having a baby?! how I grew my social media & business talk (I'm hiring!) q&a

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024

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  • @paulinamelinda1662
    @paulinamelinda1662 Před 2 lety +151

    It's so refreshing to not only hear someone talk about the possibility of a childfree life but to also see such a respectful comment section 🥺❤️ (it warms the heart of a 30-year old child childfree woman!)

    • @inpaulwetrust
      @inpaulwetrust Před 2 lety +11

      I am a man that struggles to find women that want to live a childfree life, and this too was so refreshing!! Thank you :)

    • @alinatarassoff1819
      @alinatarassoff1819 Před 2 lety +9

      I mean come on, at 30 it is easy, you are still fertile, so it is fun and kinda cool to call yourself a "childfree". But once you have no more eggs left, the realisation that you willingly gave up the chance of motherhood might hit you hard. That's typically when everyone starts running around doing IVFs and other various manipulations with their eggs..

    • @paulinamelinda1662
      @paulinamelinda1662 Před 2 lety +10

      @@alinatarassoff1819 I respect your opinion on this even if I don't understand your point in telling it in this context. (Also, it's childfree not "childfree". 😊)
      You either choose to create a new human or you don't, that's your choice. Motherhood is not for everyone and I think it's great that it's not forced on someone who doesn't want it. Again, it's a choice. The added bonus is that every new child can be wanted. 😊
      Also I would like to point out that it's impossible for you to make any general statement about the fertility of a 30-year old woman that is not yourself. It's just none of your business.
      I wish you a good rest of your week.💫

    • @alinatarassoff1819
      @alinatarassoff1819 Před 2 lety +4

      @@paulinamelinda1662 my point is there is a huge difference of « choosing » while you still have an option to have it, because you are (most likely) still fertile at 30, but once this choice is removed from you indefinitely, you will lose sleep over it and start crying at toy stores. These processes are widely described in psychology. Humans always want this one thing they can’t have and easily get consumed by it. And on every story about this one childless aunt who is oh so happy, there are 50 women wasting money on fertility procedures because of bad timing.

    • @paulinamelinda1662
      @paulinamelinda1662 Před 2 lety +13

      @@alinatarassoff1819 you're not the first one to belive this tale. If you wanted to, you could find plenty of stories from happy childfree aunties. You just have to look for it!
      I believe the bottom line is this: don't worry so much about other peoples choices but your own. The world will be a much nicer place if we just accept each other and stop trying to tell other people they're doing the wrong thing in matters that only affect their own lives. 😁💫

  • @danniellepalmer
    @danniellepalmer Před 2 lety +93

    I love your honesty about motherhood. I feel the same way and motherhood is not for everyone and nothing is wrong with that. Raising kids isn't easy and raising a well-adjusted one is even harder lol.

  • @Lucy-qk4jg
    @Lucy-qk4jg Před 2 lety +67

    I think this is the most exciting Q&A I've ever listened to. I never thought that there was so much behind a CZcams account regarding Business is stuck. That's why I'm all the more proud of you now when you know what you put into this whole thing. You are an insane role model! I also support your view regarding Babies in this day and age. I see the whole thing the same way and think it's good that you told us your opinion on the topic.🥰
    I love your videos! Please never stop it❤️

  • @e.w.7552
    @e.w.7552 Před 2 lety +22

    I had kids young and I 100% LOVE being a parent and nurturing young humans, it’s hard and it’s easy at the same time, life can be really simple with them :). I totally understand your take on not wanting to have children and I applaud you for going HARD in what you do want 🙌 You’re an amazing human and I appreciate your content so, so much.

  • @5abwong
    @5abwong Před 2 lety +60

    I don’t follow many CZcamsrs, but I just love how you are and your honesty! Totally on the same boat with you about babies, opinion may change with time, but my bf and I also don’t want to bring up a child into this world atm because of everything that’s going on. Nice to hear that it’s okay to feel this way and we aren’t alone!

