How To Get UNSTUCK In Life! [In 4 Simple Steps!]

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024

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  • @ChristinaLopes
    @ChristinaLopes  Před 4 lety +31

    Where do you feel stuck in life right now? Let me know all about it in the comments below!

    • @shortylove282
      @shortylove282 Před 4 lety

      Relationship letting go of my TF think of him every day I guess this the way I have to live not obsessive anymore so that good thing. job taken course to change my career and leaving the old one, don't see numbers or hear from my guidance's anymore in my spiritual asceion feel the void. I been comforting myself in this void yes been resting. Very good advice on trigger's been experiencing that with a co-worker I put a boundary let this person know that not going to do something that not my job to do been thinking of peace and harmony been us 🙏 thank you so much for this video ❤️

    • @Wolfstyle71
      @Wolfstyle71 Před 4 lety +3

      I feel stuck in almost every aspect of life. Can’t get a job despite having 4 degrees and being a military veteran. TF process is driving me nuts. F wants to work a business together but can only talk with me on the phone (In person she runs away, shuts down, or puts up a barracade.) Every attempt to fix money, jobs, or personal life is failing. Right now the only success I have is in physical health. (Losing weight, eating right, etc..)
      How I found you months ago was your video on disconnection in spiritual awakening and the painful process.
      (Wrote the above before watching)
      Mostly the VOID

    • @sandradale5409
      @sandradale5409 Před 4 lety +2

      You answered my question now I know I’m in the void Thankyou Christina xx

    • @stephk3415
      @stephk3415 Před 4 lety

      Yes, had a horrible come up in life. Done everything on my own since I was 16, my mother disowned me (she lives maybe 1 mile away) dosent even know my children who now ask where she is. Struggling with addiction for 6yrs trying to hide my pain. Admitted myself to a rehab, I’ve been 9mos clean and now I just stuck and depressed, never want to leave the house engage in any fun activities with friends etc...;( I need help

    • @wheelerpat8
      @wheelerpat8 Před 4 lety +1

      It is What it is truth hurts the most I love her explanations. She’s a great teacher.

  • @reneeb6117
    @reneeb6117 Před 3 lety +74

    **The 3 main areas in life where we most commonly get stuck**
    1. Relationships
    2. Career/Jobs
    3. The Past

    ** What feeling stuck actually means! **
    - We're never actually really stuck
    - It's a perception of the mind. It's the ego putting thoughts and ideas around the feeling that you are stuck
    - It's a perception you have of the situation that you are in
    - The question is *Why do I FEEL stuck?*, not *Why AM I stuck?*
    **The 3 reasons why we feel stuck and once you know them, you’ll start to feel lighter right away**
    1. Outgrowth
    - When you have a spiritual awakening and your growth accelerates really quickly and the environment around us may not grow with us
    2. The Void
    - The period in your life between the moment that you are no longer resonating with your old life but before your new life takes place.
    - The moment between your old life and your new life
    - No man's land - nothing is really happening - It's just a perception
    - You are being prepared for the next phase of your life
    - Ego might go into overdrive
    - Might feel panic
    3. Triggers
    - When we are being triggered by our outside environment
    - You start to feel assaulted by your outside environment
    - Your ego starts feeling confined....makes you feel stuck
    - You are not stuck....you have a wound in you that is being triggered
    **4-step process to help you get unstuck quickly**
    1. Understand
    - Understand what is going on
    - Just knowing what is going on is the first step
    - Awareness is the majority of the healing work
    2. Soothe Yourself
    - You must come into peace and acceptance with where you are in the present moment....This is crucial
    - You have to calm yourself
    - Don't stay in a dangerous situation. If you feel in imminent danger or are unsafe, get out
    - Do breathing exercises, meditation, mantras, affirmations, be aware that this is your ego and where you are....do anything that soothes you
    3. Get to Work
    - Once you accept where you are and are at peace and acceptance and you know which of the 3 areas you fall into, you can start to work on it
    - Outgrowth Phase
    - You need to make decisions and have difficult conversations
    - Use your throat Chakra
    - The Void
    - Becoming comfortable when nothing happens
    - Become comfortable in silence
    - Become comfortable being alone
    - Learn to trust the void
    - When you are in the void your soul is guiding you. Your soul knows what it is doing
    - Become comfortable and rested in the void
    - The longer you fight the process, the longer it will take
    - Rest
    - Triggers
    - Requires a lot of awareness
    - Learn to go into the trigger and through the trigger rather than run from the trigger
    - Triggers indicates there are wounds that need to be healed
    - You need to work through the trigger....bring it inward, face the wound and heal the wound
    - Warning - if you are being triggered and you bolt instead of facing it, it will drag on
    4. Stay Open to Receiving
    - Not as easy as it sounds
    - Masculine energy is the giver and feminine energy is the Receiver
    - You need to back off of your masculine energy and come into your feminine energy a bit more
    - Feminine energy is the Yin energy. It's about stillness, non-action, silence, soft, nurturing
    **How to cultivate feminine energy**
    - Meditation - especially the type that brings you into your body
    - Schedule STOP (non-action) breaks throughout your day to close your eyes and connect with your body and breathing for about 3 min each time
    - Dance
    - Do things that connect you to your body but in a 'beauty' type of way. Peaceful movements
    - Learn to be alone and have solitude breaks
    - Learn to observe the world and contemplate
    - Learn to be introspective
    - Do affirmation work *I am open to receiving* or *I drop resistance to receiving* or *Today, I soften more* or *Today I am soft*
    - Be nurturing - volunteer - help someone or something else (animal)

