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  • čas přidán 30. 10. 2023
  • Two wives die in freak accidents 17 years apart. One man was married to both women. Is he just unlucky or does he know more than he's telling? "48 Hours" correspondent Peter Van Sant investigates. Watch more full episodes of "48 Hours" on Pluto TV.
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  • @48hours
    @48hours  Před 7 měsíci +78

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    • @differenttakethanmost
      @differenttakethanmost Před 7 měsíci +11

      SO!!! nice to hear about a case that’s not been done to death (bad pun, sorry 😖) thank you 48 Hours 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

    • @dawnfuller32
      @dawnfuller32 Před 7 měsíci +7

      ​@@differenttakethanmost❤❤❤❤

    • @trustkillxxxx
      @trustkillxxxx Před 7 měsíci +5

      no. dont tell ME WHT TO DO!!!!!

    • @tankthearc9875
      @tankthearc9875 Před 7 měsíci +5

      volume low thx

    • @chonqmonk
      @chonqmonk Před 7 měsíci +6

      Not the best episode ever, and you really should bring back the music with the haunting strings. The old intro was much better.

  • @steveknick1978
    @steveknick1978 Před 7 měsíci +1366

    This one was rough. Imagine dropping a car on your wife or kicking your wife off a cliff...imagine getting away with it once & then thinking "I'll do it again". Insane stuff.

    • @LadyAstarionAncunin
      @LadyAstarionAncunin Před 7 měsíci +154

      He's a complete psychopath to have done it. Knowing his wife's love, having her family's love and trust, then taking her life so callously, watching their grief, only to do it again to another family -- and a family in which the brother-in-law saved his life!
      He's not a normal person. He's devoid of the empathy required to be a normal person.

    • @BFdEutschLaNd
      @BFdEutschLaNd Před 7 měsíci +49

      toni is the hero of lynn because not of toni's death, there will be no justice for lynn, like domino effect and the criminal is finally caught

    • @SidewaysInTraffic
      @SidewaysInTraffic Před 7 měsíci +18

      Or imagine the first was actually an accident, but because he got away with it(he admitted to throwing the tire in the back which caused the jack to collapse), he purposely setup his second wife.

    • @trustkillxxxx
      @trustkillxxxx Před 7 měsíci +3

      first wife is a ginger snap.

    • @sheltonalexander6785
      @sheltonalexander6785 Před 7 měsíci +15

      Also, I wanna know how Toni's brother, who's also a doctor is having a rough go at adopting his niece.

  • @user-meandme
    @user-meandme Před 7 měsíci +538

    This guy never worked! His money was running out so needed a second insurance job! Insane! Killing the mother of his child! Unbelievable! What a terrible evil person!

    • @jimwerther
      @jimwerther Před 7 měsíci +7

      Yeah, we all know that, having watched the same program you did. Except we don't need 100 exclamation points.

    • @Memg007
      @Memg007 Před 7 měsíci +63

      @@jimwertherWhy are you mean?

    • @alexandra2536
      @alexandra2536 Před 7 měsíci +24

      ​@@Memg007 the mean guy is a psycho ! They are watching these videos for ideas

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie Před 7 měsíci

      @@jimwerther Did someone p1ss in your Cornies Jimmy?

    • @jimwerther
      @jimwerther Před 7 měsíci

      @@alexandra2536
      Lol! That's the ticket! Go back to playing with your legos.

  • @lisasangria1086
    @lisasangria1086 Před 7 měsíci +852

    Toni's family seems so nice and genuine, especially her brother. You can tell he loved her very much!

    • @deborahariyawansa6682
      @deborahariyawansa6682 Před 6 měsíci +21

      Yeah, I agree. There’s so much love for Toni. Their childhood would have been wonderful.

  • @rankzkate
    @rankzkate Před 7 měsíci +587

    Toni's brother and his wife are the real gems

    • @jakeherter
      @jakeherter Před 7 měsíci +29

      Right on they adopted the baby and have plenty of money to give her a great life. She could be a doctor and it's all on them.

    • @kristencobb230
      @kristencobb230 Před 7 měsíci +56

      I worked with them both. They are both outstanding people. So very sad, but thankful Toni's daughter has them to love and care for her.

    • @jademoon5103
      @jademoon5103 Před měsícem +2

      They seem like good people

    • @00tonytone
      @00tonytone Před měsícem +1

      Both times it was one push car or wife and on to the next bush. He was repetitious. He went all in with the push.

  • @gemmaanderson1202
    @gemmaanderson1202 Před 7 měsíci +1006

    The brothers face when he talks about his hope of adopting his niece just about broke my heart ❤️

    • @JBeezyJesusFreak
      @JBeezyJesusFreak Před 7 měsíci +27

      Same here❤

    • @jerrybowers8833
      @jerrybowers8833 Před 7 měsíci +46

      Amen! It did mine as well. I don't think this child could have been raised and have the ultimate support like she would with her uncle and aunt. Also what sort of comfort this would be for the uncle and aunt, to have a piece of the murdered sister. God bless them all.❤️🙏

    • @sabinamuriithi1339
      @sabinamuriithi1339 Před 7 měsíci +75

      The part that really broke my heart was the moment he said he took a vow to save lives but he wants his sister back ☹️

    • @patriciahenderson4480
      @patriciahenderson4480 Před 7 měsíci +11

      Same here😢

    • @oldhickory4686
      @oldhickory4686 Před 7 měsíci +12

      The pure love he has for her, gave utterance through his body and mouth. You can't fake that. Absolutely beautiful!
      1 Corinthians 13 KJV 13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.

  • @marnyfrancesca2526
    @marnyfrancesca2526 Před 7 měsíci +598

    How incredibly painful for all who loved these two women.

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie Před 7 měsíci +30

      And the women themselves! Imagining their shock and horror in their final moments is horrific to me

    • @aleisaetheridge8682
      @aleisaetheridge8682 Před 7 měsíci +12

      ​@@DarthFurieoh Jesus ,Yes ,that's so heartbreaking and how horrible that must have been .I wonder if this monster was as controlling and awful to Lynn as he was to Toni .They didn't say all the things he had done to Toni here but they said a little bit ,like not even being able to talk to Toni on the phone in private ,that's just a tiny bit of what kind of control he was putting on Toni and He was even excluding her from her own daughter ,not letting her be the Mother she always wanted to be when She had a child ,what a monster this man is ,a evil monster .