    • @e.w.7552
      @e.w.7552 Před 2 lety +1

      I don’t for a second regret having kids but I applaud you for not wanting to bring kids into this world. It was never something I really thought about until the world turned weird.

  • @zuzannasmgl
    @zuzannasmgl Před 2 lety +12

    it's sooooo refreshing to hear such honesty from someone who shares the same mindset as me about kids! Always knew I didn't want any but people keep thinking they can try to convince me otherwise and that I'll 'grow out of it' even though I am almost 22 and it's so tiring to have to justify it to everyone. Loved this video

  • @annaadamou4017
    @annaadamou4017 Před 2 lety +45

    Wow...Sophie !you are such an inspo doing two masters at the same time ...respect and admiration for your hard work ♥️♥️♥️😘

  • @altereamcwilliams9264
    @altereamcwilliams9264 Před 2 lety +7

    I love that you opened up about your life. I feel the same way with parenting as well. My husband and I love it just being us and we are not wanting to be parents such a huge responsibility. Love your authenticity🙂

  • @danniellepalmer
    @danniellepalmer Před 2 lety +84

    You should do this more often Sophie!!

    • @GAINSBYBRAINS
      @GAINSBYBRAINS  Před 2 lety +33

      🥺🥺 wasn't sure if people would be interested so I never did a q&a. but that means a lot❤️

    • @meditatedwild5903
      @meditatedwild5903 Před 2 lety +7

      Yes! I agree 🥰 I love hearing the updates, it helps fill in some gaps of your story & what’s going on with your brand. I love hearing your strategies & plans to grow as well. It’s also very sweet to hear how much more we have in common than I thought, ie. children perspective & focus on career.
      Love your work, grl. 💙💙

    • @danniellepalmer
      @danniellepalmer Před 2 lety +1

      @@GAINSBYBRAINS I love your content so much and you seem very genuine and real. Very inspiring

  • @aidankelly5246
    @aidankelly5246 Před 2 lety +14

    I am sooo on your wavelength with bringing children in this world. And I think it's important to share the less popular narrative regarding having children (even though its personal and strangers shouldn't be asking anyways 🙃). Thanks for sharing your business tips!

  • @karawaller9772
    @karawaller9772 Před 2 lety +40

    I absolutely love that you said that about children because I think women are so scared to say if they don’t want children, I am 36 years old and I have never felt like baby fever and sometimes I think babies are cute and what not but I just don’t think that in this lifetime it’s right for me either!! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @molasorrosalom4846
      @molasorrosalom4846 Před 2 lety +3

      I mean, I think you're more likely to be judged by other women for that decision vs men.

    • @karawaller9772
      @karawaller9772 Před 2 lety +6

      @@molasorrosalom4846 I think it’s pretty universal.

  • @Tugba26
    @Tugba26 Před 2 lety +7

    Having kids is such an intimate question and I applaud you from the bottom of my heart for answering that. I completely agree where not everybody shares the same commitment for having kids. I'm with you 100%. I don't like having anybody depend on me for their future, especially kids where its a lifetime. I have nephews and I love them to pieces but me having kids and be able to bring them up in this messed up world is very frightening. I'm so glad I'm not the only one feeling this way because society tells you to have kids etc. LOVE YOU TONSS!!!!!

    • @molasorrosalom4846
      @molasorrosalom4846 Před 2 lety +1

      I'm good with other people's kids, good at entertaining them, picking them up in the air, etc.
      But I've also seen them on their bad days, and forget about it.
      Not to mention how stressful being a parent is.
      My co-workers daughter took a little longer than usual speaking. Doctors misdiagnosed her as autistic.
      She's fine now at age 7, a chatterbox, but those few years, I can't imagine the stress

    • @Tugba26
      @Tugba26 Před 2 lety +1

      @@molasorrosalom4846 yes exactly! It’s a responsibility like no other.

