What Causes Depersonalization Disorder? (And Why!)

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  • čas přidán 7. 06. 2024
  • ⚡ Start YOUR 💯 recovery from DPDR today! 👉🏼 www.dpmanual.com/purchase/
    Here are the 3 most common triggers for DP and DR!
    Click on the timestamp to skip forward to the trigger most relevant to you:
    1. 1:34 - Panic Attacks
    2. 4:49 - Bad Drug Experiences
    3. 7:44 - Accumulated Stresses
    What was the trigger for your DP / DR? Leave them in the comments section below!
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    Disclaimer: Please note that the medical information contained within this video is not intended as a substitute for consultation with a professional physician and is not a recommendation of specific therapies

Komentáře • 518

  • @Dpmanual
    @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +8

    🚨 What was YOUR trigger for DP / DR? 🚨 Leave a comment to let me know! 👇 And check out my COMPLETE guide to DP Recovery at bit.ly/3oaUzO3 😊

    • @unknownbetablockers5105
      @unknownbetablockers5105 Před 2 lety +2

      Weed 45 bob marley's in 1 day trust me brother i smoked for 9 months that 1 day made me panic attack and depersonalization derealization disorder. I hope that 1day i get back my strentgh thank you ❤️🙏

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      @@unknownbetablockers5105 Thanks for your comment and don't worry, you can and will recover! 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/is-depersonalization-permanent/

    • @nangelfrog
      @nangelfrog Před 2 lety +2

      Abandonment age 2 followed by years of sexual abuse from age 7. Nothing helps me

    • @unknownbetablockers5105
      @unknownbetablockers5105 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Dpmanual thank you Brother for this good work you're giving us the best information God bless you 🙏❤️

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      @@unknownbetablockers5105 You're welcome 😊

  • @briandewberry2199
    @briandewberry2199 Před 2 lety +183

    I had it for like a year or two and It was bad. I now have almost fully recovered and I feel great. I know it feels like it won’t go away and time is slow but IT WILL GET BETTER. After you start to feel better you will think it went by really fast. It’s hard to explain but it feels like you spent an eternity in only seconds. Prayers to those who are still going through it.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +5

      Thanks for your comment Brian, glad to hear you're doing so well! 😊

    • @Platofloe
      @Platofloe Před 2 lety +3

      Brian, did it feel like last week felt like a month ago or some shit like that? Foggy and clouded mind? As if your mom asked you if you did the dishes but you can’t recall the vivid memory of doing them but you know you did

    • @briandewberry2199
      @briandewberry2199 Před 2 lety +6

      @@Platofloe yea it’s just like that. It’s like childhood memories or even things that happened recently are gone and you can’t recall them unless someone reminds you of it by talking about it. Some memories feel like u don’t remember if it was real or a dream. Time feel super weird. A short time will feel long, and a long time will feel short.

    • @Platofloe
      @Platofloe Před 2 lety

      @@briandewberry2199 for real. That’s true. Thank you

    • @katiewednesday621
      @katiewednesday621 Před 2 lety

      Well said!!! Thats exactly how I feel

  • @aizymarie4422
    @aizymarie4422 Před rokem +37

    i struggled with weed- induced DP for 6 months after a bad high. it was the worst thing i’ve ever experienced and i wouldn’t with it on my worst enemy. there was a point where i didn’t know if i was truly going to be able to live with it. i have huge memory loss from that time but i remember how agonizing it was and i would come to this channel obsessively to learn everything i could and to find some hope. i would read the comments religiously looking for any one that may have made it through and was saddened to find so many disheartening comments abt ppl never getting better. if your looking for a sign or some hope, this is it. you will get better. it’s been 2 years since that era in my life and i’m doing just fine:) i do have episodes here n then but i have the mental tools to deal with them. you will be okay! you are safe! you are in control ! it rly will get better

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +3

      Thanks for your comment and I'm so glad to hear you've recovered! 😊

    • @miltongreentrilltvrawandun535
      @miltongreentrilltvrawandun535 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I had that same experience over 10 years ago and now it comes and go over the last month its hit me real intense ive rushed myself to the er 3 times and each time they they have told me everythings ok i wish it would go away

  • @epicapple101
    @epicapple101 Před 2 lety +57

    Even after a near full recovery, it's always great to come back to these videos to understand what happened and why I experienced DP/DR

    • @alexandradobre61
      @alexandradobre61 Před 2 lety +4

      Hi. I ve been having this condition for 8 months. It s been a non linear recovery process with many ups and downs. Lately I ve been getting a lot of deja vu, but they are nothing like those I ve had before. First a big wave of confusion is coming out of nowhere, and it feels like I m dead and the world looks so scary, then I get a deja vu and the feeling that the dp dr is ending and I am returning back to normal. Have you experienced this? Also, what Kind of diet will help me the most? I avoid sugar, dairy, gluten, but for 2 months I was eating only rice and fish and potatoes which I suspect are making my dp dr worse than it should be. I go to college, hang out everyday, I do everything it needs to be done, but food is the only thing that is dragging me down. It feels so frustrating. I really don t know what to do anymore.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +5

      Thanks Alex, delighted to hear you're doing so well! 😊

    • @mehdimoaanid1418
      @mehdimoaanid1418 Před 2 lety

      How long does it take to recover from this?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      @@mehdimoaanid1418 Read this, I think you'll find it useful 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/

    • @epicapple101
      @epicapple101 Před 2 lety +1

      @@alexandradobre61 My recommendation personally is a lot of protein heavy foods, not sure it has any basis of working, but eating protein heavy foods and using the protein to work out helped me a lot with my symptoms

  • @chozenone7777
    @chozenone7777 Před 2 lety +26

    Depersonalization don’t stand a chance, when DR. Shaun pulls up on the scene.
    Thanks man you’re saving lives and mine included.

  • @GhostPlayZ797
    @GhostPlayZ797 Před 11 měsíci +14

    Dude you’ve literally just made my confidence go from “I think I’m going insane and I’m no longer myself “ to “ oh, that makes sense “ now I completely feel so much better man. I worry so much about my mental health and all this buildup stress and my dumbass trying weed for the first time and from that experience I will NEVER touch any drug ever. But thank you so much for this video man I’m starting to feel my old self again.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 11 měsíci

      So glad it was helpful! 😊 And don't worry, you can and will get 100% back to normal: www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/

  • @jaypalnitkar4400
    @jaypalnitkar4400 Před 2 lety +29

    You have explained it much better than qualified psychologists and psychotherapists out there . Many don’t even know this as they are just text book doctors who themselves have never felt anxiety or panic

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Thanks Jay, I'm very glad it was helpful 👍

    • @chipmunk1900
      @chipmunk1900 Před 2 lety

      @@Dpmanual Plz Sir tell me how to get back my hands power I feel weak it's been 2 years . When do I get My Strength back just tell me this and tell m how only this is my question Plz answer me when you open I'm your fan and subscriber thank you much love ,😘❤

    • @philipholding
      @philipholding Před 2 měsíci

      That's told me off for experiencing it in my early teens, doing it as my MSc thesis, and working as a high intensity therapist for the NHS. The words 'tar' and 'brush', spring to mind!

  • @raveenajayaraman7844
    @raveenajayaraman7844 Před rokem +6

    I'm 23. Dp/dr started when I was 16 and was caused by abuse from my childhood. I was fortunately diagnosed correctly with CPTSD at 20. Childhood trauma of any type (verbal, sexual, physical) can also cause DP/DR. It's much better now and I'm still learning ways to recover from it fully. Cant wait to read your book!

