What Makes a Woman Secure | Marriage Today | Jimmy Evans
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- When a wife knows that her husband will meet her needs, she will feel confident and secure. When a husband is focused on himself and his heart is turned away, a woman will become insecure.
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There is nothing in this world that makes a wife secure than her knowing you care about her... 💛💛💛
Lord, Please help me be this kind of husband to my precious Bride. And I thank you Lord that you give me this security through salvation. Let me transfer my security in you - to my wife and children. Amen
AMEN. I pray the Lord gives you your hearts desires to provide security for your wife.
There is so much truth here. It’s excruciating to not be heard. To be minimized and put off.
Now you know what a man feels like all his life.
One of the best explanations to men about why wives need to feel secure in a marriage relationship.
Women PLEASE help men on this. Tell him what you would like. My wife hurt herself and professed it loudly. I exclaimed Ooo ouch honey, she continued on, That really hurt I would say, she then stormed off saying all she wanted was sympathy. Well then I confronted her and finally she explained she wanted a hug. I had no idea. Please ladies do not assume because he loves you he will know exactly how to meet your needs.
James Craig You’re SUPPOSED TO be able to mind-read! It’s one of those expectations women have of their husbands. lol
James Craig so good!! Good stuff brother. Thanks!!
@James Craig
What wives need from their husbands is SEX . In order not to fall in temptation.
Have you ever read 1 Corinthians 7:5 which is the CORE of marriage ?
The hug stuff preserves no one from sexual temptation.
Please read what the BIBLE has to say instead of listening to quacks like Evans .
According to GOD , the needs of a wife are simple :
food
clothing
sex
Written in Exodus 21:10 .
All the emotional stuff added to it is plain female manipulation .
@@framboise595 🤣
@@debbiewilder4738
God's word vs your stupid smiley.
All that emotional stuff is NOT in the Bible.
Wives need THREE things from their husbands and those three things have been decided by God himself.
But of course you as female know way more than HIM.
Sure , now it is the feminine that knows best.
Actually , women don't even know what they really need !!!
That's amazing. As a woman you don't always know exactly what you need or how to solve life's problems, but to have a husband say those things to you just makes everything instantly better.
"As a woman you don't always know exactly what you need"
What fresh load of BS is this? Women are quite capable of defining and articulating our needs.
Lep P “DONT always” doesn’t mean “ALWAYS”! If anyone made women sound incapable of anything, it’d be you.
@@lepp6598
They have turned women into whimsical spoiled brats so don't expect Western women to be adults anymore !
I agree with this lecture. I guess it's back to the drawing board lol
I wish my husband knew this.
Husband's care to wife is her number one security need
I love the messages. They help me. And I think I have a pretty good marriage. Thanks for sharing.
I have no problem with the idea of submitting to my Husband. He has some big shoes to fill! I agree with men sacrificing for their Wife and children. I want to help him be the man God made him to be
True.." really really really" . On point. Amen
A woman most important need is for husband for him to be faithful to her only, no other woman (infidelity). That is the secret.
Juanita Mumford amen sister
faithtful, loving and caring- wife always doubted me and had an affair.
When you have security... it is because this is provided and MORE
If a man is doing what Pastor Evans just stated, then that's not going to ever be an issue....lets stay on task with the message he's presenting.
@@efthimios
As amazing as it may seem for that feminised and hypocrite churchianity , the more loving a husband , the more turned off a wife.
I really wonder how such a "loving " and "caring" man can still perform sexually .
Great message :)
Great message. This is very true
Great video!
Amazing message.......thank you...........
What a great sermon.
My wife is really insecure always was to the point she had an affair. It hurts so
Much it makes entire life and marriage feel like a lie
She act like she wants to dovorve now and we have a 12
Yo daughter..
I took care of everything,
Career oriented,
Successful, thoughtful...
I’m 45 now and the thought of meeting someone else and
Starting over again if it happens is so scary.
Only thing I did was go
To gym 1 hour 4/5 days a
Week bc I liked working out and she thought that was being selfish.
@ Herakles
Breaking news : Women have affairs because they are insecure !
Please can you tell me how modern men can be so naive ?
Women have affairs because of SEX. Because they always tend to think that sex is better with lovers than with husbands.
You should take a look at women's litterature , it would help !
Go watch Tate speech
What a royal bitch. You’d be way better off without. She was unfaithful and you have every right to leave.
Powerful
It does matter to me that he would agree or that an understanding could be found, it does matter to me that he would see it nearly as I do because that where I understand that he understands!
Amen
Quote Truth shall outlast everyone lies
You are so smart Jimmy!! I want my husband to do this.
Money and stuff. Nuff said
Yup, a selfless, sacrificial man!
Wow!!!
When your spouse DOESNT obey His Word.
You get Genesis 3 marriage.
When you Keep His Word, you get Genesis 2 marriage.