  • @animeloverxo5068
    @animeloverxo5068 Před 2 lety +9

    Sophie, thank you for sharing your thoughts on having kids. I’m currently 24 soon to be 25 and I genuinely feel the same way..

  • @szilvacska100
    @szilvacska100 Před 2 lety +11

    I like it that you're so honest, down to earth. I know what you mean about finding friends when you're older, i came to live in the UK 20 years ago and i have some people i can count on but not real friends who i had in my country i grew up with. Szilvia

  • @Ericamann24
    @Ericamann24 Před 2 lety +6

    Love you and your videos. You’re always so positive and offer a look into a realistic lifestyle. Happy to hear someone who thinks similarly about kids. It’s so refreshing. Can’t wait to see how the app development goes!

  • @joymae
    @joymae Před 2 lety +5

    You’re so young I can’t imagine you having a baby already!!! You’re such an inspiration though with everything you’ve accomplished

  • @aquiladiaries
    @aquiladiaries Před 2 lety +5

    You are such an inspiration! I am a few years older than you and I just feel so hard to make friends nowadays, I simply think it is getting harder to identify myself with another people, but you are right about making an effort for that! Also thank you for being so honest about having babies, we should normalise this choice in all the world 💖

  • @dream-nz9yb
    @dream-nz9yb Před 2 lety +13

    Those are the exact reasons I don’t want kids either!! This was so inspiring. Thank you so so much for sharing your story ❤️

  • @micella_2931
    @micella_2931 Před 2 lety +6

    Those 33 min just passed so fast! Very interesting and inspiring journey, that leaves me with the huge question how to turn Dutch, to apply 😂😂
    Thank you for your hornest opinion on having babys. I feel like it’s a question everyone expects to hear a ‘yes, one day’ - and obviously it’s a decision we all can change month by month! BUT it should be also normal and accepted to have a clear mind about having none 💗

  • @ninayashaa
    @ninayashaa Před 2 lety +2

    Loove videos like that were you actually explain how you did stuff, it motivates me so much. I def have the same take as you on having kids.

  • @monicasalas1127
    @monicasalas1127 Před 2 lety +4

    Wow the way you explained the last question babies!!! I wished you would have made this long before lol don’t get me wrong I love my kids.. but this is something that I wished I knew how to express/explained to others. People always made me feel weird when I tried to explain that! You go Sophie. ❤️

  • @lucyacosta2337
    @lucyacosta2337 Před 2 lety +3

    I absolutely loved getting to know you and totally respect your honesty. I am a parent to two young adults and just became a grandma and I absolutely agree with your parenting views. This world has become very chaotic and I pray for my grandson future. Keep up your awesome work as you are very motivating and I appreciate all you do. Much Peace, Blessings and Love to you always and forever. ✌💖🙏

  • @debbiesjourney
    @debbiesjourney Před 2 lety +5

    You really are an inspiration, I have been thinking about getting a pt certificate because I love fitness so much, it's a recently found passion I guess, but my life is weird rn so who knows. I understand what you mean about making friends. It was definitely easier when I was younger but bad experiences make it harder and being an introvert doesn't help. The job seems fun tho, hope you find your match!

  • @cheyenneheath5132
    @cheyenneheath5132 Před 2 lety +2

    I SO wish I could be your friend in real life 🥺 I have that same struggle with finding friends now that I am out of school and newly married. I can see saying yes to opportunities would help, but it is tough! Thanks for your time once again and sharing your personal journey!🥰❤️

  • @luisabauer2152
    @luisabauer2152 Před 2 lety +34

    It felt so good hearing you speak about children and how you don't want to bring children in this world. I sometimes have the feeling that people turn a blind eye to what is happening in the world. Of course there were always wars, but there is much more at stake. E.g. the climate change. I don't want to do that to my children. I would probably worry about them all the time.

    • @angelas3915
      @angelas3915 Před 2 lety +3

      even with all of the wars from the past, i still cannot imagine the future of this world seeing it in the state it currently is 😭 I 10000% agree

    • @sunvavachi
      @sunvavachi Před 2 lety +2

      I haven't wanted kids either since 2013 and am still am firm on it.

