
    Save your advice 'cause I won't hear
    You might be right, but I don't care
    There's a million reasons why I should give you up
    But the heart wants what it wants
    The heart wants what it wants
    You got me scattered in pieces
    Shining like stars and screaming
    Lighting me up like Venus
    But then you disappear and make me wait
    And every second's like torture
    Heroin drip, no more so
    Finding a way to let go
    Baby, baby, no, I can't escape
    The bed's getting cold and you're not here
    The future that we hold is so unclear
    But I'm not alive until you call
    And I'll bet the odds against it all
    Save your advice 'cause I won't hear
    You might be right, but I don't care
    There's a million reasons why I should give you up
    But the heart wants what it wants
    The heart wants what it wants
    The heart wants what it wants
    The heart wants what it wants
    This is a modern fairy tale
    No happy endings
    No wind in our sails
    But I can't imagine a life without
    Breathless moments
    Breaking me down, down, down, down
    The bed's getting cold and you're not here
    The future that we hold is so unclear
    But I'm not alive until you call
    And I'll bet the odds against it all
    Save your advice 'cause I won't hear
    You might be right, but I don't care
    There's a million reasons why I should give you up
    But the heart wants what it wants
    The heart wants what it wants
    The heart wants what it wants
    The heart wants what it wants
    The heart wants what it wants, baby
    It wants what it wants, baby
    It wants what it wants
    It wants what it wants
    The heart wants what it wants, baby
    It wants what it wants

  • @liitleb0nez
    @liitleb0nez Před 4 lety +134

    I think It’s better that they split. They were so toxic, so on and off and now they both seem so much happier. The words In this song explain how badly her mind was manipulated to excuse all of his actions at the cost of her feelings. She’s purely miserable In this song and so deeply codependent that It’s unhealthy. Sometimes what we want Isn’t what’s best for us.
    I understand all too well what she went though. Nobody deserves to go through this.

  • @soulsearching7240
    @soulsearching7240 Před 5 lety +171

    Nobody should have to go through what she did with her first love. Pure torment. I will always hold a place in my heart for you.

  • @Danielsmith-ek8ng
    @Danielsmith-ek8ng Před 5 lety +73

    This makes me cry for the person I never had

  • @sashas.6736
    @sashas.6736 Před 4 lety +78

    Ive never been in a serious relationship and this is why. I don’t wanna get my heart shattered into pieces by someone who Is supposed to love me. My family does that enough. 😔

  • @syuhadazamri91
    @syuhadazamri91 Před rokem +3

    “I thought u r the one” at this point i just cant hold my tears brooo

  • @mayrineinparadise5766
    @mayrineinparadise5766 Před 5 lety +130

    Her last words of her interview ,broke me . Same girl same 💔

  • @pennyz5658
    @pennyz5658 Před 6 lety +231

    This song always be my favourite

  • @rubynayeli5296
    @rubynayeli5296 Před 4 lety +72

    Imagine breaking Selena’s heart.

  • @HonestlyMayahh
    @HonestlyMayahh Před 3 lety +39

    My mom listened to this when i didn’t understand the lyrics, Now that i’m 3 years older I understand the lyrics and I can feel her pain.

  • @emaaniqbal7685
    @emaaniqbal7685 Před 5 lety +137

    listen
    close
    your
    eyes
    dont
    skip
    and
    remember
    someone
    loves
    you

  • @christinainthecity
    @christinainthecity Před 6 lety +507

    I think we’ve all been there... 💕

  • @bcrbes
    @bcrbes Před 3 lety +5

    The intro got me 😭

  • @alainadorgan1889
    @alainadorgan1889 Před 4 lety +42

    Man, this song hits the same no matter how many times you hear it💯

  • @firasanees2293
    @firasanees2293 Před 5 lety +1471

    4:09 you can’t tell me that this isn’t Justin‘s voice

  • @cc.cat95
    @cc.cat95 Před 5 lety +104

    Now that I’m older, I understand her pain she went through. I’ve been there and it hurts so much. Selena is so strong ❤️

  • @jayjay1781
    @jayjay1781 Před 4 lety +179

    My boyfriend lied to me to my face countless times about him cheating then turned around told the truth then told me it was my fault.... But yet im sitting here about to lost my career, lose myself, and lose my sanity over a guy who could care less... God Why Me

    • @horacemarley4433
      @horacemarley4433 Před 4 lety +5

      Cry your river if you need to... it's going to take some time but you'll get through this!

