Sibling Rivalry: The One About Queen Elizabeth
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- čas přidán 15. 09. 2022
- Queen Elizabeth II has died! This week Bob and Monet talk the monarchy, homeschooling, and colonics.
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as someone who was homeschooled, i've found that parents typically homeschool their kids to indoctrinate them (such as christian fundies controlling and converting their children). many kids who are homeschooled also experience educational neglect and may struggle when pursuing higher ed and just with life in general. my parents got caught up in the 90s evangelical homeschool craze and i honestly think i would have been so much happier as a child if i went to a public or private school.
Sorry to hear that. I personally dislike the Christian side to it. I think schools are the same way just with different things
There’s a really good documentary on Hulu that touches on this topic. It’s called Jesus Camp
I pray you find happiness and personal success and rise above to higher love. I pray we all do. Thank you for sharing your take on things. We all go through things for a reason.
this is bullshit...and not typical. Parents homeschool their kids to make sure their kids are getting a well rounded, diverse and open education. Its unfortunate that your experience was not based out of love
@@Askanison29 and they don't have to worry about their vhildren integrating if the parents don't want to 😂🤣😂🤣
“Always math. Every time math. Never not math.” Felt that 🥲
I strongly agree with Bob.. professional teachers are regularly trained, have a specific set of skills ...learned and consistently updated.. alot of home schooled children are missing alot actual instruction due to parents belief that if the teacher can do it so can they.. but they lack the true skills needed.
I was abused by my school and couldn't get some justice because the state owns the legal system too. I personally would be better off if I homeschooled myself like I wanted.
@@user-ml1kn9ml9e im sorry for what happened to you.
@@user-ml1kn9ml9e what school was it?
@@pugdad2555 one in Scotland
@@user-ml1kn9ml9e I was bullied at school too but my education was great. Everyone I've met who was homeschooled says they wish they went to a real school to have friends and freedom.
Fun fact about reparations in the UK - they were paid, but they were paid to the slave owners and not the slaves as the "cost of ending slavery". David Cameran (the PM from 2010-16, who started the Brexit mess) owes his family fortune to these payouts. He also famously (although not famously enough) went to the Jamaican parliament to get them to "get over" slavery, while proposing a "mega jail" in the islands to house "West Indian criminals". The tax payers in the UK were still paying off the reparations until 2015. Two years later, in 2017, was when the Windrush Scandal broke (which was the publication of the fact that the UK Government was illegally targeting and deporting West Indian migrants who were legally in the country).
There was also a mini scandal with the Queen when it came out during the 60s she had banned non-white people from having senior roles (i.e. above cleaning) in her households.
Paid until 2016. The same year that the UK lost documents and deported Windrush illegally
Not true. All of ur facts aren’t facts. Its just typical british tabloids rumors.
Same thing happened in America paid to slave owners and not the former enslaved.
yeeeeep exactly this!
Something we are proud of. Because of that we didn’t have a civil war, we dint have segregation and we aren’t the racist craphole like the US.
I've sown exactly zero outfits and Bob is simultaneously Monet's guiding light and inner saboteur.
Hello, Welsh viewer here. I come from a rural mountain village in Northern Wales and all the generations of my family (mostly the women, but that's because it's quite a traditional small community) can sew. My grandmother has been making at least a few full garments a week for the majority of her life, and I myself sew a lot of the time. I would say most of my family have sewn at least the equivilent of 20 outfits, but bear in mind that this is a very very tiny country and the small villages tend to be more traditional than the big cities. Sewing is often more of a necessity for poorer families, as it is cheaper to make a few garments for the children out of fabric than to buy new clothes.
this is so sweet 🥹 I’m from wales too and this reminded me of my nana who passed away she taught myself, mum and auntie how to sew, I’ll always cherish those memories ❤️
My dad got diagnosed with colon cancer almost 4 years ago. He died in August. My mom got diagnosed with it in April. It is a very difficult experience for all. I live in constant anxiety and fear of losing the one person who means the most to me- who has been with me my entire life so far. Helping my mom and making her happy is my purpose in life tbh. Knowing one day I’m going to be in this house with her missing from it destroys me.
