The TRUTH About Justin Bieber's MISERABLE and MESSY Marriage to Hailey Bieber | LGII EP 37

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    #justinbieber was pretty much hunted down by his wife #haileybieber Theories have flooded the internet about how it all started, #selenagomez role in the drama, and how truly happy the couple are now.
    Fans can't help but to speculate that Justin's miserable in his marriage after watching him slam the car door on his wife, tell her to get off of him, and continues to show major signs of resentment, so, let's get into it.
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  • @LetsGetIntoIt
    @LetsGetIntoIt  Před 4 měsíci +94

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    • @zelle8651
      @zelle8651 Před 4 měsíci +12

      This should be titled hailey bieber's miserable relationship w justin. Not vese-a-versa

    • @rachaddle6581
      @rachaddle6581 Před 4 měsíci

      Um..hello..Justin is OBVIOUSLY ipopping pills!!! I know certain pills cause major agitation.. causes irritability. THIS is exactly what we are witnessing.🔴🔴🔴

    • @rachaddle6581
      @rachaddle6581 Před 4 měsíci

      Um..hello..Justin is OBVIOUSLY ipopping pills!!! I know certain pills cause major agitation.. causes irritability. THIS is exactly what we are witnessing.🔴🔴🔴

    • @ArtIsDrawing
      @ArtIsDrawing Před 4 měsíci +9

      Hailey needs to give him some space though

    • @sheenacouture7657
      @sheenacouture7657 Před 4 měsíci +1

      He was joking tho

  • @pabloescobarschanclas
    @pabloescobarschanclas Před 4 měsíci +7469

    hailey is a classic example of “be careful what you wish for.”

    • @MD-lm1ks
      @MD-lm1ks Před 4 měsíci +65

      💯

    • @cece5088
      @cece5088 Před 4 měsíci +256

      With his name she is able to have a career, nobody knew who she was before Bieber..To me it's pretty clear she's after fame and attention,that's her true drive and that's why she does everything she does..

    • @jillianbaer5217
      @jillianbaer5217 Před 4 měsíci +154

      Oh yeah! I made the same mistake. Not with a celebrity but still I wished for someone, got them & it wasn't exactly the fairy tale I was hoping for😣

    • @skylar_kada
      @skylar_kada Před 4 měsíci +174

      No, she’s a classic example of children marrying each other. If she’d waited and been in a few relationships, she’d have gone through the usual cycle of being burned, and learning to see and find the red flags before committing to anyone. And the adults around her failed her, because all they saw was a famous name and a lot of money, instead of an abusive boy with a complicated past he hasn’t fully understood is not an excuse to hurt people in his life.

    • @pabloescobarschanclas
      @pabloescobarschanclas Před 4 měsíci +41

      @@skylar_kada why can’t it be both?

  • @HeraclitusThoughtBubbles
    @HeraclitusThoughtBubbles Před 3 měsíci +2640

    I was with a man that didn’t love me once.
    He was checked out, annoyed, he walked fast, left me behind, talked to other girls, was disrespectful.
    So i left him. Several years later he looks like a roach to me.

    • @Anastasia-vk3sc
      @Anastasia-vk3sc Před 3 měsíci +26

      And then? Tell more please 😮

    • @indrinita
      @indrinita Před 3 měsíci

      I have lived this story. My ex is totally the biggest loser I know and everyone wondered why I even gave him the time of day, since I was actually out of his league. The world will go to great lengths to make girls and women believe they are garbage so that we put up with actual garbage from so called men when we don't know any better. If I see anything about my ex now, he's so disgusting to look at, totally ugly both inside and out. No idea how I ever made myself believe he was worth my time at all.

    • @HeraclitusThoughtBubbles
      @HeraclitusThoughtBubbles Před 3 měsíci +254

      @@Anastasia-vk3sc nothing to tell really. He tries to contact me from time to time through my friends and family and it doesn’t work because I don’t care about him anymore.
      People like that are a waste of time.

    • @urnaashk
      @urnaashk Před 3 měsíci +23

      So true

    • @KhaosChilde97
      @KhaosChilde97 Před 3 měsíci +80

      If it was a lack of love on Biebers part, i think she may have done the same as you and walked away by now. But even i who dont follow these 2 people’s relationship, can see that she mothers him quite a bit. Bieber is a broken man in a lot of ways. He very obviously has a lot of demons and i dont think hes really dealt with them. She feels the need to stay to take care of him, but i think that just makes him resent her more because he knows how badly he treats her and any self hatred he already had is magnified the longer she stays with him. This is toxic for both people.

  • @toriamigo
    @toriamigo Před měsícem +181

    Anybody who has known or been in an emotionally or physically abusive relationship knows that the one receiving the abuse will always talk highly of their abuser until they are ready to speak up

    • @stephp7778
      @stephp7778 Před 28 dny +6

      Yes

    • @Justheretolisten
      @Justheretolisten Před 13 dny +4

      Ok... let's see if or how Justin will talk about P.Diddy

    • @miggs80
      @miggs80 Před 4 dny

      You don’t know them though so you don’t know anything about their marriage. Facts are awesome

    • @stephp7778
      @stephp7778 Před 4 dny +1

      @@miggs80 no one knows exactly but Hailey said it herself early in their marriage that she couldn't do it any longer.. apparently her mother told her to hang in there. Marriage shouldn't make you feel that way.

  • @tina50ify
    @tina50ify Před měsícem +99

    She is being emotionally abused, and doesn't even see it. Instead, she just keeps trying to be what she thinks He WANTS, and blames herself for the way he treats her. She need to get out of this marriage otherwise its going mess up her mind for many many years.

    • @barbaradomingo5103
      @barbaradomingo5103 Před 16 dny

      This is when you socializing with Diddy this is what Diddy did to him.!!

    • @jihadamcsween2677
      @jihadamcsween2677 Před 15 dny

      Okay but it’s his responsibility to heal from the trauma he’s experienced

    • @LadyCeLovesHerFans
      @LadyCeLovesHerFans Před 15 dny +1

      This. But she is so young she will just learn to value her mental health as she grows older

    • @blacksugar7773
      @blacksugar7773 Před 12 dny

      This. free her

    • @debrapillay
      @debrapillay Před 12 hodinami

      It's weird seeing them cz she always looks so put together and he looks homeless 😩she got pregnant after the cassie news broke n Justin's name was thrown in that time too

  • @jollycat1374
    @jollycat1374 Před 2 měsíci +1207

    It sucks to be married to someone who acts like an enemy.

    • @leeluvslife
      @leeluvslife Před 2 měsíci +42

      The fact that he's not at all protective of her gives me such a bad feeling.

    • @andrajurubitamarin5379
      @andrajurubitamarin5379 Před 2 měsíci

      She trashed a good-hearted, innocent person - they destroyed her ,almost killed her ... they deserve everything bad! Hope Miss trashybieber gets all the worse of Justin side!👌😘

    • @corrinnelindsey6568
      @corrinnelindsey6568 Před 2 měsíci +32

      He’s definitely her worst enemy. He didn’t even defend her a year ago when the whole Hailey vs Selena stuff was happening. If I was her that would’ve been the last straw for me

    • @vr8921
      @vr8921 Před 2 měsíci +32

      Its the loneliest feeling in the world when you are married to someone and you realize they don’t love you, after years of that checked-out bare minimum attitude

    • @La_br00tal_mija
      @La_br00tal_mija Před 2 měsíci +19

      @@vr8921she was so dead set on being Mrs Beibs she CHOSE to look past the incompatibility. She made her bed.

  • @KP-nk7fo
    @KP-nk7fo Před 4 měsíci +4644

    Hailey is a classic case of “I want him regardless if he wants me.”

    • @DemonChildNicoRobin2.0
      @DemonChildNicoRobin2.0 Před 4 měsíci +365

      “If I can’t have him, no one will” typa chick, for sure.

    • @jika1986
      @jika1986 Před 4 měsíci +36

      So true!

    • @anitagallagher5144
      @anitagallagher5144 Před 4 měsíci +162

      Part of me feels sorry for her, as watching them makes me feel very so uncomfortable!!!! 😢
      However, going back in time, she pursued him, endlessly with a 'mean girl' attitude, as "if he wasn't HER woman, no other woman" can have him! Regardless of the consequences.....
      Kinda like in a spoilt brat with a narcissistic manner. Breaking any girl code, I suspect.
      Including Being emotionally cruel and showing off at other along the way, with glee.
      And therefore, reducing any respect for herself, as merely as, the shameless stalker!!!
      She kinda oozes a jealousy and clinginess about her. I think she may have some regrets about, the lengths she went to, to procure him, as her "ultimate prize'....
      She certainly did dish some nasty stuff out herself, along the way!
      Obviously, in the long term, she done herself, no favours.😑
      This is what happens when a narcissist, claims, a prime narcissist, as their 'prize" goal......
      Justin will now say he feels 'trapped' and then justify his lashing out at her.
      This relationship is toxic, and sadly looks like a car crash, for all involved 😢

    • @jetmechgirl9022
      @jetmechgirl9022 Před 4 měsíci +64

      I don’t agree, I think she loves him and stands by her commitment. Not everyone runs away at the first sign of trouble.

    • @maritzamims7678
      @maritzamims7678 Před 4 měsíci +47

      She does love him. Fans do love their celeb crush and dream to be with them forever lol. Is probably why they take the abuse just to be with their crush. So yeah she'll never leave. ​@jetmechgirl9022

  • @kristineroyster3432
    @kristineroyster3432 Před měsícem +126

    The don’t touch me comment shows he was abused growing up! She is married to an unhealed person

    • @InTheNameOfLove.
      @InTheNameOfLove. Před 9 dny +7

      That's so sad.... for both! 💔

    • @itschokoreto8863
      @itschokoreto8863 Před 7 dny +3

      Totally agree.