    • @akna5857
      @akna5857 Před 3 lety +2

      Thank you!🌺🌼🌷 - it's great & very helpful! Lots of Love & Blessings to you💗🌼🙏

    • @Alia_1111
      @Alia_1111 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you! ❤️

  • @MsN00RA
    @MsN00RA Před 4 lety +38

    I’m in the void! This year, my dog died, my mother-in-law died, I left my partner of 10 years, I left my government job and I left Canada. I followed the intuitive messages I was receiving and moved to Dubai where I met my twin flame and got married. But now it feels like all the doors have closed or like I’m being tested. Thank you for the video. It helped me realize that I’m the caterpillar in the cocoon and that this time is important and needs to be used to work on myself until I get the green light to emerge as a butterfly.

    • @bobbiedaniel9347
      @bobbiedaniel9347 Před 3 lety +2

      Hey, how are you doing a year later? Congratulations on all the changes that you made and followed through with. That's incredible!

    • @rizwanarashed428
      @rizwanarashed428 Před 3 lety

      More power to you women! You got this🖤

    • @jimkennedy5644
      @jimkennedy5644 Před rokem

      Christina. After years and years of therapy and 14 years of sobriety, facing my reality, my sexuality and coming out to my ex-wife, kids and the world, I have remained, for the most part as miserable as I was before. I suffer from depression and anxiety (being treated). I’m, in many ways, MORE unhappy that I was before I revealed my authentic self and unburdened myself of my “secret”. I look for therapist to help challenge me as to WTF, asking “why are things not getting better”…..my career had floundered, I remain restless, irritable, afraid and a serial procrastinator. This video, I believe is the beginning of some life changing things for me. I have been in the Void for a very, very long time and I have to accept and not judge the fact that my void has actually been most of my life and be grateful that I now realize I can embrace it, be quiet enough to listen to my soul and the universe. Can you be stuck because of two factors at the same time?…..namely being in the Void and Triggers? Sorry for long note and Thank you!!!! Amazing!!!!

  • @krisvw1127
    @krisvw1127 Před 4 lety +15

    Thank you for this gift. I am in the void, transitioning from a job of 28 years where I worked way too much. I am struggling with my masculine desire to do and accomplish - I am having a hard time being still. Yesterday was a bad day-so this video was timely. 💙

  • @alliwhite3941
    @alliwhite3941 Před 4 lety +19

    You're like the therapist I'm too anxious to seek. Happy I've found this channel!
    Greetings from Germany 🙈

  • @BethanyKay
    @BethanyKay Před 4 lety +47

    I loved when you said being stuck is just an illusion. So true. PS- You look amazing in this video ❤

  • @tucsonwisewoman
    @tucsonwisewoman Před 4 lety +16

    After 19 years my husband and I are no longer together.
    I'm in the void , yet my faith is stronger than ever.

    • @ceilhall8626
      @ceilhall8626 Před 4 lety +4

      Boy oh boy, can I ever relate to this! I can't honestly say that my faith is strong, and I envy you that. I'm working on it and on healing the childhood wound that his departure uncovered. Love and hugs to you on this journey into change and wholeness, Shana.

    • @bobbiedaniel9347
      @bobbiedaniel9347 Před 3 lety

      Wow, how are you doing now a year later?

  • @palomaf.2150
    @palomaf.2150 Před 4 lety +5

    I'm a new subscriber and needed this right now 😳I'm currently in void, my body is telling me to rest and I'm not getting any answers from my higher self, God etc I will try to relax and work on my Yin. You are my guardian angel 🙏thank you Christina!

  • @yvasquez2449
    @yvasquez2449 Před 3 lety +3

    I think I’m in the void...nothing seems to be happening, nothing that I want that is. I feel like I’m talking to the walls. I lost my husband 4 years ago, I went through hell for about 2 years after that...then I got involved in a very unhealthy relationship with a very selfish person.. When I managed to end that relationship, the pandemic came and I found myself alone in my house for months. Now, when I can go back to the world I just don’t know where I want to go anymore. Nothing seems to be important or meaningful to me...my life has changed in a way that I lost direction and purpose

  • @primsaa
    @primsaa Před 4 lety +15

    I cannot believe how badly I needed this! Christina, you're doing God's work! 🙏🏾💜

  • @Phoenix-lc7jv
    @Phoenix-lc7jv Před 3 lety +1

    You’re right in what you teach here. Years ago, I was stuck in a particular situation for several years. I was kicking and screaming (in my mind) because I didn’t want to be in that situation. Then, I came across “The Power of Now.” I started practicing acceptance. Within a year, the door opened. Several things aligned miraculously in a short period. I saw the door in my mind’s eye. I walked out of that figurative prison. Only recently, I realized that stillness and acceptance brought forward the opening of the door.

  • @johannafechtel4301
    @johannafechtel4301 Před 4 lety +5

    I just sat down with a pen and a notepad because there is so much valuable information in this video. Thank you Christina, you're an angel 🌈💫💖

  • @NenaLavonne
    @NenaLavonne Před 4 lety +26

    Your videos are like a ray of sunlight! Beautiful insight. It’s hard to fully engage and be inspired by life when you feel stuck. Extremely helpful video! 😊✨✨🙏

    • @ChristinaLopes
      @ChristinaLopes  Před 4 lety +2

      🤗🤗

    • @sun0raylight994
      @sun0raylight994 Před 3 lety

      Excellent advice she gives I do say. Always remember it won't be so dark if you let a little sunlight in . ☮️ Out earthlings

  • @taniav135
    @taniav135 Před 4 lety +11

    You keep surprising me every week Christina! I’m in void, I’m not able to work and be financially independent right now and I get anxious just thinking about all the things I want to do and achieve even comparing myself to others but I know that this is just temporarily.

