4 SECRETS OF RELATIONSHIPS explained by Hans Wilhelm
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- čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
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Long-term relationships are not the only successful relationships . . . some are very short term, others for years, and some of us are blessed with a lifetime relationship. The definition of a successful relationship is that it makes you a better person.
The KNOWLEDGE I've gotten from you is priceless
Yes!!!
Totally agree. 💕🇺🇦☮️🙏🏻🌿🌈💗🌎❤️😀
To the people who speak about toxic individuals and narcissists, the purpose of this video is to help you acknowledge your own shortcoming in character development, judgement, and choice.
You cannot control another individual’s actions and words, however you can control the way you respond and what you will allow ☺️
From my own experience, talking about narcissists is good, it’s processing the experiences I’ve had into the here and now because they are professionals at manipulation. Through the processing my hope is to never let a narcissist back into my life BUT if I have to work with one then I’ll be prepared to.
It’s good to look inward and learn about oneself on how we relate and respond to people and situations. Same goes with stress and anxiety. Sometimes we create that in our own minds.
Agreed! You have to look at why you attracted that type of person in the first place! Most often than not it's because of a lack of boundaries and self worth.
Hans is right on in this video. Unfortunately, I found that if you are dealing with a "narcissistic" person these wonderful teachings will not apply. It's like trying to turn a lamp on, over and over again, but there is no bulb turn on! If you are dealing with someone like this, remember you have free will.
This is so true!
For someone who gives too much, ignoring their own needs, a narcissist is a great teacher on taking care of the self first and foremost...it is a teaching experience which is a success when the carer leaves the narc
Yes. And maybe similar to a person with much anger.😮
And what part of you is trying to heal a narcissist inside of your life aspect?
Yep I married 1
I love that he explains this in a simple form i appreciate this
Yah, my thoughts exactly-- I so LUVET! So LUVET! Sooo LAAAAAAAHVET... he sooooo like my grandpa!
Absolutely
Thank you.. Most importantly, my relationship with God.. These videos helps.. Very educational Mr. Wilhelm.
Love and gratitude from Guatemala , your videos have made me grow spiritualy enormously!!! Thank you Hans!!! All my love to you and your work and guidance!!! 🤗🤩😍😘
I hope this will come soon, I waited so long for our relationship to grow, mature and flourish.
Thank you so much. Your teachings came at a time when I needed them. I have awakened to so much about myself in the past few months and l'm ecstatic to come across your teachings❤
Not if dealing with a person with a personality disorder.. narcissistic personality disorder, a psychopath sociopath and unfortunately there are many of them roaming around in large numbers and quantities it's not always about blaming herself for that we have to change it's also by looking at others and seeing what the red flags are and getting away from people that try to project, shame and belittle you because they have tons of problems that are reflected in a personality disorder
Absolutely true. They should not be in relationships with anyone, ever.
Absolutely
Who then gets the opportunity to overcome Karma....where is our LOVE
You say ‘herself’ whatchu mean by that ? 😅
@@doreencremer have you ever been in a relationship with a narcissist? Remember you have to love yourself first. Being with a narcissist means you will have to stop loving yourself and give it all to this person who is never satisfied and continues to take and never give back, ever
Any relationship that does not end in a loving manner turns into a karma
It's quite informative for our life...nowadays it's rare to have a true hearted person ...most of the time there's only attraction of money...it really helped to make relations strong ...carry on man👍🏻
I AM UP HERE STUCK IN MICHIGAN. MY WIFE AND SON ARE AS FAR AS I KNOW STILL IN NORTH CAROLINA FROM WHENCE I HAIL. I HAVE NO INCOME SO AS TO MAKE MY WAY BACK HOME TO SEE MY WIFE AND SON. I HAVE BEEN DEALT A BAD HAND. YET I AM PERSUADED THAT THE PENDULUM SWINGS ALWAYS BOTH WAYS. I HAVE BEEN EXCEEDINGLY BLESSED. THANKS
Thanks Hans! Your clarity is your gift; it can take a lifetime to experience, become aware of and then learn these lessons and you have made it so easy to understand. It is a very powerful video :)
This would explain my relationship with my friend right now even though he isn't what I'm looking for In a spouse.
It's better to stay alone. I have myself to work on. I won't deal with some one else's baggage.
If you say so
in eight minutes! hans, you are golden...
Thank you so much for enlightening us! You are amazing!
thanyou so much for your many kind and thoughtful words! you have helped me to understand many times..