  • @rocket505
    @rocket505 Před 2 lety +20

    It's crazy how informative and both relieving your videos are. Truly amazing videos! Keep up the great work and thank you!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you very much! 😊😊

  • @mms9414
    @mms9414 Před 2 lety +11

    2020 caused my depersonalization to happen. Glad I found this channel. When I feel an episode coming, I pinch myself & take deep breaths & it snaps me out of it

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Glad the channel has been so helpful 😊😊

    • @thc7865
      @thc7865 Před rokem

      So you never recovered ?

  • @JoyRob1313
    @JoyRob1313 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Best video I’ve ever seen on DP. Very concise and informative on what it is and what triggers it.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 4 měsíci

      Glad it was helpful Ashley 😊

  • @angelopolo3761
    @angelopolo3761 Před 2 měsíci +1

    You are seriously a legend sir be proud of this what you are doing you’re helping many people more than you’ll ever know

  • @Narda1968
    @Narda1968 Před rokem +2

    Thank You! It's so good to be informed about this and know it is linked to my anxiety. Just knowing this has helped me feel calmer ..

  • @shadowpriest300
    @shadowpriest300 Před 2 lety +5

    I just have to say THANK YOU!!!
    You are a true Hero!
    I suffered from this 8 months ago for a long time and i really thought i would go Insane!!
    I watched your channel to cool me down and it helped me a lot!!
    I started taking zyprexa 2,5 mg and i got back to normal.
    It was the worst feeling ever and you helped me go through it!!
    THANK YOU A LOT!!!!
    All my love goes out to you!!!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Very glad to hear you're feeling better and that the videos were so useful 😊😊

    • @thc7865
      @thc7865 Před rokem

      Do you have to keep taking anxiety meds for it to be gone ?

    • @shadowpriest300
      @shadowpriest300 Před rokem +1

      @@thc7865 i still do it yes because i'm afraid that it will come back when i don't take em....
      But i won't take it for the rest of my life...
      Do you have the same problem?

    • @thc7865
      @thc7865 Před rokem

      @@shadowpriest300 yes i have been detached from the world for 3 years now since that anxiety attack i had and at this point idk what to do

  • @valleyboys6971
    @valleyboys6971 Před 2 lety +11

    i keep coming back to watch his videos bc he is so good at explaining it. you literally hit every single symptom i have had about this on the freaking head. Your story about looking at a puppy and how you felt in one of your videos was literally so spot on for me it’s insane. i’m 18, this summer i smoked for the first time and i’ve always had anxiety and depression, so when i got high the anxiety kicked in and i had the worse trip ever and the feeling of reality didn’t seem real at all. i was lucky to have my closest friends there with me to help calm me down. that was my first experience of DP. it lasted that whole day till i wasn’t high anymore. and didn’t think about it again. 2 and a half weeks ago i had a bad anxiety attack about how i thought i was dying and that triggered to me thinking about death, and what happens after death and then the question of reality set in and started the whole DP/DR episode. took me two weeks to look it up and find it has a name. and every since i knew it had a name and it wasn’t permanent and anxiety based and completely treatable, my worse days are behind me. i’ve had bad episodes since then but not as bad as before knowing that thinking i’m going crazy. i still think about it constantly but i can feel myself slowly getting better with it. today at baseball practice i actually had a good long time where it didn’t even cross my mind. i was just happy and living. i can see myself slowly getting these longer breaks where i don’t think about it. Since i genetically suffer with depression and anxiety problems i am back on my medication and should help a lot when it kicks in. but it is not needed for everyone by no means. i am sharing my story for all you young people out there and recent people that have come down with this. don’t feed into the fear. fear is food for DP. love y’all

    • @thc7865
      @thc7865 Před rokem +1

      Did you ever recovered ?

    • @valleyboys6971
      @valleyboys6971 Před rokem +1

      @@thc7865 yes i am good. once you realize the fact that it’s just anxiety it helps so much.

    • @thc7865
      @thc7865 Před rokem +1

      @@valleyboys6971 i cannot believe i will be 3.5 years and god knows how long it will take to go away 😔😭

    • @valleyboys6971
      @valleyboys6971 Před rokem +1

      @@thc7865 you have got to realize that the more you think, the worse it gets. keep yourself busy, doing things that take brain power so you focus on that. once you start doing that it helps so much bc then you get used to not thinking about it. i still struggle with it. it was bad for me bc i was in school when it started, so all day in class i’d just think about it. but now that i work and actually have to use my head to work, you stop thinking about it so much and actually just live. your brain gets use to not thinking about it and then once you get done with whatever is keeping you busy, you continue to not think about it. the more you think the worse and longer it gets. it’s just anxiety that’s all it is.

    • @thc7865
      @thc7865 Před rokem +2

      @@valleyboys6971 you’re right when im busy at work i even forget what im going through but when i get too tired or stressed from work i feel bad thank you i will try to avoid thinking about it so much

  • @Az1x_Developer-eu5zu
    @Az1x_Developer-eu5zu Před rokem +4

    Hey man, ur a lifesaver, I was smoking weed alot and stopped right away, the next day I felt weird, but I wasnt paying atention to it. Then I had alot of caffeine and it got worse, I couldnt sleep, couldnt think properly and went crazy about that I have schizofrenia, or some other disorder. Now its day after and I feel a lil better, so I think its getting better? I watch alot of videos from this channel and it gets better, cause I keep myself busy. Thank you again and I wish luck to everyone who are experiencing it! stay safe yall!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +2

      Glad to hear you're feeling better and that the channel was helpful! 😊😊

  • @hadjarahmed3731
    @hadjarahmed3731 Před 2 lety +1

    Je n'ai jamais vu des vidéos assez éclaircissante que les votres ca mérite des millions de vues de mon coté je partage au maximum trés intéressant bravo monsieur vous êtes un génie mille merci.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Merci beaucoup, je suis ravi que les vidéos aient été si utiles 😊

  • @dylanbradshaw8158
    @dylanbradshaw8158 Před rokem +4

    Awesome video, super understandable and helpful!!

  • @sophiekelly3918
    @sophiekelly3918 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much for your videos!!❤️

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Glad they're helpful Sophie! 😊😊

  • @benjamincrabtree3102
    @benjamincrabtree3102 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thank. You. SO MUCH.

  • @wolfypup5999
    @wolfypup5999 Před 6 měsíci

    Mindfulness is very helpful for me countering this type of attack, I just focus on my senses and the current moment and also the future of my self where I'm going to be and I immediately snap out of it and back to reality

  • @valleyboys6971
    @valleyboys6971 Před 2 lety +6

    i just want to say i’m 18 and i just started going through DP two weeks ago and i was so afraid that i was going crazy and that i was gonna go crazy that it freaked me out so bad, until i decided to look up how i felt and turned out that it’s called DP, which led me to your video. and you helped in two days so much, and learning that all these other people feel it to and how you can get over it helps so much. it helps knowing your not alone.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Thanks for your comment and I'm very glad to hear the videos have been so helpful 😊😊

    • @Kaaso
      @Kaaso Před 2 lety

      How r u now

  • @RuralAdventures
    @RuralAdventures Před 2 lety +19

    I commented on a video of yours about my dp problem, and it seemed to clear a lot of things up. One of my main fears was that I was developing schizophrenia, and wouldn’t be able to return to normal and life a normal life like an average teen. This was one of the most scary thoughts because my aunt had schizophrenia, and died from it. I thought I had some genetic link to her metal illness, and I would end up like her. Thats what my first panic attack was about. Those thoughts calmed down, but I still always had that feeling in the back of my head that I was going nuts. Then I discovered your website and CZcams page, and I felt a lot better, then though the thoughts came back because I was still so shocked that last year I was a normal kid and now I have this thing called dp that is destroying my life. I am going through puberty, which could be the cause of my anxiety and this. But the big question I have is if the stressor or accumulator of stress is still going on that causes dp like social anxiety at school, could that possibly make the dp stay if your always having anxiety, and is it possible for it to be schizophrenia due to gienets??? I know I probably sound like alot of the people you talk to be it would be nice to get over this.