I home schooled both of my sons & involved them in after school activities they are both college grads now. I sent them both to public high schools for the social experience - as an indigenous woman I was able to teach them about their culture much better
This episode is making me cry. ❤ Thank you for seeing the indigenous people of this land.
“My dad knows how to sew, my uncles know how to sew, my dad knows how to sew, my uncles know how to sew”
- Monét
Bob will create an argument out of nothing about who sews more dresses.. when Monet’s point was about using MATH
The entire monarchy legit owned slaves and help fund the slave trade. I would not honor anyone who would help in injustice like that. The richest people on earth have enough money to end world hunger and then still be rich yet they don’t. Without money, who are we as people truly? It’s crazy that something as simply as money truly does change how people see you and/or value you and it’s twisted truly. We need to love each other for who we are not for what we have.
I've sewn more than 20 outfits. I also designed a few of them. Pants, shorts, shirts, skirts. I designed my wedding dress. I bought fabric at stores, as well as vintage ones. I took apart some vintage drapes & made pants. It was so much fun.
I went to school in Southeast Asia during the 90s. Home rec was a required class every year. I learned how to cook, sew and woodworking. I can still fix simple patches/holes to this day but nothing too complicated. I’m not sure how the curriculum is now.
As someone who lives in Oklahoma and have been on the Rez a bunch, you really can see where the tax dollars end. Even in the areas surrounding, most of those cities are sorta ran down and you can see the poverty. It’s super sad.
It’s all Politics. (Sadly) especially knowing ( Stitt might not know) that OKLAHOMA is derived from an indigenous word!! 💔
I was "homeschooled" for one semester as a teen due to some health issues, but here where I live it works quite differently- teachers would come to my house every day and just teach lol. I must say it was a dreadful experience, felt really draining mentally.
I understand when Bob said the lands will never be given back to their rightful owners BUT we can start with stolen art & jewels that have significant historical value which are easier to do and does not need much resource to sustain. The rightful owners can do so much for the benefit of their people.
Here to raise my hand for having sewing skills, and I'm 30 and in Ireland. Tailoring for myself (or using as trading favours with pals) with my hemming and repair skillz is a huge passion, but I've only "made" a handful of full items. It's on the bucket list for learning, and have some patterns I'm itching to try out!
i wish they would bring back home ec in schools, for boys and girls. now theres some life skills everyone needs to learn.
My kids are in a virtual public school. A trained teacher picks out all the curriculum and does the lesson planning. The kids meet a couple times a day virtually with the teacher and other kids in their class to get their lesson. Then as a parent, my job is to help them do the work assigned and make sure they actually understand what they need to know. For us it is such a good option because we can customize most of the school day around each kids brain and learning style. Sure it's a full time job for me over seeing all the work, but my trans kid is safe and being in the rural south that would not be true in person. And since all my kids were getting bullied for being autistic before, not being in tradition public school is so much better.
*Monet is right 😭 I’ve sewn more than 20 times, not more than 30 though.*
My mom still had scars on her hands from Catholic school for being left handed
She must’ve had Dolores Umbridge 😭
My grandma taught me how to sew when I was younger on an old vintage sewing machine. so I grew up hemming pants, fixing pockets, or sewing on buttons. That translated to making outfits for my dolls, and now I work as a theatrical costume designer… and I still haven’t fully created 20 outfits from nothing in my life
it seems like they really do be arguing for the sake of arguing sometime 😂
I went to boarding school as a kid and I can say that it definitely comes with trade offs. I loved it, but especially as an oldest sibling, it affected my relationship with my family in a weird way (not always bad either) bc you basically end up being more like a cousin who visits once a month than another sibling. My parents still say they don’t know if it was the right choice (I was the one who’d wanted to go) but I think it was the right call.
(Canadian) my Grandma taught me to sew, knit, and crochet at a super young age. Made a bunch of clothes in highschool, costumes, alterations etc. Over 20 for sure. Also had to do mandatory 3 years of family studies/design & tech which included sewing projects in middle school.