    • @ms.mojo_risin
      @ms.mojo_risin Před 7 měsíci

      ❤❤

  • @mimii5441
    @mimii5441 Před 7 měsíci +629

    I love watching 48 hours videos where the victims gets justice. It hurts that they are gone tho

    • @sheltonalexander6785
      @sheltonalexander6785 Před 7 měsíci +14

      I'm glad Toni and Lynn's families got to have that dinner party. And by the looks of the crew, you know they get BUSY in the kitchen!

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 Před 7 měsíci +6

      I know. You just want to go back in time and warn them or something to prevent this from ever happening.

    • @valleygirl2530
      @valleygirl2530 Před 7 měsíci +6

      The only justice that counts would be living safe and ALIVE.

    • @orlandoromero22
      @orlandoromero22 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Definitely I was holding my breath the whole time.

  • @analilla
    @analilla Před 7 měsíci +276

    If Toni's family is any reflection of who she was, then she was definitely one beautiful soul. I hope Toni and Lyn's families find healing and peace.

  • @farba7713
    @farba7713 Před 7 měsíci +254

    Harold looks crazy! He’s got those dark eyes and a creepy smirk! It’s always the insurance policy in these “accidental deaths”

  • @Michelle-ng9db
    @Michelle-ng9db Před 7 měsíci +258

    My Mom dated a guy like this. After my Dad died, she inherited a lot of money. She was preyed on by a guy who would try to play ONLY rich widows. He had 2 wives that died - one was from cancer (supposedly), the other a car wreck. Something had felt wrong about him from Day 1. So glad she is far, far away from him now. He's now 76 and STILL trying to prey on wealthy widows.

    • @akubajoy3394
      @akubajoy3394 Před 7 měsíci +24

      He’s 76 and still not giving up his ways?

    • @donnamariedavidson5065
      @donnamariedavidson5065 Před 7 měsíci +32

      ​@@akubajoy3394some people don't change.

    • @LillysConner
      @LillysConner Před 7 měsíci +26

      A leopard never changes it’s spots, glad your mom didn’t fall prey to him.

    • @walden6272
      @walden6272 Před 7 měsíci +21

      Report him to the detectives, perhaps they didn't realize he has a history of dead wives.

    • @turtle19dad
      @turtle19dad Před 7 měsíci

      @@walden6272I was gonna say the same thing

  • @cece9145
    @cece9145 Před 7 měsíci +576

    This program was done with sensitivity and respect for the two women and their families while at the same time providing a thorough and thoughtful linear storyline to follow.
    Thank God for the persistence of the families and eventually, the authorities.
    I am so thankful that the friends and families of these two women can now rest easy.

    • @Rosco-P.Coldchain
      @Rosco-P.Coldchain Před 7 měsíci +22

      I can’t help but notice though he has the same cold lifeless Shark eyes like mr mardaugh 🤔

    • @valleygirl2530
      @valleygirl2530 Před 7 měsíci +12

      @@Rosco-P.Coldchain The earlier photo of him resembles Scott Peterson - in a weird way.

    • @kathysmotherman2515
      @kathysmotherman2515 Před 6 měsíci +4

      ​​@@valleygirl2530
      OMGEEE !!! HE DOES !!! 🤯
      💜✌️

    • @hollydaugherty2620
      @hollydaugherty2620 Před 5 měsíci

      I don’t think it’s “resting easy”.

  • @valleygirl2530
    @valleygirl2530 Před 7 měsíci +159

    When a man plans a trip and packs your clothes without you - ESCAPE.

    • @l-b284
      @l-b284 Před 2 měsíci +13

      smart successful women need to stop giving away everything to men. Pre-nups and no insurance payouts! Everything goes in a trust for the children.

    • @sew_gal7340
      @sew_gal7340 Před 19 dny +4

      Thats a stretch, my husband sometimes surprises me with cruises and would randomly show up with a suit case packed...not dead yet =P

    • @brittanyclark9867
      @brittanyclark9867 Před 19 dny

      @@sew_gal7340lol same!!

  • @aparnarajesh
    @aparnarajesh Před 7 měsíci +314

    Harold is a monster who gaslighted his wives for insurance and greed, RIP Lyn and Toni and I glad both of families got justice

    • @SidewaysInTraffic
      @SidewaysInTraffic Před 7 měsíci +3

      But how did he get the insurance money from the first one if he admitted to throwing the wheel in the back knocking the jeep on Lynn?

    • @trustkillxxxx
      @trustkillxxxx Před 7 měsíci +1

      @michaelgregoryblasiak6681
      0 seconds ago
      LUG NUTS CAN MOVE, BABY!
      Reply

    • @maryanne7161
      @maryanne7161 Před 7 měsíci +11

      Gaslighting is not the right word here.

    • @cindytrayer4279
      @cindytrayer4279 Před 7 měsíci +7

      @@maryanne7161he was a master manipulator

    • @LenaLuthorWife
      @LenaLuthorWife Před 6 měsíci

      look at his fangs. oh so scary

  • @TrevortheBatman
    @TrevortheBatman Před 7 měsíci +92

    The first wife's death doesn't make any sense. Her climbing under the vehicle was already weird, but for him to happen to be throwing the tire back at the same time just makes even less sense... Wild to believe he got away with that

    • @retromoviefan944
      @retromoviefan944 Před 7 měsíci +12

      so true. The investigators sure dropped on the ball on that one. He was basically believed because he looked like a nice family man business man type.

    • @MusicTennis
      @MusicTennis Před 7 měsíci +22

      The 3 Stooges could have ran a better investigation on the first wifes death.

    • @tebelshaw9486
      @tebelshaw9486 Před 7 měsíci +18

      I wonder if police are quick to accept suicide or accidental death to avoid getting bogged down in an investigation?

    • @MusicTennis
      @MusicTennis Před 7 měsíci

      I think you're correct. The Jack that was used to raise the car was not a standard jack which the lazy investigator missed along with the fact no way is the victim (a lady) going under that car.@@tebelshaw9486

    • @Ladybhive71
      @Ladybhive71 Před měsícem

      Yeah it was

  • @zombiechicken7114
    @zombiechicken7114 Před 7 měsíci +83

    I wish she left after harold did not call the family about the beam hitting toni. He clearly set up that accident. If nothing else, planning an anniversary trip that will cause your wife pain due to her knees, is ignorant and unkind. I wish she hadnt felt obliged to go.

  • @griffinhaarer5719
    @griffinhaarer5719 Před 7 měsíci +317

    2 wives dead 17 years apart in crazy accidents? Definitely is not a coincidence.

    • @WideAwakeHuman
      @WideAwakeHuman Před 7 měsíci +20

      I mean it could’ve been a coincidence lol - but just not in this case

    • @SidewaysInTraffic
      @SidewaysInTraffic Před 7 měsíci +6

      I believe the first one was an accident, he just learned from it.