    • @ufuomajaja5312
      @ufuomajaja5312 Před 5 dny +1

      Yes 100%

    • @rachael8646
      @rachael8646 Před 3 dny +1

      There are a lot of reasons a person may not want to be touched at any time. I can be like that often just when I am over stimulated.

  • @janscott602
    @janscott602 Před měsícem +96

    Two kids get married while one is on the rebound… not off to a good start.

  • @ac9938
    @ac9938 Před 3 měsíci +1836

    You can tell in her body language how badly she wants to connect with him while he feels suffocated by her.

    • @Lemana28021989
      @Lemana28021989 Před 3 měsíci +217

      He is suffocated by his inner self and blames it on the ones around him

    • @jessahgase6919
      @jessahgase6919 Před 2 měsíci +114

      She is very insecure in their relationship. So, she clings to him, which causes him to push her away because he has no room to breathe

    • @hippiegypsygirl
      @hippiegypsygirl Před 2 měsíci

      @@Lemana28021989holy shit…. Thank you for writing this! I think I do this. Reading it how you put it just made a lightbulb go off. Now how do you unsuffocate your inner self

    • @Antinatalists_Unite
      @Antinatalists_Unite Před 2 měsíci +51

      No one knows what goes on in a relationship except the people in it. Sure people can spot toxicity or when something's off but the dynamics outside the public view are unknown.

    • @munchems
      @munchems Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@Lemana28021989you nailed it. It’s not her, it’s himself. He was let down by every single person in his life that was supposed to love and protect him and instead threw him to the wolves. He needs help to heal and learn how to love himself.

  • @dry_critical
    @dry_critical Před 4 měsíci +1184

    Guys, remember not to become your partner's full-time caregiver and therapist. There is a difference between supporting a partner in a difficult situation and providing complete care to a functioning adult.

    • @La-PetitMort
      @La-PetitMort Před 2 měsíci +47

      ​@@mjesns77guys is a universal term and this advice can apply to everyone.

    • @stephp7778
      @stephp7778 Před měsícem +2

      @@La-PetitMort absolutely

    • @jihadamcsween2677
      @jihadamcsween2677 Před 15 dny +4

      Codependency

    • @NatzTalk
      @NatzTalk Před 12 dny +4

      Easier said than done.

  • @Diddlydoodly420
    @Diddlydoodly420 Před měsícem +383

    I know for a fact he puts his hands on her, ain’t no way you are THAT comfortable hurting someone like that in public without knocking their head off in private.

    • @joBearCreekYoungblood
      @joBearCreekYoungblood Před měsícem +29

      I said the same thing he thought it was way too funny for him to humiliate her like that in public for him not to be doing much worse in private

    • @Diddlydoodly420
      @Diddlydoodly420 Před měsícem

      @@joBearCreekYoungblood he’s beating the shit out of her every day because of what diddy did to him. He don’t know to be with women even though he wants too because well diddy took his ass. 😞😞😞

    • @stephp7778
      @stephp7778 Před měsícem +17

      Maybe not because Selena made it clear in an interview that she was mentally abused not physically....I'd suspect he would be consistent in his behaviour regardless of who it is.

    • @Diddlydoodly420
      @Diddlydoodly420 Před měsícem +24

      @@stephp7778 maybe he progressed to be worse over time.

    • @stephp7778
      @stephp7778 Před měsícem +4

      @@Diddlydoodly420 yikes...hopefully not

  • @samanthahunter1759
    @samanthahunter1759 Před měsícem +91

    I loved my ex so much but clearly far more than he loved me. Seeing Hailey looking at Justin with so much love whilst he just looks miserable, it reminds me of my past. Thank god im out and on the road to healing!

  • @EarthChildYoga
    @EarthChildYoga Před 4 měsíci +2302

    I was in a toxic relationship and I know exactly how it feels to be treated like this, terrible flash backs, just don’t…..

    • @emallace447
      @emallace447 Před 4 měsíci +71

      Me too! So sorry you also experienced this. It takes a long time to process and recover from.

    • @joselinalcocer3469
      @joselinalcocer3469 Před 4 měsíci +1

      B

    • @meliss9536
      @meliss9536 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Same

    • @AnastasiaWarden
      @AnastasiaWarden Před 4 měsíci +57

      I was once as well. I hope Hailey finds happiness elsewhere. I don't think Justin treats her very well.

    • @tanidancer5628
      @tanidancer5628 Před 4 měsíci +13

      yeah I totally see it also. I am still in it unfortunately

  • @michellemalan2237
    @michellemalan2237 Před 4 měsíci +2846

    I don't know how Hailey deals with all this, it's so embarrassing and literally the whole world knows about it. I'd die.

    • @jaclynns.jungle
      @jaclynns.jungle Před 4 měsíci +75

      Love makes you delulu 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @twothousandandchew
      @twothousandandchew Před 4 měsíci +101

      @@jaclynns.jungleno. no it doesn’t. maybe this “you give me just enough attention to get my hopes up” type of “love” but not real mutual love

    • @sam11297
      @sam11297 Před 4 měsíci +95

      Totally agree. She seems delusional and defends him. It really is embarrassing, even just the fact that he truly never looks happy with her and has never looked at her the way he looked at Selena. Not saying I want him and Selena together, but just saying that I almost feel bad for her. She should want more for herself.

    • @jaclynns.jungle
      @jaclynns.jungle Před 4 měsíci +23

      @@twothousandandchew did I say it was healthy? No I did not babe. When you're that in love and obsessed, you don't see the red flags. It's not that deep.

    • @frenchgirl5878
      @frenchgirl5878 Před 4 měsíci +67

      She thinks she’s living the y/n dream. She literally married her idol. Maybe she’s trying to make it last. Idk.

  • @peparonderos
    @peparonderos Před měsícem +103

    He doesn't love her at all and she is obsessed with him, to be honest I don't know what is worse, together they have created the perfect storm. It is sad to see how he treats her and she never complains because she doesn’t wanna loose him. They are the perfect example of a really toxic relationship.

    • @BebeBijou
      @BebeBijou Před 25 dny +6

      It's a passport marriage; dnt be fooled! She tried to make him fall in love wt her, but as we can see, she failed miserably. He has too many skeletons in his closet that interfere wt his love life until then, and when he's done, he figured out his issues and deals wt the abuse and raw emotion he goes through

    • @demand1575
      @demand1575 Před 21 dnem +6

      For certain. And now it's coming out that a few of the Karjenner girls took Salena out of the country while the rest of them stayed back to hook their friend Hailey up with Justin & it worked. He loved Salena.

    • @monalisa9949
      @monalisa9949 Před 17 dny +5

      @@BebeBijouexactly what you said and what he said, it was arranged. She is his handler, it is a business contract. Only he wasn’t to ever find out, he did tho. Thats the thing they talk about that made him change his idea of her.

    • @jihadamcsween2677
      @jihadamcsween2677 Před 15 dny

      It’s abusive

    • @Diana-whathappenedin97
      @Diana-whathappenedin97 Před 14 dny +6

      @@monalisa9949it is arranged and for some reason he can’t leave, so he pushes her to limits and to divorce him.

  • @queenmaxinew2707
    @queenmaxinew2707 Před 23 dny +55

    HE HAS BEEN ABUSED, SEXUALLY TRAUMATIZED BY MEN, AND WOMEN, THEREFORE HE'S SEXUALLY CONFUSED, MISPLACING HIS ANGER😢

  • @srose1088
    @srose1088 Před 4 měsíci +2164

    Idk Justin's relationship history, but he comes off as the guy who will push you away, avoiding the brake up so that you will hopefully do it for him.

    • @abbied
      @abbied Před 4 měsíci +3

      Do what for him though? (Idgi) ://

    • @abbied
      @abbied Před 4 měsíci +23

      Break up with him (you mean?) ://

    • @srose1088
      @srose1088 Před 4 měsíci +113

      @@abbied do the breaking up. In this case, it would be divorce or separation in the technical. If you act like an a-hole, the person on the receiving end might end it, so you don't have to be the one ending it.

    • @abbied
      @abbied Před 4 měsíci +50

      @@srose1088 That’s why Selena Gomez broke up with him to begin with 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️😭😭😭😭

    • @abbied
      @abbied Před 4 měsíci +43

      @@srose1088 When’s Biebs gonna learn (or is he ever?) That boy needed a father but if you research it his father is an even bigger piece of work than Biebs (so I don’t totally blame him) but yeah 🤧😭

  • @Crystallightclarity
    @Crystallightclarity Před 4 měsíci +1616

    So glad none of my toxic relationship was documented, filmed or photographed and put online. Being in the spotlight is overrated! How heartbreaking for her 💔

    • @EnidWellness
      @EnidWellness Před 4 měsíci +7

      Same!

    • @amaliaosorio6147
      @amaliaosorio6147 Před 4 měsíci +16

      No te preocupes Hailey no conoce la verguenza.

    • @theoutsiderjess4869
      @theoutsiderjess4869 Před 4 měsíci +34

      She also literally stalked him for years so I dont feel to bad for her

    • @berry6467
      @berry6467 Před 4 měsíci +23

      She stalked him and wanted the attention

    • @anayarey
      @anayarey Před 4 měsíci +3

      If she has a prenup she can just leave and still has money, good to go. Or does she automatically get half of his money?

  • @coolcat3452
    @coolcat3452 Před 26 dny +52

    She stalked him; now she got him & realised he was not all his cracked up to be!!!😂😂😂😂😅😅😅

  • @nicoletamburello452
    @nicoletamburello452 Před měsícem +29

    He got married in 2018. He asked Selena Gomez first and she said no so he married Hailey because his visa was about to expire. He also had to stay married for at least 5 years. Its been a little over 5 years.

