I had breast cancer surgery
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 11. 07. 2024
- Go to our sponsor betterhelp.com/eamonandbec for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help. As it has been with my breast cancer journey thus far, my second surgery is full of ups and downs with some BIG NEWS revealed at the end!
After my initial lumpectomy surgery, I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer back in December of 2021. Since then we have gone through a full round of IVF to preserve our fertility and 5 months of chemotherapy. In this episode we share everything from 6 weeks post chemo to making the difficult decision regarding which surgery to have (mastectomy or lumpectomy) to the recovery process and finally the pathology results of surgery.
0:00 our cancer journey so far...
0:55 why another surgery?
1:24 why a bilateral mastectomy đ
1:51 MRI
2:27 meeting with our surgeon
3:44 now we weigh our options
4:56 oncologist's perspective...
5:49 recurrence rates for breast cancer
6:44 my surgery decision
7:50 here's the plan!
8:30 hair regrowth post chemo
9:20 hormonal therapy for 5-10 years
10:02 MEET RAEMON!
11:27 how therapy has helped me
13:22 surgery day
17:11 Eamon starts to worry
18:53 happy birthday Bec!
20:19 1 week post-op
22:02 what's this lump?! đł
25:22 surgery results
27:38 sharing the news with loved ones!
To anyone out there going through something similar, we hope this video can help you feel a little less alone. We know that being able to share our journey with all of you has definitely made us feel supported, loved and less alone. So our continued love and gratitude to this community for getting us through.
#breastcancer #breastcancerawareness
still feeling 40 lbs lighter and ready to run a marathon/take a big nap!!! thank you all for being such a huge support for us throughout this time xxx
Sending love and joy for your family đđđ
Glad to see you guys post again!
Yahoo! Also can I say as soon as you announced your wig's name, I couldn't help but think "Everybody loves Reamon" đ€Ł
Thank you so much for sharing this Bec đđ»â€ïž Itâs a huge support for so many with cancer and also for us with other long and short term sicknesses.
I am myself going through a long term treatment at the hospital every two weeks and it means so much to me to see that Iâm far from alone â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
I cried through the whole video. I was thinking about how I watched you travel around the world while I had cancer and how it really helped me get through it. I wish I could give you the same, sending you love and healing vibes.
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We all know bec is an amazingly strong and courageous woman. But can we acknowledge Eamon for a sec? What an amazing dude being so incredibly supportive of bec through all of this. And you can tell how much this has affected him and matured him even more. Thank you for being there for bec through all of this!! We love you both!
Eamon truly deserves all the love and attention that this community can offer!! He has been nothing short of INCREDIBLE!!!! I am the luckiest girl in the world đ„°
Yes Eamon is soo wonderful...tender...loving...funny. That support is priceless.
Amen
You are so beautiful bec .đ
Well said
In 1998 while 37 weeks pregnant my wife was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer. She was induced and gave birth to our healthy daughter. She had several weeks of chemo, and then a lumpectomy with lymph nodes removed on one side. Thereafter, she had radiation for ~7 weeks. Radiation sucked. Her skin was burned, and she likely sustained lung damage!? Buy she made a full recovery, and our daughter flourished into a fine young woman. Fast forward ~23 years and some of her annual/routine tests come back abnormal. Months later, a repeat test reveals a rapidly growing tumor. My wife opts for a double mastectomy having considered that if she has only a lumpectomy, which is then diagnosed as cancer, she would have to have a second surgery. The surgery went really well. Pathology comes back in several days to reveal that the tumor was cancerous. Her decision to have the double mastectomy turns out to be a good one, given that she would have ended up having this surgery anyway. She opted for reconstructive surgery, but one expander has been given her trouble. So, she's going to have the expanders removed and maybe have reconstruction at a later date, but for now she'll be flat (a big change given that she was a 38DD at one time.) I love her to the end of the world and hate to see her go through this. But that's life. You roll with the punches, or you get knocked out. She's a fighter, but I hope this is the second and final round. Hang in there Bec and Eamon.
I pray for your wife's health. Let it be as I have said.
If you don't mind me asking did your wife have to takes a tablet evry day for 5 years when she first had I have it and afraid of it comeing back ,thank you †and well done to her â€
I thought stage 4 you are constantly on treatment to contain the Mets?
Damn when Bec said "What a gift it is to turn 32" it hit me in the existential feels. It seems like not a particularly special birthday until you realize every day lived is a gift.
âWhat a gift it is to turn 32â that sentence made me cry full on tears. I canât begin to explain how proud I am of the both of you!!