    • @tristanlorta6498
      @tristanlorta6498 Před 2 lety +9

      The fact that you are asking if you are schizophrenic is a pretty good indicator that you aren't. I go through the same thought cycle though. You aren't alone in this way of thinking. Take some breaths and try and redirect your thoughts. Ask yourself often "is this a rational thought, or an I letting my anxiety take control?"

    • @Platofloe
      @Platofloe Před 2 lety +1

      I personally brother would also look into meditating 🙏🏻
      Also brother, mental illnesses are suppressions of emotions. If you tell yourself you have something then you will get it. That’s how the mind works. On a side note, I believe on a spiritual level/consciousness schizophrenia is when you remember your past life 👀

    • @kinoman6198
      @kinoman6198 Před rokem +2

      yeah i also thought i had schitzofrenia

    • @Lemoncare
      @Lemoncare Před 11 měsíci

      Fellow travelers, along the way, I got maxed out, my CNS got hyjacked. I was diagnosed with drug resistant depression, pathological mourning. BPD,schizophrenia and more.
      Five years into recovery, I keep learning that yes I was traumatized, ( mom left family) when I was seven, my dad was violent 2sisters died. Bro went to prison and I was told shhhhhh
      Get over it. Don’t cry, that’s when I started having organized crying moments. Closet case emotions.
      I’m much better. Recovery is a gift.
      I also learned I had copper overload, and pyroluria.
      This is what recovery looks like today, I tell
      Myself. It’s all temporary.

    • @RuralAdventures
      @RuralAdventures Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@Lemoncare fr I am completely over this.

  • @KevinChinn88
    @KevinChinn88 Před měsícem

    Got it... get rid of the anxiety.... Now I'm gonna go crazy on researching how to get rid of anxiety; hopefully in a natural way. Awesome video!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před měsícem +1

      Glad it was helpful 😊

  • @nataliezementbeisser1492

    your work is very important.

  • @player4life11111
    @player4life11111 Před 2 lety +2

    Repeat stresses definitely have caused the DP/DR/Nervous Breakdowns in my case! Your videos and your calm down-to-Earth explanations of the symptoms have healed me from the breakdowns. I hope and pray for the day when Anxiety Disorders are Fully cured!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Thanks for your comment and I'm very glad to hear the videos have been so useful 😊

  • @jeanniegichigi2765
    @jeanniegichigi2765 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you! sooo much!

  • @c.lalvenhima2306
    @c.lalvenhima2306 Před 2 lety +5

    Everytime I watch your video I'm always feeling better than before and feel like I'm closer to being completely cured.
    Thank you very much Mr. Shaun

  • @tigbittyclown3638
    @tigbittyclown3638 Před rokem +2

    I've had DP for over a year now. It hasn't stopped and the numbness emotionally towards loved ones that i feel is so strong. I just want it to be over so i can go back to feeling love. Emotional love towards my partner and family and friends as well as the empathy that comes with that. I hate feeling like im just going through the motions and im sure that once i get there ill feel fantastic.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +3

      Don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch DPDR off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 And yes, you can and will get 100% back to normal: www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/

  • @oliviamikaela9739
    @oliviamikaela9739 Před 2 lety +3

    I had the worst dp/dr and did not thought I was gonna go through it. I thought a lot about ending my life. Shaun was the best to listen to and calm me down in the beginning. I recently got diagnosed with Lyme Disease. Since I’ve started to treat my Lyme disease my dp/dr have went away with 99%. Depersonalisation and derealisation is very common in ppl with Lyme disease, b12 deficiency’s and other imbalances in the body. Stress is just the “activator”.

  • @coo4231
    @coo4231 Před 10 měsíci +6

    Mine only lasted for like 2 or 3 months but i thought it never would end. It was horrible.
    I remember trying to describe it to my doctor. I said i felt like i had smoked weed but i hadnt, like i was just floating through life not making any decisions or doingmy own actions, just along for the ride...her response was "hmm, weird" and no looking further into it. So, i thought i was just insane.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Unfortunately experiences like that are very common. But thankfully, the awareness of the condition in the medical community is growing, slowly but surely 😊 I spoke to a mental health professional about that topic in this interview: www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-disorder-mental-health-nurse/

    • @serenaserna4322
      @serenaserna4322 Před 4 měsíci

      Omg my doctor had that reaction too. They look at me like I’m insane. I legit explained it that way too!

  • @keillameliza7355
    @keillameliza7355 Před rokem +3

    Hi! I had my 1st DP episode on a bad trip that lasted like for 4 hours at age 16. Then 3 months later I had DR again for 8 months after acumulated stress and beeing on acutane. Then at age 22 I had DPDR again and was put on sertraline by a psychiatrist. Now I am 31 and have been experiencing it for 1 month after high stress (excessive work, having a toddler etc). I am sacred of having it again in the future as it is the 4th time I have experienced it...

    • @JRBELTRAN94
      @JRBELTRAN94 Před rokem +1

      Don't worry you'll be fine. I first experience it when I was 23. I was sleeping in a hotel in Dallas having few hours to sleep before an Interview as a truck driver. One hour or two I woke up dazed and confused like if I was not real and my heart started to race because I knew I wasn't feeling normal how I supposed to. I was about to call 911 but instead I called my mom and told me I was fine that It's just a panic attack. Second time that it happened to me I was 25, I was just on my computer doing homework and out of nowhere I felt weird like if I was not real and having existential thought of my surroundings and myself. Went to the ER and they said nothing was wrong with me after they done blood work and ct scan me. It lasted about 2 months. Right now I'm feeling like this but not intense as I used to, I do get intrusive existential thoughts and about afterlife but I try my best not to scare myself. I have it now like 6 months.

  • @videoswhileyoueat420
    @videoswhileyoueat420 Před 5 měsíci

    I never did drugs or alkool but because of the war traume as a child i had all those anxiety,panic attack,and dp for 7 years but i keep it for myself and i didnt understand back then what is going on. But now it comes only in short period. Thank you for your videos God bless you 😊

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 5 měsíci

      Glad the videos have been so helpful 😊

  • @crookedfang1534
    @crookedfang1534 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you

  • @staxx8788
    @staxx8788 Před 2 lety +1

    Notification gangggg 🙏🏾💙

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Let me know what you think! 😊😊

  • @valleyboys6971
    @valleyboys6971 Před 2 lety

    please keep uploading man could really use the help

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Will do, stay tuned! 😊

  • @LacerationAudioPinoy
    @LacerationAudioPinoy Před rokem +1

    hello sir, thank you for giving a little advice for me. I've experiencing this for like 1 and half years now and im feeling better.

  • @annagreystar
    @annagreystar Před rokem +4

    I lived with my mom in 2020-2022. I got bullied, fat shamed, racist name calling , other stuff that I don't wanna say, and when I tried reaching out to her for help she basically left me on my own. So I sat in my room 24/7 day dreaming and thinking of the bad stuff that happened to me. Overtime I noticed that things just seem more foggy. Like I'm in a dreamlike state. I'm living with my dad now but I'm so tired of feeling this way. I can't get over the things that happened to me when I was living with her because they gave me PTSD. So I'm stuck in this constant loop of thinking of what happened, and how bad life was when I lived there, and I have a bad habit of daydreaming and thinking of random things. It's like I'm living in my head and the world around me is fake. What should I do?