  • @maylynbayani
    @maylynbayani Před 4 měsíci +3210

    I'm not a fan of any of these people but damn, I feel bad for Hailey. He treats her like an enemy, not a wife. She got herself a spoiled son, not a husband.

    • @The.Hawaiian.Kingdom
      @The.Hawaiian.Kingdom Před 4 měsíci +180

      Don’t feel too bad, she bullies his ex on social media, total mean girl vibes. They may just be perfect for each other… he’s just used to cameras and she’s trying to pretend she’s a good girl still.

    • @jessikadeline7492
      @jessikadeline7492 Před 4 měsíci +21

      I feel sooo bad 4 her, she def deserves better😢

    • @YouWillGetThereBuddy
      @YouWillGetThereBuddy Před 4 měsíci +98

      @@jessikadeline7492Nah mean girls deserve this treatment honestly. Used to feel bad for her cuz she chose a grown child for a husband but bullying people online and also home-wrecking so you can be famous is wild to me… They deserve each other. He seems miserable because of choice he made and she seems miserable because of choices she’s made.

    • @Aylii1
      @Aylii1 Před 4 měsíci +16

      @@The.Hawaiian.KingdomI mean can you blame her? I don’t support it at all, but do you even see the extremes of this situation and how that could impact someone’s mental? Put yourself in her shoes and just imagine.

    • @The.Hawaiian.Kingdom
      @The.Hawaiian.Kingdom Před 4 měsíci +30

      @@Aylii1
      You’re being a hypocrite. You can’t say _”I don’t support it at all”_ yet try to justify it… that’s in fact supporting it.
      Yes I can blame her, she’s an adult, have you forgotten she’s married?!?!
      Children being bully’s is bad, adults being bully’s is disgusting, immature, childish, and pathetic.
      You can’t take your pain out on others, especially not people completely innocent in a situation & manipulating others to join in on you bullying is even worse.
      That’s some high school mean girls bs.

  • @lil.floral
    @lil.floral Před 4 měsíci +6223

    Him saying it was arranged marriage is so embarrassing. I could die if I was his wife

    • @Mysteriousmything242
      @Mysteriousmything242 Před 4 měsíci +271

      It’s pretty common in a lot of cultures not anything to be embarrassed about.

    • @izizxoxo
      @izizxoxo Před 4 měsíci +641

      @@Mysteriousmything242The fact that Justin didn’t actually fully choose to be with her himself if true.. yes. Can be seen as embarassing to most.

    • @AmJo2023
      @AmJo2023 Před 4 měsíci +301

      Oh I'd divorce him in a hot second.

    • @loracash3693
      @loracash3693 Před 4 měsíci +303

      She must have known that she is second choice

    • @KaeMaiden
      @KaeMaiden Před 4 měsíci +122

      ​@@loracash3693He still won't choose SG though.

  • @Dangansona
    @Dangansona Před 26 dny +21

    The more I think about it…. When he was with Selena, did he *ever* display any behavior like this?
    Every relationship has arguments and not every moment isn’t going to be pretty, but I just can’t picture him closing a door in her face, running away from her or acting like such a child around her… is that just me?

    • @jihadamcsween2677
      @jihadamcsween2677 Před 15 dny +1

      The relationship should not dictate how toxic you choose to act

  • @marshapicardo363
    @marshapicardo363 Před 2 měsíci +30

    This is why I don't get involved with someone that's not healed from/over their ex.

  • @starlingswallow
    @starlingswallow Před 4 měsíci +1106

    The very fact that he walks off (or rides off) without her, leaving her behind instead of walking with her, hand on her back, protecting her, is a HUGE red flag. 🤦🏻‍♀️☹️

    • @mylene_b
      @mylene_b Před 3 měsíci +59

      And he walks in front of her not even behind her. His back faces her face. He's not behind her being protective.

    • @LuvFearlessly
      @LuvFearlessly Před 3 měsíci +52

      Tells me he’s emotionally immature and too consumed with himself to nurture a relationship or care about her

    • @PolyglotJ
      @PolyglotJ Před 3 měsíci +41

      I mean at this point everything he's ever done is a massive red flag (he even treats Kendall Jenner (his ex girlfriend) more respectfully than to Hailey so yeah)

    • @valleyofashes
      @valleyofashes Před 3 měsíci +31

      @@PolyglotJyea omg the way he acted all giddy and almost flirtatious towards Kendall! And he asks her if she saw him & hailey happening? Almost like it’s a sideshow spectacle like he legit acts like she’s a joke..no wonder people disrespect her. And he kept blocking hailey from the camera on the zoom with Kendall. I don’t even like Hailey but damn, that’s just super sad. Also, I think he needed an ego boost and a rebound to take his mind off things after his breakup with Selena so he chose the pretty somewhat famous fan of his. That’s fine but it should’ve ended there. I think he doesn’t respect her because he doesn’t look at her like she’s on his level and he probably thinks he’s doing her a service just being with her. He’s such a child..I can’t believe he calls himself a husband 🙄

    • @nnnnom
      @nnnnom Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@valleyofashesi get that ur mad but writing a whole ass essay is just super shocking. i understand ur frustration though

  • @renegadetherapper
    @renegadetherapper Před 2 měsíci +417

    Flirting with your ex who is also your wife’s best friend in front of your wife on a live in front of all your fans is craaaaaazy

    • @kaitlinsmith458
      @kaitlinsmith458 Před měsícem +8

      Yesss 💯💯

    • @ednasierzant3682
      @ednasierzant3682 Před 25 dny +10

      If u want a divorce get it dont humiliate your wife or a use her dont care about Justin's change of heart grow up act like a man dont be cruel dont gossip let it go that's respect u rich folks need to grow up show sum respect😊

    • @Thing1DadaThing2Kiki
      @Thing1DadaThing2Kiki Před 20 dny +3

      Huh? 😂

    • @sandyosher4608
      @sandyosher4608 Před 16 dny +2

      How was he flirting? You know you can tell someone that they're beautiful, and it doesn't automatically mean "i want you"..

    • @colleenstevens5121
      @colleenstevens5121 Před 5 dny

      Considering how his whole sex life was messed up with his life, if live sex and tryst loyalty are all messed up. He probably really loves her, but his demons are catching up to him.

  • @nicolerice8844
    @nicolerice8844 Před měsícem +30

    My ex husband was just like Justin.. my ex was a narcissist with childhood trauma and let me tell you, that man got joy out of making me miserable, cheated constantly and became abusive when I defended myself.. I eventually had to escape because he refused to let me go even though he knew how badly he treated me and justified it. You can tell Justin takes all his trauma out of Hailey but she pursued the hell out of that man and she sure got him.

  • @mysticsquid4503
    @mysticsquid4503 Před měsícem +31

    Makes me sad how little Justin seems to care abt the women in his life. The line from Selina’s song Hate You To Love Me comes to mind “sang off key in my chorus, cause it wasn’t yours”

  • @ashleybee7598
    @ashleybee7598 Před 4 měsíci +934

    It's definitely giving "mother-son" energy. Justin literally acts like my 14 year old son.

    • @jaclynns.jungle
      @jaclynns.jungle Před 4 měsíci +36

      @@RSUDE that's why they say you stay at the age you were when you got famous

    • @CMarr722
      @CMarr722 Před 4 měsíci +25

      @@jaclynns.jungle yep!I was just about to comment something similar, he definitely still seems to be a teenager mentally

    • @twothousandandchew
      @twothousandandchew Před 4 měsíci

      @@RSUDEregression ? u mean just stay the same. who didn’t start sucking his thumb googoogagaing wtf😭

    • @mann15618
      @mann15618 Před 4 měsíci +21

      Arrested development definitely

    • @skyyedodds
      @skyyedodds Před 4 měsíci

      i think it’s be he don’t like her ass🤣

  • @daughterofsekhmet81
    @daughterofsekhmet81 Před 4 měsíci +2193

    You don't have to like Hailey as a person to know that no one deserves to be publicly disrespected and humiliated by their spouse. His behavior is childish and abusive. He's allowed to be mad, depressed, whatever for his own valid reasons but he's NOT entitled to take it out on his wife. It's obvious she's a "fixer" and probably very codependent, especially if she grew up watching her dad treat her mom the way Justin treats her. She allows it because it feels "normal", plus she was in love with him for so many years so admitting he's an asshole and she made a huge mistake would be too painful. I've been there myself. I've been the caretaker girlfriend who put up with disrespect, verbal abuse, lack of effort, etc b/c I loved him and my self-worth was so low I didn't think I deserved any better. Hopefully as she gets older she will realize she deserves better than a slob in sweatpants who yells at her in public.

    • @Mojojojo-92
      @Mojojojo-92 Před 4 měsíci +86

      Yep. She’s his punching bag. He knows she won’t leave him

    • @joannmontoya7185
      @joannmontoya7185 Před 4 měsíci +33

      I dislike women who cheat with men who are taken and she says she is Christian come on let's be real she is just loves him for what he can give her and her whole family and Justin are narcissistic

    • @BhappyD
      @BhappyD Před 3 měsíci +73

      He’s a crappy human, and has been for a long time. No idea how anyone can worship him like some of his fans do. He’s an insufferable entitled man-child who only cares about himself. She may not be perfect, and has her own flaws, but Justin’s behavior is 100% that of an abuser, and that behavior is never justified.
      And this is only the stuff that is done in the public eye. Anyone who has ever been in an abusive relationship knows that if THIS is the behavior shown in public, there is WAY worse abuse going on behind the privacy of closed doors. I hope Hailey finds the strength to recognize that this isn’t the treatment she deserves from her spouse. It’s not normal, and it will never be justifiable.

