Freud’s 5 Stages of Psychosexual Development

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  • Freud’s theory of psychosexual development claims that as we grow up, we pass through five critical phases which are defined by our sexual drive, also called libido, concentrating at specific erogenous zones. #learn #psychology #freud
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    The Oedipus Complex in Children
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    Overview of the Oral Stage with links to other Psychosexual development stages
    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_stage

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  • @scook449
    @scook449 Před 2 lety +8421

    A quote told to me by my college psychology teacher
    "Freud isn't the "Father of Psychology" because his theories were right, but instead because people studied psychology to prove him wrong."

    • @finalfanvii6822
      @finalfanvii6822 Před rokem +130

      And they did because you can think for yourself just ignore others wether you agree with them or not. It just depends who you choose to believe how you perceive you’re reality.

    • @maiii_xo7694
      @maiii_xo7694 Před rokem +70

      this makes a lot of sense😭

    • @butter_nut1817
      @butter_nut1817 Před rokem +176

      It was a revolutionary idea that trauma affects one's personality and mannerisms

    • @chancewijewardena8609
      @chancewijewardena8609 Před rokem +29

      Exactly none of his theories were falsifiable

    • @R41ph3a7b6
      @R41ph3a7b6 Před rokem +3

      Yeah.

  • @georgefabars7218
    @georgefabars7218 Před 3 lety +12670

    Patient: Doctor I don't get it... Why am I like this?
    Therapist: Hmmmmm... Say, *at what age did you learn to shit in the toilet?*

  • @mrslucygomez9
    @mrslucygomez9 Před 2 lety +3358

    "Ida is rebellious to authority, has no remorse for hurting others, and enjoys breaking the law"
    me: "I see Antisocial Personality Disorder tendencies going on"
    Freud: "were you not breastfed long enough as an infant?"

    • @abaricocrystalkaye4493
    • @CarterWills1
      @CarterWills1 Před rokem +177

      Breastfeeding does increase social bonds so it technically holds up.

    • @josephsolomon3016
      @josephsolomon3016 Před rokem +72

      It’s more complex than just labeling them based on certain traits/symptoms

    • @rahulmalik1083
      @rahulmalik1083 Před rokem +67

      Actually , breastfeed and nursing an infant can have a huge impact on the gene expression of a human .
      Check out the rat baby nursing studies showing the effects of epigenetics changes in the genes of the infant mice

    • @mesotolioma5089
      @mesotolioma5089 Před 10 měsíci

      Holy moly maccaroni, Freud said something dumb and you said something smart. That must mean you're really smart and Freud dumb 😮

  • @leavemealone802
    @leavemealone802 Před rokem +4822

    Freud was just a guy that had a mommy fetish, and created a theory so he wouldn't look weird.
    It did make interesting story tropes

    • @rashonmygooch
      @rashonmygooch Před rokem

      ​@Sisaac 20 Homofobia.

    • @commontouch1787
      @commontouch1787 Před 10 měsíci +6

      @@VaultDwellerAlexwhich one

    • @mehnazsreya
      @mehnazsreya Před 10 měsíci +40

      @@commontouch1787 oedipus complex

    • @vorun7710
      @vorun7710 Před 9 měsíci +135

      Yeah of course, he is the weirdo, and that big share of porn content about "moms" is just a coincidence. It's so easy to devalue all someone else's work by labeling it a crank

    • @theraze8686
      @theraze8686 Před 9 měsíci

      @@vorun7710 doesn't prove anything. deadass everything exists on the Internet, there's porn of anthropomorphic aeroplanes why would people stop at mothers?

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache Před 3 lety +16130

    I took advanced psychology in high school and I have to admit, you covered this topic better than my high school teacher did in 9 minutes...

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  Před 3 lety +1481

      Not sure if I should be glad or sad. 😂

    • @dariusurbanovic6797
      @dariusurbanovic6797 Před 3 lety +410

      I haven't seen you in a long time in the comments I was getting worried

    • @mariosnz2884
      @mariosnz2884 Před 3 lety +95

      I think you are suscribed to the same channels I am

    • @MrDanamiel
      @MrDanamiel Před 3 lety +86

      The fact that psychology is teach during high school surprise me😂

    • @datscrazy4095
      @datscrazy4095 Před 3 lety +38

      Again man, u always here

  • @CliffCardi
    @CliffCardi Před 3 lety +13355

    Me: “WTF I don’t desire a sexual relationship with my mother!”
    Freud: “Yes you do, your subconscious is just repressing that.”

    • @CliffCardi
      @CliffCardi Před 3 lety +907

      @@okbutwhatif9905 I wouldn’t say conspiracy theory, but it’s how Freud made his psychoanalysis “foolproof”. To any detractors, Freud could just claim repression.

    • @elvondrago96
      @elvondrago96 Před 3 lety +324

      ara ara

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope Před 3 lety +95

      @@okbutwhatif9905 "us Vs them" it's just another part of the big lie...

    • @abdallahmohamed2806
      @abdallahmohamed2806 Před 3 lety +49

      I'm sad I got the joke

    • @Tururu134
      @Tururu134 Před 3 lety +19

      superego

  • @higherpowerlifting5065
    @higherpowerlifting5065 Před 2 lety +619

    Freud was the first to develop a comprehensive theory of development, personality, and a structural model of the psyche. He identified some patterns and correlations that are correct but the mechanisms he used to explain a causal relationship were off and actually reveal his own personality, he projected on to an unknown to fill in the blanks. He was correct in saying that eventually we would understand neurobiology and the biological basis of behavior at a level capable of better answering the questions he was creating these theories to answer. We take for granted that we are able to think in these terms today, without Freud it would be a very different world. What he was wrong about is not nearly as important as how he taught us to think about psychological development.

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  Před 2 lety +52

      Very good point

    • @mikef55
      @mikef55 Před rokem +29

      I think if Freud came back to witness modern psychology today, he'd be proud of how it's advanced

    • @prod.bylvwlee
      @prod.bylvwlee Před 11 měsíci +1

      Perfect because i was a little confused by the video at first. Im like he wrote this verbatim?? 😂

    • @user-yu3wu4ym9n
      @user-yu3wu4ym9n Před 9 měsíci +6

      ​@@mikef55More like freaked out. I doubt he'd be able to gladly accept so many changes that has happened.

    • @patricia071
      @patricia071 Před 3 měsíci +3

      THIS
      I also think we are focusing way too much on the bad examples and not on the fact that he did explain how we are conditioned to behave goes back to how we managed to perceive the reality around us from a young age, through limited sensations at that time

  • @vishwaprem94
    @vishwaprem94 Před rokem +355

    Since the theory was developed in the early 1900s it can't be all perfect, but we've got to admit that bringing the concept of the unconscious, and the effect of childhood experiences on personality into the limelight was a great accomplishment at that time.
    I do believe that psychedelics hold a promising future by bringing out our repressed thoughts and emotions. Cheers to Freud for that.

    • @crayonzii
      @crayonzii Před 6 měsíci +4

      I agree. People used to think dinosaurs looked like kangaroos based on remains, now we know a lot more about them.

    • @matswessling6600
      @matswessling6600 Před 6 měsíci

      but childhood experiences has very littlre effect on personality though so...

    • @donkeyparadise9276
      @donkeyparadise9276 Před 6 měsíci +4

      ​@@matswessling6600how is this

    • @SnowMexicann
      @SnowMexicann Před 6 měsíci +6

      @@matswessling6600 Very little? There are very big differences in people who, say, grew up rich and spoiled whos mummy and daddy would buy them anything they wanted and never got told no and someone who grew up in poverty without a father and an abusive household. VERY big differences.

    • @matswessling6600
      @matswessling6600 Před 6 měsíci

      @@SnowMexicann not really.

  • @RonaldC
    @RonaldC Před 3 lety +12417

    I often think Freud just had a lot of weird experiences as a child and developed his theories in an attempt to normalize them

    • @pland4419
      @pland4419 Před 3 lety +349

      Totally agree

    • @goblindeeznuts
      @goblindeeznuts Před 2 lety +130

      Agreed

    • @primo4915
      @primo4915 Před 2 lety

      If you read on his family, you'll see it is all fucked up. His mother was the same age as his half brother who he fantasised about becoming his father

    • @JacksTestimony
      @JacksTestimony Před rokem +280

      You didn’t notice you went through these stages after you learned about them?