    • @rhondajohnson4053
      @rhondajohnson4053 Před 4 lety +6

      LOVE can make us BLIND, and make us make bad choices & decisions, but ONE thing I have had to learn the hard is that “Real Love” is g one sided and it doesn’t work ONLY 1 way.
      That is the TRUTH, no matter how much I or anyone else doesn’t want to hear or believe it, UNFORTUNATELY it’s the hurtful Truth. ❤️

    • @voyezmevoyage
      @voyezmevoyage Před 3 lety +3

      saw your comment and all i can say that you’re not alone...you’ll be healing in time..I’ve been through it.. and its hard but everything will pass as time goes by ..so keep alive

    • @kellyloves5324
      @kellyloves5324 Před 3 lety +4

      I can relate my ex lied to me countless times then I found out he was really cheating and come to find out he had a history of cheating before that I never new bout, honesty it still hurts even tho the break up was in April 🥺🥺 I mean I don’t have strong feelings for him anymore but the care is still there and that’s what is tearing me up

    • @ashwini1665
      @ashwini1665 Před 3 lety +1

      @@horacemarley4433 it's been an year..I'm not healed..getting worse..and I don't want him anymore..but the self love I had is broken..

  • @Chyna627
    @Chyna627 Před 4 lety +14

    Omg the part when she was talking in the beginning😩💔🥺🥺

  • @rajashrijoshi9763
    @rajashrijoshi9763 Před 5 lety +156

    your first love is Your weakness allows you never forget this and no one change the first love feelings or 2 love or 3 love you always remember your first love in life time 🙂

    • @gabriellaromao382
      @gabriellaromao382 Před 5 lety

      I never forgot my first love... I will always love him😔

  • @liar8645
    @liar8645 Před 5 lety +497

    “i thought u were the one”.

  • @kylemichaelcavanaugh
    @kylemichaelcavanaugh Před 4 lety +51

    “He doesn’t know who I am anymore”
    that part hurt cause it’s so true.
    “It doesn’t matter anymore because I picked someone who was gonna break my heart”
    Damn... selena. Girl, that just broke me, why do we do this to ourselves. 😪

  • @crazyy_giio
    @crazyy_giio Před 7 měsíci +3

    I can safely say that I feel her tone of voice, her words and completely relate to her! Not just the lyrics, but her personal voice and can safely say that I am currently hurting from an ex still & him cant shake it off 😢 hearing this song this time around does hit different, Selena has helped me heal in all my years with her music. But this one is tough to heal cause her voice words are honestly my feelings currently 😢

  • @jhonoviedotaborda
    @jhonoviedotaborda Před 6 lety +488

    Voice Broken, it hurts.

  • @anjali9712
    @anjali9712 Před 6 lety +527

    This made me cry. Why'd you mess with my heart like that? She was going through so much when she released this song. I can't help but cry because I can literally feel her feelings through the song😢💔. Glad she's happy now and in a good place😊♥

    • @zaidah1988
      @zaidah1988 Před 5 lety

      Anjali Pankaj Morning

    • @brifontaine5149
      @brifontaine5149 Před 5 lety +4

      Never really happy just learning to accept I been there still going through it.b

    • @brooklynallen796
      @brooklynallen796 Před 5 lety

      Anjali Pankaj Suck it up bitch you're better than them

    • @stelio196
      @stelio196 Před 5 lety +6

      She does this, makes us feel these strong feelings with her, she is an incredible person, can not understand how Justin did not do everything to stay with her.