    • @ChristinaLopes
      @ChristinaLopes  Před 4 lety

      ❤️🤗🙏🏻

    • @allinbe2632
      @allinbe2632 Před 3 lety

      How are you right now after I a year. I am in void stage and it took longer than expected so I really want to know if or how you get over this void stage.

  • @PrairieDodgers
    @PrairieDodgers Před 4 lety +18

    Silly me, my intuition told me I knew all of that weeks ago. And yet I was still on the treadmill. Thank you so much! I am going to cultivate that Yin!

  • @toughsoftieyogi
    @toughsoftieyogi Před 4 lety +8

    Thank you, Christina. Your videos are very healing and helpful. I am outgrowing things in my life right now and I'm overwhelmed by all the inner work that I need to do. But your videos are very reassuring and they help me feel that I have a strong support system who has my back.

  • @spiritorchard6992
    @spiritorchard6992 Před 4 lety +2

    I've been in dark night for the past year, and transitioned into awakening over the last few months. I'm still getting some symptoms of dark night, but I've mostly moved into outgrowth and void. Those very strongly reflect where I'm at.

  • @daniellerodgers6493
    @daniellerodgers6493 Před 4 lety +27

    This is a video I will revisit. Thank you. ❤️

  • @bluebelluk
    @bluebelluk Před 4 lety +4

    I suspect the biggest thing I need to do to release my stuckedness is to quit work. It's just too stressful of an environment for me and too fast paced. I have more to do than there is time to do it so I'm constantly chasing my tail and end up feeling miserable on nearly every commute home. Until I can afford to move on there isn't a lot I can do to alleviate it as once I get home I crash (trying to heal from adrenal fatigue). So my life consists of work and rest right now, no time for anything fun, hobbies, friends, etc etc. Thanks for sharing your video! I hope one day not to feel so stressed out.

  • @ll993
    @ll993 Před 4 lety +6

    wow, thank you Christina, i need to learn spending time in feminine energy, i have been working 2 years so hard n now its over, feeling totally exhausted, thats nice to hear that i dont have to do it all the time.

  • @chrisb4653
    @chrisb4653 Před 4 lety +1

    merci beaucoup! thank you so much for your generosity and wisdom, love and compassion for all of us. I live alone, deceived and desperate, waiting for time to pass. Your video is changing someting inside me..from France, Love

  • @michaelalexandergrant9259

    You should be proud of your work ma'am. After watching several of your videos I feel like I'm less stuck

  • @germaineboatwala-sidhva1079

    After being jobless since 2020, and being in different countries, because I stayed back to look after my dad till he passed away, having zero help from government, we're now on such a stuck place financially, we have no reserves at all! I can't even get back home from overseas as there's no money. So it's not an ego issue. We're there for each other over internet, but we need help badly and right now! We're praying and trying to see God's Will in this. But I liked the "calm yourself down " in the video. We're growing from within, trying to work with God's Grace and to see what's His Plan for us now.

  • @chrislemarchand4916
    @chrislemarchand4916 Před 4 lety +6

    Pretty much stuck in the void. It feels abit like groundhog day. I'm just waiting patiently for my new shift in life.😀 Look forward to your next video🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @janjones694
    @janjones694 Před 4 lety +1

    After my walk today I went online searching and I found your videos. Amazing awakening for me after going through an unexpected career challenge and feeling stuck. I love that you put meaning to all my emotions as an HSP. I'll stay connected and finish this journey knowing something is great on the other side. Thank you with all my heart! Looking at the possibilities and figuring out my triggers. I have been going through this for 6 months and it's starting to come together.

  • @daniellebearden6738
    @daniellebearden6738 Před 3 lety +1

    This makes me feel better that I am not just being "lazy", but in fact trying to nurture the feminine right now. Thanks

  • @jamiehatleberg8206
    @jamiehatleberg8206 Před 3 lety

    Christina your teachings has changed my life. I am a huge empath. Knowing now that no one can take my power away is soooo liberating. I am now working toward a new career In healing modalities. Thank you !!!

  • @S_24120
    @S_24120 Před 4 lety +5

    I feel like I am stuck in all of the above, marriage, void, job, triggers n the past

  • @helenapickin2437
    @helenapickin2437 Před 4 lety +2

    Pretty sure I’ve shifted from the outgrowth phase and into the void following various levels of spiritual awakening.. it’s kind of like a cycle where I level up each time, if that makes sense.. being stuck in the void sucks but I recognise now exactly what I need to do, so thank you. Am ready to practice being and am working on bringing in my feminine energy after struggling with my masculine energy for so long x thank you!

  • @louiseleggatt3163
    @louiseleggatt3163 Před 4 lety +1

    Triggers are keeping me stuck. Now that I know they are my wounds, I have something to work with. Thank you ♡

  • @ZiggyLu-og3zp
    @ZiggyLu-og3zp Před 3 lety

    Thank you. I’ve been stuck for over 20 years. It’s been so very hard. I learned that feeling stuck means you have unresolved trauma.