    • @og_isaa
      @og_isaa Před rokem +18

      na

  • @Dinhjason
    @Dinhjason Před 3 lety +13572

    Pissed my pants, became a doctor.

  • @ayyymacaroni
    @ayyymacaroni Před rokem +451

    Watching the kids go through the latent phase almost made me cry. The whole video was like "Hans is doing fine, Ernst and Ida....are not." And then they reach the latent phase, and the video switches to "So anyway, all these kids are having a good time. Ernst and Ida are happy, they're learning, Hans is vibing through life-" and I almost cried, I felt so much relief for them. I guess I got attached.

    • @overtime-gp5mo
      @overtime-gp5mo Před rokem

      какие мужчины девушкам нравятся волосатые или не волосатые ? девушкам нравится член ? девушкам нравится куни?от какого размера члена больно ?какой размер члена для вас большой ? какое впечатление у вас было когда впервые увидели мужской член ? какой впечатление было когда впервые увидели порно ?было ли вам больно при потери девственности?

    • @h0lysm0k3z
      @h0lysm0k3z Před rokem +63

      Did you have conflict during your phallic phase

    • @ayyymacaroni
      @ayyymacaroni Před rokem +10

      @@h0lysm0k3z i need a tone indicator for this one. are you being serious or joking?

    • @h0lysm0k3z
      @h0lysm0k3z Před rokem +9

      @@ayyymacaroni /j lol

    • @azca.
      @azca. Před 11 měsíci +11

      @@ayyymacaroni Did you have conflict during your phallic phase? (not joking)

  • @mstrudacoach
    @mstrudacoach Před 8 měsíci +45

    I am a parent coach and I have a master's degree in mental health. I must say, from the cases I have seen, Freud's psychosexual development theory does make a lot of sense! It might not make sense straight away, but as you dig deeper, a lot of things do hold up.
    I remember I met a father who's a very typical OCD sufferer, as he said and I quote - I constantly feel the need to tidy up the stuff, and I know I am good at this, but I never experienced joy when cleaning up.
    And I asked him something about his childhood, and he told me he had to use diapers till the age of 6.
    I know it's probably too vain to draw any serious conclusion, but Freud's idea that unremembered trauma can cause changes in personality development is wildly accurate.

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  Před 8 měsíci +6

      I agree. I am doing a clinical internship, and Freud's theory makes sense in a way.

    • @stephysun
      @stephysun Před 7 měsíci +3

      i don’t think so.. i can play a role sure but some people are neat and some are not. but not really linked to their childhood. if u have siblings some might turn out neat and the other might be very messy. like if u mental health as well. it’s just dependent on everhthing. i have a twin brother and one sister that is 1 year old and we grew up the same way, but we’re all so different just like every other sibling. so it’s unfair to say it’s based on that. genetics plays a huge role.

    • @professorpedropontes4402
      @professorpedropontes4402 Před 6 měsíci

      There you go, that’s exactly how this stuff works.

  • @HungNguyen-lz5xb
    @HungNguyen-lz5xb Před 3 lety +7191

    "Genital Phase: Puberty to death"
    Someone make this movie please

  • @Hot18Shot
    @Hot18Shot Před 3 lety +14816

    I feel like these theories tell us more about Freud than it does of ourselves...

    • @chitraUTube
      @chitraUTube Před 3 lety +96

      Haha:)

    • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
      @Nikelaos_Khristianos Před 3 lety +570

      That's not exactly inaccurate. 😅

    • @artofsavery
      @artofsavery Před 3 lety +522

      Yeah Same here..it is actually his point of view towards life his experiences.

    • @GMC997
      @GMC997 Před 3 lety +542

      Today many points of his psychoanalysis theory are declared as wrong. In general, his claims were "catastrophically" wrong on multiple levels.

    • @lucase6077
      @lucase6077 Před 3 lety +64

      @@GMC997 Sources??

  • @Babarakrimbel4884
    @Babarakrimbel4884 Před 6 měsíci +103

    Psychedelics are just an amazing discovery. It's quite fascinating how effective they are for depression and stress..saved my life.

    • @Heisenberg-35
      @Heisenberg-35 Před 6 měsíci

      Is he on insta?

    • @phillipXx
      @phillipXx Před 6 měsíci

      yeah mate... @ted_winston23

    • @ronalddavis9762
      @ronalddavis9762 Před 6 měsíci

      Does Mr Winston ship?

    • @ruthmaryanne7514
      @ruthmaryanne7514 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Psychedelics should be done when you are in a right state of mind, but many abuse it…

    • @tylerwilliams33
      @tylerwilliams33 Před 6 měsíci +1

      As someone who has tried psilocybin multiple times I can confirm it has completely changed the way I deal with life. And emotion.

  • @sprouts
    @sprouts  Před 2 lety +15

    Submit and up-vote the next video topic at sprouts.featureupvote.com/ ⬆🧠

  • @nicomcevoy3774
    @nicomcevoy3774 Před 3 lety +5224

    My mom: thinks I’m crying because I peed my diaper and not because I’m hungry
    Me later in life: *beats my wife*

    • @magnofajo6159
      @magnofajo6159 Před 3 lety +315

      Ahhh, a true gamer i see

    • @Eduardesuper
      @Eduardesuper Před 3 lety +397

      @@magnofajo6159 a true gamer needs no inferior object such as a wife.

    • @sitdowndogbreath
      @sitdowndogbreath Před 3 lety +30

      @@Eduardesuper so it's come down to this so much for the be fruitful and multiply all right that's it I'm stepping out

    • @magnofajo6159
      @magnofajo6159 Před 3 lety +11

      @@sitdowndogbreath I dont get what you mean

    • @r1xshoaib199
      @r1xshoaib199 Před 3 lety +5

      no I think it's psychology Ryt but got gave us time to understand

  • @jdhed5462
    @jdhed5462 Před 3 lety +1910

    "penis envy" this made me laugh lol, I didn't expect to see it in this video

    • @rickitickitavi860
      @rickitickitavi860 Před 3 lety +90

      All women...ha!

    • @rayzeroxx
      @rayzeroxx Před 3 lety +50

      @weedcat420 feminism

    • @omnizafkiel
      @omnizafkiel Před 3 lety +97

      @weedcat420 bruh i thought this was really ridiculous until i heard that part of his theory. literally almost all radical feminists are fatherless shitheads and they almost always seem to have a great inferiority complex towards men

    • @seldomstudios6351
      @seldomstudios6351 Před 3 lety +29

      *P E A N U S I S P O W E R*

    • @marcoanonymous8434
      @marcoanonymous8434 Před 3 lety +26

      hence, the strapon!

  • @somebodyelse3004
    @somebodyelse3004 Před rokem +48

    I see this as the first draft of psychology, based on the worldview and the conditions of his time. It's not really wrong, but it looks at things from a very specific point of view. It's like someone would study the shadow of an elephant and make theories of what an elephant is.

  • @cool7654321
    @cool7654321 Před rokem +40

    The impact of developmental psychology is why Freud is so influential and popular. He may have gotten some of the specifics wrong, but you can't deny the development of our childhood plays a huge role in how how we are as adults. With a lot of meditation and therapy I was able to figure out the reason why I am gay. I lacked the emotional support I needed from my father and I was molested as a child = associating pleasure with men, and trying to fullfil the emotional void that my father left me. I also believe you can be born gay, but nurture plays a bigger role in my opinion.

