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- čas přidán 5. 01. 2023
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Wait some relatives actually abused me like not criticizing coz my kid spoke English in the village.. guess wat my son is 3years and had gotten speaking issues because of use of different languages and so I decided to use English for him to speak at least .. naye mwe these women 😭 told me how permissive I am🥺
'Manuela you have expertise raising kids under four"😀😀😀😀
Manuela with her natural consequences killed me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂eeeeh
I am no where close to being a mother but with the knowledge I am collecting here and my experiences, I know I will be a great mom thank you ladies.
Opinions always on point, as for angie didn’t even notice it was her looking so good
She's always looking great 😊😉
Someone criticized me over something petty in front of my mom. All that while, i grew up knowing I'm mom's least favorite kid. I thought she didnt like me. But mom plain told the criticizer,"my child is so perfect. Her flaws add to her perfection and uniqueness. I love her that way." I cried . Never knew momma would stand up for me. Our parents love us even with all our flaws! Dont criticize anyone"s parenting koz they are doing their best. some wounds never heal so package your info and deliver it well without criticism
Aaaaaaawwwww hugs to you. I hope your false thoughts on being your mom's least favorite were atleast thwarted that day. P
Thanks ladies for Bump Love. Very insightful. We, the men, also watch but from Kamoli and we have learnt good perspectives of the 'other gender'. Keep it up
Hehehe! We welcome your gender for sho! P
Not a mom yet, but this channel and the conversations soothes my soul.
Me too🥰
#accepting criticism is a life skill. Lots of love from Kenya.
Oh this was touching,I liked it,I was awarded a scholarship and I am away but I am being blamed for leaving my girls with their father one is 5year and the other one is making 2years , the girls are healthy and looking good but the way MSG's come in like a flood ,it was beginning to stress me and thinking how am too selfish but when I shared with my husband he told me to tell them that if the are concerned they go take care of them , he even told to broke some because they are enemies of progress ,I think the intention of some one tell you should be measured well aba using which units .
Take it from a mom who left her 3yr old son with the dad too to go away and study for a year - Happy Mom = Happy kids. It might not seem like it right now,, but you have made the best decision for both you and your family. Keep going. P
I have been trying ko Manuela’s ‘discipline by consequence’ style. And it has not failed me whenever i apply it but some how people take you to be harsh. But i have always proved it resultful in many instances. Thank you Manuel. I now know I have back up😂
My love for bump love will never die❤
Well done beautiful ladies ,I am learning and taking notes .
Rossett is very smart🥰
I gave birth to a big baby ( 5kgs) . And by 1year he was like 15kgs and very tall but he wasnt walking . The way everyone was saying i feed my child alot,but there was this specific lady who went extra ...." your child is obese,he will never walk,hes limbs are bold,he has rickets etc....guys i nearly slapped the woman....meanwhile he was always sickly ...stressed about hes health now the weight and not walking.....i ran mad. Went to Nsambya but the doctor said my doctor is very fine but the womans voice kept ringing in my head insisted on breaking my babys legs ....made an appointment but a week to the appointment he made steps since then i will never take any neg critism. Hes very fine now but eeh i nearly ran mad
Oh dear! The opinions can be overwhelming. I'm glad baby begun to walk eventually. It goes to say that we shouldn't give importance to what people think.
@@rachaelmwine611 thank you Rach
Oh dear! So sorry about your experience.
i can relate my story to yours but for me the criticism came from the father. that hurts right. I have learnt to pay less attention to his criticism sometimes.
Oh sorry, that was so tough
I stop beating after being critiqued. So I agree, criticizing can be taken with a pinch of salt
A week end gets productive when I watch these bump love vlogs😘 much love girls❤️
I love how you all share and give examples. As a student of you, I’m happy to learn.
Thank you ladies I love your ideas 💕💕💕
Well said my ladies much love ❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹
Thank you so much ladies
So wise ladies
I love you 💖💖
I love you ladies I relate so much to your words of wisdom happy New year WOMEN.