Wow. This helped so much. All of his videos are amazing but due to the nature of relationships and the beauty of love and the agony of separation make this to me the most needed video.
Big thanks to you Hans. This video has thrown ice cold water into my face to wake up into reality.
I love myself so much
I just stumbled accross your videos and I`m truly fascinated - thanks for sharing your knowledge . You are very kind.
Mr. Hans explaination is a blessing.... Very simply explained. Thank you so much.
Another incredible gem of wisdom, I don't know how you became this enlightened, but thank you for sharing this - and please keep going! THank you
Thank you, for all your videos... Mr Wilhelm..
Beautifully explained ❤️
Thank you sir. You express it so simply
These videos are pure blessing
Thanks Hans
Well. I am not sure about this . But what i truly know is this ( u can attract to someone because of the Qualities u see in them as u also have those qualities. Because if I have a caring n loving heart n I see that also in other person I might be attract to them because " I see my good qualities Qualities in them. That mean, it is not Necessary that u are lacking these qualities it means u have recognized your good qualities in that person n that is why u want to get close to them.. so that u can both continue doing the good things
True
And then apply the perspective of finding oneself entangled in a relationship with soiopath/narcissist/psychopath. Then it's not about classic projection, it becomes an issue of survival. Those are black hole people. But in all regular relationships, this advice is cogent.
if entangled in an abusive or narcissistic relationship which i have experienced both in different ppl its a reflection of how youfeel about yourself
@@lalamcgreenlight8478 does this law include children born by narcissist?
@@perismugure8434 Good question!
Man I really enjoy his videos
he keeps things so simple and straight forward
I'm so glad he decided to share his knowledge
Thank you for all that you do
Thank you!
When I say that I have no expectations of my partner
People look shocked!!!
I expect trust, respect, loyalty, and truth
People are not perfect and let you down especially if they are living up to expectations to make your own self feel happy and secure
And they don't even know it
Thank you so much just learned something new now!!
@@Liamarventura your welcome i found it makes life so much easier as if we can’t communicate properly because of shame fear guilt etc because we are desperate to be what we want them to be to us but we don’t tell them or ask for what we need then we either get disappointed or are disappointments because we are on or have put them on a pedestal and they or we fell off
look at parents who live their lives through their children and they are not even aware they are doing it
and a child wants to please their parents they are like god’s
it’s very sad
they are not bad people but just aren’t equipped with the emotional understanding
very interesting topic indeed
@@janedoh123 I expected a lot from friends and family and people in general because I always tried to put myself on a pedestal and work on myself to be better and when someone does something that wasn’t aligning with me I always felt hurt or like “why did they do that I would never”, or expect people to work on themselves too just because i did it, so your words have truly changed my perception right now and I am mind blown and very grateful I stumbled upon this page and your comment ❤️❤️
@@Liamarventura totally understand what you mean
I felt hard done to when I would go to any lengths to help people but when I needed help there was no one there
I expected them to be telepathic
But learning about what the dynamic was about the inability to communicate and to learn to say “no” instead of yes before I even knew what I was agreeing to do saved me so much energy and resentment
It didn’t happen overnight but I started with if I can help and so on
Your a very honest and humble enough to realise that it’s an inside job and the best in you can bring out the best in others
We can’t make them have our values
Xx
@@janedoh123 exactly!!! Wish you the best through your journey❤️☺️
Thank you Mr. Wilhelm 🙏.
Awesome. I wonder how long I have been learning the patience and love ...time to break the cycle
How amaaaaazing you are! Bless you.
This is my third video listening to you. Thank you. I believe this is opening my eyes.
Powerful Information!
Where have you been, loving your channel. Glad i found you❤
Thank you Hans
Dear Hans, thank you so much for this amazing video. With your permission I am adding Turkish translation (without adding any interpretation) for my friends who doesn’t speak the language. Thank you so much.
İlişkilerin 4 Sırrı.
Eğer geçmişteki ilişkilerime Geri dönebilseydim, Ve bu dört sırrı biliyor olsaydım, bazı şeyleri farklı ele alırdım. Bize söylenen de, bildiğimiz şey de, ilişkilerin bir şekilde bizi hep mutlu etmesi gerektiğiydi. Ancak mutluluk hiçbir zaman dışarıdan gelmez ve kimse bizi mutlu edemez. O yüzden en önemli ilişki bizi yaratan ve her daim içimizde olan ilahi enerji ile olmalı. Eğer sevgiyi, takdir edilmeyi, rahatlığı ve mutluluğu dış kaynaklardan beklersek hayal kırıklığına uğramaya mahkûm oluruz. Bizim gerçek doğamız SEVMEK üzerinedir sevilmek üzerine değil. Bu bize verilen sevgiyi, değeri ve nezaketi takdir etmeyiz anlamına gelmez. Ama kendimizi sevmek, kendimize saygı göstermek ve onurlandırmak bizim kendi işimizdir. Bencilliklerimizden kurtulmak bizim en temel işimizdir.