Good reminder for any of us who moan about getting old
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âI need more tissuesâ says every person watching this and following your journey. Bec Iâm just so relieved and happy! Love you both!
awe sorry to give your kleenex box a run for it's money too!!! love and appreciate you đ
Right i just cried my eyes out. So so happy for them!
Yes ma'am we definitely all need more tissue but this time with a big smile đ love you guys oh so much!!! Congratulations My Awesome Friends
Wow Bec! I've been following your journey from the beginning. Sharing such a personal experience to help others in similar situations shows remarkable strength and bravery. God Bless you for your courage. Stay well and may you have a long, happy and productive life!đđđ
@@eamonandbec I don't think any of us want apologies, we are all crying happy tears with you! I have been watching for a several years and love following your journey! I have worried and cried and laughed right along with you. Now I am so excited to share in your relief and happiness! Sending love and light and healing! Xoxo
I never realized how invested I was in Becs journey until she found out she was cancer free. The relief and emotion I felt was overwhelming. Iâm so happy that youâre going to be okay Bec and I canât wait to see what youâre going to do when youâre fully recovered.
Right there with you! It brought tears to my eyes
unfortunately they not together i r ead this i was deeply sadden i hope it is fake reporting of it
I am so relieved and happy for you! I am a breast cancer survivor of 14 years.
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That's awesome!! Sp glad and encouraging to hear! I was just diagnosed.
what your ca type ? and what stage?
I had breast cancer in 2005 than God I'm alive.it was grade 2
Amen
When Bec corrected herself and said âI get to be on medication for 5 to 10 yearsâ that. was. POWERFUL. Your videos just keep teaching us so much, thank you thank you thank you for sharing this journey with us.
đđŒ Iâve never thought of it in that way, but I will from now on - such a powerful way of taking back autonomy and focussing on the positive
I'm worried though.
Can she get pregnant and take that medication?
If she needs to go off of it for the duration of the pregnancy, how dangerous is that?
I'm concerned.
My friend a month ago finished her 5 yr Tamio sp? Treatment. Hope that time flies by for you.
My wife was diagnosed with breast cancer 8 weeks ago, this was a week after we returned from our honeymoon. Being 27 years old she is really struggling with being a young breast cancer patient, we don't know anyone else who was diagnosed young. I told her about you and how your treatment is going and she found it very comforting. We are still wrapping our head around things but glad to see your treatment is progressing well! Lots of love to you and Eamon x
Would Angie Jolie be considered young?
These two are definitely a good couple to fill you with positive energy, hope and love! Good luck you and your wife!
Prayers for your wife I can't imagine
Sending positive vibrations your way. She will be celebrating too in no time! Half of the work is through a great support system and faith and I'm sure she has both.â€
There's a girl on here called Samantha, who was diagnosed Stage 4 at 22, Today she's doing so much better and is making a great recovery
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I cried years of joy with you today. Your cancer journey was so much harder than mine. One surgery and I was done. You have handled so much difficulty with so much grace. Congratulations!!
My Mum lost her battle with cancer on May 9; just 2 days shy of her 75th birthday. I'm empty without her.
Stay strong and many blessings to you both.
Iâm so so sorry to hear that! What kind of cancer did she battle? All the Best to You! :(
@@suebean3873 she was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer. It was already in her bones, then spread to her lungs. She caught pneumonia in January and died on May 9.
Keep on fighting, you've got this
Crying of happiness for you! You are so strong Becđ you deserve all the health and happiness to come!
I'm an ugly cry messđđ
@@nicolesmith251 Yup!
I know I am not the only one who has been waiting holding their breath for this test result. Continued prayers for you as you enter the next step on this journey. You keep being you and rocking this fight!!! Thank you for inviting us to be on your journey. â€ïž
Thank you so much Nicole! Appreciate you so much!
Hi you all you're all waiting for test results I haven't had to courage to even go to the dr yet
@@janneal9156 please go, it's so important that you have any change in your breasts be checked out by your doctor. If not for you, but do it for those who love you. I care that you be checked please. I know that it is scary I've been there myself and I'm glad that did, they gave me 3 months to live with the lumps in me, YES I'm a breast cancer survivor âŁ
Hello Nicoleđ„°
Thank Bec!! Just diagnosed with breast cancer earlier this week at 34 with family history. Still learning about this unknown journey ahead of me, but I'm so glad I found you. Thank you for the positivity and for giving us a light!
How is your journey going? Any updates?
Dear Bec, you are a role model for all women experiencing the same diagnosis. God bless you and your buddy Eamon!