Thank you so SO much for talking about us First Nation's Peoples 💜 I grew up on the rez but my mom moved us when I started h.s so I could have a chance in life after my brother dropped out. I tell people all the time I didn't experience hot water from a faucet until I was almost 5yrs old, slept on the floor until I got a mattress for my 15th bday, and didn't live somewhere with heat (other than using the oven or burners on the stove- yes dangerous af but so is hypothermia) until I was 15. When we moved, that was when I got to experience all those "luxury" things. Sidewalks, street lights, nice parks that people go to for reasons other than selling drugs or sleeping. The rez is 3rd world but I AM glad I learned our real history alongside what's in our white-washed textbooks.
we have a practice in australia called a welcome/acknowledgement of country, in which a space of time is made to pay respect for the traditional owners of the land, and i’ve always said if i ever went back to the US, that’d be a practice Id try to implement.
In Chicago we now have an enormous mural on the river that says "You are on Potawatomi land." It's a welcome reminder, and it's nice that all the architectural tour boats pass right by it. I would love to see it ceremonialized though.
I’ve been waiting for this episode 💁🏾♀️💕
I love that I randomly started watching this while sewing. I've sewn much more than 20 outfits and I'm American but I don't know anyone in my area who sews too, so I'm a complete unicorn in that regard. Sewing is making a comeback in general, though. It's a great skill to have.
I need Bob saying "Gash station Shooshi" in her Carol Channing voice lol!
'i don't have any memories that don't include the queen'
All i could see was the queen just babysitting Bob through childhood
So a few things:
1 - Monet is right, Louis XV of France ruled for slightly longer than Elizabeth (but he did become King as a baby)
2 - yes newscasters do change, also in realms like St Lucia and Canada, they have emergency lights to let them know something like that is about to happen
3 - building on the colonisation of America by Washington etc - I think really it should be offensive to say that just giving back some jewels or a few pockets of land is enough for reparations - returning the parts of the Crown jewels that you could identify with a country would almost absolve us of responsibility, when we could do far more with trade deals etc
4 - the reason Kate and William aren't holding hands is because it breaks protocol when royals are on business - Meghan is being vilified in the UK for doing it as patronising Harry (which don't even ask, right wing media is wild)
5 - Charles has always had weird hands and ears it's a thing he laughs about lol
6 - The Vivienne said on Drag Race UK1 she is a monarchist
7 - in the UK, as soon as that announcement of her doctors came out we knew she wouldn't live more than a day. It's just not an announcement they make - I'd guess she had a heart attack/stroke, but also maybe spinal cancer given her mobility issues over the past year
ugh gross as if the vivienne is a monarchist! she’s from liverpool for christ sake!
@@jifij89 she is haha - went to private school too, don't forget she isn't actually a Liverpudlian
The homestead community on youtube is WILD in that so many of them homeschool. No lie, this woman has like 7 or 8 children, and she homeschools. Tell me how that is humanly possible. The kids are mostly raising themselves. The woman says that because it's garden season, school is taking a backseat and that when winter comes they will school more. I'm like... uhm no. This is 2022. Put your kids on the bus and get them educated. So sad.
Monet: “that’s debatable, but...”
Bob: *challenge accepted*
Also bob: “you just want to argue…”
I'm from the Czech Republic and literally my entire family knows how to sew. All my grannies and aunts have sewn garments for their children. so i think monét is definitely right
In theory I agree with Bob, but as a kid with adhd teachers didn't do shit, and the only person who actually taught me anything was my mother, who improvised according to what worked for me. I went to a private school in India, and unfortunately teachers here just aren't equipped to teach neurodivergent students, and I'd have likely done much better if I was homeschooled (and I don't think the reality in other countries is any better).
i get that, yeah - that's unfortunately a reality for neurodivergent kids. however, my mom also wasn't equipped to accommodate for my adhd when educating me and instead called me lazy and got angry at me lol. i think overall psychoeducation needs to be more commonplace in both public/private school, homeschool, and higher ed curriculum, that way when people grow up and decide to be educators (or any other profession really) they understand neurodivergency a bit better.
@@kayzamo oh yeah i was just lucky in that sense, but you're right!