  • @katew.1214
    @katew.1214 Před 2 lety +1

    Love your journey. It's inspriring to hear all the ups and downs and your courage to just keep going. I love watching my friends going down this journey of parenting, but I'm totally on your page about the thoughts of having this huge responsibility in a world like this. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! And for your content in general! ❤️

  • @boneshakauhaahaa
    @boneshakauhaahaa Před 2 lety +2

    I am finally getting a chance to watch this and I LOVED IT! Thank you for taking the time to share about yourself with us! So inspiring! Thank you for sharing your life with us! Bless you girl! 💕

  • @charlotteattwood_
    @charlotteattwood_ Před 2 lety +1

    your videos brighten and make my day SO much better. you're my biggest inspo and motivator soph, words cannot express how much of a positive impact you, your channel, and Instagram have had on me and my fitness journey. i used to severely struggle with and eating disorder for 6 years of my life back in my teenage years, but you and your channel helped me through some of the toughest and what felt like the darkest points in my life, and helped me with my recovery tremendously, and for that i am eternally grateful for you and everything you are. thank you for always being 100% authentically and genuinely you. you're such a ray of sunshine and there need to be more people like you in this world you beautiful soul.
    so much love for you always XOXO
    side note!! how can we apply to potentially work for and with you beautiful?!!?!
    this truly made my so excited and overjoyed to hear that you're hiring, and I would love to apply ASAP if possible!
    thank you for everything again soph, keep spreading your beautiful and positive light wherever you can and go

  • @Angie-el4vg
    @Angie-el4vg Před 2 lety +3

    Soph so cool to see you opening up letting us in to know you a bit better! Best of success with the app! I will love to see more of this business q&a tips to film editing and so on.. love it🥰🥰

  • @DefinedbyDanielle
    @DefinedbyDanielle Před 2 lety +1

    This was the best Q&A I have ever seen! I did not know all you went through to get to where you are today. I admire you more than ever, I didn’t even know it was possible! Thank you for sharing your story. We need more positive optimistic people like you in the world. ♥️

  • @annaadamou4017
    @annaadamou4017 Před 2 lety +4

    Sophie ,you are such a beautiful couple with Ruben and you are so lucky to meet each other ...you look like the other half for each other and it’s amazing that you met quite early to build your business together ...your relationship seems to be a strong and nice one , and also this is a great example for young people ...😊♥️♥️

    • @memento6204
      @memento6204 Před 2 lety

      She’s not in love with her boyfriend. If she were in love with him she’d insist with the full force of her being that she’d bare his children.

    • @molasorrosalom4846
      @molasorrosalom4846 Před 2 lety +2

      You serious????

    • @memento6204
      @memento6204 Před 2 lety

      @@molasorrosalom4846
      Yes. This should be obvious. A woman in love with a man wants nothing more than to be the ONE he choses to bare his children. Unfortunately, most women today will never know this ecstasy for a variety of factors I will not go into here.
      You’re free to drag out a fainting couch over what I’ve written, and faint all over it to your outrage’s delight, but it doesn’t change the nature of the love in which we speak.

    • @annaadamou4017
      @annaadamou4017 Před 2 lety +2

      In my opinion,a woman doesn’t need to have children with someone to prove that she loves him ...it’s not directly related ...it’s very subjective and debatable topic ...having children with someone is just one aspect of a relationship ...there are people who are having children and all day they are fighting ,not respecting each other and treating their children or their partner badly ...so just having children is not a pure reflection of love ...regarding Sophie ,she built with her boyfriend the gainsbybrains brand and since they have such a successful brand (on Instagram she has 2 million of followers )strong mutual love and support is needed for this...it cannot just happen ,if two people don’t love and support each other through difficulties and any obstacles that may face ...I respect your opinion but I also have my own opinion ...