  • @yfeboanvakenss8841
    @yfeboanvakenss8841 Před 3 lety +8847

    I feel like EVERYTHING in Freud's work is due to child trauma

    • @vanillacherub6847
      @vanillacherub6847 Před 3 lety +298

      Well mostly. Soecially from age 0 to 7. Where our whole subconsios is malleable and programmed

    • @ThatFanBoyGuy
      @ThatFanBoyGuy Před 3 lety +94

      That or sex

    • @chteretreeart
      @chteretreeart Před 3 lety +140

      @@ThatFanBoyGuy or both at the same time

    • @yuantingkung378
      @yuantingkung378 Před 3 lety +164

      Well in psychoanalysis, identifying the repetitive pattern of a person's behaviour is important. Why does he or she keep picking someone that don't love them, why does he or she keep feeling the sense of being abandoned, why can't he or she love someone? What's important in child is because they have a deveolping mind and a lot of complex feeling cannot be fully understand by them, or even us. So when there is a trauma happening to a child, they relied on competent adult to share their mind to figure it out for them. While most of the time those adults never came, and way too many unsolved issue just preserved to the adult life and gradually became an obvious especially when the growing people started to have their own work, lifestyle, money, sex or other things.
      It's not really as easy as it seems when a lot of things were due to child's trauma in Freud's work.

    • @LockCard
      @LockCard Před 3 lety +27

      or sex. mostly both at the same time. thats why almost all of his stuff was debunked.

  • @Cp-71
    @Cp-71 Před 3 lety +4949

    Anything: exists
    Freud: *S E X*

    • @danyelleorr-mcneil4711
      @danyelleorr-mcneil4711 Před 3 lety +65

      🤣🤣🤣 Most of his stuff I agree with, but yeah🤣

    • @StingnB
      @StingnB Před 3 lety +33

      It's in line with a lot of theories that foresees unity as the deepest/highest/most important objective of life

    • @sigma3729
      @sigma3729 Před 3 lety +7

      😂😂

    • @stopbeinginsecure4786
      @stopbeinginsecure4786 Před 3 lety +77

      Legit dude. The man was obsessed with it

    • @Cp-71
      @Cp-71 Před 3 lety +24

      @M K So you're calling me dumb? Mate, this was a joke, why are you so serious about it?

  • @semraoguz4084
    @semraoguz4084 Před rokem +28

    Freud's ideas are discussed, but his paving the way for free thought and his contributions to science are undeniable.

  • @RenzoGualberto
    @RenzoGualberto Před 2 lety +7

    I also was someone who tough that all of Freud’s work were madness. But we need to be humble and find out by ourselves how does he develops his ideas by reading his books. Although many say that they’re boring, they are quite interesting and sometimes even fun to read, because often some concerns linked to our daily life are related (The Interpretation of Dreams is a nice book that all of that can be finded, and not very hard to read). Anyway, let’s be humble. Either being right or wrong, Freud dedicated years of observations and study to develop his conclusions, and many of them I would say that most of people who read it got it wrong.

  • @ThanosTheManos
    @ThanosTheManos Před 3 lety +6405

    Therapist: “Suzy, I see you have a problem with authority..and you get into abusive relationships...were..you not potty trained well as a child?”
    Suzy: *starts to sob*

    • @ovahlord1451
      @ovahlord1451 Před 3 lety +537

      I dont want to be angry anymore, i just want to shit in a potty

    • @Bififress0r
      @Bififress0r Před 2 lety +1

      @@ovahlord1451 Meanwhile, Ida maintains her p€n!§ envy and still wants her own one. ¯\_( ᐛ )_/¯

    • @Nitekom
      @Nitekom Před rokem +7

      How did you know I got an *_anal expulsive personality_* due to trauma?

    • @alphasr8965
      @alphasr8965 Před rokem +105

      This theory and the examples are absolutely ridoculous.

    • @FckPride
      @FckPride Před rokem +21

      I was badly potty trained….

  • @Matheus-do6kh
    @Matheus-do6kh Před 3 lety +4347

    Sex and childhood exist.
    Freud: Oh, everything in the human mind is related to this!

    • @mercilesslymugentenshin8651
      @mercilesslymugentenshin8651 Před 3 lety +55

      Yeah I'm totally lost right now 😅

    • @ethribin4188
      @ethribin4188 Před 3 lety +193

      I mean, its IS related.
      But not defined.
      Freuds theories are ultimatively only models and estimations.

    • @Nebulisreconx
      @Nebulisreconx Před 3 lety +6

      @@ethribin4188 redundant explanation as all theories are by definition not facts including the theory of relativity and evolution

    • @arandomlanguagenerd1869
      @arandomlanguagenerd1869 Před 3 lety +26

      @@Nebulisreconx they are the closest we have to facts, scientific theories have to be proven to be accepted

    • @aryanovran8984
      @aryanovran8984 Před 3 lety +5

      Ever heard of this thing called "introverted intuition"?

  • @rajatchopra1411
    @rajatchopra1411 Před 2 měsíci +11

    Freud did not have normal childhood...

  • @cycrothelargeplanet
    @cycrothelargeplanet Před rokem +14

    2:42
    The fuck he discovered that at age 3-6?

  • @electricsquidxd3254
    @electricsquidxd3254 Před 3 lety +2456

    Jung: What if psychology is about more than..
    Freud: Sex! It's all sex you charlatan!

    • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
      @Nikelaos_Khristianos Před 3 lety +45

      What's sad is neither are taken particularly seriously in modern psychology.

    • @hunterhunter2215
      @hunterhunter2215 Před 3 lety +23

      @@Nikelaos_Khristianos jungs idea of the archetypes is not that unaccepted in modern psychoanalysis.
      Edit: what do you even mean by „modern psychology“?

    • @grbgeslnger24
      @grbgeslnger24 Před 3 lety +3

      🤣

    • @santiagobravo9685
      @santiagobravo9685 Před 3 lety +10

      He’s like Robert California

    • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
      @Nikelaos_Khristianos Před 3 lety +15

      @@hunterhunter2215 Apologies, clarification: I mostly refer to the indignant fact that if one brings up Freudian or Jungian psycho-analysis in academia these days, you do run the risk of literally being laughed out the room, at least in a psychology lesson. (Despite the fact that psychology is just theories!)
      Conversely, I've personally found Jungian theory to be really quite useful in English Literature considering how much of the hero's journey envisioned by Joseph Campbell is based on Jung's heroic archetypes, especially when examining classical texts from the ancient world. Lastly, I do actually agree with your point about the archetypes, they've achieved a new sort of relevance in today's world. (Albeit, for better or worse, thanks to characters like Jordan Peterson).

  • @katsukibakugo3455
    @katsukibakugo3455 Před 3 lety +2616

    “Genital: phase 3-6”
    Me who thought we were all the same down there until I was about 11:

  • @geralldus
    @geralldus Před rokem +11

    This is quite unsettlingly accurate, thank you...I think!

  • @NatLaPetit
    @NatLaPetit Před 2 lety

    Thank you sprouts. It came into being that I picture your videos whilst sitting in my psychology exams

  • @Cam-cc2ft
    @Cam-cc2ft Před 3 lety +3684

    Plot twist: Hans, Ernst, and Ida are all in a polyamorous relationship with each other now.

    • @brendaluv2017
      @brendaluv2017 Před 3 lety +180

      I think that’s a happier ending right there ☺️

    • @max2082
      @max2082 Před 3 lety +83

      They could probably help each other through the pitfalls of life. Especially if they are close enough to share and discuss their feelings with each other.

    • @requiemforpsyche
      @requiemforpsyche Před 3 lety +11

      Awwe :)

    • @EmonticonGaming
      @EmonticonGaming Před 3 lety +26

      They're polyam and support each other through everything.

    • @CloutmasterPhluphyy
      @CloutmasterPhluphyy Před 3 lety +19

      The good ending

  • @jonathanprime1507
    @jonathanprime1507 Před 3 lety +3362

    Bruh I never wanted to throw away my dad when I was little

    • @mercilesslymugentenshin8651
      @mercilesslymugentenshin8651 Před 3 lety +196

      Mine was like, never there so I wonder what the means. 😅😂

    • @maruko8324
      @maruko8324 Před 3 lety +40

      I agree but in my case I tend to rival in my crush's brother.

    • @drjellymonkey5230
      @drjellymonkey5230 Před 3 lety +22

      Same here he did it on his own

    • @johnnyreb1209
      @johnnyreb1209 Před 3 lety +211

      I dont think Freud was accurately describing the human condition as much as he was trying to find and figure out his own problems.
      I believe he projected his own conclusions of himself onto everyone else.
      I dont believe women walk around with penis envy (except the feminists) any more than i believe boys want to kill their fathers and sleep with there mothers.