Persistence and consistency is the key. I can't change what's working for me because of criticism.
Thanks to you all ladies from Bump Love
Best discussion to start my year 2023, love you ladies, thank you so much. #motherofteenagers.
I love this show.. God bless you ladies keep the episodes coming we are learning 🙏 🙌 ❤️ ✨️
Thanks ladies for sharinrg ur amazing experiences with criticism I personally have experienced criticism with my daughter there were some I could handle, and others I couldn't expect so I had to pick whats best for me as I'm the parent, so .
Good start for the year. Well done ladies. I believe with maturity I have learnt to calm down whenever I hear such, thank God otherwise in my 20z, oh boy I would come for you. We were patented differently and from different backgrounds, definitely we can't be the same however, we need to be kind to ourselves whenever judged. I can only be the best mother to my children regardless and vice versa.
Love you ladies 🧡🧡
Well said ladies.its amazing that with my girlfriends who are all parents we were talking about parenting yesterday and how to communicate issues to parents in case you find an issue with their child.I bet it's the mode of delivery that spoils even a necessary criticism.
This was a hilarious but educative episode. I love Manuela’s style of discipline on the uniform
First off, You look so cute in that dress @ Racheal. I kept looking at how well it suits you.
Now, I don't have kids but I grew up hearing people criticise my parents over one of my siblings. He is an addict, they did their best but failed. They deal with the pain of failure as parents everyday and keep wondering about how differently they should have parented.
Now, the people who love to run their mouths like to tell them to their face about what they should have done and all. It's so annoying and I feel so bad for my parents bcoz I know their sacrifices and lengths they've gone to in order to help their child.
The ladies are right, let's learn to package our criticisms well if we really have to utter them out at all. Or when the parents struggles with their child are glaring, let's just shut up. They are fully aware of the problem and unless they ask, let's not push our unsolicited advice.
Thk u ladies ❤️
Rachel Micah weight has nothing to do with his immunity like you said. My daughter is an excellent eater and takes vitamins and still struggles with low
Immunity. It’s something she is outgrowing slowly. This was a great conversation. As much as it’s good to be open and humble we also have to guard out hearts because not everything that been shared with us is for us.
"Not everything being shared with us is for us". Correct. P
This was a good episode, great start of the year. Thank you ladies
My parenting style has been criticized before& the criticism had a toll on me. But my key take from the discussions...self awareness will ease sieving criticism.
Right on girl! P
Thank you so much ladies.
I decided to choose peace in a way that I receive the criticism but do me because just like Emmanuel these people critisise because we are not doing things the way they do it
I love your work and with it,my TikTok has grown 🥰🥰keep inspiring us ladies
Very Nice 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. P
I loooooooove Angieeee♥️❤️🥳🥳🥳… ok all the bump love ladies
I live in Canada and I watched you ladies to get a taste of home. How I miss my girlfriends, you remind me of them.
Rachael that dress🎉🎉❤
I really can't wait to be a mother and start sharing my experience .
Well done ladi👏
Bump love forever ❤️ it's the way pumlar explains things 😂I would love to see when she is annoyed and talking at the same time.
Hahahaahahaaaa! Believe me - You don't want to be anywhere near that scenario 😅. P
Wow Pumla!!! Great insight 🙌
Ladies l love you so much thx for the show
Oh yes
Guard your heart
I really enjoyed this💃💃💃💃♥️♥️♥️
It's good to take criticism even from childless people since we've all been children.
Manuela with the natural consequences I'm sure you are aware but just for other viewers, parents should have a ka limit so they don't end up abusing their kids in the name of discipline.
