Experiences From My First Months Living In The Netherlands | Are The Dutch People Rude?

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  • čas přidán 24. 01. 2023
  • Hello guys, it's been 6+ months living in The Netherlands and these are some of my experiences.
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Komentáře • 85

  • @Hrn250
    @Hrn250 Před rokem +25

    Heath: If we don't feel well, we Dutch people can't just go to a hospital. First of all, make sure you are registered with a GP practice. ( huisarts) The doctor will determine whether it is necessary for you to go to the hospital for further examination or treatment. So if something is wrong, you call them first. just going to the hospital for an ailment is unnecessary and hospitals are not meant for that. In case of emergencies, such as serious accidents or life-threatening situations, you call 112.

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +8

      Thank you for your contribution, I didn’t know exactly understand what Huisarts meant before but now I know…I’m learning so much already.

    • @williamgeardener2509
      @williamgeardener2509 Před rokem +10

      @@ndinachila The huisarts is a general practitioner who acts as a gatekeeper for specialised help. Except for emergencies, you aren't going te get specialised medical care without referral from the huisarts. You must also know that in the Netherlands you don't get medicines for every cough, itch, slight fever or headache. Do not be surprised when you think that you're going to die, the huisarts sends you home with the advice to buy Paracetamol and stay in bed until you feel better.

  • @TheEvertw
    @TheEvertw Před rokem +58

    Let me assure you, when a Dutch person smiles at you, 9 out of 10 that smile is genuine.
    Dutch people have no problem with being grumpy in public.

    • @LordCucumber77
      @LordCucumber77 Před rokem +7

      I was about to say, we generally open up emotionally in any emotional direction, without holding back 😂

    • @lellahfloral4163
      @lellahfloral4163 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@LordCucumber77 that's good to know

  • @Dutchbelg3
    @Dutchbelg3 Před rokem +20

    A smile is not just to reflect the person is feeling happy... it is also used to be friendly without a word. It is an invitation to be friendly! 🙂 If you smile the way you smile in this video I would love to help you with anything. 🙂

  • @drewbase
    @drewbase Před 4 měsíci +8

    Groningen is a city with a lot of students and surrounded by farmers and rural country. People are a bit more friendly and relaxed. If one smiles, it’s generally not fake. But rain in the morning, sun in the afternoon and snow in the evening 😂😂😂😂 that doesn’t happen much but I had to laugh

  • @MAUVE5
    @MAUVE5 Před rokem +9

    First time I came across your channel. I immediately subscribed. You speak clearly and with lots of positive vibes. As a Dutch person I am still not used to the weather haha

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +3

      Thank you very much 🙏🏿 It’s nice that you had the time to watch the video and leave a comment .

  • @Frahamen
    @Frahamen Před rokem +13

    A tip for Dutch, or really North Sea weather caus it also counts for anything from Northern France too Norway or the UK: Always expect for the worst. Never leave your house without a rain jacket. Ware layers so you can take off something if it's hotter than expected.

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +3

      Very true, it does rain a lot. Thank you for watching 💝

    • @angelinasouren
      @angelinasouren Před měsícem

      Foldable umbrella

  • @Yvolve
    @Yvolve Před rokem +21

    On the subject of Dutch doctors and hospitals:
    Currently, the system is quite terrible because of government mismanagement but the idea is solid.
    You have a local GP (General Practitioner, or Huisarts) who will refer you to hospital if need be. You only go to hospital directly for emergencies. With the system being mismanaged, it is hard to find a GP as it is based on your postal code and some areas are densely populated but have few doctors. Keep calling local GP's to find someone who has an opening.
    As you mention, antibiotics resistance is an issue in countries where you can get those yourself, which is why it is highly regulated here. The same goes for most meds as many people can deal with their illness themselves, if their immune system is good. This is the reason you get paracetamol and a warm water compress, with the advice to eat fruit and vegetables, as that cures most basic illness. Most of the world is overmedicated, which means you need more to achieve the same, raising cost and making it harder to treat people.
    One of the main reasons this can be done is that we have unlimited sick days essentially. If you get sick, you can take the time to have your body take care of the problem. In the US for example, people overmedicate because calling in sick will cause them to lose their job, which is insane to me.

    • @kaasmeester5903
      @kaasmeester5903 Před rokem +3

      Another issue is that GPs got orders to minimize the nr. of referrals, especially for preventive care. "Take a pill and wait 3 days" is the mantra in NL. Thankfully not all GPs follow this.