    • @adetundepowell4321
      @adetundepowell4321 Před 3 lety +9

      Lmao I never even had a dad

  • @edwardharris9902
    @edwardharris9902 Před rokem +6

    Like elementary school; which are the most important school we will ever attend, because it's the foundation of all higher education. Likewise so is Freud. His psychoanalysis is the foundation upon which modern psychology is based.

  • @egiejhonpalce280
    @egiejhonpalce280 Před 2 lety +1

    From higschool to college of learning this I only understand this concept through your video TY

  • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
    @Nikelaos_Khristianos Před 3 lety +2053

    This is why few in the 21st century take Freud's theories seriously: They are completely cracked.

    • @kingaragornii9940
      @kingaragornii9940 Před 3 lety +28

      Cracked, Like you apparently.

    • @leonardoteles9236
      @leonardoteles9236 Před 3 lety +26

      @@carsonbarnesharp If you dont think it doent apply, you are just ignorant, doesnt mean it is a recepie book bro its just a video, his theory is way more than that, also psycology helps a lot of people and there are a lot of theorys that can help you... thinking that they dont work... so what does?

    • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
      @Nikelaos_Khristianos Před 3 lety +90

      @@carsonbarnesharp to be fair, they used to apply to one very specific group of society: Freud's test pool. That is to say, middle-aged, upper class Norwegian men who fancied their mothers.

    • @aq1sw2qas3qd
      @aq1sw2qas3qd Před 3 lety +10

      Yeah. Because most cant comprehend Freud. It's not just about grasping his ideas, it's about having the wisdom to know where to apply them.

    • @Nikelaos_Khristianos
      @Nikelaos_Khristianos Před 3 lety +8

      @@carsonbarnesharp I know right, 😂 truly the most representative demographic of the human race ever.

  • @futurehofer1564
    @futurehofer1564 Před 3 lety +1386

    But that's just a theory, a game theory

  • @bastienmoineau4463
    @bastienmoineau4463 Před 2 lety +2

    Definitely the theory I feel didn't age so well, amongst your other videos I have seen so far. Thanks for the expose on Freud's take at the time.

  • @blerst7066
    @blerst7066 Před 6 měsíci +4

    At college, I've seen many students complain about Freud's theories not making any sense. But that's the whole point. He relied on his own personal experiences rather than the scientific method to develop his theories because he was a psychiatrist, not a scientist. Also, it was a completely different world back then. Female hysteria was considered to be a physical illness caused by a literal "wandering womb." When you take that into perspective, Freud's works were really revolutionary.

  • @RandomAwesomeDude
    @RandomAwesomeDude Před 3 lety +2216

    My wife: WHY ARE YOU SO AGGRESSIVE TOWARDS ME?!?
    Me: Sorry, my dad was never around

  • @randomgurl812
    @randomgurl812 Před 3 lety +1841

    Freud: * mentions that people have sexual desires *
    Asexuals: 👀

  • @antihero_1
    @antihero_1 Před 2 lety +8

    I think the latency phase needs to be broken down more cause there are many more factors in that stage that actually influence the development of the child.

  • @bracelety
    @bracelety Před 7 měsíci +5

    how did this even end up in my recommended

  • @yourfuturedocburenbeiya
    @yourfuturedocburenbeiya Před 3 lety +683

    Freud was one of the weirdest/wildest theories for sure lol.

    • @jacknap1marshall792
      @jacknap1marshall792 Před 3 lety +3

      Hi do you have Facebook,,,..... Which for sure you do, 🙂,.... Can I have the link

    • @The4thraikage
      @The4thraikage Před 3 lety +31

      @@jacknap1marshall792 simp

    • @floydrose3590
      @floydrose3590 Před 3 lety +24

      @@jacknap1marshall792 You have mommy issues

    • @leokm9586
      @leokm9586 Před 3 lety +40

      @@jacknap1marshall792 slow down with that Id man

    • @synchrolord
      @synchrolord Před 3 lety +2

      @@jacknap1marshall792 I've never seen someone Simp on CZcams, wow

  • @WannabePianistSurya
    @WannabePianistSurya Před 3 lety +532

    Pissed my pants, I am an Machine Learning Scientist.

    • @max2082
      @max2082 Před 3 lety +3

      LMAO 🤣🤣🤣

  • @kasunigamage7713
    @kasunigamage7713 Před 2 lety +1

    an interesting teaching 😍 well understood ...Thank you sooo much

  • @mohammadakramali1466
    @mohammadakramali1466 Před 2 lety +4

    As someone who grew up with an abusive father and later had problem in becoming a man. I can confirm that the way you are treated as a child has a lot of effect in your adulthood.
    I am now 29 and have read a Freuds work and it had helped me change myself for the better, it helped me rewire my brain and impulses at early adulthood.
    I think Freud was a genius of his time. The man taught me that nothing in this human mind happens without a reason.

  • @tgarcia-rocha3629
    @tgarcia-rocha3629 Před 3 lety +3942

    I wonder if the enormous amounts of coke he snorted had anything to do with his theories😬

    • @cardinalityofaset4992
      @cardinalityofaset4992 Před 3 lety +190

      Ofc his theories are all bullshit

    • @zayatkinson7253
      @zayatkinson7253 Před 3 lety +72

      I doubt it...seeing by 90% of child cognitive development toys and school teachings are used today and promoted by other researchers

    • @monadolifesaver5613
      @monadolifesaver5613 Před 3 lety +14

      My psychology class is about to go on to this shiz.

    • @skillertime779
      @skillertime779 Před 3 lety +37

      Its the only way good ideas are created. Its a brain stumulant, so ideas are created more easily as the mind gets more clear.

    • @radical_rat
      @radical_rat Před 3 lety +97

      @@skillertime779
      I promise you, cocaine is NOT the only possible way to have good ideas

  • @nellfromhell7192
    @nellfromhell7192 Před 3 lety +4782

    The more I learn about freud the less i understand why he was so influencial

    • @galaxi6585
      @galaxi6585 Před 3 lety +676

      this shit right here is why people did psychology specifically to prove freud wrong

    • @ayyyiss5483
      @ayyyiss5483 Před 2 lety +349

      Because he made the foundation for modern psychology and a lot of his theories were right.
      I've never encounter an actual psychologist, not one, that disregards Freud's influence in psychology; ironically enough the ones who do that aren't psychologists at all.

    • @Anamika00004
      @Anamika00004 Před 2 lety +67

      Probably because he was one of the first? But it was an old time, he was a man with his other social privileges, so his understanding of human psychology is expected to be rigged with all these systematic bias resulting in... penis envy? (I wish he didn't have one, would have more theories proven right 😏) Even now, so many people (some psychologists included) are trying to mainstream the socio-political parameters in the discourse of mental health which is quite individualistic at this point, so.. meh 🤷🏽‍

    • @ayyyiss5483
      @ayyyiss5483 Před 2 lety +151

      @@Anamika00004 Penis envy is not particularly biased; it has a well-established theory that is based on development.
      People tend to forget that Freud was one of the first individuals that took women's issues seriously. Back then people didn't really think much about what a woman could go through because they would accredit that to the fact that they were women and that's how they were, however, Freud started using psychoanalysis on women who suffered from ptsd due to abuse and helped them to improve their lives by actually listen to what they had to say, which eventually led to the foundation of many other things that were unexplored at the time. Ironically enough, not many of his theories have been proven wrong, contrary to popular belief, but people still debate certain situations because psychology is not entirely understood yet.

    • @bre1988sid
      @bre1988sid Před 2 lety +9

      But his findings seem to hold up till today

  • @safamedini
    @safamedini Před rokem +1

    I would like to correct one piece of information here. according to Sigmund Freud's theory, the super-ego is developed after the ego. First, there's the Id, as you said, children are driven only by the id (the principle of pleasure) then there's the part where the child starts connecting with the outside world and starts understanding the concept of individuality so they form the ego (follows the reality principle and mostly conscious yet it creates the unconscious defense mechanisms) after that the child developed a sense of self (aka ego), he/she is now exposed to morality, ideals, and develops the super-ego which is mainly in the preconscious telling us to be good. and that's how the ego starts moderating between the Id and the super-ego attempting to satisfy both while also using defense mechanisms to avoid anxiety.