    • @syafiqahhafizullah2905
      @syafiqahhafizullah2905 Před 5 lety

      💩😽😽💑👫

  • @conicacsm
    @conicacsm Před 2 lety +7

    0:23 “I guess I don’t love myself first”
    Selena in 2020: “I need to hate you to love me”

  • @tittonegocio
    @tittonegocio Před 4 lety +62

    October 2019 and still love this song❤️

  • @Richenzo_99
    @Richenzo_99 Před 6 lety +1736

    Wait.... what???? I’ve never heard this version. Am I even a selenator??? :(

  • @thembelihleportiankosi7072
    @thembelihleportiankosi7072 Před 5 lety +16

    When she says" but then u make me feel crazy, you make me feel like it's my fault... I was in pain".. I felt that

  • @Corp0ratehippie
    @Corp0ratehippie Před 5 lety +37

    I’m still recovering from being in abusive relationships, and this song is so relatable. You can tell she meant every single word of what she sang. You make up this idea of someone in your head because they put forth an image or only a piece of themselves. Once you see who they really are, it’s hard to leave because the love you have for them convinces you that they’re going to change and go back to the way they were.

    • @ln3675
      @ln3675 Před 2 lety +2

      exactly, you're so right !

  • @rohan_3128
    @rohan_3128 Před 3 lety +38

    as a boy, it hurts that so many undeserving guys got beautiful girls but still they treated them like they have no importance

  • @johntripler3851
    @johntripler3851 Před 6 lety +351

    Selena Gomez very beautiful song and amazing and your voice and vocals are absolutely and incredibly fantastic always truly enjoy your music love ya

  • @dannygarcia2284
    @dannygarcia2284 Před 5 lety +133

    Damn... i’m a guy and just hearing her voice breaks me. I feel you Selena baby 😭💔

  • @she4101
    @she4101 Před 4 lety +12

    When she says "I guess I don't love myself first" 0:21 I just feel so happy listening to her new song "lose you to love me" because now I know that she has loved herself and she is full of joy

  • @naimabegum7216
    @naimabegum7216 Před 4 lety +29

    "I picked someone who was going to break my heart" "damn I felt that"💔💔💔💔

  • @Krodri7229
    @Krodri7229 Před 6 lety +149

    This made me cry!!! I’m going thru this heartbreak and this song just makes me cry😭😭😭 it’s so beautiful and I can feel Selena’s pain!!!! My queen!!!!

  • @_737
    @_737 Před 5 lety +143

    Feeling very sad about recent moments of Selena's life. LOVE is like this, 99% brings pain at any point of life . Her this song is heart touching & makes me cry.

    • @canadiandcute
      @canadiandcute Před 5 lety

      She still has money she’s still young she’s still pretty it’s not that bad. There’s literally 3 billion people in the world right now who don’t have food. Kids with cancer that don’t have medical treatment and dying slowly on the ground surrounded by garbage and animal feces. The biggest destruction of the planet since the dinosaurs were wiped out is literally happening in front of our eyes. But no I feel sooo sad about Selena throwing a temper tantrum and going to the nut house over the Biebs marrying his twin sister. Just end it now I can’t take anymore 😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @_737
      @_737 Před 5 lety +7

      Sometime we forgot that each and every persons feelings and way of love is different which shouldn't be compared with other crisis in the world. Depression comes from the way to approach their own situation of love in their life . It can't be measured by wealth. AND every single person is different , we can't put our thought/ thinking or even decision on them !

    • @SammyVidalMusic
      @SammyVidalMusic Před 5 lety

      _* d

  • @avelenagarcia9027
    @avelenagarcia9027 Před 4 lety +759

    Who’s here after “lose you to love me “ 😭

  • @bassyreyes6999
    @bassyreyes6999 Před 2 lety +6

    Omg thank you so much for also putting the end part from her live version. That's my favorite part...... "I thought you were the one......"

  • @LindzFletch17
    @LindzFletch17 Před 5 lety +19

    Wow, that’s a powerful intro

  • @isamalfoy8120
    @isamalfoy8120 Před 4 lety +35

    "i guess i don't love myself first." holy shit.