    • @tankthearc9875
      @tankthearc9875 Před 7 měsíci +4

      kinda scary how he was convicted on ppls feelings he did it , no physical evidence , sure u think he is but there is reasonable doubt

    • @angelwings7930
      @angelwings7930 Před 7 měsíci +12

      @@SidewaysInTraffic. They were both premeditated.

    • @angelwings7930
      @angelwings7930 Před 7 měsíci +6

      @@tankthearc9875. Common sense and circumstantial evidence, he’s guilty.

  • @rosem5361
    @rosem5361 Před 7 měsíci +144

    I hope Tonis beautiful baby girl is being raised by her loving brother and wife. His pain and love for his sister is so palpable💔

    • @xararogers3186
      @xararogers3186 Před 7 měsíci +10

      I believe I read that she is and I fully agree with you.

  • @jodybobo
    @jodybobo Před 7 měsíci +38

    There is no way in the world my husband would ever allow me to crawl under a car nor would he with a carjack holding a vehicle. His story does not hold water.

    • @thegreencat9947
      @thegreencat9947 Před 7 měsíci +6

      You'd never get me to crawl under a jacked up car.....

    • @Em-df4ww
      @Em-df4ww Před 2 měsíci +4

      It would have been safer to get the replacement tire on, take the jack out, then retrieve the one remaining lug nut if it truly had rolled under the car. He obviously tossed it under the car and asked her to get it, under the pretense she was smaller and would fit under the car. Definitely should have been investigated further. What a horrible man.

    • @susiesue3141
      @susiesue3141 Před dnem

      My husband won't allow me near a jacked up car. He is truly protective over me. 😊 I love the way he is.
      He was very protective over me when we hiked Mt. Whitney. 😊

  • @sgodbout2213
    @sgodbout2213 Před 7 měsíci +66

    When they said Henthorn spread their ashes in the same spot it made the hairs stand up on end! He is an evil man. What tremendous grief these families have endured.

    • @ms.liszz.9206
      @ms.liszz.9206 Před 5 měsíci +6

      That was his altar of sacrifice. He will bring ashes there in order to get money.

  • @Charmcity199
    @Charmcity199 Před 7 měsíci +152

    42:02 is where my tears started. What a loving brother and uncle. He clearly cares about his niece and I hope she has a happy life with her aunt and uncle

  • @TheBeezusjones
    @TheBeezusjones Před 7 měsíci +53

    Why are people allowed to be cremated before an autopsy?

  • @dionne-fy5us
    @dionne-fy5us Před 7 měsíci +88

    I hate surprises, what makes me mad is he made her obligated to go on that hike. I felt so sad for her she deserved true love and got a complete fraud.

  • @jacyseltzer4121
    @jacyseltzer4121 Před 5 měsíci +27

    The joining together of Lyn and Toni's families tugged on my heart strings. While of course tragic, it shows how human connection can be healing and I hope and pray these two families can find the closure and healing they need together.

  • @uhsaywhatnow
    @uhsaywhatnow Před 7 měsíci +188

    I hope that little girl’s uncle and aunt were able to adopt her. She deserves to be in a safe and loving family after what that monster did to her mother. His crime is ten times worse because he added a child to the picture.

    • @ReflectingMoon
      @ReflectingMoon Před 4 měsíci +14

      They did adopt her. The father tried to block the adoption but it went through

    • @rebekahwolkiewicz449
      @rebekahwolkiewicz449 Před 3 měsíci +9

      @@ReflectingMoonthank goodness

  • @johnsmith-ug5tp
    @johnsmith-ug5tp Před 7 měsíci +84

    Just stop and think about that poor woman`s shock and horror when that POS pushed her from behind sending her off that ledge! The terror and broken heart of what was happening before slamming down below!
    What makes it even more horrible, if she was still conscious laying below with the pain of betrayal at the hands of that evil scumbag and her thinking about her little daughter before she passed away. Hopefully, he gets his in prison and then God's turn!

    • @sanakhan-jx9uv
      @sanakhan-jx9uv Před 3 měsíci +1

      That's crazy. I hope she didn't realize any of this

  • @nbaoldgirl
    @nbaoldgirl Před 7 měsíci +58

    Naturally empathic, caring and sensitive people need to be cautious, because they’re the #1 prey for narcissists/malignant narcissists.

    • @carolannemckenzie3849
      @carolannemckenzie3849 Před 7 měsíci +10

      Correct. I have found that out to my cost. They use your kindness as a weapon against you. I'm more cautious about who I help now.

    • @MusicTennis
      @MusicTennis Před 7 měsíci +8

      She was a very loving, intelligent, successful doctor but he made zero dollars in 15 years. Did she just hand over her paycheck to him, never see a tax return, a checking acct?

    • @nbaoldgirl
      @nbaoldgirl Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@MusicTennis Apparently she did. They said in this show that he handled the money/her money. They also said he hadn’t worked in 20 years 😳

    • @nbaoldgirl
      @nbaoldgirl Před 7 měsíci

      @@carolannemckenzie3849 ♥️♥️♥️💯

    • @anneofgreengables1619
      @anneofgreengables1619 Před 5 měsíci

      Absolutely 💯

  • @allenuconn
    @allenuconn Před 7 měsíci +74

    I think he profiled her as a money making machine but was not attracted to her or in love with her. She was his ATM. So sad, she seemed like an amazing lady.

    • @retromoviefan944
      @retromoviefan944 Před 7 měsíci +9

      yep. I'm surprised they didn't find a lover or mistress from him...they often do in cases like this where he's only after the wife's money.

    • @MusicTennis
      @MusicTennis Před 7 měsíci +8

      She had to know he wasn't kicking in any dough. He had zero earnings in 15 years. This guy was one heck of a Svengali.

    • @marciaphokane8033
      @marciaphokane8033 Před 3 měsíci

      30:56 😊​@@retromoviefan944

  • @arock7462
    @arock7462 Před 7 měsíci +26

    Plus you would NEVER toss the flat back into the rig before removing the jack. The sheriffs dept was lazy and negligent.

  • @lindayoung3437
    @lindayoung3437 Před 7 měsíci +187

    Credit for Mr Van Sant and team who always visit the crime locations. He's brilliant

    • @Michelle-ng9db
      @Michelle-ng9db Před 7 měsíci +3

      He goes wherever and does whatever the producers tell him to. He's just the "host".

    • @lindayoung3437
      @lindayoung3437 Před 7 měsíci +23

      ​@@Michelle-ng9dbwell fyi he's also a producer in 48 hours documentary

    • @jimwerther
      @jimwerther Před 7 měsíci +3

      Good job, but hardly "brilliant".