1️⃣. En önemli ilişkimiz ➡️ ilahi kaynak ve kendimizle olmalıdır, diğer bütün ilişkiler Eve dönüş yolculuğunda sadece bize yardım eder.
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Şimdi diğer ilişki çeşitlere bakalım. İnsanları bir araya getiren en önemli ilişki şekillerinden bir tanesi cinsel çekimdır. Ruhların dünya tecrübesi sırasında birbirlerini bulmak için kullandıkları araçlardan bir tanesidir. Bu İlişkiler hiçbir zaman tesadüf değildir. İlişkilerin sebepleri yıllar önce atılmıştır. Bir araya gelme sebebimiz karmik sebeplerdir. Büyük ihtimal, daha önceki yaşamlar da farklı rollerde bir araya gelmiştik Ve o süreçlerde karşılıklı karma yaratmıştık. Bu ilişkilerde yaşadığımız SORUNLAR diğer yaşamlar’dan getirdiğimiz karmik yuklerdir. Birbirimizi suçlamamız ve kavga etmemiz bu karma yükünü devam ettirir ve çoğaltır. Sevgi ile çözemediğimiz her ilişki ileriki yaşamlar da tekrar karşımıza çıkacak karmik sonuçlar doğrur.
2️⃣. İlişkiler bize daha önceki yaşamlar da yarattığımız karmik yüklerden, affederek ve olusan negatif icerikli yasananları anlayışla karşılayarak, KURTULMAK için en mükemmel fırsatı sunar.
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Birine aşık olmayı genellikle bizdeki eksikleri tamamlayanlar olarak görürüz. Bu finansal konular, görüntü, iktidar, sabır, entellektüel düzey gibi Kondüsyonlar olabilir. Mesela bir erkek bir kadının güzelliğine aşık olabilir çünkü kadının güzelliği onun kendine olan güvenini artırır. Kadında kendinde eksik hissettiği konular yüzünden adama yükselebilir. Tabii ki bunun gerçek sevgi ile bir alakası yoktur. Tamamen bağımlılık üzerine kurulu bir ticarettir. Bu tip ilişkiler belirli süreler için çalışır gibi gözükebilir. Ancak kisi sonunda diğerinin bağımlı olduğu noktayı sağlamak istemeyen duruma gelebilir. Genellikle savaşın başlangıç zamanıdır. Ve sonuçta ayrılık gelir ve hayal kırıklığına uğrayan kişi bu eksiklikleri giderecek başka partner arar. Aslında burada görmemiz gereken şey bizdeki eksiklikleri karşıdan beklemek yerine onları kendimizi sağlamamız ve sağladıktan sonra ilişkimize kuvvet katacak şekilde paylaşmamız içindir. O zaman talep etmek yerine sahip olduğumuzu paylaşma noktasına geliriz. Bağımlılık biter ve karşılık beklemeden veren oluruz.
3️⃣. Partnerimize bizi çeken bizdeki eksiklik neyse o konuyu kendimizde geliştirip partnerimize sunmamız en iyi yöntemdir.
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Bazen partilerimize Aşık olmamızı sağlayan konular zaman içerisinde bize rahatsızlık veren şeyler haline gelebilir. Onda gördüğümüz bize rahatsızlık veren her şey aslında kendi içimizde yaşadığımız şeylerdir. Projeksiyon yasasının tam kendisidir. Etrafımızda gördüğümüz ve bizi rahatsız eden şeylerin aslında kendimizde düzeltmemiz gereken şeyler oldugudur. Bir Nevi kendini fark etme yöntemidir. Partnerimiz Aslında sevgi dolu bir ayna olarak kendimizde düzeltmemiz gereken şeyleri bize yansıtır. Partnerinizi kendinize söylemeye korktuğunuz konuları size gösteren gizlenmiş melek olarak görebilirsiniz. Dolayısıyla karşı tarafı suçlamak ve onları değişime zorlamak çok yanlış bir yontemdir. Değişmesi gereken bizizdir eğer biz değişirsek onlarda bizi takip edebilir ya da etmezler Buda onların özgür iradeleridir.