  • @alice20001
    @alice20001 Před rokem +3

    I prefer the "Neurosis can be treated by talking."
    Instead of the "This man is mad, lock him away! give him lots of sedatives and electroshock therapy. If he still acts up lobotomy."
    Despite the hinderance of Nazism and the hatred of the Jews at the time, I still think that his approach of "I know nothing, let's start from the beginning" to be really a mark of the time and reminds me of when surgeons started washing their hands before operating.
    Great video!

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  Před rokem +2

      True.Freud was ahead of his time in some ways, especially his progressive views on homosexuality.

  • @prod4clip
    @prod4clip Před 3 lety +1425

    Keep in mind this is the person who prescribed cocaine to cure cocaine addiction

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 Před 3 lety +54

      WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD DO THAT?

    • @criminalchicken499
      @criminalchicken499 Před 3 lety +150

      Wrong. It was prescribed to cure a morphine addiction to a close friend. At the time, cocaine was seen as a kind of cure-all. From headaches to things like indigestion and depression. It wasn't known whether or not it could cure and addiction, and so he decided to test it first on himself. He then moved on to say it was acceptable and gave it as a treatment to his friend.

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 Před 3 lety +8

      @@criminalchicken499 oh okay then

    • @Blula
      @Blula Před 3 lety +30

      @@criminalchicken499 Honestly that doesn't make it any better...

    • @criminalchicken499
      @criminalchicken499 Před 3 lety +62

      @@Blula cocaine was used by everyone back then. Literally. It was used for headaches and pains, and pretty much everything else. So was heroine and such.
      They didn't have a ton of medical knowledge, and due to that what they gave was ethical and morally correct.
      It was seen as the best possible course of action, and so action was taken.
      Saying it doesn't make it any better, despite that being the absolute best medical knowledge at the time is like saying prescribing antidepressants is stupid and unethical because 150 years from now we'll have something that'll solve that without side-effects. They did what they could with the knowledge they had.

  • @zildiun2327
    @zildiun2327 Před 3 lety +1148

    Fun Fact: Freud also thought that the reason women wanted to marry other men was because they have a deep internal desire to sleep with their own fathers, while simultaneously hating their mothers for keeping her husband to herself. According to Freud, this leads to women marrying men similar to their fathers, to kinda get the next best thing. I would take any theories this man had with a gigantic grain of salt.

    • @ryderthesinful
      @ryderthesinful Před 3 lety +337

      Well actually, there is some evidence that supports straight women do end up picking men that reminds them or is similar to how her father was in her childhood. Not exactly because she wants to sleep with her father, per se, but likely just because it's familiar, and humans are more comfortable with familiar.

    • @GimbalLocksOnly
      @GimbalLocksOnly Před 3 lety +92

      You dont get out much do you? Its not uncommon for women to pick partners similar to their parents or family. Just look at them. Look at people around the world. Theres a reason interracial couples are not as common as you would think. There is a reason we STILL talk about Freud today. Take your grain of salt elsewhere. There is evidence.

    • @zildiun2327
      @zildiun2327 Před 3 lety +76

      @@GimbalLocksOnly
      It’s not about women picking partners of the same race or with the same hair color. Freud thought they picked them based off of how similar their genitals were to that of their fathers.

    • @zildiun2327
      @zildiun2327 Před 3 lety +3

      @@GimbalLocksOnly
      The takeaways from this are 2 things:
      1- Even if you didn’t think it was, assuming that interracial couples are not desired by women is racist. I would work on that.
      2- Work on your attitude, and don’t be a jerk. Maybe you meant it as a joke, but starting off your comment with, “You don’t get out much, do you,” is an excellent way to make everyone think of you as a grade A asshole.

    • @ryderthesinful
      @ryderthesinful Před 3 lety +89

      @@zildiun2327 ...how similar their genitals are to that of their fathers? Um, pal, I don't know about your family, but most families don't just stare and catalog each others genitals for future reference... I may be wrong, but that just sounds weird.
      Edit: ah, I misread. I see you now said that is what FREUD thought, not you yourself. My mistake.

  • @rifqiasha7649
    @rifqiasha7649 Před 2 lety

    Dari teori yang dikemukakan dalam video ini, saya setuju dan berpendapat bahwa didikan atau perlakuan yang dilakukan orangtua dan keluarga serta lingkungan sekitar akan mempengaruhi kehidupan kita di saat kita beranjak dewasa. Meskipun memang tidak semua hal yang terjadi pada saat kita kecil dahulu bisa diingat, tapi pasti ada beberapa hal yang dirasa sangat dekat sehingga kental dalam ingatan.
    Contoh bentuk kreativitas seseorang yang sudah dewasa yang diakibatkan dari perkembangan psikoseksual di masa lalu yang saya ambil ialah seorang pedagang/pelaku usaha suatu produk (bisa dalam bentuk apa saja) yang membuat produk tersebut bersifat unisex (dapat digunakan oleh laki-laki maupun perempuan). Secara spesifik misalnya, seorang pelaku usaha tersebut membuat pakaian seperti baju/kaos, jaket, sweater, dan celana yang secara bahan, warna, dan desainnya disukai dan dapat digunakan oleh laki-laki maupun perempuan. Contoh produk lainnya yaitu seperti produk tas, sepatu, dan sandal yang bersifat unisex juga.
    Perkembangan psikoseksual yang berdampak besar pada terbentuknya kreatifitas yang saya ambil contohnya menurut saya ialah pada fase phallic (phallic phase), dimana dalam video juga telah dijelaskan jika seseorang yang diperlakukan baik ketika mengalami fase ini ketika dewasanya ia akan tumbuh sebagai seseorang yang dapat mengidentifikasi peran dirinya sendiri sebagai salah satu dari dua jenis kelamin yang ada dan dapat mengidentifikasi kedua jenis kelamin tersebut serta menghargai dan menghormatinya.

  • @rizkyridho3788
    @rizkyridho3788 Před 2 lety

    A person who is classified in early adulthood is in the stage of a warm, close and communicative relationship with or not involving sexual contact. If it fails in the form of intimacy then he will experience what is called isolation (feeling isolated from others, lonely, blaming himself for being different from others). Early adulthood begins at the age of 18 years until approximately 40 years of age 122 years, when the physical and psychological changes that accompany reduced reproductive abilities 5. In general, those who are classified as young adults are those aged 20-40 years. According to a developmental psychologist, young adults include a period of transition, both physical transition, intellectual transition, and social role transition. Early adulthood social development is the culmination of adult social development. Early adulthood is a time of shifting from an egocentric view to an empathetic attitude. At this time, determining the relationship plays an important role.

  • @darienodette
    @darienodette Před 3 lety +614

    It really rubs me the wrong way that Freud thought that "all women" are jealous of men. Don't get ahead of yourself there mate.

    • @Westnile8501
      @Westnile8501 Před 3 lety +51

      I mean well scientifically your are an underdeveloped male. JS

    • @emilyrencken
      @emilyrencken Před 3 lety +208

      @Seth K technically it's more like you're an overdeveloped female

    • @noisyguest5249
      @noisyguest5249 Před 3 lety +22

      @@emilyrencken lol

    • @blanketboi7423
      @blanketboi7423 Před 3 lety +26

      Thought the same and was wondering why I had to look so long for a comment like yours ^^

    • @dylanc9174
      @dylanc9174 Před 3 lety +41

      And I'm a bit jealous of women, though it's an unfounded jealousy. Maybe just because I liked my mother more than my father. His penis envy idea is weird.

  • @FMAYasha12
    @FMAYasha12 Před 3 lety +5638

    “Ida, like all women, maintains penis envy throughout her whole life” I don’t know how to tell you that not all women are envious of penises, lol, this is just kinda hilarious

    • @DrBe-zn5fv
      @DrBe-zn5fv Před 3 lety +26

      his only purpose in putting out this schlock is to hate on his own pallid kind like a good little soyboy wokey ---- check the racist 'art' work

    • @FMAYasha12
      @FMAYasha12 Před 3 lety +494

      @@DrBe-zn5fv I’m sorry, but I literally didn’t understand a single word you said.