    • @megankagarise8485
      @megankagarise8485 Před 3 měsíci +64

      Justin Beiber was the most passed around childhood star to ever exist in the industry. He was taken advantage by nearly every major adult in his life. He was abused…hurt people hurt others

    • @elizabethr4107
      @elizabethr4107 Před 3 měsíci +3

      ​@joannmontoya7185 this part

  • @dazza8551
    @dazza8551 Před měsícem +24

    He doesn't even look like the same person, his face and eyes are so different, why?

  • @bijabija933
    @bijabija933 Před měsícem +37

    The problem is that Hailey does not have her own life. She has to leave his videos and Instagram and everything else HE is doing, and begin to focus on building on her own life, develop her own talents. She is not a nanny or caregiver of her husband,

    • @annamarieklups6499
      @annamarieklups6499 Před 19 dny +2

      Like Selina sang in her spare song “I had to leave you to love me “. That’s the lesson Hailey has yet to learn. Justin was raised better than this. They both need counseling to figure out if they’re hurting themselves more than loving each other in their relationship 🙁

    • @irisbrown7267
      @irisbrown7267 Před 2 dny

      At least she is trying with her skincare line.

  • @og6920
    @og6920 Před 4 měsíci +1626

    When he slammed the car door in her face, he meant it. There are no excuses for him. It doesn't matter how he was brought up or what he does for a living, he's just a human being and knows better. He's an entitled, and clearly abusive, jerk.

    • @sourcandy6469
      @sourcandy6469 Před 4 měsíci +69

      He even admitted that he „was“ abusive „in the past“ and with these videos I can’t imagine he changed much

    • @PecanBaby...
      @PecanBaby... Před 4 měsíci +50

      Justin acts like a real immature jerk and needs to treat Hailey a lot better. He doesn't even let her into the vehicle first, showing complete lack of manners. I hope Hailey is truly happy because if not, don't waste the best years of your life on a man who doesn't truly love you.

    • @b.biscuit6424
      @b.biscuit6424 Před 3 měsíci +17

      or it's reactive abuse because he is actually being abused and manipulated gaslighted by her and his family and he is catching on....
      as a victim of abuse your comments are absolute bullshit. Yes he could just be a abusive dickhead but I can think of plenty of times either myself or somebody I know acts out and reacts in a way that seems abusive and sure maybe it is without context of the person reaching their absolute limit mentally from intense psychological, physical and/or financial abuse.
      I am not saying I know for certain but I know you saying there is no reason is bullshit people can't always handle the stress of constant abuse and react abusively to their abuser.

    • @davy955
      @davy955 Před 3 měsíci +19

      @@b.biscuit6424 and in what way they could abuse justin, hailey's father wanted money and haley wanted bieber, and justin freely accepted the marriage, he had no reason to be in trap since he has the power

    • @PecanBaby...
      @PecanBaby... Před 3 měsíci +32

      ​​@@davy955 Exactly I don't believe that he is being abused more like he is the aggressive one. He never treated Selena well either so it is a trait of his. In Selena song about him she mentions how he wasn't nice to her either, probably why they kept breaking up.

  • @SeleniumOfficial
    @SeleniumOfficial Před 4 měsíci +878

    It’s not Hailey’s job to help Justin grow up. If he can’t change, she should leave…

    • @merder1414
      @merder1414 Před 4 měsíci +44

      Yeah, this idea that our husbands mental health should come before ours is really weird. Goes back to this idea that women are FOR men. What’s sad to me is that her parents taught her that shit, that’s where we all learn what our “roles” are supposed to be. Parents should be teaching boys and girls to know that the social roles that currently exist are not nature….there’s a more sinister reason for gender roles. Maybe that way boys and girls can each grow up to recognize red flags instead of playing a role and staying in abusive situations.

    • @nidzaboricua3294
      @nidzaboricua3294 Před 4 měsíci +17

      Ya, that's how mentally stable ppl think. Haileys mom takes care of her dad just like this. This woman isn't going anywhere, she loves controlling justin. He even said she keeps him in a straight line cuz of her strict ways

    • @camicam6457
      @camicam6457 Před 4 měsíci +6

      She can't. He has something on her. Something BAD. So if she leaves so can no longer keep track of what he says. That's why no one else is intervening because they know what she did.

    • @edselgreaves6503
      @edselgreaves6503 Před 3 měsíci +7

      And it's not his job to entertain an abusive stalker like her.

    • @kcar8974
      @kcar8974 Před 3 měsíci +8

      It’s also not okay to smother someone when they’re begging for space. Being too clingy is just as bad. What about the way she speaks for him? It can go both ways

  • @j.g.9271
    @j.g.9271 Před měsícem +55

    Justin has been through major Hollywood trauma. He needs to direct that pain where, and at whom it belongs, not at his wife.

    • @Barbieinawheelchair
      @Barbieinawheelchair Před 28 dny

      Have you seen the justin Bieber O'Dell Beckham in the club ? He's literally giving him head while Diddy watches he's been turned out man

    • @heretickishyt
      @heretickishyt Před 23 dny +1

      Justin misses diddy's bbq

    • @alias4506
      @alias4506 Před 20 dny

      @@heretickishyt👀

  • @batzyjohnson
    @batzyjohnson Před měsícem +14

    it's not Selena vs Hailey, it's both of them vs Justin

  • @AstroMoonGoddess
    @AstroMoonGoddess Před 4 měsíci +2154

    I remember someone going into how Hailey’s parents have this dynamic. Her father was a mess and her mother was his caretaker. We often seek out relationships with those who mirror that of our parents. This isn’t healthy. A parent/child dynamic in a romantic partnership is usually incredibly imbalanced when it comes to equality within the relationship. It takes a great deal of awareness and intent to dismantle it.

    • @Discordia5
      @Discordia5 Před 4 měsíci +108

      If she saw her mom being treated like this, that would explain a lot.

    • @LouisaWatt
      @LouisaWatt Před 4 měsíci +13

      Amen 👏 100%

    • @GraceOfTheAtlantic
      @GraceOfTheAtlantic Před 4 měsíci +101

      The rumor is that Justin needed to get married because of visa problems, something about him losing a lot of royalty money if he was forced to go back to Canada. At the same time Stephen Baldwin almost went bankrupt or worse due to tax-debt.
      Then all of a sudden Justin proposes to Selena who declines, and then he's quickly married to Hailey while Stephen's tax debt got paid off. The story is that it was paid off with Justin's money in exchange for the visa-marriage.

    • @mecasunny
      @mecasunny Před 4 měsíci +33

      I have dificulty in connecting with other people cuz of how my parents treat me.
      In my case, I never want to find the same relationship they have, prefer to be alone.

    • @Mrs.Code-----
      @Mrs.Code----- Před 4 měsíci +20

      ​@@GraceOfTheAtlantic thank you for bringing this up. I'm surprised Sloan didn't mention this aspect.

  • @sassystoic
    @sassystoic Před 2 měsíci +871

    She is going to write one hell of a book when (and if) they divorce.

    • @Emilygrace2023
      @Emilygrace2023 Před 2 měsíci +26

      Very thick and a 2pt story. 😂

    • @comaneci_nadia
      @comaneci_nadia Před 2 měsíci +10

      I'm waiting for it lol

    • @stephp7778
      @stephp7778 Před 2 měsíci

      It will be a picture book...all of her with her tongue out and finger up and butt out...the religious side of her.

    • @Imagininginmymind
      @Imagininginmymind Před 2 měsíci +2

      lol I think both of them will lol 😂

    • @yeetnama9094
      @yeetnama9094 Před měsícem

      my first thought as she was lying through her teeth about how great he treats her
      Also shame on the public for their infantile behavior. Grown ass man chanting Selena Gomez at her??

  • @cindyg183
    @cindyg183 Před měsícem +38

    Not sorry for Hailey at all!!, she's there willingly knowing the dude doesn't truly loves her at all, she's happy being his doormat while still made fun of Selena Gomez's weight

    • @bufficliff8978
      @bufficliff8978 Před 29 dny +6

      That's dumb and thoughtless. She's being abused; she's obviously not happy, and being abused isn't just punishment for making fun of someone else's weight.
      You have an abuser's attitude

    • @jodenise894
      @jodenise894 Před 15 dny +4

      Thanks for this lack of empathy demonstration

  • @CarrieannStallcup
    @CarrieannStallcup Před 27 dny +11

    He's grossly disrespectful. I think it's horrible to treat your wife like that..

  • @gucciraccoons1637
    @gucciraccoons1637 Před 4 měsíci +964

    I laughed out loud when you quoted her saying that she couldn’t leave him because she’s loved him for a very long time. Longer than he’s even known that she existed.

    • @user-xw7ng4dt6l
      @user-xw7ng4dt6l Před 4 měsíci +141

      “ I stalked him too much and put too much on the line to stop now” is what i hear

    • @mjstinson8225
      @mjstinson8225 Před 4 měsíci +33

      He gets upset for various personal individual reasons... But Essentially he knows to spite the Publics assumptions and storytime perception... She's with him for more sinister reasons and absolutely not primarily because of their true love and shared affection... Why is she always with him it's beyond clingy it's as though she's his handler mind control manager 🤨... All Eyes* Open✔️💚➖🌐➖💚

    • @sherrismith8874
      @sherrismith8874 Před 4 měsíci +23

      Sunk cost fallacy.

    • @Patricia.b
      @Patricia.b Před 4 měsíci +14

      Sunk cost fallacy, so sad.

    • @africanprincessmaya
      @africanprincessmaya Před 4 měsíci

      cash money @@mjstinson8225

  • @MarieAmicalola
    @MarieAmicalola Před 2 měsíci +485

    The craziest part of this video to me is that her mom advised her to stick it out.