  • @ilkywatts215
    @ilkywatts215 Před 4 lety +3

    Yet again, you seem to be on point at the right time.
    Only days ago something a friend did triggered me but I couldn't quite work it out until just now. The tears flowed & I can now let it go. Also need to work on my feminine energy. I've always given & find it difficult to receive because I've realised I'm not worthy! LOL, but I am working on it because I do matter. It a process & thanks to your teachings it's making a huge difference. 💗🐾💗

  • @palmamingozzi5736
    @palmamingozzi5736 Před 2 lety

    The world turns even when you are sleeping. Thank you.

  • @CynthiaLaChina
    @CynthiaLaChina Před 2 lety

    Thank you Christina for this wye opening video. I am in all 3 reasons. I have outgrow my old life as a wife after 35 years and I have been awakened to walk my spiritual path yet I’m floating in the void, after my BFF/soulmate/business partner left our 12 year relationship and our past still triggered me daille. So I’m a big mess trying to get back on my feet.

  • @sumeetbakshi3283
    @sumeetbakshi3283 Před 2 lety

    Hi u hv no idea how each and every word u say resonates with me big time....I am in a void and feel trapped and feel like there is no way out...thank u for this video...my relationship wt my partner is what makes me feel stuck and kinda trapped

  • @pattiwheeler6966
    @pattiwheeler6966 Před 4 lety +1

    I began my spiritual journey in late 2011 after intuitively realizing that something just different feel right in the world and with myself. I have watched thousands of video's and read many books/articles some great some not so much. It has definitely been a process that feels more like detective work at times than an awakening. After watching this video and to no surprise, I realize I was stuck in 2 of the 3 areas, one being a long term relationship and the second at a job. My partner and I decided to consciously uncouple a few years ago but continued to live in the same home due to shared family but mostly for financial reasons. We decided to sell our house earlier this year even though it was quite large and our actual living space was not shared other than the kitchen. Neither one of us could begin a healing process while living in that environment and it was a relief to both of us when we acquired an new independent space for ourselves and despite our life path differences we do remain good friends. A couple years ago I decided to begin my own service business after being notified that my current company was closing their doors. It has been an enjoyable learning process with set backs, revelations, growth and rewards. I have definitely had to be mindful of patience and perseverance but I find peace and value in being able to provide services to those in need. But...now I am in the void. It is quite new, odd and slow in to comparison to how fast everything seem to come that I felt while I was in the height of my growth period.

  • @christineclark4365
    @christineclark4365 Před 4 lety +1

    Why are you so good at making sense of my life! I am definitely in the ‘void’ right now and although
    I realise this is frustrating and a necessary transition, it can be scary as to what comes next. I trying
    very hard right now to trust the Universe and Let it all happen xxx Thank you Christina xx❤️❤️

  • @AB_Mercer
    @AB_Mercer Před 2 lety

    This was me, I was very stuck! but thanks to your content I've moved through spiritual awakening as gracefully as I can lol! Thanks so much!

  • @tianagonsalves3755
    @tianagonsalves3755 Před rokem

    Hi Christina , after watching your Vedio on different stages of awakening , I had my spritual awakening , and thanks to your vedio I could understand everything.

  • @cbrisalchemist6887
    @cbrisalchemist6887 Před 4 lety +1

    I’m Eclectic Alchemist and I’m a master of triggers who is most comfortable in the void. 😂 I’m so ready for moving beyond awareness...that’s my (not) stuck place. Thanks for being you...so exquisite.

  • @td6484
    @td6484 Před 4 lety +2

    Dear Christina, I feel so called to reach out to you and ask you for your help. My whole life, I have been a gifted visionary painter. I have always been a tuned with "psychic"gifts that I believe we all have. I have tried to live the artists life, without education... Living in vans, being stubborn. Working in tattoo shops because I refused to conform. To me, that was because I didn't want to give up my dreams and poor self esteem never allowed me to enjoy the fun of learning in school and a very supportive family, I never graduated the 10th grade. I am now turning 27 in Feb. I lived running away from my Self, and pain, and did some self actualization the last festival tour I was on and felt so empty. I realized everything I had ever done in my life even in the spiritual community was out of Ego. I could tell it even in the images I was painting, they weren't my authentic self. Even my spiritual side seemed to be engulfed in Ego and I felt so incomplete, unloved, lost, scared. And also aging lol.... Long story short, I came to the conclusion, I NEED stability, I am like water with no cup! And I have manifested an apartment of my own in Portland for the first time in my Life. It is going okay, now on unemployment. I am feeling scared today, and a little stuck because I KNOW living off my art has been dangerous in that mentality, and so I really have suddenly started desiring going to school for psychology, because I want to see myself reach for the stars to build self esteem. I started desiring schooling. But my dreams have always taken president in my life, can you help me realize if I am realistic about this? Suddenly when I turned 26, I stopped knowing myself. I suddenly wanted to GIVE more, I started desiring to help children and people understand themselves. I suddenly look in the mirror and see someone who works in Chinese medicine and therapy.....II am almost MORE passionate about helping people with energy and I am with painting and making silly images for people. WHAT! That was the dream I asked for :O! I started desiring wanting to share what I am learning (started yoga teaching training) but I am feeling REALLY scared about University, as I get my GED my feet become cold about entering education world; even though I am having spiritual awakening; it seems to be leading me here. Can you please tell me if I am tricking myself? Lol. I suddenly feel like I am, the artist. That I don't NEED to rely on this to support me, that I am smart enough to obtain a bachelors and much much further, and potentially have my own practice. How do I stay strong during this crazy transformation? Thank you so much. I am very much so alone, as my friends have dropped away and I have moved since I have changed. This is very very intense. I love you, thank you. It's so confusing. You don't regret school do you?!