    • @DrBe-zn5fv
      @DrBe-zn5fv Před 3 lety +81

      @@FMAYasha12 in spanish we have a word for you .. 'empanada' meaning you are so well cooked inside the pasty of your echo chamber of conditioning that you cannot see the arrow in its flight to your heart. If you attend to this youtuber's use of blatant-yet-perfectly-pc racist stereotyping u will catch my drift i assure you. But first... less 'pan' for you..

    • @FMAYasha12
      @FMAYasha12 Před 3 lety +463

      @@DrBe-zn5fv I’m so sorry but everything you say only confuses me more and more, lol. If you think I agree with the video, I was literally making fun of it, but I think maybe you’re overthinking all this, lol.

    • @angrymanwithsillymoustasche
      @angrymanwithsillymoustasche Před 3 lety +30

      @@FMAYasha12 its fact. But as humans,as u know moral values, emotional intelligence etc, your penis envy is not shown outside but it still exist deep inside your subconscious mind.

  • @jortiz1451
    @jortiz1451 Před rokem +3

    Man, that animation is beautiful.

  • @seciliakiptoo9539
    @seciliakiptoo9539 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for the video and the freedom of using it to our advance.

  • @richardhead8264
    @richardhead8264 Před 3 lety +1018

    *Freud:* _"Everything is about my meat."_

  • @vladtheimpaler7375
    @vladtheimpaler7375 Před 3 lety +1245

    I think it’s important to point out that these theories are widely discredited in modern psychology

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Před 3 lety +16

      But what about the part about young boys and girls finding out about their anatomy differences?
      At what age should they be taught about that? I always thought you should only teach them if they happen to notice and ask questions?

    • @rob3r7jr
      @rob3r7jr Před 3 lety +15

      No shit Sherlock!?!

    • @trueamnisias
      @trueamnisias Před 2 lety +56

      I think it's important to point out that these theories are one of the most influential in modern psychology - current therapies developed leading on from this (psychoanalytic psychotherapy) or in critical discourse with it (CBT). Freud published his works more than 100 years ago, when people with mental health problems ended up in asylums and psychology and psychological health was not realy a concept.

    • @palaremzikermes
      @palaremzikermes Před rokem

      You are funny :)

    • @paromita_ghosh
      @paromita_ghosh Před rokem

      @@trueamnisias o started to believe these are these actual theories or not??

  • @farhanabyan8845
    @farhanabyan8845 Před 2 lety

    Contoh konkret yang saya ambil ada sosok Jerome Polin Sijabat (influencer berprestasi), yang berkreasi saat kecil berkeinginan keluar negeri untuk pergi ke disneyland, ia berpikir kalau hanya pergi untuk bermain pasti kan cuman sebentar, tapi kalau sambil belajar ke luar negeri pasti bisa lama katanya. Dasar dari pikiran jerome ingin ke disneyland adalah karena ia dikelilingi anak anak orang kaya sebab ia bersekolah di sekolah dasar swasta yang cukup mahal, jerome bisa sekolah disana karena mendapat beasiswa, keluarga jerome bisa dibilang bukan keluarga yang serba bercukupan, namun ia di didik orang tuanya untuk selalu mengejar apa yang ia cita-citakan dan keluarganya sebisa mungkin selalu memuji apa yang anakanya ingin lakukan dengan mensupport cita-cita anaknya itu. Dan menurut saya yang paling berpengaruh adalah anal phase dan didukung oleh latent phase karena saat anal phase peran didikan orang tua juga sangat berpengaruh terhadap kepribadian anak kedepannya entah dari pujian dan pendekatan lainnya, dan ketika latent phase superego terus berkembang sementara energi ide ditekan untuk mengembangkan keterampilan sosial, Tahap ini dimulai pada saat anak-anak masuk ke sekolah dan menjadi lebih peduli dengan hubungan teman sebaya, hobi, dan minat lainnya.

  • @johndoh1000
    @johndoh1000 Před rokem +1

    All of Freud's assertions in this context are so beyond absurd it's amazing they're taken seriously at all. I feel like there's many more events or parental practices that can influence people to develop their egos over time than just the stages Freud describes. It almost has to be more nuanced than you need to be potty trained at your personal discretion in order to feel confident about yourself.

  • @aspova2478
    @aspova2478 Před 3 lety +2400

    this is weird

  • @asturianix9820
    @asturianix9820 Před 3 lety +520

    I'm no psychologist, but I think this ideas were the result of his cocaine addiction.

    • @afnanfazli1713
      @afnanfazli1713 Před 3 lety +10

      shows

    • @thegod2291
      @thegod2291 Před 3 lety +3

      Lol

    • @wilhelmvonn9619
      @wilhelmvonn9619 Před 3 lety +6

      He actually recommended cocaine as an aid to clear thinking. Yeah right ...

    • @asturianix9820
      @asturianix9820 Před 3 lety +5

      @@wilhelmvonn9619 He once recommended cocaine to one patient as a way to cure his addiction to morphine. He ended being addictive to both and he said it was his fault for having a bad administration lol

    • @dethkon
      @dethkon Před 3 lety

      @@asturianix9820 Hell yeah

  • @Kaanal_Kavidhai
    @Kaanal_Kavidhai Před 2 lety

    Which video editing app you are using?

  • @eminkilicaslan8945
    @eminkilicaslan8945 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Our History of Science teacher was right. Freud has quite an attempt to relate our every behaviour to our sex drive.

  • @scanface3315
    @scanface3315 Před 3 lety +602

    So perverts had a traumatizing childhood , sad that thats most ppl on the internet :/

  • @thisguywithnicknameqube.7079

    "Penis envy" is an allegory to women envying men's strength and stamina, but even when I know this I still chuckled when hearing this lol.

    • @PM-yj3lc
      @PM-yj3lc Před 3 lety +15

      You don't get it

    • @Mi_Fa_Volare
      @Mi_Fa_Volare Před 3 lety +99

      That is nothing biological though. That mindset is induced by society and is also one reason why there are sex offenders with dominance as motive. Surprisingly or kind of fitting by this video, more female sex offenders commit rape or molest with the sense of dominance as motive than men do.

    • @Mi_Fa_Volare
      @Mi_Fa_Volare Před 3 lety +17

      I cut my comment short, because CZcams deleted my complete one within a second. That shows that they must be hiding something.

    • @TheBlissfulVoid
      @TheBlissfulVoid Před 3 lety +12

      @@Mi_Fa_Volare I know what redit you would fit perfectly in!
      r/IknownothingbutimgonnapretendIdoanywaystomakemystupidandobviouslywrong/idioticargumentsseemvalid.

    • @jesusalbertogiraldomendoza9960
      @jesusalbertogiraldomendoza9960 Před 3 lety +19

      @@Mi_Fa_Volare hey, chill, the video was academic, showing freud theory from 20 century, not 2020 decade .-.

  • @Sharofiddin_bakhtiyorov
    @Sharofiddin_bakhtiyorov Před 6 měsíci

    Hi there, what kind of software do you use to make a video?

  • @bettertomorrow3958
    @bettertomorrow3958 Před 7 měsíci

    Wonderful presentation ❤️

  • @l.av.h7812
    @l.av.h7812 Před 3 lety +177

    Freud's nose candy sure affected him a lot.

  • @morkey74
    @morkey74 Před 3 lety +399

    I think that most of the comments overlooked the simplicity of the message he was trying to convey. Just because one of these things happened to you doesn't mean that you will become that way, it just increases the chances of you becoming that way, especially over time.

    • @lostinabookstore8039
      @lostinabookstore8039 Před 3 lety +17

      My thoughts exactly!

    • @vinichenzo4811
      @vinichenzo4811 Před 3 lety +48

      Am i the only one who didnt think anything in this video was crazy?

    • @lostinabookstore8039
      @lostinabookstore8039 Před 3 lety +18

      @@vinichenzo4811 YES!!! I thought the exact same thing!