    • @Yvolve
      @Yvolve Před rokem +2

      @@kaasmeester5903 Yes, that is a big problem but down to cost cutting and bad government policy.

    • @antbrk986
      @antbrk986 Před rokem +2

      @@kaasmeester5903 "GPs got orders to minimize the nr. of referrals" Source?

  • @tendaikamanga4058
    @tendaikamanga4058 Před rokem +4

    I always enjoy watching your videos ☺️ keep it up 😘❤️❤️

  • @spiralt4482
    @spiralt4482 Před 16 dny

    Personally, I definitely miss living in Holland (Rotterdam, Rijmond, Zwolle) and I am actually thinking about moving back. I hope you loved your time over there.

  • @greyy_097
    @greyy_097 Před rokem +5

    Honestly, you seem like a Sweet adorable person.😄, this video made my day better hearing you.

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +2

      You are so kind 🤗
      I'm glad it made your day. You're welcome to my channel

  • @yosoykarito
    @yosoykarito Před rokem +11

    New sub from Peru O(∩_∩)O The Netherlands is one of my favorite countries, the other one is Ireland :P. I love how Dutch people express their ideas without fear and sugar coating; I wish we had that feature in our Latin American culture. Directness could hurt but lies hurt even more, so I prefer honest people.

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much ❤️
      I completely agree with you, honesty is a great virtue.
      Welcome to the family 🤗

  • @Selynia26
    @Selynia26 Před 9 měsíci

    Loved your video😊

  • @jackvandersluis1723
    @jackvandersluis1723 Před rokem +9

    Such a nice vlog! Very good to see your experiences! 👍😊

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +3

      Thank you for watching 🙏🏿 I appreciate it

  • @zolekahoko
    @zolekahoko Před rokem +3

    Luv the consistency 😊❤❤❤

  • @dimrrider9133
    @dimrrider9133 Před 2 měsíci

    The weather haha you can have 4 seasons in 1 day.
    Directness: your a nice and beautifal lady who have a lovely reaction of our small country :)

  • @JourneywithKasitti
    @JourneywithKasitti Před 3 měsíci +1

    Nice one. How is school admission rate for international students?

  • @RealConstructor
    @RealConstructor Před rokem +15

    Please don’t beep words away, that’s not a habit or a regular thing in The Netherlands. You can say everything here. Only if you insult people, speak badly about someone or lie about something, you can get in some kind of trouble, but only after you said it. We are used to correct people afterwards, not upfront.

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +1

      Thank you 🙏🏿 I will take note of this.

    • @yasmeenahmaiden
      @yasmeenahmaiden Před rokem +5

      @P Constructor Sure, on Dutch TV it's pretty normal to have curse words or names of drugs etcetera mentioned without any issue. However, this is a video on CZcams, which is shown worldwide. It's policy for CZcams to demonetize videos if there's too much swear words or words pertaining to drugs used in the video. So it's really not a bad idea to either bleep such words out or use alternative words in this case, unless the person making videos is okay not receiving any add revenue money from them. 🤷‍♀️

    • @roykliffen9674
      @roykliffen9674 Před rokem +5

      @@ndinachila
      The commenter is not wrong .... within limits. We Dutch don't mind hearing "bad words" so your Dutch audience will in general not be offended.
      CZcams however have set themselves up as the "arbiter of decency" and will punish the use of words they don't like. I don't think words like "drugs" will be too problematic for YT, but they are notorious for not clearly stating what is allowed and what not (they like to keep their users in uncertainty so those users "self-censor" often to a higher degree than required in order not to lose their videos or their channel).
      Do simply edit your videos to what you yourself are feeling comfortable with.

  • @TheEvertw
    @TheEvertw Před rokem +5

    Had to smile about the coffeeshops. I guess that will be weird for new people ;-)
    But never mind, you can also go to a café (which is French for coffee). But most Dutch people go there for alcoholic beverages. Though they will serve coffee or tea, especially during the day (if open). But the best places for coffee are lunchrooms or restaurants, especially those with outdoor seating (terras).
    Coffee is so ingrained in Dutch culture that most people make their own coffee, both at home and at the workplace. Many shops also offer it to patrons, e.g. the higher-end clothing stores.