  • @andreadunnuck4028
    @andreadunnuck4028 Před 4 lety +36

    The emotion she poured into this song shows that this was something that was super real for her. Nobody on this Earth deserves Selena. I have so much respect for the woman she has become. She is such a queen!

  • @Giddianyxo
    @Giddianyxo Před 2 lety +10

    used to say "wow , shes so dumb , why cant she leave him already? its not that hard" now im like "wow." we love u selena im so happy ur doing amazing baby

  • @sarafinafaustin9621
    @sarafinafaustin9621 Před 5 lety +29

    I felt that intro.

    • @deborahtravers6342
      @deborahtravers6342 Před 5 lety

      Sarafina Faustin = YES ' KNOWS what's going on 😉😙😂😂😁😀😆😆😆😲😔But we LOVE YOU

  • @nataliepojer
    @nataliepojer Před 6 lety +272

    4:49 !!

  • @indredu2
    @indredu2 Před 5 lety +11

    "I guess...I didn't love myself first..." Felt that, so true .

  • @karinaballesteros1991
    @karinaballesteros1991 Před 4 lety +121

    "i guess i don't love myself first" to "i need to lose you to love me"

  • @multifandomstanner
    @multifandomstanner Před 5 lety +3286

    Never get in a relationship if you don’t love yourself first. That person will control the highs and lows and you’ll lose in the end with such a low blow . Also, wait until you completely love yourself and know what you deserve.
    Edit: Holy SHit 1. 2 k l likes wtf y'alllll.
    Edit: 1.5 k likes. 💋💋💋💋💋
    Edit: I am not saying that no one will love you. Have you ever considered that I’ve been hurt too? And I’m just saying sometimes you have to be there for yourself.
    Edit: I never said that it’a easy or an overnight thing. It’s a process and guess what? Sometimes people who have been hurt however small still have wisdom.
    Edit: 1.7 likes. 💕 💕 💕
    Edit: 1.8 k likes ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💟💖💗
    Happy Pride Month. Accept yourself and love yourself. It took me awhile and it gets harder each day . I’m not gonna lie but I love myself and it’s a process. No matter what your sexual orientation is.
    Edit: 2.2 k likes. How????????????
    Edit: 3.2 likes. Woah.
    I wanted to say that it really does depend on the person too. I was in a bad place when I wrote it so some of these comments upset me. Seriously considering deleting this.

    • @patrciaog.3439
      @patrciaog.3439 Před 5 lety +5

      You are so right gurl

    • @moonchild2548
      @moonchild2548 Před 5 lety +27

      But not everyone knows that or has any control over falling for someone who is trouble.. for that matter...u can love yourself and still love the other too much to choose not letting go and killing urself with every single moment ...even though u know it's not right and one might think that it hurts too much but no one has an idea what it actually is like
      Sorry for the buzzkill but just had to write this

    • @multifandomstanner
      @multifandomstanner Před 5 lety +6

      @@moonchild2548 I actually do agree with you. In the end if that happens, you shouldn't blame yourself; it wasn't your fault.

    • @moonchild2548
      @moonchild2548 Před 5 lety +4

      @@multifandomstanner
      Yeah happened a long while ago
      Well I learnt too much I guess
      I know hon thanks

    • @moonchild2548
      @moonchild2548 Před 5 lety +3

      I agree with that
      And I wish the same to you

  • @pjfl1998xx
    @pjfl1998xx Před 5 lety +18

    Jelena is one of the most beautiful love story yet the most heartbreaking one, i guess fame, people and pressure ruins their relationship but i know that they both still and frvr holds a place in each other's heart

  • @paulina5693
    @paulina5693 Před 2 lety +8

    I think it's one of her best songs ...

  • @mhdwantz6214
    @mhdwantz6214 Před 4 lety +15

    This is what I’ve been through for 7 years! This is really sad when you know that your wasting your time with someone that will never truly appreciate you 💔