    • @emmawills4112
      @emmawills4112 Před 2 měsíci +43

      Yeah… it makes sense that Hailey married someone like Justin with her own mother telling her it’s okay to be mistreated..

    • @comaneci_nadia
      @comaneci_nadia Před měsícem +54

      Bcs Hailey's dad & mum needed that money

    • @breadbrown7708
      @breadbrown7708 Před měsícem +1

      Hailey is Justin's handler.She is friends with the Kards who are friends to Lou Taylor(loves to come in and pretend to help celebs then puts them in abusive conservatorship from which she profits)
      Lou Taylor orchestrated the Britney conservatorship.
      Her 600mil plus is still missing.

    • @demand1575
      @demand1575 Před měsícem +32

      Both her parents push it. It's not a love connection for either. Now that the Puffy Combs stuff is coming out...he's probably got a lot of bad things on his heart & head that he was put thru at age 14. He was sent to live with Combs by his Mom. He needs to deal with all that so he can grow past it. Get a divorce already.

    • @nwalden5744
      @nwalden5744 Před 26 dny +4

      H parents set
      them up

  • @MrBibi86
    @MrBibi86 Před měsícem +44

    *Getting married for religious reasons and staying married for the same reason is wrong. I'm actually shocked she hasn't tried to trap him by having a baby yet*

    • @mickey_09
      @mickey_09 Před 27 dny +7

      She ain't traping him , she is stuck in an abusive relationship n she is religious so she can't let go

    • @amberevol
      @amberevol Před 25 dny +1

      I've been hearing rumors that she could be pregnant 😢

    • @ariasworld9991
      @ariasworld9991 Před 6 dny +1

      So sad​@@amberevol

    • @ariasworld9991
      @ariasworld9991 Před 6 dny +1

      Maybe he doesn't want kids with her and is being careful

    • @irisbrown7267
      @irisbrown7267 Před 2 dny +1

      Hahaha. And now she is

  • @Moneymongoose115
    @Moneymongoose115 Před měsícem +35

    Honestly, he does seem to be abusive to her on a few levels. However, I don’t see the issue with him not wanting to be touched. I’m very much the same way - it’s not personal, but sometimes people touching/rubbing on me is extremely annoying an unwanted. That’s not abuse, that’s boundaries.

  • @user-xb9ed7yd6d
    @user-xb9ed7yd6d Před 4 měsíci +1135

    In my head, Hailey is a spoiled rich brat who got asked one time in her teenage years “what do you want for Christmas darling” and she answered “I want Justin Bieber” and ever since her father was on the quest to set up “random” meetings between them

    • @JL-zn7me
      @JL-zn7me Před 4 měsíci +92

      YES!!! Exactly!!!

    • @lil.floral
      @lil.floral Před 4 měsíci +189

      It’s giving “I want the golden egg daddy”

    • @DemonChildNicoRobin2.0
      @DemonChildNicoRobin2.0 Před 4 měsíci +34

      Facts lol

    • @bbyhly
      @bbyhly Před 4 měsíci +69

      No i think you guys need to grow up....justin is the problem here period

    • @user-xb9ed7yd6d
      @user-xb9ed7yd6d Před 4 měsíci +150

      @@bbyhly Justin has been exploited for years and years by grown men and women. I really do understand that he got a ton loads of issues he has to deal with. But I’m still pretty sure Hailey is not innocent either lol

  • @OFFICIALLUSH
    @OFFICIALLUSH Před 4 měsíci +909

    When you get fed up with someone you’re with, the way they BREATHE starts to piss you off.
    This is where I think Justin is with Hailey 🫤

    • @feraiivie
      @feraiivie Před 4 měsíci +25

      💯

    • @everrgreen122
      @everrgreen122 Před 4 měsíci +103

      Yup, that and you start feeling disgusted, especially when they’re showing feelings towards you you just don’t feel anymore. I’ve had that happened two times and I ended things very fast. Once you get to that point the feelings aren’t coming back and it’s actually unfair to the other to stay and give them false hope.

    • @KaeMaiden
      @KaeMaiden Před 4 měsíci +18

      Aren't all these clips from years ago? Did they do anything scary now. I don't have selective memory and I remember him being even more worst with Selena.

    • @msbee5183
      @msbee5183 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Boom! Yup

    • @jika1986
      @jika1986 Před 4 měsíci +3

      100%

  • @sweetdelulus
    @sweetdelulus Před měsícem +11

    I think he soon realized after being married and sat down to think that it was all arranged and he’s only a product. Hailey plays pretend wife, to manage him. I kinda feel bad for both of them it’s obvious they’re trapped. Also if we’re questioning what abuse looks like I feel certain the relationship has been tainted so much

    • @monalisa9949
      @monalisa9949 Před 17 dny +1

      Bingo! She is his handler and he found out. He knows she has to deal with it. And it’s the motive anyway, to make him seem unhinged and to monitor his moves. To hold a stake in his estate. Maybe she didn’t know all of the requirements or fine detail of such arrangement, but she is a “nepo baby”, she was nurtured for this.

  • @SilverHairSimmer
    @SilverHairSimmer Před 8 dny +5

    I hope she leaves him, starts a business, falls in love with someone who adores her and she looks at this marriage as a horrible phase.

  • @bethedifferent1
    @bethedifferent1 Před 4 měsíci +1041

    They are married, but that marriage ended a long time ago. That's a toxic mess. Selena dodged a bullet!

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 Před 4 měsíci +174

      She did dodge a bullet, but she’s toxic too! She just tries harder not to be than he does. Which is respectable

    • @abbied
      @abbied Před 4 měsíci +80

      @@TT.3123 Yeah she actually tried to heal and do the heavy lifting after they broke up with each other (while Justin didn’t) that’s a difference 👌🏻✔️

    • @abbied
      @abbied Před 4 měsíci +41

      @@TT.3123 Justin has codependency issues but it makes sense I guess bc he’s an addict 😕🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @lorcashine
      @lorcashine Před 4 měsíci +53

      Sounds like the honeymoon phase was over a few years ago. He's too narcissistic--she's screwed. I hope she gets out (and I'm not a fan)--she deserves better. If he's acting like this in public with no shame, it's absolutely worse in private. She's already having to defend him all the time like she's trauma bonded. Hope she educates herself so she can understand what's really going on!

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 Před 4 měsíci +36

      @@abbied and it seems like because Hailey watched her mom go through the same thing with her dad, she is playing that role for Justin as well

  • @jessicapyron1468
    @jessicapyron1468 Před 2 měsíci +306

    I got “arranged” vibes when Steve Baldwin was acting so interested in Justin during that brief interview and like he didn’t recall his previous interaction with Justin. Like Steve didn’t just forget that, he knew what he was doing.

    • @comaneci_nadia
      @comaneci_nadia Před měsícem +24

      Literally, bcs Hailey's dad got tonnes of debt & Justin B is the one who can paid it off

    • @wandajones5479
      @wandajones5479 Před měsícem +5

      💯💯

    • @lmsenstad
      @lmsenstad Před měsícem +21

      Creepy scene, fckn hell, he looked like he was hungry and wanted to eat the boyy.... Huuhg!

    • @tammygould2682
      @tammygould2682 Před 16 dny +3

      That's when the plan started

  • @RubyRedDances
    @RubyRedDances Před 24 dny +7

    I appreciate your soft touch as a a commentator.

  • @MrJmutes
    @MrJmutes Před 29 dny +7

    I really think Hailey deserves so much respect for putting up with all the nonsense- the harassment from Selena fans and Justin’s behaviour towards her. people here are criticising her for being desperate etc. I think it’s so disrespectful. This girl is trying to be strong in a very difficult situation, she’s doing her best to hold on to a marriage despite all the backlash. In a world where celebrities divorce in less than a year and jump from rls to rls this girl is really a gem for sticking by him through and through. And she’s beautiful and young she has tons of options out there I’m sure if she were in it for the money she could easily leave and bag another rich successful guy. A lot of respect for sticking it through. Can’t believe people these day mistake loyalty as desperation…

    • @71nyna
      @71nyna Před 17 dny

      people are very cruel. If what they say about her parents is true, she is just replicating her mother's behavior. Trying to "fix" him, "hold on tight" which her family probably tell her to do it. In her mind, the way he treats her must be normal. Or it was, the divorce rumors I heard are now coming from her and I hope she does it. just for this scene in the show where the fan insults him and he doesn't do anything? so disrespectful, so sad.

  • @thaistirfrye
    @thaistirfrye Před 3 měsíci +665

    I think this is a great example of men who break up and immediately jump into another relationship without processing their emotions or healing, but inflated x10000 and in the public eye.

    • @comaneci_nadia
      @comaneci_nadia Před 2 měsíci +9

      He did it just to hurt Selena G but currently she's with Benny B & that's better

    • @user-lh9cd7jr3c
      @user-lh9cd7jr3c Před 2 měsíci +5

      Sounds like women to me

    • @maddd8883
      @maddd8883 Před měsícem +1

      Exactly

    • @elfish7766
      @elfish7766 Před měsícem

      @@user-lh9cd7jr3cboth genders do this it’s just something people who don’t slow down and reflect will jump to

    • @jillgibson2648
      @jillgibson2648 Před měsícem +1

      Nailed it

  • @kimquillen6736
    @kimquillen6736 Před 4 měsíci +1090

    He seems very disrespectful to her. I don't think that marriage will last much longer.

    • @7stlkrs
      @7stlkrs Před 4 měsíci +94

      i’ve seen videos of them together in public and he treats her like GARBAGE. pushing , almost hitting and tons of yelling ..

    • @klausandrea9408
      @klausandrea9408 Před 4 měsíci

      you guys are so delusion@@7stlkrs

    • @abbied
      @abbied Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@7stlkrs Which ones were those? 🙀

    • @paytonmanning1109
      @paytonmanning1109 Před 4 měsíci +22

      For her sake, I hope not.