    • @zakaipastor1209
      @zakaipastor1209 Před rokem +2

      just know that you’re not in that place anymore and the only thing that you can control is the present 🫶🏾

  • @EthanMcDonald
    @EthanMcDonald Před 2 lety +1

    You helped me so much

  • @fleyoverofficial
    @fleyoverofficial Před 2 lety +3

    Hey shaun! you're great, i managed to recover 70% from dp but, does it is normal that the final level of the anxiety is more difficult to recover?

  • @axelcarrasco90
    @axelcarrasco90 Před 2 lety +7

    Hey Shaun, I just wanted to say that I suffered from DP and I’m getting better and better everyday! But I just wanted to say that the only thing that I’m having a little trouble getting through is the place where this entire thing started was my home. But the point is sometimes I feel like I’m getting flashbacks to it because it’s the same floor same walls same furniture where it all happened. So I just wanted to say to you how do you overcome it and any helpful tips? I really appreciate you and how you take the time to educate us.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Hi Axel -- Don't worry, it's very common for certain places or environments to trigger feelings of anxiety. I know it can be frustrarting but it will fade away and stop as your recovery continues. Head over to my website at www.dpmanual.com, there’s tons of info and tips on DP recovery there 😊
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DP.

    • @garrettecstasy1568
      @garrettecstasy1568 Před rokem

      I’m 8 months late but try moving stuff around if you haven’t already. Helps me a lot

  • @thebbwbratzdoll7100
    @thebbwbratzdoll7100 Před rokem +1

    in 2020 we was thrown into the pandemic and i was in a dv relationship i ended it and went into 2021 with a refreshed mindset in april of 2021 my cousin oded and almost passed it braught up so much hurt in me and caused friction with my family my cousins dad had molested me wen i was a child and while my cousin was in the hospital his father somehow came back around i saw a picture of him and havent felt the same since i feel so crazy that im crying out to everyone yet not knowing what to say and no one’s understanding me my mind is racing so fast i question everything my memories play all day like im watchin them on a movie screen i jus feel so tired like it’s draining me all day and night

  • @velm1x1
    @velm1x1 Před 2 lety +1

    hey shaun! i have just started viewing your videos, and they're already starting to make me feel better about everything, is there a way i could talk to you directly? phone or message? i just have a few questions to ask i cant really wrap my head around, it would really be helpful, thanks in advance!

  • @Warrior12478
    @Warrior12478 Před 2 lety +2

    Hi Shaun, thanks for your videos and manual on how to get over this disorder. I have a question that seems to get overlooked a lot. I have bad dpdr with anxiety the last 2 years since a panic attack. But I also developed intense 24/7 headaches along with the dpdr and I feel this is preventing me to recover. To the point that I even question whether the headaches are actually causing a lot of my dpdr. It seems that when my migraines get worse so does my dp. I don’t know how to tackle this issue, as only « distracting yourself from the dp » seems to not be enough for me. Any thought on this? Thanks again

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Hi, thanks for your comment 😊 And don’t worry, headaches are super common with DP and all anxiety-based conditions: www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-exhaustion-and-muscle-pain/
      And of course if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DP.

  • @JL-cr4cb
    @JL-cr4cb Před 2 lety +1

    thank you sm

  • @erko6008
    @erko6008 Před 2 lety +2

    I had a really bad trip 2 months ago on edibles. I thought and felt like I was dying and that I died. After I woke up I was happy to be alive but something felt off. That's when I started to worry, every time I woke up for a week after that I would feel anxious to open my eyes and have this feeling of something not being right. The first month I didn't do any research or have any more panic attacks but I was still worried and testing my senses (my sight, my ability to read etc). After the month had passed I got another panic attack because the feeling that something was off didn't go away. After that I didn't sleep for 5 nights I was constantly thinking, worrying and having more panic attacks. This followed by me doing research which freaked me out even more. After 6 weeks I found out about DP/DR and I stopped doing research about other things and tried to go back to normal. Now 2 months into it I'm still scared that this is permanent. I feel better when I'm at home, but in school or outside I feel much worse. Will DP/DR fade if I stop anxiety and overthinking, or do I need to do anything else?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +2

      Hey, thanks for your comment. Firstly, please make sure that you’re speaking to your parents about what’s happening. It’s very important that they know what’s going on. Secondly, don’t worry, that all sounds like a very typical case of weed-induced DP to me. I know it can be frightening but remember that it's just your body and brain's natural response to stress and anxiety. It's not permanent and it can't hurt you 😊 You can and will recover and it's absolutely not permanent. Make sure to read through all the info and articles on my website, starting with this one: www.dpmanual.com/articles/is-depersonalization-permanent/
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DP.

    • @hanmashuji270
      @hanmashuji270 Před 2 lety +2

      Yes, it fades as easily as it should. Fade if you stop looking for it in Google and stop focusing on symptoms And stop worrying because anxiety increases Derealization feelings And you have to live your life like there's nothing wrong If you have a school, focus on it and go out with your friends a lot Which makes her fade away, which is to show her that you're normal, and there's no danger If you don't know what derealization depersonalization is, you should see all this person's channel clips If you understand what derealization is, it's going to fade away because you understand what derealization is, and it doesn't hurt you, and it protects you. It's designed to protect you for a few minutes, but the anxiety made her go on and think about her a lot, and looking for her a lot in Google made her go on.

    • @c.lalvenhima2306
      @c.lalvenhima2306 Před 2 lety +2

      My friend everything you're saying is exactly the same as my experince.... don't worry about it too much that's dp/dr you're having and it gets better and nothing is wrong with you....I used to think I'm going crazy because of my panic attack 2 months ago but then I've founD MR. SHAUN'S channel and everything got better....
      The reason why you're feeling something is off is because you have anxiety and you're concentrating on what's causing your anxiety. That's the main reason for me.
      You can check Tedx talk channel about how to approach stress and other issues problem they are helpful but don't listen if the topic of the videos have negative looks. Just watch the videos to motivate yourself and for learning ways to approach your anxiety. Also exercising helps a lot. And don't worry about it when you are out in college I'm going the through the same thing.
      But when you want to research about dp/dr use only Mr.Shaun's channel.
      I do the exact same thing and got so much better. And also don't think that after you're getting better you won't feel discomfort anymore -this is the reason why I can't get better before.
      The trick is to look your anxiety without fearing or obsessively thinking about it.
      I hope that you get better soon.

  • @c.lalvenhima2306
    @c.lalvenhima2306 Před rokem

    Mr.Shaun just to be clear I have this BIG REGRET (not from any weed or drug or alcohols) and it always seems to make me feel dp/dr symptoms will this ever go away.
    Sometimes I feel so hopeless.