BEST. NEWS. EVER! We're so proud of you both for fighting breast cancer and showing the ups and downs along the way. This had to be the outcome - the best news for the best people. You both deserve the world - now go and get it! LOVE YOU!!!!!!!! â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
Love you both so much đ. True friends. We are so lucky!!
Love you both so much đ. True friends. We are so lucky!!
This thought tears to my eyes. I agree with Kinging It said as I knew your (Bec) brother so they are so sweet, funny & talents that I was watching the show since. Anyway God always taking care of you Bec. I know Eamon always take care and support u. I wish you and your family a happy and safe. Take Care! I am soooo proud of you that you got cancer- free. A-men!!! Love you two. đ€đ»đđ»â€ïžđđ»
@@eamonandbec heyyy
when Bec said ..."i get to celebrate another year" my heart broke, we are so fragile, as humans. We need to throw wild birthday parties, i will from now on, thanks for sharing x
I thought the same. Iâm not one for doing much on my birthday, But now Iâll look at it like how lucky am I to celebrate another year
After a rough night of crying post lumpectomy with one margin not clear and surgery #2 scheduled in 2 days to clear it, I opened youtube and came across your video first thing. omg watching your ups and downs through this part of your journey was the most validating and therapeutic experience Iâve ever had. this was an amazing video capture of your life that will help millions of women process their feelings. just want to give you the biggest hug right now. it felt like a friend walking side by side on this journey. cheers to no cancer and a fulfilling joy-filled life to you both. lots of love to you. â€
Ive just been diagnosed with grade 3 triple negative breast cancer đą Literally the start. Dont even know when treatment will start. Your page has given me hope â€â€
Damn, I started bawlin' when the doctor said "no evidence of disease there". So happy for you! Big love and hugs from a stranger across the world. â€ïž
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me too gurl, me too. my husband woke up and asked why i was crying and i couldnt even explain. all i could squeak out was Bec isnt sick anymore. he looked at me like i had 17 heads crawling out of my butt.
@@hollyshaw-elliemae đ đ đ I'm so glad my husband understands. He just looks at me and asks... Vanlifers? Yup.
Me too đ„°
@@babisjo he knows but he doesnt understand why i watch if it makes me sad. i tried explaining it isnt about ME, this family entertained me when i was goiing through hell, and didnt even know it, and to see them struggle, hurts. so to see them getting stronger and cancer free and coming out the other side, its healing to me as well. eamon and bec managed to pull me out of some dark stuff the last couple of years without even knowing it. their positivity and love and laughter and how they make us all feel like THEIR family, kept me sane. wormed their way into my heart and i cant thank them enough or send them enough love back.
I literally broke down when the doctor called with the WONDERFULLY GOOD NEWS!!! I know I'm just a stranger but I think of you all as family and I love you guys so much!! I don't have to words to adequately describe how thankful I am right now!! I just hope you all know how much you are loved, thought of, cared for, and prayed for by all of us out here!! đ
You don't know me but I've been following you for awhile now. I was very sad to hear that Bec had contracted cancer. I'm amazed at how strong and positive you are. I am sending you all of the positive and healthy vibes that I can generate. Love you guysâ€
Completely agree with everything Anna says here. So happy for you both with Bec being cancer free! Such good news
@@gracemorrison4359 are you trying to be funny?
Iâm English, itâs perhaps an English way of speaking, just means that I am pleased for them she is well and cancer free/I am happy to hear she is going to be alright/happy that they get to spend many more years together as they are such a good couple.
Why do you have to criticise me? I was just expressing how happy I was for herâŠ. Please be kind and if you canât be kind donât say anything!
@@gracemorrison4359 Obviously you don't possess the empathy gene in your DNA.
I cried with Bec every step of the way watching her cancer videos. Thank you for sharing. I know these videos give comfort to women all over the world. You handled this like a champ Bec!! Blessings to you and your amazing Eamon :)
You guys are amazing. đ„čđđđ€âš My 9 year old son went through Leukemia at age 3, and had 3+ years of chemo. We are all praying for you Bec! đđ
"Do I take a nap, or do I try to run a marathon?" My favorite line ever. Congratulations! I'm so glad your test results came back great. You guys are doing amazing telling your story. This will help so many people!
When your doctor said âthere was no tumorâ!!! I screamed & my dog Charlie comes running into the house and jumps on the sofa. Iâm so happy for you guys & your familyđčđâ€ïžđčđâ€ïžđč
2003 my wife had pre-cancer surgery. She lost one breast. Fortunately all cancer was removed. It is 19 years now. We never looked back. She's still doing well. It never bothered me that she was no longer the beautiful little girl of my dreams. She is the most special person in the world to me.