I think angie has touched on a good point which is if you're offering criticism add some solutions and support too
Good discussion
As for the zari topic😂😂😂 like pumla said at the start if you are not solid then it feels most like an attack
My mom was always like Manuela she rarely beat us, but she would always give us natural consequences just like that. And I am surely going to practice it with mine because it worked we always knew what to expect.
ooh..just yesterday i was criticised by some folks about letting my son have my fone! that it means i did not train him well and that it is bad manners... trully i was offended coz the circumstances are different! and besides i do what i can to keep him at bay as his mom..having alittle previledge with my fone isnt something i envisioned as bad at his age (6) especially because he watches cartoons with it and i dont have bad content to hide in my fone...i was abit defensive but when i slept on the thought! i realised that at a certain age i will have to restrain him to avoid any curiosity... i will start to keep it away slowly and slowly but its something i had not thought of as a bad thing. besides he studies well, does his homework and holiday package and the cartoons teach him good english!!... jesus..this parenting journey teaches us new things daily!
That phone thing banange. People don't know that screen time can be regulated. Both regarding time and content. And if as a parent you can do that, let Noone steer you off. P
By the way Pumla is very beautiful especially the eyes
Aaaaawwww...lovely compliment. Thank you. P
Love your content
Thanks so much bump love.Ladies, u really take us to another level. Thanks for sharing such knowledge.
And please pumla...where do you plait your hair from. I surely need that very hair style pleaseee
I am just proud of how am raising my kids. The rest don't need to tell me how to do it. My kids aren't anyone's kids so I can't raise them the they raise theirs! Wamma thx Pumla,ako kabamale
For us homeschooling mothers we have Avery good share of criticism
someone criticised over not feeding my 7 year child well all cos of her small size....and i was like wtf!!..yet she eats normally....then anther told me how my child has lugezigezi yet to me i take it as high self esteem and i like it when she speaks her mind,when she asks those questions cos shes at a stage where inquistiveness is so high
Pumla, is soooo hilarious yet real &.. I like that about her. I agree with that statement of criticism. When your confident in who you are words don't trigger you!. I like all your different personalites. I feel i have a bit of each of your personalities and mindsets . Manuela come through with that perfectionism, girl i do the same, am loving but shrewd too. Angie her maturity and calmness, creativity are also traits i relate with. Rosette.. her fashion sense and bubbly character ... Rachel .. her humility and being down to earth. .. Perfect blend. Well done Ladies. We see you ,we appreciate you.
Thanks for the inclusive feedback Cossy. We appreciate you too. P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 Your welcome
Pumla I could listen to you forever- very insightful ❤
Thank you Dr. Nansubuga ❤. P
Pumla, one thing i know for sure, i will one day have a date with you. I love you.
Changed my maid and I heard neighbors say akana kavudenu that moment I realized my son was doing badly I intentionally improved his diet but the criticism was eye opening
Happy New Year ladies. Well done. Criticism of how you are raising your own is like swallowing a pin lost in sour grapes. Thank you for the wisdom
Before I watch.... I love love love Racheals dress.
I love U guys banange I am not married and single🤣🤣 no child but yessss I can't miss u and pumlaz hair 🤣🤣🤣 I love it
Comments like a child will heal when they see the father.
So I and husband are rewarding parents naye looks like we need to change tactics it honestly just breeds self entitled kids.... Heneway this year Mrs Mulondo am saving and saving..... I love love you ladies... So much to learn
If it doesn't feel right, it most likely isn't. Pay attention to your gut but also be kind to yourself. We're all just winging it here. P
True some unsolicited advice is just annoying. We need a session on how to manage aggressive children. Otherwise thanks for the show
How I love Pumla 🥰
Thanks ladies
Our aunt always told my mum not to allow us wear trousers with an excuse that we look good in dresses 😂😂😂 UpTo now she complains when we visit that she doesn't see us in dresses
25:45 I just love Pumla❤
Mine is about smartphones mbu era "esimu zobona abaana" but when I give him my own they say nothing but when I bought him his own they took it away! Banange olemwa! 🤦♀
Just like Rachael, I have been criticized about not feeding my kids
Happy New year ladies
And when it comes to school people think they understand very well every school in the country.