  • @blah4306
    @blah4306 Před 2 lety +6

    I had a bad trip with LSD in the mid 90's. It was horrific, i had thuds in my head, the world kept closing in on me in seconds repeatedly plus other bad symptoms. Ever since that day I have suffered with anxiety and for some strange reason I am now frightened to death of deep bass sounds or loud thuds for example a car door slamming. I'm 52 now and my life has and still is a misery as everyday I feel I'm going to have that bad trip again. I need help as I think I'm mentally ill :(

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +5

      Hey Paul, thanks for your comment and I'm sorry to hear you've been having a difficult time. Remember that, as I explain in the video, it's not technically the drug that triggered the anxiety condition, but your body and brain's response to what it perceived to be a dangerous situation at the time. No matter how long it's lasted or what caused it, you can and will recover completely. And yes, absolutely, if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DP. And read this, I think you'll find it useful: www.dpmanual.com/articles/six-reasons-lsd-causes-depersonalization/

    • @blah4306
      @blah4306 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Dpmanual thank you so much for reply and reassurance. Sadly I've seen my GP about this and it's always been the counselling & antidepressant route which has never helped. I'm so glad I've stumbled across your channel it does bring some slight hope as I've never seen anything which has involved bad drug experiences. Keep up the good work and content :)

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      @@blah4306 No worries at all Paul. I'm very glad to hear the channel has been so helpful 😊

    • @saamtech
      @saamtech Před 2 lety

      @paul A, as Shaun mentions in his audiobook, it's really a habit of mind. I had the same issue with being in nature it would freak me out and I would think I was going to have a panic attack. I religiously followed the instructions in the book and every time that the thought would come to me when I was in nature, I would immediately distract myself. Over time, it slowly and slowly started to subside and the thought pattern disappeared. Now I think back about it, I know it used to happen but I no longer have the same reaction to it and I can't even comprehend why it was happening.

  • @garrettecstasy1568
    @garrettecstasy1568 Před rokem +1

    The little clip art for accumulated stresses made me giggle LOL

  • @dimetrodon2250
    @dimetrodon2250 Před měsícem

    Question, there are times when I feel like I lost all of my empathy/am fully desensitized to things that I logically know should upset me, when I get into this depersonalization state. I keep second guessing myself, thinking that I’ve turned into a sociopath, from not being able to emotionally react to certain things that usually get to me, why does this happen?

  • @alexandradobre61
    @alexandradobre61 Před 2 lety

    Hi. I ve been having this condition for 8 months. It s been a non linear recovery process with many ups and downs. Lately I ve been getting a lot of deja vu, but they are nothing like those I ve had before. First a big wave of confusion is coming out of nowhere, and it feels like I m dead and the world looks so scary, then I get a deja vu and the feeling that the dp dr is ending and I am returning back to normal. Have you experienced this? Also, what Kind of diet will help me the most? I avoid sugar, dairy, gluten, but for 2 months I was eating only rice and fish and potatoes which I suspect are making my dp dr worse than it should be. I go to college, hang out everyday, I do everything it needs to be done, but food is the only thing that is dragging me down. It feels so frustrating. I really don t know what to do anymore.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey Alexandra, thanks for your comment 😊 I know DP can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DP.

  • @Holden222
    @Holden222 Před 2 lety +3

    the dpdr gets really bad in school anywhere else i’m a little fine but just staying in the hallways for a short-long period of time i get absolutely terrified and everything starts looking different

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Hey Kelly, thanks for your comment. Firstly, please make sure that you’re speaking to your parents about what’s happening. It’s very important that they know what’s going on. Secondly, I know DP can be frightening but remember that it's just your body and brain's natural response to stress and anxiety. It's not permanent and it can't hurt you. You can and will recover. Make sure to read through all the info and articles on my website at www.dpmanual.com
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DP 👍

  • @oliviac7260
    @oliviac7260 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Shaun! I was wondering…I get visual symptoms. I read your blog on dpmanual where you said: Pupils are dilated in response to the fight or flight response being activated. However, when I look in the mirror, my pupils don’t seem to be dilated. They look normal. Any reason for this? Thanks 😁

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Hi Olivia, don't worry, it's perfectly normal for your pupils to dilate and contract over the course of the day 😊
      And of courser if you're in any doubt and would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so

  • @leticiaskata3031
    @leticiaskata3031 Před 2 lety +1

    thank you so much for your videos! they help lots 🤍

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      So glad to hear it! 😊😊

  • @tylerwright5925
    @tylerwright5925 Před rokem +3

    My DP gets so bad I can't even think. It feels as if my brain is constantly loading or stuck on doing any tasks at all. Quite literally paralyzing.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +1

      Hey Tyler, thanks for your comment and I'm sorry to hear you've been having a difficult time. I know DPDR can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍

  • @Lucas-pu6bp
    @Lucas-pu6bp Před 2 lety +2

    Shaun, literalmente supere la desrealizacion, aun sigue una molestia en mi pero hay dias que por horas me olvido de que tengo esta condicion.
    Gracias por tu ayuda shaun sos el mejor!!!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      ¡Qué alegría saber que lo estás haciendo bien Lucas! 😊

    • @thc7865
      @thc7865 Před rokem +1

      Cuanto tiempo llevas ? Yo 3 años ya nunca se me quita 24/7

    • @Lucas-pu6bp
      @Lucas-pu6bp Před rokem +1

      @@thc7865 hola, sinceramente creo que unos 11 meses y la verdad que logre superarlo, ya ni siento, solo siento punzadas por momentos pero como ya le perdi el miedo me da igual, esa es la clave, perderle el miedo, se ve que tu (sin animo de ofender) no le has perdido el miedo, y por lo tanto no puedes vivir tranquilo, sinceramente no se cual fue la causa de tu dpdr, pero te recomiendo buscar ayuda psicologica hermano! Yo hoy puedo decir que lo supere.

  • @Hm-hahah
    @Hm-hahah Před 3 měsíci

    I’ve had this my entire childhood and grown comfortable in it. I’m just scared if I’ll actually still need it to avoid everything.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused it, how long it’s lasted, or whether it’s been 24/7 or episodic, you can always switch DPDR off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/

  • @jason34796
    @jason34796 Před 2 lety

    Hola! Yo no me reconozco a mi mismo, ni en el espejo, fue a raíz de un mal viaje fumando marihuana , años anteriores había tenido DP por fumar de igual forma, ahora lo tengo permanente hace 1 mes.. crees que sea algo grave como enfermedad en el cerebro? O es solo ansiedad y DP inofensivo?

    • @thc7865
      @thc7865 Před rokem

      Llevo ya 3 años asi y nunca se quita esta vision maldita que tengo

  • @jaclynmorris5087
    @jaclynmorris5087 Před 2 lety

    I'm currently going thru this going on 4 months now since starting trauma therapy I have no thoughts at all n if I do it's a %each day I'm also bi polar so I don't go into my clinical depression or manic modes I've been having what I call a elephant sitting on my right side of my chest I'm 42 n can barely walk thru my house without giving out its odd cause when I'm stressed it dosnt happen but when I do yoga or meditating 🧘‍♂️ it winds me severely my regular therpist has cut me back on all meds n wants me to deal with my trauma.....I don't get it

  • @davet2625
    @davet2625 Před 3 měsíci

    I've struggled horribly with derealisation for years. My first bad D/R experience was a horrendous cannabis trip. I'm currently doing CAT therapy and my therapist is really pushing the angle that bereavement a year before the cannabis, and my relationship to death and mortality thereafter, are what primed me for the derealisation and keeps it going. It's hard to see because I've always seen it as cannabis induced, and maintained by the terror i now have around some existential questions. Does anyone else think that other traumas in life are connected in this indirect way?

  • @rollo8478
    @rollo8478 Před 2 lety

    first of all thank you very much shaun,i have one question that's most important for me,feeling of unfamiliarity is very common with dp yes?
    like your house or even your room seems unfamiliar...thank you ones more for everything

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Don’t worry, feelings like that are super common with DP. I know they can be frustrating but they will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/about/do-i-have-depersonalization-disorder/

    • @rollo8478
      @rollo8478 Před 2 lety

      @@Dpmanual thank you so much!