I also was diagnosed with breast cancer last September 2021 (one year anniversary soon) ! I had surgery for stage 2 cancer in my left breast and chemo and radiation between February and May 2022âŠ.
Recuperating day by day and happy to be alive!!! Every day is a blessing đ Watching your journey while going through mine helped me tremendously!!! Iâm so happy that youâre doing well!! â€ïž
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When that rabbit crossed your path on your way into surgery, I smiled. Not sure if you know or not, but it is typically a sign of new beginnings and good luck. Iâm so happy for you, and Eamon, that your news was so good. So much love.
I fully believe this. We went through nearly 4 years of trying to conceive, 4 failed IUIs, 2 rounds of IVF and miscarriage. During the second round of IVF and before my transfer I kept seeing rabbits everywhere. My husband kept saying it was a sign and I truely believe it was. I am currently 12w pregnant today with our miracle baby.
When I saw the rabbit in the video yesterday I started to cry. I just knew it was a sign of hope and positivity for them.
Thank you for acknowledging it in your comment đ
YES! I thought this too. Sooooooo sweet.
Iâm a nurse on a day surgery unit in the Uk. We also look after ladies having breast surgery due to cancer. I want to thank you for sharing your journey with us, itâs the parts we donât get to see or hear about. Love and strength for the rest of your treatment plan xx
@claire penny Thank you for being a caring nurse. I had a mastectomy 21 years ago at 31 years old. Hugs from Pennsylvania.
My mom just diagnosed with TNBC stage 4. Im so devastated when I heard about it . Itâs like my world crumbling downđ„ș I cried every night and praying so she could live longer . I hope my mom can overcome this situation . Sheâll have her 1st chemo within a week from now . I hope everything is going well . The saddest part is I canât even by her side when she needed me . Iâm too far away from her . Im in Australia and sheâs in Malaysia . Itâs not been easy for me since the last few weeks . Luckily I have my brother and my stepdad by her side . I prayed for ppl who has BC may free from this disease on day .
How is ur mum doing my mum just got diagnosed with tnbc
@@indimist390 sheâs doinâ great and feel much better .. she had her surgery last month to removed her left breast . Donât worry and keep praying to god . I hoping that ur mom will overcome this situation .
I cannot tell you how much I'm balling my eyes out with you! I don't even know you two but just found your channel tonight and I'm hooked! Your husband is one of the most awesome guys I've ever seen and I'm jealous! I've gone through several cancer scares alone. Those weeks waiting for the pathology to come back is horrendous! I'm a huge advocate of therapy and have had a therapist several times in my life, and it surely does help get me through the stuff. I can't tell you how many times I've had something happen, and the, do I go in to the ER or is this just anxiety, what the hell do I do, kicks in. Now, with covid, my Dr's all tell me to avoid the ER at all costs.Thank you, thank you, thank you, for showing your raw emotions going through all this! It's going to help people feel like they aren't alone and it's OK to feel the feelings in the moment! My sincere prayers are with you for a speedy recovery and, please give your husband a huge hug for me!
Seeing that bunny in the road made me feel spiritual so I looked it up: "Many cultures see rabbits as incredibly lucky animals. Because of this, seeing a bunny in the wild, or having one cross your path, is accepted as a good luck omen. In particular, seeing a rabbit can be symbolic of good luck in romance, family life, and your finances. Rabbits are also spiritually powerful." The force is with you guys! Thank you for sharing this journey.
It's still so unreal for me how you can care so much about someone you've never met. But towards the end of this video I was sobbing so heavily and just so amazed by how strong you are and how much you can inspire a whole community. Here's to free parking spots when going in for radiation and to many more years of inspiring videos! Love from Cologne, Germany
I love how Oso just looks at Eamon when asked if he wants to go out and as soon as Bec calls him he jumps rights up. Shows who his Hooman isđ„°
I am literally crying my eyes out! So happy for you Bec â€ïžâ€ïž
Bec really is a ray of sunshine, even when she feels her lowest. Its beyond inspiring to see how strong she is
As a 30 year breast cancer survivor I cried through this whole video my sweet friend. I admire you so much for your strength and courage and you have the most amazing partner! I was 31 when I was diagnosed so I hope that some encouragement for you. Thank you for sharing your story. I love all of your adventures!