4️⃣. Partilerimizde hissettiğimiz bize rahatsızlık veren konular neyse o konular üzerinde çalışıp kendimizi geliştirip kendimizi özgür bırakabilir ve ilişkimizi büyütebiliriz.
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Tabii ki biliyoruz ki bir ilişki ancak dürüstlük, sevgi, saygı, anlayış ve de en onemlisi hatalar yapıldığı nda bu hataları affedebilme gücü ve isteği ile olur. Bu anlayış tüm ilişkiler için geçerlidir ailemiz, kardeşlerimiz, arkadaşlarımız, iş arkadaşlarımız vs..... İlişkiler çok önemlidir ➡️ Bize spiritüel olarak büyümede çok yardımcı olurlar ve sevmeyi ögretirler. Sadece Başkalarının mutluluklarına kaynak olduğumuz zaman gerçek mutluluğu yakalayabileceğimizi unutmayalım.
Teşekürlar ederim! I would like to point out that most of his vids are based on the divine revelations received through Gabriele from Germany - God's prophetess for this present age. He often mentions her books usually at the end of his presentations. The topics addressed in this vid are more thoroughly explained in the titles like: "Me, Me, Me - The Spider in the Web - The Law of Correspondence and The Law of Projection" and in "Liobani: I Explain - Will You Join Me?" (Spiritual path for young people aged 12 - 18 Years) but also in "Your Child and You - The School of Life of Selfless Love" There is another one but I think it's still not translated into English language, roughly it translates like: "Alone in Marriage? Alone in Partnership? Alone at old age? - You are not Alone, God is with You" (Allein in Partnerschaft und Ehe? Allein im Alter? - Du bist nicht allein - GOTT ist mit Dir) but is available in Spanish, Polish, Serbian, Dutch, Macedonian if that's of any help. However in Turkish I think only one title was translated but addressing a different topic - life after death, Hans also often mentioned that title "Nereden Geldim? - Nereye gidiyorum? - Ölümden Sonra Yaşam - Ruhunuzun Yolculuğu" by Evrensel Hayat. (Where Did I Come From? - Where Am I Going? Life after Death - The Journey of Your Soul). I'm just mentioning it as someone might find it helpful.
Great work and very good channel thank you dearly
Hans is a wonderful gem!
thank you for sharing precious knowledge.
Thank you 🙏🏼🌿
Fantastic... thanks a lot for sharing this.
Thank You very much 👌☀️
Thank you really needed life message 🇹🇹🙏🍀
Hans just seeing your smile fills me
With joy and positive energy I love you ❤
Thank you Hans 🙏🏼💖👍 God Bless You 💐
even tho i feel like i knew about all this, this feels so new so i am so mind blown!! thankyou so much for your knowledge!!!!!
Thank you
Love what you do.
Thank u love u
U r simply amazing.. May I know where did you get this enlightenment from..lot of respect for you.
Thank you for all the learnings.
Wow! Thank you ❤
Extraordinary great
Wow thank you iam more elighten now..
Brilliant
I don’t think it should be an excuse to let them violate your boundaries when you see these “negative” aspects in the other party.
From my understanding, you should always listen to how you feel and stay to your true self as it is exactly your boundaries.
I have come across people who were so deliberately rude to me, I think they should show some respect and appreciation for the other party by not violating the boundaries.
I agree if a partner is abusive why should I change and allow it? If a partner has no regard for decency and respect it is time to end the relationship not change your values.
Deliberately!!😄 . Something in your demeanour must have set "them" off!!! There's always two sides to a coin as we've heard!💕🕊️
i love it👍❣️🙏
🌹 THANK YOU!! 🌹
Becaus e I admire your strength. That is what I am lacking. Love you so much.
That video showed the reasons for attraction and eventually love. I think the main factor in love is your pa st and your common xperiences which solidify in time and make you what you are today. If you are in love that revelation to yourselves is a rebirth, a glorious moment in your life. At least at 82, this is what I have discovered with intense joy, happiness and tears.
I love all your videos
Easy to say, but when the partner shows no respect towards you, what else can you do than pull out? And that usually happens after 2 years of heaven relationship. It’s so sad to go again and again through exactly the same scenario.