    • @CassieWinter
      @CassieWinter Před 3 lety +1

      Wow, so proud of you for facing this huge transformation with such courage! Are you still looking for someone to talk to and get some support?

  • @sanikasuryawanshi4463
    @sanikasuryawanshi4463 Před 4 lety

    I have been into my spiritual awakening since probably the past two years or more. I'm done with the dark night and am in the void right now. The past two years have been excruciatingly painful. I got diagnosed with OCD, am taking the treatment for the same. The synchronicities are kind of coming and going. I really WAS feeling stuck and thanks to you, I now know I have nothing to worry about. I'm working on cultivating the yin energy. Thank you so so so much Christina, for all the beautiful work you're doing 🥰! You're an angel!

  • @zoivegan
    @zoivegan Před 3 lety +1

    It's like you are speaking directly to me! I am truly grateful that I have discovered your channel. Thank you so much for what you do!

  • @markallen8844
    @markallen8844 Před 4 lety +1

    Great video Christina ...
    OMG now she tells me...
    I have just been through a painful process of feeling stuck
    So big and heavy in my life and the more I didn't accept and fight against it and try to fix it. the more trouble I had with it
    I called that guy mr fix it. Ha ha but he wasn't helping at all.
    Finally I surrendered and felt those awful feelings and accepted me for where I was at.
    Im getting a lot from your videos
    Thank you

  • @ZiggyLu-og3zp
    @ZiggyLu-og3zp Před 3 lety

    Great video. Thank you. I’d like to share that chances are mostly empaths are here research because they care about life and life giving sustenance. However, most likely these empaths are being devoured by a narcissist who is most likely not even interested in giving life and real love so I usually tell the empath to remove themselves as this seems to be the only way for the empty to receive restoration and healing. Thanks for this great video. Many of us need to hear these things.

  • @craigriggins2878
    @craigriggins2878 Před 3 lety

    Just wanted you to know how much you have helped me come into my power.... my spiritual awakening is so tough 😫 thought I was going insane. This is so worth the ride.

  • @skilletHappyDays
    @skilletHappyDays Před 4 lety +4

    Check on all three, trigger, the void and outgrowth.

  • @elizabethpaul2079
    @elizabethpaul2079 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you. This was very informative. Just realized I have a trigger that needs resolving.

  • @paulvanspanje8201
    @paulvanspanje8201 Před měsícem

    I was ready to detrone anyone and everything, pffff relax and love right , thank you Christina 😊love to Sarah and the rest of all the beautiful souls beings Gods and goddesses blissss ❤🙏

  • @sandramorris2475
    @sandramorris2475 Před 4 lety

    I am stuck in a relationship with someone that puts me down and makes me doubt myself. This video literally was what I needed to hear to get unstuck and stop recycling. It was everything I needed to hear and will help me with my journey. I just "woke" this year and am trying to navigate it. Your videos have been invaluable to me. Thank you so much.

  • @lha2424
    @lha2424 Před 4 lety

    You saved me Christina really. I have thought I am doing wrong these days. After watching this video, I realized that I am just developing Feminine energy🧘‍♀️

  • @yousraadly7341
    @yousraadly7341 Před 4 lety

    Only a blessed can get unstuck if they got stuck in any of this living life traps but the more scary thing that these trap gets a person stuck to hell eventually if heavens rewards stubidity we would all have acted foolish ,thank you for inspiration doctor and healing words .nice channel and thanks for suggestion ,keep the good job .

  • @andrewwill60
    @andrewwill60 Před 4 lety +3

    This has been one of the most insightful videos for me that I have ever watched on your channel, many many thanks Christina!! Keep up the fantastic content; you're helping us all so much!

  • @inneranswerinneranswer4744

    I went through all 3 processes recently, the triggers have been going on for years, however I have been ignoring the messages.
    I went into 'outgrowing', feeling a disconnect with almost everything. Went into the void, back into the disconnect and finally confronted some triggers, however these triggers was more to do with my growth and taking back ownership of me. I have to own the trigger as I have been doing the talking, and trying to coerce a change but been getting resistance from those around me, I had to work on changing my behaviour in that moment even if others are behaving the same. This caused conflict but felt much better to my soul.
    The truth is some of the triggers my higher self told me to remove them from my emotion years ago. It was connected to a particular person. I needed to change how they emotionally resonated in my soul. Not stop loving just removing the impact they had. As soon as I followed the message - remember I received it years ago and I ignored it - things opened up immediately. My guide bombarded me with a load of messages on how to move forward, as I was no longer in the 'stuck mode'

  • @angelamolnarpemberton5145

    I’m stuck within my life and what I know that I need to do but just don’t want to do it anymore. I love my small family of 4 but I’ve been disconnected from them all for a few years now and I just want to learn more and more about life and spirituality and I cannot seem to even want to be in this role of wife and mother. I would never leave but I just feel very stuck frozen in time. I have withdrawn from society and don’t go out and do anything anymore.

  • @beatriceerete
    @beatriceerete Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much Christina. You have been of tremendous help in my journey. I resonate with all these things, end 17yrs marriage,cut a lot of people off,run away from all includinh family members. I thought something was wrong with me.Going through step 3. have a bitchy boss who keeps trigering me. I'm pulling through,doing lots of meditation and yoga. Thanks a million sweedy.