I was at the first show in St. Louis and guuuuuurl😭😭 y’all are in for iiiit
Bob you do you know how it feels. I lost my mom 2021 and I am still in hiding and even missed your show at the Irvine comedy place.
HAVE BEEN DYING FOR THIS EPISODE!
not like the queen
In the early 90s, my school had home economics class… and everyone boys and girls were taught how to sew along with other important life skills. we would make shorts, a pillowcase and quilt squares. Also, was taught personal finances, how to cook, the baby bag of flour and family planning and volunteerism. And it wasn’t a boy/girl thing, everyone took it.
I’m one of the kids who couldn’t afford to go to public high school, but not because of lunch. In Northern California, I lived 2 hours away from the only high school in the county. And in the late 90s, they made people buy a “bus pass” for $484 a semester, and there was no waiver for people living in abject poverty. They let us use the bus for free for 6 weeks, but after that we had to either buy the semester pass or buy a ticket to ride the school bus every day for $8 one way every day. So I had to switch to going to a charter school where I only had to be on campus once a week.
In the United States, there is a law called the Native American Graves Protection and Repatriation Act (NAGPRA), where museums must return ancestral remains and specific items in their collections to Native American Tribes.
As a southeast asian yesss i can confirm!!! Monet's right
Been sewing for 20 years and always learning. 😎
im a southeast asian from the philipines and yes we larned how to sew
our project with sewing is to basically sew a neck pillow
I am from Asia, the Philippines and yes everyone around me learns how to sow, it's required to be taught in class
I'm from Southeast Asia. Can't say much about other parts of the region because surprise, it's VERY diverse here. But in my country Malaysia, we learned sewing at school. Just basic sewing. We can fix a tear or sew a sleeve, but definitely not a full gown.
Monet is right , even in uk schools we are taught 3 years of textiles
I hear pretty often people say "I've never used *insert math* so why did I learn it" and I'm an engineering student now so I'd be pretty pissed if I never learned sin-cos-tan as a kid bc I use it practically every day. I'll never use a thesis tho but it's still worth learning to know that I hate writing lol
if you’re a student writing a thesis is obviously a key part of your college experience
Bob was like a cranky unbothered gramma today lol more than usual
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(Really?) Proofreading = it’s what’s for dinner dude…
🌈🫒
Please bring your tour to Ottawa, a sell-out show I'm sure.
I'm Caribbean and I can attest it is a basic skill, mostly for repair/maintenance but my mother has probably sewn more outfits than Monet cause she had a side hustle when she was like 10 selling doll outfits based on what Iris Chacón was wearing and she made me an entire collection bomba dresses growing up 😅
How do you catch a super fast rabbit?? Girl, unique up on them!
yasss im on break and it just came out yeaaaa
I got ill as a preteen so most of my teenage education wasn't mainstream. During the times I was well enough, I had a mixture of home tutoring from a professional tutor and being self taught from the textbooks. I definitely benefitted more from the self-taught stuff than the tutoring but I expect that is unusual.
Homeschool could actually be a lot cheaper than public school. I mean think about the clothes and transportation alone. Then there's field trips and those ridiculously long school supply lists that kids are expected to have.
My kids are in virtual public school but most people thinking they are homeschooled because they are at home. It is WAY cheaper for us. We aren't buying curriculum because the school provides that (so that's a homeschool expense we don't have) but the school supply list is under $20 now as over $150 for in person. Plus we aren't having to replace gloves, hats, coats, and shoes constantly because they aren't getting bullied and having all their stuff stolen all the time.
People in general don't really understand that education is the cornerstone to society, and to think that ANYONE can just educate... and educate children of all things, honestly a bit ignorant. Value your teachers.
Monet:Alot of people do!Bob:ALOT OF PEOPLE SMOKE CRACK TO.LOL🤣😂🤣
I’m from the UK and ALL children learn basic sewing skills in school in their Design & Technology classes… Even how to thread a sewing machine ❤
I’ve sewn a pull string tote bag and that’s all but I know how to pin a pattern and cut out an outfit but haven’t sewn it all together.
as an west african monet is right about the learning of basic skills like sewing mechanics etc in your childhood even tho I dont think most people can put a whole outfit together most people would know how to fix something or throw something together
From my experience with having friends from both home school and a small private schools. They have a hard time socializing and rather stunted in social situations.