    • @kathy9513
      @kathy9513 Před 4 měsíci +22

      Both ,not just one !!!!! She calls the paparazzi on him so she can get that fame with him ! Both are to blame . Both cheated on each other !

  • @sveng3192
    @sveng3192 Před měsícem +9

    He does not look like the man in their relationship, she looks like big sister. With Selena they look like more on par and balanced

    • @comaneci_nadia
      @comaneci_nadia Před měsícem

      Selena G will always be Justin's first real love

  • @tiffanyroth1066
    @tiffanyroth1066 Před 2 měsíci +17

    First year of marriage isn’t all rainbows and butterflies and I feel not enough ppl are honest about it … you don’t just get married, drive off into sunset, live happily ever after, the end… it’s a whole new chapter in life

    • @agirlisnoone5953
      @agirlisnoone5953 Před měsícem

      You act like nobody except them and you have been married. I'm married and there's not a chance my husband or I would treat each other this way.

    • @agirlisnoone5953
      @agirlisnoone5953 Před měsícem

      Also, the honeymoon period lasted 2yrs for us. It's definitely not all rainbows but it doesn't have to be shitty. Even if you're young.

  • @buggirl400
    @buggirl400 Před 4 měsíci +341

    I've dated someone like this. They lower your self esteem more and more day by day. I was also codependent and afraid to be alone. I hope she leaves asap and grows into the strong woman she is.

  • @jaclynns.jungle
    @jaclynns.jungle Před 4 měsíci +705

    Its simple. Her dad saw Justin as an opportunity. Her dad was in pretty bad financial debt, that eventually his new son-in-law paid for.

    • @marian2792
      @marian2792 Před 4 měsíci +53

      sounds logical

    • @charissa6648
      @charissa6648 Před 4 měsíci +34

      Wrong and ridiculous. Evidence for this hypothesis please? If you make the claim the burden of proof is on you.

    • @catty8901
      @catty8901 Před 4 měsíci +30

      Facts!!! 🗣️🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯

    • @TheBlackvelvetsea
      @TheBlackvelvetsea Před 4 měsíci +14

      I totally agree with you

    • @DinaStrange
      @DinaStrange Před 4 měsíci +13

      That's what i think...

  • @michellesteele7686
    @michellesteele7686 Před měsícem +5

    Hailey is no saint either..JB needs to heal...

  • @kavi212
    @kavi212 Před 4 měsíci +1161

    I feel like this relationship is a ‘be careful for what you wish for’ situation for Hailey. She went after him hard that’s obsession not love

    • @abbied
      @abbied Před 4 měsíci +71

      Not just her (but also her father even moreso actually) 😂😂😂😂

    • @PeopleOverProfits777
      @PeopleOverProfits777 Před 4 měsíci +61

      You don’t really know somebody until you move into together. Time will reveal everything, the good and the bad.

    • @roxannestanton9439
      @roxannestanton9439 Před 4 měsíci +16

      That's exactly what I said a few minutes ago before I saw this comment.

    • @meliss9536
      @meliss9536 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Abuse will never be the victims fault, but nice try

    • @zombiedoll986
      @zombiedoll986 Před 4 měsíci +24

      ​@@meliss9536 can you read? The person didn't say it's her fault, just that some things in life are beyond what we actually know and she learned it as the most painful lesson because he revealed himself as a abusive piece of shit

  • @SelanneFan8
    @SelanneFan8 Před 4 měsíci +916

    Everyone deserves someone who actually wants to be with them. They need to stop prolonging the inevitable. You don’t get time back.

    • @adxd1002
      @adxd1002 Před 4 měsíci +11

      Very true!

    • @kimwhatmatters4085
      @kimwhatmatters4085 Před 4 měsíci +17

      I think he needs 5 yrs for citizenship

    • @widmiemilord4679
      @widmiemilord4679 Před 4 měsíci

      Lol 😂 yessss🎉

    • @jms5752
      @jms5752 Před 4 měsíci +11

      Its almost like Justin refuses to admit his mistake because of his narcissistic ways

    • @mjstinson8225
      @mjstinson8225 Před 4 měsíci

      He gets upset for various personal individual reasons... But Essentially he knows to spite the Publics assumptions and storytime perception... She's with him for more sinister reasons and absolutely not primarily because of their true love and shared affection... Why is she always with him it's beyond clingy it's as though she's his handler mind control manager 🤨... All Eyes* Open✔️💚➖🌐➖💚

  • @desleywhite7670
    @desleywhite7670 Před 14 dny +6

    As a child he was handed to Diddy. Give him a break. I’m surprised that he is still alive.

  • @lindatorres7003
    @lindatorres7003 Před 28 dny +9

    Sloannnnnm!!! You should remake this with the new information you have about diddy

  • @bunni5306
    @bunni5306 Před 4 měsíci +735

    I feel like JB has gone through so much trauma from being famous so young & they say trauma freezes you at the age you experience it. And for a partner to bear that kind of weight in a marriage is really hard.

    • @elleelleelleelle_______
      @elleelleelleelle_______ Před 4 měsíci +14

      Is there a way to overcome the age freeze?

    • @Stormance
      @Stormance Před 4 měsíci

      @@elleelleelleelle_______totally with good therapy

    • @eveshqat5544
      @eveshqat5544 Před 4 měsíci +52

      Therapy

    • @bayleymacintosh5622
      @bayleymacintosh5622 Před 4 měsíci +65

      Inner child work and therapy

    • @nidzaboricua3294
      @nidzaboricua3294 Před 4 měsíci +30

      ​@bayleymacintosh5622 yes! Also presence can help him with that anxiety he feels. I really think he needs help from what he experienced when with Diddy.

  • @emilyonizuka4698
    @emilyonizuka4698 Před 4 měsíci +511

    Not quite related to their marriage, but Justin was so polite and nice when he met her dad on that carpet. I'm just so used to him being a rude adult now. It's so jarring. He seemed like a sweet kid once upon a time. It's a shame what's happened since then.

    • @abbied
      @abbied Před 4 měsíci

      I’m not excusing his behavior, but he was molested and sexually assaulted by various higher-ups in Hollywood

    • @emilysavage2151
      @emilysavage2151 Před 4 měsíci +6

      When the entire world normalizes a kid being molested and harassed, the kid loses faith in the world.

    • @mede__
      @mede__ Před 4 měsíci +183

      He was, but I think Hollywood destroyed him. All that celebrity lifestyle, touring, adults grooming him since he was a little kid, not being able to go outside like a normal person would, to have genuine friendships and relationships, all while having that amount of money... that has to take a toll on you, especially when you're so young. I don't excuse his behaviour, but I do have empathy for that. I think there is a very, very small amount of people who would be able to handle all that and not turn into a shell of a human being.

    • @delsi1204
      @delsi1204 Před 4 měsíci +61

      That's what Hollywierd does to you and probably bad or neglectful parents.
      He needs to get out of there and tones of therapy.

    • @SweetChick10101
      @SweetChick10101 Před 4 měsíci +26

      Fame and the trauma that stems from it 😔

  • @brandybarneshaden1692
    @brandybarneshaden1692 Před měsícem +41

    It's hard to love somebody that was practically forced on you

  • @lizpontaneous9121
    @lizpontaneous9121 Před měsícem +5

    I feel for Hailey. God please comfort her, give her strength to carry such heavy burden. I know as a Christian, the only acceptable reason to leave a marriage is when adultery is being committed and until she can prove that Justin has been unfaithful, then she needs to endure the pain. My heart goes out to her.

    • @fairyprincess911
      @fairyprincess911 Před 27 dny

      She doesn't need to endure the pain. Jesus would not willfully wish that she suffer.

  • @roxannesmith4519
    @roxannesmith4519 Před 4 měsíci +245

    Marriage isn’t easy, but it shouldn’t be this hard….

    • @TinyMK1
      @TinyMK1 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Especially not when they’re still so young and it’s still so early on! Like… if you’re having problems this extreme in the first few years of marriage, it’s INCREDIBLY unlikely that things are going to get any better… I don’t care what their biggest defenders (people majorly in denial, really) say, there’s no way anyone actually sees these two together in old age.

    • @GLamoRousCooKie
      @GLamoRousCooKie Před 4 měsíci +14

      Honestly, marriage is the easiest thing in the world if you're with a person who loves and cherishes you and vice versa.

    • @fanoftoast
      @fanoftoast Před 3 měsíci +4

      This is the perfect comment.

  • @monicabelluci6727
    @monicabelluci6727 Před 3 měsíci +524

    This is clear abuse and what kind of mother tells her daughter it will pass when she was clearly crying out for help!! And those little monster tweens yelling and booing her on the red carpet are just evil little gremlins!

    • @dawnmaiorano8421
      @dawnmaiorano8421 Před 2 měsíci +28

      Hailey knew exactly what she was doing stalker

    • @monicabelluci6727
      @monicabelluci6727 Před 2 měsíci

      I don't think you're wrong and sounds like the whole family was in on the stalking. I am not a fan of either but having her mum say that to her daughter when it sounded ike she wanted out is just awful. @@dawnmaiorano8421

    • @Ineverusemychannel
      @Ineverusemychannel Před 2 měsíci

      The kind of mother who was probably also abused and thinks it’s normal. The Baldwins deserve a case study of their own.

    • @hotties3v3n
      @hotties3v3n Před 2 měsíci +22

      They sounded alot older than monster tweens smh

    • @fleshandglory
      @fleshandglory Před měsícem +8

      this is what happens when the ideals of being a trophy wife, or even a nuclear family is glorified lol

  • @sandrakranzwinther3286
    @sandrakranzwinther3286 Před 11 dny +3

    "We are perfect for each other. You love me. I love me too."