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      @@rollo8478 You're welcome! 😊

  • @thewill9847
    @thewill9847 Před 2 lety +1

    Has anyone had cannabis or hallucinogens help them temporarily stop/relieve DP/DR while high on them? Still figuring things out but I think I stop depersonalizing for the first time during my last trip. Having it go away high is actually why I think I may have DP. For clarity I did not take a full dose. Would love to hear about any relevant experiences.

  • @wolkenkuckucksheim555
    @wolkenkuckucksheim555 Před rokem +2

    I took mdma and smoked weed to calm down. Scared to death and thought I was going insane. Since then I've had a constant headache, which has gotten a little milder now. After 3 weeks the first panic attack came. I feel disconnected and things I used to enjoy are no longer fun. Obsessive thoughts about the condition. About brain damage, this condition will remain forever and so on. It's been almost 3 months now. How common are constant headaches in dp/dr?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      Don’t worry, headaches are super common with DPDR and all anxiety-based conditions 😊
      www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-exhaustion-and-muscle-pain

  • @taefilet7476
    @taefilet7476 Před 2 lety

    had it so often back the and never really thought about it much and it went away but now i got stuck in a circle of thinking about it all the time and i feel like i still have it even if i don’t and i keep thinking and checking and i get anxious to go out and do things with friends and panic

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Hey, thanks for your comment 😊 I know DP can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com

  • @n8505
    @n8505 Před 2 lety

    I've always struggled with dissociating, but one time after smoking i had the worst trip and its been months and the feeling still won't go away. After smoking it i completely forgot who I was and didn't know what was going on, I felt like I was stuck in an endless loop, after a little i remembered who I was but I felt a way I never had before and felt as if nothing was real. It has by far been the most scary experience in my life, and the feeling never went away. Every day is a constant daze and I feel so distant from everything, I feel like I can't even enjoy anything from how bad it is. Everyone is saying that it won't stay forever but I can't help but feel as if it is, I'm still super scared and have no idea what to do

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey, thanks for your comment 😊 Don’t worry, that all sounds like a very typical case of weed-induced DP to me. I know it can be frightening but remember that it's just your body and brain's natural response to stress and anxiety. It's not permanent and it can't hurt you 😊 You can and will recover. Make sure to read through all the info and articles on my website, starting with this: www.dpmanual.com/articles/drug-induced-depersonalization/
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DP.

    • @abdohadioui307
      @abdohadioui307 Před 2 lety

      Me to

    • @thc7865
      @thc7865 Před rokem

      Me too 3 years now im thinking about killing myself would be so relieving

  • @Raz-G
    @Raz-G Před 2 lety

    Hey shaun! Been fuckin time mate. Been like, lott months. Feelin great, I had to go easy on myself and went with anti anxiety pills like cipralex but in general it helps to control the symptoms, overtime the symptoms really do go away... And it's strange... Especially my field of view and so on and so forth. A very strange condition but I must say: it seems to be possible to recover from this. I think I'm in the final stages? Im more light headed now which is good, you know I don't think too much about anything, just rolling with these symptoms right now, they just become weaker and weaker. Although I wonder Shaun, does it really go away? Isn't it natural to have this all the time but just not like a train on fire but as if just going for a walk that can't you notice it at all? But that's just a theory, does recovery mean I'm just out of it completely? As if nothing happend?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Glad to hear you're making progress! And yes, it does really go away, 100% 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/is-depersonalization-permanent/

  • @carolinelima1258
    @carolinelima1258 Před 2 lety +2

    I developed dp in July 2020, I take antidepressants, but I still haven't completely improved. Is it NORMAL to feel high? Hugs from Brazil

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Hi Caroline -- Don't worry, feelings of being 'high' are super common with DP / DR. I know it can be scary but those feelings will fade away and stop as your recovery continues 😊
      www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DP.

  • @NickDhm-mo7vj
    @NickDhm-mo7vj Před 2 měsíci

    For me it was a transition from an irregular "childhood" to "adulthood"

  • @jasonkissick
    @jasonkissick Před 9 měsíci

    I do have one question, I am working on getting rid of it obviously but keep falling Into the feedback loop. It is a bit difficult, but can it also make you feel like nothing is beautiful anymore if u know what I mean, like mountains and scenery and stuff

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 9 měsíci +1

      Don’t worry Jason, feelings like that are super common with DPDR. I know they can be frustrating but they will fade away and stop as you recover 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/

  • @LarrySwishamane
    @LarrySwishamane Před 8 měsíci

    If there was ever any substantial evidence & case to prove predestination or w/e a visual form of an echo or Doppler effect

  • @itzz_sifou700
    @itzz_sifou700 Před 3 měsíci

    I have the second one

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 3 měsíci

      Don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused it, you can always switch DPDR off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/

    • @itzz_sifou700
      @itzz_sifou700 Před 3 měsíci

      @@Dpmanual im good today it took me 8 days im hero😁💪🏻

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@itzz_sifou700 Glad to hear you're doing so well! 😊

  • @blakesullivan2784
    @blakesullivan2784 Před 2 lety

    I was just listening to music and the music sounded really weird and was the scariest thing that’s ever happened to me

  • @babybigking5225
    @babybigking5225 Před rokem +1

    Brah this video is like a mental Chiropractor I feel my body and mind loosing up as I hear him explain how I been feeling but without judgement

  • @Gemmasuniquelife
    @Gemmasuniquelife Před 2 lety

    Hi massive question can you help me please I was in hospital and there was talks of going into intensive care that's when they depersonalisation started but previous to this I just had a baby 2 year ago and I nearly died with sepsis which caused depersonalisation I was told off the doctors that it was sleep deprivation that caused the depersonalisation now I have a really big fear off not getting enough sleep incase this happens again a mental health nurse said it was caused by trauma but I just always keep thinking of lack of sleep so can lack of sleep cause depersonalisation I am very scared of this happening again it's ruining my life thankyou

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Don't worry Gemma, DP can have different causes (some less obvious than others) but it's still the same condition and you can always recover, 100% 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/back-to-normal-after-depersonalization/

  • @Anonymous-vz8wy
    @Anonymous-vz8wy Před 2 lety

    Hi. ever since i experience derealization i have continuously grinding thoughts. I am very down about this. is this also a symptom? thoughts are eg: everything is fake around me, if everything is fake what does the world matter then everything is useless anyway. how can I best deal with this?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Don't worry, existential thoughts like that are super common with DP and will fade away and stop as you recover: www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-fears-and-anxious-thoughts/

  • @arlandabailey3674
    @arlandabailey3674 Před 26 dny

    Hey I'm a teenager who has been experiencing derealization for 3 years I'm barely seeing anything about derealization and I'd love to have more information about it

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 26 dny

      Hey Arlanda, thanks for your comment. Firstly, please make sure that you’re speaking to your parents about what’s happening. It’s very important that they know what’s going on. Secondly, remember that ultimately DP and DR are both symptoms of anxiety, and that in order to get rid of them you do need to address and understand both properly, and the underlying anxiety that’s causing them 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-and-derealization-whats-the-difference/

  • @erko6008
    @erko6008 Před 2 lety

    I know this question isn't really super related to the video, but is taking cold showers beneficial or will it do more harm than good?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +2

      They're not an essential part of recovery but I've always found them to be great! 😊

  • @swisscheese-ss8ov
    @swisscheese-ss8ov Před rokem +1

    Also in the bad trip I was chased by a dog and I ran as fast as I could back to my friends

  • @jason34796
    @jason34796 Před 2 lety

    Hello! I do not recognize myself, not even in the mirror, it was due to a bad trip smoking marijuana, previous years I had had PD from smoking in the same way, now I have had it permanently for 1 month... I think it is something serious like a disease in the brain? Or is it just anxiety and harmless DP?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Hey, thanks for your comment 😊 Don’t worry, that all sounds like a very typical case of weed-induced DP to me. I know it can be frightening but remember that it's just your body and brain's natural response to stress and anxiety. It's not permanent and it can't hurt you 😊 You can and will recover. Make sure to read through all the info and articles on my website at www.dpmanual.com
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DP.