They have closed down everything in England or even the UK, my doctors energy suppliers supermarkets texted our phones to say they're closed, because the Queen funeral people had to cancel funerals and even planned surgery's I had to top up my gas and electricity because if it cut out Monday it will be off 6pm everything they have put to full stop, food banks will be closed its crazy! I have to make sure I have everything in my house and topped up as things are closed
it’s so stressful! and think about the cost to the tax payer…it’s dystopian. i hope your electric lasts for you! i didn’t even know that about the food banks, just horrendous. how can anyone defend it
lol..as South Asian, sewing and stitching are taught as basic skills, you either learn by observing or taught in school. It is not even uncommon to have threads, needles, buttons, pins and hooks as a kit handy in case of emergency when students go to universities and such.
It is also pretty universal, that those sewing kits are kept in the butter-cookies blue tin.
Bob was on one
homeschooling groups are legal. Usually when you homeschool you get a curriculum from the state and then you can add to/tailor it. Many homeschooled kids actually excel academically because they don’t have to follow a set curriculum and schedule that isn’t suited for them.
Some places even have homeschool sports teams that compete with public schools.
I'm not a parent and I wasn't homeschooled but I believe most choose to do so because they have strong beliefs or concerns about the content their children are being taught. Sometimes parents want to limit what their children are being exposed to or they think thwir children need more one on one / advanced teaching.
Paddling is a thing at the school I graduated from.
There’s a wooden paddle that the principal has. They call you out of class into the hallway. The teacher goes with you & has to watch while they spank you 3 times.
It’s all ages, pre-k to 12th grade.
Your parents have to sign the form giving the school permission.
There’s a no-paddling list, which my dad always made sure I was on. Those kids get suspensions or detentions instead of paddlings.
It’s mad weird. The Bible Belt is a weird place.
19:24 Same. It's wild to see after 40 years thinking everyone was like that. It was always viewed as one of the most disrespectful things you can do.
You can visit the reservations I suggest the Cherokee reservation
We stan educated and respectful girlies discussing the queen's death xx
as a pakistani person, i wanna say Monet might be correct, Girls learn how to sew from their moms, and my grandma, mom, cousins and myself know how to sew and have sewn over 20.
Secondly I would have loved to be a stranger, cousin, sibling but cant cuz paypal dont exist here and card payments from Pak were not available. so was wondering if yall can help me fix that as i do like ur content
Hiiii biiiiitchhh
Love you Bertha and Monica
Come visit Oregon 🙏
I’m south East Asian I had to take a mandatory sewing class in 4th/5th grade I think in general Asian countries or non western countries have a lot of “lifestyle” classes or customs sometimes if students got to school early they were able to clean the school (sweeping the leaves, waxing the floor) we weren’t forced to tho we just thought it was fun doing adult things and would fight for it. Thinking back I can’t believe they got us to do free child labor
This channel just debate class
Does Bob think the entire world watches this to use the comments section as a gauge for the worldwide population of sewers?? lmao
i homeschooled my kid for Kindergarten due to rona…also anxiety about her being treated unfairly as a Black girl. cuz i remember what it was like. but i also have a degree in math and i’m now teaching high school math 🤣
i only give 2-3 homework problems from Monday-Thursday unless they’re on their phones.
15:34 monet is right seeing is in the curriculum in HELE, (home economics life something something i forgot) i cant doeak for every single southeast asian country but i know that in the philippines there is
Sewing was taught in elementary school in Peru; I know how to fix things. I don’t make outfits.
Bob is so on point about "gut health" being a redflag, immediately dont trust those people
I have never sowed anything except a cushion I made in class at school when I was like 8
Thanks Bob for releasing that BOP of a song on my birthday! Best present ever! Lol
I've sewn nary a single bit of cloth
Southeast asian here, Malaysia to be specific and yes we do learn the basics of sewing in public school when we're around 15yrs old. But I doubt anyone remembers what we learnt back then lol
Is it just me, or has bob been like, unwilling to break his irritation with monet recently? 🤣 it feels very different between them than it once was. My husband and I were down the rabbit hole of old sibling content and we are like wowwww bob def over monet these days
@organicbadvibes dude bob helped monet prepare for AS7 and has been very supportive. Remember the filming of this show was 2021.