    • @TheRetroWoman80
      @TheRetroWoman80 Před 7 měsíci +8

      He, Erin Moriarty, Harold Dow (RIP) and Tamron Hall (well, in the past) are a few of my faves who do the same. Great journalism and investigative thoroughness.

    • @denisebacher5040
      @denisebacher5040 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Yeah he is my fave reporter/host. I like Erin but Peter is my favorite.

  • @nancyasplico7536
    @nancyasplico7536 Před 7 měsíci +24

    My favorite correspondent.Peter Van Sant.

  • @kentb8621
    @kentb8621 Před 7 měsíci +164

    The fact that he was super controlling had these secret policies and hadn’t worked in 20 years despite fabricating these grandiose tales about how important he is screams sociopath. He’s got all the tendencies, narcissism, charming, chronic liar, controlling, abusive, most likely murderous.

    • @isabellavalentini5587
      @isabellavalentini5587 Před 7 měsíci +9

      if not - psychopath!

    • @jimwerther
      @jimwerther Před 7 měsíci +2

      Yes, Dr. Freud. Thanks SO much for weighing in with your professional prognosis. What would we do without you?

    • @alexandra2536
      @alexandra2536 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@jimwerther you are in this thread of comments too !! 😮 the american psycho hits again 🎉

    • @jimwerther
      @jimwerther Před 7 měsíci

      @@alexandra2536
      Your comment makes no sense, sorry.

    • @cindytrayer4279
      @cindytrayer4279 Před 7 měsíci +9

      @@jimwertherI’m a behavioral health professional with 33 yrs experience and she’s spot on with her assessment. What makes you an expert to shoot her opinion down? Just curious. And by the way, you used the word “prognosis “ incorrectly. The word you’re looking for is “diagnosis.”

  • @Sophiecjp
    @Sophiecjp Před 7 měsíci +31

    It is to bad that the brother caught Harold’s clogged arteries. It would have been so much nicer if she was still here and he would have left naturally. My heart breaks for families. 😢😢

  • @celesteperkins6324
    @celesteperkins6324 Před 7 měsíci +38

    Her brother is such a stand up guy. This one was sad man.

  • @stevejohnston2715
    @stevejohnston2715 Před 7 měsíci +67

    This is what good families look like. Selfless conduct despite the enormous pain. I hope both families find peace.

  • @phoenixlight1111
    @phoenixlight1111 Před 7 měsíci +79

    Observing her body language in the pics and videos, it's clear that she was unhappy, and it seems that way from early on. Her family is seemingly very accomplished and she likely didn't want to cause waves or seem like she didn't have it together, and wanted to maintain her successful image by not letting anyone know how unhappy she was. Especially as a woman coming from her original neck of the woods, where being proper is taught as manners. And yeah, he does look creepy and gives a creepy vibe.

    • @oliviagoldin7737
      @oliviagoldin7737 Před 7 měsíci +19

      It may be difficult to admit you made a mistake and cut the losses, many suffer silently

    • @barbarabonnette2705
      @barbarabonnette2705 Před 7 měsíci +10

      I agree with you. There are some photos that she looks detached or sad.

    • @leddoandroidgirl
      @leddoandroidgirl Před 6 měsíci +3

      ​@barbarabonnette2705 the body language in the xmas video says it all. She's sitting completely still and stiff and he is leaning into her with his arm around her. It looks so forced and awkward.

  • @AR-lz2br
    @AR-lz2br Před 7 měsíci +250

    No matter how kind a person pretends to be, they cannot hide the evil in their eyes.

    • @terredee
      @terredee Před 7 měsíci +16

      Yes, I did see evil in his eyes. The problem for me is that I knew he was evil before it was revealed, and I always assume people are good so don’t see the bad. I don’t want to assume everyone is bad though, so how do you protect yourself but not stop the good stuff?

    • @AR-lz2br
      @AR-lz2br Před 7 měsíci +11

      @@terredee Unfortunately, not everyone can perceive people through their eyes, also micro expressions can tell you about someone's intentions. I can also perceive real kind people through their eyes as well, and it's not like I learned that from books, but it's part of my nature I guess.

    • @peternolan4107
      @peternolan4107 Před 7 měsíci +26

      I don't buy that. If we could spot evil in the eyes, a lot more people would still be alive.
      If it were that easy, surely members of the families of the two murdered women would have spotted the evil long before anybody was dead. It sounds like they generally thought he was a very upstanding husband for these women they loved.

    • @AR-lz2br
      @AR-lz2br Před 7 měsíci +21

      @@peternolan4107 Too much kindness is too good to be true. Psychopaths are charming and alluring to others, in order to execute their hidden agenda, and this guy is one.

    • @jennSalvate
      @jennSalvate Před 7 měsíci

      ​@peternolan4107 Psychopathic Narcissists take on and mimic other people's personality and emotions to try to fit in. They do not know what normal emotional humans function like. They fool everyone.. almost everyone, that is.

  • @nashmiddleton1763
    @nashmiddleton1763 Před 7 měsíci +160

    Crazy that Toni was unable to figure out that her husband contributed zero income to their relationship. Maybe she found out at some point and was too embarrassed to tell someone. Guess we’ll never know…

    • @peacelove7437
      @peacelove7437 Před 7 měsíci +22

      She did know. She told his friend that he hasn't worked in 20 years.

    • @coley4242
      @coley4242 Před 7 měsíci +33

      @@peacelove7437 the investigator was the one who told his friend he hadn't worked in 20 years

    • @ellanina801
      @ellanina801 Před 7 měsíci +20

      There were some of the pictures that she looked totally lost… one in particular she definitely looked like she was severely abused (like psychologically).

    • @nashmiddleton1763
      @nashmiddleton1763 Před 7 měsíci +21

      @@ellanina801 I know I would’ve been thrilled if my spouse came to my place of work to surprise me with a getaway vacation…all on my own dime. What a treat , a la cousin Eddie style in Xmas vacation.

    • @sonjaheck3156
      @sonjaheck3156 Před 7 měsíci +19

      agree. It is crazy when such highly accomplished women can't get away. You would think she would kick him to the curb, but I guess it isn't that simple.

  • @QueenSugar72
    @QueenSugar72 Před 7 měsíci +37

    The video of them on the couch speaks volumes. The distance and fake affection and smiles

  • @ronyalemerrill
    @ronyalemerrill Před 7 měsíci +176

    Sadly, I believe some of the worst predators seek out Christians using their faith to manipulate them.