  • @arielyaskow7697
    @arielyaskow7697 Před 2 lety +2

    I did have a concussion 2 years ago but the dpdr did not start happening to me until 3 months after the accident and I'm still experiencing this year's later. It's not as bad as it was before, I think it's mostly anxiety related. If I was cleared for any injury and didn't experience this until months later, could this be anxiety ? Is concussion based dpdr recoverable as well?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      Hi Ariel, DP from head trauma is typically from very serious injuries so if you were cleared it's very unlikely to be a factor. It sounds to me like what you're experiencing is anxiety-based DP / DR. But of course, if you're in any doubt please don't hesitate to speak to a medical health professional.

    • @arielyaskow7697
      @arielyaskow7697 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Dpmanual thank you. I so appreciate that. I've spoken with concussion doctors and they all said this is trauma related vs structural stuff. I didn't have a serious concussion. Thank you :)

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety +1

      @@arielyaskow7697 You're very welcome 😊

  • @katiewednesday621
    @katiewednesday621 Před 2 lety +3

    I went through this and I want everyo e to know that it does go away! I’m not gonna tell yall how long I suffered for bc everyone is different but I had EVERY symptom there was! My sence of time was even distorted. I felt like I was living in a dream. Mine was brought on by a major panic attack being caused by a very stressful yr due to family stress/trauma. The panic attack was my breaking point and then here came all the anxiety/dpdr/depression etc.. I felt like I was going crazy. Went to dr after dr. Finally got under a pyschiatrist and he gave me 10 mg lexapro, buspar to take daily and 15 mg remeron for sleep and to regain my appetite bc I had lost soo much weight! I am still on these meds and they wrk great. I was medicated enough to keep the panic attacks away but not so medicated to where I couldn’t wrk on myself. I ordered the dp manual and it taught me alot and made me feel better I also listened to some Claire Weekes stuff on youtube and it helped. Just know that the more u focus on it the more its gonna be there. They all say accept accept accept. U have to accept that its there but u dont have to like it. Do NOT stop living your life bc of this mess. If u smoke weed I would definitly stop and definitely limit your alcohol. This stuff is from a stressed out nervous system. U will get thru this!!

    • @katiewednesday621
      @katiewednesday621 Před 2 lety

      The citalapram did not wrk for me. But the lexapro started wrkn within a month and it had side effects but they got better. At the time I was sooo bad off my dr wanted to prescribe lamotrigine/lamictal but I read alot about it and I just wasn’t ready for those side effects.But with the lexapro combined with the remeron I did recover.

    • @katiewednesday621
      @katiewednesday621 Před 2 lety

      @@larspikke2 when did your dpdr start? And it could be the meds making u paranoid. When I was goin thru this I had EVERY SINGLE SYMPTOM. Just know that U CAN RECOVER from this. U will get better. In my situation I didn’t see daily improvement I saw improvements every couple months. If the meds are making u worse please consider asking ur dr to change them. I went thru about 3 different ones before I found the ones that helped me. It is also 100 percent possible to overcome this with out meds.

    • @katiewednesday621
      @katiewednesday621 Před 2 lety

      @@larspikke2 go listen to the podcast dpdr recovery on youtube, also listen to dr claire weekes

    • @katiewednesday621
      @katiewednesday621 Před 2 lety

      @@larspikke2 no you’re not. The key to getting thru this is to stop trying to fix this. U have to just let it be there for the time being and gradually u will notice it starts to fade. Limit your time researching this on the internet bc it makes it worse.

    • @katiewednesday621
      @katiewednesday621 Před 2 lety

      @@larspikke2 let the thoughts exist. Do not try to fight them and don’t dwell on them. Just tell yourself “ok theres those crazy thoughts, but i’m gonna go ahead with my day” I struggled alot with intrusive thoughts but I let them exist and they eventually burned themselves out. I distracted myself alot also. (Shopping, painting etc..)

  • @fleyoverofficial
    @fleyoverofficial Před 2 lety +1

    shaun, i've bought your dp manual Just a month ago and in that month i saw incredible results! i've recovered 80% from the depersonalization but the only problem is that i can't manage to stop the heart race and fatigue during the day ,i couldn't do my workouts like once i used to do..
    because i feel weak and fatigued..
    some advices?

    • @mahmoudalsaraf2119
      @mahmoudalsaraf2119 Před 2 lety

      How are you now please help me out from DP please tips

    • @fleyoverofficial
      @fleyoverofficial Před 2 lety

      @@mahmoudalsaraf2119 the o ly thing that you can do to male the anxiety fade away is living your day-to-day lifelike if you are not feeling anxiety and panic attacks and than scientifically the depersonalization and anxiety in general Will fade away and stop on their own, initially you might feel that this technique Is not working but any single day you will notice quiet quickly the results, now the only thing that you have ti do is not thinking about dp even if It might seem difficult,stop researching It in the internet's sites and go out with your family,Friends ect .
      let pass about 3 weeks and then let me soon know how do you feel! good luck mate!

    • @mahmoudelsaraf1094
      @mahmoudelsaraf1094 Před rokem

      @@fleyoverofficial how are you now

    • @mahmoudelsaraf1094
      @mahmoudelsaraf1094 Před rokem

      @@fleyoverofficial What steps did you take for a full recovery?

    • @fleyoverofficial
      @fleyoverofficial Před rokem

      @@mahmoudelsaraf1094 now my life get back like once It was, the only symptom which in struggling against still Is the palpitations but dp and dr are completely fade away

  • @eloparek687
    @eloparek687 Před 8 měsíci

    From what i have seen, most of the people who go through it, is often times caused by horrible anxiety.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 8 měsíci

      Read this, I think you'll find it useful: www.dpmanual.com/articles/what-causes-depersonalization-disorder/

  • @unknownbetablockers5105

    Hello Dr Shaun I am not recovered my power my Dr Said Miss your power you imagining he recoverd me for 2 years i asked this question to him before 2years he told me it will come now he saying miss it how will you help me to get my strentgh back?😔😢😭? Just reply my comment and I'm praying for you 🙏

  • @hekamalutian5545
    @hekamalutian5545 Před rokem +1

    Hey Shaun. Can dpdr cause short term memory loss and loss of sensation (physically)? Let me explain each. By short term memory loss I mean when I stand up from my chair and walk to another room, I just feet like I teleported to that room and don't remember or feel anything in between, Is that normal or do I need to consult a doctor? Another thing is the loss of physical sensation, like when I touch my head, skin, hair, etc... or even swallow water and food, it just doesn't feel like normal and I feel like I don't feel them the way I used to. When I touch my head I don't feel my head as part of me (or I think it's the hands that don't feel like mine). Again, is that normal or a doctor's consultation is required? Please answer my questions I have been feeling desperate holding back myself from commenting these questions and asking you them. I beg your answer so much you can't imagine. Please Please Please help me.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +1

      Don't worry, memory issues are very common with DPDR 😊 I know they can be frustrating but they will fade away and stop as your recovery continues: www.dpmanual.com/articles/depersonalization-and-memory-loss/

    • @hekamalutian5545
      @hekamalutian5545 Před rokem

      @@Dpmanual Omg I just read that and wow. I kind of have my hopes up. What about the loss of sensation? did you personally have someone of people you have helped in the past have that issue? thanks again for the answer you don't know how much I appreciate it. ♥

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +1

      @@hekamalutian5545 Also very common with DP/DR 😊 And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR.