    • @memento6204
      @memento6204 Před 2 lety

      @@annaadamou4017
      You, of course, are free to have your opinion, however, you are not free to avoid the consequences of it.

  • @Michelle-im8pm
    @Michelle-im8pm Před 2 lety +5

    Thanks for sharing Sophie, you are always an inspiring way to start the day 🥰

  • @cristalvardeman6173
    @cristalvardeman6173 Před 2 lety +13

    Love hearing your story!

  • @trippyandbeautifulsoul
    @trippyandbeautifulsoul Před 2 lety +2

    You are such an inspiration! I am so ready to live my best life!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you so much! I am so grateful for you 💛🌞

  • @miriam__esch
    @miriam__esch Před 2 lety +2

    I loved hearing your whole story and listening to you talk about the business side of things. This is something noone ever talks about and it's so confusing from the outside to know how you actually do all of these things so it's awesome to hear you explain your thought processes and how things go behind the scenes!!!!
    Keep doing what you're doing :) I bet the App will be amazing!
    Also I feel spoken to when you're looking for a right hand but unfortunately I live in Germany and don't speak Dutch haha :D

  • @juliawerner7076
    @juliawerner7076 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow … I mean I love all your videos, but this was an extra 😍 I’d really love how open you were and you are such an inspiration for being a business woman, and doing your thing and growth. You are working hard on everything and that is an inspiration for all women and men. Thanks for sharing Sophie ♥️

  • @TheDanielle6969
    @TheDanielle6969 Před 2 lety +3

    I loved hearing your story! This is very inspiring to me, thank you :)

  • @StaySpicy
    @StaySpicy Před 2 lety +1

    "I guess that's what we're working with today" 🤣 I feel that often!

  • @mrgasman9632
    @mrgasman9632 Před 5 měsíci

    Isn’t no denying how incredibly beautiful this girl is she’s on fire 🔥

  • @ma_niz
    @ma_niz Před 2 lety +2

    I’m so happy to hear you guys are making an app!!! And I’m so happy you both are controlling the creation of the app. Krissy Cela ran into so many issues with her initial app bc she used a company to help her create an app. Good luck with everything ❤️

  • @alexandrareif
    @alexandrareif Před 2 lety

    Sophie, I am LOVING the consistent content. Your videos are seriously my favorite!
    I also loved hearing your story and learning more about you. You are an inspiration to so many people and thank you for sharing your life with us! 🤗

  • @saraatppkdotpt8140
    @saraatppkdotpt8140 Před 2 lety +2

    Great video girl, I wish you'll get where you want to with your business and that all your efforts are paid off!

  • @annaadamou4017
    @annaadamou4017 Před 2 lety +13

    Sophie your content is great ♥️🥰thank you for the free amazing guides ...it’s so nice of you to send it to us 🥰could you please make on this channel a separate video regarding your approach for your legs ? Because I remember one of them is quad focus and the other one I don’t remember ...😇one of the two types of training you already included in the video but I was wondering about the exercises you do at the gym for the second approach for your legs ...much love and appreciation ♥️♥️♥️😘

    • @GAINSBYBRAINS
      @GAINSBYBRAINS  Před 2 lety +4

      ❤️❤️❤️🥺 I usually stick to 2 leg days, where I focus more on quads on one day and glutes / hamstrings on the other day!

    • @annaadamou4017
      @annaadamou4017 Před 2 lety +3

      @@GAINSBYBRAINS thank you so much for your answer Sophie 😊♥️♥️♥️

  • @haykuhizhamharyan7026

    I’m in total ahhh of this babe. Hard to find a soul this authentic anymore. Thank you for being so real Sophie. Now I wanna move to Amsterdam and learn Dutch so I can be her right arm!