I agree
I can relate
But some think there to agreeable a codependent and your putting them on a pedestal also to clingy.
wow
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME
PHIL 4:13
Hurt lot lor jesus dont wan regection enimore ! Hurt daddy😪😪😪😭Lord jeshua please just beging you asep my familly please 😭
ARE YOU KIDDING ? DRINKING, CHEATING, START A FIGHT ON FRIDAY SO I CAN LEAVE AND NOT COME HOME ALL WEEKEND.WHERE DO YOU Think HE IS ?
what?
How much security can a man give a woman at 73 years of age?
I live sin and evil free
Secure wife = selfless sacrificial male ❤️ Insecure wife= Selfish detached male
But women tend top scorn those selfless sacrificial males .
Husbands are never told to be selfless .
Is God himself is selfless ?
Selflessness is no male trait at all. Rather a feminine trait (submission).
I love your videos on CZcams channel and I just want you to know that I'm not married yet but we've been together for eleven years. I know that most people would have done left this man but I had prayed for year's for God to please send me the right man to my back door and this man showed up and I was struck by lightning. I got a super good man. He goes out of his way to please me and to take care of me. We don't fight at all I can get up set and I'll yell at him but he hardly ever yells at me. He tell's me that he's glad that I'm in his life and he's not alone. He has family but all they want is for him to give them money and do thing's for them. Never has he ever told me that once any of them said that they loved him. Give me a do for me is all they want from him. My family's hit me and belittled me and choked me. My brother said that he wanted to kill me and if could have found the gun I just don't know what would have been the ending of this story, but I didn't want to find out. I just wanted you to please send me lot's of prayer's for myself and my Precious diamond in the rough MAN (VAN)!!!!... LOVE & PRAYER'S ALWAYS ELAINE & VAN &
AMOS JAMES LUKE (YORKI-POO)
My thoughts are Satan free
Quote: Satan has nothing new or nothing true
Um can he read my mind? Praise God if I find this in a husband
My need is respected! Since my husband violence on me. I lost trust from him. I'm just hoping im living in peace n alive in everyday. Not to make him anger again. Because his anger would hurt me in physical.....
men game You need to divorce, that’s abuse.
You must get away from this man. He will never change if you except it. You get what you settle for.
@@jigglycommi-5948
Stop your satanic advice please.
A wife should not trigger anger in her husband by displeasing him in her duties towards him.
Stop your abuse insanity and read 1 PETER 3 for a change . Because Evans's listeners do not know what a Bible is anymore ...
@ rather be me
Why is he violent as you say ? Do YOU respect him or do you challenge his authority ?
Be that peaceful wife who knows her duties and who can win him to Christ as 1 Peter 3 . Do not fear . God is with you if you do what is right in his eyes.
God bless you
She could be killed by the violent husband. She needs to live in safety. She and if there are kids they are in danger. Staying could literally end her life or that of the kids. An abuser blames the person they abuse for why they abuse. You are holding her accountable for his actions, too. She is not following satanic advice not to be beaten by him.
There's no 14 theory. There is a righteous meaning though. I live the Bible. 15 years without sex until marriage. I'm not a sinner or criminal. I have no relationship or interest in Tyler.
My need isn't security. I don't need my husband to put food on the table; I was doing that long before he came along.
My top need from him is fidelity. That includes not only sexual faithfulness, but integrity in all aspects of our relationship.
And he asks the same from me. Not that I submit to him. Not that I be dependent on him. Just that there be integrity in all aspects of our relationship.
Lep P that's the meaning of security. He wasn't talking about food on the table; he means emotional security which includes faithfulness n integrity n all that honesty we expect from men
That's security.
Lep P and dressing up as the telly tubbies every friday night for no holds barred sex !!!! lol
Perfect! Exactly what I would need...
@@User-72430
Evans teaches everything but the Bible .
The needs of the wife are very simple according to GOD . They are to be found in EXODUS 21 :10
FOOD
CLOTHING
MARITAL RIGHT , ie SEX
That's it .
Do you know this? Marriage is between a man and a woman. Marriage is for better and for worse until death separates (Matthew 19:3-6). ‘Wherefore they are no more two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together let no man put asunder (separate)’. Cheating on your wife or husband is sin. Proverbs 28: 13 says, ‘‘He that covers his sins shall not prosper...You must repent of them, confess and forsake them (1 John 1:9).
Are you into worldliness? Don’t you know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? (James 4:4; II John2:15-17). So, you must stop bleaching your body or painting your mouth, eyes, hands and legs or fixing attachments, weave-on, earrings (Genesis 35:2-4), bangles, chains and frying or perming your hair. Tattooing your body is satanic. Are you one of those that put on nude dresses, short skirts, transparent dresses to seduce men or women (a Seducer or a Promoter of lust is a Sinner - Mathew 5:28)
Perhaps you wear trousers as a woman? (Read Deuteronomy 22:5), that is an abomination (Revelation 21:8, 27). Therefore, make up your mind, repent and give your life to Jesus Christ. Are you spoilt? Jeremiah 4:30 says, ‘‘And when thou art spoiled, what wilt thou do? Though thou clothest thyself with crimson, though thou deckest thee with ornaments of gold, though thou rentest thy face with painting, in vain shalt thou make thyself fair; thy lovers will despise thee. They will seek thy life’’. (2 Kings 9:30; Hosea 2:13; Exodus 33:1-6)
A Christian is not a Sinner and a Sinner is not a Christian (I John 3:9). If you must be a blessed child of God, then you must repent of your sins and give your life to Jesus Christ. If you believe Jesus Christ today, righteousness of God will come into your life and abundant life will be your portion (1 John 11-12). If you neglect this call to repentance and salvation and die, you will not escape fire of Hell (Hebrews 2:3). It is foolishness and sin to say or think that there is no God (Psalm 14:1; 9:17). Luke 13:3, Jesus said, ‘I tell you, Nay: but except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish’. Cut off every besetting sin (Hebrew 12:1-2; Mark 9:43-48).