    • @l.c838
      @l.c838 Před 7 měsíci +16

      Definitely

    • @MsLucyJayne
      @MsLucyJayne Před 7 měsíci +34

      Predators seek out the gullible

    • @kristeebilliot8760
      @kristeebilliot8760 Před 7 měsíci +7

      Sooo true!

    • @stephenheaton8889
      @stephenheaton8889 Před 7 měsíci +11

      Or maybe they are easy to convince of something unbelievable

    • @jr7845
      @jr7845 Před 7 měsíci +8

      Also the vulnerable are honed in on.

  • @notimefornonsense722
    @notimefornonsense722 Před 7 měsíci +57

    To think you are married for 17 years to a man who fakes that he has a job, fakes his behaviour with you making believe he is in love even family getting fooled at is creepier than anything else.

    • @Beautytrends77
      @Beautytrends77 Před 7 měsíci +11

      I don’t understand how she didn’t know he didn’t have a job. He obviously had no income coming in so how would she not know.

    • @pc793
      @pc793 Před 7 měsíci

      She probably was tired of his lies and supporting him.@@Beautytrends77

    • @notimefornonsense722
      @notimefornonsense722 Před 7 měsíci +11

      @Beautytrends77 ikr? He probably gaslighted and manipulated her. He had some money from first wife insurance.

    • @Beautytrends77
      @Beautytrends77 Před 7 měsíci +5

      @@notimefornonsense722 I guess but I’d be suspicious of my husband sitting around all day. It baffles me how she wouldn’t know, the were married, lived in the same house.

    • @retromoviefan944
      @retromoviefan944 Před 7 měsíci +13

      @@Beautytrends77 yeah makes no sense. I think at some point she did know and maybe she felt embarassed at her own gullibility and rather than admit that, she decided to try to ignore it until she could get out of the mess. Someone like Toni who has a very public persona as a doctor, as someone "smart" and well liked and capable probably didn't want to admit to those around her that her second marriage was a huge mistake and she'd need to get out of it. That's how I suspect her mind was working. Trying to save face until she could move on. And then it was too late.

  • @gracemercy11
    @gracemercy11 Před 7 měsíci +35

    This dude is a psychopath. It’s ALWAYS the eyes

  • @zoemartinez3433
    @zoemartinez3433 Před 5 měsíci +17

    My teacher was the sibling of one of these beautiful women and hearing her tell us about it in class changed my life. So much genuine love and she was always reminding us to be kind and love our siblings as much as we could. I’ve been obsessed with this case since. Thanks for this ❤

  • @somayyamughal8313
    @somayyamughal8313 Před 7 měsíci +68

    This man is pure evil

  • @elletuppen4844
    @elletuppen4844 Před 7 měsíci +80

    ‘Charming’ is so often the first impression folk have of these deceptive type of people or malignant narcissists. And kind and caring often the foremost adjectives of the victims. These predators seek out susceptible soft targets.

    • @arock7462
      @arock7462 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Shiny on the outside demons in the home.

    • @peacelove7437
      @peacelove7437 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Hate charming people, its not genuine. It's fake af.

    • @muddydog6605
      @muddydog6605 Před 2 měsíci

      The charm is there to cover up the evil inside. I did see a good line once. "People don't have charm, they use charm"

  • @mogbaba
    @mogbaba Před 7 měsíci +41

    When my son was a baby, lying on the floor, I accidentally put my foot on his finger. He reacted softly but did not cry. It was a disaster for me. I took him to his nurse and asked her to examine him. She said there was nothing. Nothing happened. Fifteen years after that he has had no problem with his finger. But, it still hurts me to think about it. I cannot understand how such people can do such enormous crimes, and live like they have never done anything wrong!

    • @kerrymartin7557
      @kerrymartin7557 Před 7 měsíci +8

      That's because they are sociopaths.

    • @hillarybillary21
      @hillarybillary21 Před 2 měsíci

      Um, you’re not a psychopath? Is that a difficult concept?

  • @jameshowlettii761
    @jameshowlettii761 Před 7 měsíci +85

    "Where might she end up?"
    "Hopefully right there." ❤️❤️❤️
    I hope so too.
    I hope the families find healing and gain new inner strengths from their shared tragedies and grief.
    Rise In Paradise dear Lynn and Toni 🙏🏾🕊️❤️

  • @JustAThought155
    @JustAThought155 Před 7 měsíci +59

    Sad. Honestly, the lady, Toni, did not look happy in most of the videos I saw in this episode, in my opinion. And remember, all psychopaths are described as “charming” people. So sad for every family member.🥺

    • @x35mmman
      @x35mmman Před 7 měsíci +11

      I was thinking the exact same thing......not looking happy at all. We are outsiders and we can see this.

    • @retromoviefan944
      @retromoviefan944 Před 7 měsíci +11

      i thought the same! In one clip, she's definitely pulling away from him or has this look on her face of "omg, leave me alone". It almost reminded me of clips I've seen of the murdered Playboy playmate, Dorothy Stratten who was murdered by her creepy husband. Just that look of subtle disgust written all over her face. How sad. I have to hope maybe she was getting ready to divorce this freak and was just waiting for the right moment to get out.

  • @alexvega7893
    @alexvega7893 Před 7 měsíci +36

    The diamond 💍 disappeared and reappeared under questioning 😂. What a weasel!!

    • @timmellin2815
      @timmellin2815 Před 4 měsíci

      I am surprised he didn't sell the diamond to get the cash, right off the bat. But taking it off her dead body........reminds me of the Nazis who took gold from their concentration camp victims' teeth. Or maybe he did sell it to get the cash and placed a fake diamond at the crime scene later. Kind of like the pristine bullet placed on the stretcher during the JFK assasination.

  • @mpalmer7800
    @mpalmer7800 Před 7 měsíci +48

    He looks creepy with his beady eyes and fake bugs bunny smile

    • @kipper3309
      @kipper3309 Před 7 měsíci +7

      He sure does!

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz Před 5 měsíci +4

      LOL he does

    • @RatedArggg
      @RatedArggg Před 4 měsíci +4

      He always has the same expression, like that cheesy smile is just a mask.

  • @MandiMomOf8Channel
    @MandiMomOf8Channel Před 7 měsíci +134

    You know it's going to be a good day when 48 Hours posts another full episode 💯

    • @Lawyer206
      @Lawyer206 Před 7 měsíci +12

      That’s crazy, how your good day begins with another person tragedy 🤷🏾

    • @jakeherter
      @jakeherter Před 7 měsíci +4

      I totally agree with you I've watched the show my entire life.