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I am bawling my eyes out watching your video. I love you Bec, so proud of you, thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. I cried even more to see Kara and Natesâ reactions, came full circle to me as I love those guys as well. Hats off to Eamon for being such a supportive husband, omg he is so precious. Go take a walk, take a nap, AND go run a marathon tomorrow lol!
Honestly, I can't describe how thankful I am that you're sharing your story, Bec. I cry with you when you cry and it feels weird, because we don't know each other in real life, but I feel the connection anyways. I wish you all the best & I'm so glad it went well! Love from Germany, Dea
PS: Eamon, I hope you take good care of yourself, too. Supporting a loved one going through stuff like that is hard, but you're doing amazing. Love you both.
I started crying at the end when you started making phone calls and promptly got tackled with kisses from my Lettie-girl who just wanted mom to not cry lol. Dogs are precious companions. I am so happy for you Bec and so happy that you have had Eamon and Oso there with you.
As a husband to the most beautiful woman in my life who too has endured the agony of breast cancer and undergone a mastectomy, I can feel your joy at hearing the all clear news as if it were us all over again. It genuinely brought a lump to my throat hearing your reaction to the news. I can only add this, youâve both been an inspiration to anyone that knows you or follows you. I truly hope that you can move on with life as normally as is possible. Congratulations to you both on what has been an incredible journey and one that I think has made you both stronger than ever. Best wishes and much love from Wales đŽó §ó ąó ·ó Źó łó ż Uk â€ïž
@PEGASUS ONE I really loved your reply. I too had a mastectomy, I was 31. Your comment about your wife, made me cry as my husband at the time was a complete jerk. On the 2nd day after my surgery, he told me to get up and pack our 1-year-old's lunch for day care. You sir, are a real man.
@@stacydavis1682 Your husband didnât deserve you. I wish you happiness and great health!
@@chrisbergeron88 Awe thank you, Chris!
Youâre so brave. I donât know how Iâm going to do this. Just got diagnosed and it has already spread to the lymph nodes, plus I have lupus. But watching you motivates me to hang in there. Thank you for sharing your story. †stay well!!
You got this Diya!! Hope for the best for youâ€â€â€
Praying for you đđđ
We donât know each other, but I am really sending heartfelt prayers and love..â€
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@I'm happy happy about what?
Congratulations, Eamon & Bec! I feel like you both have been on a year-long rollercoaster ride. I have cried HAPPY TEARS throughout this video. You have had a huge cheerleading team and prayer group and I am sure it will continue. I thank God, for guiding your doctors, nurses, family, and friends for all each one has done for you, and stayed by your side. The two of you are an amazing couple and I love you both so much.
I kept crying happy tears and I thought âoh I hope Kara and Nate get the good news!â It felt like one big happy family when I saw them and your loved ones get to share all the joy! I know this has been a tough mountain to climb and I hope the feeling of being on top stays with you! Thank you for sharing with us and I hope you BOTH feel all the love we are sending back to you! â„ïžâ„ïž
I havenât escaped a single one of these videos without bawling my eyes out every time. Iâve been watching you for as long as I can remember, and your strength and resilience through everything youâve been through is something to be so proud of. Congrats Bec! Hereâs to the next milestone of getting through radiation!
Wishing you speedy recovery and good health Becky đâŁïžStay strong!
Youâve got this ! Just been thru the same thing and the emotions run rampant, itâs part of the healing / grieving process to accept what is and be thankful for each new day no matter how tough it feels.
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bawling my eyes out & completely over the moon for you! CONGRATS BEC! I've been waiting for this incredible news eagerly each week, perpetually crossing my fingers & toes that your fight has a visible finish line. Call every single contact in your phone and keep living that victorious moment!!!!.... YOU'RE SUPERWOMAN!! đđđ
I work in breast cancer research at a university and holy smokes this made me cry. Your journey has helped motivate me to keep pushing and advocating for our patients to find a cuređ
Curing cancer from meds? NO.
The cure and prevent is from dealing with emotional issues/abuse, auric healing, and raw nutrition.
Vitamin C injection works identical to chemotherapy minus the side effects.
If you want to be apart of the curing fields then you're working in the wrong department and only keeping people sick to the day they die and it's a quick road to death
I'm three days out from my (2nd) lumpectomy and (1st) sentinel node removal, awaiting my pathology results and next steps. I'm grateful that I found you and Eamon and that you decided to share your experience. Wishing you all the best!