  • @dianenesbitt3896
    @dianenesbitt3896 Před rokem

    Good morning Christina, I love your content. I found you a couple weeks ago and have been watching since. This one really hit home, I'm in a relationship that isn't growing and my daughter and two grandsons live with me. There are so many times I just want to run away from everything. Thank you for these tools to add to my tool belt❤️

  • @thechaoticwitchnl
    @thechaoticwitchnl Před 3 lety

    Wow i am now just noticing that this is video is really a message of my spirit guided. Was feeling really stuck, did an oracle reading for myself yesterday. And you are totally right i was being triggered last week by many different situations so my ego started to kick in. In my oracle reading i had the cards growth and acceptance. Was not happy at all because it was not what i wanted to see (ego😂😂) but with your video everything makes sense now. I can not even express how much your videos mean to me. thankyou so much for what you do❤️❤️

  • @EmziiMood
    @EmziiMood Před 3 lety

    Holy fork... this year... I asked to become fully awakened and I certainly recieved it 11x over @_@
    - I am in all of the above depending on the day/energy/context/etc/blerg...
    This whole process is nuts but it is MORE nuts suppressing this sheet anymore... My issue lately has been figuring out how to allow my emotions to have their moments APPROPRIATELY - as well as finding balance within - can't find balance within if you ignore whats on the other side of the scales 🧡🍂
    Ty for sharing - thank you a TON ❤❤❤

  • @smartalec2645
    @smartalec2645 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm in the void. Kinda miss the yay I'm awakened/energy/everything is awesome. It still is - just the intensity faded a little I feel. Acceptance is the key. I need to embrace this like I did initially - having a bit of a tough time with it lol. Answers are incoming. To those in the void - don't get caught up in the swirling intense emotions. Stay as you are on your journey, look to your intuition and talk with woken friends. You are so much more than you think and feel. Stuck in general to varying degrees. It will pass. Patience > impatience.

  • @Grigzy27
    @Grigzy27 Před 4 lety

    I can confidently say that I am in the void phase of this spiritual awakening. I am an occupational therapist currently working in the school system and began my career in hand therapy in orthopedics prior. I began yoga teacher training in October and during a lot of my meditations, it came up that i was suppose to be a yoga teacher- but my dad convinced me that i wouldn’t make money and i would struggle.... so i went for the higher education. Right now, i feel stuck because I’m uncomfortable with where I’m working and feel like nothing is happening. Thank you for reminding me to be okay with stillness! ♥️🙏🏼 hardest part for me

  • @oliviamoreno-carlson7717

    I was told that I could still get your counseling license. I felt stuck because I wanted to come back with ...I can't because???a bunch of excuses. I bought into the mind set that I am not good enough growing up.

  • @Loveflow_Lulu
    @Loveflow_Lulu Před 2 lety

    Going through a big change in my life and having the opportunity to see your channel that supplies all your beautiful / knowledgeable content has continuous effects in bringing me soo much positive feelings during this time of elevation in my life… I want to genuinely thank you and let u know that you are truly appreciated - don’t stop doing all that you do and what you provide .

  • @janedoe3827
    @janedoe3827 Před 4 lety +1

    Wild animal stuck in a corner that is a perfect description sometimes I literally feel claustrophobic in my own home and I have to open a window even if it's a hundred degrees outside

  • @joandsouza5857
    @joandsouza5857 Před 4 lety

    I feel stuck in the void! Thank you for the steps to get unstuck. I am learning how to be aware and surrender. I need to work on my feminine energy! Thank u

  • @ishita0496
    @ishita0496 Před 4 lety

    I resonate with all 3 reasons, the outgrowth, the void and the triggered.
    So grateful to acknowledge that I'm not stuck but growing beautifully, I feel more comfortable now.
    I will start to work with the steps you've mentioned, dear Christina.
    What better time than quarantine to realize this phase and shine brightly after it ends.
    Thankyou so much, love you always. ❤️🌱🦋

  • @stefanieschulz3271
    @stefanieschulz3271 Před 4 lety +7

    This came sooo much at the right time!! You are amazing 💕

  • @brendayoung3274
    @brendayoung3274 Před 4 lety

    Christina you are a Dr. of Spiritual Psychology. You make thing simple and easy to understand. Thank you for having a deep understanding of where people are at and what they need to do to move through the things they don't understand.

  • @triciafree2bme263
    @triciafree2bme263 Před 4 lety

    Ask Christina, I severed three different relationships somewhere around October’19. Please correct me if I’m wrong. I’m recovering from a revolving door of drug addiction, which I having done the work I’ve done, l came to realize it was the manifestation from the inability to deal with my feelings, much less have any clue what I wasn’t able to deal with and not knowing what that feeling was and or where it was stemming from. So I actually had a living problem and today I believe this all seemed from fear. It was such a revolving door for me. It’s also said, insanity is repeating the same mistake and expecting different results. I never thought that, I was not expecting different results, l new ultimately what the ultimate results of my behavior, it was when and not what. The strongest one of all as well was 15 years. All three of these relationships shared the same common thing! Not one of these folks were able to accept the part they played and or didn’t play, and then placing the blame on me for their feelings. The 15yr one was as such with their addictions!!! Yes, addictions. I bent over backwards doing whatever I could do only when It came to light, little by little all of them were chipping away at the hard work I’ve put into a better way of living & I ultimately needed to get off their playgrounds having the wear with all l wasn’t a victim if I was volunteering to stay in the relationships. Enough is enough, not to mention l tried countless times to help them all of them, yet if I’m going to drowned in the process of lifesaving, the best thing I could do for myself was swim away. I feel like I went inward first. In fact after having done so l was like what was l fearing of loosing? Since my world has been opening up like magic. Do you consider that bolting? I’m now back in the cocoon. Thank you always...