    • @YsalysDayByDay
      @YsalysDayByDay Před 7 měsíci +2

      ​@@Lawyer206🙄

    • @dewicripps6870
      @dewicripps6870 Před 7 měsíci +1

      The fbi are watching you both... I feel like people like you can't wait to star in the show

    • @MandiMomOf8Channel
      @MandiMomOf8Channel Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@jakeherter Yes 😊 Happy Halloween to you 🎃

  • @agatahb
    @agatahb Před 7 měsíci +61

    his face says it all

  • @janvan113
    @janvan113 Před 7 měsíci +42

    This is not the first crime story I have seen where someone was pushed off a cliff. If your "loving, charming" husband or wife wants to go hiking in rugged terrain with high cliffs, just say no. Especially if said person was involved in a questionable death of a previous spouse, and there is a life insurance policy on you. People are nuts. Even sometimes ones you have been married to for 12 years. Most of the time spouses don't do this, but in every case that it happens, no one suspected they could do such a thing. So sad.

  • @MoogieB
    @MoogieB Před 7 měsíci +15

    As soon as I saw a closeup of his face, I thought his eyes were devoid of emotion. The face smiled but the eyes looked blank. Ladies, be careful of “ charming” men!

  • @carolinam4301
    @carolinam4301 Před 7 měsíci +39

    If someone made me hike on my anniversary, alarm bells would go off in my head.

    • @lynnehorizon5532
      @lynnehorizon5532 Před 4 měsíci

      Ha ha!

    • @rebekahwolkiewicz449
      @rebekahwolkiewicz449 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Some people are into that, I guess 😅

    • @Chalklet1
      @Chalklet1 Před 3 měsíci +2

      She had bad knees and hiking accident waiting to happen. No way in Hell I'm climbing any mountain.

  • @jjwoelkers7954
    @jjwoelkers7954 Před 7 měsíci +66

    What a fantastic family Toni has! I know her sweet daughter will be taken care of ❤
    Too bad her evil father took her mother away from her!

    • @ellanina801
      @ellanina801 Před 7 měsíci +4

      There’s such a gross confidence with this kind of evil. They always expect to get away with it.

  • @SonGohan01107
    @SonGohan01107 Před 7 měsíci +42

    My left ear loved this 😊

    • @aurayde9558
      @aurayde9558 Před 7 měsíci +9

      i thought i was going crazy 😭

    • @mariamawits3689
      @mariamawits3689 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Same here😂😂😂

    • @rankzkate
      @rankzkate Před 7 měsíci +6

      Same .What is this?

    • @Angiesensei.
      @Angiesensei. Před 7 měsíci +11

      The next video will be with the right ear😭😭😭😭

    • @NixieNikNak
      @NixieNikNak Před 7 měsíci +8

      I thought my headphones were broken 😂

  • @elainebmack
    @elainebmack Před 7 měsíci +22

    It was said early on that Toni met Harold in her mid-late 30's. She might have been a bit "desperate" for a husband after her earlier divorce, so Harold sensed this and made the "charming" moves. There might have been some pressure on her, perhaps unspoken, to find another mate. Toni was from the South, and though it was not said, women are expected to be partnered in that culture, especially in the Christian church tradition. This pure conjecture on my part, but a possible factor.

    • @vm3141
      @vm3141 Před 5 měsíci +2

      No matter what, she didn’t deserve to die like that 😢

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya Před 7 měsíci +34

    Anniversary hike while he clearly knew he was walking her to her death💔💔

  • @michaelbodine9240
    @michaelbodine9240 Před 7 měsíci +39

    The monster is always characterized as ‘charming’ in these episodes. Maybe charming should be a red flag.

  • @sleepygeekyandreadytodream...y
    @sleepygeekyandreadytodream...y Před 7 měsíci +66

    This case reminds me of another case I heard where a man pushed his wife off a cliff. She managed to survive, but she was pregnant and her unborn child passed away.
    He was gonna leave her for dead but saw an ambulance and realized he had to play the concerned husband. He went to the hospital with her, and she couldn't say anything so she sat there in fear of her husband while nurses were like 'You have such a great husband'
    I think eventually he went to jail, and because the woman was badly injured in the fall she's slowly recovering.
    I hope she's ok.

    • @amberadkins4515
      @amberadkins4515 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Did you hear it on the rotten mangos channel?

    • @sleepygeekyandreadytodream...y
      @sleepygeekyandreadytodream...y Před 7 měsíci

      yea i did@@amberadkins4515

    • @RestorativeRenaissance
      @RestorativeRenaissance Před 7 měsíci +10

      I remember that one. I think there was a language issue too. There was a nurse who spoke the same language and she was able to trust her after a few days once her husband left her bedside she let the nurse know it was him. People like this make me sick.

    • @sleepygeekyandreadytodream...y
      @sleepygeekyandreadytodream...y Před 7 měsíci +9

      @@RestorativeRenaissance yea they were visiting a different country and I think the husband was trying to use that to his advantage?

    • @cosmos5623
      @cosmos5623 Před 6 měsíci +7

      It's a Chinese couple visiting Thailand. Evil guy.

  • @MirandaDanda1983
    @MirandaDanda1983 Před 7 měsíci +19

    You can look in his eyes and see VOID. Very disturbing. No conscious!! So sorry for the women and their families!!🙏

  • @bodemiller5282
    @bodemiller5282 Před 7 měsíci +36

    I ❤ 48 Hours and Peter Van Sant is one of the best hosts ever!!!

  • @ashleyhump6385
    @ashleyhump6385 Před 7 měsíci +52

    Toni is from my hometown. It's crazy that I've never heard of her story. Absolutely beautiful woman.. seemed like a true Southern Bell. My heart goes out to her family and friends.

    • @jimwerther
      @jimwerther Před 7 měsíci +4

      She was a phone company?

    • @CocoAvalon
      @CocoAvalon Před 7 měsíci +3

      Toni and her family both have lovely accents! If you have a beautiful accent like that then you are so lucky! I wish I could buy that accent for myself lol.

    • @Dhruv_Dogra
      @Dhruv_Dogra Před 6 měsíci +1

      I think you mean belle

  • @differenttakethanmost
    @differenttakethanmost Před 7 měsíci +65

    How is it legal to take life insurance out on people WITHOUT their knowledge or consent?!?
    I get why spouses have it, but there should be knowledge and consent ESPECIALLY if /when people aren’t married, but any time.

    • @lisawhite4698
      @lisawhite4698 Před 7 měsíci +1

      I can’t believe the USA hasn’t changed Life Insurance Policies!!! Who ever the insurance policy is for Teresa Seivers (for example) the husband was able to take out a total of 5 life insurance policies on her!! I think they both took out one on each other but a few months before she was killed she suddenly had 5 policies!!!