But Manuela, can I gift you another pair of shoes😍😋😁😂. Simububi
Nice show
Yes, men don't like "labeling their children. But I like that they are protective that way.
I really love you mamaz
From Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪
Leero nkedde😍😍
Am very self aware as a person and so when someone gives me a feedback i receive it and sort it out,if they is need to do better then i do exactly that.
Great stuff. P
Very nice topic. With me I am seasonal at times I will go full force and attack the criticizer or I will totally ignore and move on like they said nothing. Depends on the topic 😂
Hahaha! No balance! P
oh it happened to me, my son threw tantrums in someone's car over not being allowed to sit close to the window, The driver kept tormenting me about not disciplining my 2-year-old, mbu we over pamper kids bla bla bla...my throat almost burst out thank God I didn't throw it back to him.
But MR. MULONDO 😂😂😂😂😂
Bump lovers we are here❤️
I love you gals 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Aidah from Saudi Arabia my girl was so stubborn at 4 yes and I used to beat her and people were like why do you hate the girl oh mi
Wabula Pumla I feel you on the bukafiriness🤣🤣 nange most Sundays I just want to sleep long, we be tired banange.
We. Be. Tired. P
I think in Africa especially Uganda, abantu people love ebyononese. That's why they just criticise any howly without offering any solution. Ask them if at least they prayed for you.. nothing. Ingenuity just
Yooo....this has come out at exact time my own mother is criticizing me on how I brought up my daughter...of omukuziza ekyejo cz we talk to our children instead of shouting to a child when they have done something...and a lot more...she has resorted to shouting and backing at her when she's looking for me 🙄🙄
Wow manuela wow
Just yesterday I had the breath in and out moment🙃🙂. My uncle telling me how my 3 month old is small because I don't feed her well oooohhh I pretended I was not listening and he went on for some more time, I burst 🤣😂🤣, I swear I was done it is the same thing he says like almost every time he sees us. My baby is healthy, am feeding her just like I fed my first 2 kids but she is just a thin person eh.
I received wrath from the public about pacifiers/soothers...banange winner was your child is not going to talk!! 🙄
My dota has been somehow slow in every step, so pipo can be like ooh u carry her too much ,en her being small moreover I give her tym in feeding her en they can be like the way u feed her eeee
My baby's are healthy but someone told me he is too heavy I should regulate what he does.
My twins are 11 and one time we met a lady on our to shopping and you know how that kavubuka smell can start early she told me in my face how am not ensuring the children are not showering well.
I felt bad i talked to them when we came back home.
My 6 year old daughter has been very skim since birth. I've taken all kinds of abuse in the name of criticism from all kinds of people. Immune to words but ehhhh people are very nosy I tell you.
Unless someone comes to you for advise. A beg!!!!!! keep it to yourself.
I absolutely love you ladies! The group dynamics are so balanced. Much love from Namibia😍...
P.S I have learnt so many local phrases from you guys and Kansiime😅...if i ever visit Uganda, I think i'll fit right in, everything will be Kawa 😅
I was told to stop feeding my child yogurt…that is should force her to take porridge and milk…in simple terms I was told to starve my child because I know she won’t do the porridge and milk
That one was just spreading around "omwavu" mentality. P
Mwana mujimu😂#thosewhoknow😅Pumla thanks for the point about being honest with yourself....
When my daughter was a year old, this lady came to me and asked me why I had curly permed my daughter's hair, didn't I know that hair chemicals were dangerous to use on toddlers, I said to her that that was her natural hair and there was no perm in it, the tight curly ringlets were her actual natural hair.
The lady ended up apologising to me.
Best show ever
Hehehe kajanja
My three year old son delayed to talk and one day someone commented like this boy may be dump I felt so so bad
Aaaaaawwww hugs. P