Having no friends as a teenager in high school.
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- čas přidán 9. 10. 2023
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I wanted to add that some of you might not have any friends because you’re just not ready yet! Our circumstances in life can limit us to the amount of friends we have and our social batteries. We all will have a period in time where we feel lonely but it’s just a period in time. You are loved and will meet the most amazing people one day.
Thank youu!! I’m a 10th grader with no outside school friends and half the time i feel so alone, I barley don’t even have family, I get jealous of seeing people with friends but thank you this help me.
Its refreshing to see people being open and talking about this. A lot of people needed to hear that (including me).
girl i can completly agree with you, i stopped texting everyone and no on got back to me.
Yeah having no friends in high school was extremely rough for me. It's a part of why being a teenager was God awful for me.
thats so true :)
i wish this could hit me the way it does others. i've spent every waking moment of my life learning this and eventually it just circled back around? i will not make friends on my own. if i don't learn to speak first and to speak in a personable manner then i will never make friends. i value friendship above anything else. sure, i'm growing more independent, but every time i go out and do something i end up crying because i just can't enjoy my own company anymore. my brain is loud and overwhelming and focused, but never about the right things. the only natural form of communication i have is through a keyboard. i've spent so much time trying to rid myself of social anxiety that i forgot to address the heavy shame at its foundation, and in trying to remove this, i've somehow made it worse? because now i know it's there and i know it's the problem but i have no idea what to do with it. regardless, this is a great video and i'm glad you've found such solace :D
The way I I relate so much as a sophomore the feeling of coming home and realizing that you don’t really have anyone that cares a lot about you is so heartbreaking
this video truly made me feel less alone!! i have about a year or so until i leave highschool and i don't have any friends,, i have classmates however,, i don't have any actual friends,, like you said,, im just the type of person people have around. i appreciate you posting this as it changed my mindset <3
lovee this!!! Also I just realized we have the same name which is kinda crazy because I've never seen someone with the name Giovanna. :)
I have friends but I feel like I don’t connect,
I just started a new school and no one has ever talked to me. I feel really sad . Everyone has a group of friends they walk with but I just sit alone at the back 😢
It’s incredible how a teenager my age has given me one of the best advices in my life, everything you
Im stuck in that exact situation , except i have like actually no friends , one group of girls made me hurt myself physically and mentally , then another group of girls planned to make my last week at my old highschool hell. Im going into my new school in like a week , and its the most scary thing for me. I have MAYJOR social anxiety and anxiety itself because of my past friendships , where im going wont be exactly easy because im going to a school that doesnt speak english.
it definitely took a lot for me to be comfortable with myself and my aloneness, but i think as long as you keep in touch with yourself, your beliefs, and keep being social with your surroundings and not self-isolate harmfully then it is 100% okay! i am so comfortable now and happy spending my 30 minute lunch break reading a book or doing homework. i dont blame myself or criticize myself much anymore and instead afford myself peace :).
Omg I'm going through the exact same thing and have been ever since covid started. I've been online since the pandemic and all of my friendships slowly died down. We grew up, found new interests and new friends. We only check in on each other during holidays and that's it. My phone is drier than the sahrah dessert. The only person that I talk to is only my dad, Auntie, and my mom. But I'm glad that I've had so much time for myself. I've been in a time where I thought I had to fit in. During that I found my faith in Jesus and focused on him and bettered myself. Haven't been happier since. Covid was tough but there was a purpose for it. I learned so much and I'm so thankful! Being alone is not a bad thing. It let's you figure out who you are and your friends and perfect love will come with time like you said!
same. recently i got seriously sick and was at home for a lot of time and i literally got none messages from my in-school friends. i’m glad you’re so opened about this topic and i think it really helps people
Your a cool kid, knowing your worth makes admire your families way of raising you
girl you’re speaking nothing but facts here
i found this video at such a good time😭 I’m going on short term homeschool because I’ve been feeling really alone and this makes me feel so much better! I’m sitting in class alone right now and watching this video helps so much!