    • @zombiechicken7114
      @zombiechicken7114 Před 7 měsíci +6

      And children. Both parents where they are in the picture should need to arrange it. There's no loss of income with a child so why would they need insurance beyond health insurance?!

    • @thedeviouspanda
      @thedeviouspanda Před 7 měsíci +6

      ​@@zombiechicken7114Funeral services cost money that they might not have in savings. If the child dies on vacation, they have to pay several thousands of dollars to have the body transported home. Life insurance is not just for loss of income but for death expenses too.

    • @thedeviouspanda
      @thedeviouspanda Před 7 měsíci +19

      It wasn't legal, he forged her signature. It's fraud.

    • @amandak3198
      @amandak3198 Před 7 měsíci +4

      It isn't legal, hence the reason they talked about how he forged her signature.

  • @Ndbdbbdbdbh
    @Ndbdbbdbdbh Před 7 měsíci +23

    The production quality of 48 hrs is something else..! Really appreciate it

  • @missyannp36
    @missyannp36 Před 7 měsíci +9

    12 years seems like it's the " I can't take anymore" number. He was married to his first wife for 12 years before she passed, and celebrating 12 year anniversary when his 2nd wife passed. That is very eerie.

  • @lisawentworth6831
    @lisawentworth6831 Před 7 měsíci +29

    I'm so glad the little girl is being adopted by people that love her and her mother. Killers never bother to think of who else that might hurt...just their own greed.

  • @MonicaJones-wh4lj
    @MonicaJones-wh4lj Před 7 měsíci +64

    Its sad that Toni met thst murderer on a Christian dating website.

    • @YsalysDayByDay
      @YsalysDayByDay Před 7 měsíci

      Once again just shows Christians are just people and not anything special.

    • @mabandlandamase9826
      @mabandlandamase9826 Před 7 měsíci +15

      Because he was on a Christian dating website, it doesn't mean he was a Christian.Justice for the victims

    • @MonicaJones-wh4lj
      @MonicaJones-wh4lj Před 7 měsíci +7

      @mabandlandamase9826 Clearly he wasn't, that goes without saying. She was doing the right things and being in the right places and still encountered someone so evil. RIP to the victims.

    • @RestorativeRenaissance
      @RestorativeRenaissance Před 7 měsíci

      I think some men masquerade as Christians to prey on Christian women who are sometimes naive.

    • @theghostsofstonyclove
      @theghostsofstonyclove Před 7 měsíci +4

      Perfect place to look for people that will believe untruths

  • @gregv2821
    @gregv2821 Před 7 měsíci +29

    I don’t get emotional easily but that part when the brother was asked where he hoped his little niece would end up, that choked me up.

    • @muddydog6605
      @muddydog6605 Před 2 měsíci

      That's exactly where she did end up and stayed ❤

  • @Trag3dyInV3nus
    @Trag3dyInV3nus Před 3 měsíci +5

    What a beautiful family Toni had. This is utterly heartbreaking story.

  • @margaretadami6358
    @margaretadami6358 Před 7 měsíci +26

    I totally lost it at the end when they showed the daughter as a teen who has a monster for a father. I wish all good things for her, and peace for both of the families who are going thru the pain of this man’s actions

  • @LotsofLisa
    @LotsofLisa Před 7 měsíci +48

    Husband:”… I’m in Rocky National Park and…”
    Me: “…Yes sir, just give us the location where you accidentally on purpose threw your wife off a darn cliff so we can wrap this up…”

  • @user-jt9nw9RDMF
    @user-jt9nw9RDMF Před 7 měsíci +56

    I feel awful for these family members and friends of these victims. I'm so sorry! Dear God....help us all ...what evil!!!!!

  • @vincentferrigno9726
    @vincentferrigno9726 Před 7 měsíci +13

    Thank God for a good brother to adopt his niece.

  • @margaritaescoto3500
    @margaritaescoto3500 Před 7 měsíci +20

    So glad the jury was unanimous on his guilty verdict

  • @AidaAsi
    @AidaAsi Před 7 měsíci +22

    Amazing and supportive families

  • @TheNinnyfee
    @TheNinnyfee Před 7 měsíci +14

    Has nobody seen that his eyes are completely cold when he smiles? And then marrying after a year? You are giving this person power over your literal life, don't give it away that quickly.

  • @voyaristika5673
    @voyaristika5673 Před 7 měsíci +26

    These past months I've been learning abou narcissistic behavior. I've noticed they can give different stories for the same incident and not mind at all. These crimes are awful. These monsters leave so many ruined lives and so much pain. No punishment is great enough.

  • @jasonlee8497
    @jasonlee8497 Před 7 měsíci +33

    These videos make me go kiss my wife and tell her I love her. 25 years. 2 good boys, now fine young men. I'm enjoying our empty nest. We are closer than ever.

  • @annmowatt7547
    @annmowatt7547 Před 3 měsíci +6

    These are 2 wonderful families who encountered pure evil. I am so sorry for them and their lost loved ones.

  • @goliath_red1102
    @goliath_red1102 Před 7 měsíci +50

    “She fell off a cliff” is the obvious excuse for “I pushed her off”

  • @lizhoward9754
    @lizhoward9754 Před 7 měsíci +23

    I feel horrible for her brother catching this guy’s heart issue.

  • @nbaoldgirl
    @nbaoldgirl Před 7 měsíci +22

    Toni’s family is amazing just like she was ❤

  • @flying_oliphant2554
    @flying_oliphant2554 Před 7 měsíci +8

    The brother, i was crying with him .. the regret in his voice to save the monster who killed his sister .

  • @barbarabonnette2705
    @barbarabonnette2705 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Toni came from a loving and beautiful family. Anytime someone wants to take you, or separate you from your family, you need to ask yourself why?

  • @rebeccapauk4707
    @rebeccapauk4707 Před 7 měsíci +13

    I find these 2 families amazing! Anyone should be proud to have a family with so much love and commitment

  • @AgentAO7
    @AgentAO7 Před 7 měsíci +30

    The sheer amount of arrogance he displayed, those fake smiles, the lies that he lived.. some telling signs right there. This man has no conscience! He almost got away with it.. I’m glad justice prevailed..