  • @chica212
    @chica212 Před měsícem +3

    She’s the problem solver, she speaks for him, she’s competing with him (evidenced in the video)! That sounds like a hostile marriage where the husband feels emasculated. When a man feels emasculated he will start behaving like a demon 👹😈, abuser or “narcissist.”
    Yes he is doing all of it on purpose. When someone doesn’t feel accepted for who they are they will dig in their heels and do the worst as the worst is expected of him. I should make a video on this! In the video where he was cold, she was speaking for him. That’s disrespectful. Imagine seating there and someone is speaking for you.
    The clip of him in the studio, it’s giving signs that she doesn’t respect his work. Imagine showing up to your parents job and showing no respect. You would never do that!
    Ok, I’m done!

  • @melissalove2463
    @melissalove2463 Před 4 měsíci +432

    This is disgusting, I would drag my daughter ( don’t care how old she was) out of a relationship if I had seen or heard the dreadful way Justin is treating her !

    • @FC-hj9ub
      @FC-hj9ub Před 3 měsíci +10

      Yeah yeah everyone says that

    • @rosangelalima4976
      @rosangelalima4976 Před 3 měsíci +22

      Her father would Never allow her to quit.

    • @ALT-vz3jn
      @ALT-vz3jn Před 3 měsíci +26

      She was a yacht girl. She’s used to being humiliated.

    • @angelalivingston6610
      @angelalivingston6610 Před 3 měsíci +23

      Her daddy was the biggest encouraging factor. Justin could do anything to her and as long as daddy can say she’s married to Justin, and he could brag about it, he wouldn’t care. He started pushing Hailey on Justin, when they were both babies. The long term plan, with sad consequences

    • @Tina-gg7rk
      @Tina-gg7rk Před 2 měsíci +1

      Exactly!

  • @bayleesmith2803
    @bayleesmith2803 Před 4 měsíci +984

    I feel SO BAD for Hailey in terms of her relationship with Justin. I hope one day she can leave and find someone who will love her the way she wants to be.

    • @jms5752
      @jms5752 Před 4 měsíci +55

      But why feel bad for her?? She knew what she was getting herself into.

    • @anonymousbitch1722
      @anonymousbitch1722 Před 4 měsíci +32

      Well, also Justin should’ve legitimately matured before he got married in the first place honestly.

    • @BaysideFL
      @BaysideFL Před 4 měsíci +38

      She destroyed someone else’s relationship you really think she was going to end in a happily ever after ??😅😅😅 yeah no.

    • @9teen9t4
      @9teen9t4 Před 4 měsíci

      @@jms5752 Exactly! I follow this couple about as much as I follow the latest updates on Chinese Basketweaving Techniques, but in the times I do happen across something about these two, I've never seen anyone say that she is actually a nice person. Quite the opposite - all I've ever read is about her being a really mean person.

    • @niraxlevi9930
      @niraxlevi9930 Před 4 měsíci +21

      ​@jms5752 i don't like hailey but blaming the victim is insane justin is a master manipulator he clearly gaslights her

  • @dianeshore625
    @dianeshore625 Před měsícem +6

    I think when he closed car door little that they were arguing, and fighting with him shutting door was saying yeah do not want to hear your mouth…

  • @amyc9155
    @amyc9155 Před měsícem +2

    What is the article you keep referencing?? Thanks!!

  • @smartmarketing173
    @smartmarketing173 Před 4 měsíci +405

    Soon after I married felt it was the wrong guy but I said well, I’m in it now, I made a commitment. My parents were divorced and I didn’t want that. Stuck it out for 10 years. Divorce was terrible after having children. I should have ended it immediately.

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia Před 4 měsíci +55

      What's worse is everyone knows it and is waiting for it to end. It's like watching a car crash about to happen.

    • @JMarie-th8xe
      @JMarie-th8xe Před 4 měsíci +15

      Similar story. I'm still working on forgiving myself for my mistakes.

    • @sarahbredemeier873
      @sarahbredemeier873 Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@JMarie-th8xeI feel you … same here … Don’t be too hard on yourself :)

    • @void9837
      @void9837 Před 4 měsíci +4

      The double taxation causes affliction on the marriages. Most cookbooks have bad recipes that have to be corrected for errors and that creates embarrassment for the wife, which is not her fault. Schools don't teach about marriage, there's no sex education to make the marriage stronger, no training to circumvent corruption in government or the workplace which puts spouses on edge. Marriage is so difficult to navigate for both parties

    • @shananajam2726
      @shananajam2726 Před 4 měsíci +5

      They rushed into this marriage.Hailey knew he had trauma & she is not a doctor .I know she loves him .But should have waited untill he was healed & not jumped into a marriage.She admit that she has been in love with him for a long time.I feel it for her. But she knew what she was getting into.She deserved someone who loves her the same way.Hailey just need to walk away because cleary Justin does not love her the way she loves him.I think her parents had alot to do with this arranged marriage.Justin is cleary unhappy & so is Hailey.Hailey needs to love herself & should find her true love because she deserve to be happy & loved

  • @ana-nim
    @ana-nim Před 2 měsíci +136

    Justin with his eyes looking to completely opposite sides and saying "lIsTeN tO mE wOmAn" is the way I see every misogynistic man on the internet.

  • @juliannamcguire8910
    @juliannamcguire8910 Před 17 dny

    New subscriber i love your style n tea 🎉 hope i am here n see u grow to the millions

  • @PinkyPie-on3nz
    @PinkyPie-on3nz Před měsícem +3

    Hailey is there to keep tabs on him by the industry.

  • @Autumn_Blessings
    @Autumn_Blessings Před 4 měsíci +143

    The narcissistic smirk on Justin after he said "they were asking me" when he realized it made Hailey uncomfortable....

    • @sodaacrylic
      @sodaacrylic Před 4 měsíci

      Lol narcissistic? You really gave in into hayleys narrative. Its the other way around. Shes a predator and a manipulator. I would hate her too if i fell into her trap and lost control of my life.

  • @aste1002
    @aste1002 Před 2 měsíci +108

    I've been with my husband 14 years and listen marriage should never be this hard 😢

  • @florencebentley6081
    @florencebentley6081 Před měsícem +6

    He’s lost the sparkle in his eyes that he use to have .

  • @miggs80
    @miggs80 Před 4 dny +2

    Nobody in here knows them personally yet some dork makes a video claiming “The Truth” despite knowing nothing about them behind closed doors 😂

  • @zoebutton2887
    @zoebutton2887 Před 2 měsíci +246

    bro she's literally lying when she talks about how he treats her. girl we've SEEN the disrespect. she's defending him because she's always been obsessed and now that they're married she doesn't want to let that go!

    • @fleshandglory
      @fleshandglory Před měsícem +2

      literally lmfao she starts moving her hands around n looking away as soon as she starts talking about how he supposedly treats her good

    • @comaneci_nadia
      @comaneci_nadia Před měsícem +8

      Hailey thinks this is a Wattpad y/n type of shit lol

    • @raedawn7991
      @raedawn7991 Před měsícem +5

      Yeah I doubt he treats her like a princess 👸 everyday

    • @swankyjoy
      @swankyjoy Před měsícem +6

      She doesn’t think she’s lying. She’s delusional/in love. She’s not seeing things clearly cuz she’s in it. We’ve all had a friend like this.

    • @nwalden5744
      @nwalden5744 Před 26 dny +1

      @@fleshandgloryi do that’s naturally doesn’t mean im lying

  • @alexisadams3043
    @alexisadams3043 Před 4 měsíci +338

    I think Hailey and her family were very calculated and knew exactly what they were doing. They met him, waited until him and Selena broke up and he was super vulnerable. They probably pressured him into moving fast and getting married and then trapping him down to management, marriage, maybe blackmail, etc. Now they’ve pushed him to the point where he can’t even play nice in public anymore. He has dropped several hints that it has all been arranged from the beginning and he is not happy. I honestly don’t even think Justin has any control over his own life.

    • @mjstinson8225
      @mjstinson8225 Před 4 měsíci +7

      He gets upset for various personal individual reasons... But Essentially he knows to spite the Publics assumptions and storytime perception... She's with him for more sinister reasons and absolutely not primarily because of their true love and shared affection... Why is she always with him it's beyond clingy it's as though she's his handler mind control manager 🤨... All Eyes* Open✔️💚➖🌐➖💚

    • @morticiagomez6166
      @morticiagomez6166 Před 4 měsíci +1

      The Baldwins are a Bad Bunch.
      Irish-American Mafia family.

    • @revenge0lobster
      @revenge0lobster Před 4 měsíci +12

      That doesn’t make sense to me. Justin alone has more resources than that family. He has far more agency and free than you make him out, here. No one forced him to do anything.

    • @africanprincessmaya
      @africanprincessmaya Před 4 měsíci

      the family is connected@@revenge0lobster

    • @joeysanddropbears4087
      @joeysanddropbears4087 Před 4 měsíci +4

      @@revenge0lobstertrauma bond

  • @duckduckington1693
    @duckduckington1693 Před měsícem +4

    “he looks like he is about to go into the hospital for surgery” 31:00 😭😭 LMAOOO

  • @jennifervogann6656
    @jennifervogann6656 Před měsícem +1

    Sloan, this is the first video I've watched you. You have beautiful skin. What is your regime?

  • @Caroleeena
    @Caroleeena Před 4 měsíci +368

    Look into that summer that Bieber spent with Diddy. People who are sexually abused often stop maturing at the age the abuse happened. Bieber was 15 when Diddy disappeared with him and then said he had "guardianship" over him.

    • @courtneyawalsh
      @courtneyawalsh Před 4 měsíci +25

      Yup.