Nahhh I don’t think bob is bitter. That doesn’t feel like bob at all to me. I’m sure he did help. No, my vibe is that something has gone on between them to cause strife, and while monet plays like there is no prob or rather doesn’t acknowledge it, bob is like “nope, ain’t doin it, you know it’s beef right now”
That’s the vibe I get. However, I DONT KNOW SHIT, like bob said this episode “what do I know?”
I think two friends are just in the shit right now but they’ve committed to us and to their tour etc so they are shouldering through it till it hopefully resolves and they are back to basics. THATS WHAT I THINK
I just feel the “I ain’t havin it, be fake if you want then” vibe from bob. And I could totally understand mo being like “well bitch we on cam we can’t just be pissy or there is no episode”
I see both sides. I get it either way. Hope they get back to their roots organically. Love them both
The thing about more advanced math in school is not neccesarily that you will use those specific tools ex. Sin&tan (in some professions you do, obviously, but not most) but rather that you get to work your brain and develop problem solving skills. I’ve studied 5 years of engineering with countless math classes and I’m probably never going to use some of those math skills again, but without taking those classes I would probably not do as well in my actual job, if that makes sense.
Our uniqueness is our similarity.
Home schooling can include cyber school. Also, I knew kids who were home schooled who went to the library and met with an educator. Homeschooling benefits is the fact that it's only 3 to 5 hours a day instead of 8.
To oppose people who say that home schooled kids are not socialized. All the homeschoolers I knew had many extracurricular activities including dance spelling bees singing lessons.
If I ever decided to homeschool my child. They would have an educator come to the house. Then afterwards they'd do extracurricular activities.
I love bob face hahaha
My grandchildren are homeschooling and The government provides all curriculum on line and All Books Free through the 12th grade till they graduate. But children in another sense need to get to socialize and meet friends like we did and have sleepovers and stuff.
I am only 7 min in and this is WILD
16 min in and it’s STILL WILD
I've never sown an outfit lol
Also if you want to prevent Alzheimers, try to avoid things like extended periods of screen time or tiktoking for too long. It comes down to nueroplasticity; if you train your brain in concentration or doing a single thing for extended periods than your brain will better be able to hold those mental channels or build those bridges.
Sewing would be a great way to temper your mental acuity but the more quickly you filter through content or do multiple things than the less time your brain spends on holding onto or working on a process. Your brain needs exercise just like any other muscle or you lose functionality. You can meditate, sew, go for a quiet walk - you just have to really concentrate on what your doing and devote yourself into it fully.
Honestly the “queen” gets nothing from me, not even dust.
Colon cancer screenings is now 45 for those without a family history, but 40 for those with a history. I am about to schedule my first. Yay. 😆
The poop transplants are specifically for "C. difficile", which is a very serious, potentially fatal condition.
Jamaica (my parents' birthplace) is getting rid of the monarchy (i.e., leaving the Realm), but like Barbados will probably remain in the Commonwealth. I wouldn't be surprised if St. Lucia doesn't do the same.
There is an irony that Meghan has been targeted for stuff other people aren't (the memes are kinda funny) in that the Queen was the one royal that Meghan liked (and it was a mutual thing too).
you're right, Monet about the "mami" name. I had a bartender manager from Barbados and he wanted to call a Hot Toddy inspired drink. He wanted to call it "mami" bc they are those whom cares for somebody when ill. Another server and I quickly grabbed him in and took him aside and told him NOT to use that (in Midtown Atl, GA). He explained that the negative mami is NOT what he grew up with... he was sadder that day,
When crossing the New Mexico border to go to Texas you feel the tax dollars increase! Driving a faded potholed highway to a smooth road with very little litter. New Mexico has a lot of reservations and we are a very poor state.
Why does bob seem so annoyed recently
I've sewed more than 20 outfits...but I'm a professional performing artist.