  • @beesway
    @beesway Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your story Sophie. It truely is inspiring! 😊 Really loved listening to everything you shared so openly.♥️✨💕

  • @jennadutton1785
    @jennadutton1785 Před 2 lety +1

    I absolutely loved this!! And I'm so proud of you for being open 💞

  • @lilmissbeats
    @lilmissbeats Před rokem

    thank you for sharing your story! I bought one of your guides earlier and I'm super excited to level up. Also super happy that my lil purchase can contribute to your dream of an app or whatever your next step is!

  • @iris_moes
    @iris_moes Před 2 lety +1

    Loved this Q&A. So detailed, also inspiring en fun to watch. Thank you Sophie.

  • @GoldenKay19
    @GoldenKay19 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much for sharing and I think absolutely like you about having a baby + I am also so scared about giving birth and pregnancy in itself

  • @alice8243
    @alice8243 Před 2 lety +1

    I agree - making friends as an adult is HARD! I only have like one real friend but we live in different countries. I also find it difficult to trust other people

  • @JessieK95
    @JessieK95 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for sharing your story with us! You have such a nice and gentle voice it almost felt like some kind of podcast(future idea perhaps👀) Anyways it was really nice to listen to during my gym workout!☺️ Have a lovely day Soph!❤️

  • @daniellemorton5632
    @daniellemorton5632 Před 2 lety +4

    I am absolutely in love with all of your channels and Instagram accounts! Super inspiring and motivational! The aesthetic of everything just makes me get up and go to the gym, so I personally want to thank you ✨ 💘❤❤❤❤ (also trying to copy your coffee glass lol!) xxx

  • @marilirodriguez8487
    @marilirodriguez8487 Před 2 lety

    Sophie you really are amazing I love how authentic you are . I been following you since you were in Spain and I’m so glad I did because you inspire me every single day. I bought one of your guides and now I’m following the free guides can’t wait to see the app in the future. Love you 😍 keep going strong

  • @HeatherSavonne
    @HeatherSavonne Před 2 lety +2

    Love your videos! So proud of all you’ve accomplished 💛

  • @vickiengo7259
    @vickiengo7259 Před 2 lety +1

    Vickie Ngo
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    Just want to say thanks so much for you Vlogs and workouts! Currently doing your Level up guide and did the 24 day shred. I was so sad before post baby about not getting the results I wanted! And I love love your content! Love how unrestricted you are with your meals. You literally changed my life and my love for fitness. I never looked forward to it before until you came along 🥺! My love for you runs so deep ♥️! This is coming from a mama of 2 girls. You inspired me to be the best version of myself. :) I love 5am workouts now! I hope to inspire my baby girls to love fitness as much as I do, all thanks to you!

  • @northvancouverrealtor
    @northvancouverrealtor Před 2 lety

    I just adore you Soph! ps: you have the most calming and soothing voice EVER! Just listening to your voice makes me calm

  • @amiluise9590
    @amiluise9590 Před 2 lety

    You are by far my favorite youtuber!! Your videos and your story are so inspirational... It's so much fun to watch your videos! You are such a big idol for me! much love❤️❤️

  • @ninayashaa
    @ninayashaa Před 2 lety +1

    Looove videos like those, this motivates me so much. Def have the same views on having kids as you.

  • @dishitapurohit2478
    @dishitapurohit2478 Před 2 lety +1

    One of your best videos. Very natural

  • @kylabutler9851
    @kylabutler9851 Před 2 lety

    Love how honest you are! Love ALL your videos!!!!!! You are the BEST!!!!!

  • @19Kelly93
    @19Kelly93 Před 2 lety

    I loved hearing your story! It was something I've been wondering about for such a long time. Thanks for opening up!

  • @Carina-24
    @Carina-24 Před 2 lety +1

    Good and honest Q&A video and best of luck for your app and what you're working on 😊

  • @annafrerker872
    @annafrerker872 Před 2 lety +2

    Hi! I recently subscribed to your channel, and I love your energy :)- I am currently a college student studying elementary education and running cross country and track- I love all things fitness and loved listening to this Q and A- Thank you!