    • @Rosco-P.Coldchain
      @Rosco-P.Coldchain Před 7 měsíci +2

      I picked up straight away on how he wouldn’t look into the camera 🎥..For sure I’m with you 👍

    • @jennSalvate
      @jennSalvate Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@Rosco-P.Coldchainhow Harold "wouldn't look into the camera"?
      He's smiling in every picture with Toni looking into the camera. The only live shot we had of him was when he was in his vehicle ready to drive looking forward. 🤔

  • @melvinlovejones
    @melvinlovejones Před 7 měsíci +24

    This case is similar to one that my mother’s ex friend told me that happened in his family. The major difference is the man, whom was attending his 2nd wife’s funeral from a suspicious death was shot in the head while sitting in the front row by his 2nd wife’s cousin, who found out the guy’s first wife died in the same mysterious fashion years before. So long for years of speculation and investigations.

  • @Susiehighschool
    @Susiehighschool Před 5 měsíci +9

    I wrote this as a reply to a comment about women ending up with these types of men & it’s such an important message so I’m reposting it here 💜
    ~​​⁠no it’s not. I’m educated myself but my husband was a doctor did this process to me and it’s so very slow. They are wonderful perfect men in the beginning. A few months after we were married I saw a few slight cracks in the mask but I chalked it up to him being stressed by taking over a new medical practice. I had also become sick and had to be very reliant on him for a while and I’m an extremely caring empathetic person (which they usually target) and they weaponize pity. He had already convinced me to leave my career to be a “power team” at his practice & once I was sick I felt this internal guilt & pressure to get better faster than I was capable of because of his evident “stress”. I was one who always used to think that women who don’t get out must be so weak & it could never happen to me but the slow mental warfare breaks you down and if you’re like me who grew up in a very loving household I had never seen an ounce of what emotional abuse looked like & for the longest I just thought my husband was struggling and needed more from me & being a devout Christian also played a role in feeling the need to want to uplift & support him. He started isolating me as well as his “stress” led to “depression” and he “didn’t feel like being around people” and wanted me to always be with him. When you believe you know someone’s character from the months you spent falling in love with such a wonderful person who gave you so much bliss you don’t realize you’re being manipulated & you’re trying to help them get back to the person you knew all the while you’re losing your identity, your happiness, your sources of joy & they become all you have in a way bc they’re the only one who you’re relating to. It’s so masterfully subtle it’s evil. I did see red flags when he started showing irritation and would slam something down which I knew was off bc I didn’t grow up seeing anger. Also when there’s children involved and you know you don’t want them to witness the bad behavior you become a shield and end up taking the wrath quietly so they do not. By this time he had full financial control as I worked for him & he kept our main funds in his business account which I was never added to & I basically got an allowance. I was still struggling with my health and couldn’t fully support myself to easily leave. The kids would be uprooted, their lifestyle would change, there’s so much at stake but it always always escalates. He went from grabbing me hard by the arm the first time to putting his hands around my neck the next time & that’s when I finally called the police. No one knew. I was so ashamed to tell anyone I had fallen victim to an abuser bc of how I had viewed it & assumed most did as well. I didn’t tell a single soul until the end when I had to take my kids and go back to my parents house and start my life over again. I take the time to write this just in case anyone else out there reads this and recognizes anything in their own lives. Don’t feel ashamed. It’s not your fault, it never was. You don’t deserve it and I encourage you to make a plan to leave. That’s the most dangerous time. The staggering truth is DV is the number one killer of women age 18-35!!! It’s happening all around us so if anyone sees the signs I beg of you to try to reach out to the victim. Look into how to prepare to safely leave and offer them any support you can in doing so. It ALWAYS escalates & you never know how quickly. Mine was mostly psychological & coercive control but that alone is abuse. Yelling throwing & slamming things is abuse. Anything done in an attempt to control you with fear. And if someone puts their hands on you it will only escalate. I was so fortunate that something inside him made him take his hands off my throat before 180 seconds bc that’s all it takes to end a life with strangulation. If this hasn’t happened to you, learn the signs. If they seem too good to be true. It’s quite possible. If they come on strong with compliments & praise very quickly progressing the relationship it could be love bombing. Take your time. Ask all the questions. Be safe out there 💜 I started watching true crime once I was out so I could learn to perceive behavior patterns of people who do these types of things and it has helped so much in not allowing myself to end up in another one of these relationships & these type of people seem more prominent than ever. I’ve gone on a few dates and am so grateful I saw the signs right away on the ones I’ve encountered. I’ve been single 4 years now and yes I’d love to have a partner but I love my peace so much more 💜

    • @aliciakraynik7674
      @aliciakraynik7674 Před 3 měsíci +2

      What a wonderful story. Glad you're okay. Being alone isn't that bad. It's better than an abusive relationship.

  • @laurendelore
    @laurendelore Před 7 měsíci +23

    Thank you so much for uploading these 🙌

  • @carolinachickfrombrooklyn664
    @carolinachickfrombrooklyn664 Před 5 měsíci +4

    Oh my her brother really made me cry’s you can see the love in his eyes for his sister. May both women rest in peace

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya Před 7 měsíci +14

    His fake emotions would win an Oscar😁😒

  • @alejandrovargas7592
    @alejandrovargas7592 Před 7 měsíci +12

    I feel such sadness and sympathy for the Doctor, Barry. The depth of the emotional suffering he must periodically endure, I can't imagine.

  • @tambisnewwavechannel1109
    @tambisnewwavechannel1109 Před 7 měsíci +16

    You can tell that both families of Lyn & Toni have good hearts.
    Harold is sooo evil to take both lives because of money.

  • @Angelofloveandhappiness
    @Angelofloveandhappiness Před 7 měsíci +7

    In many videos, Tony appears to be worried about something. She doesnt seem comfortable with Harold.

  • @artandadventurerv
    @artandadventurerv Před 7 měsíci +24

    How long was it after Toni’s death that he had to go to trial? And did he receive the $4.7MM before that? I saw a meme the other day: “Just think…your ex is somewhere pretending to be in love just to have a place to stay.” It’s prob more common than we think.

    • @kdfree91
      @kdfree91 Před 7 měsíci

      Police depts are very quick to look into life insurance policies on any case surrounding accidental deaths, especially if there is any chance the beneficiary is a person of interest in the case. The insurance company only pays out after an investigation has been completed by the authorities, so he didn't get any payout.
      And yep, it is common for ppl to pretend to be in love with someone, just to have a place to live. So common, in fact, that they've created a term for ppl like that, hobosexuals.

  • @torrijenkins4146
    @torrijenkins4146 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I hope her brother is able to adopt his niece. What a wonderful human being he is !

  • @cynthiahusband106
    @cynthiahusband106 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Love 48 hrs and Peter Van Sant he’s the best.

  • @ninacarman9357
    @ninacarman9357 Před 7 měsíci +19

    This world is just awful.