True
That sounds like a karmic lesson that must be learned. We all have them. Some of us just take longer than others ☺️✋🏼
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND INFINITE LOVE IS WITHIN US. FIND YOUR INNER COMPASS YOUR SOULS PURPOSE ☯️❤️
We don't always want another person to "meet our needs" to fill the spot if leaving a toxic situation. Sometimes we are finding our power to speak up, not always about projection.
Thanks
Dear - for point 3 If we have IT ALL then why do we need another person at all .. why would we need any form of partnership as we are perfect,whole and complete . And the funny part is we wait for becoming perfect before we have any relationship ?
I think real love meets you with all your imperfections and broken-ness and help to heal
Thanks.
thank you
I’m so thankful for this video!
Well.. I would like point 4 be explained in the context of relationship with a person with narcissistic personality disorder..
Stay blessed 4ever ameen
Dearest Hans, Your videos are life changing. I truly appreciate you. 💕🇺🇦🙏🏻🌎🌿🌈💗☮️🌎💕❤️
So much for Relationshp 101 ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Can you make a video on NoFap? Thanks
To love. I understand that well. But you must help me with my relationship with our God. I know that you can help me there. God made you for me and maybe to save my soul. Thank you, I love you.
MY WIFE AND I WERE TOGETHER TWENTY-TWO YEARS WHEN SHE LEFT. TO DATE WE HAVE NOT COMMUNICATED IN PERHAPS SEVEN YEARS NOW. I WROTE TO HER TWICE THIS YEAR 2020 YET I HAVE NOT GOTTEN A RESPONSE FROM HER. I EVEN GAVE MY PHONE NUMBER TO HER IN AT LEAST ONE IF NOT BOTH LETTERS.
If this is simplistic for you, I suggest Esther Perel and Erich Fromm. 💋🙏
As a hippie I recognize other hippies when I see them and Hans is a hippie
1.What if one of the partner clears his/her karma,will the other partner(who not cleared karma) choose a partner in next life?
2.what about the souls who isn't married/no partner? Is it that they don't have build up any karma in their past life with partner?
And to help restore our family and theirs in turn.
This is true but however I feel that can get missunderstood also.
Dear Hans Wilhelm, thank you for your videos. How do I explain this to people who have been through narcisstic abuse?
The wounds in them is lack of self love and codependency. Otherwise they would never accepted such behaviour.
Thank you. I don't know what if you keep ignoring someone who has become a family member & might be karmic but she keeps being hurtful & resentful & hateful for no reason. Being loving back back or ignoring it or anything does not work. Does this still become karmic? I seriously hope to avoid her in another life as she's extremely nasty.
The 4th Secret : Whatever disturbs and upsets us in our partner are aspects in us that we need to work on and overcome for our own freedom and the growth of the relationship. That being said, if there is no meaningful relationship you are under no obligation to remain in proximity to this person. Attention goes where energy flows. So you have a choice. You always have a choice. You are where you are because of the good or bad choices you have made in the past. Is the Universe trying to tell you something? Do not focus on any possible karma in a future existence, that is pure negative vibration. Stop trying to prove yourself, continue simply to improve yourself. She is not being hurtful, you are feeling hurt. She is not being hateful, you are feeling hated. She is not being resentful, you are feeling resentment. Love yourself. Love yourself to the point that no exterior influence can have a more powerful impact on you than the pure love you feel for your own existence, because when you are in that state the love you feel for those around you is positively tangible and negativity simply bounces right back. And if you achieve that level of consciousness, I wouldn't worry too much about being chased around the universe by any karma. 😁🤗😘
@@beretgascon thank you for your advice but it doesn't resonate with me & doesn't represent the whole truth...only fragments of truth. I apologise if I might be wrong but that's how I feel. I appreciate your kindness 🙏🏾😔
@@akakonoha I understand you. Take what you feel is relevant from everything you see, hear and read, what feels right in your gut. Leave the rest or come back to it another day. When you find yourself, you'll find the answer... or the answer will have found you 🙏🏾😔
@@beretgascon thank you 🙏🏾🌺 I feel I take on others karma or problems too much, usually it has nothing to do with me but as an empath, we absorb others' toxicity like a sponge without realising it. Yet its true that as within so without, what bothers us is our problem but it's not always a reflection of ourselves. For example, if someone is being bullied, it doesn't mean we are bullies but rather we are weak or need to work on ourselves so we don't attract bullies... I don't know but what I do know is no truth us 100% all the time xx 🌼🌺🌼
@@akakonoha I think what I was trying to say is that it's not your job to take on the world's problems all at once. If you do so, it is your choice. Energy flows where attention goes, both negative and positive. If you cannot otherwise remove the negative influence, you can remove yourself from situations that would otherwise try to tread on you. You do NOT have to stay and be bullied. BUT... a bully can only bully somebody who allows themself to be bullied. That is why I always come back to "When you find yourself, you'll find the answer... or the answer will have found you 🙏🏾😔". Seriously, it is a miracle when it happens. Nobody, anywhere, can bother you when you are at one with yourself 🤗🤗🤗 It's the small habits, how you spend your mornings, how you talk to yourself, what you read, what you watch, who you share your energy with, who has access to you, that will change your life. I have no special knowledge, no special experience, I'm just repeating what I've learned and what I try to put into practice. Being wanted feeds the ego - being valued feeds the soul. Surround yourself with people who value you, and whom you value. 🙏🏾🌼 🤗
I craved attention ..