  • @dianaoana76
    @dianaoana76 Před 2 lety

    I LOVED watching this!!! I am not that much into fitness and nutrition, but I just love watching your videos because they inspire me so much. I am going through a rough patch myself, full of uncertainty. I know deep down that I've always wanted to have my own business, but it felt so scary, and yet kept thinking about it day and night. I am a graphic designer and I love the domain I've chosen to work in, only the daily 9 to 5 is just not something I can do long term. I get bored so easily of the repetitive tasks and the routine. I love meeting new people and always being challenged with new projects. I studied in the Netherlands, in Breda, and I miss that place A LOT. I've been considering starting a master degree there as well, just to be able to go back, after two years of changing jobs in my home country, back in Bucharest. I relate to your story so much and you've just inspired me a lot. You're also really lucky to have a partner that's on the same page with your choices and has trusted you and supported you all this time. I am so happy to hear and see that your hard work is paying off for your guys. Last, but not least, I wanted to say I also relate to the talk about having children. I am only 24 so .. of course my opinion might change over the years, but I do have a cat currently, which I adore, and I know I want a dog really badly... Thank you again for sharing, it helped me so much listening to you. I think this video might just have been the impulse that I needed to take the decision I had in the back of my mind all this time. Good luck with building the app and all your upcoming projects! Keep up the good work, I really respect you and I think you're both doing an amazing job!

  • @savannahmendenhall5455
    @savannahmendenhall5455 Před 2 lety +1

    Loved hearing your story! Thanks for sharing :)

  • @chelsealouise2232
    @chelsealouise2232 Před 2 lety +3

    wow, so nice to get to know you more in such a real, unscripted way!

  • @karawaller9772
    @karawaller9772 Před 2 lety +2

    Love that you didn’t tell anyone. I feel like anyone I tell I want to start a mindfulness Chanel with yoga and meditation they think I’m crazy. Haha 😂

  • @Anne1000.
    @Anne1000. Před 2 lety

    I have 5 kids and my first was at age 16. I never felt like I wanted kids either especially now. I would ever change that I have them of course, but that maternal feeling never kicked in. My daughters are great mothers!! And I happy and also wish I felt the way they do about motherhood. I sometimes envied my childless friends. My last child at home is now 12, and I thin about him being gone which feels sad, but also now I can actually go and do the things I love! It’s a strange feeling, but I feel closer to my grandkids😏

  • @emilia-emma.
    @emilia-emma. Před 2 lety

    I love your vlogs so so much!! I'm obsessed!

  • @robertacfla
    @robertacfla Před 2 lety +1

    This was super nice. I wished I was Dutch in the middle there 😅 there are some crazy strong hard working girls there.
    Sure you’ll find the right person

  • @tschoklait
    @tschoklait Před 2 lety +1

    love it, thank you, I'm totally with you

  • @agnety
    @agnety Před 2 lety +1

    So nice to meet you! Thank u for your story☺️

  • @joannepons8275
    @joannepons8275 Před 2 lety +1

    Loved the new video about your life,s story and I get where you are going on baby;s it:s not for everyone and people should respect each other on this choice which we make in life. Thank you for being you 😘🥰

  • @mandydsouz
    @mandydsouz Před 2 lety +1

    Oi Soph!
    Adoro seus vídeos, faça mais nesse estilo de perguntas e respostas, adorei conhecer mais sobre você 🥰
    A maioria coloco legendado em inglês para poder entender melhor e ainda me ajuda nos estudos.
    Agradeço por voltar ao YT ❤️

  • @MAYPWAL
    @MAYPWAL Před 2 lety +1

    Absolutely loved this video!! Xx

  • @LifewithZlat
    @LifewithZlat Před 2 lety +1

    This felt like we were chatting together as friends:) thanks!