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +2

      Thank you for watching and sharing your comments, it's highly appreciated. I've also learnt from your comment. You're welcome to my channel 💝

  • @jeanmarc4956
    @jeanmarc4956 Před 28 dny

    hi i really liked your video... i am a web developer and i want to move into one of these europeans countries... is finding a job as a web developer hard?? or...?

  • @JFTM00
    @JFTM00 Před rokem +7

    To be honest, Nederland is seldom extreme; weatherlike, crime, response people, no bij slumberneigbourhoods and so on. Almost boring. By the way; Albert Heijn is known as expensive. Lidl, Aldi or other discounters are more cheaper and good enough. Healthcare starts at the Huisarts or Huisartspraktijk HAP. Hospital is just a second stage

  • @HoodsGlobal
    @HoodsGlobal Před 4 měsíci +1

    Does the " directness" apply to dating or do the women play games like in other countries?

  • @tubularap
    @tubularap Před rokem +12

    A pleasant video. As a Dutch person it is enlightening to hear your view, from the inside. You surely have rooted here already.
    One correction: You can definitely drink coffee in a Coffeeshop. Besides selling the ingredients for smoking, there is a range of non-alcohol drinks to order, like coffees, teas and soft drinks.
    The atmosphere inside may differ between them, but if you need to use a toilet, or want a coffee, please go into a Coffeeshop.
    Since the late 1970s, coffeehops were opened as a kind of 'facade' for the business of selling smoking ingredients. To give it a respectable front, even though everyone, including the authorities, knew what the main business was.

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +5

      Thank you so much for your comment and correction, I appreciate it. I actually didn’t know this, thank you! 🙏🏿now I know.

    • @idontgetsleep7568
      @idontgetsleep7568 Před 3 měsíci +1

      that sounds so so nice

  • @coppersulphate002
    @coppersulphate002 Před 3 měsíci

    what part of the Netherlands do you live?

  • @ronaldderooij1774
    @ronaldderooij1774 Před rokem +17

    Dutch and German people generally are quite direct. The rest of Europe not so much or not at all (UK, France Sweden). Inside the Netherlands, the east, and mostly so the province of Limburg is also not direct in communication.

    • @GregoryCoccox
      @GregoryCoccox Před rokem +5

      I don't understand why most people always refer to the Netherlands as "Randstad". In my opinion, the «real Dutch» do not live in big cities where commodification and money are the only purpose of life.
      G.

    • @ronaldderooij1774
      @ronaldderooij1774 Před rokem

      @@GregoryCoccox Most Dutchies live in the Randstad...

    • @mrnobody043
      @mrnobody043 Před rokem +9

      I live in the south and we are all direct here. You are confusing directness with politeness. In Limburg and especially the south, we are polite and direct. The more you go towards the Randstad, people go from polite directness to being rude and direct. Big difference.

    • @bikeamour
      @bikeamour Před rokem

      En bedankt hè, beleefde Zuderling! Van een zeer "rude" Rotterdammer 😉😇🤣

    • @mrnobody043
      @mrnobody043 Před rokem +2

      @@bikeamour haha, tsja.. het is wat het is he. kan er ook niets anders van maken.🤣

  • @ricardobrands9736
    @ricardobrands9736 Před rokem +4

    I think you took a local doctor for a hospital caus I never had a Dutch hospital decline a patient because he /. she is new. (Im dutch btw)

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +3

      Yeah, I probably did..thanks for your comment 🙏🏿

    • @ricardobrands9736
      @ricardobrands9736 Před rokem +2

      @@ndinachila your welcome. Local docters operate within certain postal codes for new clients. So for example i live in 3553ED. Only house doctor clinics who operate in the specific area will be able to take you in. Sometimes one of then is full. This is to enshure they can get to you quick in case of urgent need

    • @ricardobrands9736
      @ricardobrands9736 Před rokem +1

      If you ever experiance urgent need for care you can always go for your nearest hospital. They usualy have a special doctors post for this

    • @TheEvertw
      @TheEvertw Před rokem +3

      However, for non-emergency care, you must first go to a GP to be referred to a specialist. And many GP's accept no new patients. I can imagine a new citizen being confused & rebuffed multiple times.
      When a Dutch person moves to a different place, one of the first things they do is register with a local GP.
      The VVD is to blame for under-funding the health care system and making it less accessible. We need a more progressive government.