A question: if we may overcome the problems regarding them as addressed to us personally and not to "changing the other", does it mean that "mantra of marriage" in order to be together forever, is true? And if it is so, does it mean that, "theoretically", we may be in intimate relationship with anyone?! If so, the question is: why this one and not the other one - or: if we grow up in loving, this spiritual dimension, but our partner not, what about the sex/body part of the story?
In my opinion, there are human and divine aspects of love and overcome the human mean overcome the body, or in better word: passion! But then we also have a question whom to choose?? Someone friendly, someone similar to us?! But then we have the old "mucho" opinion that the friendship between man and woman is impossible...
Dear Hans, could you please tell me more about that? Yes, we may talk about TWIN SOULS and the CELIBACY also.
- Who are the twins? Someone similar to us or someone different?...
- What is the celibacy? Something self-sufficient which make us resistant to the problems or something like a device for something higher?
We may ask about the community, also! Because, trying to find out the answers we realise that we are getting older... - and alone! Because: If we haven't conquer our ego, than we are without the COMMUNION (with God in ourselves), and our life seems... Tragical. Isn't it?
Oh my God 😭.... True
Suppose other person not cooperating and don't want my love? Is it still my karma to clear up?
So I'm pretty good then since I'm a lone wolf?
I know what you mean by lone wolf
But wolves are also pack animals and we just need to have our pack for support and understanding without being dependent on them to make us feel ok about us
Only we can make that happen
Ik because I am a recovering codependent and child trauma and warped coping strategies that were not serving me as an adult
If I could have been born withone super power it would be healthy boundaries
I didn't know what they were until I was 30
I was resentful people pleaser by then and that is when I realised that maybe I might be part of the problem with me 🙈
All good now
But I have to watch my thinking sometimes when I'm hit with several stressful events one after another I catch myself
I'm. Not perfect but I wouldn't want to be
@@DrSRanjanMBBSAcupuncturist no but I will right now thank you
Same here. I used to have great relationships. It was fun, but now I have very little desire to have a new one. I guess I feel nothing is lacking.
so lets say my ex partner was emotionally draining, needy, controlling and obsessive..that those qualities are in me? So that means I am needy, and emotionally draining and obsessive in other parts of my life? or I am like that subconsciously in some way in myself in relation to something that I may not even be aware of?
flee-lil-piggy More than likely, your ex partner was just too immature to be with you.
flee-lil-piggy However He is saying exactly what you think.
To say love yourself and don't be selfish is confusing.
God is, I am divine ....
Is it possible to be in 2 different types like the boy is a karmic relationship for the girl and the girl is a trading relationship for the boy
I THAK GOD FOR YOU CAME TO EARTH 🌎 TO TEACH THE WHOLE OF HUMANITY. TO REACH MORE POSITIVE GOALS AND UNDERSTANDING THAT HAPPINESS COMES FROM WITHIN. WE MUST REMEMBER THESE FACTS TO MAKE 2 HALVES A WHOLE .
You’ve got to live and learn. One day it’ll all make sense.
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In this video you say we see things in our partners that we need to develop ourselves and that attracts us to them but in the video on the law of projection you explained we see in other what is already in ourselves? That confused me a little. If I like my partner because he is gentle does that mean I need to develop more gentleness myself or that I already have that within myself?
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I appreciate your session about the relationship. I have a question about sex. Isn't sex activity and sexual feeling/emotion sacred n a beautiful creation workmanship from the creation? Doesn't the creation love sex? I appreciate if you give us the idea or concept or the original purpose about sex. Anything, any information will be helpful from you. Thank you.