    • @hekamalutian5545
      @hekamalutian5545 Před rokem

      @@Dpmanual Okay then, thank you so much man. Absolute angel

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +2

      @@hekamalutian5545 Happy to help 😊

  • @jasminevaughn5214
    @jasminevaughn5214 Před rokem +1

    My third panic attack never left..it's like the high feeling just didn't leave it's been 2 years

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem +1

      Don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch DPDR off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/

  • @sana9958
    @sana9958 Před 2 lety +3

    How do I know if my symptoms are gone or am I just getting so used to them that I can't tell if they're there or not

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Read this, I think you'll find it useful: www.dpmanual.com/articles/what-does-depersonalization-recovery-feel-like/

  • @lionheart3947
    @lionheart3947 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm suffering from this for 10 years....may 2012 to till date...taking medicines for 2 years...tried everything...nothing worked...

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch DP off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/how-long-does-depersonalization-last/

  • @UsherRaymond-qz7bu
    @UsherRaymond-qz7bu Před 2 měsíci

    After coming out on the other side TWICE, It was scary as shit I mean literally I even thought about suicide, But what helped was One no medication, No weed, No liquor, No thing just Prayer, Exercise, Time and patience, Stop googling shit seriously stop looking online for answers, Stop everything, It will go away trust me, I honestly was in and out of the hospital, Scared for my life I couldn’t drive I couldn’t conversate I couldn’t do anything without panicking and slipping into that dark place, But I started to challenge it and it took maybe over a year or so but that’s because I already has anxiety and ptsd and I didn’t want to do the work, If your reading this is I was once YOU, But prayer got me through and I’m blessed to be where I am mentally, Although I still sometimes get triggered about that bad trip but I honestly I am about 90% better with what happened and I’m 100% cured from the depersonalization, Stay strong 💪🏾

  • @colbyalberson5234
    @colbyalberson5234 Před rokem

    Hey Shaun I am 18 and I think I recently got depersonalization. I'm pretty sure I got it from anxiety I've been having recently. What do you recommend that I do to get over the anxiety and depersonalization I have. Keep up the good work Shaun.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      Hey Colby, thanks for your comment. Firstly, please make sure that you’re speaking to your parents about what’s happening. It’s very important that they know what’s going on. Secondly, I know DPDR can be frightening but remember that it's just your body and brain's natural response to stress and anxiety. It's not permanent and it can't hurt you. You can and will recover. Make sure to read through all the info and articles on my website at www.dpmanual.com
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍

    • @colbyalberson5234
      @colbyalberson5234 Před rokem

      @@Dpmanual Thanks for replying 🙏🏻, i got another question is it normal for my mind to feel numb?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      @@colbyalberson5234 Don’t worry, feelings like that are super common with DPDR. I know they can be frustrating but they will fade away and stop as you recover 😊
      www.dpmanual.com/about/do-i-have-depersonalization-disorder/

  • @user-ji2mr7vt4o
    @user-ji2mr7vt4o Před rokem

    I am doing a project on this disorder. I am wondering of some key components I should include?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      Hi Kathleen, take a look at this article, I think you'll find it helpful 😊 www.dpmanual.com/about/depersonalization-definition-what-is-it/

  • @shaquieemsubero1366
    @shaquieemsubero1366 Před 2 lety +1

    I wanted to ask can you consume alchohol if u suffer with dp or consume nicotine?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Read this, I think you'll find it useful 😊 www.dpmanual.com/articles/can-alcohol-cause-depersonalization/

  • @anthonyledington3143
    @anthonyledington3143 Před 9 měsíci

    What about heavy combat?

  • @jsinghas87
    @jsinghas87 Před 2 měsíci

    Does head trauma dpdr will go away ?

  • @theantihumanproject1581

    I dont understand one thing i have derealization for 9 month now and i got a new girl friend who helped me a lot and for the past 2 months i havent focused on it at all (derealization) and i almost cant feel it at all, and i still dont focuse on it because i know that if you focuse on it it will stay, yet i still feel it just as strong again as i did before,

  • @jayam2078
    @jayam2078 Před 3 měsíci

    I had this recently lasting several months after a meditation course. Feeling numb, emotionless, disconnected from everyone and everything. Like a robot.
    I had to stop meditation.
    Just recently resumed, starting with breathwatching. Anyone had this after meditation?
    I can't find any videos re this.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 3 měsíci

      Don't worry, it doesn't matter what caused DPDR, you can always switch it off completely by stopping the anxiety that's causing it 😊 Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/what-causes-depersonalization-disorder/

  • @ridopheson3865
    @ridopheson3865 Před 2 lety

    Im currently going through dp due to marijuana, i was daily smoking for a couple of months and had a few bad trips along the way, once marijuana is out of my system, will i stop depersonalizing?

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 2 lety

      Hey, thanks for your comment 😊 Don’t worry, that all sounds like a very typical case of weed-induced DP to me. I know it can be frightening but remember that it's just your body and brain's natural response to stress and anxiety. It's not permanent and it can't hurt you 😊 You can and will recover. Read this carefully: www.dpmanual.com/articles/drug-induced-depersonalization/

  • @blakesullivan3462
    @blakesullivan3462 Před 2 lety

    I was wondering if it’s OK to be on Adderall/amphetamine stimulants while having DP

  • @Strick_land24
    @Strick_land24 Před 4 měsíci

    Im currently going through this its been 8 months but went partying and smoked too much while having a couple of drinks but went on a mad bike ride and it hit me but im just taking day by day went to the doctors got sessions with someone and starting physico soon but some days are good dome not so much

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 4 měsíci

      Hey, thanks for your comment 😊 I know DPDR can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com and my book The Depersonalization Manual.
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DPDR 👍

    • @Strick_land24
      @Strick_land24 Před 4 měsíci

      @Dpmanual thank you so much bless you

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před 4 měsíci

      @@Strick_land24 Happy to help 😊

  • @gaikwadsumedh97
    @gaikwadsumedh97 Před rokem +1

    I am from India. my English is quite weak so plz understand it. Brother I have been suffering with derealization since 8 years now. Actually I am also suffering from depression,ocd and anxiety but these 3 are in control now but derealization is not getting cured. In my case it's may be because of accumulated stress. I never smoked weed or anything like that,I did not experience panic attack ever(just social anxiety). Bro I have some doubts like what if I got cured and in future anything bad happens to me it triggered again. How I'll live my life if dpdr keeps on triggering? Plz guide brother.

    • @Dpmanual
      @Dpmanual  Před rokem

      Hey Sumedh, thanks for your comment 😊 I know DP can be scary but just remember that it’s a natural reaction to stress and anxiety, and people experience it all the time. The National Institute on Mental Illness estimates that up to 75% of people experience at least one depersonalization / derealization episode in their lives. It's part of your brain's natural defence mechanism and usually it only lasts a few seconds or minutes at a time. It's only when it's focused on as a separate problem (feeling like you're going crazy / in a dream etc) that it can turn into a feedback loop with the anxiety that caused it in the first place. But no matter what caused it or how long you've had it, you can always switch it off completely by stopping that anxious feedback loop. Make sure to carefully read through all the articles and info on my website at www.dpmanual.com -- And to answer your question on DPDR coming back after recovery, read this carefully, I think you'll find it very useful:
      www.dpmanual.com/articles/does-depersonalization-come-back/
      And if you would like to speak to a medical professional please don't hesitate to do so. I would recommend finding an anxiety specialist if possible as they will likely be more familiar with DP 👍