Hey I too have gone through the same journey and I felt like the same... We are strong women.. I completed my 20 sittings of radiation on 15th of Nov 2022.. I am a cancer survivor and trying to bring my life back on track... All the best to you as well.. You will do good in your radiations. All the best girl.. I am unmarried and I am 33 years old..
I wish you all the best for your future endeavours sister ...lots of love and blessings,happiness to you â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž.....
Congratulations. I pray for you to be healthy the rest of your life. Let it be as I have said.
@@CCmagee3 thank you.
Finished the vid and now crying happy tears for a couple of humans Iâve never met.
Happy happy joy joy to you both!
Same!
Exactly
When Bec asked âhow are you supposed to know?â I felt that so strongly. This journey is so completely chaotic and Iâm thankful that youâve allowed us to see every part of it. Youâre a badass and youâve got some awesomely supportive family and friends. â€ïž
So so happy for you and Eamon! I admire your resilience, transparency and strength. You both are so amazing !
Girl, I felt your pain when you got the seroma! When I had my sentinel lymph node biopsy, I also developed one & the pressure in my armpit was so painful. Congrats on your wonderful news! Thank you for sharing your journey. As a fellow cancer survivor, it's so helpful to find videos life yours when you're fearful & waiting for answers to your own diagnosis. đ
Bec, thank you for sharing such a vulnerable and scary part of your life with us. From showing the emotional rollercoaster, to then calling chemo "liquid subshine". Your positive attitude, realness, and overall determination to fight cancer head on is amazing. I hope you are healing well from surgery. Continue being the ray of sunshine that you are đ (and also, know that it's okay to have many rainy days sprinkled in there, too).
Well said
Omg and just here at the end of the video bawling along with you guys. CANCER FREE!! So, so so so incredibly happy for you. So amazing!!
Thank you so much Jessica! Being able to share this with everyone has honestly been a big part of finding purpose and healing throughout my journey. I am just so grateful this community continues to support us đ€
without the rain, the flowers cant grow right?
How wild is it that we all care and have so much love for someone we've never met. Sending you massive love Bec! đ
Iâm so happy for you both. Bec, the pureness of your emotions brought me to tears. You are truly blessed.
Been watching for 4 years and this video is the most relatable and connecting I have seen. I really appreciate the vulnerability and openness modeled here. And the beauty of your relationship through it all.
THIS IS THE GREATEST UPDATE EVER!!! Congrats Bec! You are such a warrior!! Great job, Eamon for supporting and loving her through this journey!
Aw Bec I cried seeing your "all clear" diagnosis - I've been keeping up with you and Eamon for years and this is such a hard period of both of your lives. Your strength and positivity is so inspiring - it makes my heart burst that after everything you've been through the weight has finally lifted. Sending so much love and joy to you both - and Oso is the cutest!
So glad you had Eamon to go through this with I went through stage three lung cancer by myself . radiation was the easiest part of my treatment. God Bless you both đâ€ïž
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Same here, all alone through ovarian cancer. And possibly getting mastectomy too cause of brca1. And I'm a single mom. If I only had ONE person in the world to be by my side, it would be a completely different story. Hardest thing is not the cancer, but cancer on your own.
Iâm in my second month of chemo and I have triple negative breast cancer. I canât wait to get to where you are next year. Letâs go!!! Better and better everyday!đ
As many others have said, I have been waiting and praying that you would get the answer you received. I am a 70-year-old male, and I even cried with tears of joy when you got the pathologist results. You both are working so well together to get your health back and to be able to get back on your own life track. Keep the faith, keep the heart shining, and know that there are a lot of folks out here who want the very best for you Bec, and that we will continue to pray that everything else continues to go well.
Letâs all appreciate how strong Bec is for documenting and sharing her journey through cancer. While I havenât experienced this for myself, when she said she was appreciative for modern medicine, I can 100% relate to that. My 9month old is alive after being born with a heart condition because of modern medicine. 10 years ago, we wouldnât have had her in our life.
Bless you Bec. I am sending you all of the positive energy in the world đ„°
So full of emotions this vid! Thanks to you Bec, for sharing all of this. You are almost at the finish line. It has been quite a journey for you guys. So happy that you now feel lighter... Take time to enjoy life now that you feel lighter and relieved! Lot's of love from your neighbor, just across in Qc.
Incredibly proud of you two. So inspiring to watch, feel and connect with. I love you. Sending strength and hugs your way đ
No rhyme or reason to life's paths. This all started with a van build. Through it all you've remained true to yourself. Warm thoughts for you both and the gentle strong people who walk this earth of ours.