    • @lordgremlin580
      @lordgremlin580 Před 4 měsíci +26

      Poor justin😢

    • @jaslizeth2113
      @jaslizeth2113 Před 4 měsíci +29

      Sloan made a video that touched on that briefly, hopefully he makes an in depth video on that

    • @kristinakelevra5330
      @kristinakelevra5330 Před 4 měsíci +8

      Never heard of that. Is there a video about it?

    • @annerison
      @annerison Před 4 měsíci +46

      I grew up listening to PUFF DADDY and loved him as a kid. He was the hype man for Bad Boy Ent. But I remember that reality TV show he did with the girl group, Making of the band, I think it was. I saw his true colors on that show. Like Kanye, he thinks he's God and everyone should kneel down before him. He's an authoritarian personality with too much power. Puff is a bad guy.

  • @nenar4097
    @nenar4097 Před 4 měsíci +635

    This is what I honestly think. I think Justin was abused in the industry and during that turmoil took all his anger and abuse out on Selena as an outlet of what he was going through internally. I think to get away from these tormenting thoughts, he thought getting married would help heal him. Per his friend, he asked Selena first and she didn’t think they were ready. He got mad at the rejection, and per an interview he had, he was not afraid to ask Hailey became he knew she would say yes. Basically the marriage didn’t help him the way he thought it would and he never had closure with Selena. He broke down when he found out she was hospitalized for a mental breakdown knowing he probably helped cause that. He’s never truly dealt with what has happened to him or opened up about it and he’s never had the chance to tell Selena that he was sorry. I think he’s carrying all that mental baggage around and living in that misery and Hailey gets to go along for this ride. He needs to get help and he can’t be a good partner until he does.

    • @esthergift8373
      @esthergift8373 Před 4 měsíci +43

      This! He's not completely there yet

    • @larozleggett4794
      @larozleggett4794 Před 4 měsíci +26

      THIS

    • @May17760
      @May17760 Před 3 měsíci +130

      I think this is spot on. Justin proposed to Haley out of spite, and Haley probably said yes because she had genuine love for him. It would explain the weird asf timeline of Justin being with Selena and then being engaged to Hailey so quickly. And it wasn't until they tied the knot that he realized he had made a mistake. Marriage didn't heal him and he probably still had lingering love for Selena. He tried to get over one situation (Selena) by going into another (Haley), but it probably didn't work and just made him worse. But being a devout Christian, he probably is trying his best to take his marriage seriously... even if that means being in an unhappy marriage. This all would explain his fluctuating dislike for Hailey... like "I'm stuck with you" vibes... It's pretty sad for Hailey because she probably went into this with genuine intentions. JB screwed both Selena and Hailey over, and the world pins the girls to one another, when they really should be faulting JB for this mess.

    • @esthergift8373
      @esthergift8373 Před 3 měsíci +16

      @@May17760 Couldn't have said it better myself!

    • @jenynz5334
      @jenynz5334 Před 3 měsíci +9

      Thanks Diddy...

  • @krystelledeborahpela7850
    @krystelledeborahpela7850 Před měsícem

    Great video!! Alo I was wondering can you cover the relo of Ross Lynch and Jazz S? I never expected to find out they broke up and I always wonder why?

  • @nancypeterson3645
    @nancypeterson3645 Před měsícem +2

    why not tell the truth?? Justin's visa was expiring and to stay in country he needed to get married, salena said no, and Haily was falling all over him. It was a business transaction for Justin. he must stay married for 5 yrs. Time is now up.

  • @agodin93
    @agodin93 Před 4 měsíci +445

    Her saying they have a loving relationship at home is so spot on to a toxic relationship.. Of course you have good times, many people do in their toxic relationships, but she rarely smiles and I see the pit in her stomach in the pictures from her skin care release.. I have had that pit before. It's like she is embarrassed, but also has to deal with not pissing off her husband who seems to be on edge all the time. I can tell that moment was taken from her.

    • @catty8901
      @catty8901 Před 4 měsíci

      She's definitely always walking on eggshells with his bipolar ass 😬

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia Před 4 měsíci

      Girls lie . Wives lie to keep from looming like idiots. I've seen it all the time. They know they should leave but DONT. I'm guessing because it's the perks of being his wife. Like being invited to the met. Hailey by herself would NEVER have gotten it .

    • @mjstinson8225
      @mjstinson8225 Před 4 měsíci +8

      He gets upset for various personal individual reasons... But Essentially he knows to spite the Publics assumptions and storytime perception... She's with him for more sinister reasons and absolutely not primarily because of their true love and shared affection... Why is she always with him it's beyond clingy it's as though she's his handler mind control manager 🤨... All Eyes* Open✔️💚➖🌐➖💚

    • @catty8901
      @catty8901 Před 4 měsíci

      @@mjstinson8225 👀🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @RespectJustinsDecisions
      @RespectJustinsDecisions Před 4 měsíci +1

      She always smiles 😂 Y’all are beyond delusional

  • @kiraleigh9966
    @kiraleigh9966 Před 4 měsíci +340

    There was a Reddit thread that this girl posted and she said that her boyfriend was doing things like joking around and hitting her but when he hit her in these joking moments, she said that it actually really hurt, and she finally got tired of him doing it and called him out on his behavior, saying in a polite way that you know it was really hurtful, and she didn’t think it was funny and he blew up on her. He called her crazy. He accused her of saying she was going to tell everyone he was abusive and make him out to be some monster. He suggested they go for a walk to have this conversation but instead, she decided to stay in a safe place on their front porch in front of a camera, and it recorded this huge blowup of him behaving this way when he was called out for his “joking“ abuse. I hope no one ever accepts someone hitting you and then laughing and saying it’s a joke.

    • @boomeradley8748
      @boomeradley8748 Před 4 měsíci +31

      THIS abusive people love to use "jokes" to disguise their abuse

    • @lyssabloom3964
      @lyssabloom3964 Před 4 měsíci +15

      That’s a narcissist

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia Před 4 měsíci +20

      It's called gaslighting.

    • @kiraleigh9966
      @kiraleigh9966 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@1Skorpia wow lol thanks I’ve never heard of that before lol

    • @Malibubarbie300
      @Malibubarbie300 Před 4 měsíci

      Was this guys name Jeremy perhaps?

  • @rday9358
    @rday9358 Před měsícem +2

    Honestly it really seems as if he has sensory issues. Undiagnosed AdHD would explain a lot of his mental health issues and his explosive anger.

  • @Nonayabizness360
    @Nonayabizness360 Před 25 dny

    I will be married 16 years this year to my second husband and I can personally say that the first year of marriage is the absolute hardest. I am totally happy and madly in love with my husband and I can say that I really love him more now then I did when we were first married but the first year is all about getting used to each other’s bad habits, learning to work out your arguments and figuring each other out. We both had known each other in middle school and high school but lost touch but we both had insecurities from our first marriages and dating life. No one is the perfect human and it’s not ever a fairytale when you are married it’s just learning to work with each other and learning to have real expectations with each other and not fighting about money! Also my husband and I learned from our previous marriages that we should rely on each other and now we are so close that we finish each other’s sentences, know what each other is thinking and we have the same silly sense of humor. He is my absolute best friend and I really can say that I love him more every single day and I would be lost without him. I have a daughter from my first marriage and he is not her biological father but he acts more like her dad and whenever she needs help he is always there. If you learn to become best friends and never keep secrets from each other but you two keep secrets from every one else you will have the best marriage.

  • @angelbaby9137
    @angelbaby9137 Před 4 měsíci +750

    I remember older women groping him as a teenager, I can’t imagine what he went through in private🥺 it’s no excuse for his behavior but I think he’s angry for a reason

    • @nidzaboricua3294
      @nidzaboricua3294 Před 4 měsíci +138

      I can't even imagine what Diddy did to him!

    • @EnidWellness
      @EnidWellness Před 4 měsíci +25

      Ugh exactly!

    • @AlyssaZ420
      @AlyssaZ420 Před 4 měsíci +87

      Diddy groomed usher and usher groomed justin

    • @JosangeD.
      @JosangeD. Před 4 měsíci +34

      He's angry because he's stuck !

    • @itsjustmylife_x
      @itsjustmylife_x Před 4 měsíci +19

      Selena gomez was one of those older women 🙀

  • @mylene_b
    @mylene_b Před 3 měsíci +140

    There's a huge difference between being an emotionally unstable man and being an emotionally mature man. An emotionally mature man can talk about his feelings and explain them, an emotionally unstable man just lashes out and uses anger as the only feeling he knows how to express. That anger hides fear, sadness and other emotions that emotionally unstable men don't want to show.

    • @AdelineCowgirl
      @AdelineCowgirl Před 2 měsíci +4

      Insightful! In other news, there's a huge difference between a dog and a cat, and between up and down! Easy to confuse them, but there actually are many subtle differences.

    • @alysssabear
      @alysssabear Před 2 měsíci

      Apples to oranges

    • @Fadwaspiritual
      @Fadwaspiritual Před měsícem +1

      This was a beautiful explanation

    • @fairyprincess911
      @fairyprincess911 Před 27 dny

      @@AdelineCowgirlyou actually belittled her very insightful comment. It's not cats and dogs😼

  • @ChrisW228
    @ChrisW228 Před 26 dny +2

    The problem with any video like this is that so much depends on context. The car door slamming… Very common behavior for a couple who is fighting. The casino… was he yelling AT her or yelling TO her about someone or something else that made him angry. I noticed many other things like this throughout the video… things that weren’t as bad if framed a certain way.

  • @AngelaHalo1307
    @AngelaHalo1307 Před měsícem +4

    Omg Stephen staring at him like he’s going to choke him out and throw him into a sack and bring him home to Hailey 😂