  • @heidik8218
    @heidik8218 Před 3 lety

    You are a gift to this world! Thank you for being you 💖

  • @lisetteramos6415
    @lisetteramos6415 Před 4 lety

    Wounded from the past, past lifes and childhood, still healing. Working on my self. I have lots of feminine energy the one I feel I have to build more is the masculine. Having hard time to take action sometimes or I wait to long. I know divine timing crucial or I just should make peace with the void. Thank you so much. I clarify many things, I will work in those steps. Many blessings to all. 🧡💛💚💙🦋🙏

  • @bobbiedaniel9347
    @bobbiedaniel9347 Před 3 lety

    I'm definitely in the job stuckness, as well as holding on to a trauma from my past (that occurred within my relationship)

  • @mariab4905
    @mariab4905 Před 3 lety

    I needed this. I felt stuck but I thought of the blessings in my life and used your ideas and I’m so grateful for my life now. Thank you for your wonderful video

  • @ceilhall8626
    @ceilhall8626 Před 4 lety

    I feel stuck in emotions of loss, grief, emptiness, and isolation that were triggered when my husband of 17 years left me very suddenly and abruptly 5 years ago. During the past year, I discovered that the marriage was masking unhealed CEN (childhood emotional neglect). I don't miss my husband, but I'm still sad, and that is why. It is also why I feel unhappy without a partner. I am working with a Reiki therapist and psychotherapist on this. The psychotherapist is going to do Soul Retrieval with me - something I've always wanted to try since learning about it in one of your videos, Christina. Thank you!

  • @davidparker3834
    @davidparker3834 Před 4 lety +1

    Christina - Wow, what an incredibly powerful, moving, beautiful & timely video... moved me to tears as opened my awareness & understanding about so many things I've experienced / am experiencing through my own spiritual awakening & ascension journey! :) Thank you & very well done! Ps. Love your yin-yang energies! 😀💞🔥💫

  • @sakshic5890
    @sakshic5890 Před 4 lety

    Thank you for trying to make us butterfly 🦋 out of cocoon.
    What if the situation is repeating even after trying to correct it every time?
    What if your partner doesn’t want to join you in your period of transformation?
    We get into a relationship with open mind to give and receive love 💕 but suddenly things go wrong and you feel dumped.

  • @hilaryh1n
    @hilaryh1n Před 4 lety

    I am definitely in the trigger stage and have been so many times!! I have been doing the exact same trigger and feeling like I need to run away from my husband even though he is amazing. I am so happy I have your lesson now. I now know I need to push through it instead of him changing the way he speaks to me, I need to learn why this is so triggering for me and go through the deep wound from my childhood trauma!!! REJOICE THANK YOU!!!!
    I have been connecting more with my feminine energy and just signed up to volunteer at an animal shelter. It feels like I am listening more but I have a lot of feminine healing to do in order to accept the gifts!

  • @solyoluborovic5751
    @solyoluborovic5751 Před 4 lety

    This video is LIFE SAVER for me at this moment..Thank you Cristina! IM IN A HUuuGE VOID. My twinflame journey changed everything in me, everything is so different now and it seem like I have to radically change my outside world to match my inside world.. but I feel exosted f from being in a void for so long where nothing seems to work out for me. I'm trying so hard but somehow I'm always getting back to that Void. Now I understand "The void" much better and you brought back my sense of optimism with this video!❤❤❤💃🤗

  • @shreychaks
    @shreychaks Před 4 lety +1

    Couldn't believe the timing of this video. I'm practically turning into a fossil😂 being stuck in everything for pretty long that has got me into depression.

  • @MollysMindofficial7
    @MollysMindofficial7 Před 4 lety +2

    You are the sweetest human on earth :) thank you for all you do!!

  • @aninditachakraborty9890
    @aninditachakraborty9890 Před 4 lety +4

    Thanks for the amazing video Christina!! This is what I needed to hear and get going... Sending you lots of love..

  • @Stopsuffering4all
    @Stopsuffering4all Před 3 lety

    You are highly skilled, professional and your YT videos are very helpful, thank you! 🙏❤️

  • @ginacardarella
    @ginacardarella Před 3 lety

    You just brought so much clarity to me right now thank you

  • @vanessabradford5517
    @vanessabradford5517 Před 2 lety

    I’m in the Void right now and thoroughly enjoying the rest and feeling mostly centred. Thank you for articulating

  • @stevencoulter9980
    @stevencoulter9980 Před 3 lety

    Once again, so much love and light to you Christine.
    I’ve been on a very deep dive, into myself, spirituality, healing chakras, changing my diet to vegetarian, yoga, I just signed up for a “reiki masters” class. Lol.
    This is all fantastic, I’m really enjoying, however. I have a huge pull, strong push if you will, to move across the country, buy some land, and to build a healing center, in the mid west. I’m working everyday towards that goal, however I feel in ways like I’m in the “Void” or as I like to call it, “waiting in the hallway”.
    My career came to an end, I’ve actually packed up my house, and I’m ready to move. Lol. However, I’m waiting for the $$ to come to provide me the means to move across the country, buy some land, build a home and center on the land, so on. As I said I’m working daily, on educating myself, meditating, changing a great deal, however, I get very impatient, waiting to actually move! I’m ready yesterday! Lol. I’ve been ready since November. Lol. I felt the pull so strong, dreams guidance, synchronicities, so on, still have synchronicities it’s coming.....lol. Tomorrow? Weekend? April? May? Next year? Hello? I’m ready!
    Work daily w patients. Too.