  • @YamillaPoort
    @YamillaPoort Před 2 lety

    Super mooi verhaal! Heel inspirerend 😍🥰 de stap die jij en ruben gezet hebben is niet niks, maar jullie hebben het echt tot iets moois weten te brengen! Ik ben benieuwd naar de verdere ontwikkelingen en de app! 👏🏻💪🏻 Misschien een crowdfunding actie starten ook voor de app?
    Ga in ieder geval zo door, you're moving mountains girl 💚💪🏻

  • @Gerdii77
    @Gerdii77 Před 2 lety

    best video yet! going to watch it a couple more times!

  • @jennadutton1785
    @jennadutton1785 Před 2 lety +1

    Are you and Reuben going to get married!! 😄❤️🥰 you guys are goals in your financial compatibility and work ethic!

  • @manuelavidal3255
    @manuelavidal3255 Před 2 lety

    Sophie I loved this !!!!!!!!! I always get this feeling of wanting more from you 😅 buttt in a good way like your videos are too short for me 😞😞😞 ahahaha so I saw this 30+ minute video and I was YASSSSSS. I’ve been following for too long that I don’t even remember for how long lol but you are a beautiful, hardworking person and you inspire me and other woman ! So keep it up ;)

  • @hyewons2642
    @hyewons2642 Před 2 lety

    it was really fun to watch and inspiring. thank you for sharing your story openly

  • @Danaclerici
    @Danaclerici Před 2 lety

    Loved this type of video, please do more of these! 💗💗

  • @sona6772
    @sona6772 Před 2 lety +1

    your view on the last question is amazing! I share this opinion with you

  • @SabrineC28
    @SabrineC28 Před rokem

    Giiiiirl that was one hell of a job description!! haha Hope you found her!!

  • @yashnimadhoo3207
    @yashnimadhoo3207 Před 2 lety

    You look so freaking radiant Sophie!!!😍

  • @DanielleBabyBliss
    @DanielleBabyBliss Před 2 lety

    Definitely an impressive story! Amazing 🤩👏🏼

  • @JariyaHoney
    @JariyaHoney Před 2 lety

    Love getting inspired by you Sophie 💖

  • @BrennaPatterson
    @BrennaPatterson Před 2 lety

    Thank u for sharing. Your story is inspiring! Cheering you on all the way from Canada 🇨🇦

  • @eltonarthur1233
    @eltonarthur1233 Před 2 lety

    Will most definitely find people who have my best interest to make friends when I'm an adult

  • @hopemontgomery9318
    @hopemontgomery9318 Před 2 lety

    Favorite youtuber hands down 🤟🏻

  • @leahellyson
    @leahellyson Před rokem

    Not me wanting to learn Dutch, move to the Netherlands and suddenly be an extrovert so I can be Soph’s personal assistant 😂😂😂

  • @MaximeLobbe
    @MaximeLobbe Před rokem

    Very inspiring story! Thank you for sharing 🥰

  • @laura-uc6ie
    @laura-uc6ie Před 2 lety

    Not exagerating but this is overall my fave video ❤

  • @laney7776
    @laney7776 Před 2 lety

    Hey! I loved hearing you say how you invest in sending out free guides! It does make a difference in your community! But ALSO! It does help your ads on CZcams and views! And, it has encouraged me to buy one of your guides because it felt like a little preview almost! So even though you are “losing money”, I think it is a great invest in your community and future income!

  • @coachjulesteimle
    @coachjulesteimle Před 2 lety

    Absolutely loved this video🥰❤️🙏

  • @arinanicolescu290
    @arinanicolescu290 Před 2 lety

    I absolutely loved this one 💛👍

  • @abcemilyxyz
    @abcemilyxyz Před 2 lety +1

    Oh girl I would move to amsterdam to work for you 🌸

  • @teajays8893
    @teajays8893 Před 2 lety

    We need you in our life 🥺

  • @oliviapasse885
    @oliviapasse885 Před 2 lety +1

    Off topic but what self tanner do you use? It looks so good! Any tips?

  • @user-ju4pt7xt4v
    @user-ju4pt7xt4v Před 7 měsíci

    Love you😍