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Oh so happy to hear ur results. I'm a Breast Cancer survivor of 27 yrs. I did not have to have a mastectomy,, they just wanted to do a lumpectomy. I chose a total mastectomy a 9 lympnodes removed. Everything was clean and clear margins. I also chose chemo. My children were very young and I wanted to be around for them. Took tamoxifen and Femara cancer drugs back to back, not together, no side effects except hot flashes. I'm so extremely happy for your good news and happy spirit. That helps immensely. GOD BLESS YOU and your WONDERFUL husband with his support and positivity. Can't wait for the next chapter in your life.đđ
As a nurse, Iâve seen all sorts of struggles my patient go through whenever they got cancer diagnosis and nothing beats the happiness I felt whenever we are clearing them from cancer after series of treatment. Happy for you Bec đ„°
Booooo hoooo hooo. Booo hooo.
Girls, if you ever get breast cancer, swallow hard and remember that your reaction and behavior will influence others, so try hard nit to be a weenie. Not one ounce of ny femininity was lost when they took my stage 3 breasts.
And what doctor in their right mind would tell a patient there was no cancer BEFORE the pathology report came back? If your doctor tells you that,, you have my permission to slap them. If they say something *really* stupid like predicting that the cancer won't come back, then go ahead and sock them in the eye. I was sickened by his words as a breast cancer survivor. I really like bec and hope that she does well, but these cancer segments have been hard to watch, especially with all of the erroneous information being broadcast.
SMH.
Awesome news Bec, So happy for you. I Iâm a breast cancer survivor, we got this )). Love your boyfriend so supportive, and your pup. Wish u well
Thank you so much for the honor of recording your perseverance, allowing me to share and relive this experience
Youâre so brave and Eamon is a wonderful partner. So happy for you both!
Canât explain how happy I am for you, Becs - I cried with happiness as I would for my own family or friend. Lots of love to you & Eamon. You both are beautiful souls and deserve the world and all the health and happiness đ
Same, absolutely wonderful news!
I had breast cancer over a decade ago. Wishing you a beautiful future filled with health and happiness đ„°
You are so brave!!!! I love coming along this journey with you! đ
What a gift you two have given all of us, particularly anyone who must deal with Cancer. I really heard that "I'm so grateful have another year of life." Wishing you so much health and joy in your future.
What a support system! Bec, you are so encouraging as Iâm on the same journey, except Iâm alone. Prayers for you, youâre absolutely inspiring, and I am beyond happy for you!!
Literally at my desk crying ⊠Iâm sooo happy for you Bec and Eamon âŁïžâŁïžâŁïž
I have a newfound respect for cancer survivors. That's one heck of a journey. Very proud of you for beating it. Congratulations Bec.
I've never cried so many happy tears for someone I have never met. This is the best news and I'm so happy for you, Eamon and all your family and friends. Lee is up there jumping for joy for you! Sending you both love and light. đ„Č
Right i needed this..life can be so bad hearing this today was nice
Same, just been in tears
I was in tears!!! soooo happy for you both! The best news ever!!! đ€đ€đ€
Hippy for Becky.God bless You
I've been saving up on your videos so I could just binge. I still cry every time you talk about what's going on and Eamon's sweet reactions and concern. I love you guys so much!
Bec Iâm doing it, Iâm making my appointment tomorrow for my mammogram. Itâs been 3 yrs since my last. Iâve been scared to go because I found a small lump. Iâm know, I should go. But facing it is scary and Iâve got so much life to deal with. I feel horrible for ignoring it. So Iâm doing it! Thank you and congratulations! Iâm so stinking happy for you guys!!!
How did your mammogram go? I put off my mammogram for 4 years because all 25 prior ones were normal (I am now 66, started getting mammograms at age 35, no breast cancer history in my immediate family, am postmenopausal for 10 years now). I was finally prompted to get it because a good friend of mine was diagnosed with cancer from her mammogram - and sure enough, I had an area of suspicion. Long story short, I had a follow up ultrasound in June 2021, a biopsy a few days later which was positive for invasive ductal carcinoma but my lymph node biopsy was negative for cancer. The tumor was not palpable, it was only found on mammogram and not even my breast surgeon could feel it. I was recommended for lumpectomy and radiation - had the lumpectomy August 2021 (beautiful cosmetic result, I was impressed), pathology confirmed microinvasion outside the duct but the margins were clean beyond that so I did not need chemo but I did need radiation, had 20 sessions October 2021 and am now on 5 years of an aromatase inhibitor daily as my tumor was ER/PR positive. Side effects - weight gain which I have already beat back by calorie counting and bone loss (have shrunk half an inch so need to start doing something about my pre-existing osteoporosis). I have no joint or bone pain, no hair loss, no hot flashes, no mood swings. I feel lucky beyond words that I got that mammogram, however delayed it was, and now I will not skip any ever again. My follow up mammogram and breast MRI were both clear in 2022. Wishing you the very best.