  • @nicolegrimes2009
    @nicolegrimes2009 Před 4 lety

    I feel stuck in the Outgrowth stage. This video helped me understand it much better! I took some notes and I love the mantras! Thank you so much! Looking forward to accepting more Yin energy in my life!

  • @charikloangel33
    @charikloangel33 Před 3 lety

    I've watched so many of your videos over the last couple of days and they have been so helpful. I've been asking my guides why I've been feeling stuck and they must have lead me here!
    I'm currently feeling stuck in a low-paying job and fearful of not making ends meet. This is my first full-time job since I left my ex-partner (where I also felt stuck before I summoned the courage to leave!). For many years while with my ex, I suffered with depression and anxiety and for much of our time together, I was either out of work or working part-time and he supported me. So I'm now in my new life in a studio flat of my own and worried I won't be able to sustain it. For me, it's a bit of the Void and a bit of the Triggers. Shortly after I became single, I had a kundalini experience and I felt amazing and unstoppable and invincible for several months. This job brought me down to earth with a bump! I knew early on that this wasn't the job for me and I actually did resign but rescinded my notice before the month ended for fear of being out of work in a pandemic. My job can be challenging and stressful (I work in mental health). I really want something that pays more and is less stressful, particularly as I suffered with burnout earlier in the year. However, the job market is competitive and finding a job that fits my criteria is difficult. I don't seem to get shortlisted for the jobs I apply for, and I'm getting anxious while what little savings I have are dwindling. There was a time when I was in more flow and opportunities would present themselves but despite creating space by leaving an unhappy relationship, that doesn't seem to be happening for me right now. Being in this position reminds me of being stuck in my last relationship so there's probably some work for me to do around triggers.
    I'm grateful for your insight. Thank you x

  • @virginiamabitsela
    @virginiamabitsela Před 3 lety

    This is too good. You always know how to explain this things

  • @JaneDoe1802
    @JaneDoe1802 Před 3 lety

    Wow. Just found this video. Going on 3 years of the void. Thanks for the tips!

  • @KelleyLightseed
    @KelleyLightseed Před rokem

    Thank you! This gave me so much guidance and peace.

  • @dr_feelgood1902
    @dr_feelgood1902 Před 4 lety

    I love your videos, I can practically feel your positivity and strength through the screen. 😊
    I think I might be a broken empath, I dunno. I isolated myself for the better part of a decade, spurning all loves in the process. Dealing with other people just got to be too much and I wanted to be as far away from them as possible.
    A few months ago I had a spontaneous Kundalini awakening and now here I am. It's like the universe threw me a lifeline or something. I'm 32 now and I feel like I've wasted so much of my life running.

  • @kimswrld5321
    @kimswrld5321 Před 3 lety

    I’m in the void and the trigger part meaning I left my marriage but I’m still feeling stuck n not knowing what to do or where to begin I also feel stuck in my career as well but I ty for sharing this has helped me a great deal

  • @rainbowpeace777
    @rainbowpeace777 Před 4 lety

    Hi Christina
    Thank you for the inspiring video. I feel stuck because I came off antipsychotic medication 8 weeks ago(slowly under doctor supervision). I haven’t slept very much over the last 2 weeks and this makes it more possible that I could go into psychosis again(haven’t had psychosis for 4 years) I feel I am going through a spiritual awakening now. I feel the need to take some space from my parents due to sensitivity and this is a bit challenging. I want to move forward and love myself more yet everything is new and old emotions from the past have been arising for the last 8 weeks. I have faith I will move through this well. Thanks for listening.🙏

  • @anacelawatson6938
    @anacelawatson6938 Před 4 lety

    Thank you Christina .its my void life for years instead i travel alot and enjoy nature as my way of increasing my vibrations

  • @anitashehu9784
    @anitashehu9784 Před 4 lety +1

    Dear Christina, I have a question for you. Can you recommend me any book about how to receive or how to cultivate feminine energy. Love you and your videos? It seems like my energy change the day that you come with new video. So much love 💕

    • @ChristinaLopes
      @ChristinaLopes  Před 4 lety +1

      Head over to my website and look up a blog post called "how to receive" 🤗

  • @susansmith-Bibleresearch4674

    Such good teaching, Thank you

  • @jeremycocking1964
    @jeremycocking1964 Před 3 lety +1

    Living with brother and around family

  • @maninderkaurminhas5769

    Yes I am in void as I have gone through fast process of awakening since 2018 when my mother passed away.I feel too much stuck these days with no where to go

  • @JodieWilson-DiscovertheRegion

    I love your explanations of the process of growing and changing. With this video I realized I am in stage 3 of being comfortable in the Void. The quiet female energy. Moving into staying open to receiving! Thank you for your insight! ;)

  • @juliacrane3212
    @juliacrane3212 Před 4 lety +1

    Dear lovely Christina you make it sound so easy " have a conversation" if only?! My partner refuses to speak or discuss anything...😳😳