If you have decided now (2 Corinthians 6:2) to give your life to Jesus Christ and to forsake your sinful lifestyle, please say this prayer:
Almighty God, I come unto you in the name of Jesus. Father I confess that I am a sinner. All my sins I confess to you.
I am very sorry for all my sins (mention those you can remember). Lord I promise you that from today I will never continue in them anymore. I believe that Jesus Christ died and rose again on the third day for my justification.
Almighty God, use the blood of Jesus to wash my sins away. Lord Jesus, come into my heart, be my Lord and personal Saviour. I surrender my life to you. Cancel my name from the books of death and write it in the book of life. Give me power to sin no more. In Jesus name I pray. Amen!!
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1John 1:9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Hell is a place of torment forever...continuous burning by fire. The fire is never quenched, with crying and weeping forever (Mark 9:43-48; Psalm 9:17; Mathew 25:41). It was originally prepared for satan and his demons, but anybody that obeys the devil in committing sin and refuse to repent and accept Jesus Christ, if the person dies in sins, he or she will be thrown into Hell. You still have the opportunity to repent now, amend your ways, live and spend eternity in heaven. Go to www.tlccrm.org
You may be asking; how do I stop all these sins? Simply take the first step of repentance and have inner hatred for those sins, then ask Jesus to forgive you and come into your life to be your Lord and personal Saviour. In John 1:12, there is power that will be given to you, and in Mathew 11:28, if you receive Jesus into your life, He will deliver you and give you victory over those sins; then you will need to cut off from the source of those sins in your life (may be sinful friends; stop the evil relationship.
This gospel is not to condemn you, but for you to be convicted so that you will repent and give your life to Jesus Christ who loves you and really wants you to make it to heaven at the end of your life here on earth
This guy is trying to save the institution of marriage and there’s never been a bigger lost cause.
(THIS IS THE GOSPEL MESSAGE OF JESUS CHRIST) JESUS CHRIST DIED ON THE CROSS FOR OUR SINS AND HE WAS BURIED AND HE ROSE AGAIN ON THE THIRD DAY BY FAITH IN GOD'S SON THE LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST AND JESUS CHRIST ALONE SALVATION SHALL BE YOURS AND ETERNAL LIFE WITH GOD IN HEAVEN SHALL AWAIT YOU WHEN YOU DIE THE BIBLE JOHN CHAPTER 3 VERSES 16 THROUGH 21 AS WELL AS 1ST CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 15 VERSES 1 THROUGH 5 THE BIBLE
Women are extremely insecure. The more you show respect to your husband the less insecure you will be. Build him up to be the man you need him to be. It doesn't take much.
This message is for women to be encouraged. You just railroaded what he’s saying by demeaning women as a whole and then telling us how to serve the men. You’ve got a lot of maturing to do🙄👀
If he would only be half the man this guy is .!
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
Disagree whole heartedly. Women need respect too.
he never says to disrespect from a woman.. he says it is to be earned. and throuh that security. and selfless act he is respecting her.
You mean you want his authority. Speak your mind.
@@Miladyluvs
Women don't respect men who have ZERO ego. NEVER .
It is just logical since the woman was made for and because of the man.
But Evans just preaches the he for she feminist rubbish instead of the SHE for he biblical truth.
Please stop with myths , shoes, theories, names, numbers, I'm not Beyoncé. I'm a servant of Christ Jesus . Hi. Hello.
so weird for a man to say in front of so many people his wife opened sexually . I mean he could have said the intimacy increased at every level , my god i would die of shame if my husband said something like that.
so lo lol It’s not that weird given that his expertise is all things love & marriage. He has to draw from personal experience at some points. Based on his thorough teachings about communication etc., I’m sure he checks with his wife in regards to what is and isn’t up for discussion about their love life when he is teaching.
@@mercybadoe3086 real men don't teach by explanation they teach by exemple. Which decent man would talk openly in front of a crowd about his sexuality with his wife. The poor woman is not lucky with such a douche.
@Saad Bin Masud of course decency is not depending on gender, but i do feel a difference regarding why women do it and why men do it.
@Saad Bin Masud of course it's not i mean you need to understand women don't take pride in having sex with men, which is not the case for guys, oh i had her i am so stronnnnng.
This is the secret for sure and I’ve tried to explain it to others but you said it beats. The other day I was reading this same scripture and the Holy Spirit revealed the same message about sacrificial love 🤍