    • @vinichenzo4811
      @vinichenzo4811 Před 3 lety +16

      @@lostinabookstore8039 i mean its about the subconcious no one is saying you literally want to fuck your mum its about how you will perceive future relationships and how you will be attracted to people similar to her

    • @bachvandals3259
      @bachvandals3259 Před 3 lety +22

      @@vinichenzo4811 he is weird... But his method is... Effective to say at least...
      His way of dealing with problem can be sum up as:
      "You have a psychological problem? Let me guess, childhood sexual abuse?"
      It's not right all the time... But 100% work 30-40% of the time.

  • @Mateiisback
    @Mateiisback Před 7 měsíci +9

    3:42 don’t get why the unsure about his sexuality part was necessary?

    • @vitin3817
      @vitin3817 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I know right, i felt unconfortable with this video

    • @Mateiisback
      @Mateiisback Před 3 měsíci

      @@vitin3817 yeah, no one should involve their personal beliefs towards others such as religion or whatever you think, especially when it’s little kids who are still devolving and can be influenced. Brings me disgust

  • @Rose_Butterfly98
    @Rose_Butterfly98 Před 2 lety

    When you had a test with this on it a day ago and it suddenly gets recommended.
    *Has flashbacks*

  • @lig_ma
    @lig_ma Před 3 lety +235

    So your saying I'm not dumb, I just pissed my pants too early.

  • @Lolpy.
    @Lolpy. Před 3 lety +1919

    This feels like a joke.

    • @cynthiaanderson6410
      @cynthiaanderson6410 Před 3 lety +111

      I kind of wish it was

    • @digimonalvatrax2738
      @digimonalvatrax2738 Před 3 lety +26

      It is

    • @skycrafter2042
      @skycrafter2042 Před 3 lety +51

      @@digimonalvatrax2738 its not sadly

    • @xdyourmom1953
      @xdyourmom1953 Před 3 lety +163

      Take it with a grain of salt. The man was a freak

    • @fernandobloodborne770
      @fernandobloodborne770 Před 3 lety +82

      Freud, because of the context he was his whole life, made him had an interpretation of this phases based on misogynist (penis envy). Most of what he wrote was heavily judged.

  • @justtruck8451
    @justtruck8451 Před rokem +2

    I'm struggling with self-worth.
    As a hairdresser,,, it is hard for me to talk about my prices for my services to customers.
    Afraid of being rejected for high prices make my business can't go far😢

  • @Spark-In-The-Dark
    @Spark-In-The-Dark Před 2 lety +1

    This video has been changed but the comments are still representing the original.

  • @GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals
    @GabrielsEpicLifeofGoals Před 3 lety +374

    While this theory is a pain to digest, I can agree that shaming your kid for failure (like failing to potty train) does make you more misserable.

  • @yashasvik2958
    @yashasvik2958 Před 3 lety +88

    This is the best anti drug advertising I've ever come across

    • @adnan2643
      @adnan2643 Před 2 lety +2

      🤣nice one

    • @TheSapphireLeo
      @TheSapphireLeo Před rokem +1

      And/or because taught by people on such, if not also methodically and willing in full awareness?

  • @waidi3242
    @waidi3242 Před 9 měsíci +2

    during my latent phase i was being bullied by everyone, not having any friend, and everyone laughed on me.. my problems in my life might actually come from this period of my life..

    • @HaroldsLastDate
      @HaroldsLastDate Před 5 měsíci

      Bullying can certainly do psychological harm. That doesn't mean that Freud explanation for how or why that happens is the correct one, or that harm can't be healed.

  • @afrojack5263
    @afrojack5263 Před 3 lety +171

    Some random a**hole
    Me: he probably didn’t sh*t in the toilet until 7

  • @KARKATELCESARENVIADODESA-pv4yd

    Dad: "Son, you are experiencing what is called Oedipus Complex, just as I predicted yesterday, understand that what you are going through is normal and that it has no effect on your mother or I, RISE ABOVE YOUR IMPULSES SON, FORGE YOUR OWN WAY." *Shakes fist triumphantly*
    Son: *Existential crisis*

    • @ronin_amv5250
      @ronin_amv5250 Před 3 lety +11

      Typical anime training arc for a child

    • @a_donut
      @a_donut Před 3 lety +10

      Son: “Are you telling me to kill you, and then marry mom? That’s fucked up, dad.”

  • @realdeal1164
    @realdeal1164 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Willhem Wundt the father of psychology also recived criticism.

  • @KuruGDI
    @KuruGDI Před 2 lety +3

    Is there really nothing in the latent phase that can go wrong? Seems a bit odd that in that life segment all the sudden nothing should have an impact on your life and you can only benefit no matter what you do...

  • @laughingfurry
    @laughingfurry Před 3 lety +584

    Freud is smart in many respects. Some ideas and statements, such as the personal tyrant all men obey, are often well thought out.
    However, I often consider this theory from Freud to be overly simplistic. It's an idea based on how our community can effect us more so than the effects of other environmental elements or our relationship with our bodies. No proper explanation on body dismorphia. No explanation on why a child may look up to an adult of a different gender. No explanation on why people develop different love languages, which I'm just starting to understand myself.
    Same goes with the subject of sexuality. Why do some find larger bodies attractive while others hold an attraction to smaller bodies. Example of this is the question of why some find a big buttocks attractive, some find a small one attractive, and others hold no attraction at all. This is more important than it appears. Going by the example of a woman having penis envy, that may not be what often develops. A woman may hear the guys they are attracted to talk about attraction to the smaller, which may make her become self conscious of her weight. Likewise, comments of a larger size may have the inverse of her feeling like she's too inadequate to attract a mate. Things may especially be difficult for a woman who hears all of this, but is attracted to someone who doesn't have that attraction. Therefore, she may try to emphasize that part, which may put off the mate she's after.
    Going back to penis envy, this can effect guys, too. Some guys tend to avoid subjects relating to nudity simply because they feel their penis is inadequate for pleasure and procreation. The subject of body size may also play a part. A guy with a large upper body can be considered strong and reliable to the women around him, but he may have insecurities and assume he's overweight. Just the same, a man who's "lean and sculpted" may view himself as "too weak" or "scrawny" to attract a mate. This negative view a man may hold of his body can be as frustrating to his mate. Even a woman confident in her body who simply wish to have personal enjoyment may find it difficult if he feels he can't deliver.
    Then there's the matter of appearance outside of biology. A subject that is especially difficult to properly explain. Some may find a bare upper body to be interesting and attractive. Others may not care, but will change their mind based on attire and any use if make up. To note, I do include tan sprays as a type of make up.
    In each instance of poor relations with ones own body, very little of Freud's theory accounts for every problem. Some of it may be upbringing, as suggested. However some of it can also be the environment, the present social experience, and whether or not there's a healthy relationship with ones own body.
    That's why I say this theory if Freud is too simple.

    • @sprouts
      @sprouts  Před 3 lety +106

      Hi Neko Vermillion, thank you for the insightful comment! It's so encouraging for us to see that our videos can entice educated discussion and contributions from people who know a lot about the topic :)

    • @laughingfurry
      @laughingfurry Před 3 lety +27

      @@sprouts
      Often there is contradiction and miscommunication. Which is the big thing I wanted to bring up. There are often conflict due to such problems.
      Thankfully, I am understood.

    • @laughingfurry
      @laughingfurry Před 3 lety +11

      @@ryand4787
      I did talk about more than attraction. Such as the point of self consciousness being effected by others within the environment. Which is why I mentioned a man who's uncomfortable with his body having relationship problems. It's far more than him being attracted to someone. It's also a matter of him feeling confident in his body. Same with women.
      People do tend to have their personalities completely change, often to unhealthy degrees, due to the people around them belittling them for their body.
      The same can go with how they act, but that's a more difficult subject to discuss.

    • @nok460
      @nok460 Před 3 lety +13

      Have you ever read or studied Freud ? Real question, you cannot say psycho sexual developement is a simplistic theory if you actually read Freud. Besides this theory goes beyond Freud. Theres a LOT of authors who contributed their part.

    • @Cupitron
      @Cupitron Před 3 lety +8

      @@nok460 Yup, actually saying Freud's theory is simplistic is not really knowing or reading his work.