Bec, my heart is so overjoyed! I can't even tell you. My mom is an over 20 year breast cancer survivor. She's now in her 80's and never had any reoccurrence. I'm so happy for you guys, and so proud of you and Eamon. Eamon, you are such an amazing, loving, caring guy. The way you've been there for Bec is such a blessing! Love y'all!
Congrats to your mum!
At 26 minutes in when I heard "there was no tumour" I started crying with you, Bec, and now I cant seem to stop! I'm so very very pleased for you and Eamon and your parents and sister and Oso and all of the million subscribers who love you!
Is is odd that I feel proud of you both? You've carried yourselves with such grace and love and positivity and care toward each other. It's been a hard joy to watch.
Let's hope that this last lap of treatment goes smoothly and quickly, and that your lightness continues for years and years and years!
Iâm so happy for you! Youâre an amazing person and you deserve true happiness! God bless you both!! And Osso too!!
Since watching this, you have given me so much inspiration. The amazing support you both have is truly a blessing. I will keep you in my prayers.
â Weâre going to be okâ the best thing I have heard all year. Amazing, strong, inspirational, just a few words that come to mind when I think of you and Eamon. You have been a beacon of light for so many people going through their own struggles. Your positivity is infectious. Keep following your North Star Bec, so so happy for you both (and of course Buddy ) Kez xx
I'm so happy for you guys! Go Bec! We just got news back from the oncologist that my mom won't need any radiation or treatment after her bilateral mastectomy. We are all so relieved and happy. She still has her surgery for the reconstruction coming up, but the relief that your family and friends feel are we felt when we got the news too. A toast to you and my mom for being warriors! â€
Legitimately crying with happiness for you. Thank you for sharing. Hereâs to the next chapter! Cheers đ„
I am overwhelmed with gratitude to hear this news! Congratulations to you both in this trying journey.
Wow ⊠âWhat a gift it is to turn 32â. You are the most positive person Bec! Wishing you and Eamon continued strength as you navigate the next few weeks. The best news - thanks for sharing with us!
Sitting here crying like you called me with the good news too! I am so happy for you all and will continue to pray for healing & light!
I 100% have felt everything you felt. You validated ever single pain and thought and experience I had. Thank you so much for sharing.
This video has brought me to so many tears. You are both so strong and the way that you continuously maintain a positive outlook and recenter your mind back to positivity is so inspiring. Iâm so happy for you guys đ„čđ„čđ„č
Aw bec, iâm crying of happiness right along with you!! I love how close we, as an Eamon and Bec community, feel to you guys through your videos. It feels as though we are receiving updates from some of our closest friends, so along with this we also feel all the highs and lows. There has not been a cancer or IVF update video where I havenât cried. So proud of you both, we love you guysđđ»
I am so proud, humbled and appreciative to be Canadian and this is one of the reasons why! Our beautiful country took such good care of you!! Kudos to all of the medical staff during your journey.
Hello! Just came across your story. Newly diagnosed with Invasive ductal carcinoma last month. Thank you so much for filming your journey. Only having a glimpse of how my journey is going to go, seeing others story has been (well honestly speaking) good but emotional at the same time. This is quite scary being young and a single mother. I again appreciate you sharing your life with us, it has truly been helpful. Best wishes â€ïž
Dear Bec and Eamon, you are truly brave to share this cancer ride with us all. The depths of fear, anxiety and monstrous thinking, from living with such news, is a monumental hole to pull out of on a daily basis. You both did that with incredible courage and good vibes. You are inspiring and amazing humans. Osso takes the cake for being the love nurse. I'm celebrating your fantastic good news!
My husband and I have been going through a similar ride in the same time frame. I've called it my brief health detour. Hugs for anyone going through or handling a "c" diagnosis.
I'm with you on being grateful for every new day. đ
I have stumbled upon this video due to algorithm and my own cancer journey, and let me tell you how much I have cried when I watched the part with your radiologist call and giving you pathology result. I don't think people understand how big those words are. When I sat down with my oncologist 2 weeks after my surgery and she said pathology looks great, I broke down like a little child. Thank you for sharing your story Bec, I wish you nothing but speedy recovery and continuous strength.
So happy for you!!