    • @ricardobrands9736
      @ricardobrands9736 Před rokem

      @@TheEvertwyeah definately

  • @Fii_traDes
    @Fii_traDes Před 11 měsíci +1

    I want to find out if a tourist visa is easy to be convert to work permit in holland?

  • @Christine-hr8in
    @Christine-hr8in Před měsícem

    How much times you gonna say "guys?"

  • @Mrevolva
    @Mrevolva Před rokem

    are you ready 😆🤩

  • @meticulousgeek
    @meticulousgeek Před rokem +5

    Well if you like potatoes you definitely came to the right country. Jokes aside, belated welcome to the lowlands!

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +1

      Thank you sm 🤗💝
      You're also welcome to my channel, please subscribe for more contents from me.

  • @sleepingbeautyoracle
    @sleepingbeautyoracle Před 5 měsíci

    I really want to visit for kings day.

    • @soulangela7154
      @soulangela7154 Před 4 měsíci

      If you do make sure you have the right date (27th of april but be sure to check)! The date can vary depending on what day it is and every year there's many confused tourists that come at the wrong date because King's day used to be Queen's day (30th of april) because we had a queen at the time. There's even a committee dedicated to throwing a party for said confused tourists so they didn't come for nothing.

  • @michelvoortman4725
    @michelvoortman4725 Před měsícem

    Debit cards, that's what we use. Credit cards rarely.

  • @user-th1jl4rg5f
    @user-th1jl4rg5f Před 12 dny

    Most Dutchies have never smoked a joint.

  • @sweetmotherofgirl
    @sweetmotherofgirl Před 6 měsíci +1

    I was cooking so maybe I missed it lol, but did you experience any sort of racism? I am white, but my children are mixed and their father is black. I love everything I’m hearing and we would like to move abroad when they reach high school, but I don’t want to plan or prepare to take my family somewhere that won’t be the best

  • @chubbymoth5810
    @chubbymoth5810 Před rokem +4

    Most countries where you get lots of medicines will have doctors benefit of prescribing them. It's not that you actually need them to get well. Here, doctors do not have an incentive to load you up with drugs that will whack you out for a bit and might be involved with a cure. Most medicines seem to be more a cure for Karens. "I feel sick,.. so gimme medicine!" Placebos do a great job for that.
    You have to think of the Dutch healthcare system as if it was a IT organisation. The GP in the doctors practise is the fly catcher like 1st line support. They help with the standard issues and only when they consider your condition serious, they will refer you to a hospital. That is the second line and they'll do the standard serious conditions. Then if you're really in a dire shape according to them you get sent to the third line, the academic hospital where they can exert their Frankenstein experiments upon your poor body.
    But yeah,.. most ailment do not require more than hot water, a cloth and maybe if you have a really high fever some paracetamol. If you are for sure in dire shape, you'll get sent straight to the hospital, like for instance when I came to my GP all yellow, I was sent from my GP to the hospital straight away. Finding a GP these days is quite a challenge some times, maybe ask a friendly neighbour if they can recommend one.

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem

      You're absolutely right, I'm starting to get a hang of it. The whole system makes more sense now.
      Thank you for watching and sharing your opinion. You're welcome to my channel 💝

    • @MadeToDanceStudio
      @MadeToDanceStudio Před 4 měsíci

      Cool vid, thank you. Q: How is this addressed if you have a chronic condition and have previously prescribed meds from South Africa?

  • @coppersulphate002
    @coppersulphate002 Před 3 měsíci

    Most Europeans except for the French are very direct

  • @nikershawvon-haffemendescr1456

    Netherlands sucks lol please stop it

    • @3I6M9
      @3I6M9 Před měsícem

      At last, an honest comment! Thankyou!

  • @marcusfranconium3392
    @marcusfranconium3392 Před rokem +9

    Dutch apreaciate honoust to the point awnsers and questions , no wasting of time , beating around the bush is often seen as dishounest , untrustworthy and reliable , a apointment is an apointment late is beeing on time . 2 minutes late people get mad 5 minutes they leave .

    • @ndinachila
      @ndinachila  Před rokem +1

      You’re absolutely right! And that’s something I appreciate about them.

    • @GregoryCoccox
      @GregoryCoccox Před rokem +2

      Right! The exact description of a robot. Actually no, I have to say that ChatGPT is more flexible.
      G.

  • @winwinmilieudefensie7757

    You can be direkt right back and reply i am 30+ no forther comments