  • @superstridey6165
    @superstridey6165 Před 3 lety +102

    wtf when I was lil I never fantasized about murdering my dad I always looked up to him 😂😂

    • @sweetcoyote917
      @sweetcoyote917 Před 3 lety +6

      Oh, so that’s just me, ok

    • @bribwan1bribwan135
      @bribwan1bribwan135 Před 3 lety +2

      I may Dislike my dad time to time. you’ll go to jail If you Murdered your dad.

    • @jagamin5003
      @jagamin5003 Před 3 lety +3

      Never murder but I can’t say I looked up to him

    • @Fiat_Multipla69
      @Fiat_Multipla69 Před 3 lety

      Yeah same

    • @rahulmalik1083
      @rahulmalik1083 Před rokem +2

      Well i did actually , because he would beat my mom like once a week , and have frightening shouting with possibility of beating my mom , every other day . And i was always anxious of a fight breaking out between them every day , every minute .

  • @ahmatriansyah1174
    @ahmatriansyah1174 Před 2 lety

    Hal yang paling mendasar adalah perilaku kita saat dewasa ialah cerminan kita dimasa kecil. Tentang apapun yang kita lakukan, kita sikapi, dan kita terapkan sedari kecil, itu akan berimpek buat kedepan.
    Fase yang menurut saya konkret dari kreativitas seseorang adalah fase Anal Phase, karna difase ini, kita bisa belajar hal-hal yang basic dari kebutuhan yang harus masuk dan keluar dari tubuh kita, seperti, makan, minum, buang air besar/kecil, bernapas dll.. Difase ini sudah mulai paham akan kebutuhan itu. Fase Anal Phase fase dimana kita diharuskan mengerti dan paham secara mandiri.
    Ketika kita beranjak dewasa, hal-hal yang mendasar tadi sangat kepakai dan sudah menjadi suatu kebiasaan, ketika kita bisa hidup mandiri dan kita tau mana yang menjadi kebutuhan untuk diri kita.

  • @x5up3r50n1Cx
    @x5up3r50n1Cx Před 2 lety +6

    5:32 Didnt know they put my ex wife in the vid

  • @Skibidi-toilet-Gman
    @Skibidi-toilet-Gman Před 3 lety +382

    "Eda has made many new girlfriends"
    Me: is she gay?

    • @peepeepoopoomyguy7457
      @peepeepoopoomyguy7457 Před 3 lety +13

      Yes

    • @HiHello-cw9vc
      @HiHello-cw9vc Před 3 lety +14

      Um what do you think? It’s kinda obvious

    • @insectslayer1374
      @insectslayer1374 Před 3 lety +25

      she was kinda sus

    • @hotdogshake4764
      @hotdogshake4764 Před 3 lety +13

      thats kinda gay ngl

    • @nerdkawaii235
      @nerdkawaii235 Před 3 lety +13

      "Eda experiences penis envy. She thinks this is the key to power and domination and also *wants* one" I don't know if it means she desires a man in order to have a sensation of power, or if she wants to be a man.

  • @moffrow543
    @moffrow543 Před 3 lety +69

    Imagine listening to this without rheadphones and your parents hear “the oral phase” “the oral phase”

  • @naurahkamilyaputri9908
    @naurahkamilyaputri9908 Před 2 lety +1

    Dalam video di atas terdapat kaitannya dengan teori yg digagas oleh freud. Freud percaya kepribadian yang berkembang melalui serangkaian tahapan masa kanak-kanak di mana mencari kesenangan-energi dari id menjadi fokus pada area sensitif seksual tertentu. Energi psikoseksual, atau libido , digambarkan sebagai kekuatan pendorong di belakang perilaku.
    Bentuk dari kreatifitas seseorang yang dibentuk dari pengalaman pribadi pada teori psikoseksual contohnya adalah sukarelawan, kegiatan inilah yang dibentuk pada fase latency, kegiatan menjadi sukarelawan inilah kegiatan sosial yang di dasari oleh keinginan sendiri dan manfaatnya juga banyak bagi sendiri dan orang lain.
    Mengapa fase latency ini sangat berdampak? Karena pada fase ini manusia menjadi lebih matang atau fase dimana manusianya sudah memikirkan masalah-masalah yang ada sehingga mencari keadilan untuk kepentingan moral di masyarakat

  • @michaelfapgod4598
    @michaelfapgod4598 Před 3 lety +365

    I feel Freud was incredibly insecure and pretended to explain psychology to feel better about his own problems.

    • @peepeepoopoomyguy7457
      @peepeepoopoomyguy7457 Před 3 lety +18

      That's a fact,my friend.

    • @DrBe-zn5fv
      @DrBe-zn5fv Před 3 lety

      dya feel better now..?

    • @peepeepoopoomyguy7457
      @peepeepoopoomyguy7457 Před 3 lety +2

      @@DrBe-zn5fv yes

    • @dani_gyl
      @dani_gyl Před 3 lety +4

      Well he married his mother.

    • @antonydabossman4001
      @antonydabossman4001 Před 3 lety +9

      Pretended? Nope, he was one of the first psycologist as it wasn't a very liked thing before him. He worked with the info he had at the time, which isn't as good as current info. Lot's of what he said was right, and lot's was wrong. He paved the way for psychology becoming normal and it now considered a science (albeit, the worst one by many)

  • @kerryannwaithe9245
    @kerryannwaithe9245 Před 3 lety +30

    I'm sorry.......did he say "like all women" @ 3:51???

    • @nothingleftdamn7430
      @nothingleftdamn7430 Před 2 lety +11

      Its kinda weird

    • @Chopscrewyyy
      @Chopscrewyyy Před 5 měsíci +1

      Bruh I'm pretty sure normal women don't have "penis envy"

    • @Ibloop
      @Ibloop Před 5 měsíci +1

      What’s the problem?

    • @sillicon8227
      @sillicon8227 Před měsícem

      this video at the start says that this was Sigmund Freud's theory. Sigmund Freud's theories about psychology and sexuality are often ridiculed for their absurdity.

  • @bahasharc8393
    @bahasharc8393 Před rokem +6

    2:36 Bro I didnt know girls were different to guys until I was like twelve, I used to thin the only diffarance was that girls can get pregnant

    • @JaidynGX
      @JaidynGX Před 11 měsíci

      And have long hair and boobs and sound different

    • @dogenjoyer2480
      @dogenjoyer2480 Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@JaidynGX anyone can have long hair

  • @SymbioticSense
    @SymbioticSense Před rokem +2

    Seems to me like humans want a simple model to describe a reality that surpasses our comprehension. In attempting to do this, we can end up with models that over simplify and fail to take account of the nuances of existence. Personally, I feel like any model of reality should be able to constantly shift and evolve in order to fit new situations. If a model is too rigid, either reality will be bent to fit it, and we will ignore important information, either it will break.

  • @maybe.yellow
    @maybe.yellow Před 3 lety +113

    Oh boo hoo, Ernst has a good relationship with his mother and isn't sure about his sexuality. Must be trauma!

    • @gus6612
      @gus6612 Před 3 lety +5

      Chill

    • @boskeep1
      @boskeep1 Před 3 lety +7

      I mean granted freuds theory is like pretty old i think and it’s still just a theory not a law I think you should chill a bit lmao

    • @detectivequack479
      @detectivequack479 Před 3 lety +1

      Chill out

  • @imlikeheroin2
    @imlikeheroin2 Před 3 lety +89

    Me watching this as a student: Huh, that's so interesting!
    Me watching this as a parent: So many ways to ruin my kid without even knowing it. 😐

    • @deadaccount7303
      @deadaccount7303 Před 3 lety +15

      I wouldn’t worry too much. Obviously carefully weening and supportive potty training i think is good, but Freud was pretty fucked in the head. I mean “penis envy” just sounds hilarious and there is something called the Freudian Coverup which discredits him more.

    • @imlikeheroin2
      @imlikeheroin2 Před 3 lety +2

      @@WellPreparedTreeFrog Jokes on you, I'm a junkie! 😅 lololol jkjk... my name is from a song not about actual heroin

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 Před 2 lety +2

      Has your child started asking certain questions though?